dis issssssssssssssssssssssss crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy whoaaaaaaaaaaa it's in a mans nature to protect and provide for the woman we all stuck in white supremacy beileve it or not dis shyt crazy
Bottom line, we can't have it both ways, on both sides of the spectrum. Relationships take work. We have to take time to nurture the relationships that we have....btw, you're pretty close to making the most sense that i've heard from anybody on this subject
I normally don’t comment on this type of video, but I do watch them from time to time. However, in your case I had to comment because I appreciate your transparency or honesty regarding this very sensitive topic. There was such a balance in your delivery concerning this touchy topic. I personally think you hit the nail on the head speaking from a woman’s point of view and addressing a man’s view point concerning his feelings in the matter. Thanks for sharing.
@jhood1919 what the Hell does that mean? Yet other races at least tried to be wivies & mothers. Which typically black american females are horrible wivies & mothers. I hate boss chicks. They're worthless in real life. I like soft, sweet & kind women that can cook. The only feminine "black" women that are sweet, kind & knows how to be wivies/mothers are "The Africans". Fuk boss chicks! I need an housewife.
Preach I wish women were independent in my area . Most of them try to have a nigga paying damn near everything. Then when you tell about theirselves they get mad . I love your videos. A good black woman like you with sense and pride is what these young girls need in their life
@UltraDOG17 I THINK ITS BECAUSE AFRICAN AMERICAN & LATINO WOMEN ARE THE LAST RACE TO BE INDEPENDENT. SO NOW ITS A BIG THING. EVERYONE IS A BOSS CHICK. WHICH I LOVE ,ITS JUST THAT FOR EVERY 1 BOSS CHICK IS 10 HOODRATS IN THE SAME ROOM.
To all decent, intelligence & hard-working brothers like me. Please leave these near worthless american black "thug chasers" females alone. They're not girlfriend/wife or let alone mother materal at all. Rest of these modern day black broads can't cook at all. Go interracial brothers. I did & haven't look back. i've approved this message. =)
@stones151 i love how black women say their independant but if you even metion going dutch on a date they get angry. they just don't show it and pretend to be ok with it.
hey, you're independant right?, so pay for your own shit and don't bitch if we don't pick up the check and offer to pay.
because a real independant women would pay for her own shit.
No black guy I know has asked for an Independent woman.How can you ask for independence yet want a mutual relationship? Black women whom think that way get that way on their own.
Neyo is a bitch. He's the one that wrote the lyrics to that Beyonce song "irreplaceable". He fucked it up for alot of men. On top of that, he wrote "Ms. Independent". Fuck that nigga. He's a mangina. No real man will support his music anyway.
OMFG a chic that gets it. This whole equality thing is exactly what I was trying to explain to my ex. Yes we are equal bc I loved and respect you, but as a man there are certain roles that I need to play in a relationship in order to continue being a man. Being in a relationship is like dancing. We both can't take the lead cause we'll end up stepping on each other's toes. It's great that black woman are strong-willed and independent, but let the man be a man if you want a lasting relationship.
you're the reason why BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! feeding into all these negative stereo types and focusing waay to much on being "a black woman" in america!! SHUT UP!! move on with your life! stop playing the race card!! thsi is probably why your SINGLE!
Number 1 reason why black women are single: Most of the black guys want a stupid woman that they can control and manipulate. Black guys always want to feel on top of everything like crazy. Most of black males are afraid of smart and wise women, specially if they're black. So like a lot of black women are smart and tend to get educated, black males reject them, as simple as it is. If you want a black male, just play stupid, spread your legs, cook and shut up. Im sorry I cant do this.
@marcus502414 Black guys are forever kids, even if they're grown ass. So basically, they're looking for their mother in a woman they can fuck. Oedipean Complex. As simple at it is. I understand you're looking for someone to cook and clean for you cuz you cant even carry yourself. And yet, you still want her to shut up and let you treat her like she's nothing... Only low self-esteem women can handle shitty situations and shitty men like that.
@marcus502414 that may be true but other women except that and embrace that about us that's the whole point so who is really missing out ??lol not the men...i like independent w. women
@Omniverse77 Put a hot dog in the microwave, even my best friend 5 yrs old kid can do that himself :) But I get it, you're a lazy man and probably you have no self-esteem so asking your chick to put a hot dog in the microwave make you feel better, like if you have the control over the situation. You handle the thing like a man. I see you.
@chumpalounka i meant cook something for once. you didn't get it. i'll simplify my jokes for you the next time since that's the only way you'll get them.
but i work and if i contribute or pay all the bills i'd at least want. what's wrong with cooking if i bring home the food and drink. but no, you black divas want nothing to do with "looking out" for your man because Cosmo and Oprah says so. because reality tv says it's stylish to not be a good wife..
@Omniverse77 Next time remind me I need to write ''sarcasm'' at the end of my comment so you will understand that I was being sarcastic just like you were boo. And for the food, I dont need no man to bring me food and pay my bills. I keep control over that cuz I work. So, like I work five days a week, at the end of my shift, I'm tired, so I'm not in the mood for cooking. I'm in the mood to lay down... So if you want to eat, get yourself a mutherfucking sandwich.
@chumpalounka Aint no problem with you working and being tired thats cool, but you get what you put in. You too tired to cook your man some food. Dont be mad when he get tired of that shit and finds a woman that has no problem with it. It just shows whats more important to u. Obviously keepin a happy relationship isn't priority. I just dont like when some women think like this but expect to keep a happy home. It just doesn't work.
@414Tario24 Reason why I dont date black men. I dont need that ego and that stereotypical relationships. White men have been educated differently and they dont care about sharing the home tasks. I'm willing to cook for my man if he's willing to cook for me too. I always do 50/50 in my relationships and actually it works. The 50's are over. Some men should understand that and get over it. Women work and are educated now. It's 2012. Elevate your mind, please.
@chumpalounka Never did I say you should cook all the time. Your twisting my words. The issue is why you guys are single. Not you personally, but this how many women think. I dont need no man for this or that. Thats cool but dont be mad when you dont have anything serious. Me and my girl are 50/50 also, but shes not focusing on what shes NOT gonna do, hence the attitude problem stereotype. Its always what your not gonna do. What are you willing to do is the issue.
@414Tario24 You got me wrong. I'm a positive woman by the way, I just don't give too much of myself if i'm dating someone that aint going to give much. I like to share and I like when my man is sharing too. That's just common sense. I love men but I need to feel on the same level. I'm a simple woman by the way, I never make drama scenes, I talk and I like a man that can express himself and not just turn his back and act like a kid. I love my man smart and self-confident that's it.
@414Tario24 And by the way you respond to me this time, I can tell your woman is a lucky one. Wow, you can cook and share, that's not really usual with black men :) I like that.
@chumpalounka Ok Maybe i do have you wrong, but I wasn't talking about you personally just many Blk women in general. The thing is alotta Blk women dont have those attributes you listed. Im not saying all blk women are the same, but the same way its rare to find a good blk man, its the same for the women. I'm not sure if that second part was genuine or if it was sarcasm, but I go to culinary art school, so I do most of the cooking anyway, and she does most of the other stuff lmao.
