we are getting too disconnected. women are dressing for themselves not to attract the man anymore. black women come in all types. the weave in my opinion should go along with your genes. then it would look nice. we as black men would love that. we like you anyway or we wouldn't be so mad at you (in general) i know i love black women. this is coming from a dark skinned black man who's been put down in everyway. even if i find a white women it would be cause you guys perfer me.
black women in my opinion, not trying to be insulting, should either buy hair that fits so good you can't tell, or give up the wave altogether. #2 check you complexion. if you are real dark then wear the wave short and not straight. this would blend in and make you even more sexy. as a man i don't mind finding out it's a weave. i even, really think you're a women if i can't tell. then i say to myself. this is a women that knows how to do it. and please ladies, don't give up the natural.
correction from nothinelse2seehere to coppersulphate....at near the rate that blk chose women out of our race, and no i am not including latin chinese halfblkhalf something else 50/50 as blk becuz most mixed kids are from a blk man and othe race and the mother is the first nuturer so most mixed end up with other than blk mates if they will accept them.....
KWOA, I appreciate you feedback, probably the most instructive comment I have received. I plan on making some more videos on the subject, more detailed and thoughtful.
A wonderful, positive and uplifting video made by a well-spoken, intelligent and wise young brotha. However, what I did find interesting is that the BLACK MAN only needed 4 things to be a ‘Good Black Man: @0:40 [1] He is educated [2] Employed [3] Supportive [4] Has knowledge of self. But the BLACK WOMAN needed a LIST of things to be a ‘Good Black Woman’ so much so that I lost count! My young brotha, what is balanced... is FAIR. How about choosing just 4 things for the Good Black Woman?
Why is it that we always associate being good with material wealth?
Material wealth is only a tool that can either be used for good or bad purposes based on the type of person who has it.
The reason that i take issue with that is because, most importantly, we need fathers to be in the home or active in the childs life being a positive influence regardless of whether they have the resources that the Man controls (rich or poor).
I'm glade you did this and you made the vid sound so rational.
My friends male and female are always arguing the points and I'm always getting yelled at for being on the "men's" side. I agree with all the point you made I will be forwarding this off to them, and as I said before glade you made your points reasonable and realistic!!! :-)
Im surprised that you didnt address the Hip Hop culture where black men disrespect women and could be a reason why Black woman would not want a black man???
But other than that...I like all the other points that you made..and I am a black woman...who loves herself, respects herself and loves my natural body and wants a man to respect me for me
@coppersulphate002 Hip Hop music did not create the disconnect between black men and women, it simply expresses it. Yes, you are right, hip hop culture must be reformed. I truly appreciate you response, Coppersulphate (interesting name).
@catchphrayse Ummm Im not sure I agree with that part where you say Hip Hop expresses the disconnect between BW and BM..because if that's true...then you are saying that all black men think like that (women are bitches, sluts, baby momas etc etc) cause then you are contradicting yourself!
Hip hop is the only type of music in the world, that degrades women to such an unbelieveable degree...and absolutely it needs a reform! Because I would not associte with any man that has that hip hop..
@catchphrayse ..cont'd ....mentality. U know who need the greatest reform? Black men...they need to take back their place as leaders, fathers and good role models and what it means to be a real man. Hip Hop CLEARLY does not illustrate this! And unfortunately, BW are not going to sit around a wait for the perfect BM, they dating outside their race and I dont blame them....Too many times I see BW taking BS from these thugging black men.....
@coppersulphate002 I have not yet been to Canada. How much time have you spent in the states? Do you notice a difference between blacks here versus canada?
@catchphrayse I was in the states only for 1 month...I went to NC..yes there is a big difference...up here we have different cultures and different races living together...interracial dating is rapant here, and I never experienced racism. There those black people who complain about racial profile, but those who complain are the ones on welfare. Unfortunately I do not see alot of Black people taking advantage of the opportunities open to them......there's not alot of Black people in my field...
@coppersulphate002 all you black men up there mating out of your race is racism in itself, because you cant clean what i am about to say up, the white man has protected his woman and put her on a pedistal as the standard of beauty in her natural state, the black man has redboned and she got good hair for eons, the natural progression is that blk women hate their hair and men of other races dont chose blk women at near the rate blk men do, so u leave her to fend for herself, just the truth
It feels so good that, a black man like yourself can appreciate us black woman natural hair, because I was under the notion that you guys like weave, long hair. As for the part when you said that that women should take care of their men, from what I`ve seen throughout my entire life, BLACK WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN TAKIN CARE of their black men...but what about the reverse? Im surprised that you didnt address the Hip Hop culture where black men disrespect women and could be a reason why BW.
