How to Deal with a Break-up

[epicginger33]

damn

[Daimflyder]

MUST STOP WATCHING VIDEOS. IVE BEEN WATCHING 8 NOW...

[Jummez]

Thank you

[DeanLeysen]

@Jummez :)

[DeadStarsShine]

"You're fired"- OGFurious

[ynot73]

the art of mind-fucking



[qwerch]

well said my friend, thank you!!!!!!!!

[TheRey4you]

Totally agree with you .. the worst thing to do after a separation is to talk about your ex. How did i deal with my break up ? i just fucked someone else .. plain and simple.No stressing for me .. i dont take it .. health is wealth at the end of the day. Women can either make a man or break a man .. i just always remembered a quote i live by .. '' If Not you , Then Someone else for sure .If not Someone else then Somebody else for sure ''

[hippystyle]

ok look . i have a pritty big ego .. but you are a MOTHER FUCKING GENIOUS guy...nice work .

question ... how do you get a girl not to get addicted to you ?? my biggest question ever ...

[PHILLIP7003]

Some women are just fucked up plain and fucking simple

[PHILLIP7003]

apache1173 id never tried this but if it's like a constant thing with multiple guys I'd say do that with other girls she says she don't get jelous but they do if they care about oh yea they get really fucking jelous

[BagetaMovies]

shit i mean nerd

[BagetaMovies]

i had a girlfrien but then i took arrow to the knee. (yes iam virgin)

[apache11743]

Dont you guys just hate it when your girlfriends friend is a fucking guy and they always together how would u fix this proplem??

[AKCD35]

I hate falling in love with sluts...

[dondiemarte]

You are effin awesome.

[gbernard23]

Bullshit to this

[gbernard23]

I got arrested for assault, there's a few things I worked out, that doesn't mean you have to lose

[gbernard23]

I'm going to give you a personal message which I wrote two months since after she walked out on me

[gbernard23]

The thing's if you believe in something, there's no reason to give up. When you give up you lose, no matter how many arseholes tell you you've lost, there's only one person who can tell you you've lost in truth, and that's y9ou

[gbernard23]

In the process, she told me she was going to marry one man, and a few months later I was told she was going to marry another.

[gbernard23]

I did go crazy, but that's no shame on me, truth is I didn't go crazy, I didn't give up.

[gbernard23]

Well I broke up with my girlfriend, but it took about eight months to get back with her.

[bigswordspikedhair]

French the llama! Your vids are awesome!

[myOWNwingman]

im only 12 but i think my gf wants to break up with me what are the tell tale signs that someone is about to dump you? plz i need this answer

[DjPetrov]

she broke up with me today she said you were the nicest bf ever u made me feel valued and u respected me and honored me and made me feel loved and never fight or yell at me. but yet she breaks up with me i was madly in love and was going to marry her well planed on it. why did she even do this to me..she wont talk to me anymore her old bf hit her called her names make her feel dis valued i never but she likes him i think she said there best friends wtf....

[Powermover001]

@DjPetrov Jeez, let me give you a solid advice: treat her like shit from time to time, let her do whatever she wants but never let her disrespect you , dont ever get jealous, and make sure you STILL SEE OTHER GIRLS WHILE U ARE IN THE RELATIONSHIP.ITS very important. That's for your next ones. If she is jealous and shit, thats good, she'll fuck you better at night by fear of you leaving her for another. But it wont matter, cuz you won't leave her, ur a good guy. You'll just fuck the others

[DjPetrov]

@Powermover001 i dont want that though....?. So???

[Xylian113]

My girlfriend broke up with me 20 min ago, this was the first video I went to. Thanks Dean :)

[MrGlitchycanopener]

So smarticles

[PikaJess123]

*writes in notebook* be awesome

[Superlamo]

Now, this gonna be my video if I ever have to deal with a break-up!

[JetzaRuler]

@Superlamo don't worry...

[lostprophets0rok]

That's what I do. Just think, before you met them you were fine and survive, so not that they're gone, it shouldn't be any different to that. If you keep telling yourself that, it's more bearable.

[allizbest]

ahhh u crack me up:) good advise tho. ...

[Shirosaki14]

I need help.. Ive been with someone for 9 months. And i need help moving on

[littlemisssmile06]

Ohhh yes he did!! DFTBA!

[METROIDKILLERX]

That thing you said is the LAST thing someone wants to get into... In which the two are still kind of bound to eachother? The way you described it is EXACTLY how my best friend/ex are right now. What on Earth do I do?