@chumpalounka you aren't gonna want to have sex or cook a nice meal for your boyfriend or husband?
damn, no wonder. i know as a women you hate sex put pretend to like it but you don't at least wanna put a hot dog in the microwave even if i buy the food?that's why i'm done with sisters. cause i like to eat and have sex.
@Omniverse77 I'm not going to speak for all the women, but as one, I love making the thing when is done right. Men always think that women enjoy it all the times. That's so not true by the way. Some men can't fuck and just because they ejaculate everytime they think their girl do too. It's so wrong. Most of the times, women be faking it just to please their man. You should read the facts. You'll realize that over 50% of women are sexually frustrated cuz men can't make us come.
@Omniverse77 We have a clitoris, maybe you noticed. nd most of the men think they dont need to stimulated that in order to please us. They think all they have to do is throw the dick in the hole. For u its simple like dat cuz u have a external organ but for us its much more complex then that. Reason why, majority of women, and not only ''sisters'' dont like having sex. We dont feel satisfy.
im a guy and I'm very happy to know that she understands because some of these female think they don't really need a man yet wonder why their lonely at the same time asking god why can't I find the right guy you cant do one thing then ask for something else your gonna be stick in a endless cycle nuff said
Rappers sing about independence in women because they want the woman's approval who will in turn buy the Album. Rappers are trying to make money , plain and simple. So don't believe everything you hear .
Black women are under a spell.... Why do women take those songs to heart? All songs are made these days to sell records.... Sad..... she realizes something that women of other races learn when they are 4.
I scrutinize my black women, this may be true. Just know some of us black men want to do for you with nothing in return but you and your faithfulness.. As beautiful as you are stop passing up the good men for the swagg kings and rich cheaters... If you show you are worth it I would get out on my feet and hustle everyday for you/us as im sure others will.. sincerely, a grown as man down in tx.
It's real baby. Not only that, but you have to be motivated and self assertive. And black women just don't put their foot on the clutch to that. You understand what I'm saying? And if they do have this feminist mentality that they doh't need a man. Then why do they get on the internet and every magazine complaining about it? What it is is, they have a dual personality that they just can't deal with. That's called being your own worst enemy.
I like Miss Independent. But the only problem is when becoming too independent. Means that she wants too much power, when the chips are down. You digg what I'm saying? The power to kick his "a" out if that happens. And she ain't gonna move in with him, that's out. You can forget about that! So he tilts his hat to the side, and says, "have a nice day!" Goes out and finds somebody who knows how to shake it like a white girl.
You're are right as rain. But along with that is, black women are too laid back. They always expect for the man to speak first, a lot of them never smile, they don't have a sense of humor. You'll never open up the flood gates like that baby. A man ain't even gonna speak, scared he's gonna get cussed out. So he keeps getting up. White women have a very silly sense of humor, smile all the time, and they always appear to be happy. That's the go signal you need.
@themejestic - and we are happy for you. For your information, alot of us black women don't really care if black men who like white women date and marry white women. Alot of you have it twisted and think that we are mad but we are not. There are still many black men who love the brown and we love them back. We are happy that you are happy where you are. Mr. Exclamation point. Actually, you are doing all a big favor by being true to yourself. At least you aren't dating white.....
... on the low while still trying to get with sisters but treat us with disrespect because of your own self-hatred so, I'll give you that. Stay where you are. We thank you.
@FIREFLY071 in glad you see what i see. i just had some bad BAD experiences with my ex ladies and i decided to say "well hey"! oh and sorry for the exclamations and at least im not dating a white...man?
Yes, lol... and that would be fine too if that tickled your fancy. Who you love is so very personal but hate, anger and fear should not be a component of it.
There are several types of Blacks. You have Working class, On their ass, Thugs, Gangsters, Entrepreneurs, Entertainers etc. Hip-Hop is now a sub-culture in which the unspoken rule is that women are less. Snoop said it best: "We don't love them hoes." & "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks." This mentality has bled over to mainstream media. As a result, it's unacceptable to be monogamous and loving. Getting Sex is like a sport where those who want a relationship are ridiculed. "Media Poison"
@TheCircleTriSquare For your information, we are not "always bitter". You sound ignorant. Black women have alot to contend with and noone can know what that is like unless you walk in our shoes. Society calls us out of our name and looks down on us in general but we are all not the same. many of us are sweet, sweeter than someone like you would ever know so keep that where? Back there! And I am a "dark berry" and am I sweet? Very!
@FIREFLY071 Truthfully the reason why men of all races generally don't want to marry or date a black women has nothing to do with "bad" behavior. That is nothing but an excuse. The reason is because these men do not want to reproduce with a black women because they don't want black kids. They believe black features are inferior and blacks are not quite human. They want their kids to look like them and having a black son is not what they want.
@PorkChopMissPiggy - I agree with your point of view but what I'm saying is that, if that is true then okay, do not reproduce with us if they feel that way. I can't knock someone for feeling like that because that is an upward battle to an endless fight. I'm saying, love us or leave us alone. Don't disrespect us on top of that. Our chldren are precious and beautful and special just like any other races' children.
And furthermore, racism is an ugly monster of the mind and I abhor it and anyone who thinks like that can stay away from me and my beautiful people and children.
the terrible thing about generalizations is that there are so many beautiful, loving, open-minded, color-blind, people who love for the sake of love and the children that they create are born from that love. I look at the world like that....
.... Ignorant thinking? It's all around us but I choose to love without the stereotypes and mind poison. My life has been amazing because of that train of thought. those who choose to think ike that, well... well, oh well.... but I know that I will not live and love within the constraints of FEAR. Fear is the real bottom line. I tip my hat to those black men and men of other races who embrace the beauty of my precious people.
Black, brown, yellow... we are beautiful and lovable. We are not like how we are represented on tv. Good mothers and faithful mates and intelligent, hard workers. Like I said, if a man doesn't see my beauty cool... but know that I do not think that I am inferior, ugly or not human because someone else may think so. That is sickness.
AND- I have a beautiful, intelligent, chocolate-brown black man who loves my nappy hair and my brown skin, my broad nose, full lips, intelligence, strength, vulnerability, carriage, opinions of myself, him, my people and the world AND loves my sense of independence. he respects me and I respect him. real love, Sisters, don't buy into the negativity. People want you to feel less than and unworthy but WE ARE NOT!!!
thank god for making more than one continent with black women. we out number whites 11 to one so i'm not limited to just the american black woman. come on jamaica, hati, dominican republic, puerto rico, brazil, AFRICA, black mexicans etc.
generally on point. but. neyo rights songs for women. not to reflect male attitudes about women. most black men, who understand women, would not place independence as a priority trait for a life long mate. b/c w/ independence comes alot of other qualities that undermine the union.
independent? i don't think that's it. by "independent" do you actually mean combative or confrontational. where does either of those fit in a relationship? black women try to "wear the pants" in a relationship. that's not gonna work. no real man with balls is gonna go for that.
