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  • I gt a secret And i wanna share it wit u people.it took me 18 yrs to let this out.Ma mom's father molested me when im 6 yrs old.i fell asleep in his bed coz i had a long day playing..and that night..he crawld up in d bed n molested me.I love ma nanna n im close to her but i dare not speak up n tell her everything that happend.How could he do that to me??

    When i was 14 ma dad's father molested me in d elevator.. Its horrible..i cnt sleep that night..i hid unda d bed so noone cud hear me cryin.it

  • my brother molested me at 9 years old lasted i think 2 weeks and grandpa molested at 13 for a year and my cousin forced me to have sex with him 3 months ago on my moms birthday(May 1st) i was 15 at the time so i just turned 16 back on May 20th and he just turned 16 yesterday if i get very close to any1 in my family they will molest me D':

  • from the time i was twelve till i was 14 years old my step grandfather was molesting me. when i finally told the poliece, my stepfather, his son, and the man my own mother was married to, threatened to kill me. i was forced to move 4 states away without my mother or other siblings, i was on my own. when i was 17 i finally got my day in court and the bastard actually got away with it because the poliece said i did not have sufficient evidence. im in counceling now and im finally starting to heal.

  • Molesters, like (moles), are hole diggers. They navigate through dirt. The family issues,(the dirt), is the tunnel. Who else would know these intimate details? A relative/friend turned offender. Its an attack on the family as a hole (Not whole). i.e Holes in the family structure,communication,qualit­y time, supervision, emotional support, understanding, mutual respect, etc. are all tunnels into the home. It crosses all ethnic,socio-economics,religio­ns, even generations. (my experience)

  • ive heard between 1/4 and 1/3 of woman will be sexually abused in their lifetime but does that ,mean theyll be raped or molested or does that also include like unwanted sexual jesters in at school/work etc?

  • Dont be blaming yourselves for any of this shit. Its the abusers fault NOT YOURS. Doesnt matter what they say or what feelings you had or have. Abusers mess with your head. This happens ALL THE TIME EVERYWHERE. And personally i think this is happening far more often than the stats. and NO dont expect people to be honest. Dont expect anything but dirty tricks and lies. And dont expect the police to do anything other than PRETEND they believe the abuser. Police are often (not always) corrupt.

  • Damn. Well if anyone needs to talk about this send me a msg. you dont ever have to tell me who you are etc. If you got no other way out, msg me. At least i'll listen.

  • most people raise awareness about physical abuse. i wish there was more videos about sexual abuse like this one. physical abuse can kill you but emotional abuse can leave you dead inside. it leaves horrible thoughts,memories and scars. thanks for the video

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  • im 22 and was raped when I was 12 by the father of a kid i baby-sat for.

  • I'm 12 years of age and I was raped 7 weeks ago. Its horrible because I now have got a phobia of men and I dont like goin out on my own anymore and I can't sleep either. Its bein sorted by the police now so thats a step in the right direction and I've been diagnosed with deprression and I am seeing a counsellor which isen't really helping but I'm very slowly healing and trying to get on with my life and forget about him.

  • i got sexually aused when till i was 8 when i culd fight it off, my father was a horrile person, sorry to hear about yur nightmares x

  • I waz 6 years old when i got raped by my grandfathher

  • Fucking Marine corps will come and fucking kill every child molester there is :( IM praying for you man and every one of you that need prayers :( god bless you may he be with you

  • Omg :,( your story is so sad...but you are so strong and I loved the poem!

    Thankyou so much for uploading this, it made me feel that bit less alone :)

    Hugs xx

  • I am finally beginning to understand and thank you Jennifer and Arvil for expressing such a delicate subject. We are all so different in our experiences, but the emotions are so very much the same.

  • Love the video!

  • i feel u 100%. when i saw this it just brought back memories...i did a video where i expressed my pain and i hope u dont mind but i left it as a video response. im gonna send u an add request i hope u add me

  • this made me cry

  • I'm so sorry that this happened to you. CHILD MOLESTORS SHOULD BE EXECUTED! And the system is a failure!

  • wow for me it was from the age 7 to 13 but he didnt go all the way ever im 15 now iv been raped by to guys who i thought wher my friends last summer and i still dont sleep well the feeling like he is always over ur bed i can understand tht i feel so grows with myself and the anger is out of control.. ididnt get it as bad as u and i can hardly hold my head up i admire u for keeping on.

  • sigh....wen i was a baby i was molested by my moms boyfriends. and my grandpa molested me. when i was between 6 and 11 my brother raped and molested me. my boilogical parents are dead now. it still hurts alot thinkin about wat happen. i used to cut and almost killed myself a few time. but im doin better. i get bad flashbacks sumetimes. and realy bad nightmares from it. but im still doin better

  • im 17 n i was raped when i was 15 it wasnt suppose 2 happen 2 me i was at my aunts n her bf was tryin 2 rape my cuz shes 9 n hes 36 i stepped in my cuz got away but i didnt when the cops came my aunt took his side n now hes still runnin free hes raped me 5 times now n i have a 1 year old kid :( no1 is stoppin him.

