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  • MY BOYFRIEND DIDNT PHYSICALLY CHEAT... HE TALKED TO OTHER GUYS ON FACEBOOK... NAD WHOULD SAY HE WAS SINGLE,ONE GUY HE SAY WAS LKE HIS BROTHER..BUT ONE DAY A FRIEND OF HIS GOT PISSED AND FOWARDED ME THE MESSAGES..AND HIS BROTHER WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM..SO I BROKE IT OFF..

  • I love this song Thanks Noonie for putting this here on youtube

  • fuck him...and fuck herrr...whrd....why her

  • you know what ?..fuck him and her..Karma is a FAT BITCH

  • This song hits home, why her wht does she do better tht i dont?? Its funny, cuz yu blowing me up trying to explaining to me, ion wanna hear it..

  • this is one of my fav song of monica's cause a few days ago im like really to the thing my guy had did but at the same tyme i think its krazii cause he tells me he loves me and im da only 1 for him but he going to tell me lies is something i cant handle so this is y i love this song and all i can say is......

    why her!!!!!!!!!

  • I'm having a hard time to forget him cause he still trying to deny that he cheated on me..

  • @arroyolei

    The Mind is strong

    The heart is weak.

    Not worth it at all.

    Break his legs to he cant run.

  • this is to a guy who i fell n love wit and keeps runnin in and out of my life to bak to his ex

  • I wonder why her all the time when i was the one by his side all this time,, sometimes i just wonder,,

  • This happened to me, shit hurts like hell..... :( but lets just hope karma has mercy on you like i did !!!

  • My Ex Cheated On Meh , I Did Every Thing For Him : ( . Bhut I Moved On ! Karma's Ah Bitch If He Though I Was Gonnn Run Back Too Himm (: Now I Found Meh Ah Tru One

    2/18/11 . I Love Yhu So Muchh Babyii <3 *

    Karma's Ah

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  • This song makes so much sense now... :( i will be alright.

  • And when you start to miss me, remember you were the one to let me go...

    

  • its sad to have tht shyt happen to you, but if it happend its for a reason, dnt let it get you down, get stronger and realize the SHE freed you of a bullshyt man, so tht her for takin tht bullshyt wit her.

  • Now he realize he left his 80% for the 20% now his stuck with a baby and cant have me back...

    

  • Mhm..this my theme song. One day he'll realize it was dumb to leave someone you love for someone you like.

  • you start to miss me but remember u let me go for her man why her

  • I LOVE THIS Monica!!! YOU ROCK!:)

  • Million dollar question. Why her?

  • u wrote me a letters telling me u love me aqnd wanna be wit me i knew those letters was a lie u always putting some female in front of me why her? wen im the one down for you wow

  • Song has me thinking!

  • Its been 5 months since we broke up and youve been in a relationship for 4 months? really? after everything, i stuck by your side through the military i gave up my life to be with you.. i gave your friend a message to give to you "i still loved you and missed you" and you didnt do anything you told him that you wouldnt date me right away and you didnt want to leave her. You actually put her before me. i cant help but wonder why her? if only you knew she already cheated on u i guess thats karma

  • You did what you did, it is what is </3...<3

  • i been in yo situation and asked the same thing and still cry .. i dk where you from but most niggas from detroit aint shxt

  • love it check out group 7/27 on ktrb90

  • my story isn't why her about the woman but, didn't why her but, its why did you not you treat me right instead? why why why did you push me away?

  • MONICA CAME WIT DIS SONG IS TRUE IM GOING TREW IT RITE NA

  • LOVE THE SONG

  • These are not the correct lyrics. The chorus say "I was thinking that the sex had your love. You never could get enough cause you know I kept it hot.

  • i dated a guyy , gave him everything . . accepted his child & stood by his side only for him to continuously mess w/ his babys mother in return i was crazy to think tht oneday he'll change thingss . , & this songs helps me through it all

  • OMG. My theme song right nw!!!

