no one care what that monkey looking nigga thinks. i can always perm in my hair BUT u cant fix ugly lol thats why i only date white guys they LOVE my natural hair. i guess opposites attract. maybe ur bro should see white women
I retract what i said about the sister she seems to be very intelligent I hope she doesn't read my last statement, and forgive me for not looking at the video in its entirety. DaQuasiaB I apologize to you my sister.
Simply they(the brother and sister in this video) have become the very product I speak of, and they are proud of that short sighted-ness. The good news about all of this is that the compounded ignorance that comes with this kind of mindset can be isolated. We for one aren't a monolithic people, but for those of us who are serious about our African linage, I mean really serious, need to continue what our ancestor bled and died for. Not on this ignorant mess, I say again let dead dogs lie.
Serious AA must continue a QUEST of defining our selves in a morally, positive and aesthtic way they we choose as a cohesive group. "NEGRO'S" and yes I said it are like this young man who has been conditioned from early development to think this way, now I give him credit fro his honesty of his programming, his sister on the other hand made this into something to entertain the masses, i don't see the serious discourse here. Simply they have become the very product I speak of cont..
In the case of African Americans who've experienced miscegenation coupled with social engineering this is nothing new. Now what Im going to say from here I hope cuts like a knife There are people in this world who don't mind demeaning themselves so as to justify their allegiance to the people who socially engineered their mind set, this is what you call a SLAVE. It is a documented fact. Serious AA must continue a QUEST of defining our selves in a morally, positive, and aesthetic way. cont
@aGwEENapple about "black" men complaining how hard it is to manage their hair, that people really think our hair is different, IDK, someone get back to me about this theory, because even alot of"black" men feel the same way too.
@ aGwEENapple Thank you sooooooooo much, I don't know why people don't seem to realize this. Is "Black"men and women different from each other, how come every other nation men and women are the same. I once had to check my friend who is "hispanic" but dates "black" men, because she told me that "black" men's hair is different from "black" womens hair. WHAT , people acually believe that. But at the same time maybe we hear sooo much about "black" women getting weaves and not really anything
That's funny, but I guess it's somewhat understandable why your "Hispanic" friend thought black women's and men's hair is different.
Most black men that I see, no matter their nationality, wear short hair. How can you see the difference in their hair so well if you could barely see theirs? LOL
Black hair, when it gets to certain lengths becomes high maintenance. A lot of ppl of other races don't see that. (cont'd)
@TheElizabeth125 (cont'd 2) They're not the ones that have our hair, so they don't know how difficult it could be to manage at times. How much time it might take to treat it.
Black men with low maintenance hair cuts like ceasars, fades, whatever don't have to do much but brush. Maybe put a little product on it from time to time, but not too much. How could you compare the care for short hair to longer hair?
These people really have NO idea! LOL
Taking out time for my hair is worth it though. =)
Youngsters have been brainwashed by the mainstream media. I was like that when I wan young, but now I realize that crap will f u up and you will end up bald.
"Brainwashed"? Give me a break. He simply has a preference that YOU DON'T LIKE. If he said something you liked, you wouldn't be calling him brainwashed.
@SDSUTT01 you're only saying he's not attractive because what he said offended you. instead of responding with a insult, why don't you respond with logical debate. you should understand that this video is on behalf of men and take it from a broader approach instead of thinking you're going to prove a point with insults.
@SDSUTT01 said [[considering the fact this ignorant fool isn't attractive AT ALL, he shouldn't have anything negative to say about ANYONE-natural or not!]]
Let me rephrase that. Those of us who see will not go blind. Yes perhaps some will never gain sight. But it won't hurt us one bit. These awakening is by the grace of The All Mighty. Our time is here so those of us who embrace the grace. We give thanks and become what we were intended to be. So don't be disheartened. As for your brother, as a verse in a rasta song goes "put on your crown and come around." I love you both... Bless
Sister you're wrong. Soon ther won't be any of those with your brothers mind set. We are awake, we won't go backward, just forward. It's not about age. It's mind set. Don't be disheartened.Bless
He'll kill his own black mama if the Almighty White Man told him to. But then again, that's just how black men are I suppose. Thankfully, I get off on pissing off people because of my natural hair. I wonder how this guy feels about black men rocking afros, braids, locks, etc... Oh yeah... since they're MEN it's okay.
Not only is he a self-hating uncle Tom, but he's also sexist!
1. This is an OPINION not fact so your title clearly should be redone 2. this is only his opinion, not every mans thoughts 3. People that have been wearing and maintaining natural hair have grown there hair down their backs (do some research) just saying
I honestly think its absurd and ignorant that our race is so caught up on these little irrelevant things that have nothing to do with anything. i.e "lightskin vs. dark skin" "I want a babydaddy/momma with good hair" "weaves vs. natural" etc smh
@TeenNatural okay 1. the title is to attract attention to the video, & it worked so it clearly WONT be redone. &&&& i know how long natural hair can get. i never once said in this video that natural hair cant grow. so before you tell me to do research, make sure you know what you are watching.
@TeenNatural & it maybe "absurd" or "ignorant" that we as a people are hung up on this like being lightskin or darkskin and our hair texture. but this is an issue we have been faced with since we were brought over to this country. when lightskin soft hair blacks were "worth" more and treated better than darkskin course hair blacks. & OUR OWN PEOPLE judge us this way TO THIS DAY, so it is hardly irrelevant. maybe you my dear are the one who needs to do some research.
Your Brother He is not a typical Black male. That brother dont speak for us ! Most brothers I know love natural hair ! Your cant base black males on him ! Please ! This is FAKE!
LOL ur brother sounds like my crazy brother. My mom and I both are natural and he do not like it at all. He always laughing at my fro. But it don't bother me or my mom what he says we love what God has given us. It really comes from within u natural or permed you got to love you no matter what anyone else thinks about you. We where made in the image of God and what he created was all good!!
Balck man always talk shit abut black woman not wearing their real hair, but most black man in media mostly in sports keep their hair as short as they possibly can, never grow it more than 1/2 inch high. or just keep it bald like Michel Jordan, any one can say what ever they wan't i know most black men when working around white folks cut their hair like fagots , and no one makes a movie about it. and no i'm not a woman or a white man.....
it's funny how almost every black men that's got something to say about black women wearing fake, are the man that keep their no higher than a 1/2 of an inch so that the curls on their hair won't show especially when they work around white folk, or be around white folks in public, if you evr go to a barber shop you will see that the man their want to cut their hair low to a point where the curls won't show, fagots
u are so right hunny. i be feelin the same wa and ya bro was rude to talk about your hair like tat because he has the same genes and thats self hatred smh
This so did not discourage me...that's why I find myself dating older, more mature men. Any guy that is lusting after Beyonce, I don't want, because she can barely form an intelligent sentence, but some guys don't even care, it's about appearances for them. It's the media bombarding them with images. There are so many videos on youtube talking about men's opinions of natural hair....i really could care less because I find it beautiful and easier to manage..so either you like it or you don't...
