Advice: Can A Man Be Too Loving?

[starfaery]

Unfortunately that makes alot of girls turn o bad guys, bechause they're seem more confident manly, an uninhibbited.

[erinhaz]

this 'advice' is so completely ignorant it makes me sick.

[ALiSsDr]

I am also a woman and I strongly disagree with your point of view

[loveub88]

this advice is retarded.

[kisspinkkuti]

Wrong.. >.> Speak for yourself.

[iamborghini1]

i'd let her sit on my face...

[waldoman7]

women who look for a guy with no insecurities are delusional. Everyone has their doubts and weaknesses. If you find someone who doesn't he's either too brainless to have them or he's just psychotic.  Unless he's achieved enlightenment, those are pretty much the only options.

[volcomstoned07]

so true :)

[SophieCarol]

unfortunately, this is true, I broke up with my ex-bf and started dating a new guy that was much more like the guy she was describing, a take charge type, more confident and attractive in that way.

[BonesAnatomy]

I wouldn't say the cocky thing is accurate, because that gives the impression of arrogance, and just generally full of themselves... I can understand the whole 'strong male' thing, I get that, but cocky isn't the right word.

[Efferts]

This advice is harmful... To be what you're not?

Relationships don't need salvaging everytime there's an issue. Commitment isn't always the answer. Let go & move on.

Why are we encouraged to trick ppl & be less ourselves just to stay with them?

[Kamikazu08]

i get what she's trying to say....balance it....but....ugh..the way she said it seems like a it's a good thing to be brutish and arrogant..then soothe everything over with a loving comment or two.....

personally..i love it when my guy adores me...and it's true..adoring guys are the guys that does great with in-laws and make GREAT hubbies ^^

[DarthLynsea1]

idk im indifferent about this. My guy is the 'alpha male' so to speak, and one of my friends is a 'sweet sensitive' guy. My friend always gets left by his girl, one of them actually said that she wanted someone to tell her what to do...

Depends on the person i guess. But when my 'alpha male' guy randomly does something sweet and romantic, it does drive me wild because im not used to that at all from him.

like i said, it probably depends on the persons in the relationship

[Pabosangel]

Sorry...but I'm afraid I can't agree with this advice. I love guys that are overly sweet...and to be honest that's the type all my friends want to marry. They might not date that type...but they allsay that's the type they want to marry. Just my little opinion...

[AznDemonLord]

I think the real issue here is that the 'too loving' guy is insecure. You don't need to be cocky to drive a woman wild. You need confidence and as little insecurity as possible. Otherwise you'd be kinda flaky and that becomes unattractive.

[honorableninjas]

i don't like this advice since i am a guy and I LOVE MY FIANCEE. i'm not cocky i'm loving to her. i did the cocky thing before it went horrible. so really indepent woman who wants respect wouldn't be the type that want a guy that is cocky but a guy that is loving and will do what he will to protect the one he loves most plus the child if he gets any.

[stephibobz]

ok ive watched a few of this womans advice vids... questionable advice much!!!!

seriously ignore everything this woman says!!!!

[asdfghjkl4355]

Now, a real MAN is loving. A BOY is the unexperienced ignorant cocky pile of shit that you think is what a woman is attracted to. Oh yeah sure, right now, the young generation we are, sure we love the alpha dogs, but that alpha dog ain't gonna be your forever. :)

[Superprongs]

screw you lady. my Dad is the nicest dude ever! he loves fluffy things and isn't afraid to call somthing cute because he is a MAN! a MAN is able to express his feelings freely! any dude that can't do that is an insecure bastard! I will say that there is a line. like if you treat your girlfriend like a queen and really over do it- then there's a problem. but if you're just uber nice- there's no problem with that! this guy just needs to find someone that can appreciate him.

[InstantInsanity]

this woman is saying this from her own personal opinion. thinks she knows the general way all females think. it's horrible. at least she could explain this both ways.yes, its nice to have a guy that likes his alone time & its nice to have him loving & sweet, but its so cute when a guy is very affectionate. its the "where were you 2 hours ago?" "what did you do 5mins ago?" its the 'checking up' part CONSTANTLY, that's a turnoff. checking up now & then making sure ur okay, is sweet & thoughtful.

[honorableninjas]

i like your comment. this be something that should of been added in the video advice.

[InstantInsanity]

why thank you very much.

[teesa2009]

why does a guy that seems loving at first just decide not to talk to a girl anymore? what gives?? ughh.

[csaenz415]

why are guys on u when u dont show attention but the one u really want doesnt look at u twice or sleeps with u but thats it

[JESSICAPGS]

thats the kind of guy I wanted, and now that I have him, he gets on my nervs with that super in love bs, sometimes I feel heartless.... =(

[ncfwhitetigress]

weird

[mizzr2]

TANGOooo make more LovEeee advice videos! I am always lookin forward to ur advces esp men's view of a rlatnship.I am soooo curious about men....