I agree, many of these women already have children. I don't want a woman who already has a family made. I don't have a family made so why should I have to settle for someone who made their family already.
@AmberAuNaturel you're wrong...all of us love black women but black men will not put up with the garbage....black people need therapy and counseling, they bring too much toxic crap into new relationships thats why they still watch tyler perry and all that garbage.
@getyoasshome If I was wrong more Black women would not be single. I can not speak as a whole for Black women, but I do not understand why they bring BS into a new relationship, I mean it is a "brand new" start, but some Black women want to keep on bringing baggage from old relationships. And what I meant by my last comment was that most men (Men of the non-Black race) do not want to date a Black woman.
@AmberAuNaturel black people...some black people need it! but refuse to go..just like they refuse to go to the doctor. mental health is a huge issue...black people have more stress genetically than any other race of people due to the years of discrimination and racism..its a fact! black people regardless of economic status are still dying earlier and having more health complications.
@getyoasshome Well, you have to look at these Black couples.. Most of them are ghetto, just looking to fuck, or they aren't even really dating. So yeah, most Black people will not go to counseling...
@AmberAuNaturel maybe? shiiit if most black couples are only doing that they need to live with a counselor...i cant say most because i dont know all black people...i think that is a young person thing...im 30 i dont think like that.
@AmberAuNaturel yeah yall be trippin but i think that is because of society because you guys do not have as many issues as people my age that grew up in the crack era and hey day of gang culture...i grew up in the middle of the crack era and gang bangin and all the rodney king shit..but i will say you guys have 100 times the bombardment of images to keep you guys on one...shit is in fast forward for you guys so i could only imagine being 20 in this day and age.
She is spot on. Black women are over 75% single statistically because of: their attitude problems, they don't take care of themselves physically ( most), they are rude, promiscuous, uneducated. Sorry but its the facts. Accept it or not. Those that have accepted it and try to improve themselves like this woman in the video who is NOT AFRAID TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH , she will find a man while you self haters wont.
before webbie and neyo there was beyounce screaming that independent stuff, most black girl got the attutude, if you cant do nothing for me then keep it pushin, puting extra pressure on a brotha pocket, as long as we break yourselves she happy, its like she dont love a brotha jus the money
I do agree with you here somewhat. Many of BW have grown with this mentality of " I don't need help from anyone" because of past history with how we have been treated and left in the dust. But I also think it deals with a good number of a man's perspective on what "beauty" is and who is actually worth their time. I mean you still got a bunch of men wanting that "run way" or close to being a run way model looking woman. Well, from my perspective that has been what I have been seeing lately.
Black women have turned themselves against nature bottom line. Men are attracted to women and vice versa but black women have effectively thrown themselves off the face of the earth with their disoriented state of mind. Black women have made themselves ugly and effectively unwanted
Sorry, I I think you're wrong. White men/Black women marriages from 2000-2010 (according to the US Census Bureau) have 42% lower divorce rates than White/White marriages while Black men/White women marriages have divorce rates that are twice as high as White/White marriages.
THE PROBLEM IS NOT BLACK WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stats prove that Black women are WONDERFUL, maybe even ideal life partners.
I'm sorry sister, I think you have it wrong. However you're on the right track.
An Independent woman, is a woman who knows herself, and handles her business, and who doesn't mind picking up the tab or help out while on a date.
Most sisters conception of independence comes from a delusional state of mind, as you've stated in your vid. 'I don't need a man', which equates to loneliness, sex with many men, and often times multiple kids from the unions from multiple men.
I have another video concept for you : Why is it the black race ( men & women) would rather be defamatory towards their own culture, instead of uplifting one another? I'm looking to my right I see titles which are all created by black women: "One of the few black women who gets it" "Black women are so ugly" "why black women are undatable" and "black women stop fronting" ( the last two titles are both made by 1987jbaby, yes you!) cont...
@USNubia23 said [[ "Black women are so ugly" "why black women are undatable" and "black women stop fronting" ( the last two titles are both made by 1987jbaby, yes you!) cont..]]
First off, the obvious. People use provocative titles to get you to watch the vid. No doubt the "black women are so ugly vid" is about the bogus "scientific" test by a Japanese guy who "proved" that BW were unattractive. Etc. "Uplifting"? If there were no problems, there would be no reason to "uplift". Think about it.
@USNubia23 because in modern times, they have adhered a "black culture" steeped in libertine behavior which rejects family values, civility, decency, discipline and... self-respect. When you talk to a brother or sister who is miserable about these principles, they accuse you of trying to tell them what to do or, you have a lack of compassion for your people. Well keep doing what you're doing and see how well that works. After awhile the people trying to offer helpful advice SGAF.
@SirManUp Excuse you. I don't have a lack of compassion for my people, what I am tired of hearing is people in our own race bashing each other and pointing finger as oppose to creating a solution. That's what I have a problem with. I'm sick of this "Willie Lynch Syndrome" when will it stop?! we need to uplift each other. you have no clue about me to form any type of opinion, so u do u and allow me to speak "my truth" k , thanx.
@USNubia23 That was not an attack on you. Stop trying to play the persecuted, black, wannabe spiritual leader. My comments were in response to the initial question/statement you posed in your post regarding black infighting. The only way you resolve issues is to explore the problem through dialogue. I just feel that social liberalism has had many unintended consequences that pseudo-intellectuals and political hacks who claim to serve the interests of black folks would rather not discuss.
Please say some black women and stop referring to "us", b/c you can not place me in that category, nor can u categorize ALL black women. Each of us are different, and have our own set of standards we abide by. Thank you.
guys holler Independent so they cheap ass wont have to buy nothing. well I'll be dammed. Not I! no ma'am. black women are single b/c they put up w/ BullS_t , and once the right man come along she's been so hurt and scared, that she wouldn't even know a good man if he was staring her right in the face. PS. It's not a black issue , it's an insecurity issue.
Niggers fuck you nappy headed ho's, pass you around the block and leave. Thats your job....and too independent?? You niggers depend on welfare and food stamps each month so you can buy your chicken and go to the club..get a clue you dumb nigger
wtf u can talk chat shit...if a black girl is single,she gettin fuk everyday,even u... u get lay around the block,why u even put this up cuz u want offense the slut...ur right alot of pride,swallow more cock in ur mouth...when i met black girl they all gold digger...oh just shut the fuk up
She has had her fair share of cock I can tell. Are you good at sucking on a guy's cockblaster and letting the semen squirt out. You have amazing BJ lips.
@1521joe But, 99% of black women fit that stereotype. NO ONE ELSE DOES THAT. That is the reason why the facts speak for themselves. Black women are the largest group of single obese women in this country.
well, i ask you, what part of my comment did you agree or disagree with?
for the most part it boils down to personality, so if a Single woman, sits at home all day, is obese, that already puts off a lot of men. But, a single outgoing friendly woman, who looks after herself will find a man, no probs.
i agree and you look beautiful but loose the earings they look to bling and make you look like...your gonna be exactly what your saying you dont like... and dont start that nighmare about masculinity ;)
If you are out of balance, you can not revovle around anything neither can anything revolve around you. There is no such thing as independent. masculine and feminine can not exist apart from each other......the wisdom of djehuti.
