WELL Its SUPER HARD To Try To Come Out When Your 14 Years Old. And Your Mom Is A Jehovah Witness AND She Thinks That You Could NEVER Do Anything Wrong...And Shes Realllly Strict BUT I've Told Her..Well Tried To Tell Her Im Bisexual But Then This Is What She Says" NO YOUR NOT , I DIDNT RAISE NO GAY PERSON...NOT UNDER MY ROOF YOUR NOT GAY"...Soooo Umm...And Like When I Try To Tell Her She Will Stop Letting Me Hang With Friends For A While -.-...
I swear. I wana tell my friends nd other family members bc my mom know that i lyk girls nd boys but girls more. And i got a bfoyfriend nd dnt kno how 2 tell him i lyk girls. I wana b sure that im true 2 myself and make sure its what i want. Can yall give me some advice.
WOW I'm a late bloomer and I did the IALALALALALALALA for real,,,,rainbow everything!!! My boyfriend-(girlfriend by society standards) had to pull me back for real LOL. With me being late in the game.....the weed I smoke.... I truly had the FUCK IT in my system!! If you loved me before you will love me just the same. LOL
say that kellz.. I hate when ppl say that kkidds will be gay cuz the parent gay,,,,, My parents are straight. All the girls n my fam are fem. and the guys are masculine. everyone is n straight relationships. then out popped me...lol so i agree with you King Kellz.. it is what it is...
i told my mom wen i was 15..i probably should've waited till i was a lil older but i felt like it was somethin she should've known...but i started off tellin my friends then my family
Honestly i knew i liked females since i was like 5 but i didn't come out till i was 18. I really wasn't that scared to come out to my friends... it was my mom but i had thought about it and instead of sittin her down and talking to her i wrote her a letter lol. when i got home from school that day it was a letter from her taped to my tv. But she didnt take it that hard to my face but i heard her cryin to my aunt like "why is she doin this to me.. i dont understand" But now im 25 and were good :)
- I'm 23 &just now in an actual relationship with another female ... I've always been into females but hid it by dating males.. If I could go back to when my mom asked me if I was a lesbian ( in middle school ) I most deff WOULD && tell her the TRUTH ! I love my sexuality (=
i swear you guys are tha cutest :D as i always said im who IM & thats not chanqinq. Ya really are confident makes me have more pridee in who im. I mean of course us Gay people do it tha best , no questions asked lmao '(; . But both of ya shawtiess kept shit blunt & i diqqs tha bout ya, so keepitup. tha few videoss i watched bout ya alwayss said true shit bout bitties out here && thinqs in general . ya really inspired people outta here to come out & be confident. as i said keep it up Shawtie <3
I came out when I was 13 yrs old!!! And my family could not stand it. I am 31 now and i have never looked back since my family has embraced my lifestyle and we've been close since then... I love my GLBT family
Werd we should be able to embrace our gayness and no1 should tell us otherwise becuzzs were individuals and we love our selfsame and our gay community if u think about were the only community thats literally called PRIDE;) Soo work it honey
I came out when I was 29 I am now 46 and I just discoverd you tube and lesbian topics I am so happy I did. I always knew I was homosexaul but I did not know it was ok so I tried being with males needless to say it did not turn me straight.While in recovery for alcholism I decided to come out it was the thing to do.
I came out when I was 19 and my dad was cool about it. My mom was different story but I lived on my own so there wasn't much she could say. I'm proud to be who I am and I'm glad for videos like this that can help people feel the same way. Luv you guys!!!! :)
I came out 6 months ago, left my husband for a woman. Then the bitch broke my heart and left me bitter and broken, and now I break hearts. I don't get my heart broke...it's lonely...
lmao @miami i qhawt d same asz whoopinz 2 yo 1 came owt 2 my mom at 17 n told hur i wuhz gay...den i lied lyke i wuhz str8 afta d asz whoopin n said i wuhz gay at 18 lmao
Very touching and real....thanks for taking the time to make this. You two are definitely very empowering, down to earth and real.... And funny! =) Thanks A Bunch!!!!!
This is a great video it really helps all the people in the LGBT community who feel isolated from they family and friends. Its hard to tell your family especailly when you dealing with your own feelings. Keep the videos coming good topic. I love you guys.
I WAS 14.I NEVA HAD TO ACTALLY "CUM OUT"...IT WAS MORE LIKE HEY MAH DIS MY BOYFRIEND, AND THE NEXT DAY HEY MAH THIS MY GIRLFRIEND LMAO...BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS NEVA THE TYPE TO SEEK ANYBODYS APROVAL EXPECIALY MY MOTHERS. LOL N AS FOR CO WORKERS. THEYLL FIGURE IT OUT IF THEY DONT ITS NO BIGGY
I'm 15 and I came out to my Mom when I was 14 and she was like "Oh we'll pray and make it better, I thought you were gay but your not" and all this other shit and I told her straight up I do not want to change and I refuse to change. She was pissed at me for weeks, tried to kick me out to. But I never told her that I changed my mind about being gay. But then she let it go like 9months later. Like we don't sit around and talk about how gay I am but shits good now. She always asks bout my gf too
i was a late bloomer, im 32 and i finally came out at 31...the funny thing is my family and friends where like they knew and were waiting for me to admit it. I was very scared being from a caribbean/reglious family it was hard, but now that its out in the open i feel extremely free<3
Ppl definitely treat you differently after they meet your gf or see you with her and shes a stud/ag/butch. Your no longer welcomed into the water cooler conversations at work, LMAO
I really don't understand why alot of people take coming out so seriously. Who your in a relationship with and who you sleep with is none of your familys business....well atleast to me. I never told my mama I was gay because I didn't think it was that important. She figured out when I got my first gf though lmao. She still thinks I'm 'to girly to be gay though' :(.
