Get the government out of our lives and remove the safety nets and you instantly get your power and respect back. Nobody treats the male lion like sh*t because they know he'll settle the matter with a few bites. Men have been identified as enemy number one by our government and yet women are getting to go to school for free and made eligible for every god damn penny of benefits their little heart desires. Simply put don't play the game and avoid them like a fatal disease.
It seems if you REALLY want to get married, you have to leave the United States. Move to a country where the laws are more favorable to men and women won't have incentive to screw you over.
@marianasreality I'm afraid, all Western countries, including Australia and Japan, and also ex-Soviet countries are like that. Even Iran. Few countries are remaining where men are not so heavily disadvantaged in marriage. But you can absolutely forget the high western living standards if you go there. Not to mention the fact that you'll be there a foreigner forever.
Never co-sign anything with a woman, never date or marry an illegal immigrant/google marriage fraud, avoid long distance relationships, listen to Tom Leykis, women come and go but a good education last forever, avoid single moms with kids still at home/it's a package deal, always use condoms when having sex, the less attachment to women the less suffering, never buy anything on a first meet up with a woman, the person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship, go dutch.
you sir are spot on i am 27 years old been in about 5 relationships was with one for 5 years lived together and WAs engaged but we broke it off. thank god she got married to someone else and got divorced already. Its a bad idea people.
Norway recently withdrew all the funding to so called "gender studies" in scientific research much due to a documentary "hjernevask" (Brainwash) shown on National Tv NRK. It shines the light on how feminism do not hold up to science when faced with biology and psychology.
sweden still keeps up the gender fascism.
The show has English subtitles and should be seen and spread by anybody antifeminist and interested in the present nordic situation.
Date divorced single mothers. They have a proven track record of being failures at marriage. This makes them predictable. Date women who collect more child support than you pay. Stay out of "community property" states, or learn to hide your assets very very well. You can actually write up all sorts of prenuptial contracts before marriage or living with someone, because remember 'common law marriage' can fuck you too. And also remember she can collect support even if you don't marry.
Never date single childless women again unless they do not want to have kids and make decent money to cancel out your child support payments. Get your ass fixed. More kids = more money out of your current kids mouths and more you gotta fuckin work to keep your ex happy.
The trick is to convince your ex you might actually be insane enough to ignore pieces of paper. and cut your own nose off to spite your face. She'll think twice about antagonizing you and royally fucking you over. Just remember to remind her you're not gong to be making any more money for her when you're in jail, and not going to be finding better jobs to pay her more money with a criminal record.
@Iamawesomeyouarenot This won't work. As a rule, the ex-wives don't think ahead that they may also lose from getting her ex-husband put to jail or smth. They want to inflict damage by any means and they also beleive that they could find another "better" father for your children to replace you.
@bormisha Okay, I'll side with you also. Some are that dumb. It's funny though when they realize that no man wants anything to do with a single mother especially the more kids they have. I mean even I don't lol. So I just stay away from chicks. Divorced ones with kids come with extra headaches and mouths to feed, They're the whores at the bars in their 30's acting like retards and sleeping with anything that will fuckem, but in the end they find themselves alone and bitching again.
@WeekendAtMArtys Not a good idea. As soon as any woman puts your name on a birth certificate as the father married or not you are responsible for child support. Your only defense will be a DNA test.
Damn good advice. Just got screwed after 18 years married. WILL NEVER MARRY AGAIN. Marriage = Men get fucked if your wife "changes her mind." Women NEVER CHANGE THEIR MINDS, do they?!
American Women only view men as Human wallets and Sperm Donors and i'm really sorry to tell the truth: It is what it is! Ask ANY married American Men if they're happy about their married lives & i'll be the first to tell you that if they say they're happy....THEY ARE LYING THEIR ASSES OFF!!!! XD XD XD
Men who love and value themselves would never put themselves in harm's way. Men who has a lot of Self-Respect will NEVER get married for they know that they'll be OWNED by women.Women are predators by nature & will con you + snag & bag you to w/c there is NO ESCAPE. I would rather hire a whore instead of being hitched by it for i'm doing myself a big favor by paying forward & i'm paying The whore's to leave after the session whereas if you're married, you'll never get rid of your Bitch!
GREAT video. Thumbs up. Use to want to get married.....now you could not pay me to get married. You'd still end up in the negative without your kids or the possibility of a decent future.
i read some place on the internet that even the nice girls will take advantage of how messed up the system is when the legally binding relationship turned shit hits the fan.
To add to my last comment, I still would not get married in this country or even marry a woman from abroad and have her relocate here. Your admonishment against marriage is spot-on and all men should take heed. Great video. btw for lack of character-space, I couldn't elaborate on my last post about the standard caveat re: non-citizen women -- beware the ones looking to get a green card out of it, regardless of ethnicity -- hence the aforementioned to avoid marriage period.
Thank God for this man. The Editorialist! He's one of my heroes along w/ Tom Leykis for i owe these two men who literally saved my ass before committing to this HUGE mistake namely Marriage. After opening my eyes & ears and observed + winessed before me on what happened to one of my buddies, i SWORE that this scourge (Marriage thing) will NEVER happen to me!!! Every waking moment, there's not a day where i saw a buddy moving like the walking dead, former shell of themselves due to marriage! :(
I couldnot save my friend. He went and got married without telling any of his friends because he knew we would object to it. But to counter what this guy said in the video I was in a relationship where the chick had more money than me and she still gave me hell. Look at a thin line between love and hate with Martin Lawrence. On top of that I was in family court and I saw a case where the woman made more and the guy still had to pay. So just because she makes more is not a safety net.
ok, if u guys will not marry then you have no right to have sex!!! what you are saying here is a invitation for injustice against women!!! because you have sex with her and have children with her and then leave her!!! that's Rudeness!! women must feel safe in this life, they must marry their men b4 they have any sexy relationship in order to save her rights!! i really dunno how you non-muslims think!!! and i wanna ask u "which religion do u follow?" only Atheism will leave u be like the way u r!
@elgazar99 "if u guys will not marry then you have no right to have sex" Last time I checked, men and women were equal (thanks feminism) and so they have equal right to sex. [cue Helen Reddy, "I am woman, hear me roar..."]
@kmsoileau Both must feel safe in this life, i'm a man lol, but when i said that i was defending the weaker side (the woman)!! and i think it is so bad to have sex with a woman and when she is pregnant, u just leave her alone with her children and you force her to work and to bring up your children while you are cheating another girl !! i believe that Men and Women are Equal in having their rights but they have different tasks a man can never live without a woman and a so do the woman!!
It is often the woman who takes away the child but still extorts the man for money through alimony and child support. The guy still WANTS to take care of the child, but he's not allowed to.
Family law in Egypt (I believe) would prevent women from screwing men over like this, but in the West it doesn't. That's why marriage IN THE WEST is a bad idea for all men, even Muslim men.
@Flare400 Actually you are just relating half of the story and as always theres another side. A guy will decide to up and leave the woman, doesn't she have the right to ask him for help financially? Anyway, You seem to be speaking in an unclear way because you said that the guy WANTS to take care of the child, yet, the woman decides to keep the child and ask him for money. But you also said that men are the ones getting screwed? If the guy wants to help, then the rules apply to him.
Again, the focus on this video is NOT deadbeat dads. It focuses on the men who have their children and assets stripped away by their wives.
If the man is not a criminal and is willing to take care of the child, he should either get joint custody, or not be required to pay a dime of child support for the child he cannot see. The woman does not deserve anything if she is the one who breaks the relationship and decides to take the kids with her. There is no "other side of the story" here.
@kmsoileau Both should feel safe. Thats why there should be certain rules to abide by and also a certain amount of mutual understanding and respect. Why is marriage such a negative thing? Mainly because we are used to simply enjoying life and "living life to the fullest" but honestly theres a huge lack of family values and moral foundations that we need nowadays. Its mainly because of this fear of commitment, to having to provide for more than oneself and giving up that sexual freedom
@NinJaMamasita thats exactly why i dont want to get married, i do not want to provide for another GROWN ASS person who can do that for herself, i also dont want to give up that sexual freedom,why would i want to? and i dont fear commitment, i just dont want it, the same way i dont watch baseball not because i have baseball phobia because i dont like baseball
@kmsoileau Marriage has existed effectively for far longer than even this nation has existed and you cannot deny that. However what you should be focusing on is the fact that we as Americans have changed to the point that whatever seemed ok and productive in the past is no longer useful due to OUR modifications. To the person who made the video, I'd like to say that you know damn well that you wouldn't want your daughters husband speaking the way you are....you never know where life takes you.
