I randomly came across your video. Dont have any idea of who you are. I had to stop halfway thru bc I was tearing up! Xoxo best wishes to you and your boys
My brother just lost his wife in a car accident. She left him and 2 babies behind. he wrote this song for her, I've posted it as a video response. I hope that the song has meaning for you. Thanks
I got married and three days later we got told she had breast cancer, a lot of treatment later 18 months later she lost her battle after it spread so fast they could not keep up, she left twin girls of 13 and a son of 18, its never easy
@TURBORAPIST2 she was only 37 years old and now i have to bring up my 6 year old daughter on my own , im going to try my best , thanks for the video man its helped alot.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my fiance june of 2010. Check out my cover of In The Arms on my page..healing lyrics <3 Hope you are doing better as time has passed..wishing you well!
I commend you for your strength and your wisdom leading your children through your loss. There are Grieving Centers for Children around the country. I am a member of the National Alliance for Grieving Children; they will be able to find you a center close to you. Children need COMFORT, SUPPORT and an outlet to TALK about their grief. They need to see that they are not alone. Grieving centers for children do just that. God Bless you, know you are doing great w/ boys; ONE DAY AT A TIME.
I've been chronically ill for many years and a relative gave me a book called "Streams in the Desert" L.B. Cowman. It was very helpful and i shared a poem with family members who were grieving over my cousin. " Death does hide, But not divide; You are but on Christ's other side! You are with Christ, and Christ with me; In Christ united still are we." It's an abbreviated form of the original on pg 450.
my wife died 3 mos ago... brain cancer... she was only 47... very young and a great woman... is very hard to deal with her lost and some time my mind play tricks on me... some times the pain get better for a short period... but always find his way back to me... the crying do not stop.... I still miss my wife like the first day.... I guess time will make things better... but for right now I just have to deal with this the best way I can. One day at the time.
my wife died in her sleep june 26th no illness no signs of trouble just died next to me in her sleep. It sucks no chance to say any thing to her Tring to cope some days are better than than others Does it get any easier?
You live for your children but also to remember her, I don't believe in anything after this that's why I can't let go of life. I don't want to be without her, even if it is only a memory. There is nothing crueller than knowing I will inevitably pass away and forget and be forgotten, the only repose I have in that is that I shall not be aware of my lamentable state.
I live to remember and to keep that piece of her in our children alive.
thier are things your wife will leave for you to find like a feather or a penny.find out what she is putting for you to find. i know just how bad the pain can be i lost my son he was 8 i lost my big brother he was 22 i hope you have faith in god but find what she is leaving for you. if you need to talk pm me and i will give you my number only people that have lived with death understand the pain take care. and get you older son to cry as his father he should cry with you it will help both uf ya.
@pinkamber101 I feel the same, 27 years & two kids, I can't get passed it either, and at the same time I don't want to as I beleive it would feel wrong & by getting over her I would be doing her an injustice....just want her back.
my wife died 11/14/08...we had 15 tears that,once gone,felt more like the blink of an eye..God Bless You and your children. I do understand,though I know that doesnt really help....
Thanks singledadJG. I can't imagine what it would be like with kids left behind. My wife was killed January 18, 2009 crossing the street by a hit and run driver. He never went to jail and lost his license for a year, Heres hoping things get better for you and your boys.
Thanks for sharing...I can relate...lost my husband to cancer three years ago....have a 16 year old son and everything you mention is right on the money.......I am getting stronger every day......
hi .. my lifes a carbon copy .. two years on and i still feel lost ... my son still hurts and i feel so empty .. people dont understand you and trying to love again is so hard for me . i just dont know what to do anymore . 11 years of our life .. she died 28 years old of breast cancer ... i visit her grave hoping for answers ... its only the busy lifestyle that stops me hurting constantly .. they say time heels all wounds .. but it just feels like its getting worse ..
i lost my wife 3/19/10, 8 months ago. she died from an allergic reaction from her birth control in her sleep while i was in chicago. 500 miles away. i was an over the road trucker. she was only 27, we have 2 sons. my oldest is 6 my youngest is 2. my oldest son found her in her bed. ive come to terms w the fact that ill never get over it, i just learn to live w the pain knowin itll never completly go away.
my wife died last week 11-2-10. my situation is different than yours. my kid are 25 and 21. still i feel your pain. i never expected the loneliness to happen as fast as it did. she died at home. the second it happened i felt like i was on the moon. life will never be the same. thanks for sharing your story.