@wait2ucmystrap Lol....Yeah, it definitely was. There was no need for conversation after that. I mean what do you say? "Oh yeah ummm, I'm a lesbian, as you could see".
WELL lol im 18 and im a lesbian fem. i came out my freshman year of high school and it was pretty smooth with my friends. none of them cared like at all lol they were just suprised becuz im so girly but they didnt care. my folks on the other hand was a COMPLETELY different story lol my mama called me all kinda bull daggers and diesel dykes lol and told me im goin to hell and annoited my room with oil and basically just went nuts my senior year. she tries to force guys on me but she know im gay
yall made me feel so much better about myself. I feel like I can speak up for myself. Its crazy how im struggling with my family now because I just came out. this was right on time. Thanks Yall :)
im 17 and i have been bisexual since i was in 8th grade and my friends know but sometimes people make me feel bad because they say im double dippin and im nasty and it make me feel really bad because i cant change who i am ,, and i can't tell my gran cause she is the only person i can go to but i feel if i tell her she wont be here for me anymore ,I've told my mom but she isn't in my life anymore and im always scared that if she gets mad at me she will tell my grandmother,i dont no what to do
Cont.d: It'll b 2yrs n May since ive been home...Me & my mom talk ery now & then...& itz usually awkward...Ig itz kuz we live n 2 diff worlds jez like yall say...Butchea sum mfs dont get ovr it...im jez sayin...
i laughed so hard when you said they called you a boy and then when you said when you wore skirts "you look worst", well that was the same with me i swear!!!! no matter what i wore ppl always said i acted like a boy. but im getting a lot of shit for dressing like a stud from friends that knew me as a fem , but no one can change my mind, i love yall vids keeps me laughing.
I Told My Mom This Month . She Flipped Shit & Told Me Im Going To Hell & I Need Help . Im Just Glad I Have Some Great Friends . Im Happy That I Have Nothing To Hold In Now , And Im Glad She Knows Now . Shes Still A Bit Pissed But As Yall Saidd - She'll Get Over It .
great vid... can yal do a topic vid on if its possible for gay people to be friends with straight people.. i was having this debate i believe that its possible but some people dont..
lmfao @ da "skirt n da walk" comment!! dont forget swaggerin in heels. real shyt tho, dat wuz me all day. great vid yall, dis gonna help da young ones n other ppl still in da closet
and its funny because my current girlfriend and my mom has a wonderful relationship. my grandmother took it well because my sister and cousin are also lesbians she say wutever makes us happy. I did lose so friends bt oh well and my real friends stuck by me I love my bestfriend Jessica for helping my through the pain .
I came out 2 my parents 2 years ago my mom stopped talking to me and my dad basically had short words. I went to stay with my bestfriend I wasn't kicked out but could live with my parents not talking to me. when it finally hit my mom that she was losing her baby girl because of her stupidity she finally started to talk back to me it took a couple of months. She thinks its just a phase and maybe I'll grow out of it bt as she met my first girlfriend she started to lose hope on the phase thing.
My mom asked me if i was gay. She knew before I could tell her. My mom is comfortable with it and so is my dad "long as i dont dress like a boy" but i do, sometimes. i dont live with them i live alone so i do what i want. but i do resepct them and they respect me. my mom is always helping me out with my love problems and never has she said "maybe if you were straight" and i come from a very christain home.
l0ve dis video..me n mama dukez g0t problems since she found out im into chicks and she tries to brush it 0ff like its n0t true but hey at least she knows lol..i like wat i like n ders nothin any1 can d0 to change dat!!!!!!
Lmao off @ 'give us free' Amistad #Classic........of all the vids posted...this has become my fav..I sure wish I had saw this bck in 04' #RealTalk ....life woulda been hella betta 4 me...cuz lawd knows I went thru hell...ya'll just dnt know...smh
I completely agree with this 100% Kellz nd Miami!! Baby steps!! I remember when I first felt attraction towards women I had to tell my friends first, once they accepted I was on cloud nine. Im ten years deep in the life now. My main concern was my mom, I didn't want nobody to tell her but me. So I told her fearing she'd put me out. She was shocked for the first minute and then got over it! Once she knew the rest of the world could kiss my ass with their negativity, judgment and criticism!! At
Wow...I find it crazy tht most of the lesbians I know(myself included), has the most similiar "coming out" experiences...it also took me leaving the nest & getting away 4rm my family to finally reveal my lifestyle to them...I was 19 then, & they had a tough time with it @ 1st, but eventually....they realized tht I was happier living my life(as a lesbian), and now we're closer than ever before; )
I feel y'all on this. I'm 15 and came out just a few months ago. My friends are all okay with. I don't hang with to many straight people cause they alway judge me. But then again u need real friends at times like this. My parents always talk down on me to family and their friends. But I let it go in one ear and out the other. Because I'm happy. Rather they like it or not. Its still my life and about my happiness.
thanks you guys, this vid kinda helped me. I kno I still have problems with the comin out because im 19 n not all the way out. like my friends know and a few select members of my family know's, but im just affraid to tell my parents because wen I was 15 [no one knew then] I caught a MEAN ass whoopin n they were just suspecting that I was and it made things even worse for me. but I feel like I have enough courage to tell them now, Thank you both.
My "comin out" expirence is ongoin & sometimes difficult. I'm a proud member of the USAF & for 4 years, Ive had to hide the fact that Im gay for the sake of my job. Because Ive been away from home so long, a lot of my fam & friends dont know Im gay, & my co-workers are very opinionated. After watchin ur video it made me realize that if people don't like me bein gay, they'll get eventually get over it so I shouldnt stress what others think. So thanks for the encouragement & much from South Korea
Thank you for posting this. Most of the people I met came out in high school, or earlier. I felt like if you came out in your 20s you were the oldest inexperienced lesbian on the planet. If King Kellz came out in her 20s there is hope for the rest of us lol.
