Single Father Help

[dave2806]

my ex walked out on me and our three kids eight years ago. I'm disabled yet work full time and don't get a penny from her. the csa are pathetic. if the roles where reversed i would be in prison for non payment . so far they have done nothing apart from writing her letters that she ignores. the system is geared up for woman not men. time we fought back and proved that you don't have to be a woman to support your kids and raise them properly.

[davidhamann0606]

@dave2806 You have to request a warrent to be issued... Also request a pay increase, although she hasnt paid it would still get her in court  and force her to show proof of income. I agree if it were us, we would be in jail... I dont understand it.

[littlekenny1000]

I live in ontairo my so called wife moved to newfoundland i have had the kids on my own 4 5 years now i need to get it in wrighting ow can i serve her ??????????

[singlefatherhelp]

I am not sure in other countries, but I would imagine that you should get a lawyer for this. This should be simple, due to the fact that you have the kids already and for quite some time. A lawyer would know what to do. You could also ask social services for help on this too. I would get this done right away, before she moves back. It would be easier to add stipulations now, she could come back and cause trouble later. Any other questions, feel free to email me!

[davidhamann0606]

@littlekenny1000 you will need a address where she is living. you can also file for abondonment...

[davidhamann0606]

@littlekenny1000 Forget serving her... File for custody and child support... Get a lawyer if you can afford one or seek social services in your area asap!!!! You can not do this soon enough, the courts will take your children, bury you in child support and award them to the mother... Seek child support brother, this will slow the mother down tremendously if she were to return for the children.

[DADDYLOVESKEANNA]

IM a SINGLE DA with a question?

if im a single father that apys his child support on-time!.....THEN should i have the right to VISITATION to my CHILD???

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[singlefatherhelp]

Logic would think that if you paid child support, you get to see your kids. But, it depends on the court order. Seeing your kid(s) is determined by the court. I think the way the courts and society behaves is wrong and usually keeps the single father from seeing their kids. It usually is wrong, but sometimes necessary. I have posted some links on my blog. Go to my website and click on my blog link. That could help you. Bob

[singlefatherhelp]

Thanks for posting samjaksmom! What are the programs that you were in? I am sure we would all like to know where we could get some more help!! Good luck with your variety program too - Bob

[samjaksmom]

I am new in you tube and plan to have like a big variaty like program. Single parenting is part of it. Although I was a single mom, I am married to guy who was a single dad. We got together out of survival and raised 4 kids. Last one in the Marines. If it helps, some of the programs I was in during my "Hard times" they also included single dads. Only some of the thought they were in a candy shop with all the moms there. Hope to see more of you.

[MMAJISTY]

IM A SINGLE FATHER , at least for 11 years & im dissappointed that these FATHERS ORGANIZATIONS treat me like CRAP when I ask questions OR need help & information????

im confussed !

[singlefatherhelp]

Thank you for the comment. I agree with you. I am working on my website to help single fathers, it is going slowly, but I am trying to get it going. I have answered emails that have come to me and I have posted them on my blog as well for others to comment on. This isn't easy when single fathers don't participate and tell me what they are looking for or what they would like to see. I have gone through a lot of trial an error and I am now getting things going in the right direction. Thanks - Bob

[singlefatherhelp]

Thanks daaronad. I too am committed to helping single fathers, but, unfortunately, I have to make a living somehow. This is my full time job as well as my goal and mission to help single fathers. I am in the infancy stage right now and going through a lot of trials and errors. If you have any suggestions, links, stories, tips, etc., to help me to make a difference and support single fathers and families, I would appreciate it! This isn't a just for profit, but a means to keep this site going!

[daaronad]

Wow, as I spent the last ten months to encourage a real support group for not just single fathers, but families in general, I am dissapointed in learning that your intent was simply for profit. We don't need that. DCFS/DHS and the foster care cronies have area covered. If you want to make a difference, support and promote families. Do not become a part of the problem, please!

[vegasgurl87]

Ha ha I'm a single mother and I wish I had me a single father...there should be more help for single dads to incourege them to take care of there kids no matter what cuz most split and the one's who stay are awsome.

[singlefatherhelp]

vegasgurl187 - Thanks for the comment! I appreciate the support! There are some great dads and some great moms out there that really need some help and support. I am trying to create a website for single fathers and to provide as much information and support that I can. There isn't a lot of help for us single fathers. Through support, education and help, maybe we can all help to change society and also to help our kids! Thanks - Bob

[calicandela]

I'll check the site.Excellent idea.

[singlefatherhelp]

Thanks calicandela! I am working on a new site right now. The one that is up and running has a few problems and all. So, I am in the process of creating a brand new one that will be cleaner and works better. Hopefully you and everyone else that sees this site will come back to the new one that will be coming soon! Thanks - Bob

[pea8vey]

i have been a single father for 7 years now.

[daaronad]

I've been raising my children alone for 10 years. It's rare to find single fathers to relate with. Usually, you can find those who say, " If I were in your shoes I would do this and this would fix it", who are actually clueless. I would like to see this get started.

[singlefatherhelp]

Thanks daaronad! I am getting this started and hopefully, it will come together and be a great place for us single fathers! The web site isn't that great at the moment. I am in the process of re-doing the web site and making it better. Instead of saying that I would do this and I would do that, I decided to actually do something about it! So, I hope you and every single father will enjoy the web site and get information that you will need and use! Thanks - Bob