To Kiss a Tranny

[MsSeverusSnapexoxo]

Oh and dude, your natural hair looked better :( You can try brown curls.

[MsSeverusSnapexoxo]

Your accent is sooo cute !

[nibblespeaches]

I once had some one tell me I have an x&x chromosome, and I told them " How do you know?" "I've never had them tested, I don't even know" I hate it when people guess at stuff like that, pretending they they know everything.

[nibblespeaches]

I'm a straight male and I dated a transexual woman. After I found out I was cool with it because she is a woman in every way to me reguardless of her genitals.

[cheapymark]

I just want to say I love your hair it's sooooooooo pretty :D just thought you might like to know that :)

[ughpivots]

I think so that doesnt seem fair to the Male/Female that the transex is dating. To me or an example its like getting into a releationship with somone that has herpes and right after they "do what ever" she or he reveals it right after... just an example

and you sorta look like David Crooker :D

[andrewhillca]

It is a difficult choice, years ago I started to date a "woman" who confessed to me ,after numerous dates, that she was a transsexual. I decided not to continue but that person is still my friend. I think the fear is that a transsexual person could be physically harmed because they weren't up front about their trans status. This doesn't mean that the violence is justified, far from it. However I think the risks of being physically harmed are too high to not be up front.

[grazcoolguy]

you are really cute

[charlenemonique1]

I studied that most transexuals are not gay and that there is no one way to be trans.

[TalentlessNoob]

I really like this person she seems like an actual nice lady.. why cant there be more transexuals like this one who are actually real and want a real relationship.. this one deserves my respect for sure! Hope you enjoy your week hun hugs

[ken2305]

I find T/Gs very attractive, it may be because they know what men really find erotic and so they can use that knowledge to attract men...

[giordana55]

Again, your bideo blogs are sincere, and informative. Keep taking the time to make them.

[ruithael]

I am a transsexual who has no hope that anyone will try try to know me as a woman. I don't care about it because of sex because I have been married for about 14 years. But it's who I know I am and when people don't make the effort to see my point of view It makes me feel like who I AM doesn't matter and people ONLY care about how THEY "perceive" me. I don't and won't LOOK like a woman. I hate this whole thing, but I actually like myself. People do not understand how hard it can be.

[UpstairsMaid]

\I *get* it.

[baadmaan]

funny tht IT here work as an accountant !

heyy thanx for replying-we talk more bwt ur awesome topics;but can i send friend thingy: i know u busy an all pleez accept : xD *__* i'm a programmer too

[baadmaan]

again you very elegant; an amazing speaker

So Ph.D,big up_i grad 4yr now never finish my master ; you say no basic for God sake we even had Assemply approach as major.

[ITISNOTTHESAME]

most men are not fool by a good make up job or they are really drunk. Straight men like trannies and tvs for what they bring unto the relationship.

personally I used to go to straight bars and pick up men. I am sure they all knew what I was. i was never as hot as my friends. men like to get their rocks off especially when there is no strings attached. most men are dogs, but some of us really appreciate the tv scene and prefer that to a "normal' relationship.

[enelmartins]

i want to meet u

[515T0]

Your right. Gender is a spectrum. In fact as a heterosexual man I'm attracted to transwomen because of there greater appreciation of what constitutes 'the feminine', and there ability to simply be it. There is something Jungian about this- animus/anima thing. x

[PorkChopMissPiggy]

@515T0 will you just come out of the closet. That's disgusting. No really women is going to want you or respect you if she finds out you date trannys. She'll look at you as a homosexual or at the very least bisexual. I hate it when gay men pretend to be straight.

[515T0]

@PorkChopMissPiggy

Actually I am bi so there's really no problem. To be completely frank I am getting treatment for GID myself now as I have since age 12 wanted to be female. Amanda

[PorkChopMissPiggy]

@515T0 in that case go for it. Get the facial feminzation surgery, breast implants, butt and hips injections, get everything done. Look like a real woman. It creeps me out when I see these trans women are are obviously men are due to the laws I am forced to say miss and call her she. It will be much easier on everyone else and on yourself if you manage to look 100% female.