@NinJaMamasita "speaking the way you are" Can you be more specific? Or did you just feel like writing me a pointless PC advertisement for "modern marriage"?
@kmsoileau I really wish people would learn to pay attention to what they read. I said: to the person who made this video, therefore, I'm not speaking to you. He said in the video that he's with his woman because she makes more money than he does....really? You don't see anything wrong with that statement? I'm not trying to advertise anything, I'm simply stating my opinion as easily and as rightfully as you did :)
"He said in the video that he's with his woman because she makes more money than he does....really? You don't see anything wrong with that statement?"
No. All the author said is that marriage is only safe enough for men if they are the ones making less money than the wife. That way they won't stand to lose their assets if it fails. There is absolutely nothing wrong with his statement - and he is practicing what he preaches.
"Marriage has existed effectively for far longer than even this nation has existed and you cannot deny that."
Marriage today is nothing like marriage 100 or even 50 years ago. You keep on going on how people have changed, well I have news for you too: marriage laws changed even more so! Back then you couldn't get a no-fault divorce and the woman had no right to any alimony if she cheated or ended the relationship. Children being taken away from fathers was almost unheard of.
If you really want to preserve marriage, then fight for family law reform.
If you're trying to shame men into signing up for it as it is today, you're wasting your time. A rational person would not sign up for marriage: a contract that offers no stability and security (as it once did), yet still adds big obligations that remain long after the relationship falls apart (which it does half the time).
@PrinceCharmless100 No, a woman can work, and women should work. However, could you imagine being raise by someone else and not your mom? I prefer to raise a child myself and stay home in comparison to going out to work and leaving the kid with a sitter. I prefer to raise my child and know what the child is doing at all times.
Yeah i could imagine being raised by someone else for my very own biological mother IS A WHORE for she gave me away right after giving birth to me & i don't give a shit on whatever her reasons why for i'm passed that. This is the very reason why i HATE women in general & I've got A TON of ISSUES w/ them. So for me, Women are nothing more than Sperm Receptacles that are born & bred to be USED by men. Who cares if they became destitute!? Not my problem! XD XD XD
@joel750 Alright, lets access your emotions...because, thats what your judgement is based on, YOUR emotions. May I suggest seeing a psychologist? Tons of men leave their wife and kids to go on and enjoy their own life and create new families while never, ever acknowledging their own kids. Does that mean that the child grows up hating all men? No, man your logic is off. Beyond that if you think about all women being receptacles then I can't want to see how you feel when you have your own daughter
No amount of time for any Psychologist could help me for i'm already jaded when it comes to women here in America for they're ALL WHORES! i cannot ell you how many of my buddies that i went along w/ them in Family Court, only to find out that they got RAPED in Court, their wives cleaned them out, took most in some cases all of what they have, ordered to pay child support + ALIMONY to support their ex-whore wives for the next couple of years!
as for your comment about me having a daughter....this will NEVER happen my friend for i had a Vasectomy a couple of years back & I'm not planning to have one anytime soon. I'm single, living a great life, i keep my salary in FULL and i just use women for the WHORES that they are i pay them to leave me after the sex. It's more convenient this way + i always have my way when i want, how i want, where i want it. There's no benefit for men to get married in America!
@joel750 Alright, that was your choice and I have no comment about that. HOWEVER, I do not respect your opinion about women. Not all women are whores, maybe you're just around the wrong women. Maybe you attract whores because you can't look beyond your distrust and hate towards women in general. I'm glad you're having a good life, God bless you :)
True on what you said about not ALL women are whores...you are certainly correct sir! BUT: what i was mentioning is the Modern American Woman who think that she's ENTITLED to anything she wants w/o earning it because she's American, & not some other races of women. I love women in general from OTHER countries for they know how to behave like a Lady, & not a whore! As long as i'm here in the US, i'll keep disrespecting women until they behave accordingly & know their place in life!
@PrinceCharmless100 Thats why a marriage is what it is, well, thats for the people who are interested in raising families and not having to end up full of "baby momma drama." Because they enjoyed their..."sexual freedom."
@NinJaMamasita marriage doesnt guarantee you wont have baby mama drama, 50% of marriages end in divorce and some of the other 50% are in miserable marriages, i rather have baby mama drama than ex wife drama, losing my house, my kids and paying alimony
you obviously do not understand the cultural tides going in American society. Women have pre-marital sex because they can with birth control and contraceptives. However, because the legal laws are so biased against men, more and more men are refusing to get married. Thus, sex before marriage is now the norm. Don't worry, women don't need men to feel safe. The government will support all those single mothers.
@jonathanparis1988 ok man, let's assume that what u r saying is right so can u please tell me about the destiny of those poor children? will the government also take their father's place? of course not man, marriage is the only way for a healthy family and then for a healthy society i think
@jonathanparis1988 No, there is a different tendency. The government will just change laws such that merely having a relationship with a woman entitles her for all benefits of a wife, because, "why should those children that were born from an unmarried couple have less rights than children that were born from a married couple"? Such laws already exist in some european countries.
Look, marriage is bad for men in America. The legal system is working against them. If a husband goes through divorce, he is likely to lose the house, the car, half of his assets and much of his future earnings. Most of these divorces are initiated by women, often for essentially no solid reason but "I no longer feel fulfilled."
Why don't you google "Don't get married" and "American women suck".
@jonathanparis1988 i didn't know that before my dear friend but still the solution is not leaving marriage!! i think the solution is to put fair laws that don't wrong the men or the women
Tell the feminists to change the laws. American women are also a pain in the ass to marry. Often, American women spend their 20's having sex with bad boys, cocky guys, douchebags, and generally just men who treat women terribly. Then these women want the rest of us good guys to marry them in their thirties. It's better to stay unmarried and have relationships with women. These women are not angels. The women have children outside marriage often sex it up with bad men.
Well, I never said my society was great. I plan on moving abroad to Asia soon. Indeed, we should change it, but the men of the US are too weak and spineless to do it right now. The easiest thing men are doing is refusing to get married so American women can't screw us financially. I doubt your society is perfect though. Judging from your name, I would say you might be from an Islamic country. The Islamic world is no heaven either, so I wouldn't judge the US too harshly.
@jonathanparis1988 yeah man , Islamic countries are not heavens and yeah my society is not perfect but, we have rules my dear friend! Islam tells us what to do in marriage, divorce, inheritance, in Child Custody and in everything really so, at least we don't have this type of problems u have, we have other problems and by God's will those problems will be solved when soon after the revolutions that we r making this year!
Well, I still wouldn't live in an Islamic society as most of them are still impoverished or very poor. I think a nice middle could be Thailand, the Philippines, or perhaps parts of Eastern Europe. Of course, no place is perfect, but I doubt most people would choose an Islamic country to set up a life, even if the marriage laws are more in favor of men and morals are still strong. There's too repressive and too liberated. You can guess which side Islamic societies tend to be on.
We Men have all the right to have sex! If women don't give it to us for free, There are some women out there (believe it or not) that will give it to you for mere $100.00 OR LESS! Women are like buses: If you miss the last one, wait 15 minutes for there's another one coming! Everything about women is MONEY: Handbags, Designer underwear, perfumes, houses, cars etc. all of w/c they think they deserve just by whoring themselves out! I see women as a SPERM RECEPTACLE and nothing more XD!
@joel750 regardless that ur comment is a stupid, ignorant and sick , i just have a question for u, u said that u see women as sperm receptacles ok ok then tell me please : Was your mom a sperm receptacle too?!!!
i am really blessed that i am a Muslim and that i live in a Muslim society !