Props DaquasiaB!!! Thank you for speaking the truth!!! Most beauty depicted by the media is false, and sadly it successfully fools both men and women. As a result, you have ignorance towards what "real" beauty is. Not only do you have ignorance though, you have people performing self-mutilating acts on themselves, such as a Black female trying to bleach her skin to be lighter, or not having the confidence to wear her own hair because of the damaging effects of society. True beauty is within.
we need to stop caring about what guys think, especially as black women. you know what, this is a true story. back in my weave wearing days, i was shopping for some hair. asian lady asked me if i need help. i told her let me ask my bf if he likes this. she said..."it don't matter if he like it, if you don't like it then it's not pretty." fast forward to my natural hair days..a beautiful brother tells me "i like my women like you, natural with no makeup."
and he was the finest hunk of man with dreds i have ever seen. the gist is it's on your head and your body. why do we listen to others, especially when they don't share in the expense of maintaining whatever look you choose? so, as a natural black woman myself i agree with you 100%. If one doesn't like it, another one will and if no one does than so what?
your bro is RUDE! Natural hair isn't "gross" just because he doesn't find it attractive. But if he prefers long/straight/curly/soft hair, then that's his preference. people are attracted to..well...whatever attracts them. He may be a stereotypical black man, but he certainly doesn't represent ALL black men. As a woman with natural hair, I expect some people to find my hair unattractive. That's just how it is... I have preferences too. I don't like short men.
please teach your brother about his heritage. My heart cries for him. would he say the same thing to your mother the one whoe birthed him into this world ?As one from the black race, I am so embarrassed by his attitude but I'll charge it to lack of knowledge and a very low amount if any of self acceptance and and love for himself and his culture.
I see it like this, if you don't like my hair, that's YOUR problem.
Black men can walk around with their natural hair, a lot wearing low cuts anyways and be regarded as "handsome", "sexy", "hot" but a black woman wearing her natural hair wouldn't always be seen as the same.
I'd rather have my hair in the texture I was born with.
A man who regards even most women who wear his own hair texture as UGLY is not worth my time.
He is insecure and not proud of where he comes from.
@aGwEENapple You can have your hair natural but it can be flat ironed. You don't have to have chemicals or a weave. Just blow dry and flat iron it. True, men and women can't have the same grooming practices and be considered hot. We are different physically and have different grooming standards to be attractive. Women need to look clean, tamed, neat, and classy. That's always attractive to most men. All this weird afro medusa twistouts are not hot, ladies.
@MsLotusBlooms Routine flat ironing and blow drying change the natural hair texture over time. Not every woman wants to use heat. There are ways to make our hair look decent without having to straighten it and use heat. I think it's ridiculous that black people can not accept their hair the way it grows out of our scalps. Of course you can't neglect it by not combing and moisturizing it but most black women's natural hair can look great and "neat" with patience.
@BoredRandomCraptv You can have the same texture but wear it in a smoother more refined style. Even black men usually look neat and well-groomed. Ladies, you know what classy women are supposed to look like. If you don't know, look at a typical news anchor woman for guidance. They are all classy and beautiful.
Its sad but true.N this video the anti Black attitude implanted into the minds of Black people is is common."IF YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHITE SUPREMACY (RACISM)-WHAT IT IS,AND HOW IT WORKS-EVERYTHING ELSE THAT YOU UNDERSTAND,WILL ONLY CONFUSE YOU."Quote from Mr Neely Fuller Jr.
I just feel like women want it both ways. women always tell men they dont liek shorter men, under 5'10 , or they dont like out of shape men. or something they dont like light skin men. BUT WE BLACK MEN HAVE TO TOTALLY 100% ACCEPT BLACK WOMEN NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK=BULL CRAP. i have had black women say i was way too dark, i was heavy, i was ugly this and that, i had a big nose.but black women want men to accept them any way they are FUCK THAT. NAPPY IS UGLY.
Im 18 years old and I just went natural, (transitioning). Quite frankly I appreciate her brother being real but ladies, if you wanna go natural you shouldn't be too worried about what men or anyone else will think. Do it for YOU. If YOU look at your short or long natural hair and feel beautiful, that's all that matters. My friend told me to watch this b/c she thought it would piss me off, but Im not. This clearly isn't the type of guy for a woman with the confidence to be natural.
@ReesieDenise YOU are wise, and it makes me happy to see an 18 yr. old with this point-of-view, and so accepting of themselves, some women/men NEVER get there! How awesome! =)
@ReesieDenise, WELL SAID! If a woman is mature enough to accept and love herself as God made her, then she should be looking for a man who is on the same level. This guys attitude and comments are moronic. I would hate to be trapped in a conversation with him for more than five minutes. Oh, and one more thing, BOO---You ain't all that to be cracking on a natural sista. I doubt he could handle a woman who is mature and sure enough of herself to BE HERSELF.
Plainly put, he's an ass! I have a lot of BEAUTIFUL short haired women in my family! Let's see him try to step to someone like Lauren London so we can laugh like he did at your hair!
Just my honest opinion.. Most men like long hair... some appreciate natural textures... most love length... So like I stated earlier.... Know what you are getting into and understand that you will have to go through a mental transition as well as your physical transition with your hair...
As harsh as it may seem he was telling the truth believe it or not I'm natural. Its not so much the texture but the length black men have a problem with. He WASN'T being a jerk .. its just that for the most part this is the way it is... That being said.. when thinking of going natural know what you are getting into.. thats why I suggest transitioning for at least 2 years if you are worried about how you are going to be perceived...
damn... ya know this is really sad because its so true that this is how men feel about our hair, when theirs looks exactly the same when they go 2 weeks without a haircut and they look the same. regardless, i can't for the life of me understand why being natural is: 1. a big deal 2. some type of statement or 3. unaccepted in todays society. if you haven't already then watch good hair, it pissed me off. not just aspects of natural hair but with the weave as well
@sunnyashers :D I'm so glad you said that! Our Brothers seem to fail to realize that until we point it out- and there is no need for a BC I just stopped chemically treating it, kept it clean and moisturized (just like men do) and let it grow for the past 11 yrs, I now have a 14" afro not straightened - if we keep our ends trimmed, scalp clean and moist conditioned well with a good protein conditioner- it will grow w/o all the rocket science behind it :D
I think the thing is that most men like LONG hair in the first place, so the question is not so much about relaxed or natural, but rather about long or short..
i had a someone tell me the exact same thing... a dirty tennis ball i thought it was hilarious... but honestly i attracted way more guys with natural hair!!!!
