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  • what if they all jealous even my family??

  • My bestfriend is a girl nd I get jealous wen she's with other guys

  • @MrMrMike11

    Then that means you like her. It may not feel like it at first, but trust me. Same thing happened to me and I ended up falling for my bestfriend.

  • people which is not being good to u or wish bad for u are not ur friend, thats it.

  • I totally agree with dumping bad friends. Women friends tend to set up "traps". I am very shy and it's hard for me to meet guys, especially ones that would bother with someone like me. The friends I had were loud and would "claim" every guy in the room. So something as simple as a guy saying, "excuse me", to get by, would set them off as if I stold him already. They were the best! I'm glad I got rid of them or I'd still be in a slump.

  • How to deal wid jealous friends flush dem n brush dem outta ur life fast.

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  • i have jealous family memebers!!! they would say stuff like your to skinny etc. or try to say i have an eating disorder which is very serious. i don't have an disorder..im just small!!!! also they would get attitude with mr for no reason at all!!! O_o help!!!

  • trying to change their minds about you, you actually end up focusing on your success more and enjoy what you have accomplished..

    I have come across many weird and jealouse people in my life and in my experience I can honestly say that it always bites these people back without me having to do worry too much about it. So the best way to handle jealouse people is to ignore their remarks and behaivours by reminding yourself that you have EARNED your success.. And never try to sink to their level..

  • Very good video.. There is a truth in the things you said.. I recently experienced the side of being exposed to jealouse people whom I thought were friends.. It does hurt you a bit although you don´t want to show it and it confuses you not knowing where you have these jealous people in your life.. But my best advice is to ignore those people.. Even if it´s easier said than done, it is the best EFFECTIVE way.. By not waisting your energy on trying to wonder why they are jealous or even ....

  • cockblockers are fags

  • wtf you look like a rinasoros.

    i obviously cant spell

  • Exactly, I had this one friend that was a huge cock-blocker too bad his tactics failed.

  • Your input was excellent and it could not have been explained any better. Dump toxic people every chance you get.

  • cock blocker?:P bitch testing:S hate it!:P

  • how can ppl call sum1 they dnt lik a friend?????...69signup

  • I totally agree. Great advice. Thanks, Arkady.

  • Yasmeen04 is a rare breed, i swear only 10% of girls are like her, because from what I have seen, girls seem to find it attractive when their boyfriends friends diss their own boyfriend. This is ridiculous and a woman of quality wouldn't put up with it.

  • 1:38 lmfao

  • Yea, I get a lot of drama from my friends. Whenever i try a new hair style that really looks good on me they only have something bad to say. Everyday something or the way i dress is wrong in their eyes or ugly. i was like wtf is your problem. I never bring them down, and all they do is bring me down. Its hard to get rid of friends that you knew for a long time that you can trust but then i cant really trust them, and im not sure what to do? Someone help plz?

  • dont ask them for advice, and be honest with yourself and to them if you think they look good or bad, say so regardless of how they react to you wen you ask for opinions maybe theyll even come around and get over themselves! ;)

  • Seriously? those people are NOT your "friends." I can understand when a friend will take an occasional stab at making a joke out of you, it's all good humored fun. But constant repetition is wrong and shows how they don't value your feelings or your opinion.

    So in my opinion telling them a great big "FUCK OFF BITCHES! DON'T HATE, APPRECIATE!!!" would be the most appropriate thing to do and afterward walk away with your head held high and full of dignity.

  • omg!!! thats axactly how i feel and thats axactly what my friends do.!! today i had my hair curly instead of straight and i got TONS OF COMPLIMENTS! but what do u no as soon as i got to the lunch table my friend is like.... you no i llike ur hair down better.... how r u suppose to get a hair cut today when u have gel in ur hair?? (all negative) and im like.. umm. they wash it??.... and theres more but im running out of typing counts.. but its soo freakin annoying.. i dont no how to deal with it!

  • @oceanlover546

    Have you ever heard of the term "energy-vampires" ? =) .. just something for you to think about...

    Don´t let your friends control your emotions by trying to control your decitions.. You should trust your instincs and not feel the need of explaing yourself each time .. Just try to do your thing without having to relay on your friends acceptance.. I know we all want positive feedback every now and then but let it come from people you know are geniune.. Just trust your decitions.

  • That is what my friend did once, we were in the cafeteria & she laughed really loud and my crush and some of his friends looked at her like she was crazy. Then she said "Hahaha, I have a really loud laugh, every1 always look at me when I laugh", wtf?

    It was weird because she actually gets more attn then me *shrugs* Im quiet.

  • ye thts y i hate my bf's frendz

    all r disgusting

  • I agree completely :( not like my friends :'(

  • omg I'm a cockblocker and I didn't even notice...

  • lmao

  • Wow...

  • haha yeah so true..