Yes...My biological mother IS a Sperm receptacle for she gave me away right after i came out of her womb! Some loving mother huh!? As for you being a muslim: Asalamalayikum sir! I'm sorry, for i just had it with women here in America for most of them ALL WHORES. They sleep w/ anyone w/ a penis so they could get your money. Peace be with you Sir, I do not harbor any hard feelings about your response....this is just 1 man's opinion & i'm sorry sir that we cannot see eye to eye. :(
@joel750 Walaikum Assalam sir lol, i am sorry if i was bad to u but, i still refuse what u said 100%, you shall not generalize man, not all women are bad , there are tons of Good women everywhere!! i see the problem in usa is not in women only, men also make a lot of mistakes there but , i really think that u have a problem of laws there! i hope u find a good woman one day, a woman that u love her and she loves u and live with her a happy life inshaa Allah :)
Guy's just talk to theys old farts that have bean divorced 1-4 time or more and see what they say and there are a lot of them out there.He right the system is against the men and lawyers are scum bags
I f I HAD A DOLLOR FOR EVERY TIME SOME GUY SAID I'M SO LUCKY TO HAVE THIS SEXY HOT AWESOME FEMALE THEN 4-5 YEARS LATTER THEY SAY I WISH I NEVER WOULD HAVE MET HER
The fact of the matter is guy's mairrage sucks because Big Brother has set the system for mairrage to fail they want' you think women are evil men are jerks etc. why do the courts vavour the women yet they make less than me this goes back to the fifty the drugs, counter culture Big Brother started all that specific to destroy familys. kids in 60 said my parents don't know how to love materail things are there life no it was all a plan and as long as trust the system you will lose.
People don't take it personly the system is set up so that your mairrage will fail the Globist don't want famliys they want people divided why do you think so many mairrages are stressed out do a little investigating you will find out' real quick whats going on this guy is just scraching the surface you will not win Big brother will never let that happen sorrey that's a fact.
@ceoproperties Really? When I tell some people I don't want to get married they look at me like I'm messed up. I guess I'll be the one looking at them that way when I'm single and they are married.
@MatchCard You are 110% correct sir If I dollor for every time someone told me Mairrage was the best thing ever happend to them they where so happy, and 2-5 years latter they where divorced
Listen to what this guy has to say. This guy needs a Nobel Peace Prize for trying to save the males of our species! In case you didn’t notice there is a war on and we are getting or asses kicked.
imputed child support: court decides how much one is capable of making&maintaining thus a monthly amount isn't for sure in today's economy & in the event one becomes laid off then they may have to pawn everything &or charge a credit card avoiding jail until getting a hand full of jobs to compensate & then may be working many more hours before they somehow get the expected hourly rate again
"game over"
"balls to the wall"
some men may even commit suicide because of this, the system is broken
@CryForPieceOfMind There was a man in BC, Canada who killed himself after being ordered to pay MORE per month in alimony than he earned, while he was denied access to his three kids. His ex was laughing as she walked out of the court room, but he got her in the end. He killed himself and the suicide note said:
@ThePennyPincher, terrible, her laughing didn't help, it probably helped push him over the edge, now the kids don't even have a father, it was a selfish act, but then again that's messed up that he was ordered to pay so much alimony and not even see his kids, so even if he would be strong enough to endure more shit, the kids still wouldn't even know their father so that was the final straw right there, sad.
Warning: Marry a foreign woman IF you want to live in a foreign land. IF YOU BRING YOUR FOREIGN BRIDE TO AMERICA, SHE WILL CHANGE. They learn bad habits from native American women.
This guy is right Did you know women have a system of modeling men into a companion that chases them and becomes a handpecked wimp there books called the Rules and the goldigers guide that teach women how to use Brainwashing tactic and deceptions for control. Guys we go to each other for advice and It's always be happy your getting some.Thats why they don't comunicate very much when first meet them it's part of the plan there are not mysterious creaters unlike any others.
hello my brother i have watch your and agree with every thing you said. i have done two videos on marriage and divorce. i would like you to take a look and give some suggestion.
I wonder how safe marriage is if you get a vastectomy and sign a pre-nup with her that says no alimony, equal rights to property regardless of restraining orders, no child support if she gets pregnant with another guy (is that legal in a pre-nup?), etc. etc.
I think that solves most of the problems with marriage. Am I missing something? Of course if she refuses to sign a pre-nup, then run screaming.
What this guy is saying is 100% true, if you marry the wrong woman the rest of your life is ruined! I made poor choices and now I'm paying a lot! They can also take the kids move and you can see them. Then they call some other guy daddy who she lied to abd said you were some asshole. Don't marry a woman with kids either. You'll regret it! Go to church and make sure she believes in submission to a husband. If she doesn't- RUN!
Sadly, this video is true. I know a guy who is getting divorced right now. He had a pfa against him (even though he wasn't violent), he has to pay child support/alimony, the lawyers already cost $40,000, and the case has already cost him a few years of his life. I'm definitely going to stay away from marriage. Unless I find a woman who makes A LOT MORE money than I do and is an ABSOLUTE angel, I WILL NOT get married. Either that or the laws will have to change drastically for me to marry.
Metaphorically speaking, my ex took my heart, brain, and balls, threw them in the food processor, and chopped them to bits, and said "I love you" and laughed while doing it. I'm not gonna try to tell anyone what to do, but the deck is very stacked against men in America--culturally, socially, legally, ethically. To reference Clash of the Titans, just substitute "Release the Kraken" with "Release the Wife" and then decide if that's what you want.
Seriously. Think about it. You are going into a legally binding contract with a stranger. How well do you know her? Yeah? Well, you just THINK you know her. She IS a stranger. And I guarantee she WILL change after you're married. The more I watch this, the more this guy makes total sense. Stay single guys. Seriously. If she divorces you, you WILL lose. Why lose everything you worked so hard for? Think about it... you DON'T KNOW HER. YOU DON'T.
I think the best place to meet a good woman is through a Christian church?
I am not a Christian, but the couples i know who are married for long years now are Christian...
Those who go to church every weekend, and have God as the center of their life. I think it is, but maybe I am wrong.. I don't know, I am too young to know, i think.
im on marriage strike and every man should be too... ill never get married as sad as that may be... as long as women can cheat on you and get alimony, take your kids forever, take your money even property or your business you owened before and during the marriage all while choosing not to work then men should not marry..... marriage is more of a set up then a contract off comitment
Of all my friends that I've known the last 8 years, I was the one guy who didn't get married. Over those 8 years, only 2 marriages I know actually are still working out. The rest are in various states of issues from financial problems, infidelity, to divorced. Because I didn't get married, I have a fat bank account, education, and I've banged more beautiful women than any of them combined both at home and abroad. I drive 2 nice cars paid in full and have my own home. YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE.
@Sway0008 Men are starting to really strike back. In Ontario there is a massive arrears of alimony, or child support, whatever, in the amount of 2.5 billion dollars. Women whined and said they wanted their ex's driver's licences suspended and passports seized. Men are telling the justice and legal system to go fuck themselves. Men are now getting smarter all the time, and we ARE starting to fight back.
If I were to tell you who the best women to marry are...which type of woman would honestly try to make her man happy and make a relationship work through thick and thin...(drumroll)...I'd have to pick a Latina. Why??
I've never heard one of their men complain. And I speak pretty decent conversational Spanish and lived for four years in Austin Tx supervising a good many of those guys in my early years, so I think I would've heard something by now.
@TheEditorialist I recently had a conversation with my brother about this (marriage w/ a Latina); I'm single, Mex. descent. The gist of the conversation was about how Feminism has really screwed things up (an understatement) in this country (U.S.) for men. I expressed to him how glad I was that generally speaking in MX/Chicano culture Latina women still subscribe to traditional roles. There are exceptions to the "rule" of course and the standard caveat for any non-citizen women applies as well.
HELL FUCKING YEA, PREACH MY DUDE..PREACH..THESE LAME ASS SIMPS NEED TO LEARN THAT MARRYING A FEMALE IS A TRAP..im in the process of showing my friend the light but he does not want to hear it..ima show him this video..fuck marriage
I agree 100% with you but with one acception.If a man feels he needs to get married he needs to make her sign a prenuptial agreement and make sure its BULLET PROOF and if she refuses get rid of her.
im seriously considering adoption OVER marriage. cause if i just have a kid and never get married she cant take him/her away from me cause she would have nothing over me. what do i think about women in general? their a waste of time and canNOT be trusted. women have yet to proove me wrong and in my nearly 10 years of being single they havent done that yet.