And your brother's in the Navy...huh? Betta not come to my command talkin' bout" dirty tennis ball" this natural sista will have have him as straight as the hair he worships! LOL
Hi DaQuasiaB! Wow, I'm shocked at most of the responses about ur brother! It's common knowledge that most, not all, young black men do not care for short natural hair, they want it long or straight. Thanks for posting because, in my opinion, his point of view is what the majority thinks/feels.
Your brother has his opinion but....he is a bit ignorant. You may find it funny, but he should have some level of embarrassment that he is showing how narrow and immature he is. Here's to his growing up so he won't embarrass himself much longer.......Happy growing brother..... Applying your own principles to yourself (brother), you yourself need a perm, or long hair. If this is the future of black young men, be VERY AFRAID...... glad I am married already....
You need to change the video to what your fucking brother things about natural hair. I don't care as long as it looks NICE! What did you use to determine your brother is the average black man. I hate black bitches that constantly stereotype every last one of us.
Thank you for this video. My boyfriend is the same way. He doesn't want to see my coily/kinky natural hair. He'd rather see me with weave (curly or straight) and microbraids. Smh.
Amazing how centuries of being taught that only one look is beautiful (long, straight hair) that black men are now ignorant and brainwashed. Glad I'm with a real black man and not some weak minded man who would refer to a woman with short natural hair as a "dirty tennis ball" The self-hate is strong with him and he's not even attractive. Doubt women are lining up to get at him. My natural hair is past my shoulders when wet and when straight it's half way down my back.
@prutyladyd07 I second that emotion. He makes me appreciate my husband that much more. People do have their preferences, yes, but him referring to her natural, God given hair as a dirty tennis ball just shows how ignorant he is. I have "4b" natural hair past my shoulders when wet or twisted and my husband loves it. This guy does not speak for all black men. ....and if you ask me..........he sounds like he has a slight retardation.
@prutyladyd07 Honestly it's been my experience that most college educated black men don't think natural hair is ugly. I'm sorry, I consider not going to college below average, because it's considered below average for white society. This man looks like he's under-educated, to be polite about the term. I'm sorry, but I can't take anyone who holds their mouth open when they aren't talking or eating very seriously.
u should never ax ya bra. i like natural hair but i love downin my 2 sisters. im the only boy and i even when i know they were pretty. it just how sisters and brothers jokes. i think more bm like natural hair than women think.
@diamondofdistinction. i though it was funny. u cant take yo borther say as seriuos. trust me as a bm when my 2 sisters ax me how they look they now ima clown on them. it just how brothers and sisters are. even when i know they look good, i gotta down them so they dont get the big head. but they know i be playin & then start laughin. everybody know yo fam clown u harder than anybody else. thats why we fam. i think if the chick wasnt his sister he woulda said she look good.
@brightsgirl i got those boots from Wet Seal. GoJane.com have some pretty nice boots at a reasonable price. well they did in the fall && winter months.
haha yea my brother is pretty funny.. he calls me dirty taco meat everyday. asshole. && im not saying he is wrong at all. im jus saying most black guys his age dont like natural hair, or would rather a girl have long straight hair. && that alot of young women are afriad to wear natural hair or only want the long straight looks because thats what guys our age like. because that is what they are used to seeing as "beautiful"
@DaQuasiaB THERE IS NOTHING<<<<<FUNNY about the bold disrespect he has towards you and other black women!!!! with his black ass???? if he grew his hair how do he think his hair will look like? I hate black men like this, being natural isn't funny this is our God given right....i'm disgusted!
in your natural hair picture, the boots you had on, i'd like to know where u got them or where u can find some similar ones plz and thank u and thx for a real young guys opinion on natural hair
Hahaha I'm sorry. Ur bro is funny. LOL.It's mean and Im transitioning but hey...lol
That's how black men think. Hahaahah It's only white guys who usually like the natural. When I have some long hair or some bright color it's the black people flocking
yess they r brain washed. even young girls who have 3c hair think they need perms nd they dnt... i try to tell them but they r blinded by ignorance... but they'll learn
Men who think like this are very limited. Women need to know that they don't need a man to validate them as a person. Have confidence in who you are, and your beauty will shine. :)
@sahdae23. its her borother. if she wasnt his sister trust me he wouldnt have said it. he was clowning her. i clown my sisters all the time just b/c she's my sister but for some reason i can see the same chick w/ da same thing on & think she fine. it like i naturally clown my sis cus i love her. even when i know she look good ima find somn to clown her on if i didnt i wouldnt be her bra. trust me if she wont his sister it would have went a lil diff. that how we r. bra look 2 joke on dey sis
I'm glad your brother was honest because it shows how limited he, and other men like him, are in their thinking. The flip side of it is that alot of women probably feel the same way. For me, going natural is about learning how to better care for my hair. If men and women start to see that our hair can be beautiful and manageable, I'm sure their opinion of natural hair will change. People are just scared of what they don't know.
Scared of what they don't know? We don't know our own hair? How sad. People are just so stupid that they have allowed other people to shape their views that's all.
@BigBlaqueKat - Yeah we don't know the potential that our own hair has. If someone had asked me 2 years ago to stop getting perms, I would've laughed in their face and told the story to 20 other people lol. The only thing I could think of was a "fight the power" fro. And that is a damn shame. My aunt gave me my first perm when I was 6 to make my hair more "manageable" and 19 years later and relaxer-free, I'm managing just fine.
@bbnne1 true! i just made that comment b/c the original commenter made it seem as though locs aren't a natural hairstyle. enjoy your fro(if you have one) and i'll enjoy mine!! lol
I find his own hair styling choice quite telling. Does he understand he owns this hair as well (taco meat)? I guess that is why he keeps close to bald. Black men are often in denial about their own hair.
You are so right...im scared to continue my natural journey because of reactions such as ur bro's. But im still going to do it for ME not anyone else.