I really like this vid u guys. This topic needs be talked about more because it is cruel to live a lie.Blessed with the family that I have, my coming out was fairly easy and rather delightful but I know all to well the suffering my people go through. Its amazing that so much hatred still exsists. The world needs to understand that there is no perfect mold of how to be a man or woman and that the true goal of living is to live happily. Forget the standards and the expectations. be you, do you!
i had a pretty good "coming out" experience, but i've dated women who didn't and being with someone but pretending you're not and lying to their family is still very painful. kellz you hit a nerve when you talked about wearing the one outfit to grandmas house lol... i have an ex who did that... it was our ongoing argument for 2yrs... good point on being raised by straight parents tho ;)
we run in packs? real shit im am so happy i finally came out i knew for years since i was like 7 or 8 and i came out when i was 17 . currently yes im living in a household with a man who hates me ever since i came out and he tries to make my life hell but im like thats a flaw on his part as long as my mom is supportive im good
The only people that "don't know" are my parents. I haven't out right told them b/c I don't feel like giving a thesis on bisexuality. I assume they know because I have "all these gay friends," haven't brought a man home in 6 years, brought my ex gf home though. My favorite, they asked my sister if she was gay and gave her the "it's okay to be gay," speech; she was ready to kick my ass. Everybody else in my life knows, I have great friends because they are still my friends.
Great video guys, there is a time and a place to come out. I'm was very very late in coming out I was 31. I was nervous about it, but everyone was just waiting..they already knew I was...lol I guess it took me a while to except myself. I didn't lose any friends and my family was very supportive. I have a niece that came out last year at 13, her mom didn't take it well at all. She still doesn't except it. My niece was pulled out by her mom and really get a chance to come out on her own.
Ordinary. But now I actively involved in LGBT awareness and movements to bring about change within my community and fight for those who have not for their voice and strength yet... Thanks again Miami && Kellz
Thanks for this video, it was such an inspiration. I came out my senior year in HS 2010. I finally told my "best-friend" one friday night about my sexual preference and it seemed as if she had an attitude and told me she's gettin off the phone. We didn't talk nor text the whole weekend. I came to school with a letter inside my locker filled with hate. The following day, she sent text messages to what it seemed like the whole school. The people at my former HS never accepted any thing out of the
Wow great topic again ladies, I just really think that at this point and time, this was a really good choice. Recently we have had a very rude awaking with our youth taking there own lives, because they have no were to turn, they are being bullied and they have no support, this may be one piece of info which may help save a life.
Thats is so tru.....my family thinks because im gay my son will b gay and thats not tha case. I Try to ignore it but its kinda hard wen they keep putting it n my face.
I mean my thing is how do u know? Cos i see a pretty tomboy or butch or even tomboyish fem and im like dizzaym kilogram how can i be down! And emotionally i can connect with females and i know i can fall in love with a female emotionally but when it comes to sex and i see that she has what i have its like i would get repulsed...i dont want no taco meat! but i want the rest of her personality/emotions etc... whats that called?
@girlygirl3721 Ppl dont understand anything they dont have knowledge of smh....thats what the google button is 4...y dont they use it? lol thanks 4 watching
Hola, Kellez & Miami, Nuff Respect! We are losing our gay brothers’ and sisters’ to suicide, bullying, and abandonment everyday. The advice that you gave is worth more than gold. A lot of people look to you as role models, and ya’ll are really stepping it up and making a difference in the world. Keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom because ya’ll are reaching the LGBT community; some who may have been ready to give up on life.
oooh I feel you so much on the having a child and being scared to tell people...my daughter is my world and I was more scared to tell her father than my own family! lol I was nervous that he would try to take her from me thank goodness he was pretty understanding about my relationship with my girlfriend..... and any future girlfriends :)
When I go out with my friends they always say, "Did you see those people staring at you?". They don't understand that I've gotten used to it. It's expected. I'm shocked when I don't get stared at. But at the end of the day, I wouldn't change who I am for anybody. It took me a long time to accept myself and I wouldn't go back to be closeted for anyone.
Well Um 17 Ckame Out At 14 Well My Mama Found Out I Was So Scared 2 Share Who I Was At First Until I Just Got Tried Of It & Didnt Care I Mean My Ma Dnt Care Nomo So Heyy F*** wAT wHOEVA gOTA sAY
I love the title of this video. It just doesnt seem like they will but they eventually do.."get over it" 13:00 I'm a femme but I always did feel that studz had a harder time because of their swagga and all.
ii dnt see why ppl caree who or wat u liike ii mean whn n iif u do cum out n pplsz chnge dah way dah cum aht u or ack 2wrdssz u iitsz derr loszt bcusz iif daee koo wiit u b4 u cum out wdf iisz dah diif aftah liike iit dont chnge dah person daht u r jusz bcusz u liike dah sme sex dah liike me sayiin iimah treat sum 1elsze dahsz str8 diiff bcusz dae dnt liike pssy or peniisz or wdf evah dasz koo ppl shud b happii daht sum 1 truszt dem enuff 2 cum out 2 dem n hve dem nt react n ah bahd way
Hey Kells! It's Alvin (the boy you saw at Yo's with the two girls).
Anyhow, I loooooove the video. For all of Kells's fan: if you feel like you have nowhere else to turn and having a hard time accepting your sexuality: call 1-866-4-U- Trevor. The Trevor Project is non-profit organization that operates the only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for (LGBTQ) youth. The Trevor Lifeline, a toll-free number, is a confidential service that offers trained counselors.