I never abused my wife in any way and because the times are little bit different financially she decided to leave me ad take my son away from me. Im facing most of what is mentioned in this video plus possible deportation. No crime involved. "She's just not happy with me"
The married guy telling us not to get married? FAIL. This video should be called "Having Kids Fucks Up Your Dreams and Freedoms"... What we need is a wealthy man telling us about waiting until you are wealthy to even consider having a kid. Also presidents don't deal in this institution... your state does. With Cell Phones and Computers... your "contract" with a woman is in constant danger.
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You know...after watching your videos...I am really seeing your homoerotic tendencies.
You obviously have not been around that many women because of your generalizations. And also you want to be that separated from women? Sounds like gay.
There's nothing wrong with that though. When you realize it and can be comfortable with coming out...there will be a lot of people here for you.
He doesn't want to be around women? He's married. And, what are his homoerotic tendencies? Can you explain this? It must be something only you understand.
Excellent vid, Ed! Not just here in the US, but throughout the Western world, we guys are better off living alone our whole adult lives. Want companionship? Get a dog or cat. Want sexual pleasure? Read Playboy or Penthouse. Better alone than in bad company, & better single than married. Men & women should just live apart, 'cause they end up doing that anyway. Keep preachin', Ed!
@zoidbetag - Yeah, and women wonder where all the good men have gone. More and more men and women are being raised by the divorced moms. (Remember, they were children once.) They're teaching the daughters to steal the husbands blind and they're teaching their sons to become manginas. Only the few, like you can see the truth before it's too late.
Most of my male friends are married and they are miserable, stuck with nagging bitching wives, and this is only after a year! I warned them STUPID FUCKS! I wont get married and i really hate goddamn weddings. A wedding invitation is a trick to bilk you out of your hard earned money. I'm expected to bring a $200 check as a gift? RSVP- FUCK OFF! So much for being a guest, now im a freaking customer. Screw the wedding industry and divorce lawyers and most of all FUCK MARRIAGE!!!
31 years old,, ive dodged 2 bullets so far, Love is love, and marriage is a business deal! One that is not stacked in the guys favor! Thats all there is to it! When marriage is an affair that has to do with love and companionship, i may consider , till than living single is great! i KNOW NO ONE WHO IS MARRIED AND HAPPY.
Get the government out of our lives and remove the safety nets and you instantly get your power and respect back. Nobody treats the male lion like sh*t because they know he'll settle the matter with a few bites. Men have been identified as enemy number one by our government and yet women are getting to go to school for free and made eligible for every god damn penny of benefits their little heart desires. Simply put don't play the game and avoid them like a fatal disease.
toowaker37 2 weeks ago
It seems if you REALLY want to get married, you have to leave the United States. Move to a country where the laws are more favorable to men and women won't have incentive to screw you over.
marianasreality 3 weeks ago
@marianasreality I'm afraid, all Western countries, including Australia and Japan, and also ex-Soviet countries are like that. Even Iran. Few countries are remaining where men are not so heavily disadvantaged in marriage. But you can absolutely forget the high western living standards if you go there. Not to mention the fact that you'll be there a foreigner forever.
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Albacorewing 4 weeks ago
Never co-sign anything with a woman, never date or marry an illegal immigrant/google marriage fraud, avoid long distance relationships, listen to Tom Leykis, women come and go but a good education last forever, avoid single moms with kids still at home/it's a package deal, always use condoms when having sex, the less attachment to women the less suffering, never buy anything on a first meet up with a woman, the person less interested in the relationship controls the relationship, go dutch.
dontgetmarried999 1 month ago 3
you sir are spot on i am 27 years old been in about 5 relationships was with one for 5 years lived together and WAs engaged but we broke it off. thank god she got married to someone else and got divorced already. Its a bad idea people.
99bleeder 1 month ago
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Norway recently withdrew all the funding to so called "gender studies" in scientific research much due to a documentary "hjernevask" (Brainwash) shown on National Tv NRK. It shines the light on how feminism do not hold up to science when faced with biology and psychology.
sweden still keeps up the gender fascism.
The show has English subtitles and should be seen and spread by anybody antifeminist and interested in the present nordic situation.
Just search " hjernevask english " on youtube.
crangdaniel 1 month ago
The screwing you get isn't worth the screwing you're gonna get..
notterswavely 1 month ago
Date divorced single mothers. They have a proven track record of being failures at marriage. This makes them predictable. Date women who collect more child support than you pay. Stay out of "community property" states, or learn to hide your assets very very well. You can actually write up all sorts of prenuptial contracts before marriage or living with someone, because remember 'common law marriage' can fuck you too. And also remember she can collect support even if you don't marry.
Iamawesomeyouarenot 2 months ago
Never date single childless women again unless they do not want to have kids and make decent money to cancel out your child support payments. Get your ass fixed. More kids = more money out of your current kids mouths and more you gotta fuckin work to keep your ex happy.
Iamawesomeyouarenot 2 months ago
The trick is to convince your ex you might actually be insane enough to ignore pieces of paper. and cut your own nose off to spite your face. She'll think twice about antagonizing you and royally fucking you over. Just remember to remind her you're not gong to be making any more money for her when you're in jail, and not going to be finding better jobs to pay her more money with a criminal record.
Iamawesomeyouarenot 2 months ago
@Iamawesomeyouarenot This won't work. As a rule, the ex-wives don't think ahead that they may also lose from getting her ex-husband put to jail or smth. They want to inflict damage by any means and they also beleive that they could find another "better" father for your children to replace you.
bormisha 3 weeks ago
@bormisha Okay, I'll side with you also. Some are that dumb. It's funny though when they realize that no man wants anything to do with a single mother especially the more kids they have. I mean even I don't lol. So I just stay away from chicks. Divorced ones with kids come with extra headaches and mouths to feed, They're the whores at the bars in their 30's acting like retards and sleeping with anything that will fuckem, but in the end they find themselves alone and bitching again.
Iamawesomeyouarenot 3 weeks ago
aha this inspired me to never get married even though I am a girl
bambinobabymonster 2 months ago
honestly first of all you should run for president
second of all lets get rid of marriage as an instituition
ill foster two illegitamate children change my name and thats how ill procreate
WeekendAtMArtys 2 months ago
@WeekendAtMArtys Not a good idea. As soon as any woman puts your name on a birth certificate as the father married or not you are responsible for child support. Your only defense will be a DNA test.
Iamawesomeyouarenot 2 months ago
You don't even have to marry a woman to get screwed. Just the tip and a little dick drizzle can ruin your life.;p
Iamawesomeyouarenot 2 months ago
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You said Tootsie Pop. LOOOOOOOL
2011 Dec. ESPN. Kobe Bryant getting divorced.
Kobe needs a woman like Queen Latifah. Round and full of loving.
waitingformusic 2 months ago
no fault divorce is like the giving women "The One Ring" and expecting them not to use it
MrTalktothebear 4 months ago 2
Damn good advice. Just got screwed after 18 years married. WILL NEVER MARRY AGAIN. Marriage = Men get fucked if your wife "changes her mind." Women NEVER CHANGE THEIR MINDS, do they?!
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pyramidhead138 5 months ago
the shades are classic
WTFFTW3567 6 months ago
American Women only view men as Human wallets and Sperm Donors and i'm really sorry to tell the truth: It is what it is! Ask ANY married American Men if they're happy about their married lives & i'll be the first to tell you that if they say they're happy....THEY ARE LYING THEIR ASSES OFF!!!! XD XD XD
joel750 7 months ago 4
Men who love and value themselves would never put themselves in harm's way. Men who has a lot of Self-Respect will NEVER get married for they know that they'll be OWNED by women.Women are predators by nature & will con you + snag & bag you to w/c there is NO ESCAPE. I would rather hire a whore instead of being hitched by it for i'm doing myself a big favor by paying forward & i'm paying The whore's to leave after the session whereas if you're married, you'll never get rid of your Bitch!
joel750 7 months ago
DON'T MARRY WHITE WOMEN
DON'T MARRY WHITE WOMEN
They will take you to the fucking cleaners and laugh as they fuck their new boyfriend in your bed.