We are so "Europeanized" we think that what God gave us is ugly. It does take courage to wear natural hair. I love my natural hair, but I would love it more, If I could get it to look and act like I want it to. I live in St.Louis & I am starting to see more sisters wear'n natural hair. What I am tired of seeing is guys w/ braids seems like every since T-pain or smbdy came out, evrbody is rocking these braids, & these guys are using weave. Its time that brothers go back to being "natural"
you mean they are wearing locs? locs are about as natural as they come in my opinion. that's what our hair does if we don't comb or detangle it, it locs.
@trumusicgen I live in Saint Louis too and it seems like the natural revolution is going on but very gradually. I am just sick of brothas wearing locs trying to be lil wayne and not understanding what they really represent.
I agree with your video. I like the fact that you got your brother's opinion because i think its really honest. i think a lot of guys especially in my age group would agree with him. I'm 22 so i relate to it being sometimes discouraging. i just know that I love myself and my natural hair because its mine. Why should i strip my hair down to try and conform to some standard of beauty that doesn't capture true natural black beauty? We just gotta rock it with confidence.
@MsCamilleB I live in Saint Louis too and it seems like the natural revolution is going on but very gradually. I am just sick of brothas wearing locs trying to be lil wayne and not understanding what they really represent.
natural hair = weak man repellent
aquariusbeauty10 23 hours ago
I know that you could look prettier but the over the top busy look is reminiscent of drag queens. You should consider a more subdued look.
MsLotusBlooms 2 days ago
ARE YOU OK , YOUR LIP DIDN'T HEAL , DID YOU GET YOUR LIP BUSTED ?
PEB979 1 week ago
Who's trying to cater to that dudes taste anyway?
Mokurentate 2 weeks ago
LMAOOO @ dirty tennis ball
greenc51 2 weeks ago
no one care what that monkey looking nigga thinks. i can always perm in my hair BUT u cant fix ugly lol thats why i only date white guys they LOVE my natural hair. i guess opposites attract. maybe ur bro should see white women
snickerdoodles787 3 weeks ago
I retract what i said about the sister she seems to be very intelligent I hope she doesn't read my last statement, and forgive me for not looking at the video in its entirety. DaQuasiaB I apologize to you my sister.
davisismail1comcast 4 weeks ago
Simply they(the brother and sister in this video) have become the very product I speak of, and they are proud of that short sighted-ness. The good news about all of this is that the compounded ignorance that comes with this kind of mindset can be isolated. We for one aren't a monolithic people, but for those of us who are serious about our African linage, I mean really serious, need to continue what our ancestor bled and died for. Not on this ignorant mess, I say again let dead dogs lie.
davisismail1comcast 4 weeks ago
Serious AA must continue a QUEST of defining our selves in a morally, positive and aesthtic way they we choose as a cohesive group. "NEGRO'S" and yes I said it are like this young man who has been conditioned from early development to think this way, now I give him credit fro his honesty of his programming, his sister on the other hand made this into something to entertain the masses, i don't see the serious discourse here. Simply they have become the very product I speak of cont..
davisismail1comcast 4 weeks ago
In the case of African Americans who've experienced miscegenation coupled with social engineering this is nothing new. Now what Im going to say from here I hope cuts like a knife There are people in this world who don't mind demeaning themselves so as to justify their allegiance to the people who socially engineered their mind set, this is what you call a SLAVE. It is a documented fact. Serious AA must continue a QUEST of defining our selves in a morally, positive, and aesthetic way. cont
davisismail1comcast 4 weeks ago
@aGwEENapple about "black" men complaining how hard it is to manage their hair, that people really think our hair is different, IDK, someone get back to me about this theory, because even alot of"black" men feel the same way too.
TheElizabeth125 1 month ago
@ aGwEENapple Thank you sooooooooo much, I don't know why people don't seem to realize this. Is "Black"men and women different from each other, how come every other nation men and women are the same. I once had to check my friend who is "hispanic" but dates "black" men, because she told me that "black" men's hair is different from "black" womens hair. WHAT , people acually believe that. But at the same time maybe we hear sooo much about "black" women getting weaves and not really anything
TheElizabeth125 1 month ago
@TheElizabeth125 Sorry, I didn't see that you replied to me!
That's funny, but I guess it's somewhat understandable why your "Hispanic" friend thought black women's and men's hair is different.
Most black men that I see, no matter their nationality, wear short hair. How can you see the difference in their hair so well if you could barely see theirs? LOL
Black hair, when it gets to certain lengths becomes high maintenance. A lot of ppl of other races don't see that. (cont'd)
aGwEENapple 2 days ago
@TheElizabeth125 (cont'd 2) They're not the ones that have our hair, so they don't know how difficult it could be to manage at times. How much time it might take to treat it.
Black men with low maintenance hair cuts like ceasars, fades, whatever don't have to do much but brush. Maybe put a little product on it from time to time, but not too much. How could you compare the care for short hair to longer hair?
These people really have NO idea! LOL
Taking out time for my hair is worth it though. =)
aGwEENapple 2 days ago
false consensus effect.
OhSoVistosoAgogo 1 month ago
I thought the girl at 3:21 looked gooood!
TheLusitanian 1 month ago
That hair... ok...
nkreseknowledge 1 month ago
yuck! this guy puts a terrible taste in my mouth....not a good example of my beautiful respectful black men
sadecious 2 months ago 2
When his hair grows out, it'll look like the same dirty tennis ball. LMAO.
427skies 2 months ago 3
Can't go bald by putting olive oil I your head, but sulfur will KILL YOU lol
towdow3 2 months ago
Youngsters have been brainwashed by the mainstream media. I was like that when I wan young, but now I realize that crap will f u up and you will end up bald.
towdow3 2 months ago
"Brainwashed"? Give me a break. He simply has a preference that YOU DON'T LIKE. If he said something you liked, you wouldn't be calling him brainwashed.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
I need to see more videos like this. It saddens me to see people give such a negative reaction to natural hair, but I love it.
aphillynative 2 months ago
considering the fact this ignorant fool isn't attractive AT ALL, he shouldn't have anything negative to say about ANYONE-natural or not!
SDSUTT01 3 months ago
@SDSUTT01 you're only saying he's not attractive because what he said offended you. instead of responding with a insult, why don't you respond with logical debate. you should understand that this video is on behalf of men and take it from a broader approach instead of thinking you're going to prove a point with insults.
Yezzur011 2 months ago
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@SDSUTT01 said [[considering the fact this ignorant fool isn't attractive AT ALL, he shouldn't have anything negative to say about ANYONE-natural or not!]]
That makes absolutely no sense.