  • im soo sry. if u need 2 taalk u can always email me.

  • that is really messed up, the police won't help you?

  • no :(

  • @Jenniferchelle24

    they dont get their in time they believe everyone but the victim, such is the "law" in the world, it's pathetic, they wouldnt care if i killed the fucker, and it only makes me more bitter, i hope someone stops him soon.... that is really fucked up that you saved her yet she took his side.....

  • @hottiestchick41 IF U CAN FIND HIM ILL STOP HIM... I GIVE NO MURCY TO THOSE WHO DIDNT SHOW MURCY

  • @chipolimae i'm withu on that

  • @hottiestchick41 i feel bad for u

  • @hottiestchick41 hey you need to tell the cops turn him in you shouldnt have to be like this

  • @hottiestchick41 YOU have to stop him

  • i felt like crying wen i watched thise. I hate these fucken ppl! Who fucken sick idiots do that! If anyone needs 2 talk u can always write 2 me:)

  • thanx x i do need sum1 i was raped n all by my grandfather regularly for 4 years i told my parents about 4 weeks ago and things hav got better

    i am only 12 and i havent been so happy since i was 8 b4 it started xxx thankyou xx

  • of course u can always email me any1 cann

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  • Very good video.

    Sorry this happened to you.

    Stay strong, always

  • This made me cry .Its scary because someone might do it again to you or even to someone you really love

  • my friend was molested as a kid by his father. he didnt tell anyone until we were both 15. when i found out, i was completely shocked. the next day when i saw his dad at a park, i walked up to him. he said "hello" and i sent a right hook to his head.

  • *claps* good job! i would of knocked him unconcious then chop off his penis.

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  • I'm sorry to hear you have been going through all that, its hard to deal with pain in general but dealing with it alone is a step beyond, I don't know if your into God, but I am so I will keep you in my prayers. I hope that someone comes into your life that will help you :).

  • Thanks, that's nice of u to say. Sometimes all it takes is one kind word to help a person to keep going on. :)

  • My cousin molested me when I was 6. At the time I didn't understand- he told me that 'it was ok' because we were cousins.

    The first person I told was my mum, but she didn't do a thing about it. She told me it was in the past, and that I should forget it. My friend, when I told her about the abuse, promised never to tell. The next time we argued I found out she'd told the rest of my pals that my 'uncle perved on me'.

    My couin's still out there now. He could do it again any time he liked :(

  • My god, that's... unbelievable. I can't even the disgust and rage i have for your family and friends. I'm sorry but, they're total a-holes for not trying to help you at all!

    "That's the past"?!? Come-freaking-on?

    I'm not trying to be mean but i hope your cousin gets at least some jail time, and i think you shouldn't be friends with the person who told your other friends because that's so freaking prick!!!

    i hope you get help from someone...

  • omg the same entire thing happen to me everything that you said even the age

  • Im 15. My fiance is 19. He just got out of Jail In March for Sexual assualt on a minor, kidnapping and assult with a deadly weapon. And up untill yesterday i knew it was a lie. i didnt want to have sex so he said he was gonna rape me then i started crying and he snapped out of it. Im so scared i dont want to have to be afraid of him. i love him. I waited so long to be with him just for this. Anyways great video makes me feel real.

  • I would really advise you to not be in a relationship with him at this time.....sounds like he has some issues he needs to work out...and he can he just needs time to do that. That though is up to you :). I'm sorry to hear about what happened between the two of you, and I hope for your sake that it never happens again.

  • @ItsMeeJitt

    i'd really like to tie the guy down and take a little time out of his life....hm.... too many ideas....

  • im am so so so so sorry that like made me cry it's people like you that amaze me at the fact that u can learn to cope with something that bad

  • I was abused since I was three from my stepdad and my next door neighbor. One of my moms friend tried to rape me and she was jealous about it. She also still talks to my sisters dad. I had a really hard life but My husband is helping me get through it and I am so thankful for him. I feel the pain of the millions of girls out there that deal with this every day and I am sorry I wish i could just hold all the hurt for them so they can have the happy healthy life they were meant to have.

  • yeah ok i have something to say too

    im about 15 yrs and they are these guys that are 15 years or older & yunger then meh and me and my friends like to hang out with them but sometimes they will force us into doing things and forcing us to make out wit them at a time and place and sometimes they will make us go to their house and so sorta of suff that are very sexual and very it's annyoing livin like this everyday

  • I just saw this today, are those guys still doing that stuff?

  • oh yeah they are still doing it..

  • @rihannaROX4fan stay away from them at all cost cause all u r doing is makeing u their victim EVERYONE NEEDS TO REMEMBER NO MEANS NO NOT 15 NOs MEANS YES NO MEANS NO

  • my fwiend was abused a couple of months ago her mom hit her in the face with a belt i will show my fwiend this video!!!!!

  • Thanks for sharing, your story i wasn't raped but i was molested by one of my friend grandfather

  • that was beautiful. *sniff* im so sorry

  • whats this song called??!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?­?!