JesusManson323 7 months ago
Don't get married! It's a trap!
Sleep with as many women as you want and keep your money and freedom for yourself!
JesusManson323 7 months ago
GREAT video. Thumbs up. Use to want to get married.....now you could not pay me to get married. You'd still end up in the negative without your kids or the possibility of a decent future.
SolShinobi 8 months ago
i read some place on the internet that even the nice girls will take advantage of how messed up the system is when the legally binding relationship turned shit hits the fan.
CryForPieceOfMind 8 months ago
To add to my last comment, I still would not get married in this country or even marry a woman from abroad and have her relocate here. Your admonishment against marriage is spot-on and all men should take heed. Great video. btw for lack of character-space, I couldn't elaborate on my last post about the standard caveat re: non-citizen women -- beware the ones looking to get a green card out of it, regardless of ethnicity -- hence the aforementioned to avoid marriage period.
jmitnick210 8 months ago
Good video, sir! VERY INSIGHTFUL!
realmanallen73 8 months ago
Thank God for this man. The Editorialist! He's one of my heroes along w/ Tom Leykis for i owe these two men who literally saved my ass before committing to this HUGE mistake namely Marriage. After opening my eyes & ears and observed + winessed before me on what happened to one of my buddies, i SWORE that this scourge (Marriage thing) will NEVER happen to me!!! Every waking moment, there's not a day where i saw a buddy moving like the walking dead, former shell of themselves due to marriage! :(
joel750 8 months ago
mgtowforums com/forums/red-pill-blue-pill
After reading this, anyone still interested in getting married?
Intse 8 months ago
Fuck marriage......with an AIDS dick.....unprotected.......'til death do you part.
yellaboy2617 8 months ago
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Do as I say, not as I do...
TreachMarkets 8 months ago
I couldnot save my friend. He went and got married without telling any of his friends because he knew we would object to it. But to counter what this guy said in the video I was in a relationship where the chick had more money than me and she still gave me hell. Look at a thin line between love and hate with Martin Lawrence. On top of that I was in family court and I saw a case where the woman made more and the guy still had to pay. So just because she makes more is not a safety net.
u2hubbard 9 months ago 6
Men are just Checkbook to all Women, This is the way men are taken to The Cleaners by Most Women, I'm on marriage strike forever.
Women are not worth it, @ any costs. MARRIAGE IS WORTHLESS & ALL THE WOMEN BEHIND IT, IT'S A LIE, SO THE WOMEN CAN GET YOUR MONEY.
CaptainNemoful1 10 months ago
ok, if u guys will not marry then you have no right to have sex!!! what you are saying here is a invitation for injustice against women!!! because you have sex with her and have children with her and then leave her!!! that's Rudeness!! women must feel safe in this life, they must marry their men b4 they have any sexy relationship in order to save her rights!! i really dunno how you non-muslims think!!! and i wanna ask u "which religion do u follow?" only Atheism will leave u be like the way u r!
elgazar99 11 months ago
@elgazar99 "if u guys will not marry then you have no right to have sex" Last time I checked, men and women were equal (thanks feminism) and so they have equal right to sex. [cue Helen Reddy, "I am woman, hear me roar..."]
kmsoileau 11 months ago
@elgazar99 "women must feel safe in this life" But not men? If women and men are equal, they have an equal right to feel safe.
kmsoileau 11 months ago
@kmsoileau Both must feel safe in this life, i'm a man lol, but when i said that i was defending the weaker side (the woman)!! and i think it is so bad to have sex with a woman and when she is pregnant, u just leave her alone with her children and you force her to work and to bring up your children while you are cheating another girl !! i believe that Men and Women are Equal in having their rights but they have different tasks a man can never live without a woman and a so do the woman!!
elgazar99 11 months ago
@elgazar99
"u just leave her alone with her children"
It is often the woman who takes away the child but still extorts the man for money through alimony and child support. The guy still WANTS to take care of the child, but he's not allowed to.
Family law in Egypt (I believe) would prevent women from screwing men over like this, but in the West it doesn't. That's why marriage IN THE WEST is a bad idea for all men, even Muslim men.
Flare400 11 months ago
@Flare400 Actually you are just relating half of the story and as always theres another side. A guy will decide to up and leave the woman, doesn't she have the right to ask him for help financially? Anyway, You seem to be speaking in an unclear way because you said that the guy WANTS to take care of the child, yet, the woman decides to keep the child and ask him for money. But you also said that men are the ones getting screwed? If the guy wants to help, then the rules apply to him.
NinJaMamasita 11 months ago
Again, the focus on this video is NOT deadbeat dads. It focuses on the men who have their children and assets stripped away by their wives.
If the man is not a criminal and is willing to take care of the child, he should either get joint custody, or not be required to pay a dime of child support for the child he cannot see. The woman does not deserve anything if she is the one who breaks the relationship and decides to take the kids with her. There is no "other side of the story" here.
Flare400 11 months ago 2
@kmsoileau Both should feel safe. Thats why there should be certain rules to abide by and also a certain amount of mutual understanding and respect. Why is marriage such a negative thing? Mainly because we are used to simply enjoying life and "living life to the fullest" but honestly theres a huge lack of family values and moral foundations that we need nowadays. Its mainly because of this fear of commitment, to having to provide for more than oneself and giving up that sexual freedom
NinJaMamasita 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita
"Why is marriage such a negative thing?..."
"...Its mainly because of this fear of commitment, to having to provide for more than oneself "
Not exactly. It's mainly because of the fear of having to provide for the other person FOR MANY YEARS AFTER that very person DUMPED YOU.
Flare400 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita thats exactly why i dont want to get married, i do not want to provide for another GROWN ASS person who can do that for herself, i also dont want to give up that sexual freedom,why would i want to? and i dont fear commitment, i just dont want it, the same way i dont watch baseball not because i have baseball phobia because i dont like baseball
PrinceCharmless100 10 months ago
@kmsoileau Marriage has existed effectively for far longer than even this nation has existed and you cannot deny that. However what you should be focusing on is the fact that we as Americans have changed to the point that whatever seemed ok and productive in the past is no longer useful due to OUR modifications. To the person who made the video, I'd like to say that you know damn well that you wouldn't want your daughters husband speaking the way you are....you never know where life takes you.
NinJaMamasita 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita "speaking the way you are" Can you be more specific? Or did you just feel like writing me a pointless PC advertisement for "modern marriage"?
kmsoileau 11 months ago
@kmsoileau I really wish people would learn to pay attention to what they read. I said: to the person who made this video, therefore, I'm not speaking to you. He said in the video that he's with his woman because she makes more money than he does....really? You don't see anything wrong with that statement? I'm not trying to advertise anything, I'm simply stating my opinion as easily and as rightfully as you did :)
NinJaMamasita 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita
"He said in the video that he's with his woman because she makes more money than he does....really? You don't see anything wrong with that statement?"
No. All the author said is that marriage is only safe enough for men if they are the ones making less money than the wife. That way they won't stand to lose their assets if it fails. There is absolutely nothing wrong with his statement - and he is practicing what he preaches.
Flare400 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita
"Marriage has existed effectively for far longer than even this nation has existed and you cannot deny that."
Marriage today is nothing like marriage 100 or even 50 years ago. You keep on going on how people have changed, well I have news for you too: marriage laws changed even more so! Back then you couldn't get a no-fault divorce and the woman had no right to any alimony if she cheated or ended the relationship. Children being taken away from fathers was almost unheard of.
Flare400 11 months ago
@NinJaMamasita
If you really want to preserve marriage, then fight for family law reform.
If you're trying to shame men into signing up for it as it is today, you're wasting your time. A rational person would not sign up for marriage: a contract that offers no stability and security (as it once did), yet still adds big obligations that remain long after the relationship falls apart (which it does half the time).
Flare400 11 months ago
@Flare400 men should stop being expected to provide for women, arent we equal?, provide for yourself
PrinceCharmless100 10 months ago
@PrinceCharmless100 No, a woman can work, and women should work. However, could you imagine being raise by someone else and not your mom? I prefer to raise a child myself and stay home in comparison to going out to work and leaving the kid with a sitter. I prefer to raise my child and know what the child is doing at all times.