Part 3-The 3rd Author -The Honorable Marcus Garvey, (17 August 1887 – 10 June 1940) a Jamaican publisher, journalist, entrepreneur, orator & leader of the Universal Negro Improvement Association, first African-American leader in American history to organize masses of people in a political movement.
Part 2-How much more would our children love the pursuit of knowledge if they knew that their ancestors created & passed down the very material that they are learning today?
The 1st book – Precolonial Black Africa – by Cheik Anta Diop,
The 2nd book – American Uprising; The Untold Story – by Daniel Rasmussen,
Part 1- How differently would our relationships with our women be if we knew that every great empire in ancient Africa was Matrilineal & Matriarchal (WOMEN)? That dynastic founders remembered only their mothers & their sisters, whose sacred names the sons & brothers took. How would we feel about our responsibility 2 rise up against tyranny & fight for freedom if we knew of the sacrifices made during the Slave Revolt of 1811, amongst many others?
*Gasp* DSL >o>
thecurse5038 54 minutes ago
Dude hes wrong, WHAT WORLD DOES SHE LIVE IN, Woman only want money. My wife is black but she pays her way... lol BUT A LOT OF BLACK WOMAN MONEY!
sonicmask 1 hour ago
dis issssssssssssssssssssssss crazyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy whoaaaaaaaaaaa it's in a mans nature to protect and provide for the woman we all stuck in white supremacy beileve it or not dis shyt crazy
mrcjdamac 19 hours ago
By the way...Are YOU single? ;-D
MrVdurrell 22 hours ago
Bottom line, we can't have it both ways, on both sides of the spectrum. Relationships take work. We have to take time to nurture the relationships that we have....btw, you're pretty close to making the most sense that i've heard from anybody on this subject
way ta go sista
MrVdurrell 22 hours ago
I normally don’t comment on this type of video, but I do watch them from time to time. However, in your case I had to comment because I appreciate your transparency or honesty regarding this very sensitive topic. There was such a balance in your delivery concerning this touchy topic. I personally think you hit the nail on the head speaking from a woman’s point of view and addressing a man’s view point concerning his feelings in the matter. Thanks for sharing.
brothersamuel100 1 day ago
@jhood1919 what the Hell does that mean? Yet other races at least tried to be wivies & mothers. Which typically black american females are horrible wivies & mothers. I hate boss chicks. They're worthless in real life. I like soft, sweet & kind women that can cook. The only feminine "black" women that are sweet, kind & knows how to be wivies/mothers are "The Africans". Fuk boss chicks! I need an housewife.
UltraDOG17 2 days ago
Preach I wish women were independent in my area . Most of them try to have a nigga paying damn near everything. Then when you tell about theirselves they get mad . I love your videos. A good black woman like you with sense and pride is what these young girls need in their life
jhood1919 2 days ago
@jhood1919
f*ck that independent chick sh*t.
let her ass be an old b*tch to see how "Independent" that she is.
I dare haven't heard no "white, asian, indian or etc nationality" of women be singing to be "independent" anytime soon...
I only seem to hear this ignorant crap "ONLY" coming from black american idiotic broads.
Man,
these modern black women nowadays is worthless as wives & mothers anyway.
UltraDOG17 2 days ago
@UltraDOG17 I THINK ITS BECAUSE AFRICAN AMERICAN & LATINO WOMEN ARE THE LAST RACE TO BE INDEPENDENT. SO NOW ITS A BIG THING. EVERYONE IS A BOSS CHICK. WHICH I LOVE ,ITS JUST THAT FOR EVERY 1 BOSS CHICK IS 10 HOODRATS IN THE SAME ROOM.
jhood1919 2 days ago
@UltraDOG17 u are so true. they are horrible
TheBleachwater 1 day ago
To all decent, intelligence & hard-working brothers like me. Please leave these near worthless american black "thug chasers" females alone. They're not girlfriend/wife or let alone mother materal at all. Rest of these modern day black broads can't cook at all. Go interracial brothers. I did & haven't look back. i've approved this message. =)
UltraDOG17 2 days ago
She said women swallow... GIGGITY!!
doeboyelsancho 2 days ago
oh good god, stop, dont make other videos. you are the reason black women are single.
stones151 2 days ago
@stones151 i love how black women say their independant but if you even metion going dutch on a date they get angry. they just don't show it and pretend to be ok with it.
hey, you're independant right?, so pay for your own shit and don't bitch if we don't pick up the check and offer to pay.
because a real independant women would pay for her own shit.
Omniverse77 2 days ago
Damn girl, those are some sexy lips
michael1922100 3 days ago
What's wrong with being single? For the record, I don't date black women PERIOD...my wife would get pissed
floatpool 3 days ago
i think bw are stupid and thats why
TheBleachwater 3 days ago
good video! You sound like a woman of wisdom. God bless the man who pays for your dinner!
jaket286 3 days ago
I think its more like Young Black Men listening to music written by other Young Black men singing about having relations with White Women
zachboi13 4 days ago
You Cant Let Rappers Speak For Every Guy Out Here... Thats Just Wat They Want. Nd To Be Honest Rappers DO NOT COMMIT!
jweezy216 4 days ago
the thing i hate the worst is paying a woman's bills or giving her money. i don't do it.
the girl of my dreams has her own apartment and no kids. like me.
Omniverse77 4 days ago
THE NUMBER 1 REASON BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE is because so many of you want money. yet wanna say you're independant.
Omniverse77 4 days ago
No black guy I know has asked for an Independent woman.How can you ask for independence yet want a mutual relationship? Black women whom think that way get that way on their own.
turnipdaisy 4 days ago
Neyo is a bitch. He's the one that wrote the lyrics to that Beyonce song "irreplaceable". He fucked it up for alot of men. On top of that, he wrote "Ms. Independent". Fuck that nigga. He's a mangina. No real man will support his music anyway.
damndisplace07 4 days ago
@damndisplace07 don't forget "single ladies". alot of men were forced to marry cause of that song. their women would threaten with ultimatum.
Omniverse77 2 days ago
OMFG a chic that gets it. This whole equality thing is exactly what I was trying to explain to my ex. Yes we are equal bc I loved and respect you, but as a man there are certain roles that I need to play in a relationship in order to continue being a man. Being in a relationship is like dancing. We both can't take the lead cause we'll end up stepping on each other's toes. It's great that black woman are strong-willed and independent, but let the man be a man if you want a lasting relationship.
OmegaSinister 5 days ago 2
you're the reason why BLACK WOMEN ARE SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! feeding into all these negative stereo types and focusing waay to much on being "a black woman" in america!! SHUT UP!! move on with your life! stop playing the race card!! thsi is probably why your SINGLE!
ddsapp721 5 days ago
You have nice eyes.