  • SO TRUE !!!! I just got through a bad "friendship" with 2 girls ( I am female) who were so jealous. They ran interference at every step to keep me from dating this really cute guy. When they could not convince me that he was a bad person (just because he is handsome) they resorted to outright cruelty towards me. They would tell me that I was not pretty enough to go out with "a guy like that", though I know he was attracted to me. I dumped my "friends" and started dating the cute guy.

  • @autumnenergy thanks baby!! i glad u chose me over them PLAYA HATAS!! :D

  • @autumnenergy friends are more important then guys

  • @courtneygermany13 ofc friends are more important, but in this case, i would say : they are not your friends !!!! ;]

  • @autumnenergy Good girl , great personality :) i hope u are still dating him ;)

  • @autumnenergy girl thats why i have only boys as my friends ... the girls i know are all bitches .... -.- the ones who tried to stay closer to me just wanted flirt with my friends (boys), or where jealous about me and tried to fuck me up ... x]

  • @autumnenergy you are good looking?

  • yeah....who would want that kind of people in their lives?

    and the idiots who do keep them are pathetic because they must be liking that sort of friend drama.

  • a good friend would wanna kiss you..lol

  • you guys are very gay...lol just jorking

  • Let me tell you guys something' Jealousy will ruin a relationship faster than you can imagine. Unless' your guy or girl is cheating on you. You gots to trust one another in a relationship or forget it.

  • he makes a really good point here ..

  • that kind of thing happens to e alot. Last time took my man to visit a friend she bent over and put her ass in his face. Another time a different friend offered the guy I was inerested in a massage. She had her boyfriend with her at the time and he got upset too. WTF is wrong with ppl..

  • n him n my othr frnds were gona go 2 da movies wit each othr but didnt evn me so lke i was "lke wtf im da rreason u guys r frnds n u didnt invite me?" i didnt sed dat 2 them but dnt i hav a reason 2 be jealous? bcuz i didnt had frnds at all n i nvr ask frnds from him but now he wants 2 kno all my frnds we use 2 talk 2 each othr alot but now since he knos at least 3 of my frnds we dnt talk dat much so i feel lke im bein use so does dat make me still a bad frnd??? please reply any1 n tell me

  • hey dis is lke me n my othr frnd n i guess i realize im da bad frnd but i move 2 a new scool n be4 i didnt really hav dat much frnds but my old frnd wants 2 hav all my othr frnds bcuz he thinks "he doesnt hav dat much" so i gav him at least 2 da 1 grl dat is my best 1 but now idk if i lke her or not n som othr guy but me n my best frnd dat is da grl use 2 talk 2 each othr lke everyday but we r havin som problems n we hardly dnt talk anymore but i think she lkes my frnd better than me

  • man is hard to read your hand writing..... i wish i can help you but can't read it...

  • You just described one of my friend that is doing this, I hope he wil realize that hes a "awkward guy"

  • Ain't nothing worse than a cockblocker.

  • i got lots of those ppl on my ass

  • hey what about guys that are strangers, all the sudden go in between me and a woman like jerks?

  • hey i got a question i'm a guy and i'm nice, and polite and other stuff. but anyways how would a nice guy meet a girl or how to get a girl to like you?

  • U R awesome!!

  • You are very perceptive and a good speaker. I just got the realization about a person like you describe. Yes, I am getting rid of them. Now I know why.

    Thank you.

  • can i subscribe three times... cuz men... u awesome man...

  • cockblockers lol lol

  • im a jealous person i got so mad whenmy ex and close friends were hanging out i hated seeing my ex having such a good time with my buddy rather than me.. If anyone knows how i can get rid of my jealousy problems please message me

  • This is so true! I think it must be a part of the female psyche, because I have had friends I knew for decades that did this to me. When they think you get more attention they find a way to come in between your ability to develop relationships. It is sad but I am happier now that I found a new set of friends that try to introduce me to people and aren't insecure. Well at least so far, lol! Seriously, sometimes those you believe are loyal to you are the very ones hindering your love life.

  • can u plse read my comment 2 see if i am a bad frnd bcuz i feel lke i hav a reason 2 be jealous bcuz i feel lke im bein use

  • ... wtf seriously...

  • R u seriuz bout wat u be say'n no wah mean? i be like yeh hell no bcz ur frens be like yo trppn u no wah meen?

    Are you fuckin serious? I'm surprised you know how to type. Let alone use a computer.

  • Dude, it"s not like i have to write everything correctly like this. n does it really matter??? trust me i lke u 2 see da way my frnds type dey do it worse than me

  • You don't have to, but it really does help us to understand what problem your having.