[515T0]

@PorkChopMissPiggy 'Real Women?' What are they? Is it only in appearances, then a mannish dyke may not be a woman? Biological, then a appearing female who has no breasts, ovaries, or a chromosomal abnormality may not be one? Is it essential, in which case we are all women? In development, then I an overdone female or an underdone male? In dress and gender role, then that is blurring through the years. But I am nevertheless doing what you say, lol. Amanda

[PorkChopMissPiggy]

@515T0 a real woman does not need to take estrogen pills. After a sex change a real women does not need to use a vibrator to stop her fake vagina from closing. If you are a real women than just wear a dress and don't do any surgery or take any hormones. A real women don't need surgery or hormones. She just is. I do hope you do all the surgery to make yourself a women. I think all transgender people should start transitioning at age 12.

[515T0]

@PorkChopMissPiggy

Some women do need to take estrogen. Some women do need to dilate. Some women don't wear dresses. Some women do have cosmetic surgery. I just AM too. Thanks for the support and I quite agree about starting early but it is tricky. Thirty years of running towards something that wasn't even what I really wanted just to find I knew better at 12 than I have until recently. Amanda

[PorkChopMissPiggy]

@515T0 Amanda why didn't you transition at a young age? Why didn't you tell your parents your really a girl? I think the general public is grossed out because most transwomen look like men in dresses. How in the world did you manage to suppress who you really were all these years? What was the final drop that made you come out? Is anyone else in your family trans or gay?

[515T0]

@PorkChopMissPiggy

At twelve I simply lacked the awareness of what it was. I knew something was wrong but this wasn't covered in sex education and there was no web. I only had a mother and older brother from age 5. I'm luckier than most, I have a small frame, large eyes and small hands. I feel facial feminisation is definitely needed though but friends say not. For 12 of those years I was a Jehovah's Witness and before that a bit of a druggie. So I mananged to drown it in chemicals or religion

[515T0]

@515T0

Addendum:-

No one else is gay or trans in my family and indeed I did not know I was really bi until last year.

[meowcat121]

takes the knives from the background and throws them at doovel, pinning them to the door to be tortured.

[velvetfetish13]

Hello,

I love your videos wherever you're dressed in velvet. I love velvet and velour...! Please read more ...!!!

[crazymisterbig]

I think transsexuals should reveal themselves only at some point, when the relationship is getting serious. Otherwise, it is nobody's business.

[unusmultorumm]

@crazymisterbig

The way I see it is that if one comes out as a transsexual before the beginning of a relationship, people will love her for the stereotype and not for who she really is.

I think it is better for a friend to leanr to know her as a woman before coming out.

[doovle]

What the fuck are you? You look like something outta Alien.

[TrannyGirl15]

You look like something out of idiocracy.

[gbaby696969]

@TrannyGirl15 As a straight guy, if you look feminine, & your hot, it really doesn't matter if you were born a guy.

[NoriesW]

well i love tranny

i am not gay cus i like trannys i am Bi cus i like trannys

you can tell me if you a tranny cus i like trannys i would not freak out or stupid stupid stuff like that

[darkwitchtori]

I agree with you 100%, and as I've stated before - you have the cutest accent ever.

[superdiza]

Well, you seem to be forgetting something very basic in your arguments.

A pre-op transsexual can not give the same sexual experience as a genetic woman, which is what the straight man was pursuing. Hense, the "Betray" of trust.

If you present your self as a tranny or a semi-passable girl, then a curios open minded man might wanne try this kidn of engagement. Otherwise, It is deceit.

Unless you go post-op, and eliminate the differences in the experience man are looking for.

[killerrodan]

I'm straight but I'll date a pre-op or post -op transwoman.A woman is a woman.Good video.

[Freddy7561]

YES !!!!!!!

[jeebbustus]

i beleive you should tell them if theyre 100% straight then you dont want to have sex with someone who has a penis and thus you wont want to sleep with a tranny unless theyre post op

[StarWF2]

It is admirable to attempt such a discussion of sexuality on the intellectual level, but it does not comfortably fit there because of its nature.