LucisFerre1 2 months ago
Ignorance is a disease!!!!
chocolatefox73 3 months ago 2
Let me rephrase that. Those of us who see will not go blind. Yes perhaps some will never gain sight. But it won't hurt us one bit. These awakening is by the grace of The All Mighty. Our time is here so those of us who embrace the grace. We give thanks and become what we were intended to be. So don't be disheartened. As for your brother, as a verse in a rasta song goes "put on your crown and come around." I love you both... Bless
SheilaDang52 3 months ago
Sister you're wrong. Soon ther won't be any of those with your brothers mind set. We are awake, we won't go backward, just forward. It's not about age. It's mind set. Don't be disheartened.Bless
SheilaDang52 3 months ago
You're brother is a idiot.
EnvelopedInDarkness 4 months ago
her brother is just IGNORANT!
lissymay2007 4 months ago
He'll kill his own black mama if the Almighty White Man told him to. But then again, that's just how black men are I suppose. Thankfully, I get off on pissing off people because of my natural hair. I wonder how this guy feels about black men rocking afros, braids, locks, etc... Oh yeah... since they're MEN it's okay.
Not only is he a self-hating uncle Tom, but he's also sexist!
NeshaMiss 4 months ago
douche
LovlyDarkBeauty 4 months ago
1. This is an OPINION not fact so your title clearly should be redone 2. this is only his opinion, not every mans thoughts 3. People that have been wearing and maintaining natural hair have grown there hair down their backs (do some research) just saying
I honestly think its absurd and ignorant that our race is so caught up on these little irrelevant things that have nothing to do with anything. i.e "lightskin vs. dark skin" "I want a babydaddy/momma with good hair" "weaves vs. natural" etc smh
TeenNatural 4 months ago 6
@TeenNatural okay 1. the title is to attract attention to the video, & it worked so it clearly WONT be redone. &&&& i know how long natural hair can get. i never once said in this video that natural hair cant grow. so before you tell me to do research, make sure you know what you are watching.
DaQuasiaB 4 months ago
@TeenNatural & it maybe "absurd" or "ignorant" that we as a people are hung up on this like being lightskin or darkskin and our hair texture. but this is an issue we have been faced with since we were brought over to this country. when lightskin soft hair blacks were "worth" more and treated better than darkskin course hair blacks. & OUR OWN PEOPLE judge us this way TO THIS DAY, so it is hardly irrelevant. maybe you my dear are the one who needs to do some research.
DaQuasiaB 4 months ago
Disgustingly sad
coollikethat10101 4 months ago
I hate the look of most natural hair styles.
crackheads15 4 months ago
Your Brother He is not a typical Black male. That brother dont speak for us ! Most brothers I know love natural hair ! Your cant base black males on him ! Please ! This is FAKE!
andre12593 4 months ago
Black women with natural hair are beautiful.
blackbolt75 4 months ago
i don,t know most guys love my curly hair lol!
Rayanaluv1984 4 months ago
ASSHOLE
strawberry5889 4 months ago
your not a guy, or are you!?!?!
idontlikeblackppl1 5 months ago
LOL ur brother sounds like my crazy brother. My mom and I both are natural and he do not like it at all. He always laughing at my fro. But it don't bother me or my mom what he says we love what God has given us. It really comes from within u natural or permed you got to love you no matter what anyone else thinks about you. We where made in the image of God and what he created was all good!!
jesspraise35 5 months ago
i dont like your brothers comment, its not funny at all. we should love what God has given us
caroltncc 5 months ago
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Balck man always talk shit abut black woman not wearing their real hair, but most black man in media mostly in sports keep their hair as short as they possibly can, never grow it more than 1/2 inch high. or just keep it bald like Michel Jordan, any one can say what ever they wan't i know most black men when working around white folks cut their hair like fagots , and no one makes a movie about it. and no i'm not a woman or a white man.....
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it's funny how almost every black men that's got something to say about black women wearing fake, are the man that keep their no higher than a 1/2 of an inch so that the curls on their hair won't show especially when they work around white folk, or be around white folks in public, if you evr go to a barber shop you will see that the man their want to cut their hair low to a point where the curls won't show, fagots
mack3dg 5 months ago
Hmm I guess his hair looks like a dirty tennis ball when he doesn't shave it to the scalp!
breakofdawn26 5 months ago
u are so right hunny. i be feelin the same wa and ya bro was rude to talk about your hair like tat because he has the same genes and thats self hatred smh
StillSpoiled23 5 months ago
This so did not discourage me...that's why I find myself dating older, more mature men. Any guy that is lusting after Beyonce, I don't want, because she can barely form an intelligent sentence, but some guys don't even care, it's about appearances for them. It's the media bombarding them with images. There are so many videos on youtube talking about men's opinions of natural hair....i really could care less because I find it beautiful and easier to manage..so either you like it or you don't...
musicvixen24 5 months ago
Props DaquasiaB!!! Thank you for speaking the truth!!! Most beauty depicted by the media is false, and sadly it successfully fools both men and women. As a result, you have ignorance towards what "real" beauty is. Not only do you have ignorance though, you have people performing self-mutilating acts on themselves, such as a Black female trying to bleach her skin to be lighter, or not having the confidence to wear her own hair because of the damaging effects of society. True beauty is within.
dignifiedove 5 months ago
just because he was rude and had negative point a view doesn't mean he was the "realest"
meagsworld 5 months ago
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we need to stop caring about what guys think, especially as black women. you know what, this is a true story. back in my weave wearing days, i was shopping for some hair. asian lady asked me if i need help. i told her let me ask my bf if he likes this. she said..."it don't matter if he like it, if you don't like it then it's not pretty." fast forward to my natural hair days..a beautiful brother tells me "i like my women like you, natural with no makeup."
iroc31407 6 months ago
and he was the finest hunk of man with dreds i have ever seen. the gist is it's on your head and your body. why do we listen to others, especially when they don't share in the expense of maintaining whatever look you choose? so, as a natural black woman myself i agree with you 100%. If one doesn't like it, another one will and if no one does than so what?
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iroc31407 6 months ago
your bro is RUDE! Natural hair isn't "gross" just because he doesn't find it attractive. But if he prefers long/straight/curly/soft hair, then that's his preference. people are attracted to..well...whatever attracts them. He may be a stereotypical black man, but he certainly doesn't represent ALL black men. As a woman with natural hair, I expect some people to find my hair unattractive. That's just how it is... I have preferences too. I don't like short men.