  • ooo k then i guess i hav 2 type it again if i reallly want help

  • tbh dude friends aren't something you trade or lend, they should be able to choose if they wanna be friends with eachother and as their friend you shouldn't try to stop them. it's a bit unfair for them not to invite you to that thing but maybe that's cos you didn't want them to be friends

  • I'm not a ladies man, but sometimes I find myself in a covnersation where theres some flirting going on and my friend will be there and I say something and he has to make me look bad, i tell him to be my wingman but the guys fucking retarded, his sense of humor is not like everyone elses so things he thinks are funny fuck everthing up, it;s like he carrys the conversation as if were with friends and thats for a different time, he needs to learn that, I cant get any game around the guy.

  • If he makes you look like an idiot in front of a girl (which i did to my friend by accident and i feel like a jackass) you just play it off like its no big deal and don't get discouraged by the fact that he made you looks like an idiot. remember self-confidence!

  • I dont, i understand your situation and doing it on accident, but my friend has done it more than once and he thinks he's being funny or something, well self confidence isn't an issue, like i said I'm not a ladies man, but i do get into conversations where there is flirting and it just sucks te past few times my friends been there.

  • done and done!

  • wordddddddd cbers suck, esp if they kno they're getting nothing out of it

  • You are right dude. I had several CB loser friends I had to get rid of. Id take this guy out to meet with some girls I already know and there are plenty to go around. Instead of talking to her friends, he would spend most of the time interrupting me and mine. I think its because the guy is so insecure that they dont want to see even their own friend hook up. And sometime girls would second guess you because the now see you hanging around this loser. Now we only play pool together thats it.

  • I was making out with this girl at my friends party and he really liked her. I brought her to a bedroom and he came and yelled at me to get out (no the first time he has done that to me). Whenever girls are with us he always has to trash talk anybody but it also feels good getting the girl and having him get pissed off for all the things he has done to me.

  • "Flush" them lol

  • I know what ya mean, whenever I go clubbing/bars with two of my girlfriends and whenever I meet a cute guy, "all of a sudden, they "need" me and try to drag me away, or say they wanna leave and say im a bad friend cuz i ditch them for guys.

  • i hate ppl like that

  • True say.

  • I like when her guy friends get envolve and start messing with you. just cause your stepping on there cherry bush.

  • True. If you have a "friend" who throws salt in your game, they are not your friend. PISS ON 'EM!

  • Great video. I'd also add (from personal experience) that while female friends make great wingwomen, there are many that can be cockblockers too, so this is not limited to guys.

  • So true. I had a friend put me down for wanting to date a older guy that I like and he clearly liked me back. I no longer have contact with this guy b/c I was too stupid not to listen to everyone and i hardly ever talk to this friend. I know now when people discourage you from dating someone then they are usually jealous.

  • What about the friend who is both of those things? When he will encourage you to talk to girls and also leave you two alone plus say great things about you in front of them. And at the same time your friend is jealous that you are getting the attention and starts saying things like, "Why can't I be around both of you? Are you afraid I might steal her away?". What kind of friends says something like that?

  • from my opinion... those are two faced friends.

  • very well said. i just got into a controntation today with one of those jealous friends. unfornuately hes one of my roommates too. i dont think ill be able to stop being friends with him for now but i will keep my interaction with him at a minimum

  • I agree with you arkady39 and not with one of my friends. My friend's advice to me was "There's nothing wrong with a little competition." But I don't like it because friends don't compete with friends, there's hella other guys who are not friends already competing, and in the end ... it's up to the girl on who she want to get to know.

  • hate them c-ckblockers

  • LAWL!

  • wow I never saw it that way, thank you

  • woow man you are great congratulation

  • true true.. ive had such so called friends..they are not friends..they are jealous and have issues. they dont improve your life.

  • cheers!

  • THANK YOU SO MUCH, last night I was out with one of my friends and we were meeting up with 2 girls and I told him that I am interested in 1 of them and asked if he could be nice about it, he say okay. but... right when we are at the house I am about to site beside her he jumps in front and sits there then he tries flirting and trying to share blankets and getting her to give him back massages and other things, then at the end of the night he already knows im not happy and he braggs about it TYSM

  • what a friend eh...after you told him you were interested in that friend...damn

  • I know, but I took the advice and went to him about an hour ago and told him what he did wasn't right and if he wants to be my friend he has to be a friend

  • i wouldve rocked him

  • haha i did last week

  • but hes a friend that i like, i would confront him about that and see if he doesnt do that again, and then either lose him or keep him

  • Maybe there's a difference between a "friend" and a "wing man". Most of my friends aren't into pickup. They wouldn't understand those sorts of social dynamics. However, we have other things in common and there are other reasons why I'm friends with them.

  • me and my friends usually interfer in THE conversation and "trip" on that firend a little to play on his nerves a little... and then usually follows "nahhh... he's a [positive stuff]" =] i don't think that this "tactic" ever made us any negative infulence =]

  • I agree. Anybody who just ends up competing with their friends for a girls attention is no friend!

  • very wise. good friends make great wingmen, and that can lead to some beautiful adventures.

  • i had a "friend" like that who i no longer hang out with. my dating life has since improved. good advice!

  • thanks for the help

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