When I man does not accept a transsexual, for whatever reason, he will not be best able to explain the problem, since sexual desires and thoughts that stem from them are base functions of the human animal.

Males and females have enough trouble understanding each other but this is an intriguing topic nevertheless.

[superdiza]

I concur. The very fit of attempting to intellectualize about it in such a way, is a male merit.

Proving that one is right, instead of just looking great and cute and kissable.

It is a great charecter trade for a girl to be so consicouss, articulate and aware...yet the bias/kissing barrier does probably not stem from there.

[devaloki]

very true!

[nekaitensi]

your look and posture only makes me think that u r a very beautiful woman. Indeed, gender is not a matter as long as u live happily.

[fashionmanson]

you're really good looking, love your bone structure, if you are into girls, i'd gladly date you;)

[Djenbazoff]

Wow, I'd love to see you in a "beautiful agony" ot "I feel myself" vid !!!

Cute !

[TrannyGirl15]

Clarify.

[rabblerouser]

I believe that means masturbation

[1000BaseT]

You are extremely articulate and well thought out. I enjoy your videos. I'm a straight man who has just started dating a transwoman whom I'm very fond of. Your videos have been very instructive for me and I truly appreciate the effort you put into these videos.

[LunaticKnight]

I think for the most part waiting is better, because if you meet a straight guy that wants to be with you and is understanding then they might not care. If you throw it out there you are transsexual then you could end up with people that see many transsexual people in the stereo-type and want to just have sex. It is really hard to judge when and if you should say anything. In a perfect world no one would have secrets and everyone would be kind and caring, but some people care and others don't.

[slipninja]

Why not exchange phone numbers and TALK to the person a few times to find out if they are even compatible before going out on a real date? Bottom line is, all relationships involve risk for both people. If you conceal things about yourself because you're afraid of being prejudged you, the relationship is doomed anyway. I am an atheist, and since I know many people aren't accepting of this, I put it out there right away. Because if the person can't accept me as I am, I'd rather not waste my time.

[Tepnoa]

Gender doesn't matter to me! I love who someone is, not what they are :D

[gogeFemboy]

cool

[tmarshmellowt]

see i am a straight male but i keep on open mind to the way people are whether it be a Trans gender or gay/lesbian which im starting to understand that there is a difference? .....to be continued

[TrannyGirl15]

Do not *spam* the comments. If you feel like writing a monologue, make a video response.

[tmarshmellowt]

haha dont have one and you say you dont get responses from straight men so i commented lol

[PorkChopMissPiggy]

@tmarshmellowt so you would kiss a tranny? That means your bisexual dude

[Hobbykicker50]

@tmarshmellowt lol egotisctic asshole :D go 2 hell

[KrisMTL]

what are you getting your PhD in?

[TrannyGirl15]

Artificial Intelligence/Machine Learning.

[DDMtl514]

Excusez mon Anglais apro:

On the other hand ,some straight man will dated TS for a kick

A sexual fantasy

Seeing them like sexefrak.

And since for them there not real Women, not event real human perceive them and used them like sexe toy.

I had a relationship in the past with a women who was born in a man body she get the full operation.

And i never feel my heterosexuality endangered

By my relationship with her.

Excusez mon Anglais aproximatif

[Pierluigi66]

If a straight man is homophobic or generally not open minded, would he be the correct partner for a trans ? Even an homophobic man has the right not to be with a trans if he doesn't want to. I cannot imagine how deceiving him could possibly improve the chances of success for the relationship in any way.The idea of 'winning over' a potentially homophobic/straight man is very self indulgent and it is focussed on the 'winner' rather then the relationship and the couple.

[Pierluigi66]

Hi everyone, please allow me to express my point of view as a straight men in his 40s.I would be very upset to find out at a later stage that the woman I am dating is actually a trans gender.I would feel conned and deceived and that it's not the best way to start a relationship.On the other hand, if she tells me immediately who she is, then she is giving me the chance to make my own mind and my own choices about the situation. She would show me that she can consider my feelings as well as hers.