@coppersulphate002 My guess is that if black women, most of them being single mothers in the USA, did such a good job taking care of black boys, then black boys would grow into black men who take care of their wives, families, and responsibilities. Both parties are at fault--black men more so then women. What led you to my video in the first place, Ms. Sulphate?
This is Good Women,When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. "She is clothed with strength and dignity;"She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
We say in Ethiopia,A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, but a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones." Proverbs 12:4It is better to be living in an angle of the house-top, than with a bitter-tongued woman in a wide house." Proverbs 21:9 continual dropping on a rainy day and a contentious wife are alike, "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
One day Black men will grow up and stop being so petty about Black women, they dont like anyway. When are Black men, going to have enough Real Manhood, to address the Infliction of Abandonment, Black Men, give to their sons on an 80% level. STUPID PHUCKIN BLACK MEN, ARE A TRAGEDY, AND ALL THEY WORRY ABOUT IS THE BLACK WOMEN HAIRSTYLES, EVEN THOSE ARE SUPPOSEDLY INTELLIGENT ARE EXTREMELY STUPID LIKE THIS ONE
Black men, aint no one gonna chase or hold your ass, come into your real manhood, and deal with your low down fathers who abandoned your ass, in numbers to numerous to count. Black Women dont buy none of What he said. The Supreme Creator is Separating you from the majority of Black men. He wants you to stay in a Role, to pretend, You have not been the head of the Household. Yet many of them will tell you they had only their mamas, but they want to play pretend for my ego. Extinct yourself BM
@sharonanony you are clearly filled with hatred. There is no need to respond to your comments because people with commons sense will read them and see that you have psychological problems and thus I should not engage the demons that plague your mind.
@catchphrayse Well it is Said it is a Thin Line between Love and Hate. And Just because Black Men are to Immature, and refuse to Grow up and Address Black men about the 70-80% Abandonment Rate of other Black males developing. This Should Be your priority RAISE YOURSELVES. So More Black Men, not Black males are Available. Now when U prove that Males Dont massively Abandon there Sons, creating Hate and Genocide in massive genocide which is Real Hate. Then U accuse me of hate instead of Truth.
@sharonanony why don't black women ever want to take any type of responsibility for their side of the problem? Rather than plug your ears and shout that its all our fault? If you really want to know why the bad black men do what they do here it is. Its effective. If acting an ass getting gold chains rims and being an overall scum bag didn't attract black women (or all women at that) they wouldn't do it. Want to make us stop? Stop giving in so easily. In time things will change.
I loved your videos... my eyes were glued to my laptop. You are very articulate and to me you are a very rare find. Your views are beautiful and I could listen to them all day. You have inspired me ton continue my search for that very special rare black man that I know is awaiting me. Based on what I've seen from you via your videos you could compliment a good black woman very well.
You sound pretty cool man. I agree with a lot of what you said especially the chores thing, but I don't think these black women are wiling to give up their wigs and weaves, they might reply and say that black men should then give up getting a shape up/edge at the barbershop. I don't like those crazy hairstyles that look like bird nests, just something simple like some of Beyonce and Tyra Banks hairstyles.
we are getting too disconnected. women are dressing for themselves not to attract the man anymore. black women come in all types. the weave in my opinion should go along with your genes. then it would look nice. we as black men would love that. we like you anyway or we wouldn't be so mad at you (in general) i know i love black women. this is coming from a dark skinned black man who's been put down in everyway. even if i find a white women it would be cause you guys perfer me.
chebf123 2 months ago
black women in my opinion, not trying to be insulting, should either buy hair that fits so good you can't tell, or give up the wave altogether. #2 check you complexion. if you are real dark then wear the wave short and not straight. this would blend in and make you even more sexy. as a man i don't mind finding out it's a weave. i even, really think you're a women if i can't tell. then i say to myself. this is a women that knows how to do it. and please ladies, don't give up the natural.
chebf123 2 months ago
OMG u are so damn sexy!!! Sorry had to say it! Lol
piercedchicinpa 3 months ago
@piercedchicinpa :) Thank you
catchphrayse 3 months ago
correction from nothinelse2seehere to coppersulphate....at near the rate that blk chose women out of our race, and no i am not including latin chinese halfblkhalf something else 50/50 as blk becuz most mixed kids are from a blk man and othe race and the mother is the first nuturer so most mixed end up with other than blk mates if they will accept them.....
nothinelse2seehere1 4 months ago
KWOA, I appreciate you feedback, probably the most instructive comment I have received. I plan on making some more videos on the subject, more detailed and thoughtful.
catchphrayse 4 months ago
@catchphrayse I look forward to it :-)
KickWhitesOutAfrica 4 months ago
A wonderful, positive and uplifting video made by a well-spoken, intelligent and wise young brotha. However, what I did find interesting is that the BLACK MAN only needed 4 things to be a ‘Good Black Man: @0:40 [1] He is educated [2] Employed [3] Supportive [4] Has knowledge of self. But the BLACK WOMAN needed a LIST of things to be a ‘Good Black Woman’ so much so that I lost count! My young brotha, what is balanced... is FAIR. How about choosing just 4 things for the Good Black Woman?
