Where I come from (England) I think tis the other way around. The straight acting guys are immediately labelled as cunts who are not comfortable with their sexuality, until proven otherwise :/
I'm a little feminine and I am attracted to and seem to attract masculine men. I'm also a total bottom. I just wish gays of all stripes will stop hating each other.
I hate when someone ask are you masc or fem? Or are you straight acting? I just say... I am Me! Take me as I am just as I am or not at all. In my view it's important to be YOUR True self. Think we often try to play to a type of role as people try to put us in. I am just Ty. Oh your crazy cute.
boy you preached..amazing video..you are very well spoken and articulate..you are the first video that I've seen on this issue that made sense..xoxoxo thank you
I agree. As an openly gay American Asian Indian man who is studying psychology and aspires to be a MFT (Marriage Family Therapist), I can certainly attest to all the things that you've stated. Sexuality is a continuum, and we all exist at specific spectrums of this continuum. The whole masculine-feminine polarity is ridiculous, and a construct of those who are merely insecure of themselves. All gay men are naturally more feminine than straight men--no matter how much we try to conceal it!
Awesome Speech. I have often seen fem men be dogged out because they are fem. I think the no fats no fem slogan is dumb as hell. I don't see anything wrong with a fem dude. FEminine men are human too. Masculine men are human too. There should be a problem messy gays not the feminine guys who are genuine and hard working. It should not just be a front to act straight.
This has less to do with identity than with affect, as certain ways of being queer are clearly privileged over others. The world's a stage and we are merely players. We play certain parts to ensure certain benefits.
Great speach! At one point you started to talk about "we have to attack the labels themselves, instead of attacking "being feminine" or "being masculine" " , but then you went into talking about those things..so i go back to the subject: Thinking what is masculine, or feminine is maybe just a box,or ideas..like masculine men could grow their hairs becouse god made us hair to grow and cutting our hair is artificial. But we think short hair is masculine and long hair is feminine for example.
Keep it masculine boys - I learned that a long time ago, you earn respect - on the other side, I only fuck feminene boys? go figure - total top gym rat this way in Phoenix Arizona who appreciates pretty boys.
Feminine gay's base there whole BEING on there sexuality. Instead of there sexuality being a small part of them, who they are is a small part of there sexuality. It adds to a bad stereotype that all guy gays act feminine because they want to be girls. There aren't any feminine straight guys to add to the contrary. They only help reenforce your "labels".
@MrSinister84 well dont u think they were born that way? just like u were born "straight acting"? I mean this is exactly the same thing as ppl say u "choose" to be gay. u think fem guyz want to be born gay so they can get picked on by homophobes and the "straight acting" gays? Grow the f up and learn to see life through other ppl's perspectives.
You can't choose who your attracted to, but you can choose how you act and carry yourself. Just like how homophobes choose to act homophobic or macho or were they born that way too? Or does your born that way argument not apply towards them? Sexuality can't be chosen but how you act is a personal choice. Its very hypocritical how you say that I should see life through other ppl's perspectives but you don't even take your own advise, look who really needs to grow the f up.
@MrSinister84 in fact there's scientific evidence which says what makes a person more likely to person liberal/ conservative which in turn makes them more or less open-minded and homophobic. so I can surely say that ur born w homophobic tendencies. also, it's fking absurd when u want to make ppl and urself to adhere to the gender norms about how men are supposed to act. even in the straight culture not all straight men act all manly and macho shit.
There is nothing about your arguments that have any bit of scientific evidence and only proves that you where born with hypocritical tendencies. Yes, in the straight culture not all straight men act all manly and macho, mainly the ones secure with there sexuality. But in the gay culture not all gay men act flamboyant and feminine. Or is there a double standard? The only fking absurd thing is that you think it's ok to add to a bad stereotype instead to try and disprove it.
@MrSinister84 why is their feminine behaviour bed stereotype?? What's wrong w femininity?? Straight acting gay men are pissed because they think that feminine gays make them look less of a man, which says that they want to be considered as "real" men, which proves that they are adhering to the gender norms of society and that they look down on femininity. Those norms are exactly the same as men are supposed to fk women, not suck cocks.
@MrSinister84 if gay men want to "normal" according to societal values, they should just tp being gay and start to fk pussies cuz thats what "real" men do right? Finally, the fact that u make a conscious effort to make urself behave in certain way when ur already a grown up men just prove how artificial and man-made u r as a person. I see ppl for what they, doesnt matter how they act. What im annoyed is when guyz like u have the audacity to accuse ppl of making u look bad by being themselves.
Don't put words in my mouth as I never said anything about "societal values" and that "gay men should just tp being gay and start to fk pussies". The fact that your "born this way" argument does not apply to homophobes and macho straight men only proves your hypocrisy. Or does it? The fact that you think it ok for gays and not straights to base there whole being and character as a person solely on there sexuality only proves your artificiality and reinforces a bad stereotype.