[ppeerrssoonnnn]

I never thought advice from a straight up gangsta would help. I WAS WRONG.

[UGotBurnt]

are you wearing lipstick ?? o.O

[TheMightyS0ren]

i have one word.....BOOZE

[TheMax1998]

im sorry but you didnt help me

[TheLNIZZLE]

PLEASE ANSWER... is it true that if u dont use it u lose it?

[Dvermoet]

@TheLNIZZLE well actualy if u dont use it, you never had it, so you technically cant lose it right? but i know what you mean and i think that it's true if you wait to long for something or if u dont "use" it, you will lose it ;)

[FromThe3021]

Second verse is how I dealt with my break up, listen to Ain't no Sunshine as well, let me know what you think - /watch?v=SNmF7pnfp8E

[Wilson27PT]

When i saw this video a few weeks ago in my Subscriptions New Videos i was like: "pffff what a waste, don't even need that"... and today i am in this situation, how ironic... soo I came here to watch... soo ironic...

[SatanicFuneral]

if your partner broke up with you just hang yourself and get it over with!

[ScarsOfTheCrucifix]

it amazes me people come to a stranger on the internet to learn how to deal with a break up. Thats sad

[Malet89]

@ScarsOfTheCrucifix Nothing wrong with asking for advice, sometimes people find it easier to go to someone who will give an unbiased opinion

[Dvermoet]

@ScarsOfTheCrucifix that's not sad.. we just use the knowledge of Dean in our advantage ;) no but seriously if u ask a friend for advice, he/she will probably give a totally different answer than if you ask advice to a total stranger.

[rawnotion22]

Great logic and advise

[sadekgheidan]

Whenever you feel depressed, instead, feel awesome!

[magikmw]

Also, you seem cool enough that' I'd probably hate to know you in real life!

[magikmw]

Repeadetly press 0 for instant hilarity.

[toy741life]

ur one intellgent person. RESPECT :)

[Codeafo1]

Wow you're so different from your other channel here!

[ipullthepork]

i got super fucking drunk and high today threw up and passed out and now im gonna shave my pubes

[EL4N4R]

Youuuu SUCK<3 WORST VIDEO EVER.

JK ofc, I love you and your videos. BOOYAH

[XxnEr0xXxMaNexX]

friends dont kiss and get naked and do dirty things ?! o.O wow when the fck did I get a gf T_T trolololz

[nelanenalen]

you deserve a talk on ted

[pancakerepairman]

13 people forgot to comment on the dislike bar

[gangstaholycow]

13 people forgot to be awsome

[LTAETUBE]

You are great



[sam10469]

Song name?

[blasterchief123]

I may have to find a girlfriend before I bother with this video. 

[aikidy]

Yaaaah , i won't (forget to be awesome)

[ceminator08]

song at the end?

stupid iphone app soundhound cant find it -.-

[Aerazo16]

Awesomeness



[LeonisDeGemini]

Wow, this channel is OGFurious with a shirt.

[crimzonightt]

Had volume max without realising.

"BOOYAH!"

FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

[DeanLeysen]

@crimzonightt hahaha, sorry!

[juniorxx2]

@crimzonightt Hahaha the same thing happened to me just now and then I looked down and read your comment :x

[Talesone]

thx 4 the information dean aka captain obvious.

actually i'm missing the furious aspect of this video.

would be a great topic to troll the ppl asking obvious stuff about it.

anyway, keep up the good work.

[chainsaws89]

Dean, need your expertise on this one. When is the most opportune time to call a girl for the first time after getting her number? People say hey do it after 3 days show her you're nonchalant side others will say call her that same night show her you care. Both seem like good options i'm at a loss here.

If you do answer this question please Alcarion asked you i hate my youtube username. Keep doing what you doing love both channels!

[Muskar2]

@chainsaws89 Call her when you want to. If you're the kind of guy who is afraid of rejection, then the quickest way to overcome it is not, imo, to rely on getting affirmation from successful 'scores' - but to start thinking rational about it. Go with your guts, test things out. Learn by doing.Or would you rather fantasy about awesome adventures than experiencing them? ;) Oh.. and my friendly advice: Try to avoid seeking social advice until you've tried it several times and keep making mistakes.

[iJOKEx]

omg this was a direct reply to my question. wow. thankyou :)

[ShatteredEquilibrium]

Though I mostly agree with You, Dean, I must point out that such rational and logical attitude and practices in many situations simply cannot be implemented because of the IRration and ILlogical nature of love. I would even venture to suggest that in some situations the bond between two people is so strong that the post-break-up damage is irretrievable and nothing can be done to soothe the pain of loss, regardless of our knowledge of NLP :)

[XxRyXx]

Interesting! Would like to hear your take on age differences in dating

[DeanLeysen]

@XxRyXx your mum didn't seem to mind! (I could NOT let that one slip!)