KickWhitesOutAfrica 4 months ago
THEY BE ACTIN LIKE THEY TOO GOOD FOR SOMEBODY...
12345nit 4 months ago
I AGREE WITH YOU... ASIAN GIRLS BE ON THE SAME SHIT...
12345nit 7 months ago
@12345nit hahaha elaborate. What type of shit is that?
catchphrayse 4 months ago
@catchphrayse
Why is it that we always associate being good with material wealth?
Material wealth is only a tool that can either be used for good or bad purposes based on the type of person who has it.
The reason that i take issue with that is because, most importantly, we need fathers to be in the home or active in the childs life being a positive influence regardless of whether they have the resources that the Man controls (rich or poor).
Viperveteran 9 months ago
@Viperveteran I agree 100 percent. You are wise.
catchphrayse 4 months ago
Good video..Salam!
truegemmie 10 months ago
@truegemmie thank you
catchphrayse 4 months ago
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ellisbrittany81 10 months ago
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catchphrayse 4 months ago
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RoseanYoksi 1 year ago
This is a great vid!!!
I'm glade you did this and you made the vid sound so rational.
My friends male and female are always arguing the points and I'm always getting yelled at for being on the "men's" side. I agree with all the point you made I will be forwarding this off to them, and as I said before glade you made your points reasonable and realistic!!! :-)
SHENIE6184 1 year ago
@SHENIE6184 Thank you very much, I definitely appreciate the positive feedback.
catchphrayse 1 year ago
Im surprised that you didnt address the Hip Hop culture where black men disrespect women and could be a reason why Black woman would not want a black man???
But other than that...I like all the other points that you made..and I am a black woman...who loves herself, respects herself and loves my natural body and wants a man to respect me for me
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@coppersulphate002 Hip Hop music did not create the disconnect between black men and women, it simply expresses it. Yes, you are right, hip hop culture must be reformed. I truly appreciate you response, Coppersulphate (interesting name).
catchphrayse 1 year ago
@catchphrayse Ummm Im not sure I agree with that part where you say Hip Hop expresses the disconnect between BW and BM..because if that's true...then you are saying that all black men think like that (women are bitches, sluts, baby momas etc etc) cause then you are contradicting yourself!
Hip hop is the only type of music in the world, that degrades women to such an unbelieveable degree...and absolutely it needs a reform! Because I would not associte with any man that has that hip hop..
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@catchphrayse ..cont'd ....mentality. U know who need the greatest reform? Black men...they need to take back their place as leaders, fathers and good role models and what it means to be a real man. Hip Hop CLEARLY does not illustrate this! And unfortunately, BW are not going to sit around a wait for the perfect BM, they dating outside their race and I dont blame them....Too many times I see BW taking BS from these thugging black men.....
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@catchphrayse oh and thanks for the complement!!!...Im a biochemist...coppersulphate is a bright blue salt, used alot in chemistry labs...
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@coppersulphate002 I have not yet been to Canada. How much time have you spent in the states? Do you notice a difference between blacks here versus canada?
catchphrayse 1 year ago
@catchphrayse I was in the states only for 1 month...I went to NC..yes there is a big difference...up here we have different cultures and different races living together...interracial dating is rapant here, and I never experienced racism. There those black people who complain about racial profile, but those who complain are the ones on welfare. Unfortunately I do not see alot of Black people taking advantage of the opportunities open to them......there's not alot of Black people in my field...
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@coppersulphate002 all you black men up there mating out of your race is racism in itself, because you cant clean what i am about to say up, the white man has protected his woman and put her on a pedistal as the standard of beauty in her natural state, the black man has redboned and she got good hair for eons, the natural progression is that blk women hate their hair and men of other races dont chose blk women at near the rate blk men do, so u leave her to fend for herself, just the truth
nothinelse2seehere1 4 months ago
@nothinelse2seehere1 I agree! P.S Im a black woman
coppersulphate002 4 months ago
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coppersulphate002 1 year ago
It feels so good that, a black man like yourself can appreciate us black woman natural hair, because I was under the notion that you guys like weave, long hair. As for the part when you said that that women should take care of their men, from what I`ve seen throughout my entire life, BLACK WOMEN HAVE ALWAYS BEEN TAKIN CARE of their black men...but what about the reverse? Im surprised that you didnt address the Hip Hop culture where black men disrespect women and could be a reason why BW.