I so agree with this video & this video should help those who are stuck on how to come out to someone. I really do feel that the most important people u need to come out to is ur family bcuz thats something that u really cant hide from the.But the crazy thing is when I came out 2 my parents they told me they knew it was coming.My question is how they had a clue and I really never threw hints that I was going to be a lesbian? Then again theyre west indian lol but I love yall keep doing yall thing
As always... I love you guys. I'm coming out to my closest friends this spring. Ima just tell them over dinner. I was going to make a big thing over it but Ima try to be as smooth as I can possibly be. Im bi and I totally believe in one love as I call it. Gender doesn't matter. WISH ME LUCK!!!
My Coming Out story was crazy with my bi stepdad walking in on me iceing up my gf's chest and my bio-dad calling for jesus on my facebook.. it was all sorts of funny! but Kellz I'd love to talk to you about interviewing you sometimes about your line of work. would love to pick your brain :)
@brittanybabe495 Be strong & ready for whatever words he may say...but remember @ the end of the day its about your happiness, not his. GOODLUCK! we're rootin 4 ya ;-1
Didn't know you had a daughter Kellz. She must be super cute lol Anyways I'm all for both of you talking about your coming out stories and making others feel comfortable because I hate to see people losing their lives due to not being accepted for their sexual orientation. I may not agree with all you opinions but I respect it. God Bless.
Great video you guys. So true about people 'gettin over it'. I came out in my late 20's and told my family that they could either be a part of my life or not be a part of my life. I made it clear that I was never gonna live MY life for them. You only live once... better do it up right while you can ;-).
WELL Its SUPER HARD To Try To Come Out When Your 14 Years Old. And Your Mom Is A Jehovah Witness AND She Thinks That You Could NEVER Do Anything Wrong...And Shes Realllly Strict BUT I've Told Her..Well Tried To Tell Her Im Bisexual But Then This Is What She Says" NO YOUR NOT , I DIDNT RAISE NO GAY PERSON...NOT UNDER MY ROOF YOUR NOT GAY"...Soooo Umm...And Like When I Try To Tell Her She Will Stop Letting Me Hang With Friends For A While -.-...
xXToriiXxD 4 days ago
Best Video So Far!
jedimastrdan 1 month ago
I swear. I wana tell my friends nd other family members bc my mom know that i lyk girls nd boys but girls more. And i got a bfoyfriend nd dnt kno how 2 tell him i lyk girls. I wana b sure that im true 2 myself and make sure its what i want. Can yall give me some advice.
jewelcocoa94 1 month ago
WOW I'm a late bloomer and I did the IALALALALALALALA for real,,,,rainbow everything!!! My boyfriend-(girlfriend by society standards) had to pull me back for real LOL. With me being late in the game.....the weed I smoke.... I truly had the FUCK IT in my system!! If you loved me before you will love me just the same. LOL
prozac4everyone 2 months ago
well damn . . . i was just like " mom , i like girls " she flipped the hell out and then she met my girlfriend the next day . lol & she got over it .
thebigpinkbow 2 months ago
Mad True
Mocha7997 3 months ago
say that kellz.. I hate when ppl say that kkidds will be gay cuz the parent gay,,,,, My parents are straight. All the girls n my fam are fem. and the guys are masculine. everyone is n straight relationships. then out popped me...lol so i agree with you King Kellz.. it is what it is...
enforcerofthelaw 3 months ago
i told my mom wen i was 15..i probably should've waited till i was a lil older but i felt like it was somethin she should've known...but i started off tellin my friends then my family
MusicalObsession101 5 months ago
Honestly i knew i liked females since i was like 5 but i didn't come out till i was 18. I really wasn't that scared to come out to my friends... it was my mom but i had thought about it and instead of sittin her down and talking to her i wrote her a letter lol. when i got home from school that day it was a letter from her taped to my tv. But she didnt take it that hard to my face but i heard her cryin to my aunt like "why is she doin this to me.. i dont understand" But now im 25 and were good :)
MsBreezy2k11 5 months ago
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- I'm 23 &just now in an actual relationship with another female ... I've always been into females but hid it by dating males.. If I could go back to when my mom asked me if I was a lesbian ( in middle school ) I most deff WOULD && tell her the TRUTH ! I love my sexuality (=
bronchef 6 months ago
i swear you guys are tha cutest :D as i always said im who IM & thats not chanqinq. Ya really are confident makes me have more pridee in who im. I mean of course us Gay people do it tha best , no questions asked lmao '(; . But both of ya shawtiess kept shit blunt & i diqqs tha bout ya, so keepitup. tha few videoss i watched bout ya alwayss said true shit bout bitties out here && thinqs in general . ya really inspired people outta here to come out & be confident. as i said keep it up Shawtie <3
VickyBitchx3 6 months ago
I came out when I was 13 yrs old!!! And my family could not stand it. I am 31 now and i have never looked back since my family has embraced my lifestyle and we've been close since then... I love my GLBT family
lonquis 7 months ago
REAL T Kellz n Miami!!!!!
lonquis 7 months ago
I wish I could hug y'all
56zaxlvr 7 months ago
And I came out whn I was 14
Cookiemonster21621 8 months ago
Werd we should be able to embrace our gayness and no1 should tell us otherwise becuzzs were individuals and we love our selfsame and our gay community if u think about were the only community thats literally called PRIDE;) Soo work it honey
Cookiemonster21621 8 months ago
I LOVE YOU GUYS!!! ABSOLUTELY AMAZINGG.
melonybabyy09 9 months ago
I came out when I was 29 I am now 46 and I just discoverd you tube and lesbian topics I am so happy I did. I always knew I was homosexaul but I did not know it was ok so I tried being with males needless to say it did not turn me straight.While in recovery for alcholism I decided to come out it was the thing to do.
cynt123able 9 months ago
I came out when I was 19 and my dad was cool about it. My mom was different story but I lived on my own so there wasn't much she could say. I'm proud to be who I am and I'm glad for videos like this that can help people feel the same way. Luv you guys!!!! :)
MissPapi683 10 months ago
I came out 6 months ago, left my husband for a woman. Then the bitch broke my heart and left me bitter and broken, and now I break hearts. I don't get my heart broke...it's lonely...