[ceminator08]

@DeanLeysen mean.

[XxRyXx]

@DeanLeysen Haha, I was wondering why she seems to-be out of breath everytime I talk to her! :P

[bmxreaper666]

@DeanLeysen dude i just learned what laughing my ass off means :))))).This was so fucking awesome you deserve +2k subs just for this one :)))) gg

[Jul0rB0xx0r]

@DeanLeysen theres the OG coming through :D

[kungfucowofgooeynes]

@DeanLeysen lolololol the number of thumbs up on that comment is 69 :/ Oh my existance is a bleak one.

[Jehanzeb14]

@DeanLeysen Your furious is showing, Dean.

[zXzRawrzXz]

I replayed the "Booyah" part a million times XD I do it everytime in your videos

[britishgirl181]

i subscribed, so yehh, i saved a kittens life... that makes me happy :)<3

[Grey138]

Answer this my friend:

You discover that you have an awesome gift / ability locked inside you, you can cure the world of all cancers. Imagine, no more cancer, no child or adult will ever get cancer again EVER!

HOWEVER to unlock this gift you have to sleep with your Mum and not just lay beside her all nice and snuggly...what do you do?

Does the world get one less disease or is it tough love world crack on, a medical cure will be found eventually?

[xJuZtiNz]

I SAVED A KITTEN:D and i'm awesome!

[silenthitman94]

Thats it. Because of this vid, I am asking her out.

[ceminator08]

@silenthitman94 dude tell me what happened after you asked her :D

send me a pm =P

[PiccadillyMan]

"Most of the time only thing you have to lose is the one thing you don't have yet" I'll quote this in my next essay

[iAmCrosh]

Looks like you're wearing lipstick.

[lolanubislol]

Who the F would diss-like any of his videos? tsk tsk.

[Rabano94]

dmt i forgot being awesome... again ):

[MegaShiny]

I never forget to be awesome, thank you very much.

[charlierichardson007]

were the fuck is my kitten?!?!

[BujajBanana]

@charlierichardson007 u're not getting one - you're saving one... he can has cheezbrgr now :)

[galcoolgal]

you are amazing

[siddddddddddddddddd]

The fact is, after a break up the best way to deal with it is to reframe the situation. Why mull over someone who dumped you?

Reframe: Why would I want to be with someone who has bad taste?

[im18yearsolder]

Do a vid on obession and or OCD please.

[azurth]

You sir, are a very very wise man.

[JustMisterPoe]

You are a fucking legend. You really made my day.

[deinpare]

a recurring theme in your discussions is that emotion is a matter of mindset, and we can have control over it if we become aware of it and take control over it. if, as you say in this vlog, all love ever is is an emotional construct that we backwards rationalize then is it theoretically possible to "learn" to love *any* person?

[waaaghzag]

@deinpare The answer to that would be yes. You could learn not to as well. What emotions are is balance of different chemicals in your brain. Just like you can learn to control your temper, an emotion, you can do the same with others.

[AlanCSSNub]

Perfect timing.. Broke up last night, thanks furious

[AboveAllBeOriginal]

DFTBA!

[amahman]

Keep it up Dean you're educating the world one vid at a time :)

[Franpowah]

Took me about a year to learn this by myself XD

[XxXxBroken]

like yea i should sooooo show my ex this.... he keeps bugging me randomly saying something like why the f*ck were you with that one guy that one day like wtf, is he stalking me or something... and it really pisses me off everytime i try to get him out of my life.... so yea my question is... how the hell do you get the person out of your life for good?

[biakuya]

@XxXxBroken kill him!

[XxXxBroken]

@biakuya lol well that sure would make him gone for good xDDD

[WTFitsAmuffin]

Is it strange that i get amazingly happy when i see one of your videos in my sub box?

[Sertex47]

@WTFitsAmuffin absolutely not:D

[1800InYourDreams]

Where the hell is he from?

[5hadowflam3]

@1800InYourDreams Belgium! :)

[mizzpicklezz]

single and you fancy someone...LOL i love europeans...

[crzythig]

Fuck Dean, now I have to ask her out after watching this. I've been waiting WAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY too long. Thanks bro.