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
@coppersulphate002 My guess is that if black women, most of them being single mothers in the USA, did such a good job taking care of black boys, then black boys would grow into black men who take care of their wives, families, and responsibilities. Both parties are at fault--black men more so then women. What led you to my video in the first place, Ms. Sulphate?
catchphrayse 1 year ago
This is Good Women,When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. "She is clothed with strength and dignity;"She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
316JOHNLT 1 year ago
We say in Ethiopia,A worthy woman is the crown of her husband, but a disgraceful wife is as rottenness in his bones." Proverbs 12:4It is better to be living in an angle of the house-top, than with a bitter-tongued woman in a wide house." Proverbs 21:9 continual dropping on a rainy day and a contentious wife are alike, "A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
316JOHNLT 1 year ago
I would like to see you do a video addressed to black men. If you have one please direct me.
kungfujamesr 1 year ago
One day Black men will grow up and stop being so petty about Black women, they dont like anyway. When are Black men, going to have enough Real Manhood, to address the Infliction of Abandonment, Black Men, give to their sons on an 80% level. STUPID PHUCKIN BLACK MEN, ARE A TRAGEDY, AND ALL THEY WORRY ABOUT IS THE BLACK WOMEN HAIRSTYLES, EVEN THOSE ARE SUPPOSEDLY INTELLIGENT ARE EXTREMELY STUPID LIKE THIS ONE
sharonanony 1 year ago
Black men, aint no one gonna chase or hold your ass, come into your real manhood, and deal with your low down fathers who abandoned your ass, in numbers to numerous to count. Black Women dont buy none of What he said. The Supreme Creator is Separating you from the majority of Black men. He wants you to stay in a Role, to pretend, You have not been the head of the Household. Yet many of them will tell you they had only their mamas, but they want to play pretend for my ego. Extinct yourself BM
sharonanony 1 year ago
@sharonanony you are clearly filled with hatred. There is no need to respond to your comments because people with commons sense will read them and see that you have psychological problems and thus I should not engage the demons that plague your mind.
catchphrayse 1 year ago
@catchphrayse Well it is Said it is a Thin Line between Love and Hate. And Just because Black Men are to Immature, and refuse to Grow up and Address Black men about the 70-80% Abandonment Rate of other Black males developing. This Should Be your priority RAISE YOURSELVES. So More Black Men, not Black males are Available. Now when U prove that Males Dont massively Abandon there Sons, creating Hate and Genocide in massive genocide which is Real Hate. Then U accuse me of hate instead of Truth.
sharonanony 1 year ago
@sharonanony why don't black women ever want to take any type of responsibility for their side of the problem? Rather than plug your ears and shout that its all our fault? If you really want to know why the bad black men do what they do here it is. Its effective. If acting an ass getting gold chains rims and being an overall scum bag didn't attract black women (or all women at that) they wouldn't do it. Want to make us stop? Stop giving in so easily. In time things will change.
7thSwell 1 year ago
Utube The Quote we will Reveal our Identity with Asian and Africa Races.
then come back demanding all your secondary Demands, before race preservation.
sharonanony 1 year ago
We are not going to get anywhere if we keep putting down one another. That is the first lesson in order for us to progress.
kungfujamesr 1 year ago
@kungfujamesr great idea, I will get on it soon! thanks for the quality and candid feedback, I understand your perspective.
catchphrayse 1 year ago
i've always agreed to your opinion on a good black women.
stonefox787 2 years ago
Not going to see alot of drama on this video
Troo44 2 years ago
beautifully said
pumpkinkt18 2 years ago
I loved your videos... my eyes were glued to my laptop. You are very articulate and to me you are a very rare find. Your views are beautiful and I could listen to them all day. You have inspired me ton continue my search for that very special rare black man that I know is awaiting me. Based on what I've seen from you via your videos you could compliment a good black woman very well.
ssalgda 2 years ago
I like the vid but whats wrong with being in the army.
TRINIBOY411 2 years ago
nice!!!!!
rrrrmagic 2 years ago
You sound pretty cool man. I agree with a lot of what you said especially the chores thing, but I don't think these black women are wiling to give up their wigs and weaves, they might reply and say that black men should then give up getting a shape up/edge at the barbershop. I don't like those crazy hairstyles that look like bird nests, just something simple like some of Beyonce and Tyra Banks hairstyles.
ImdaHomie1 2 years ago