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  • At the beep, please leave your name, number, and a brief justification for the ontological necessity of modern man's existential dilemma, and we'll get back to you

  • This movie is me now....I'm in the stage of falling for a Troy...though he's a guitar player, not singer. I thought he was too good for me, now I don't know what to think. Never knew I could fall for a guy like this....

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  • i remember when i first watched this when i was 84...i remember... uhh... what am i talking about again?!

  • Who fucking cares "how old you were when this came out" or if you "grew up in the 90's" or " I am a 90's baby" no one gives a shit. There are no age restrictions on viewing and appreciating good cinema.

  • all words of this song are dedicate to you....sky's man

    i can't forget you....

  • il film della mia adolescenza... l'avevo dimenticato. Grazie

  • i love reality bites!!!!

  • i watched this movie at the cinema when i was 14 and I just watched it again... I remember the times when i could fall in love, i could play basketball and i could hang out with my buddies, it was the best years in my life, I wish I could turn back time... I'm feeling so depressed right now...

  • @dogjohnny age doesn't matter. you can still go out and play basketball, hang out with your buddies, and fall in love. don't sweat the petty. pet the sweaty!

  • AMÉ ESTA PELÍCULA... MÁS ENCIMA AL FINAL PONEN ESTA CANCIÓN DE U2 ... TAN PERFECTOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! =) Troy (L)

  • The definitive romantic movie of the 90's :) love this until now

  • I was born in the 80s and grew up most part in the 90s..... let that define me !!!

  • shouldve chose ben stiller

  • The best thing bono's ever written

  • If u cud bottle the sexual tension between lelaina and troy u cud light up NY.... My all time favorite movie. :)

  • She was totally gonna sniff his boxers. SICK.

  • You`re a genious, Ben Stiller. This movie is an forever-reality-bite :)

    And to choose Winona, Ethan, Steve and Janeane just made it simply perfect.

  • i was one when this movie came out- But i still find it beautiful <3

  • i was 11 when this came out and I still watch it from time to time

  • I love this movie. I also love Ethan Hawke & Winona Ryder (born on 10/29 like me:) Janeane Garofalo is great, as well. The whole cast is really spectacular. Man, I miss the 90's. I was only a kid then...but damned if they weren't badass.

  • I miss the 90's...

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  • @Number9Depends Me too! I turned 15 in 1990 and met my husband in 1999, best years of my life!

    We weren't as glamorous and obsessed with celebs culture as today's kids, thank God, and music was great!!!

  • @BlueWildOrchid Thanks for the kind note. Yes, the music was great. I wish you and your husband both many years of happiness together.

  • @Number9Depends thanks, same to you!

  • 94 was a great yr. I was 20. I played this soundtrack every day. Great film. People weren't anal about smoking, grunge ruled, & I met my now husband that yr :)

  • Hmmm in the 90's some of the best music and film came out of that era.. what a sweeet ending ,,they were meant to be together..... Why dont we see films like this anymore intelligent original smart... fresh........ great actors as well... one of my fav u2 songs ever.

  • I remember thinking Wynonna Ryder was the prettiest girl ever

  • Ethan Hawke's character is soo dreamie!! ....mysterious, smart, witty and complicated.........

  • Muy linda canción!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =) =)

    y la peli... igual, pero hay otras mejores

    igual me hizo llorar un poquitín xD

    AH! Ethan Hawke se ve más que lindo en esta peli !!

  • there is good in him amidst all the bad, but the more I love him, the more it kills me because I know, he doesn't see me in the same light anymore and it will only break every single fragment in me and my goodness, I just saw that this is dubbed ha..

  • @nothingsafe84 hang in there. focus on self. Be strong.