DominiQuinn 10 months ago
lmao @miami i qhawt d same asz whoopinz 2 yo 1 came owt 2 my mom at 17 n told hur i wuhz gay...den i lied lyke i wuhz str8 afta d asz whoopin n said i wuhz gay at 18 lmao
nuv02h0m0 10 months ago
@Kissiq1618 ALWAYS!!! thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 10 months ago
Very touching and real....thanks for taking the time to make this. You two are definitely very empowering, down to earth and real.... And funny! =) Thanks A Bunch!!!!!
3524nicole 11 months ago
This is a great video it really helps all the people in the LGBT community who feel isolated from they family and friends. Its hard to tell your family especailly when you dealing with your own feelings. Keep the videos coming good topic. I love you guys.
sophistication4 11 months ago
"Actually your dusty"...LOL HARD...yall too funny....yeah coworkers are the worst...kepp it to yourself at work, nobody needs to know your business-
FreaknNiggaRican 11 months ago
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FreaknNiggaRican 11 months ago
I WAS 14.I NEVA HAD TO ACTALLY "CUM OUT"...IT WAS MORE LIKE HEY MAH DIS MY BOYFRIEND, AND THE NEXT DAY HEY MAH THIS MY GIRLFRIEND LMAO...BUT THEN AGAIN I WAS NEVA THE TYPE TO SEEK ANYBODYS APROVAL EXPECIALY MY MOTHERS. LOL N AS FOR CO WORKERS. THEYLL FIGURE IT OUT IF THEY DONT ITS NO BIGGY
poohbear727 11 months ago
Wow in tears (TMI to go into detail on youtube), but great video. Much Luv.
mds5080 11 months ago
@mds5080 Glad it touched you...Everything will workout as it should...stay strong...Much luv
wait2ucmystrap 11 months ago
I'm 15 and I came out to my Mom when I was 14 and she was like "Oh we'll pray and make it better, I thought you were gay but your not" and all this other shit and I told her straight up I do not want to change and I refuse to change. She was pissed at me for weeks, tried to kick me out to. But I never told her that I changed my mind about being gay. But then she let it go like 9months later. Like we don't sit around and talk about how gay I am but shits good now. She always asks bout my gf too
theoriginalmassacre 1 year ago
i was a late bloomer, im 32 and i finally came out at 31...the funny thing is my family and friends where like they knew and were waiting for me to admit it. I was very scared being from a caribbean/reglious family it was hard, but now that its out in the open i feel extremely free<3
gminindiva060778 1 year ago 2
Ppl definitely treat you differently after they meet your gf or see you with her and shes a stud/ag/butch. Your no longer welcomed into the water cooler conversations at work, LMAO
SunShyne000 1 year ago
This Video is one of the many reasons that I LOVE YOU KELLZ AND MIAMI!!!
STAY SPREADING THE MOTIVATING AND HILLARIOUS VIDEOS...
YOU ALWAYS MAKE MY DAY =)
PEACE
TheKnowledge4ya 1 year ago
Miami, Kellz, you guys changed my life. You guys made me confident to come out to my parents.
MrsTreatUBetta1 1 year ago 5
@MrsTreatUBetta1 Thats exactly wat this vid is 4...empowerment....Do ya thing! u got our support...much Luv
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
I really don't understand why alot of people take coming out so seriously. Who your in a relationship with and who you sleep with is none of your familys business....well atleast to me. I never told my mama I was gay because I didn't think it was that important. She figured out when I got my first gf though lmao. She still thinks I'm 'to girly to be gay though' :(.
BunnyChanOMG 1 year ago
I loved this video. I just wish someone had done this before my mother found out by seeing my face in between my girls legs.
MsSongstress32 1 year ago 8
@MsSongstress32 LMFAOOOO....well damn! wat a way to come out! lol
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago 2
@wait2ucmystrap Lol....Yeah, it definitely was. There was no need for conversation after that. I mean what do you say? "Oh yeah ummm, I'm a lesbian, as you could see".
MsSongstress32 1 year ago
@MsSongstress32 DAMN.........I dont think I could've ever looked in my mom's face again, ROTFL
SunShyne000 1 year ago
WELL lol im 18 and im a lesbian fem. i came out my freshman year of high school and it was pretty smooth with my friends. none of them cared like at all lol they were just suprised becuz im so girly but they didnt care. my folks on the other hand was a COMPLETELY different story lol my mama called me all kinda bull daggers and diesel dykes lol and told me im goin to hell and annoited my room with oil and basically just went nuts my senior year. she tries to force guys on me but she know im gay
MuzikRegan 1 year ago
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You think it hard coming out . Try coming out at 50.
teshuriyah 1 year ago
Thank you so much for doing this video it's good to know that y'all went thru some of the same stuff your fans have
jslilmama217 1 year ago
SO jealous of Kellz' hair!!!