[john123wayne]

u r curious about men. i am one great man. ask me anything. i will be your man encyclopedia. btw..my advice is TEN TIMES better and greater, more efficient and more accurate than this tango crap.

i should write a book. now go ahead, ask.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Why are penises so cuddly?

[john123wayne]

penises are so cuddly to make the women let her guard down...so we can, as you cuddle our penis, throw you on your tummy, rip your clothes off, mount you, hold your hands behind your back and dominate you till u sca-ream the big ooooooooooohhhhhhhh....

...and then you can go back to cuddling the penis.

its cuz God made it that way. :)

next question.

[ncfwhitetigress]

oooh kewl

[pintobeans77]

That was really disturbing.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Why are balls squishy?

[stockholme]

what the...

[JoolieRoolie]

oh whatever. "nicey nicey" or "wimpy" guys, so you say,

the only guys who will be there for you in the end are the one's that CARE. They listen to you.

[dudekillr]

very good vid

[GoldenGoddessO9]

She couldn't have said more true words!

[C00ki3M0nsst3r]

:o soooo true!!!!

verry good advice!

i wish i could find a guy like that...

[Prymis34]

U make it sound so simple...

[mariem179]

yourtango we want more of "that's what he said" pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase

[whatevergrl5674]

oh my god. that line that she said the guy should use.

PLEASE PLEASE MAKE THEM DO THAT!!

[MaicoMoon]

Just goes to show women can't make up their damn minds. They're neurotic and psychotic.

[VampireFreak56]

it fine to show affection but to much can be annoying

[frostythesn0wman]

I try to keep a balance of both loving and cocky D:

[pintobeans77]

If you're hot too, then you're set for life!

[honorableninjas]

that be a typical comment you just added there. hot means nothing, trash, dirt. why i say this? well simple 'cause the person is hot but personality sucks. get the point. i hope you do.

[Crayolalola]

Its fine that a man shows affection. Just goes to show how much of a good guy he is BUT... to over do it to the point where it no longer feels like love but more like obsession or even co dependency will for sure drive her away.

[javonpryce]

I concur with Crayolalola

[moolikeachicken]

...*sigh* i wish it wasn't true...

I wouldn't mind a guy who was clingy...

I'm totally a backwards chick who likes to protect, too...I wouldn't switching roles.

I just don't think alot of guys would be comfortable with that : (

[moolikeachicken]

*I wouldn't MIND switching

I mean. : D

[Unavailable123x]

My boyfriend is really lovey and clingy, and I wouldn't change it for anything :D I love who he is, I don't mind being a bit more dominant.

[ncfwhitetigress]

That's the kind of guy I want!!!!

[mattrmc19]

women nowdays love a cocky jerk that acts like he doesn't need her and treats her like garbage. god bless feminism.

[pintobeans77]

Men like that should all be tossed into a cave. Do not believe the hype.

[BellaOfBacardi]

She describes the alpha male very well, but the connection between being too loving and an alpha male isn't clear.

Not all women are the same. I like confident guys, not arrogant guys. No "zip" needed 1:07. I am not attracted to alpha males. I like sensitive sweet guys!

[Awonnuriel]

Whatever happened to "Just be yourself and don't change for anyone."?

It feels like this woman is trying to reinforce the stereotypes of male and female.

[javonpryce]

Change is inevitable.... for everyone and everything. If you are not changing, you are not growing. People naturally are attracted to someone that can improve their lives in one way or another.

She speaks truth.... she speaks psychology. When you are too nice, you also tend to get needy and boring. Think about it.

[pintobeans77]

I can't wait to find a nice guy. I've only been with "nice" guys who turned out to be a-holes. I don't particularly enjoy being treated like crap. Needy is annoying though...but it is possible to be too nice, interesting, and not needy at the same time.

[saugagirl83]

I totally agree with you--I absolutely HATE neediness! Nice is great (I don't want to be with a prick), but not needy.

[honorableninjas]

well the type you meet is the type who knows what woman want to hear and do around them. so they use it on their advantage especially if you slept with them than you accomplish their goal of course. meet nice guy and be friends with them first or don't go all the way just give it time to see how great of guy he can be.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Her reply was way too complicated. All she had to say was "being too clingy is a turnoff for anyone," both male and female included.

[LocknLoad4815]

'Not able to do the job' LOL I LOVE IT!!! XD XD XD XD XD

[starbucksandollars]

LMAO this woman's crazy haha

[narutosaddness]

Sorry. Not true for all.