NinJaMamasita 10 months ago
@NinJaMamasita
Yeah i could imagine being raised by someone else for my very own biological mother IS A WHORE for she gave me away right after giving birth to me & i don't give a shit on whatever her reasons why for i'm passed that. This is the very reason why i HATE women in general & I've got A TON of ISSUES w/ them. So for me, Women are nothing more than Sperm Receptacles that are born & bred to be USED by men. Who cares if they became destitute!? Not my problem! XD XD XD
joel750 7 months ago
@joel750 Alright, lets access your emotions...because, thats what your judgement is based on, YOUR emotions. May I suggest seeing a psychologist? Tons of men leave their wife and kids to go on and enjoy their own life and create new families while never, ever acknowledging their own kids. Does that mean that the child grows up hating all men? No, man your logic is off. Beyond that if you think about all women being receptacles then I can't want to see how you feel when you have your own daughter
Martiwashere 7 months ago
@Martiwashere
No amount of time for any Psychologist could help me for i'm already jaded when it comes to women here in America for they're ALL WHORES! i cannot ell you how many of my buddies that i went along w/ them in Family Court, only to find out that they got RAPED in Court, their wives cleaned them out, took most in some cases all of what they have, ordered to pay child support + ALIMONY to support their ex-whore wives for the next couple of years!
joel750 7 months ago
Respond to this video...
as for your comment about me having a daughter....this will NEVER happen my friend for i had a Vasectomy a couple of years back & I'm not planning to have one anytime soon. I'm single, living a great life, i keep my salary in FULL and i just use women for the WHORES that they are i pay them to leave me after the sex. It's more convenient this way + i always have my way when i want, how i want, where i want it. There's no benefit for men to get married in America!
joel750 7 months ago
@joel750 Alright, that was your choice and I have no comment about that. HOWEVER, I do not respect your opinion about women. Not all women are whores, maybe you're just around the wrong women. Maybe you attract whores because you can't look beyond your distrust and hate towards women in general. I'm glad you're having a good life, God bless you :)
Martiwashere 7 months ago
@Martiwashere
True on what you said about not ALL women are whores...you are certainly correct sir! BUT: what i was mentioning is the Modern American Woman who think that she's ENTITLED to anything she wants w/o earning it because she's American, & not some other races of women. I love women in general from OTHER countries for they know how to behave like a Lady, & not a whore! As long as i'm here in the US, i'll keep disrespecting women until they behave accordingly & know their place in life!
joel750 7 months ago
@joel750 you're right, not all are. only about 95% are.
suchafool990 6 months ago
@PrinceCharmless100 Thats why a marriage is what it is, well, thats for the people who are interested in raising families and not having to end up full of "baby momma drama." Because they enjoyed their..."sexual freedom."
NinJaMamasita 10 months ago
@NinJaMamasita marriage doesnt guarantee you wont have baby mama drama, 50% of marriages end in divorce and some of the other 50% are in miserable marriages, i rather have baby mama drama than ex wife drama, losing my house, my kids and paying alimony
PrinceCharmless100 10 months ago
@elgazar99
you obviously do not understand the cultural tides going in American society. Women have pre-marital sex because they can with birth control and contraceptives. However, because the legal laws are so biased against men, more and more men are refusing to get married. Thus, sex before marriage is now the norm. Don't worry, women don't need men to feel safe. The government will support all those single mothers.
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@jonathanparis1988 ok man, let's assume that what u r saying is right so can u please tell me about the destiny of those poor children? will the government also take their father's place? of course not man, marriage is the only way for a healthy family and then for a healthy society i think
elgazar99 10 months ago
@jonathanparis1988 No, there is a different tendency. The government will just change laws such that merely having a relationship with a woman entitles her for all benefits of a wife, because, "why should those children that were born from an unmarried couple have less rights than children that were born from a married couple"? Such laws already exist in some european countries.
bormisha 1 month ago
@bormisha That is why men should never get a woman pregnant.
Albacorewing 4 weeks ago
@Albacorewing That could only work if you don't want to have children at all.
bormisha 3 weeks ago
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@Albacorewing That could only work if you don't want to have children at all.
bormisha 3 weeks ago
@elgazar99
Look, marriage is bad for men in America. The legal system is working against them. If a husband goes through divorce, he is likely to lose the house, the car, half of his assets and much of his future earnings. Most of these divorces are initiated by women, often for essentially no solid reason but "I no longer feel fulfilled."
Why don't you google "Don't get married" and "American women suck".
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@jonathanparis1988 i didn't know that before my dear friend but still the solution is not leaving marriage!! i think the solution is to put fair laws that don't wrong the men or the women
elgazar99 10 months ago
@elgazar99
Tell the feminists to change the laws. American women are also a pain in the ass to marry. Often, American women spend their 20's having sex with bad boys, cocky guys, douchebags, and generally just men who treat women terribly. Then these women want the rest of us good guys to marry them in their thirties. It's better to stay unmarried and have relationships with women. These women are not angels. The women have children outside marriage often sex it up with bad men.
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@jonathanparis1988 you guys must change ur way of life, your society is pathetic really and i'm sorry to say that Jonathan !
elgazar99 10 months ago
@elgazar99
Well, I never said my society was great. I plan on moving abroad to Asia soon. Indeed, we should change it, but the men of the US are too weak and spineless to do it right now. The easiest thing men are doing is refusing to get married so American women can't screw us financially. I doubt your society is perfect though. Judging from your name, I would say you might be from an Islamic country. The Islamic world is no heaven either, so I wouldn't judge the US too harshly.
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@jonathanparis1988 yeah man , Islamic countries are not heavens and yeah my society is not perfect but, we have rules my dear friend! Islam tells us what to do in marriage, divorce, inheritance, in Child Custody and in everything really so, at least we don't have this type of problems u have, we have other problems and by God's will those problems will be solved when soon after the revolutions that we r making this year!
elgazar99 10 months ago
@elgazar99
By the way, did you even watch this video? Men should not get married because of what this guy is saying.
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@elgazar99
Well, I still wouldn't live in an Islamic society as most of them are still impoverished or very poor. I think a nice middle could be Thailand, the Philippines, or perhaps parts of Eastern Europe. Of course, no place is perfect, but I doubt most people would choose an Islamic country to set up a life, even if the marriage laws are more in favor of men and morals are still strong. There's too repressive and too liberated. You can guess which side Islamic societies tend to be on.
jonathanparis1988 10 months ago
@elgazar99
We Men have all the right to have sex! If women don't give it to us for free, There are some women out there (believe it or not) that will give it to you for mere $100.00 OR LESS! Women are like buses: If you miss the last one, wait 15 minutes for there's another one coming! Everything about women is MONEY: Handbags, Designer underwear, perfumes, houses, cars etc. all of w/c they think they deserve just by whoring themselves out! I see women as a SPERM RECEPTACLE and nothing more XD!
joel750 7 months ago
@joel750 regardless that ur comment is a stupid, ignorant and sick , i just have a question for u, u said that u see women as sperm receptacles ok ok then tell me please : Was your mom a sperm receptacle too?!!!
i am really blessed that i am a Muslim and that i live in a Muslim society !
elgazar99 7 months ago
@elgazar99
Yes...My biological mother IS a Sperm receptacle for she gave me away right after i came out of her womb! Some loving mother huh!? As for you being a muslim: Asalamalayikum sir! I'm sorry, for i just had it with women here in America for most of them ALL WHORES. They sleep w/ anyone w/ a penis so they could get your money. Peace be with you Sir, I do not harbor any hard feelings about your response....this is just 1 man's opinion & i'm sorry sir that we cannot see eye to eye. :(
joel750 7 months ago
@joel750 Walaikum Assalam sir lol, i am sorry if i was bad to u but, i still refuse what u said 100%, you shall not generalize man, not all women are bad , there are tons of Good women everywhere!! i see the problem in usa is not in women only, men also make a lot of mistakes there but , i really think that u have a problem of laws there! i hope u find a good woman one day, a woman that u love her and she loves u and live with her a happy life inshaa Allah :)
elgazar99 7 months ago
Guy's just talk to theys old farts that have bean divorced 1-4 time or more and see what they say and there are a lot of them out there.He right the system is against the men and lawyers are scum bags
Indaingivers 11 months ago
Guy's just talk to theys old farts that have bean divorced 1-4 time or more and see what they say and there are a lot of them out there.