[lisandr]

@crzythig

hope u don't get put in the friend zone like me lol

[TheBattleBowb]

I'm going to go for it! Rebbecca Black my love, here I come!

[Atalantius]

I think your comment on friendship/relationship was a bit... if you'll forgive me, oversimplified. To be completely honest with you. Maintaining a lifelong friendship is for many people more important than diverging into a statistically unlikely relationship. While the wish to kiss, snuggle and so forth may be strong, I think you make a mistake assuming that people think friendship is necessarily somehow inferior. Anyway, just my thoughts on it, also a bit oversimplified too, I realise!

[NtGuard07]

@Atalantius A bit.... overboard, maybe?

[Atalantius]

@NtGuard07 Maybe so. Truth be told, I meant to... I suppose, offence in what I said. It's late, and a time for rambling incoherent comments on youtube for me, I fear. :/

[biakuya]

@Atalantius i agree with you, to be together is in my mind a deeper friendship. Does not make sense to separate these in my opinion.

[Visc0us1488]

I believe we have covered this topic in an emotions vid. Or are we already getting Dean classics?

[Deathhead68]

I have a ridiculous amount of respect for you. My friend and I talk about social dynamics and stuff and other deep stuff and ur really clever. U help me understand my own emotions and give great advice, don't ever stop.

[philwild14]

@Deathhead68 OMG im his friend, im the one he talks about social dynamics with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[thizism]

Wow thats amazing help, thanks Dean!

[Bloodisspilt]

oh shit i forgot thanks for reminding me :)

[firehidrent56]

i forgot to be awesome last week... thanks for the reminder

[YTwatcherable]

Dean.... dont you think this is a little "Easier said than done". You may talking about the situation now but when you are confronting it, it may not be as easy as it may seem.

[TheQazman2116]

OMFG that looks just like hutch!!!!!!!!!!!

[Kiso1337]

I never forget to be awsum.

[SuperDjguy]

yeah tell my ex MOVE ON

[TijdTekort]

Why hasn't this guy more views? I mean I really learned a lot from both his furious character and this channel.

[elliesfreakingcool]

What about when you're cheating?

[GraphicAbility]

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS?

[MegaDude509]

explain women.

[rnedisc]

summary: BUILD A BRIDGE and GET OVER IT!!

[iHacksorzz]

@DeanLeysen How to get a Girlfriend? LOL, im having some bad luck so far. Gonna meet some girls this week through a friend, need some tips and pointers to help me out.

[FullBlown26]

there is plenty fish in the sea!!! she leaves u or w.e... her loss!

[Sneezlebob]

I deal with breakups using porn

[lmaofunnysheep]

@Sneezlebob i love you xD

[Sneezlebob]

@lmaofunnysheep I love you too

[MurtazaMessi]

BOOOYAAAHHH!!!

[weirdemails]

anyone know the name of the song at the end of the video?

[PerfectEnd13]

@weirdemails Its 'Waste of T.V' by Brad Sucks .... Its written in the end of the video too....

[thebimbettes]

DFTBA - Dont Forget To Be Awesome, best advice ever :D

[93Ryuki]

what is most better tink i need to tell on girl if i like her ?

P.S sorry for bad eng ;)

[appppppppple]

i tried dean's advice and i got some pussy :)

[merpzilla]

I never forget to be awesome *puts on shades*

[heyjeySigma]

@merpzilla ...until you remove them when it's nighttime

YEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!

[That0neguy01]

Hey man, Id still love to see a video on Marijuana. too few people realize its epicness

[seanc46]

We have all witnessed the smartest man on youtube.

Pro view on things at all times.

[xennelul]

How do I grow a beard?

[cafers]

@xennelul subscribe, like this video and follow @deanleysen on twitter...

pretty much how I got my beard #justsaying 

[DeanLeysen]

@cafers ^ this

[WolvesandFoxes]

u r awesome

[DRTMota]

VlogBrothers =D

[Kaularijis]

theres no peace in the end ;F

[THENEWSFAGASS]

Hey Dean ;) , i would like if u make a video 'bout how to resist a depresíon ;)

[THENEWSFAGASS]

@wannabeers omfg that is very very very very ooooooooooooold ... like ur dick :X

[Lithiumberry]

DFTBA :D

Dont forget to be awesome.

[NATEandtheMONKEY]

NERD FIGHTERS!

[punxoi90]

people brainwash from music and fashion

[Rafinhaa3]

do you mind if I start to tell people to not forget to be awesome?

[Killzor97]

You should explain self confidence

[sEweron]

Lemme answer that question from the title:

SWIFTLY!