  • @MsTunabob I'm going to..I have to, I can't afford to be in a rut again. I had a marvelous start this year and I made a promise to myself to not get close to him again, but it happened and we both were again but I know, between the two of us, nothing good will ever last. he just ignores me now, and its okay, I'm not going to go kissing his foot again and be that loyal maiden. he has nothing to lose and I can't afford to cry each time and wait for him to be a man

  • @MsTunabob thanks for responding..its tough but its best for me to back away I guess...for my own mental stability and emotional good. if he really cares for me, he'll come around and realize where he went wrong but I can't keep putting up with this..I don't want to be frightened of him, I don't want to keep questioning where I stand. I'm tired of being a doormat. I used to be such a fun loving person, I feel he has saturated a lot of it...and I just tolerated with it all. I deserve better

  • compiled* and I wish for once, he could send me a card, something.. I have been by his side whether he was sober or unsober. I just wished..it hurts me so much. I remember the very date we met, the year. I remember so much about him..I could easily slip from his life and it won't make a difference I guess..I guess if I was a gorgeous babe, he won't treat me like shit. I understood we could never be together due to our cultural and religious backgrounds..I just wish I wasn't this vulnerable

  • I complied concert footages of his favourite songs since I saw deftones live in two places and they won't be heading to his area. he likes them too and it broke me badly how he poked fun pertaining my very gesture, driven by his irateness towards me whenever I bring up the forbidden things to converse about (as usual)..I even had airplane footages since he hadn't been on one before. this is one guy I have sung songs to even with 16 titanium screws currently in my jaw. I have written him a poem..

  • I always told him, he will never find a female like me who has stood by him by hook or crook and the day he does, good for him. I have done everything a girl could imagine coming from a guy for him, the best that I could and what have I received? nothing in return

  • exasperates me horribly and he is always causing me to lose it. I wish I was near him so I could slap him

  • I have allowed him to be real to me without suffering any kind of repercussions..if he felt turned on, I allowed him to verbalize it. we never had sex or anything, no. nothing physical. when things are good, its really good, when its bad, he leaves. he is an opportunist when it comes to that. eager to flee. he is my closest friend and I wish, he could understand my needs and not bark at me whenever I do so..it upsets me so much when I'm treated like a doormat. I care for him so much but his ways

  • I can't explain why do I love him so much..I do so much for him. I'm the type of girl who does surprises for him and I wish he could do so for me, just once but he considers that as a hidden agenda from me. I just wished he saw me as a woman and equated my needs as that and not some bar brawl person. its hard for me to communicate with him because of his controlling ways. our friendship was a deep one..at times it was more. But I understood, nothing could happen..

  • I want to be loved, be on the receiving end for once instead of having to constantly do so much for others..I want to be treated like a lady and a person. I don't know why do I hold on to someone who is a complete opposite of me and he treats me like dirt. whenever I confide about my needs, its always a battle with him and it ends with drama due to him. I sat cutting myself and he won't even say a word..yet when its his turn, at least I was there for him. he is so dogmatic..

  • I love this song..I love this scene. I like how he said, 'she breaks my heart again and again, but I still love her'...something like that. its one thing any girl would love to hear and I wish I could..instead of having people instantly bail out on you when you get 'difficult' for them. in spite of the tension between them, he did love her and she did too.....I wish someone would hold on to me like that. the way he kisses her...its simply beautiful. I want that to happen to me...

  • I have always loved this movie...ehthan hawke's character personifies the type of man I always pictured myself to be with and I always seen myself walking in the shoes of winona. I saw this movie as a kid too, around age 10 as well and I still love it till this day. in some ways, when they argued, it reminds me of this person I know or knew..how it gets with him and he goes disappearing from my life and swears not to be back but somehow he still does. I doubt he will come back this time.

  • I love this movie so much, I never will get tired of it. Great cast and this song is beautiful! I'm watching this movie right now to haha.

    Weird I was 3 when this movie came out, it's weird how I love 90s movies..they are always my favorites..

  • I was 15 when I first saw this film and I am now 28 and I love it even more now than the first time that i watched it, if that is possible!! I can relate to this film so much and it is my constant in life.... No matter what I know I've got Reality Bites and that's what's keeps me going.......