Bee924 1 year ago
yall made me feel so much better about myself. I feel like I can speak up for myself. Its crazy how im struggling with my family now because I just came out. this was right on time. Thanks Yall :)
msashley3192 1 year ago
GREAT ADVICE!!!
almondbrown09 1 year ago
im 17 and i have been bisexual since i was in 8th grade and my friends know but sometimes people make me feel bad because they say im double dippin and im nasty and it make me feel really bad because i cant change who i am ,, and i can't tell my gran cause she is the only person i can go to but i feel if i tell her she wont be here for me anymore ,I've told my mom but she isn't in my life anymore and im always scared that if she gets mad at me she will tell my grandmother,i dont no what to do
sorrowwifey 1 year ago
Cont.d: It'll b 2yrs n May since ive been home...Me & my mom talk ery now & then...& itz usually awkward...Ig itz kuz we live n 2 diff worlds jez like yall say...Butchea sum mfs dont get ovr it...im jez sayin...
kuntrb0isupa 1 year ago
i laughed so hard when you said they called you a boy and then when you said when you wore skirts "you look worst", well that was the same with me i swear!!!! no matter what i wore ppl always said i acted like a boy. but im getting a lot of shit for dressing like a stud from friends that knew me as a fem , but no one can change my mind, i love yall vids keeps me laughing.
atlantisballa32 1 year ago
"There's this one girl...And I fucked you" L.M.F.A.O.
gurl9300 1 year ago
PRECH MIAMI....PREACH!!!!!!!!!!
curiousgrl23 1 year ago
I Told My Mom This Month . She Flipped Shit & Told Me Im Going To Hell & I Need Help . Im Just Glad I Have Some Great Friends . Im Happy That I Have Nothing To Hold In Now , And Im Glad She Knows Now . Shes Still A Bit Pissed But As Yall Saidd - She'll Get Over It .
babegurlstayfresh 1 year ago
great vid... can yal do a topic vid on if its possible for gay people to be friends with straight people.. i was having this debate i believe that its possible but some people dont..
MAKIYAH09 1 year ago
lmfao @ da "skirt n da walk" comment!! dont forget swaggerin in heels. real shyt tho, dat wuz me all day. great vid yall, dis gonna help da young ones n other ppl still in da closet
rastagyal76 1 year ago
and its funny because my current girlfriend and my mom has a wonderful relationship. my grandmother took it well because my sister and cousin are also lesbians she say wutever makes us happy. I did lose so friends bt oh well and my real friends stuck by me I love my bestfriend Jessica for helping my through the pain .
dashai1991 1 year ago
I came out 2 my parents 2 years ago my mom stopped talking to me and my dad basically had short words. I went to stay with my bestfriend I wasn't kicked out but could live with my parents not talking to me. when it finally hit my mom that she was losing her baby girl because of her stupidity she finally started to talk back to me it took a couple of months. She thinks its just a phase and maybe I'll grow out of it bt as she met my first girlfriend she started to lose hope on the phase thing.
dashai1991 1 year ago
My mom asked me if i was gay. She knew before I could tell her. My mom is comfortable with it and so is my dad "long as i dont dress like a boy" but i do, sometimes. i dont live with them i live alone so i do what i want. but i do resepct them and they respect me. my mom is always helping me out with my love problems and never has she said "maybe if you were straight" and i come from a very christain home.
spitaliricanmami 1 year ago
l0ve dis video..me n mama dukez g0t problems since she found out im into chicks and she tries to brush it 0ff like its n0t true but hey at least she knows lol..i like wat i like n ders nothin any1 can d0 to change dat!!!!!!
nenamonroex0 1 year ago
Lmao off @ 'give us free' Amistad #Classic........of all the vids posted...this has become my fav..I sure wish I had saw this bck in 04' #RealTalk ....life woulda been hella betta 4 me...cuz lawd knows I went thru hell...ya'll just dnt know...smh
TheButterflyy7 1 year ago
I completely agree with this 100% Kellz nd Miami!! Baby steps!! I remember when I first felt attraction towards women I had to tell my friends first, once they accepted I was on cloud nine. Im ten years deep in the life now. My main concern was my mom, I didn't want nobody to tell her but me. So I told her fearing she'd put me out. She was shocked for the first minute and then got over it! Once she knew the rest of the world could kiss my ass with their negativity, judgment and criticism!! At
downelink2005 1 year ago
Wow...I find it crazy tht most of the lesbians I know(myself included), has the most similiar "coming out" experiences...it also took me leaving the nest & getting away 4rm my family to finally reveal my lifestyle to them...I was 19 then, & they had a tough time with it @ 1st, but eventually....they realized tht I was happier living my life(as a lesbian), and now we're closer than ever before; )
TheButterflyy7 1 year ago
I feel y'all on this. I'm 15 and came out just a few months ago. My friends are all okay with. I don't hang with to many straight people cause they alway judge me. But then again u need real friends at times like this. My parents always talk down on me to family and their friends. But I let it go in one ear and out the other. Because I'm happy. Rather they like it or not. Its still my life and about my happiness.
KrazyPrincessKiki 1 year ago
baby steps is the key to succeed it gets better!
MsJustLovley 1 year ago
thanks you guys, this vid kinda helped me. I kno I still have problems with the comin out because im 19 n not all the way out. like my friends know and a few select members of my family know's, but im just affraid to tell my parents because wen I was 15 [no one knew then] I caught a MEAN ass whoopin n they were just suspecting that I was and it made things even worse for me. but I feel like I have enough courage to tell them now, Thank you both.
AEiam0309 1 year ago 7
@AEiam0309 BE STRONG & STAND YA GROUND...THATS THE ONLY WAY 2 GET YA POINT ACROSS & BE TAKEN SERIOUSLY...MUCH LUV
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
My "comin out" expirence is ongoin & sometimes difficult. I'm a proud member of the USAF & for 4 years, Ive had to hide the fact that Im gay for the sake of my job. Because Ive been away from home so long, a lot of my fam & friends dont know Im gay, & my co-workers are very opinionated. After watchin ur video it made me realize that if people don't like me bein gay, they'll get eventually get over it so I shouldnt stress what others think. So thanks for the encouragement & much from South Korea
CashmereDolcetto 1 year ago
@CashmereDolcetto GLAD WE COULD HELP!!! U GOT OUR SUPPORT!! MUCH LUV!!