EnGallop87 6 months ago
so is he saying his head looks like a dirty tennis ball. is that why he cut his hair? lame as dude
jumpingonglass 6 months ago
hahaha soo not lame. a dirty ass tennis ball is what it looks like it's gross most of the time. Hahaha dirty ass tennis ball that dudes funny.
Sk8trdude32 7 months ago
lame!!!!!!!!!1
capykay89 7 months ago
he's ugly. so his opinion is irrelevant
missarvinger13 7 months ago
He seems a little...off (and ya'll know what I mean). His opinion is WORTHLESS!
pierrefelixma 7 months ago 4
please teach your brother about his heritage. My heart cries for him. would he say the same thing to your mother the one whoe birthed him into this world ?As one from the black race, I am so embarrassed by his attitude but I'll charge it to lack of knowledge and a very low amount if any of self acceptance and and love for himself and his culture.
luvme2ism 7 months ago
I love your encouraging video. Reminds me of Mary J. Blige's song "Work That".
"Just because the length of your hair ain't long
And they often criticize you for your skin tone
Wanna hold your head high
Cause you're a pretty woman
Get your runway stride home
And keep going
Girl live ya life "
HabeshaQween 7 months ago
love ur words of encouragement at the end of the video
pookiehead2011 7 months ago
Well would u wan't a guy that are only into superficial barbiedolls?
starfaery 7 months ago
u look like a guy
pabritova 8 months ago
@pabritova get a life.
DaQuasiaB 8 months ago 24
@pabritova get a life.
DaQuasiaB 8 months ago
@pabritova lol...wow
dadacomedian 6 months ago
@pabritova GOD Damn you NOWWWWWWWW
damhatrebloc 5 months ago
@pabritova A sexy guy!
xXsk8erb0iXx 4 months ago
Bob Marley couldn't say it any better....."Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery....none but ourselves can free our minds!"
KanavalTeez 8 months ago 3
PREACH!!
bluebutters33 9 months ago
I see it like this, if you don't like my hair, that's YOUR problem.
Black men can walk around with their natural hair, a lot wearing low cuts anyways and be regarded as "handsome", "sexy", "hot" but a black woman wearing her natural hair wouldn't always be seen as the same.
I'd rather have my hair in the texture I was born with.
A man who regards even most women who wear his own hair texture as UGLY is not worth my time.
He is insecure and not proud of where he comes from.
aGwEENapple 9 months ago 14
@aGwEENapple You can have your hair natural but it can be flat ironed. You don't have to have chemicals or a weave. Just blow dry and flat iron it. True, men and women can't have the same grooming practices and be considered hot. We are different physically and have different grooming standards to be attractive. Women need to look clean, tamed, neat, and classy. That's always attractive to most men. All this weird afro medusa twistouts are not hot, ladies.
MsLotusBlooms 2 days ago
@MsLotusBlooms Routine flat ironing and blow drying change the natural hair texture over time. Not every woman wants to use heat. There are ways to make our hair look decent without having to straighten it and use heat. I think it's ridiculous that black people can not accept their hair the way it grows out of our scalps. Of course you can't neglect it by not combing and moisturizing it but most black women's natural hair can look great and "neat" with patience.
aGwEENapple 2 days ago
He is being Honest and speaking for a lot of black men. A lot of them will sugar coat the answer.
KTS718 9 months ago
lol strange, i am trying to force my little sisters to go natural and im 18 lol
xZakiro 9 months ago
@NaturallyCurly1990 thanks hun!
BoredRandomCraptv 10 months ago
Wow, his thoughts about his own hair type is disgusting. A dirty tennis ball? Thats not funny at all.
BoredRandomCraptv 10 months ago 3
@BoredRandomCraptv You can have the same texture but wear it in a smoother more refined style. Even black men usually look neat and well-groomed. Ladies, you know what classy women are supposed to look like. If you don't know, look at a typical news anchor woman for guidance. They are all classy and beautiful.
MsLotusBlooms 2 days ago
@NaturallyCurly1990 please tell me the name of this Youtube-er. I want to see the video. Thanks.
BoredRandomCraptv 10 months ago
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Its sad but true.N this video the anti Black attitude implanted into the minds of Black people is is common."IF YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHITE SUPREMACY (RACISM)-WHAT IT IS,AND HOW IT WORKS-EVERYTHING ELSE THAT YOU UNDERSTAND,WILL ONLY CONFUSE YOU."Quote from Mr Neely Fuller Jr.
yorubablk3 10 months ago
Hahahahahahaha thata Rob for ya lol smh that nigga
TheycallmeDagga 10 months ago
hes only 22??..im sorry but dude like he about 35 O_o
reeseleebaby 10 months ago 6
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I just feel like women want it both ways. women always tell men they dont liek shorter men, under 5'10 , or they dont like out of shape men. or something they dont like light skin men. BUT WE BLACK MEN HAVE TO TOTALLY 100% ACCEPT BLACK WOMEN NO MATTER HOW YOU LOOK=BULL CRAP. i have had black women say i was way too dark, i was heavy, i was ugly this and that, i had a big nose.but black women want men to accept them any way they are FUCK THAT. NAPPY IS UGLY.
MRbossman1982 10 months ago
Im 18 years old and I just went natural, (transitioning). Quite frankly I appreciate her brother being real but ladies, if you wanna go natural you shouldn't be too worried about what men or anyone else will think. Do it for YOU. If YOU look at your short or long natural hair and feel beautiful, that's all that matters. My friend told me to watch this b/c she thought it would piss me off, but Im not. This clearly isn't the type of guy for a woman with the confidence to be natural.
ReesieDenise 11 months ago 5
@ReesieDenise YOU are wise, and it makes me happy to see an 18 yr. old with this point-of-view, and so accepting of themselves, some women/men NEVER get there! How awesome! =)
sparks199 10 months ago
@sparks199 Thanks so much! :) I actually just did the Big Chop yesterday so I'm completely natural and happy about it. :)
ReesieDenise 10 months ago
@ReesieDenise, WELL SAID! If a woman is mature enough to accept and love herself as God made her, then she should be looking for a man who is on the same level. This guys attitude and comments are moronic. I would hate to be trapped in a conversation with him for more than five minutes. Oh, and one more thing, BOO---You ain't all that to be cracking on a natural sista. I doubt he could handle a woman who is mature and sure enough of herself to BE HERSELF.
poppysfit 9 months ago
Plainly put, he's an ass! I have a lot of BEAUTIFUL short haired women in my family! Let's see him try to step to someone like Lauren London so we can laugh like he did at your hair!