  • He just bought a ticket and got on a plane?! Reality, my ass...

  • @1pwnjoo remember, this was pre-911, it wasn't such a stretch back then.

  • 0:52 Pearl Jam onstage

  • Love the song, love U2!!!

  • Love the song

  • I really love this song

    and this movie too.

  • a great song for a even greater movie

  • well done-some of my favoriite scenes-beautiful song-I especially love the song when he is at the hospital trying to get up enough nerve to call and then so filled with so much emotion he can't speak-but, yet she knows he is on the phone - I also think it is great that she has a cigarette and he has a cigarette-even though he is in Chicago and I believe she is in Houston-they are connected thru the phone line and a cigarette-

  • This movie is still on my to watch list....is this song in the movie???

  • ..deeply ♥ love? .. Wake up ! I'm sure that you exists♥

    may be somewhere? simply.. for me :)♥

  • I LOVE YOU ETHAN HAWKE!!!!!!!!!!♥ I AM YOUR NUMBER ONE FAN MY ROM IS FILLED WIHT POSTERS AND PICS OF U

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  • pta esa song es todooo

  • You know there are promises won't be kept but you fool yourself.

  • la cancion es perfecta pa esa escena

  • 2:15.....!!! thats th moment....!! it feels like forever.....xx its sooooo DEEP

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  • Ok secret time, I dream of the day I get to finally be with the guy I was supposed to be with, 24 years ago. We finally are together and go wild to this song! There said it secret is out!!! It sucks when you know all those years ago you should have been together for life!

  • Ok secret time, I dream of the day I get to finally be with the guy I was supposed to be with, 24 years ago. We finally are together and go wild to this song! There said it secret is out!!!

  • I adore this movie!

  • somos la mejor generacion del mundo y de su historia. Somos lo suficientemente grandes como para ver esta película y entenderla totalmente, pero a la vez somos lo suficientemente chicos como para poder utilizar youtube y ser parte de una infinidad de redes sociales. Somos los que crecimos jugando trompo o yoyo en la banqueta, pero en la prepa nos regalaron una computadora. Somos parte de los dos mundos, el de tus papas y el de tus hijos.

  • @imicheeel jajaja tenes toda la razon, yo doy gracias eternas por haber vivido mi infancia en los 90 cuando todo era más simple y nos pasabamos los dias afuera de casa jugando al futbol y andando en bici por ahí y en MTV todavia pasaban musica mas o menos decente.

  • Remember this part?? Love this movie. Where the 90s went, please, come back.

  • @supermegamichelle if 70s ,80s came back then so will the 90s this decade :)

  • que pelicula genial, pasan los años y me sigue encantando!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Did YOutube remove all ORIGINAL versions of the video? I can no longer find it!!!

  • d best part from d movie...love it

  • LOVE this movie & U2's gorgeous, haunting song ...

    Winona Ryder is completely, utterly BEAUTIFUL xx

  • If ur a Winona Ryder fan like I am, i just uploaded BOYS (1996) Enjoy.

  • Love this!!!

  • This is perfect, one of my faves songs, with Hawke and Winona 2 talented hot and beauty actor and actrees.

  • i remember this movie when I was still in high school it made a mark in my personality while I was growing up - taught me about relationship, bond, friendship and a lot of stuffs.

  • I like very much this clip, that fragment by movie Reality Bites! ;-) I love Relaty Bites

  • This song is simply legendary.

  • i love this movie!

  • Good Lord! I forgot how stunningly beautiful Winona Ryder is. I never see her anymore. She was gorgeous back then.

  • she's sooo talented too! I want her to make a comeback

  • @saritalinda64 .. yes one of the most talented underrated actress.. luv her!

  • I am about to pull something just like this tonight when I drive to New Orleans to see a girl I love!

  • @jerryfromgeorgia

    You're "going to go see about a girl"...