Rosktron 5 days ago
Number 1 reason why black women are single: Most of the black guys want a stupid woman that they can control and manipulate. Black guys always want to feel on top of everything like crazy. Most of black males are afraid of smart and wise women, specially if they're black. So like a lot of black women are smart and tend to get educated, black males reject them, as simple as it is. If you want a black male, just play stupid, spread your legs, cook and shut up. Im sorry I cant do this.
chumpalounka 6 days ago
@chumpalounka No we just need a woman in the house not another man/ women acting like a man..... its a ego kinda thing it reALLy is ....
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@marcus502414 Black guys are forever kids, even if they're grown ass. So basically, they're looking for their mother in a woman they can fuck. Oedipean Complex. As simple at it is. I understand you're looking for someone to cook and clean for you cuz you cant even carry yourself. And yet, you still want her to shut up and let you treat her like she's nothing... Only low self-esteem women can handle shitty situations and shitty men like that.
chumpalounka 6 days ago
@chumpalounka to women an irresponsible man is a man that doesn't listen to a woman or doesn't pay her bills.
Omniverse77 2 days ago
@marcus502414 that may be true but other women except that and embrace that about us that's the whole point so who is really missing out ??lol not the men...i like independent w. women
marcus502414 6 days ago
@chumpalounka most men don't care how smart a chick is or how much money she has. that's a female thing only.
we just want you to shut up, spread your legs and put a hot dog in the microwave every once in a while.
do that and we'll never cheat. don't do that and we will.
get it?
Omniverse77 4 days ago
@Omniverse77 Put a hot dog in the microwave, even my best friend 5 yrs old kid can do that himself :) But I get it, you're a lazy man and probably you have no self-esteem so asking your chick to put a hot dog in the microwave make you feel better, like if you have the control over the situation. You handle the thing like a man. I see you.
chumpalounka 4 days ago
@chumpalounka i meant cook something for once. you didn't get it. i'll simplify my jokes for you the next time since that's the only way you'll get them.
but i work and if i contribute or pay all the bills i'd at least want. what's wrong with cooking if i bring home the food and drink. but no, you black divas want nothing to do with "looking out" for your man because Cosmo and Oprah says so. because reality tv says it's stylish to not be a good wife..
f- off..
Omniverse77 4 days ago
@Omniverse77 Next time remind me I need to write ''sarcasm'' at the end of my comment so you will understand that I was being sarcastic just like you were boo. And for the food, I dont need no man to bring me food and pay my bills. I keep control over that cuz I work. So, like I work five days a week, at the end of my shift, I'm tired, so I'm not in the mood for cooking. I'm in the mood to lay down... So if you want to eat, get yourself a mutherfucking sandwich.
chumpalounka 4 days ago
@chumpalounka Aint no problem with you working and being tired thats cool, but you get what you put in. You too tired to cook your man some food. Dont be mad when he get tired of that shit and finds a woman that has no problem with it. It just shows whats more important to u. Obviously keepin a happy relationship isn't priority. I just dont like when some women think like this but expect to keep a happy home. It just doesn't work.
414Tario24 4 days ago
@414Tario24 Reason why I dont date black men. I dont need that ego and that stereotypical relationships. White men have been educated differently and they dont care about sharing the home tasks. I'm willing to cook for my man if he's willing to cook for me too. I always do 50/50 in my relationships and actually it works. The 50's are over. Some men should understand that and get over it. Women work and are educated now. It's 2012. Elevate your mind, please.
chumpalounka 4 days ago
@chumpalounka Never did I say you should cook all the time. Your twisting my words. The issue is why you guys are single. Not you personally, but this how many women think. I dont need no man for this or that. Thats cool but dont be mad when you dont have anything serious. Me and my girl are 50/50 also, but shes not focusing on what shes NOT gonna do, hence the attitude problem stereotype. Its always what your not gonna do. What are you willing to do is the issue.
414Tario24 4 days ago
@414Tario24 You got me wrong. I'm a positive woman by the way, I just don't give too much of myself if i'm dating someone that aint going to give much. I like to share and I like when my man is sharing too. That's just common sense. I love men but I need to feel on the same level. I'm a simple woman by the way, I never make drama scenes, I talk and I like a man that can express himself and not just turn his back and act like a kid. I love my man smart and self-confident that's it.
chumpalounka 2 days ago
@414Tario24 And by the way you respond to me this time, I can tell your woman is a lucky one. Wow, you can cook and share, that's not really usual with black men :) I like that.
chumpalounka 2 days ago
@chumpalounka Ok Maybe i do have you wrong, but I wasn't talking about you personally just many Blk women in general. The thing is alotta Blk women dont have those attributes you listed. Im not saying all blk women are the same, but the same way its rare to find a good blk man, its the same for the women. I'm not sure if that second part was genuine or if it was sarcasm, but I go to culinary art school, so I do most of the cooking anyway, and she does most of the other stuff lmao.
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@chumpalounka you aren't gonna want to have sex or cook a nice meal for your boyfriend or husband?
damn, no wonder. i know as a women you hate sex put pretend to like it but you don't at least wanna put a hot dog in the microwave even if i buy the food?that's why i'm done with sisters. cause i like to eat and have sex.
Omniverse77 3 days ago
@Omniverse77 I'm not going to speak for all the women, but as one, I love making the thing when is done right. Men always think that women enjoy it all the times. That's so not true by the way. Some men can't fuck and just because they ejaculate everytime they think their girl do too. It's so wrong. Most of the times, women be faking it just to please their man. You should read the facts. You'll realize that over 50% of women are sexually frustrated cuz men can't make us come.
chumpalounka 2 days ago
@Omniverse77 We have a clitoris, maybe you noticed. nd most of the men think they dont need to stimulated that in order to please us. They think all they have to do is throw the dick in the hole. For u its simple like dat cuz u have a external organ but for us its much more complex then that. Reason why, majority of women, and not only ''sisters'' dont like having sex. We dont feel satisfy.
chumpalounka 2 days ago
im a guy and I'm very happy to know that she understands because some of these female think they don't really need a man yet wonder why their lonely at the same time asking god why can't I find the right guy you cant do one thing then ask for something else your gonna be stick in a endless cycle nuff said
vexx4111 6 days ago
3 questions.
Were you driving while you made this video?
Is that a hookah in the backseat?
Ur #?
faustnightmare1 1 week ago
i hope you aint driving bitch .u cute tho
burr954 1 week ago
OMG!♥ ur toO fine
thDICTATOR 1 week ago
If you don't need men then don't try to date men. People are so stupid.
thethreefageteers 1 week ago
SO TRUE IM HAPPY IM MARRIED
prettypuffprincess 1 week ago in playlist More videos from 1987jbaby
You're frickin beautiful Queen
PACMonopoly 1 week ago
Rappers sing about independence in women because they want the woman's approval who will in turn buy the Album. Rappers are trying to make money , plain and simple. So don't believe everything you hear .
MrWARHAMMER68 1 week ago
apply what the Bible says about relationships and it will kill that problem.
cbmuzik 1 week ago
Black women are under a spell.... Why do women take those songs to heart? All songs are made these days to sell records.... Sad..... she realizes something that women of other races learn when they are 4.
pondirock 1 week ago
I do not know what you said... But... You are sure enough beautiful...