  • why her n u cum kick it wit me all tha time shited kick it wit her but i quess i got that good hell u mean i love u too it get greater later

  • You Gon Tell me you was serious about us , and then you say we have been done , so Confused But its ohkay it anit qon be nomo reruns of this episode ! 

  • aint gon be nomo reruns of this episode. all along fakin n frontin. WHATEVER! still dnt understand why her or wat i did i''ve been nothin but nice poured my heart out to yu and it still didnt help but again WHATEVER! cuz even thou yu hurt me i still wanna see yu happy even if it aint wit me cuzi ma stand strong babiii!!!!:):):):)

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  • iask myself this all the time! when ithink abt it ijus wna cry. .

  • I'm feeling this song,I'm in the same bout. "Why Her"

  • My bd played me bad and now that I am married and with a good man he wants to come back. I always asked myself why her and it didn't last! KARMA

  • girl you got me dizzy.

    

  • This song reminds me the first boy who i ever loved, but he broke my heart. We're still cool...but wish my heartbreak never had happen sometimes.

  • Love it

  • love it monica u have a wonderful voice

  • I can relate to this song. This is my ish,I was riding and had a break down just thinkin jus to let monica no, gurl u did and does yo thang when them vocals get to ringin.

  • On December 24,2006 at 8 o'clock in the morning, a young 14 year old boy by the name of Scott Jackson was found dead.Doctors couldn't come up with the cause of his death.His mother checked his emails to see if she could figure out what happened.Turns out he was still signed into myspace.She found he had gone to sleep after he read and didn't repost a chain letter.if you don't repost this to 6 videos a girl with no face will kill you tonight.

  • On December 24,2006 at 8 o'clock in the morning, a young 14 year old boy by the name of Scott Jackson was found dead.Doctors couldn't come up with the cause of his death.His mother checked his emails to see if she could figure out what happened.Turns out he was still signed into myspace.She found he had gone to sleep after he read and didn't repost a chain letter.if you don't repost this to 6 videos a girl with no face will kill you tonight.

  • Monica been keeping it real since 1995.

    How da hell dis CD didnt do better is one of the great mysteries.

    People need to wake up and recognise real music once again!

  • - sad . so i need help ! i been wit my ex for 1year & 8mths . we was haveN broke up bt still was low key tlkN .then he got a girlfrand . & they been together for bout a mth & 1/2 noww . i love hym with all my heart & i dnt knw watt to do bc i dnt think he wanna be wit me ; he does bt doen't like we still be fuckN bt he dnt want her to knw . - wat do i do ???

  • Its funny because last year I was thinking the same thing when my man (who I did anything and everything for) told me he cheated on me and was in love with both the other woman and I and that he didn't know which one he wanted to be with. Well now Im engaged to a wonderful man who loves me to death...As 4 the other girl, she thought it was cute messing with someone else's man. My ex ended up cheating on her and breaking her heart so yea Im happy it was her. Karma's a mother f*cker :-)

  • @saukengurl Yhu never cheated on him or anythinq like dhat ?

  • @ShawtyBaddd100 Lol actually yea I did, after he told me about the other female. But at the end of the day I felt like I was disrespecting myself and just broke away from it all to start new

  • @saukengurl I hear you on that one.!!! What goes around comes around. One day these men will learn. Im happy you found your love.!! Same happend to me. I was with a guy who cheated on me and kicked me out and moved some girl in with him . I found the love of my life and were engaged and have a baby girl on the way. !!! But shes the one who cheated on him so its still pretty funny

  • @melaniesexyawsome :-) I'm happy for you and congrats on your new baby girl!

  • for three weeks now that is the question i been asking myself

  • @19cambria ::trust me its best not to ask yourself the question just move on, the mistake we make sometimes is questioning something with no answer....it might not have been in your control.....trust me....

  • @sheedababy8990

    awwww thanx itshard though wen he is calling me

  • @19cambria you are welcome you can email me if you want to talk my email is rasheeda42@gmail.com

  • On December 24,2006 at 8 o'clock in the morning, a young 14 year old boy by the name of Scott Jackson was found dead.Doctors couldn't come up with the cause of his death.His mother checked his emails to see if she could figure out what happened.Turns out he was still signed into myspace.She found he had gone to sleep after he read and didn't repost a chain letter.if you don't repost this to 6 videos a girl with no face will kill you tonight.