  • I LOVE this song and ending ... thank you! :)

  • damn, I love that part of the movie!

    Love Love Love this movie. One of my all time faves.

    One of the greatest sound tracks ever

  • @dwoodall8979 I've always disagreed with this idea. She went for the guy she was a perfect match for: Her character is as messed up as Hawke's.

  • @Kangarieux So you agree with me. He's an ass, she's a bitch so they are perfect for each other. You could say 2 crack addicts are perfect for each other also.

  • Oh yeah I guess I do agree lol.

  • i love that movieee<3

  • Great movie. Winona Ryder is one of the most talented actresses ever. She was on the top in the 90's but unfortunately she isn't nowadays. I hope Star Trek (2009) and The Informers will help her to get a good roles. Winona was amazing in Reality Bites. The same with Ethan Hawke - impressive acting. Janeane Garofalo, Steve Zahn and Ben Stiller did a great job too.

    Great Comedy/Drama/Romance  about love in the '90s

  • i like how i didnt notice this was in spanish until she got to the cafe and spoke to steve zahn lol

  • Dear Shannon, it´s italian. You´re welcome

  • parte de el siempre  estan junto a mi y eso nadie lo kambiara se feliz

  • Thanks for this video, Winona Ryder god bless you. You were the most beautiful girl walking on the face of the earth back on those days... I was only 15 and this movie really meant a lot to me.

    Nothing like the good old times.

  • @marlonmbcr she's still beautiful!

  • hey..this video is about the song! lol. u2 baby

  • que buena pelicula esta y la cancion tambien.habian borrado este video por que lo vi una vez y no lo encontre mas hasta ahora..

  • ¡Gran canción!

    ¡Brenda, te amo!

  • Reminds me of the 90's. When will the they invent time machine?

  • you cannot imagine how much i was thinking the same thing. i couldn't believe it when i saw your response!

  • parallel minds... ty

  • indeed...I remember all of this "Flannel shirt" thing

    hehehe great!

  • my fave ethan hawke performance ..well this and also Jack londons call of the wild with the timber wolf, i owned a siberian timber wolf when i was little and hed chase my car and cry if he couldnt be in the room with me --blue eyed wonder dog..my fave pup--

    im also a kitty person if you couldnt guess!

    well and ive worked with exotic birds and more--i could tame godzilla if i had to--hehe

    anyways back to this movie--luv it and winona was awesome in it too of course!!!

  • why the hell did you just say all that? the most random thing i've ever heard in my entire life.

  • I was like troy did nto givet a rat ass

  • Ethan Hawke is hot!!!

  • @Tishwonder75

    Ethan Hawke WAS hot

  • Winona hot, Ethan not.

  • I love this film ;)

    Greetings from Germany

  • I'm 33 years old too, but I'll be forever Troy's kind of girl...

  • I'm like Troy - always have been, always will. Where were you when I was in my 20s? LOL!

  • Wow!! Somebody told me this movie was a fully representation of the generation X. I love this movie and I love Ethan Hawke.

    I am 33 now, I was in college when I first saw it, I became all that Troy hate, I am a corporative monkey with fake friends ( I can count all my friends with just one hand) and unsatisfied growing materialist needs.

  • @Tishwonder75

    Hey, welcome to the real world...

  • my god... i forgot how much i fucking love this movie... and this scene. and to usirrnidiot: my hand is raised. :)

  • Raise your hand if you fell for a "Troy" and you would give anything if he would come back and break your heart again.

  • I used to watch the movie like everyday it drives my brother crazy :D I still got the soundtrack n jz did a quiz abt which reality bites character r u?

  • don't even want love or frienship. They want money, strip culbs, to show off who has more money, etc. I am kind of suffocating and that's why I watch this movie a lot. I have never met ANYONE who liked this movie and could relate to it. Now thanks to youtube I can meet people like that. Where are you from? (I'm not a stalker or anything, just wondering where people like that are still alive?:)) I am from queens NY.