[TrannyGirl15]

What if you asked the girl out and basically started the dating process yourself ;)

[Pierluigi66]

Hello, thanks for taking the time to get back to me. Well it is a tricky one. I would expect the girl to come forward at the earliest convenience. Personally, I would be OK with the first date but this is strictly subjective. Please allow me the example: If I was going to ask you out on a date without realizing the trans gender bit and you were going to tell me at the first occasion (at the first date at the latest), it would not stop me from carrying on the "dating process" at all

[Pierluigi66]

But someone else I know (a friend of mine) would definitely like to know immediately since he is a bit homophobic and he would not be impressed to find him self dating a trans gender person. I think that trying to 'win him over' would be disrespectful of him as a person. And you if you do that, than you can't really expect to have his respect when he comes around.

[TrannyGirl15]

If you watch my video carefully, I advise t-girls to avoid homophobic men. It's usually pretty easy to find out if a guy is homophobic or not.

[Pierluigi66]

yes I have noticed and I guess it is wise.

How do you spot them anyway, I'd love to spot them too :-)

[TrannyGirl15]

You talk to them, but you have to be good at talking to people.

[TrannyQueen23]

why as a t-girl should i respect your friend if he is 'a bit homophobic???' THAT is disrespectful!!!!!

[Pierluigi66]

Hello TrannyQueen23 and thank you for your comment. You don't HAVE to respect him... it's just up to you which side you choose to be. The 'people who respect others' or the people who do not respect others. The a be a nice person it's a choice that doesn't really have anything to do with your gender or sexual orientation.

[MadeUnderground]

I've been pondering this question for a long time as well....

[doorcodad]

My wife was an advocate/counselor for sexually abused woman and children. From some of the stories she told me, it is a dangerous world out there. Trust your instincts! If something doesn't seem quite right, even if he seems to be prince charming, back off.

[TrannyGirl15]

I agree. I don't trust people easily. Trust has to be earned, even if the person is attractive...

[doorcodad]

OK, put that way, I concede the point. How long do you think it would take to reeducate the average homophobic male?

[TrannyGirl15]

I don't think transsexuals should date homophobic guys. If anything, the first few dates will at least help a trans person make sure the person is not homophobic...

Alot of people, without necessarily being homophobic, are simply afraid of the word transsexual. I think alot of guys who would be scared if you immediately told them might consider dating a t-girl after getting to know her as a woman.

The question is just when to tell. I say you should tell, *before sex*, but not immediately.

[doorcodad]

And as far as telling a date you have children, ABSOLUTELY TELL HIM! Would you really want to get involved with a person that wouldn't accept you as you are?

[TrannyGirl15]

Telling doesn't always mean telling on THE FIRST DATE(s). As a transsexual, you're allowed to wait until you feel it's appropriate, so as to give the person a chance to know you, instead of immediately judging you.

[doorcodad]

My last 2 comments were posted in reverse order, so my meaning may read disjointed. I am a little out of touch with modern dating etiquette (I was married for 39 years to one person). We were always very honest with each other, and always trusted each other. I think trust should be a cornerstone to any lasting relationship.

[doorcodad]

I could see trying to determine if the man is strongly homophobic but has an open mind that you might change, but you need to be pretty perceptive to judge just how far to go before you drop the bomb, so to speak.

[doorcodad]

I have been enjoying your videos for some time now, and usually agree with what you say, but your idea of dating a straight man with the intention of developing a relationship and not telling him up front is both dishonest and dangerous. I am not saying you should go out wearing one of those sticky backed name tags saying "Hello, my name is Annie and I'm a transsexual".

[TrannyGirl15]

Should a single mom who gets invited on a date be obligated to tell him about her situation on the very first date?

[miscreantactivities]

A person should never be decieved into believing something that is not exactly true . I also believe that you are very selfish to attempt to decieve.Some people are prejudice but that is their right.They have the right to disagree or find prejudice if that is what makes them uncomfortable.We have the right to be or feel how we please yet it is important to remember that we are not the only ones with this right.If you won't be upfront for the right reasons always remember you could get hurt.

[TrannyGirl15]

There is no deception... Only assumptions ;)

And yes, people have the right to be stupid and prejudiced.

[Foamhead]

A lot of transsexuals have been murdered by following your advice.