  • i spent almost 7 years with a man who never knew my worth. i loved him so much i didnt even see the hurt he put me through. he cheated on me a first time i forgave and tried to work on it, he did a second time then i knew the dude didnt give a fu*k. Today i have moved on and have found out what i am worth. he cheated on me with this chick and she made his life a LIVING hell i know he wants to know WHY HER. lol

  • @BkzQt23 I know how you feel I was with mine for 8years but I honestly never would have throught he cheated on me. When i found out about the first one I found out about so many more after. I just felt so stupid he put me through so much hurt but I never saw it until now when i look back at things. I am happy you also have moved on its his lost.

  • I wrote on here a little over a year ago after I found out what my husband did to me. He now lives around the block from me and his kids with the girl he cheated on me with. He is not happy and I can see it in his eyes when he looks at me but he should have known she was not worth it. he lost me and his kids to be with someone and have to take care of her kid lol the joke is him. I am over it now and I am with some one very special now I can thank you Alex cause now i know what a good man is.

  • @Dyzire1 Everything happens for a reason. im glad u have moved on and found some1 who knows ure worth. he'll never ever ever be happy again!

  • @Dyzire1 im sorry that happen and he is only not happy because what goes around coomes around .

  • getingg annoyed that every video i go to wants you to like if your listening to it in 2011! THIS AIN FACEBOKK:)

  • y ? i wanna know the same thing ...y

  • dixx my shiddd

  • When God takes something away he is merely preparing us for something BETTER!! So u know what? U can have HER <3

  • I will always be better then his new girl ♥ i will always have him thinking DAMN I FUCKED UP.. i'm too beautiful too stress over a BOY when its million others..

  • i love song #tears

  • this is the realest song

  • got this cd from her and the boy is mine, after the storm...:D love her <3

    

  • This song reminds me of what my babydaddy just did to me,,, 

  • iguess his love wasnt strong enuff to turn down a piece of pussy..or maybe it was never love from the get go..to let a person sit there and treat yu wrong aint worth givin ur life to..get out of it while u still can.

  • The grass looks greener on the other side but i promise he'll be back tonight !!!! my favorite quote from this song (( : still listening in 2k11 !!!!

  • I still love this song to this day. Monica as an amazing voice. She is a very talented and beautiful woman.

  • Exactly. Why Her?

  • Tell me was she was worth it, to make you put her first and deceive me. u wanna come back but I gotta know y her? I thought she was all that? Then y u at my door? Now look at u, look at us, what's all this for? Hope u got the answers to my questions. Why her? This going to be the last time we say goodbye. Ain't going to be no reruns of this episode. u did what u did, it is what it is..

  • soo yhu found yhu someone its OK but baby remember WHO was there with yhu through thick & thin ... i always wondered why her but ima be just fine without yhu God will send me the right 1 tht can love me better than yhu!!! ~colee~

  • @n7796 I hope "the right one" can teach you how to spell. :) Just sayin'.

  • @n7796 I hope "the right one" can teach you how to spell. :) Just sayin'.

  • 29 people have some serious issues

  • that done happend to all of us us women have to b strong it hurt but we will neva kno

  • FUN FACT:THEY SAY THE SON WHO HAD UNFAITHFUL FATHERS ARE THE ONES TO MOST LIKELY BE A CHEATHER BUT DAUGHTERS NOT

  • THIS SONG IS REALLY GUD SHE SPEAKS TO QUESTIONS OF WOMENS ASKING WHY DID THAT BOY PICK HER OVER US BECAUSE HE TOO DUMB TO REALIZE HE HAD SUMTHING GOOD RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM BUT NOW ITS GONE...

  • LIKE IF U STILL LISTEN TO THIS SONG IN 2011

  • man this jam feels just like barbera mason and woman to woman all over again I just love it! this is what R n B is supposed to be like stories.