BonitaApplebum87 11 months ago
say what you will, he told the truth as he saw it
Igihozo 11 months ago
@Igihozo and we are responding as we see it.
sparks199 10 months ago
I notice that ugly or unattractive guys tend to be a bit more critical of natural hair and black women in general.
utwobing 11 months ago 11
Just my honest opinion.. Most men like long hair... some appreciate natural textures... most love length... So like I stated earlier.... Know what you are getting into and understand that you will have to go through a mental transition as well as your physical transition with your hair...
dontcopyme 1 year ago
As harsh as it may seem he was telling the truth believe it or not I'm natural. Its not so much the texture but the length black men have a problem with. He WASN'T being a jerk .. its just that for the most part this is the way it is... That being said.. when thinking of going natural know what you are getting into.. thats why I suggest transitioning for at least 2 years if you are worried about how you are going to be perceived...
dontcopyme 1 year ago
@dontcopyme will have to agree with you that I think it is more of a length thing than a texture thing.
AllieWellington 11 months ago
I know that's your brother, but oh dude is a complete ass-jerk. Thanks for uploading though; it was refreshing in a weird way! :)
zeanian 1 year ago
@zeanian He's just being honest. Fros are not attractive nor feminine. Sorry ladies...time to break out the flat iron please.
MsLotusBlooms 2 days ago
I love ur style gurl!
Bailamode 1 year ago
damn... ya know this is really sad because its so true that this is how men feel about our hair, when theirs looks exactly the same when they go 2 weeks without a haircut and they look the same. regardless, i can't for the life of me understand why being natural is: 1. a big deal 2. some type of statement or 3. unaccepted in todays society. if you haven't already then watch good hair, it pissed me off. not just aspects of natural hair but with the weave as well
sunnyashers 1 year ago 22
@sunnyashers :D I'm so glad you said that! Our Brothers seem to fail to realize that until we point it out- and there is no need for a BC I just stopped chemically treating it, kept it clean and moisturized (just like men do) and let it grow for the past 11 yrs, I now have a 14" afro not straightened - if we keep our ends trimmed, scalp clean and moist conditioned well with a good protein conditioner- it will grow w/o all the rocket science behind it :D
TheAfroQween 11 months ago
I think the thing is that most men like LONG hair in the first place, so the question is not so much about relaxed or natural, but rather about long or short..
Golf2foto 1 year ago
i had a someone tell me the exact same thing... a dirty tennis ball i thought it was hilarious... but honestly i attracted way more guys with natural hair!!!!
missCharlieSmilez 1 year ago
girl you looked ferocious in that pic werk! <3
lightsabriel 1 year ago
That is so sad
AumAmen1 1 year ago
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the women in the beggining looks like a shemale lmao ROFL
YoungKnoccOut 1 year ago
And your brother's in the Navy...huh? Betta not come to my command talkin' bout" dirty tennis ball" this natural sista will have have him as straight as the hair he worships! LOL
NATAHU77 1 year ago 2
Hi DaQuasiaB! Wow, I'm shocked at most of the responses about ur brother! It's common knowledge that most, not all, young black men do not care for short natural hair, they want it long or straight. Thanks for posting because, in my opinion, his point of view is what the majority thinks/feels.
latoyamonique1 1 year ago 2
What wig was that in the beginning..ps ur brothers a house nigga lol j/k (for real tho)
KellyGreene08 1 year ago
Your brother has his opinion but....he is a bit ignorant. You may find it funny, but he should have some level of embarrassment that he is showing how narrow and immature he is. Here's to his growing up so he won't embarrass himself much longer.......Happy growing brother..... Applying your own principles to yourself (brother), you yourself need a perm, or long hair. If this is the future of black young men, be VERY AFRAID...... glad I am married already....
desirem1 1 year ago 2
You need to change the video to what your fucking brother things about natural hair. I don't care as long as it looks NICE! What did you use to determine your brother is the average black man. I hate black bitches that constantly stereotype every last one of us.
GGLebo23 1 year ago
Thank you for this video. My boyfriend is the same way. He doesn't want to see my coily/kinky natural hair. He'd rather see me with weave (curly or straight) and microbraids. Smh.
jessicaberry87 1 year ago
Well he said it. He just does not like short hair!!! He thinks its gross. Oh boy!
fallonharr 1 year ago
Amazing how centuries of being taught that only one look is beautiful (long, straight hair) that black men are now ignorant and brainwashed. Glad I'm with a real black man and not some weak minded man who would refer to a woman with short natural hair as a "dirty tennis ball" The self-hate is strong with him and he's not even attractive. Doubt women are lining up to get at him. My natural hair is past my shoulders when wet and when straight it's half way down my back.
prutyladyd07 1 year ago 48
@prutyladyd07 I second that emotion. He makes me appreciate my husband that much more. People do have their preferences, yes, but him referring to her natural, God given hair as a dirty tennis ball just shows how ignorant he is. I have "4b" natural hair past my shoulders when wet or twisted and my husband loves it. This guy does not speak for all black men. ....and if you ask me..........he sounds like he has a slight retardation.
kxb0qir 1 year ago 2
@prutyladyd07 Honestly it's been my experience that most college educated black men don't think natural hair is ugly. I'm sorry, I consider not going to college below average, because it's considered below average for white society. This man looks like he's under-educated, to be polite about the term. I'm sorry, but I can't take anyone who holds their mouth open when they aren't talking or eating very seriously.
spoiledbritt86 1 year ago 4
hahaha your brother reminds me of my brothers
BAM0O7088 1 year ago
Thank u sooo much for this vid! Your brother is funny and kinda reminds me of 1 of my big brothers.
iKiyah92 1 year ago
u should never ax ya bra. i like natural hair but i love downin my 2 sisters. im the only boy and i even when i know they were pretty. it just how sisters and brothers jokes. i think more bm like natural hair than women think.
mykole84 1 year ago
typical shallow black man well aleast he was honest and told the truth about what he thought
amaka38 1 year ago
A dirty tennis ball? LOL!!!!!
diamondofdistinction 1 year ago 4
@diamondofdistinction. i though it was funny. u cant take yo borther say as seriuos. trust me as a bm when my 2 sisters ax me how they look they now ima clown on them. it just how brothers and sisters are. even when i know they look good, i gotta down them so they dont get the big head. but they know i be playin & then start laughin. everybody know yo fam clown u harder than anybody else. thats why we fam. i think if the chick wasnt his sister he woulda said she look good.
mykole84 1 year ago
@brightsgirl i got those boots from Wet Seal. GoJane.com have some pretty nice boots at a reasonable price. well they did in the fall && winter months.