[TrannyGirl15]

The most famous transsexual murder victim (Gwen Araujo) was killed after having had sexual relationships with high school students I believe. This is not "following my advice". I advise telling people much before it gets to sex, and to *avoid* people who are not confident with their sexuality (and/or prejudiced), such as college jocks or high school students.

[Foamhead]

I am not trying to give you a hard time but you can never ever be sure what is inside someones head. I do not want to see you or anyone come to any harm and I strongly advise being upfront the second anything romantic is looming.

[kabardinka1]

Actually, her murderers were older than high school age. And they knew she was trans... she wasn't yet on hormones, didn't have a passable voice and her history was well known in the community by people who went to the high she used to attend. She was murdered because a girl at the party cried out "she's a man" (after her murderers had already had sex with Gwen). As it usually happens, the violence is about men's shame at being turned on by transwomen, not being 'tricked.'

[dizyrache]

"One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman." - Simone De Beauvoir - feminist theory, check it out!

[TGkaren]

I have to disagree somewhat. I would imagine that the best way to handle dating is to say you don't kiss on the first date, put off intimacy to get to know each other and then tell who your dating before it gets physical at all.

Wether or not someone sees you as a woman now, they might have trouble with the image of you as the guy you were.

I think men and women aren't that different but I can never actually become a woman. Maybe seen AS and functioning AS, and that'll have to do.

[RanmaruX]

As long as we live in such a gender seperated society the question of what defines a woman is really important. Someone pointed out that US law has specific rules for men and women but nowhere does it actually define "men" and "women".

It's a really interesting question! I don't believe a whole person can really be defined in terms of male and female. You can only identify individual aspects of a person and judge the maleness and femaleness of each individual trait.

[Jensagirl]

Don't hide you are but be proud of who you are and are in the process of becoming. If he is interested in you then go for it, if not then atleast you both didn't waste a lot of time and feelings for something that was going to be a stumbling block.

[Jensagirl]

He appreciated the honesty up front and felt an attraction to me from my myspace page and since we have met and talked since then he has only found more and more reason to want to be with me. He understands my transition is long, confusing, expensive among other things. We have talked about the things that I go through as a transexual and what he needs to expect by dating a transexual.

[Jensagirl]

I told my "now" boyfriend right from the beginning when we started talking on the phone. It has turned out the be the best thing that ever has happened to me. I told him that there is nothing in my life that he should not be aware of and he totally agrees. Now there was the question, "does this make me gay". I laughed and ofcourse asked him if he were attracted to men or women?

[artistsComplex]

you're so pretty o3o

[saltyeggs71]

Another great video. Your logic is excellent.

[goosebus]

One more thing....

Forgive me if my ramblings are incoherent or seem weird...I have yet, even after all this time and life experience, to figure out how to express how i really feel inside and traslate that to the written word.

I might even finally come out from hiding behind a keyboard and post an actual vid...rotf...

Speaking of the internet...

would you believe i dont own a vid cam yet?

( im still using a rotary dial telephone)

[littlesybil]

If you have so much to say on the topic, make a video reply. Don't spam the comments.

[goosebus]

I have to end this as im not really sure why i even replied, but....

FACE IT!!!!!

seek out those or let them find you who are aware of who you are and never never try to hide who you are or deceive!!!!

Be 100% proud of who you are and take it from there...

BTW..I am a typical male pig and am attracted to beauty and charm...sorry about that..lol

I would be proud to be with you..lol

I have watched your vids for a long time.

Lets just say you "caught my eye"

lol

[goosebus]

I hate typing..lol

But these vids and this one finaly got me off my ass and I wanted to give my 2 cents.

This is the 21st century...

There is a social upheaval now, especially with the internet where what was once only discussed in small circles is now talked about globally.

you ( third person plural) are lucky that the internet is a viable venue..imagine not having this forum to discuss your feelings or seek information or help..lol

(cont)

[goosebus]

I never considered the fact that i might be gay because she was a he, but it didnt matter because i fell in love with the person....

she told me about all her other attempts with guys and they all either tried to beat her up and worse, and i was the first dood that ever accepted her for who she was instead of "what" she was....

This was 30 years ago....