@MrSinister84 I dont understand why u still dont get it. Again nothing is wrong w acting femininely or being loud or whatever unless ur a bitch and all. the fact that u need society to believe ur still "men" even though ur gay just shows how insecure u r being a gay person. If u think fem gay guys are that annoying go to church and wish them to all die, then only ur "kind" will b on the media. happy?
Again I don't understand your double standard for how homophobes and straight macho men act is wrong but in the same argument about feminine gay's your response is that "they were born that way". Behavior is behavior, you can control it. Do you like the stereotype that all gay men are feminine and loud? Last time I checked all gay men where still "men" or should they act like women simply because they like men too? Good luck fueling and keeping a bad stereotype. Happy?
What a splendid video bro! I concur with the valid point that the world isn't just black and white; there is also a grey area which most people fall in on that spectrum. As a matter a fact most people are pyschologically androgynyous to a great extent because we see males assimilating some female attributes and females assimilating some male attributes. We live in a complex universe and there are so many answers that we have to seek for. Keep up the hard work!!
This video is awesome. I agree with everything you have said. I think that we all need to realize that people are who they are and that is all there is to it.
The rules that society pushes on us are just that rules pressed on us.
Though I dunno if the feminine alone can make the change.
Where I come from (England) I think tis the other way around. The straight acting guys are immediately labelled as cunts who are not comfortable with their sexuality, until proven otherwise :/
vjpillay11 2 weeks ago
I'm a little feminine and I am attracted to and seem to attract masculine men. I'm also a total bottom. I just wish gays of all stripes will stop hating each other.
phantomsuccour 1 month ago
I like your beard. You're hot. I want a boyfriend like you. Are you from Chicago?
Julyreign 1 month ago
LOOOOOOOOOOL at the Davey Wavey part.
TheAimanos 2 months ago
Woah! Nice video.
elm1230 3 months ago
I'm not attracted to feminine men, but I also don't judge them. Just not my cup of tea. If I wanted a woman I would date one.
smurfboywv 3 months ago
We are who we are. If we've more butch, fine. More fem? Whatevs. Live your life.
suvariboy 3 months ago
Great video, I agree with you. The masc vs. fem shit is dumb. Be yourself and shut the fuck up.
GetTheHook 3 months ago
awesome awesome video~ wise words and wonderful charisma :D danke
LLLeeeeeeeee 5 months ago
I hate when someone ask are you masc or fem? Or are you straight acting? I just say... I am Me! Take me as I am just as I am or not at all. In my view it's important to be YOUR True self. Think we often try to play to a type of role as people try to put us in. I am just Ty. Oh your crazy cute.
phoenix9ty 5 months ago
boy you preached..amazing video..you are very well spoken and articulate..you are the first video that I've seen on this issue that made sense..xoxoxo thank you
Trippleg1993 5 months ago
you are hot
death0note0owner08 5 months ago
I agree. As an openly gay American Asian Indian man who is studying psychology and aspires to be a MFT (Marriage Family Therapist), I can certainly attest to all the things that you've stated. Sexuality is a continuum, and we all exist at specific spectrums of this continuum. The whole masculine-feminine polarity is ridiculous, and a construct of those who are merely insecure of themselves. All gay men are naturally more feminine than straight men--no matter how much we try to conceal it!
AlvinAdhin82 6 months ago
Awesome Speech. I have often seen fem men be dogged out because they are fem. I think the no fats no fem slogan is dumb as hell. I don't see anything wrong with a fem dude. FEminine men are human too. Masculine men are human too. There should be a problem messy gays not the feminine guys who are genuine and hard working. It should not just be a front to act straight.
bradleysubershow 6 months ago
This has less to do with identity than with affect, as certain ways of being queer are clearly privileged over others. The world's a stage and we are merely players. We play certain parts to ensure certain benefits.
keturahchampion 8 months ago
aww cute :)
JoLeeRey 10 months ago
Great speach! At one point you started to talk about "we have to attack the labels themselves, instead of attacking "being feminine" or "being masculine" " , but then you went into talking about those things..so i go back to the subject: Thinking what is masculine, or feminine is maybe just a box,or ideas..like masculine men could grow their hairs becouse god made us hair to grow and cutting our hair is artificial. But we think short hair is masculine and long hair is feminine for example.
itsAndrogyn 11 months ago
Keep it masculine boys - I learned that a long time ago, you earn respect - on the other side, I only fuck feminene boys? go figure - total top gym rat this way in Phoenix Arizona who appreciates pretty boys.
robertamaya 1 year ago
@robertamaya pretending is ok?
newfish09 10 months ago
@robertamaya U missed the point entirely. I'm glad your gym-rattiness works out for you to. lol
eLboogi3 5 months ago
@eLboogi3
Feminine gay's base there whole BEING on there sexuality. Instead of there sexuality being a small part of them, who they are is a small part of there sexuality. It adds to a bad stereotype that all guy gays act feminine because they want to be girls. There aren't any feminine straight guys to add to the contrary. They only help reenforce your "labels".