  • My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and everyday were together i always want to ask him why her?! It still hurts </3

  • My boyfriend cheated on me wit one of my friends n i always think why her?

  • i asked mi ex bf why her b/c he said it for his self i was da best he had bt he realized it to late now he has a bby on da way cuz he cheated on me.i still really do lov hym tho

  • i luv dis song and my girl monica she always kept it real 100%

  • Nice Creations 2 The video..

  • ....mann ii sooo love dhiiz sonq...how could a lil qurl like meh be iin love but ii think he jusz tuk my heart nd never qave iid baqk...DAMN II LOVE UU TOO MUCH II WANT TAH NEVA LOSE UU AQAIIN....MEH ND UU 4EVA 2QETHA

  • my girlfriend who just so happened to be BI cheated on me with another chick 4 weeks ago, so this song is just as relevant for me...

  • boys just like the chase. after chasing me for months i give this boy the time of day. he tried in the beginning then when i feel for him, he stop acting interested. :( i really started liking him then i found out he is still in love with his ex all the way in AR and we are in MS. but i was upset like why me? :(

  • MAINE THIS SONG IS OFF THA CHAIN NO LIE....

  • he says i love you, your my world and i hope you never forget that i want to be with you the rest of my life nd then 5 minutes later says your gunna be mad you ask why and he says i think ima date another grl byee. nd now he messagin you sayin i still love you. why aint you replyin., if only he knew you loved him with all your heart but it's okay cause i realized i can be me without himm.. let him have his happily ever after cause im donee. and this happened 10 minutes ago...:'(

  • uhm excuse bitch but your lyrics is off and they sooo slow.and DAMN GET THE WORDS RITE SHIT THIS IS A GOOD SONG AND YOU FUCKING IT UP!!!!!

  • uhm excuse bitch but you lyrics is off and they sooo..and DAMN GET THE WORDS RITE SHIT THIS IS A GOOD SONG AND YOU FUCKING IT UP!!!!!

  • Loves it!

  • I been wit dis nigha 2 yrs and he cheat on me wit his baby mama when she don even got his kid I take care ah her she don even see her wtf

  • 29 people sdont know what to do

  • bck then i was young but now im 21 to grow for games so sorrry u gots to go holla bye let her deal wit them lies lol wish u both good luck

  • I love this song cause my babydaddy left me for his ex girlfriend for 5 years i guess he miss her so much but we have a beautiful 5 months lil girl,she my heart & soul i guess i wasnt giving him his all.But they have a long story why he broke up with her to be with me,so i am going to keep my head up & keep it going & be strong for my lil girl....

  • @1222NOLAN babe stay strong fo yo girl shes qonna be yo most prized pocession and u just need to keep yo head up. ur better than that and your fo sho strong enough to give birth your strong enough to move on and fuck that skank ass and that niqqa fo realz:))

  • i did it all 4 dis nigga held him down 4 2 yrs. and lived with him thought he felt da same way but it seems like once another bitch cums around they 4 get wat they got at home then while they out doin dem they expect u 2 stay close and not move on bcuz they still want you and dont wanna c u wit another but yet dey out doin dem once dey cheat dell always cheat dnt blame yourself for his mistakes hold your head up and move on where he came from theres plenty more never settle for less den u give

  • i love dis song...he hates it...i think its because he dont really have answer as to WHY? CTFUUUUU...LISTENING TO IT AND HES MAD RIGHT NOW!

  • This song touch my I was holding a nigga down for 15 years while he was in prison just for him to get out and treat me like ish..It wouldn't hurt at much if we didn't have a child together that died that he never got to see...THE PAIN for him to mistreat me..

  • @jamroc1990 Sweetie you keep going and hold your head up....he is the missing out....and i am so very sorry about your baby....it's gonna get better i promise!!!!

  • @jamroc1990 im so srry to hear dhat damn dhat nigga needa get hiz act together liike really hpe yhu b owhkae

  • ladies what would you do in the case of a husband sleeping with a mutal friend for 11yrs of a 12yr marriage...yeah..i just found out....MEN...why in the hell would you do that?