We went out as friends, were lovers for three years until she moved out of NY.

( cont)

[goosebus]

I was like WTF?....

I didnt want to be anywhere near her at that moment but we sat and talked anyway and amazingly I was still attracted to her.

We finally reached a point where the hugging came in and we started kissing and i was no longer in shock, but because she stepped in at precisely the point where i needed someone like her,or I thought was "her" I found myself more turned on even more than I've ever been turned on before.

We went on to becaome great friends and lovers

(cont)

[goosebus]

I fell heads over heels in love with "her" and as the night went on and we became more sexual,( she resisted my horny gropings at first..lol) told me she had a surprise for me but not in those words...

It became rather obvious that she was not a girl ( i wont go into details, but you could guess) and I broke our contact ran out of the club rather abruptley in shock...

She ran after me crying hysterically wondering why i ran out....

( cont)

[goosebus]

I met a girl once in a club ( a disco no less..lol) who was a "girl"..more girlish and feminine than any other girl I have ever been with who gave me more of what i wanted or realized I wanted or could dream of ever wanting and because i was in what turned out to be a disastorous relationship with the girl i married, came along at the precise time i needed someone like her.

We danced and got drunk together and because we were "into" each other,became very close that first time.

(cont)

[goosebus]

You have to wonder that if a guy cannot realize instantly or is aware that you are not really a GG, is that someone who you want to be with? I admit that sometimes I cannot instantly tell if a girl is not really a girl, but 30 seconds into that first meeting I just "know", but i have different feelings and because i myself wanted to be a girl or dressed like a girl when i was a little kid and because i was into this before i knew there was a "this"...

( cont)

[goosebus]

I know that you and other people like you would ideally love to be in a realtionship with a socalled straight guy, but you have to honestly ask yourself why would a guy who is into GGs only would want to be with a girl who is really and always will be a guy no matter how much alterations are done.

(cont)

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[goosebus]

First of all, I like to preface my reply by noting that you yourself are not doing much in the way of helping yourself out or others who view this and similar vids.

It has to with with your "tags".

When you and others in your shoes stop calling yourselves trannies or TG's and just tagging yourselves as "people"...others will see you as people and not as someone who challanges all the preconceptions or how or what they were taught to "be" like or seek out in a realationship.

( cont)

[MIMMM]

I think you are right. Why raping the chance that both can learn to know each other. It's not excluded that if you can really learn to know the person, transexuality is no problem anymore.

[cutepoisonUK]

I agree with what you are saying in principal, but to be honest, the kind of guy who would reject you because you were upfront about being a transexual, is not worth having! Initial attraction is spontaneous - why suddenly deny your own feelings just because someone is a little different from what you were expecting! Don't knock it til you've tried it, that's what I say lol

[deej1011]

The pain of having been in a relationship for a while with them, only for them to not accept you if you tell them later and to be hurt emotionally. Anyways that's just my view. Great video though ^^

[deej1011]

Well this is where I have an advantage. I don't bother with straight guys. Or gay ones. So there's no worry for them to be like "Am I gay? You're not really a girl" and such. Of course on the flip side, going for girls and considering myself lesbian doesn't help because sometimes the bi or lesbian girls think the same thing -.- But as for the not telling them thing, I personally believe you should tell someone you plan on dating right away. Trust is the bridge of all relationships and, unless

[roseblossoms00]

another amazing video. i completely agree

[NoNameTransWoman]

I would err on the side of being open and honest in all dealings with people.

You won't get the crap beat out of you or worse for being honest from the start. Deception ultimately creates conflict.

[XxxacoldsoulXxx]

If he think of him self as being stright and think being with a transsexuals make him gay then your just wasting your time .... either way hes going to find out so why wait? On top of that if you keep going out on dates and it turns out he really don't like transsexuals then you just wasted money and time and chances are you'll end up with a broken heart for nothing so I say tell him on the first date if he really likes you for you then good if he don't move on and save your self heartache

[genovais]

No way. There's a right time to tell about your past, and it's definitely not as soon as you meet them. With all the potential problems a relationship can have, throwing that extra wrench in the works before things have even begun is just silly.