  • i was abused when i was 8 from my mums partner it happend everyday for a year most of the time it was after he beat my mum and she was unconcious now 8 years later i finaly had the courage to tell my mum what happend and it was the hardest thing i ever had to do she broke down worst then i have ever seen

  • Thank you for having the courage to share your story. I hope your adult life is happier!

  • my dad had abused me from the age of tweleve to the day before my eighteen birthday. When i was fourteen he got me pregnant with a baby boy, at sixteen he Got me pregnant with twins girl and boy. than the day before i turned eighteen he got me pregnant again. i moved out raising three kids and have three more on the way two girls and one boy. thank god i have a boyfriend how lives with me and helps me. every day i wish i would have killed myself because of him. what do i say to my children later

  • are you serious!!! Oh my God I'm so sorry for you!!! where was your mother?? who helped you give birth to your 1st kid when you were just fourteen??? I mean didn't any one question your pregnancy ? or anything ? that is weird ! :( how old are your kids now?

  • So sorry to hear what you had to go through. I hope you have peace in your life now

  • I am a male, was abused by a family member from 3-7 yrs old. It's awful but we survive. Ive battled heroin addiction since I was 15 and diagnosed with PTSD this shit has got to stop. The best revenge though is to live a happy healthy successful life. Easy to say though when we have been robbed of any hope usually its hard to even love. God bless all Survivors :) Stay strong! We are not alone life does not have to suck!

  • amen to that :)

  • i know how u feel

    my sisters dad did stuff to me and it feels like sometimes its my fault the dont get to c him :[

  • I'm sorry to hear that, its not in anyway your fault, it is because of his choice to harm you that they don't get to see him.

  • (do not read this if you don't like cussing)

    this is fucking bull shit any body who would do that deserves to die and yet judges' courts' and jurys let them go with nothing at all just a little slap on the wrist what the fuck???? if you dont like my belive then fuck off this is some bullshit i dont want to rave cuss i said it just right there if you think that any thing is happening don't just sit and watch..and to yall SICK FUCKS who do this twisted demented shit i hope you burn in hell for it

  • we should do at least back in the old days and as a example if he is cought stealing cut of his hind this time cut that the fuck off or give him in life not some bullshit sentence

  • you are not alone

    -sexual abuse savivor

  • You're not alone and you're so strong and courageous for making this video. Thank you!

    -a fellow survivor

  • Thank you :)

  • I can't envision the levels of emotions,

    tears welling up in my eyes.

    My mind was a holocaust of images and notions,

    left me staring with vacant sighs.

    I know hell needs angelic souls,

    and you took on hell at its best.

    Now you've set your own goals,

    to not let hell, take a rest.

    May you be blessed with strength, love and peace(lots and lots of love and peace)

    r

  • thats really good, did you write it?

  • yes, for you.

    I am unable to see it, but I see your reply. I am sorry, I really meant I could not comprehend, but could only feel just a tiny bit of your confusion. I am not sure my spirit could have fought back. I am afraid with a spirit like yours, hell will constantly be trying to get it, which is a good thing. I don't judge love, and try not to judge hate.

    I hope you have found some peace.

    glad u lik'd et :-)

    any time you want to visit, feel free.

    r

  • I like your poem, I forgot to mention that.

    I see your words in a friend's face.

    Did you quit smoking?

    They would have hung a king for giving birth in the Dark Ages :-)

    You look good.

  • No I miserably failed at that but I am going to try again after Christmas :(

  • I failed so many times I lost count.

    I forgot the name of the movie, but one character was trying to quit, and he said he realized something about himself, "he was no quitter" :-)

    I have no doubt you will succeed when you're ready. I would suggest before they take your breathe away, and they will eventually.

    Sorry, really didn't want to preach.

    Hope your Christmas and the New Year are full of laughter.

    gotta love puppies

  • I am a gun for hire...can I be of any assistance?

  • This is so sad...When I was a little girl,most likely since I was 1-4 or 1-5 I was physically abused and mentally abused.Though I cannot even FATHOM how painful and sad the sexual abuse was for you,I can in a way feel for you. I hope that you continue on strong.This song goes really well with what you said in your poem.God Bless You

  • mmm im relly sorry that is so sad... :( you know this thiks makeme hate the mans even more!!

  • Thank you for being so brave,

  • im sorry that happended 2 u! y wish u many happiness ans safetynes

  • by the by wat song is this?

  • its called 'take me away' by avril lavigne

  • thank u i read it and felt like u said everything i need to say

  • thank you for posting this video.

    this is where the haters need to direct their energy..... to those who use children. and also those who rape and abuse young people and adults. REMEMBER child abuse = RAPE.

    a child cannot give permission, children do not understand sex.

    abusers create problems for the suffers and for their friends, family and society. They murder part of the child... that struggles to recover and regain life.

  • wow. nice poem. :( so sad, it really touched me. ltos and lots of my friend been through this. it always seem the closet friends/family are the one who does..this type of wrong act. im sorry to hear about yours. stay strong. your not alone.

  • Wow! So sorry...

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