I wrote a lot of insightful stuff then realized I sounded like an idiot. Thank you for sharing. It gives me strength just to know Im not alone. One bit of advice, don't drink. It doesn't help. Makes it worse.
August 15, 2007? That was the day my baby girl was born:) This video came up in some random search. I am so sorry for what you went through. My worst fear is my husband's death and he's sick so I don't know when it's going to be. I am so scared. I am so sorry for your pain. I don't know how I'll deal with it when I lose him.
my heart goes out to you and your family. im a teenager myself (18) but if you ever need some an outside opinion for talking to your kids about anything, send me a pm. best of luck.
I randomly came across your video. Dont have any idea of who you are. I had to stop halfway thru bc I was tearing up! Xoxo best wishes to you and your boys
angieleshures 2 weeks ago
My brother just lost his wife in a car accident. She left him and 2 babies behind. he wrote this song for her, I've posted it as a video response. I hope that the song has meaning for you. Thanks
ShiraBrothers 3 weeks ago
I got married and three days later we got told she had breast cancer, a lot of treatment later 18 months later she lost her battle after it spread so fast they could not keep up, she left twin girls of 13 and a son of 18, its never easy
DataUK1972 1 month ago
what kind of caner did she have
penncentral100 1 month ago
my wife died 3 days ago of heart diesease and pnumonia, i feel empty and lost.......
TURBORAPIST2 1 month ago
@TURBORAPIST2 she was only 37 years old and now i have to bring up my 6 year old daughter on my own , im going to try my best , thanks for the video man its helped alot.
TURBORAPIST2 1 month ago
thank man i needed it
dutchthadon 1 month ago
sorry for your loss man
timberland1108 2 months ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my fiance june of 2010. Check out my cover of In The Arms on my page..healing lyrics <3 Hope you are doing better as time has passed..wishing you well!
katarinagiselle 2 months ago
I commend you for your strength and your wisdom leading your children through your loss. There are Grieving Centers for Children around the country. I am a member of the National Alliance for Grieving Children; they will be able to find you a center close to you. Children need COMFORT, SUPPORT and an outlet to TALK about their grief. They need to see that they are not alone. Grieving centers for children do just that. God Bless you, know you are doing great w/ boys; ONE DAY AT A TIME.
kimdpsinc 3 months ago
I've been chronically ill for many years and a relative gave me a book called "Streams in the Desert" L.B. Cowman. It was very helpful and i shared a poem with family members who were grieving over my cousin. " Death does hide, But not divide; You are but on Christ's other side! You are with Christ, and Christ with me; In Christ united still are we." It's an abbreviated form of the original on pg 450.
stanjz 3 months ago
get a gf
niceday799 4 months ago
I'm so sorry.. I can't imagine how lonely you must have felt in the world. It'll all seem okay with time.
breeonahaguilar7 4 months ago
My Ex Wife passed away on January 9 2011.
Its tough belive me, special with Thanksgiving and Christmas.
I'm sorry for your loss.
Yankeesfanforlife5 4 months ago
my wife died 3 mos ago... brain cancer... she was only 47... very young and a great woman... is very hard to deal with her lost and some time my mind play tricks on me... some times the pain get better for a short period... but always find his way back to me... the crying do not stop.... I still miss my wife like the first day.... I guess time will make things better... but for right now I just have to deal with this the best way I can. One day at the time.