1armyag 1 week ago
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Hey sister, please check out some of my BHM videos when you have a few minutes- tanks so much and God bless
shieldsff 1 week ago
I don't want to scrutinize* I meant to say
karltonb3 2 weeks ago
I scrutinize my black women, this may be true. Just know some of us black men want to do for you with nothing in return but you and your faithfulness.. As beautiful as you are stop passing up the good men for the swagg kings and rich cheaters... If you show you are worth it I would get out on my feet and hustle everyday for you/us as im sure others will.. sincerely, a grown as man down in tx.
karltonb3 2 weeks ago
Wow this is spot on the mark
DamienNeverwinter 2 weeks ago
shes better i feel /watch?v=hROhGmwWdTA
stayswagedout 2 weeks ago
It may be a brain shortage with black woman.
1000hightower 2 weeks ago
I was about to comment specifically on those lovely lips, but you make wonderful points. Lips are lovely too
Demoniq 2 weeks ago
it is a more complex situation.... i think. peace!
rustigjazz 2 weeks ago
You focus WWAAAYYY to much on race,,,stop worrying so much about being a "single black woman' and just live your life..
ddsapp721 2 weeks ago
Preach!! This is the realist thing I've ever heard
sagittariusarrow 2 weeks ago
It's real baby. Not only that, but you have to be motivated and self assertive. And black women just don't put their foot on the clutch to that. You understand what I'm saying? And if they do have this feminist mentality that they doh't need a man. Then why do they get on the internet and every magazine complaining about it? What it is is, they have a dual personality that they just can't deal with. That's called being your own worst enemy.
bigtimer1254 2 weeks ago
I like Miss Independent. But the only problem is when becoming too independent. Means that she wants too much power, when the chips are down. You digg what I'm saying? The power to kick his "a" out if that happens. And she ain't gonna move in with him, that's out. You can forget about that! So he tilts his hat to the side, and says, "have a nice day!" Goes out and finds somebody who knows how to shake it like a white girl.
bigtimer1254 2 weeks ago
You're are right as rain. But along with that is, black women are too laid back. They always expect for the man to speak first, a lot of them never smile, they don't have a sense of humor. You'll never open up the flood gates like that baby. A man ain't even gonna speak, scared he's gonna get cussed out. So he keeps getting up. White women have a very silly sense of humor, smile all the time, and they always appear to be happy. That's the go signal you need.
bigtimer1254 2 weeks ago
@bigtimer1254 wow is this real?
Yasmeen718 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from 1987jbaby
whats why i married a white girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!
themejestic 2 weeks ago
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FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@themejestic - and we are happy for you. For your information, alot of us black women don't really care if black men who like white women date and marry white women. Alot of you have it twisted and think that we are mad but we are not. There are still many black men who love the brown and we love them back. We are happy that you are happy where you are. Mr. Exclamation point. Actually, you are doing all a big favor by being true to yourself. At least you aren't dating white.....
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
... on the low while still trying to get with sisters but treat us with disrespect because of your own self-hatred so, I'll give you that. Stay where you are. We thank you.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@FIREFLY071 in glad you see what i see. i just had some bad BAD experiences with my ex ladies and i decided to say "well hey"! oh and sorry for the exclamations and at least im not dating a white...man?
themejestic 2 weeks ago
Yes, lol... and that would be fine too if that tickled your fancy. Who you love is so very personal but hate, anger and fear should not be a component of it.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@FIREFLY071 strongly agreed!
themejestic 2 weeks ago
@1987jbaby Good Job Sister
DaBossOfDaGame 2 weeks ago
There are several types of Blacks. You have Working class, On their ass, Thugs, Gangsters, Entrepreneurs, Entertainers etc. Hip-Hop is now a sub-culture in which the unspoken rule is that women are less. Snoop said it best: "We don't love them hoes." & "Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks." This mentality has bled over to mainstream media. As a result, it's unacceptable to be monogamous and loving. Getting Sex is like a sport where those who want a relationship are ridiculed. "Media Poison"
DaBossOfDaGame 2 weeks ago
@DaBossOfDaGame I agree.
AmberAuNaturel 2 weeks ago
love your eyes
jfrost75 3 weeks ago
They say "the darker the berry the sweeter the juice" but they're always bitter... where is all the sweetness?
TheCircleTriSquare 3 weeks ago
@TheCircleTriSquare Thanks again. Yet another generalization.
AmberAuNaturel 2 weeks ago
@AmberAuNaturel - yes, that's the last thing we need.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@TheCircleTriSquare For your information, we are not "always bitter". You sound ignorant. Black women have alot to contend with and noone can know what that is like unless you walk in our shoes. Society calls us out of our name and looks down on us in general but we are all not the same. many of us are sweet, sweeter than someone like you would ever know so keep that where? Back there! And I am a "dark berry" and am I sweet? Very!
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@FIREFLY071 Truthfully the reason why men of all races generally don't want to marry or date a black women has nothing to do with "bad" behavior. That is nothing but an excuse. The reason is because these men do not want to reproduce with a black women because they don't want black kids. They believe black features are inferior and blacks are not quite human. They want their kids to look like them and having a black son is not what they want.
PorkChopMissPiggy 2 weeks ago 2
@PorkChopMissPiggy - I agree with your point of view but what I'm saying is that, if that is true then okay, do not reproduce with us if they feel that way. I can't knock someone for feeling like that because that is an upward battle to an endless fight. I'm saying, love us or leave us alone. Don't disrespect us on top of that. Our chldren are precious and beautful and special just like any other races' children.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
And furthermore, racism is an ugly monster of the mind and I abhor it and anyone who thinks like that can stay away from me and my beautiful people and children.
the terrible thing about generalizations is that there are so many beautiful, loving, open-minded, color-blind, people who love for the sake of love and the children that they create are born from that love. I look at the world like that....
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
.... Ignorant thinking? It's all around us but I choose to love without the stereotypes and mind poison. My life has been amazing because of that train of thought. those who choose to think ike that, well... well, oh well.... but I know that I will not live and love within the constraints of FEAR. Fear is the real bottom line. I tip my hat to those black men and men of other races who embrace the beauty of my precious people.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
Black, brown, yellow... we are beautiful and lovable. We are not like how we are represented on tv. Good mothers and faithful mates and intelligent, hard workers. Like I said, if a man doesn't see my beauty cool... but know that I do not think that I am inferior, ugly or not human because someone else may think so. That is sickness.
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
AND- I have a beautiful, intelligent, chocolate-brown black man who loves my nappy hair and my brown skin, my broad nose, full lips, intelligence, strength, vulnerability, carriage, opinions of myself, him, my people and the world AND loves my sense of independence. he respects me and I respect him. real love, Sisters, don't buy into the negativity. People want you to feel less than and unworthy but WE ARE NOT!!!
FIREFLY071 2 weeks ago
@FIREFLY071 I agree with that. I don't believe in being rude to people for no reason. Yes people should be left alone. Respect their space.