  • @torimickelson68 it's going to be a hard thing to do but you should separate or get some REALLY good counseling .

  • @kykemommie22 don't worry girl it will never last and then he will come running home to yu and the kids. Just hold your head up sista your day will come God will send the right men to you have faith.

  • i loved dhs song speciall wen mii man left mehh for da uglest gurl but iht kool im over iht knw

  • love this song it make you think

  • I love this song

  • This is just like one of my relashion ships

  • HELL I IVE BEEN ASKING THE SAME QUESTION Y HER HELL I BEEN THERE 4 HIS ASS SINCE DAY ONE BUT ITS COOL LIKE SHE SAY THAT SHIT IS BUILT ON A LIE THEY WORLD WILL SOON CRUMBLE DOWN AND HE'LL REALIZE HE LOST A GREAT WOMAN

  • WHEN I GOT CHEATED ON I PLAYED THIS OVER AND OVER..... THAT SHIT WAS BUILT ON A LIE. SO IT WILL FALL....

  • WHEN I GOT CHEATED ON I PLAYED THIS OVER AND OVER.....

  • ->The Same Thinq' I Go Thru Every Other Month But Its Ok Now He 's Settled Down. I Dont Find Myself With AnyBody Else. Charles Wells <3 Has Always Had My Heart, I May Be Just 14 But I Never Felt This Way , I Just Want Every Chick To Know He's Mine. I Cant Keep Fiqhtinq And Beatinq' Dese Lil Chicks , Stressinq' Myself Over Him. But Its Love I Cant Help It. I Really Love Him Dude. And Another Thinq' This Sonq Is Like A National Thinq' Like Wat Was The Last Chick Worth , Forreal Doe ,

  • I got a sad story to tell 2. Me and my nigga been together for 2 1/2 years. You would think you know someone after 2 1/2 years!!! I did EVERYTHING for him. I gave to him when he didn't have a dime! Even helped him get into to school. Come to fine out, he got 4 other chicks he trick off on. Seen the photos of them all on the beach taking pics. I Couldn't believe my eyes. More pain than you could ever imagine. I realized through it all that the relationship wasn't called by God to being with.

  • SMH ; </3 Thisx Sonq Just Hit Me So Hardd .

    # Can't Stop The Tears.....

  • Thisx Sonq Meanss Sooo Muchh ; Me & ' My Boyfriend Been Toqether 6 Monthss & Closee To Our 1 Year Anniversary Of Knowonn Eachh Otherr ; We Went Out The First Day We Met , Thats Howw I Kneww He Hadd To Be Someone Different ; & ' 6 Months Straiqht I Was Thankinqq Godd For Himm ! He Treatedd Me Riqht , Brouqht Me Stuff W/Out Me Askinn , Takinn Me Places , For 6 Monthss Straiqht ! Thenn Just Yesterday .... He Was Startinn To Talkk To A Chick He Workss With , My Heart Is So Crushed Now He Doesnt Care

  • NIGGAS AINT SHIIT !

  • i LOVE the pictures that you have up here! <3

  • i know guys cheat and all but why it have to be the same girl? it makes us think yall want them and not us. damn, why cant keep yall dick and love to yourself until you met the one or yall gone hurt at the end

  • The grass looks greener on the otha side but I promise you'll be beck tonight

  • I ask my ex-boyfreind why her man i was with this dude for 1 1/2 and just decieded to up and leave me for some random chick that probally somebody that have been with everybody. shodd i have been hurt also and i mean at one point in time i just had give up on love because i was tired of gettin hurt.but i mean something hit me and told me not 2u give up and i didnt i kept looking and now i have found MR.RIGHT.,,!

  • Girl don't evev ask " why her" cuz if it aint her it's someone else. Men are pigs and will take whatever you throw at them. The only answer to this cheating epidemic is for women to value themselves and not allow a man to use them as side pussy.

    Sisters wake up and smell the coffee men cheat for sport.