1rousana 5 months ago
Thank you for making this video.
davidprush 5 months ago
my wife died in her sleep june 26th no illness no signs of trouble just died next to me in her sleep. It sucks no chance to say any thing to her Tring to cope some days are better than than others Does it get any easier?
frecklesdk 5 months ago
@frecklesdk only 47 years old what do i do now?
frecklesdk 5 months ago
You live for your children but also to remember her, I don't believe in anything after this that's why I can't let go of life. I don't want to be without her, even if it is only a memory. There is nothing crueller than knowing I will inevitably pass away and forget and be forgotten, the only repose I have in that is that I shall not be aware of my lamentable state.
I live to remember and to keep that piece of her in our children alive.
ImaginedWriter 6 months ago
thier are things your wife will leave for you to find like a feather or a penny.find out what she is putting for you to find. i know just how bad the pain can be i lost my son he was 8 i lost my big brother he was 22 i hope you have faith in god but find what she is leaving for you. if you need to talk pm me and i will give you my number only people that have lived with death understand the pain take care. and get you older son to cry as his father he should cry with you it will help both uf ya.
Adamcoleify 9 months ago
cant get past it we were together 27 years and now only want to be with her whatever the cost its not a life if she is not with me
pinkamber101 11 months ago
@pinkamber101 I feel the same, 27 years & two kids, I can't get passed it either, and at the same time I don't want to as I beleive it would feel wrong & by getting over her I would be doing her an injustice....just want her back.
Take care.
Eightbanger 9 months ago
Thanks JG.
....for saying that the pain doesn' t go away. It doesn't.....and I don't think it ever will. rip mej
bearovids 11 months ago
my wife died 11/14/08...we had 15 tears that,once gone,felt more like the blink of an eye..God Bless You and your children. I do understand,though I know that doesnt really help....
wildbastian 1 year ago
what he needs is a replacement. find him a replacement! LOL
Xytos 1 year ago
Thanks singledadJG. I can't imagine what it would be like with kids left behind. My wife was killed January 18, 2009 crossing the street by a hit and run driver. He never went to jail and lost his license for a year, Heres hoping things get better for you and your boys.
prozillaDOTcom 1 year ago
Thanks for sharing...I can relate...lost my husband to cancer three years ago....have a 16 year old son and everything you mention is right on the money.......I am getting stronger every day......
marymonalisa1 1 year ago
hi .. my lifes a carbon copy .. two years on and i still feel lost ... my son still hurts and i feel so empty .. people dont understand you and trying to love again is so hard for me . i just dont know what to do anymore . 11 years of our life .. she died 28 years old of breast cancer ... i visit her grave hoping for answers ... its only the busy lifestyle that stops me hurting constantly .. they say time heels all wounds .. but it just feels like its getting worse ..
derran1971 1 year ago
i lost my wife 3/19/10, 8 months ago. she died from an allergic reaction from her birth control in her sleep while i was in chicago. 500 miles away. i was an over the road trucker. she was only 27, we have 2 sons. my oldest is 6 my youngest is 2. my oldest son found her in her bed. ive come to terms w the fact that ill never get over it, i just learn to live w the pain knowin itll never completly go away.
ramblinman15906 1 year ago
my wife died last week 11-2-10. my situation is different than yours. my kid are 25 and 21. still i feel your pain. i never expected the loneliness to happen as fast as it did. she died at home. the second it happened i felt like i was on the moon. life will never be the same. thanks for sharing your story.
maziarz85 1 year ago
I wrote a lot of insightful stuff then realized I sounded like an idiot. Thank you for sharing. It gives me strength just to know Im not alone. One bit of advice, don't drink. It doesn't help. Makes it worse.
michaelmansuniv 1 year ago
August 15, 2007? That was the day my baby girl was born:) This video came up in some random search. I am so sorry for what you went through. My worst fear is my husband's death and he's sick so I don't know when it's going to be. I am so scared. I am so sorry for your pain. I don't know how I'll deal with it when I lose him.
vwbuggin 1 year ago
i lost my wife dec 17 2008.. cancer took her away from me and her son josef...
thanks so much for sharing...
nonosaturn 2 years ago
my heart goes out to you and your family. im a teenager myself (18) but if you ever need some an outside opinion for talking to your kids about anything, send me a pm. best of luck.
corkery12 2 years ago