DaQuasiaB 1 year ago
@DaQuasiaB Your brotha is a "House Nigga"!!!
IMFLORIDA305 1 year ago
haha yea my brother is pretty funny.. he calls me dirty taco meat everyday. asshole. && im not saying he is wrong at all. im jus saying most black guys his age dont like natural hair, or would rather a girl have long straight hair. && that alot of young women are afriad to wear natural hair or only want the long straight looks because thats what guys our age like. because that is what they are used to seeing as "beautiful"
DaQuasiaB 1 year ago
@DaQuasiaB THERE IS NOTHING<<<<<FUNNY about the bold disrespect he has towards you and other black women!!!! with his black ass???? if he grew his hair how do he think his hair will look like? I hate black men like this, being natural isn't funny this is our God given right....i'm disgusted!
MeUAndLiqour 11 months ago
in your natural hair picture, the boots you had on, i'd like to know where u got them or where u can find some similar ones plz and thank u and thx for a real young guys opinion on natural hair
BrightsGirl 1 year ago
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BrightsGirl 1 year ago
this is america he is free to have his opinion, even if people disagree with him.
CAR18MEN 1 year ago
Hahaha I'm sorry. Ur bro is funny. LOL.It's mean and Im transitioning but hey...lol
That's how black men think. Hahaahah It's only white guys who usually like the natural. When I have some long hair or some bright color it's the black people flocking
mskrys419 1 year ago
Well its only one guys' opinion. There are other guys who see the beauty of natural hair and respect you for having it :)
NaturalVeganLife 1 year ago
yess they r brain washed. even young girls who have 3c hair think they need perms nd they dnt... i try to tell them but they r blinded by ignorance... but they'll learn
22kayshagirl 1 year ago
He has a creepy laugh.lol
...his opinion is very typical but i appreciate his honesty (even thought it made him look like a total jerk)
Amen to your finishing statement!
AnaLaGringa 1 year ago
Men who think like this are very limited. Women need to know that they don't need a man to validate them as a person. Have confidence in who you are, and your beauty will shine. :)
sahdae23 1 year ago
@sahdae23. its her borother. if she wasnt his sister trust me he wouldnt have said it. he was clowning her. i clown my sisters all the time just b/c she's my sister but for some reason i can see the same chick w/ da same thing on & think she fine. it like i naturally clown my sis cus i love her. even when i know she look good ima find somn to clown her on if i didnt i wouldnt be her bra. trust me if she wont his sister it would have went a lil diff. that how we r. bra look 2 joke on dey sis
mykole84 1 year ago
I'm glad your brother was honest because it shows how limited he, and other men like him, are in their thinking. The flip side of it is that alot of women probably feel the same way. For me, going natural is about learning how to better care for my hair. If men and women start to see that our hair can be beautiful and manageable, I'm sure their opinion of natural hair will change. People are just scared of what they don't know.
MagnificentReign 1 year ago
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Scared of what they don't know? We don't know our own hair? How sad. People are just so stupid that they have allowed other people to shape their views that's all.
BigBlaqueKat 1 year ago
@BigBlaqueKat - Yeah we don't know the potential that our own hair has. If someone had asked me 2 years ago to stop getting perms, I would've laughed in their face and told the story to 20 other people lol. The only thing I could think of was a "fight the power" fro. And that is a damn shame. My aunt gave me my first perm when I was 6 to make my hair more "manageable" and 19 years later and relaxer-free, I'm managing just fine.
MagnificentReign 1 year ago
@bbnne1 true! i just made that comment b/c the original commenter made it seem as though locs aren't a natural hairstyle. enjoy your fro(if you have one) and i'll enjoy mine!! lol
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@bbnne1 unless it's free locs, in which case the hair grows out and locs naturally.
mcamurray 1 year ago
@bbnne1 unless it's free locs, in which case the hair grows out and locs naturally.
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This is not how most guys in their 20s think!
danayparker 1 year ago
This is not how most guys in their 20s think!
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lexingtonann 1 year ago
Also, your brother does not represent the opinion of all "guys".
lexingtonann 1 year ago
I find his own hair styling choice quite telling. Does he understand he owns this hair as well (taco meat)? I guess that is why he keeps close to bald. Black men are often in denial about their own hair.
lexingtonann 1 year ago
im going natural and im 18...i really appreciate this vid bc sometimes it so hard not to care about what people think.
qutie2day 1 year ago
You are so right...im scared to continue my natural journey because of reactions such as ur bro's. But im still going to do it for ME not anyone else.
Alexsh2010 2 years ago
Oh this is soooo true! Light skin, long weave, etc. Natural is surely so beautiful! Thank you so much girl! Keep it up!
godschildyes 2 years ago
Yep your brother feels the way "most" black me feel. That is sad. Seems like non-black people like our natura hair more the we do
I like your message in the video.
deidre76 2 years ago
We are so "Europeanized" we think that what God gave us is ugly. It does take courage to wear natural hair. I love my natural hair, but I would love it more, If I could get it to look and act like I want it to. I live in St.Louis & I am starting to see more sisters wear'n natural hair. What I am tired of seeing is guys w/ braids seems like every since T-pain or smbdy came out, evrbody is rocking these braids, & these guys are using weave. Its time that brothers go back to being "natural"
trumusicgen 2 years ago
you mean they are wearing locs? locs are about as natural as they come in my opinion. that's what our hair does if we don't comb or detangle it, it locs.
mcamurray 2 years ago
@trumusicgen I live in Saint Louis too and it seems like the natural revolution is going on but very gradually. I am just sick of brothas wearing locs trying to be lil wayne and not understanding what they really represent.
Alyssaj1236 1 year ago
I agree with your video. I like the fact that you got your brother's opinion because i think its really honest. i think a lot of guys especially in my age group would agree with him. I'm 22 so i relate to it being sometimes discouraging. i just know that I love myself and my natural hair because its mine. Why should i strip my hair down to try and conform to some standard of beauty that doesn't capture true natural black beauty? We just gotta rock it with confidence.
MsCamilleB 2 years ago 2
@MsCamilleB I live in Saint Louis too and it seems like the natural revolution is going on but very gradually. I am just sick of brothas wearing locs trying to be lil wayne and not understanding what they really represent.
Alyssaj1236 1 year ago
I love your message in this video. Don't be discouraged. It takes courage to be natural, but it's sooo worth it. Be Yourself and be unique.
emac1286 2 years ago