PorkChopMissPiggy 2 weeks ago
I like her speech inpediment.. its charming.
anth42789 3 weeks ago
DSfuckinL!!!!!!!!!!!
anth42789 3 weeks ago
thank god for making more than one continent with black women. we out number whites 11 to one so i'm not limited to just the american black woman. come on jamaica, hati, dominican republic, puerto rico, brazil, AFRICA, black mexicans etc.
los550 3 weeks ago
generally on point. but. neyo rights songs for women. not to reflect male attitudes about women. most black men, who understand women, would not place independence as a priority trait for a life long mate. b/c w/ independence comes alot of other qualities that undermine the union.
hypnosquirrel 3 weeks ago
.... Maybe men just dont like you .__.
BBoyRushRock201 3 weeks ago
This woman is not dumb! I know what she is really trying to say but she just have to let it all come out the smoothly!
Pride & Fear!
1. Having strong Pride against the wise!
2. Having strong Fear towards the foolish!
This mindset is what got the black culture torn down in the first place!
This subject (black culture) is very scary deep!
MegaWisdom77 3 weeks ago
independent? i don't think that's it. by "independent" do you actually mean combative or confrontational. where does either of those fit in a relationship? black women try to "wear the pants" in a relationship. that's not gonna work. no real man with balls is gonna go for that.
qkaaut1 3 weeks ago
Ahhhn, try again.
stylz1 3 weeks ago
I agree, many of these women already have children. I don't want a woman who already has a family made. I don't have a family made so why should I have to settle for someone who made their family already.
SouthernBadBoy2008 3 weeks ago
No, honey. You have got it all wrong. MOST MEN do not want Black women.. Please face the facts.. (This coming from a Black girl..)
AmberAuNaturel 3 weeks ago in playlist More videos from 1987jbaby
@AmberAuNaturel you're wrong...all of us love black women but black men will not put up with the garbage....black people need therapy and counseling, they bring too much toxic crap into new relationships thats why they still watch tyler perry and all that garbage.
getyoasshome 3 weeks ago
@getyoasshome If I was wrong more Black women would not be single. I can not speak as a whole for Black women, but I do not understand why they bring BS into a new relationship, I mean it is a "brand new" start, but some Black women want to keep on bringing baggage from old relationships. And what I meant by my last comment was that most men (Men of the non-Black race) do not want to date a Black woman.
AmberAuNaturel 3 weeks ago
@AmberAuNaturel well...lets go get some counseling...what is wrong with that? because apparently the stuff we been doing aint working..
getyoasshome 3 weeks ago
@getyoasshome What? "Lets get some counseling" who is "we"?
AmberAuNaturel 3 weeks ago
@AmberAuNaturel black people...some black people need it! but refuse to go..just like they refuse to go to the doctor. mental health is a huge issue...black people have more stress genetically than any other race of people due to the years of discrimination and racism..its a fact! black people regardless of economic status are still dying earlier and having more health complications.
getyoasshome 2 weeks ago
@getyoasshome Well, you have to look at these Black couples.. Most of them are ghetto, just looking to fuck, or they aren't even really dating. So yeah, most Black people will not go to counseling...
AmberAuNaturel 2 weeks ago
@AmberAuNaturel maybe? shiiit if most black couples are only doing that they need to live with a counselor...i cant say most because i dont know all black people...i think that is a young person thing...im 30 i dont think like that.
getyoasshome 2 weeks ago
@getyoasshome Lmfao. I'm just going by what I see. And yeah, I was referring to people more close to my age.. 20 and younger.
AmberAuNaturel 2 weeks ago
@AmberAuNaturel yeah yall be trippin but i think that is because of society because you guys do not have as many issues as people my age that grew up in the crack era and hey day of gang culture...i grew up in the middle of the crack era and gang bangin and all the rodney king shit..but i will say you guys have 100 times the bombardment of images to keep you guys on one...shit is in fast forward for you guys so i could only imagine being 20 in this day and age.
getyoasshome 2 weeks ago
Wait you forgot about the part that 78% of them already have children(s) when we meet them..that's a biggie for the long haul.
CoachG1000 3 weeks ago
@CoachG1000 I agree. You'd think they'd learn what condoms and birth control are. But no, they just keep irresponsibly poppin' 'em out.
Nightowl358 3 weeks ago
LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOUR STUPID................
SyCoDiKapprentice 4 weeks ago
She is spot on. Black women are over 75% single statistically because of: their attitude problems, they don't take care of themselves physically ( most), they are rude, promiscuous, uneducated. Sorry but its the facts. Accept it or not. Those that have accepted it and try to improve themselves like this woman in the video who is NOT AFRAID TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH , she will find a man while you self haters wont.
Barfetta3000 4 weeks ago
wille lynch letter
earlcanseetruth 4 weeks ago
before webbie and neyo there was beyounce screaming that independent stuff, most black girl got the attutude, if you cant do nothing for me then keep it pushin, puting extra pressure on a brotha pocket, as long as we break yourselves she happy, its like she dont love a brotha jus the money
kevlaan9 4 weeks ago
SHE LOOKS LIKE GARFIELD
LadyDeVonne33 4 weeks ago
you black bitches are single because your dumb, selfish whores who only want money
Theworldisyourz09 4 weeks ago
I'm a conservative... I don't have these problems.
SirManUp 4 weeks ago
I do agree with you here somewhat. Many of BW have grown with this mentality of " I don't need help from anyone" because of past history with how we have been treated and left in the dust. But I also think it deals with a good number of a man's perspective on what "beauty" is and who is actually worth their time. I mean you still got a bunch of men wanting that "run way" or close to being a run way model looking woman. Well, from my perspective that has been what I have been seeing lately.
MzNaja07 4 weeks ago
A lot of black women are singe because they look like Garfield too
Amrekaten 4 weeks ago
Black women have turned themselves against nature bottom line. Men are attracted to women and vice versa but black women have effectively thrown themselves off the face of the earth with their disoriented state of mind. Black women have made themselves ugly and effectively unwanted
Amrekaten 4 weeks ago
Sorry, I I think you're wrong. White men/Black women marriages from 2000-2010 (according to the US Census Bureau) have 42% lower divorce rates than White/White marriages while Black men/White women marriages have divorce rates that are twice as high as White/White marriages.
THE PROBLEM IS NOT BLACK WOMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stats prove that Black women are WONDERFUL, maybe even ideal life partners.
The problem lies....shall we say, elsewhere.
LucisFerre1 4 weeks ago
I'm sorry sister, I think you have it wrong. However you're on the right track.
An Independent woman, is a woman who knows herself, and handles her business, and who doesn't mind picking up the tab or help out while on a date.
Most sisters conception of independence comes from a delusional state of mind, as you've stated in your vid. 'I don't need a man', which equates to loneliness, sex with many men, and often times multiple kids from the unions from multiple men.
Most have life all wrong.