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this. Most of the people I met came out in high school, or earlier. I felt like if you came out in your 20s you were the oldest inexperienced lesbian on the planet. If King Kellz came out in her 20s there is hope for the rest of us lol.
cjizzleismynizzle 1 year ago
@cjizzleismynizzle OKAY!!!! TELLEM!!!
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
I really like this vid u guys. This topic needs be talked about more because it is cruel to live a lie.Blessed with the family that I have, my coming out was fairly easy and rather delightful but I know all to well the suffering my people go through. Its amazing that so much hatred still exsists. The world needs to understand that there is no perfect mold of how to be a man or woman and that the true goal of living is to live happily. Forget the standards and the expectations. be you, do you!
TheLesbianlover1987 1 year ago
i had a pretty good "coming out" experience, but i've dated women who didn't and being with someone but pretending you're not and lying to their family is still very painful. kellz you hit a nerve when you talked about wearing the one outfit to grandmas house lol... i have an ex who did that... it was our ongoing argument for 2yrs... good point on being raised by straight parents tho ;)
rayel16 1 year ago
we run in packs? real shit im am so happy i finally came out i knew for years since i was like 7 or 8 and i came out when i was 17 . currently yes im living in a household with a man who hates me ever since i came out and he tries to make my life hell but im like thats a flaw on his part as long as my mom is supportive im good
FreckelzMarie 1 year ago
The only people that "don't know" are my parents. I haven't out right told them b/c I don't feel like giving a thesis on bisexuality. I assume they know because I have "all these gay friends," haven't brought a man home in 6 years, brought my ex gf home though. My favorite, they asked my sister if she was gay and gave her the "it's okay to be gay," speech; she was ready to kick my ass. Everybody else in my life knows, I have great friends because they are still my friends.
Sessiness 1 year ago
MIAMI U SOOOOO SEXY!!!!
MrBosslady1 1 year ago
@MrBosslady1 Thank u ;-)
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
OMG KELLZ U HAV A DAUGHTER?!?!? U NEVA TOLD ME THAT!! ;-)
DIDNT REALLY HAV A COMMENT ABOUT THE VIDEO...... YALL LOOKD GOOD AS ALWAYS THO!
SimpliiLo 1 year ago
Great video guys, there is a time and a place to come out. I'm was very very late in coming out I was 31. I was nervous about it, but everyone was just waiting..they already knew I was...lol I guess it took me a while to except myself. I didn't lose any friends and my family was very supportive. I have a niece that came out last year at 13, her mom didn't take it well at all. She still doesn't except it. My niece was pulled out by her mom and really get a chance to come out on her own.
DaOneChozen 1 year ago
Ordinary. But now I actively involved in LGBT awareness and movements to bring about change within my community and fight for those who have not for their voice and strength yet... Thanks again Miami && Kellz
kookiey247 1 year ago
@kookiey247 *APPLAUDS YOUR COURAGE & STRENGTH* WE NEED MORE LIKE YOU IN OUR COMMUNITY...MUCH LUV & THANKS 4 WATCHING
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
Thanks for this video, it was such an inspiration. I came out my senior year in HS 2010. I finally told my "best-friend" one friday night about my sexual preference and it seemed as if she had an attitude and told me she's gettin off the phone. We didn't talk nor text the whole weekend. I came to school with a letter inside my locker filled with hate. The following day, she sent text messages to what it seemed like the whole school. The people at my former HS never accepted any thing out of the
kookiey247 1 year ago
Wow great topic again ladies, I just really think that at this point and time, this was a really good choice. Recently we have had a very rude awaking with our youth taking there own lives, because they have no were to turn, they are being bullied and they have no support, this may be one piece of info which may help save a life.
kegulle1 1 year ago
Thats is so tru.....my family thinks because im gay my son will b gay and thats not tha case. I Try to ignore it but its kinda hard wen they keep putting it n my face.
ladiit1991 1 year ago
I mean my thing is how do u know? Cos i see a pretty tomboy or butch or even tomboyish fem and im like dizzaym kilogram how can i be down! And emotionally i can connect with females and i know i can fall in love with a female emotionally but when it comes to sex and i see that she has what i have its like i would get repulsed...i dont want no taco meat! but i want the rest of her personality/emotions etc... whats that called?
EyeWearMySunglasses 1 year ago
@EyeWearMySunglasses Physical attraction
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
@wait2ucmystrap lol, thx
EyeWearMySunglasses 1 year ago
Try being asexual, people don't understand that at all!
girlygirl3721 1 year ago
@girlygirl3721 Ppl dont understand anything they dont have knowledge of smh....thats what the google button is 4...y dont they use it? lol thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
damn good video
LiLMeMPHoRaPz 1 year ago
Hola, Kellez & Miami, Nuff Respect! We are losing our gay brothers’ and sisters’ to suicide, bullying, and abandonment everyday. The advice that you gave is worth more than gold. A lot of people look to you as role models, and ya’ll are really stepping it up and making a difference in the world. Keep sharing your knowledge and wisdom because ya’ll are reaching the LGBT community; some who may have been ready to give up on life.
lovestar1110 1 year ago
oooh I feel you so much on the having a child and being scared to tell people...my daughter is my world and I was more scared to tell her father than my own family! lol I was nervous that he would try to take her from me thank goodness he was pretty understanding about my relationship with my girlfriend..... and any future girlfriends :)
TheSjc12 1 year ago
When I go out with my friends they always say, "Did you see those people staring at you?". They don't understand that I've gotten used to it. It's expected. I'm shocked when I don't get stared at. But at the end of the day, I wouldn't change who I am for anybody. It took me a long time to accept myself and I wouldn't go back to be closeted for anyone.