Indaingivers 11 months ago
I f I HAD A DOLLOR FOR EVERY TIME SOME GUY SAID I'M SO LUCKY TO HAVE THIS SEXY HOT AWESOME FEMALE THEN 4-5 YEARS LATTER THEY SAY I WISH I NEVER WOULD HAVE MET HER
Auther4 11 months ago
The fact of the matter is guy's mairrage sucks because Big Brother has set the system for mairrage to fail they want' you think women are evil men are jerks etc. why do the courts vavour the women yet they make less than me this goes back to the fifty the drugs, counter culture Big Brother started all that specific to destroy familys. kids in 60 said my parents don't know how to love materail things are there life no it was all a plan and as long as trust the system you will lose.
Indaingivers1 11 months ago
People don't take it personly the system is set up so that your mairrage will fail the Globist don't want famliys they want people divided why do you think so many mairrages are stressed out do a little investigating you will find out' real quick whats going on this guy is just scraching the surface you will not win Big brother will never let that happen sorrey that's a fact.
Indaingiver 1 year ago
DON'T GET TRAPPED YOUNG BROTHERS.
ceoproperties 1 year ago
@ceoproperties Really? When I tell some people I don't want to get married they look at me like I'm messed up. I guess I'll be the one looking at them that way when I'm single and they are married.
MatchCard 1 year ago
@MatchCard You are 110% correct sir If I dollor for every time someone told me Mairrage was the best thing ever happend to them they where so happy, and 2-5 years latter they where divorced
Indaingivers 11 months ago
LISTEN UP!
Listen to what this guy has to say. This guy needs a Nobel Peace Prize for trying to save the males of our species! In case you didn’t notice there is a war on and we are getting or asses kicked.
TheTruthHurts2004 1 year ago
imputed child support: court decides how much one is capable of making&maintaining thus a monthly amount isn't for sure in today's economy & in the event one becomes laid off then they may have to pawn everything &or charge a credit card avoiding jail until getting a hand full of jobs to compensate & then may be working many more hours before they somehow get the expected hourly rate again
"game over"
"balls to the wall"
some men may even commit suicide because of this, the system is broken
CryForPieceOfMind 1 year ago
@CryForPieceOfMind There was a man in BC, Canada who killed himself after being ordered to pay MORE per month in alimony than he earned, while he was denied access to his three kids. His ex was laughing as she walked out of the court room, but he got her in the end. He killed himself and the suicide note said:
"Try to get the money now, bitch!'
ThePennyPincher 1 year ago
@ThePennyPincher, terrible, her laughing didn't help, it probably helped push him over the edge, now the kids don't even have a father, it was a selfish act, but then again that's messed up that he was ordered to pay so much alimony and not even see his kids, so even if he would be strong enough to endure more shit, the kids still wouldn't even know their father so that was the final straw right there, sad.
CryForPieceOfMind 1 year ago
THUMBS UP AND SHARED!!!! RIGHT ON DUDE SPREADING THE WORD!!!!
Azicpok1 1 year ago
Warning: Marry a foreign woman IF you want to live in a foreign land. IF YOU BRING YOUR FOREIGN BRIDE TO AMERICA, SHE WILL CHANGE. They learn bad habits from native American women.
klined 1 year ago 3
@klined
True, you might as well look for a local then. A person who's more or less sane after living their life in this environment is actually a safer bet.
Flare400 1 year ago
This guy is right Did you know women have a system of modeling men into a companion that chases them and becomes a handpecked wimp there books called the Rules and the goldigers guide that teach women how to use Brainwashing tactic and deceptions for control. Guys we go to each other for advice and It's always be happy your getting some.Thats why they don't comunicate very much when first meet them it's part of the plan there are not mysterious creaters unlike any others.
coolhandken99 1 year ago
hello my brother i have watch your and agree with every thing you said. i have done two videos on marriage and divorce. i would like you to take a look and give some suggestion.
cattywool1 1 year ago
Amen,
the women today have all the power!! Women get all the property, the money, the kids, and everything else!
jaxzurr 1 year ago
I wonder how safe marriage is if you get a vastectomy and sign a pre-nup with her that says no alimony, equal rights to property regardless of restraining orders, no child support if she gets pregnant with another guy (is that legal in a pre-nup?), etc. etc.
I think that solves most of the problems with marriage. Am I missing something? Of course if she refuses to sign a pre-nup, then run screaming.
HyperSpify 1 year ago
@HyperSpify run screaming....HAHAHAHA
poo23414 1 year ago
What this guy is saying is 100% true, if you marry the wrong woman the rest of your life is ruined! I made poor choices and now I'm paying a lot! They can also take the kids move and you can see them. Then they call some other guy daddy who she lied to abd said you were some asshole. Don't marry a woman with kids either. You'll regret it! Go to church and make sure she believes in submission to a husband. If she doesn't- RUN!
OpenEye73 1 year ago
and woman lot of times choose the more aggressive and abusive man, who r more likely to be abuisve to them.
haris1254 1 year ago
Sadly, this video is true. I know a guy who is getting divorced right now. He had a pfa against him (even though he wasn't violent), he has to pay child support/alimony, the lawyers already cost $40,000, and the case has already cost him a few years of his life. I'm definitely going to stay away from marriage. Unless I find a woman who makes A LOT MORE money than I do and is an ABSOLUTE angel, I WILL NOT get married. Either that or the laws will have to change drastically for me to marry.
mikekazik1 1 year ago
Metaphorically speaking, my ex took my heart, brain, and balls, threw them in the food processor, and chopped them to bits, and said "I love you" and laughed while doing it. I'm not gonna try to tell anyone what to do, but the deck is very stacked against men in America--culturally, socially, legally, ethically. To reference Clash of the Titans, just substitute "Release the Kraken" with "Release the Wife" and then decide if that's what you want.
ActaNonVerba71 1 year ago 3
Seriously. Think about it. You are going into a legally binding contract with a stranger. How well do you know her? Yeah? Well, you just THINK you know her. She IS a stranger. And I guarantee she WILL change after you're married. The more I watch this, the more this guy makes total sense. Stay single guys. Seriously. If she divorces you, you WILL lose. Why lose everything you worked so hard for? Think about it... you DON'T KNOW HER. YOU DON'T.
juliadennehy 1 year ago 14
@juliadennehy GOOD POINT!
realmanallen73 8 months ago
I think the best place to meet a good woman is through a Christian church?
I am not a Christian, but the couples i know who are married for long years now are Christian...
Those who go to church every weekend, and have God as the center of their life. I think it is, but maybe I am wrong.. I don't know, I am too young to know, i think.
sk3adik 1 year ago
A joke told to me by a happily UN-MARRIED man: Here are the three rings of marraige
The Engagement Ring
The Wedding Ring
The SuffeRING
fourtywpm 1 year ago 2
A lot of bitch made manginas in the justice system.
p1gta1p 1 year ago
wow...bitter much!
liquidsword29 1 year ago
"The system is rigged to completely NAIL you to the wall." Marriage... seriously guys... just don't do it.
juliadennehy 1 year ago 2
im on marriage strike and every man should be too... ill never get married as sad as that may be... as long as women can cheat on you and get alimony, take your kids forever, take your money even property or your business you owened before and during the marriage all while choosing not to work then men should not marry..... marriage is more of a set up then a contract off comitment
themaniusedtob 1 year ago 2
amen bro
lcfr4u 1 year ago
AWESOME VIDEO!!
CobraR1993 1 year ago
@CobraR1993
Thanks Cobra!
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
Dude, you are a wise man
gary06492 1 year ago
@gary06492
I appreciate the comment.
He who says one is wise, is often the wisest himself!