HannibalAnnihilator 4 weeks ago
I'm starting to believe u have self hatred towards you own race.People it's time for a change let's encourage instead of discourage. SMDH sad
USNubia23 4 weeks ago
I have another video concept for you : Why is it the black race ( men & women) would rather be defamatory towards their own culture, instead of uplifting one another? I'm looking to my right I see titles which are all created by black women: "One of the few black women who gets it" "Black women are so ugly" "why black women are undatable" and "black women stop fronting" ( the last two titles are both made by 1987jbaby, yes you!) cont...
USNubia23 4 weeks ago
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@USNubia23 said [[ "Black women are so ugly" "why black women are undatable" and "black women stop fronting" ( the last two titles are both made by 1987jbaby, yes you!) cont..]]
First off, the obvious. People use provocative titles to get you to watch the vid. No doubt the "black women are so ugly vid" is about the bogus "scientific" test by a Japanese guy who "proved" that BW were unattractive. Etc. "Uplifting"? If there were no problems, there would be no reason to "uplift". Think about it.
LucisFerre1 4 weeks ago
@USNubia23 because in modern times, they have adhered a "black culture" steeped in libertine behavior which rejects family values, civility, decency, discipline and... self-respect. When you talk to a brother or sister who is miserable about these principles, they accuse you of trying to tell them what to do or, you have a lack of compassion for your people. Well keep doing what you're doing and see how well that works. After awhile the people trying to offer helpful advice SGAF.
SirManUp 4 weeks ago
@SirManUp Excuse you. I don't have a lack of compassion for my people, what I am tired of hearing is people in our own race bashing each other and pointing finger as oppose to creating a solution. That's what I have a problem with. I'm sick of this "Willie Lynch Syndrome" when will it stop?! we need to uplift each other. you have no clue about me to form any type of opinion, so u do u and allow me to speak "my truth" k , thanx.
USNubia23 4 weeks ago
@USNubia23 That was not an attack on you. Stop trying to play the persecuted, black, wannabe spiritual leader. My comments were in response to the initial question/statement you posed in your post regarding black infighting. The only way you resolve issues is to explore the problem through dialogue. I just feel that social liberalism has had many unintended consequences that pseudo-intellectuals and political hacks who claim to serve the interests of black folks would rather not discuss.
SirManUp 4 weeks ago
@SirManUp Please stop in boxing me. thanx.
USNubia23 3 weeks ago
Please say some black women and stop referring to "us", b/c you can not place me in that category, nor can u categorize ALL black women. Each of us are different, and have our own set of standards we abide by. Thank you.
USNubia23 4 weeks ago
guys holler Independent so they cheap ass wont have to buy nothing. well I'll be dammed. Not I! no ma'am. black women are single b/c they put up w/ BullS_t , and once the right man come along she's been so hurt and scared, that she wouldn't even know a good man if he was staring her right in the face. PS. It's not a black issue , it's an insecurity issue.
USNubia23 4 weeks ago
she is bad. not bad bad but damn she fine bad
HustlevaniaEnt 4 weeks ago
She's super cute.
MishuTaste 1 month ago
wuz up with u so what about u
twinz966 1 month ago
I want to see the man she is supposedly dating. I have yet to hear her speak about any of her boyfriends
dustygrady 1 month ago
Niggers fuck you nappy headed ho's, pass you around the block and leave. Thats your job....and too independent?? You niggers depend on welfare and food stamps each month so you can buy your chicken and go to the club..get a clue you dumb nigger
physcoticnarcotic 1 month ago
U look like a fish.
krazieKs3 1 month ago
wtf u can talk chat shit...if a black girl is single,she gettin fuk everyday,even u... u get lay around the block,why u even put this up cuz u want offense the slut...ur right alot of pride,swallow more cock in ur mouth...when i met black girl they all gold digger...oh just shut the fuk up
binh25121985 1 month ago
I heard what she said . . . but i was too busy looking at her great lips. Damn. That's the kind of female that you just have to kiss all the time.
finisher3x 1 month ago
Can I ?
MrNomo7 1 month ago
There's nothing wrong with being single...
elpathner00 1 month ago
She has had her fair share of cock I can tell. Are you good at sucking on a guy's cockblaster and letting the semen squirt out. You have amazing BJ lips.
NuzratHussein 1 month ago
i feel you on that too independent mentality
d1rdyd 1 month ago
nice try, but its bullshit!
here is the real reason, why a "black woman" white woman, black guy, white guy is/ are single!
PERSONALITY!
THATS RIGHT, PERSONALITY!
The color of a mans/womans skin means nothing to nobody!
you a man that wants a woman, or you a woman that wants a man?
THEN YOU NEED TO HAVE A GOOD PERSONALITY!
PERIOD!
ne1 who says diffrent is either a liar, or Misinformed!
1521joe 1 month ago
@1521joe But, 99% of black women fit that stereotype. NO ONE ELSE DOES THAT. That is the reason why the facts speak for themselves. Black women are the largest group of single obese women in this country.
Barfetta3000 4 weeks ago
@Barfetta3000
hi
well, i ask you, what part of my comment did you agree or disagree with?
for the most part it boils down to personality, so if a Single woman, sits at home all day, is obese, that already puts off a lot of men. But, a single outgoing friendly woman, who looks after herself will find a man, no probs.
therfore personality is key:
1521joe 4 weeks ago
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i agree and you look beautiful but loose the earings they look to bling and make you look like...your gonna be exactly what your saying you dont like... and dont start that nighmare about masculinity ;)
erbalistful 1 month ago
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erbalistful 1 month ago
ure goregus by tha way ndd have eva had tht problem bfor with ah guy
tpeezyist 1 month ago
Long comments. Niggers.
WolfGangHooligan555 1 month ago
I'm not a black woman but I can relate.
choochootran91 1 month ago
If you are out of balance, you can not revovle around anything neither can anything revolve around you. There is no such thing as independent. masculine and feminine can not exist apart from each other......the wisdom of djehuti.
blackhumanity103 1 month ago
i thought because they are rude... but i'll take your word for it... you under educated person
20jandrews 1 month ago
Part 3-The 3rd Author -The Honorable Marcus Garvey, (17 August 1887 – 10 June 1940) a Jamaican publisher, journalist, entrepreneur, orator & leader of the Universal Negro Improvement Association, first African-American leader in American history to organize masses of people in a political movement.
Maxantium 1 month ago
Part 2-How much more would our children love the pursuit of knowledge if they knew that their ancestors created & passed down the very material that they are learning today?
The 1st book – Precolonial Black Africa – by Cheik Anta Diop,
The 2nd book – American Uprising; The Untold Story – by Daniel Rasmussen,
Maxantium 1 month ago
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Part 1- How differently would our relationships with our women be if we knew that every great empire in ancient Africa was Matrilineal & Matriarchal (WOMEN)? That dynastic founders remembered only their mothers & their sisters, whose sacred names the sons & brothers took. How would we feel about our responsibility 2 rise up against tyranny & fight for freedom if we knew of the sacrifices made during the Slave Revolt of 1811, amongst many others?
Maxantium 1 month ago
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Maxantium 1 month ago
mayne u fine =(
Narutodbz789 1 month ago