How to Deal With a Breakup : Dealing With a Breakup: Depression

[asbanawazza]

good idea ... go from "sad" 2 addicted 2 diazepine ... why not eroine ?

[TheBMAN541]

Honestly when my gf broke up with me. I felt like crying up a storm. Because i love her so much. But honestly I felt good when i was thinking it wasn't the end for me. I new what I did wrong and now I'm fixing my mistakes. I was afraid of being lonely now , that fear just left the building. I feel good and happy. It was my fault. I wont do the same mistake again :D.

[jbjane123]

My boyfriend broke up with me because of many reasons ( we live far apart and he wanted to be single), and it just feels like anything can set me off right now, someone mentioning something, a song, photos, etc. i just can't stop thinking about him. He looked after me and now i feel so empty and upset. I just want to be looked after.

[TheBMAN541]

@jbjane123 It wasn't meant to be then. No offense. true love linches on and just because you cant see love in the air doesn't mean you cant feel it. And there's always going to be someone out there for you. I grantee you that :D. just never lose hope and move on.

[XamoebabrainX]

@SuperHeyhey3 no one here can feel what you're feeling because we aren't you. but i know i've felt something like that before and it's numbing and deep and painful. you have let someone see a vulverable side of you and it didn't work out that way you expected. you feel like a failure because you trusted someone and they let you down. you know what i say to that? fuck that person. YOU still kick ass. plus, there is ALWAYS someone hotter. depression free for 5 years.

[fffffffffff31]

@SuperHeyhey3 i wish i could help you, just think positive, i promise you later in your life ur gonna find someone who truly loves you, and ur gonna look back and be like" why did i cry over that"?

[hexkwondo]

Man that is exactly how I am feeling right now... sigh.. I hope this feeling goes away soon,

[Aniekxii]

my boyfriend & i broke up last night, im young and in highschool ... we were friends before we started going out and when the whole school seemed to hate me he was there for me... he heard from his friends [as well as mine] that i was cheating on him and that i cut myself. we had an argument, and just as i thought we had worked it out he called me up at 10 at night and said "i dont kno how to say this, but fuck it its over" and told me not to speak to him at school or anything ... advice anyone?

[pierneus]

@Aniekxii I've gone through the same shit with my girlfriend, you should give him some time to steam off anger (1 month is good), then call him and and tell him how much you missed him. If he really loves you, he'll get over it. Good luck

[Aniekxii]

@pierneus well, im going to respect what he said and "not talk to him anymore". we all hang out in the same group, so i am forced to see him everyday [i mean its not like i am going to ditch all my friends just because he is there]. its been a month, and he still talks bad about me, cusses at me in hawaiian, and the most we have spoken since was about 2 words when he said "fuck you". he broke up with me, so i dont know why hes still being an ass about everything.

[pierneus]

@Aniekxii This way it's more difficult for him to realize wether or not he still loves you. You should avoid him for a while. It's bad that all of your friends are in common. You should try to stay away from him for a while. Well, at least that was my experience with my girlfriend, who by the way dumped me just yesterday after we had gotten back together. Sometimes it's just destiny...relationships end and we must deal with the pain.

[Aniekxii]

@pierneus yea, well cross my fingers, i hope hes moving, because i'm sure he doesnt love me. he kinda made that clear when he said the only reason he went out with me was because i was nice eye candy, and i had a nice bod. to top it all off, i cant stop thinking about my OTHER ex, who i know for a fact i am not going to date again [we had a habit of making each other feel bad and getting back at each other for stupid things]. im sorry to hear about yu and yur girlfriend. best of luck (:

[CaNxYuxDaNcE]

it is better now, finally, i realized how stupid i made myself look by crying and not getting over that, i thought i would neverrr get over it and i did am im so happy i did

[Spa9hettipig]

Hey, can someone help me? My girlfriend left me just over a month ago and i am still kinda confused why. She originaly said we would definatly get back together, but then denied it and wanted to get with some one else the day after our break. I still really, really like her but what do i do??

[paralyzer1111]

@Spa9hettipig Hi, I don't know if it's too late to answer. My question is would you really want to know? would it mattter? do you actually want to hear it? as in "oh sorry, I'm just not into you or not attracted to you anymore" for closure i guess you could ask. But plz don't get back together, you could find another who deserves you and not play mind games, like that. My bf of 3 weeks (Lol) broke up with a text saying he's not ready, and it actually hurts cause I liked him a lot.

[CaNxYuxDaNcE]

helpp mee im devastatedd and cant even eat or sleepp i hacnt even smiled for 2 months and i used to alwaaysss be the happiest person ever

[bunnyuk1]

@CaNxYuxDaNcE It's been over a month for me and I'm in the same position... can't smile anymore.. and I have exams in the next few months and can't feel motivated to work now that I've lost him...

is it any better for you now ? How did you get over it?

[502502]

Hey positive peoples... I have this one good girl that i love with all my heart but now i have to leave her. I have not done well in my recent examination and i have to leave her and continue overseas to get on with my life for a better future but i can never give her up you know? I can be young but the feeling is there... thats why i wanna watch this video. i wanna cope with it but i dont think i can. Please i need someone to give me some advice and speak to me. Thanks a lot.

[hotblonde913]

i know some advice

[502502]

May i know it?

[cool701]

I am going through a serious depression after my fiance got killed couple of months back. I've been rendered non functoinal and I am thinking of her all the tme. Continuation of life has lost meaning to me.

[EliteDoomer]

As hard as it is perfect stranger you must live on. For as dark as the days you face become, know that she loved you and would want you to adapt. This universe is a cruel place but you must make it through this.

[ouTKold1987]

@cool701 You can do it. Please don't give up. You WILL find happiness again. Do it for your fiance.

[paralyzer1111]

what about long distance relationships? I guess it's not even worth mentioning?

[colsh1690]

good point! i hate where i live its making me unhappy but i dont want to split from my partner so i understand what you mean it takes courage to walk away from someone you love.

[paralyzer1111]

I hate it too that I can't be with mine, but the fact is that both partners have to want this long distance thing. And it hurts that you can't get what you want because of the distance. It's so unfair. I mean life is so full of disappointments at least love should come as something you easily get when you're with a person you are compatible with.

[colorless5]

how long is "normal" to cry and miss this person?

[EliteDoomer]

Don't worry about "normal", you are an individual comrade. However long it takes is what needs to be expressed. Have you considered starting a journal. I find it helps me track the time and what seems like forever is actually only a couple of months.

[delstaaa]

wat kind of illnesses can depression bring on?

[sweetysoto1212]

It's awful when you can't seem to shake the other person out of your system. Great job, good advice!!

[16december]

agree!

[Benjaminb46]

Dude someone should start a breakup support group on here! (i agree too)

[peptopro17]

id actually like to meet this lady. She has tons of expert village videos. Most of EV's videos are crap but hers are quite professional.

[12xyearxoldxkid]

woohoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[12xyearxoldxkid]

first comment here?

[12xyearxoldxkid]

w00t first comment