  • why her cause she giving himm the shit so look at yourself not other people. Women do this sh... all the time them when it end up in there backyard they feelin it. A man is a hunter by nature. but know a days the women seem to be huntin men down even whhen they know he is married or livin with his girl.

  • I told my childhood friend that I loved him. His response: Go and get back together with his old girlfriend. Thanks, buddy. Really. I really fucking appreciate it.

  • @FlyingWolfWings dammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

  • dis my jamzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz­zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz­zzzzzzzz

  • i fell u kykemommie22

  • WHY HER??

  • this song got me in tears my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me then i found out and ended things but he stayed with her and all i kept thinking was why her and now they are no longer together and he trying to run back to me saying he wants to earn my trust back but im really hurting and don't want him to know im not over him i want him to hurt i just wish these men can feel what we feel cause us women take alot from men and they don't appreciate us

  • yea wwhy her ):

  • u missed half of the lyrics....

  • this song always make me wonder ..really why her ?

  • ppl make mistake

  • her song always speaks on how people relationships are

  • omg ms.lady dig dis why."her".

  • OMG! I remember , me & my EX , was on & off for the last couple days of our realtionship, so when we got off again , the next day , he was going w| his ex before me ! & i was tryna figure why her ? so then me & the girl had sooo much drama, then after that he brk eup w| her & now he messin' w| someone else .. & i am too(= but i can't get over him, for some reason..

  • @purplelovaa96 same thing w/ me and my ex :\ 

  • LOVE THIS SONG .....

  • myy songg

  • i luv this song it really help me get through the bull.....being transgender i ask this a thousand times.... he left then he woukld come back then the last time she got to keep him....

  • i luv this song

  • this song really its home cuse my babydaddy told me that he was single and dat he wanted to have a another child with me to come find out he was still wit the girl and she was havin his bby and we been together on and off foe 3 yrds and he pick that bitch

  • I needed this in my life. My man cheated and I caught him cause he was reckless and my woman instinct told me what was up. As much as it hurts I don't want to let go I want to keep fighting for it. But I'll end up on snapped if he fuk up again. So I think it's best that I let it go. Looks like another love TkO.

  • MY FAVORITE SONG

  • I found that as soon as you lower your standards, you end up getting hurt.A Friend of mine told me once that women are like apples on a tree, the best ones are the farthest up and the hardest to get. Guys usually go for the ones that are one the ground and easy to get. Over time, the right guy, will actually take the time to climb up to get the best apple. Now guys on the other hand, are like wine, it starts out as grapes and it takes a woman to stomp the shit out of it to get it to be good LOL

  • @DDSmeno so true

  • @DDSmeno lol ikr

  • @DDSmeno YES DAT IS SO FUCKIN TRU I FEEL EVERYTHINGG DAT U R SAYIN

  • all i knw is dat, my ex is now wit my bff. bt im done crying ovah him, even thoe he will always b my first love..., boys come nd go just like the weather does..

  • all i knw is dat, my ex is now wit my bff. bt im done crying ovah him, even thoe he will always b my first love...

  • This Song Still Makess ME Think ! All Thatt Shitt We Den Been Through Andd You Justt GONE UP AND CHEAT ! Andd When i Askk Why You Havee No Answer !

  • this song is gettin me through right now!! gotta love monica

  • it is what it is...yup i remember this song and the crap i was goin thru then with my son's "sperm donor"...now its all good cuz imma single mother to a beautiful little boy and we are living a wonderful life!!

  • since everyone wants to criticize me about my comment, im deleting it

  • this song is just the truth, every single word. that's why i love Monica's music, she tells is the way it really is.

  • i dnt understand y wen a boy says he love u bt really dnt mean it. dnt say it just b/c i said it. den u got me thinkin on sumthing else. Why her??? i thought i was the one

  • i had my heart broken alot nd i gave up on love but i found someone nd im scared to trust him i mean hes a gud one hes very respectful,nd care for me but im scared to open the love door i jus stop believing in love, wat should i do

  • When I went through this... I wanted to cry but I jus let Monica sing it for me. REPEATx2 !