KROCK3223 1 year ago
Well Um 17 Ckame Out At 14 Well My Mama Found Out I Was So Scared 2 Share Who I Was At First Until I Just Got Tried Of It & Didnt Care I Mean My Ma Dnt Care Nomo So Heyy F*** wAT wHOEVA gOTA sAY
ModelisticBiChick 1 year ago
I love the title of this video. It just doesnt seem like they will but they eventually do.."get over it" 13:00 I'm a femme but I always did feel that studz had a harder time because of their swagga and all.
TheFemmgurl 1 year ago
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raynebowzondeck 1 year ago
Hey Kells! It's Alvin (the boy you saw at Yo's with the two girls).
Anyhow, I loooooove the video. For all of Kells's fan: if you feel like you have nowhere else to turn and having a hard time accepting your sexuality: call 1-866-4-U- Trevor. The Trevor Project is non-profit organization that operates the only nationwide, around-the-clock crisis and suicide prevention helpline for (LGBTQ) youth. The Trevor Lifeline, a toll-free number, is a confidential service that offers trained counselors.
ablack2005 1 year ago
@ablack2005 Wats good ALVIN!! Thanks 4 this info...real helpful!
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
I so agree with this video & this video should help those who are stuck on how to come out to someone. I really do feel that the most important people u need to come out to is ur family bcuz thats something that u really cant hide from the.But the crazy thing is when I came out 2 my parents they told me they knew it was coming.My question is how they had a clue and I really never threw hints that I was going to be a lesbian? Then again theyre west indian lol but I love yall keep doing yall thing
Redbk718 1 year ago
@Redbk718 Parents always know secrets about us that WE dont kno lol thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
@Wait2ucmystrap I think a lot of teens are going to learn something from this video...i will be sure to share this.much love
style4792 1 year ago
@style4792 Ppreciate it
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
As always... I love you guys. I'm coming out to my closest friends this spring. Ima just tell them over dinner. I was going to make a big thing over it but Ima try to be as smooth as I can possibly be. Im bi and I totally believe in one love as I call it. Gender doesn't matter. WISH ME LUCK!!!
MsGradSchool 1 year ago
hol up hol up ...kels got a daughter??/
ARYEliB 1 year ago
My Coming Out story was crazy with my bi stepdad walking in on me iceing up my gf's chest and my bio-dad calling for jesus on my facebook.. it was all sorts of funny! but Kellz I'd love to talk to you about interviewing you sometimes about your line of work. would love to pick your brain :)
QueenAli12 1 year ago
Maybe sometimes you get the bathroom stare because they like what they see. hmmmm....
raynae1215 1 year ago
love the video. imma have to watch it one more time b4 i go to clearwater and come out to pops this weekend...
brittanybabe495 1 year ago
@brittanybabe495 Be strong & ready for whatever words he may say...but remember @ the end of the day its about your happiness, not his. GOODLUCK! we're rootin 4 ya ;-1
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago 3
scissor dancer
#stolen
Longhairdontcare2011 1 year ago
@Longhairdontcare2011 lmao GIVE IT BACK! lol
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
@wait2ucmystrap
Fine..if you're going to act like a scissor dancer about it...take it!!
:P
Longhairdontcare2011 1 year ago
I Love Yu Kellz !! Can't Wait Till You Come Bck To Houston At Yo's!! :D
PrettyGrlC 1 year ago
I Love Yu Kells !! Can't Wait Till You Come Bck To Houston At Yo's!! :D
PrettyGrlC 1 year ago
@PrettyGrlC Luv u 2 sweetheart....make sure u show face & gimmie a hug @ yo's ;-1
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
Gangsta walkin wit a skirt...dat shit had me bout to piss myself!! great vid
blubuttafly2010 1 year ago
@blubuttafly2010 smh lookin TERRIBLE!!!! lol thanks 4 watchin
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
Didn't know you had a daughter Kellz. She must be super cute lol Anyways I'm all for both of you talking about your coming out stories and making others feel comfortable because I hate to see people losing their lives due to not being accepted for their sexual orientation. I may not agree with all you opinions but I respect it. God Bless.
MissJay86 1 year ago
@MissJay86 ppreciate it...Thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
wait so miami you dress like a fem at work like tight pants all dat good stuff??
nice9292 1 year ago
@nice9292 Uhhhh NO ????? When did she say that? lol
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
@wait2ucmystrap 3:37 n beyond
nice9292 1 year ago
@nice9292 feel u...thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
I had no idea that you had a daughter Kellz .
That had me like #BAM . But good looking at
helping these girls come out . I appreciate both
of youu sharing your feelings .
mermaidparty 1 year ago
@mermaidparty uhhh yeah,,,your late lol...i've had a daughter for 8 yrs now lol
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
@wait2ucmystrap Weell damn skippy . Lol . First thing I learned all day .
But what you guyss said about girls coming out mad early . I really feel that .
Im 16 , I came out last yearr . And it seems like girls are coming out
13,14 . Im like dangg , I don't wana go to jail for yall .
mermaidparty 1 year ago
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mermaidparty 1 year ago
Great video you guys. So true about people 'gettin over it'. I came out in my late 20's and told my family that they could either be a part of my life or not be a part of my life. I made it clear that I was never gonna live MY life for them. You only live once... better do it up right while you can ;-).
MsTrycie 1 year ago
@MsTrycie Exactly...Thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
great video luv it
bossy0912 1 year ago
@bossy0912 Thanks 4 watching
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago
kellz u so goofy i kno its a serious topic but the random jokes put light on it! which is good! lol good advice
keke2200 1 year ago
@keke2200 Wouldnt be me if i didnt put a lil comedy in it lol thanks 4 watching ;-1
wait2ucmystrap 1 year ago