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
Of all my friends that I've known the last 8 years, I was the one guy who didn't get married. Over those 8 years, only 2 marriages I know actually are still working out. The rest are in various states of issues from financial problems, infidelity, to divorced. Because I didn't get married, I have a fat bank account, education, and I've banged more beautiful women than any of them combined both at home and abroad. I drive 2 nice cars paid in full and have my own home. YOU DON'T NEED MARRIAGE.
M44resto 1 year ago 2
@M44resto
Words of wisdom. Thanks for your contribution, M44.
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
seriously
Sway0008 1 year ago
@Sway0008 I agree.
willdesha 1 year ago
us men should serioulsy marriage strike!
Sway0008 1 year ago 7
@Sway0008
Spread the word all over the internet. Casually drop the phrase 'marriage strike' in light conversation around a water cooler or the gym...wherever
We don't have to speak much for it. As the Romans used to say, "The thing speaks for itself." lol
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
@Sway0008 Men are starting to really strike back. In Ontario there is a massive arrears of alimony, or child support, whatever, in the amount of 2.5 billion dollars. Women whined and said they wanted their ex's driver's licences suspended and passports seized. Men are telling the justice and legal system to go fuck themselves. Men are now getting smarter all the time, and we ARE starting to fight back.
ThePennyPincher 1 year ago
Thanks man i really appreciate you. I'd rather die than to have a woman own me!!...
Sway0008 1 year ago
@Sway0008
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Give me liberty or give me death!
watch?v=JdV-PKF4f2s
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
Disconcerting.
nrang1 1 year ago
I vow to never marry. There is nothing to gain for me.
AC101666 1 year ago 4
Asian women from other countries are the best women to marry. Their women who like the traditional stuff.
soloinpomona 2 years ago
@soloinpomona
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If I were to tell you who the best women to marry are...which type of woman would honestly try to make her man happy and make a relationship work through thick and thin...(drumroll)...I'd have to pick a Latina. Why??
I've never heard one of their men complain. And I speak pretty decent conversational Spanish and lived for four years in Austin Tx supervising a good many of those guys in my early years, so I think I would've heard something by now.
jmo
TheEditorialist 1 year ago 5
@TheEditorialist I have to agree with you , however here in the States it's a crapshhot at best.
uratrick 1 year ago
@TheEditorialist I recently had a conversation with my brother about this (marriage w/ a Latina); I'm single, Mex. descent. The gist of the conversation was about how Feminism has really screwed things up (an understatement) in this country (U.S.) for men. I expressed to him how glad I was that generally speaking in MX/Chicano culture Latina women still subscribe to traditional roles. There are exceptions to the "rule" of course and the standard caveat for any non-citizen women applies as well.
jmitnick210 8 months ago
When it comes to marriage, "let the buyer beware." Avoid American women like the plague!
jamesbond007hot 2 years ago 5
Most of this deals with children regardless of whether you marry her or not...
and a marriage without children doesn't have any of these risks...
But if you get married and have children with your wife, then yeah, you are definitely at risk...
koaltech 2 years ago
Someone needs to give this man a medal....and a talk show.
Extortion07 2 years ago 5
HELL FUCKING YEA, PREACH MY DUDE..PREACH..THESE LAME ASS SIMPS NEED TO LEARN THAT MARRYING A FEMALE IS A TRAP..im in the process of showing my friend the light but he does not want to hear it..ima show him this video..fuck marriage
trigun52 2 years ago 4
dude, if you have to hit him with a sledgehammer to knock some sense into him, DO IT. btw, i suggest he watch MY videos. and im dead serious
pyramidhead138 2 years ago
Good video
ExposeSeduction 2 years ago 3
ya'll oughta check out MY videos, their pretty EDUCATIONAL if you will
pyramidhead138 2 years ago
I agree 100% with you but with one acception.If a man feels he needs to get married he needs to make her sign a prenuptial agreement and make sure its BULLET PROOF and if she refuses get rid of her.
SuperAuschwitz 2 years ago 5
@SuperAuschwitz - There is no such thing as a bulletproof prenup.
q2alphadog 1 year ago
im seriously considering adoption OVER marriage. cause if i just have a kid and never get married she cant take him/her away from me cause she would have nothing over me. what do i think about women in general? their a waste of time and canNOT be trusted. women have yet to proove me wrong and in my nearly 10 years of being single they havent done that yet.
pyramidhead138 2 years ago 8
i dont know WHY i have this written twice
pyramidhead138 2 years ago
This guy is absolutely 100% right.
I never abused my wife in any way and because the times are little bit different financially she decided to leave me ad take my son away from me. Im facing most of what is mentioned in this video plus possible deportation. No crime involved. "She's just not happy with me"
BELIEVE WHAT YOU HEAR HERE.
ParaglidingUnlimited 2 years ago 34
@ParaglidingUnlimited
My heart goes out to you in your time of adversity brother.
Best wishes.
TheEditorialist 1 year ago
@ParaglidingUnlimited Thank you for your comment. I hope situation will improve for you.
GoldeWC 11 months ago
Gay marriage should be legalized.
I'm as sure as hell that it would benefit it more than straight people!
ZOMGAPOTATO 2 years ago
The married guy telling us not to get married? FAIL. This video should be called "Having Kids Fucks Up Your Dreams and Freedoms"... What we need is a wealthy man telling us about waiting until you are wealthy to even consider having a kid. Also presidents don't deal in this institution... your state does. With Cell Phones and Computers... your "contract" with a woman is in constant danger.
Corporations8MyBaby 2 years ago
Marriage is not between you and her, it's between YOU and the STATE, you're marrying the STATE. Young man, stay single, stay happy.
zimtran99 2 years ago 13
agreed
Corporations8MyBaby 2 years ago 2
i couldnt agree with you more.
pyramidhead138 2 years ago
Agree with him, or not, this guy is entertaining...btw, he's 1000% correct.
TSMontana 2 years ago 8
This comment has received too many negative votes show
You know...after watching your videos...I am really seeing your homoerotic tendencies.
You obviously have not been around that many women because of your generalizations. And also you want to be that separated from women? Sounds like gay.
There's nothing wrong with that though. When you realize it and can be comfortable with coming out...there will be a lot of people here for you.
keewee44 2 years ago
He doesn't want to be around women? He's married. And, what are his homoerotic tendencies? Can you explain this? It must be something only you understand.
fromamanspointofview 2 years ago 3
This comment has received too many negative votes show
why stop at the institution at marriage?
i'd like to see you remove yourself from society completely.
you are a waste of space.
keewee44 2 years ago
Excellent vid, Ed! Not just here in the US, but throughout the Western world, we guys are better off living alone our whole adult lives. Want companionship? Get a dog or cat. Want sexual pleasure? Read Playboy or Penthouse. Better alone than in bad company, & better single than married. Men & women should just live apart, 'cause they end up doing that anyway. Keep preachin', Ed!
CCRoxtar 2 years ago 7
To all you guys out there, modern women are TOXIC and they have a full governmental legal system behind them BEWARE!
cyberzonie 2 years ago 13
Single and happy here :-)
thordk001 2 years ago 5
wow...this just happend to my dad...my dad has to lived in a cramped 1 room appartment now...he adviced me NOT to get married...
zoidbetag 2 years ago 5
@zoidbetag - Yeah, and women wonder where all the good men have gone. More and more men and women are being raised by the divorced moms. (Remember, they were children once.) They're teaching the daughters to steal the husbands blind and they're teaching their sons to become manginas. Only the few, like you can see the truth before it's too late.
q2alphadog 1 year ago 2
Most of my male friends are married and they are miserable, stuck with nagging bitching wives, and this is only after a year! I warned them STUPID FUCKS! I wont get married and i really hate goddamn weddings. A wedding invitation is a trick to bilk you out of your hard earned money. I'm expected to bring a $200 check as a gift? RSVP- FUCK OFF! So much for being a guest, now im a freaking customer. Screw the wedding industry and divorce lawyers and most of all FUCK MARRIAGE!!!
Njderig 2 years ago 16
31 years old,, ive dodged 2 bullets so far, Love is love, and marriage is a business deal! One that is not stacked in the guys favor! Thats all there is to it! When marriage is an affair that has to do with love and companionship, i may consider , till than living single is great! i KNOW NO ONE WHO IS MARRIED AND HAPPY.
jleather60 2 years ago 23