  • mariamirabella33,

    reality bites or the real world :D I mean almost every fresh graduate would go thru all these stages (jobs, relationships, try to fit in in the real world, etc). yeah this movie is definitely it. I'm from MA _ A _ _ _ A. You can check it out on my profile ; ) Queens, NY, cool, wsup? p/s: thank God I've gone thru the stages many years back : D

  • You've gone through the stages? Good for you. I am still going through them. One day I want to haave my own business. The next day I want to stay where I am and make it out there. p/s I'll be sure to check out your profile:)

  • Me too. And I still watch it quite often. I wish I could live a life like that. But none of my friends dig stuff like that. They are all corporate types and all they want money and title and prestige. And even he people that are not into this corporate stuff, they are still so cynical(sp?). They

  • I'm no Donald Trump or Chevron or watsoever :D people like troy is so genuine n smart deserve a place in the real world but sadly normally the REAL world is NOT for the GENUINE.

  • I loved this movie so much that I named my baby girl's middle name after Lelania!

    She's 14 now!

  • lvoe this part

  • what kind of books he reads

  • LOVE the song! and the movie!

    I was 10 years old when I saw this film and already back then I totally felt its intensity. It quickly became an instant fave!

    And now, I'm 24, roughly the same age as Lelaina (Winona's character.) I totally appreciate the movie even more.

    It's so weird how, in a such a simple way, they were able to perfectly capture the feeling of young people who, while promising, can't help but just be unsure of the future.

  • @joliejoli That is JUST how I feel. You wrote the words I wanted. Only I'm 25 now. :)

  • @joliejoli im just after hitting 24 i also member watching this when i was really young and i just loved it!!! this film has stuck with me the whole way!! love love love it!!

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  • this movie summed up the early '90's.

  • She was queen of young Hollywood at one stage. I'll never forget that and I bet she won't either. A pristine performance by Winnona. Never had much time for Ethan though.

  • One of those movies that wants you to smoke along with the characters...

  • Are you like my soulmate? lol

    I so think the same

  • Especially when life gets you down, your friends petty troubles grinds your gears, work is a bitch and the one person you care about hardly sees your concern. Yet at the end of the day, when you hang out with those people you know things will be okay. That's when you reach for that cigarette. :)

  • me too:)) All the time. Lie down on my bed and smoke into the ceiling. I used to do that all the time. But I quit smoking now.

  • mariamirabella33

    Good that u've kickd the habit

  • mariamirabella33, hang in there. The reason you don't meet people like that anymore is because those people are good. Good is appreciated bcuz it is rare.

    Ditto on the corp. world. I'm in it, but I don't let it define me. As for the coworkers, their well beings depend on their stocks, 401K, etc. Should have seen them during the crash.

    To think, they'll leave this world with not one materialistic possession.. We only leave with our love, memories, lessons/learnings, and experiences.

  • Thanks for your nice words. I AM hanging in there. And yes you are absolutely right that at the end we leave with love, memories and the things we've done in this life. Not the material stuff.

  • My favorite song and one of my favorite actresses ever.. shes absolutely ethereal!.....

  • i would love someone to upload the whole film. it is that or blockbuster but you know haha

  • No es una gran pelicula, pero 4 minutos como estos pocos hay en el cine!!!

    De lo mejor de la historia del cine

  • Thank you!!!!! I have the 10th anniversary dvd and always play this scene over and over again. Now I can watch it on lunch breaks at work!!! U2's "All I Want Is You" starts playing at 1:25 and 3-seconds; right after Ben Stiller says, "Who are you looking for out here."

    This movie summed up true love and will continue to do so.

    5*

  • I though the movie yestarday, MAN push u thinking a lot if stuff bout life, GREAT MOVIE

  • I dont have the english version...sorry!!

  • where is this in english???!

  • I love this sequence!

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