MrSinister84 4 months ago
@MrSinister84 well dont u think they were born that way? just like u were born "straight acting"? I mean this is exactly the same thing as ppl say u "choose" to be gay. u think fem guyz want to be born gay so they can get picked on by homophobes and the "straight acting" gays? Grow the f up and learn to see life through other ppl's perspectives.
xtacee1990 4 months ago
@xtacee1990
You can't choose who your attracted to, but you can choose how you act and carry yourself. Just like how homophobes choose to act homophobic or macho or were they born that way too? Or does your born that way argument not apply towards them? Sexuality can't be chosen but how you act is a personal choice. Its very hypocritical how you say that I should see life through other ppl's perspectives but you don't even take your own advise, look who really needs to grow the f up.
MrSinister84 4 months ago
@MrSinister84 in fact there's scientific evidence which says what makes a person more likely to person liberal/ conservative which in turn makes them more or less open-minded and homophobic. so I can surely say that ur born w homophobic tendencies. also, it's fking absurd when u want to make ppl and urself to adhere to the gender norms about how men are supposed to act. even in the straight culture not all straight men act all manly and macho shit.
xtacee1990 4 months ago
@xtacee1990
There is nothing about your arguments that have any bit of scientific evidence and only proves that you where born with hypocritical tendencies. Yes, in the straight culture not all straight men act all manly and macho, mainly the ones secure with there sexuality. But in the gay culture not all gay men act flamboyant and feminine. Or is there a double standard? The only fking absurd thing is that you think it's ok to add to a bad stereotype instead to try and disprove it.
MrSinister84 4 months ago
@MrSinister84 why is their feminine behaviour bed stereotype?? What's wrong w femininity?? Straight acting gay men are pissed because they think that feminine gays make them look less of a man, which says that they want to be considered as "real" men, which proves that they are adhering to the gender norms of society and that they look down on femininity. Those norms are exactly the same as men are supposed to fk women, not suck cocks.
xtacee1990 4 months ago
@MrSinister84 if gay men want to "normal" according to societal values, they should just tp being gay and start to fk pussies cuz thats what "real" men do right? Finally, the fact that u make a conscious effort to make urself behave in certain way when ur already a grown up men just prove how artificial and man-made u r as a person. I see ppl for what they, doesnt matter how they act. What im annoyed is when guyz like u have the audacity to accuse ppl of making u look bad by being themselves.
xtacee1990 4 months ago
@xtacee1990
Don't put words in my mouth as I never said anything about "societal values" and that "gay men should just tp being gay and start to fk pussies". The fact that your "born this way" argument does not apply to homophobes and macho straight men only proves your hypocrisy. Or does it? The fact that you think it ok for gays and not straights to base there whole being and character as a person solely on there sexuality only proves your artificiality and reinforces a bad stereotype.
MrSinister84 4 months ago
@MrSinister84 I dont understand why u still dont get it. Again nothing is wrong w acting femininely or being loud or whatever unless ur a bitch and all. the fact that u need society to believe ur still "men" even though ur gay just shows how insecure u r being a gay person. If u think fem gay guys are that annoying go to church and wish them to all die, then only ur "kind" will b on the media. happy?
xtacee1990 4 months ago
@xtacee1990
Again I don't understand your double standard for how homophobes and straight macho men act is wrong but in the same argument about feminine gay's your response is that "they were born that way". Behavior is behavior, you can control it. Do you like the stereotype that all gay men are feminine and loud? Last time I checked all gay men where still "men" or should they act like women simply because they like men too? Good luck fueling and keeping a bad stereotype. Happy?
MrSinister84 4 months ago
What a splendid video bro! I concur with the valid point that the world isn't just black and white; there is also a grey area which most people fall in on that spectrum. As a matter a fact most people are pyschologically androgynyous to a great extent because we see males assimilating some female attributes and females assimilating some male attributes. We live in a complex universe and there are so many answers that we have to seek for. Keep up the hard work!!
dannyboyyy1000 1 year ago
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dannyboyyy1000 1 year ago
nahhh if i met a femenine guy.... i would totally fuck him if hes hot these are all fucken rumors... we all know that us gays go by looks
wilchesE 1 year ago
lol oh gosh hes so sexy , lol couldnt even understand the videoo ! hes so sexyy >.<!
SeenlyKevinn 1 year ago
yes
TheGoldensun16 1 year ago
i.totally.agree :]
LaPerdant 1 year ago
This video is awesome. I agree with everything you have said. I think that we all need to realize that people are who they are and that is all there is to it.
The rules that society pushes on us are just that rules pressed on us.
Though I dunno if the feminine alone can make the change.
ModernKami 1 year ago
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ModernKami 1 year ago