I understand and respect your stance on virginity and appreciate you base your decision off spiritual reasons as opposed to religious ones. I dont regret having sex. Sex is a wonderful gesture to show someone how much you care and how vulnerable you can be by giving yourself. Be careful to who you give yourself to, make them work for it because you are much more than whats between your legs and make sure you know how to please yourself prior to having sex. Explore yourself. Love yourself.
if you go against God, it will end up bad in the end, listen to the song:"I dreamed a dream". But the good news is that even if you messed up, if you turn with all your heart and do it God's way, God still loves you and can bless you. What's impossible for men, is possible for God" (Matthew 19:26). Your debt you can not pay, your promises you can't fulfil. But God still loves you, and forgives, and is able to give beauty for ashes. And you will sing: "Leaning on the everlasting arms AlanJackson"
If you do things with all your heart and power, according to God's instructions, EVERYTHING will be alright in the end. Do things according to God's instructions, and you will be blessed. "Do not fret yourself because of evildoers" (Psalm 37:1). Saving sex for marriage EVEN if you are not a virgin, and honouring our parents and God in our relationships is what God wants, and He wants what's best for us. Read the whole Bible, fellow Christians who are looking for light. God loves, wants to bless.
It's better to marry young, but also, to keep all intimacy for marriage. It is also good to marry only with the blessing of God and parents. It's a disaster to lose virginity before marriage, but God can still give beauty for ashes (Isa 61:3) to all that come to Him. He is rich, to give us according to his riches, even if we have nothing to pay, even if we don't deserve it. Come to God, and God will bless you. Honour God, and He will honour you. It's TOTALLY best to save it for marriage.
I'm a 22 year old virgin due to spiritual reasons and morals I have in my life. There were crazy times growing up through high school and college when I was tempted to have sex but with all the rejections and hard to get girls. I'm simply happier being Pure. VIRGINS ARE AWESOME!!!
Being a virgin is a frightening, terrorizing fact to have as a part of your life, especially when you're 77. Sorry pap I wasn't good enough to carry our family name
you don't want to wait or you will suffer others willl not like you and you won't like yourslef because your wasting you life cause that really all there is
@thecodfather881 I was 17 when I lost mine, its about finding yourself and being able to accept and deal with yourself before you can even consider about dealing with the many many problems of other people
@PrayPray1000 Just because they do doesn't mean you should,it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you,you're still 13,you have all the time in your life to decide when you're ready,but now doesn't have to be.
I agree as well that this widespread sedentary and epicurian type lifestyles of the majority of us is sinful. And its awesome that we've gotten to a place where you can openly make a video about dating other guys.
Its like axiomatic that you are a very intelligent guy. Girls (or guys) would be lucky to get woth you at any point. Not many people are as ethereal in thought and mind as you are. Do you write poetry? My guess is that you do.
There's also a lot of stereotypes with people who have had sex. ie irrisponsible, unplanned pregnancies, std ridden, promiscuous, don't respect themselves, not religious, wild etc but having sex will not make things difficult unless you make it difficult in the same way that not having sex will not make you an outcast unless you make yourself an outcast. Being a virgin is not a bad thing but not being a virgin is not a bad thing either
hell yea. im sick of all this bullshit all these tv shows that are hypnotizing ppl these days. theres nuttin wrong wit it. feel free to shoot ppl who tell u its wrong because they are the ones who are wrong
I'm 20 and still a virgin. And I don't have any reason for it actually, nothing religious or spiritual and I don't mind having sex until marriage. I just freak out when a random guy wants to have fun for a night. I mean, I don't mind kissing them, but that's about it. And I feel ashamed for it, because like almost everyone already has had sex. It makes me feel weird you know, and because of that I get insecure. I also never been in love, never really had a boyfriend...
@saariemarijs whatever you do, don't lose it to a random guy that is something you will 100% regret! just wait until you have a boyfriend that you feel comfortable with cause the first time will hurt and you want to do it with someone who will be gentle and considerate. If you do it with a random guy you wont want to do it again for a long while. There's no rush, you only get one first time
I'm 20 and still a virgin...YAY:) The main reason I won't have sex until marriage is because I know that when that time comes I will have lived a fulfilling life as a single woman and am now ready to share my life with someone special. I want to be able to connect with someone on an intellectual and emotional level first so when that time comes to connect on a physical level, we both will be deeply in love with each other and that will make our time together even more special
I'm 16 a virgin and waiting for marriage. You wouldn't believe the things people say about how they can't wait for the weekend cud they're gunna get laid I just roll my eyes and think how stupid they are. I am also a vegetarian too.
Shit I'm never going 2 get laid. That's the truth :( I also Am never going 2 get married because females don't like me :'( but Ima just Move on with me life as a single persay. And die alone
@rogue2520@Strikeout1991 How is that right? Or true? WHO CAN'T GET LAID!? It's not that fuckin' hard. Hell, I get offers to have sex ... doesn't mean I'm gonna do it. Get real. Some people have morals and respect. It's better to wait. And as many teen pregnancies and STDs goin' around ... These teens NEED to wait.
I'm 19, a guy, and proud of being a virgin. It rocks lol! One Life. One love. It doesn't matter what the world might think of me, i'm free of stds, unwanted kids, and drama. I also feel like I haven't reach a mental state to be responsible enough to have sex. People are just stupid, nowadays sleeping with 5 people a week is "normal", well call me old fashion but I love my virginity.
@favm360 Thank you for saying that! I am in the exact same boat. It doesn't really matter if I'm married or not but I wanna be in love. And I'm way too childish for all that right now lol Props to you =] and props to this video.
@favm360 I've fucked bitches and don't have STDs or kids. It's called condoms. They're like $3 bucks for a pack you should look into it. You know what's a lot cooler than being a virgin? Pussies and fucking them.
I'm a virgin but I'm not waiting for marriage, I just haven't found a guy who's right or mature enough. That and I have a birthmark on my head which has left a scar/bald spot. Pretty much just waiting to fix that and find a good guy.
Good for you!. Im a 22 year old straight guy but have no desire for a relationship & to have kids. I would hate the responsiblity plus I would get no joy out of it. Im a virgin & planning to stay one until the end. I may be 6'4", cute & have long blond hair & have 128 iq but I do have social Anxiety Disorder.
hey saywhatondat...your right girl...i hope it will inspire other to hold on. it has been very challenging for me me now bc i am at a crossroad...i am in a relationship with an amazing guy and the physical connection is the missing part....we have the mental,emotional,and spiritual down pact you know....soo im just gonna leave it up to god..and cont. to pray!
Thats sounds like my life!! and seeing your video I'm hoping this will inspire many other virgins to stay strong and not fall for temptation when they are not ready
Good for you, I want to wait too, even though technically i'm not, emotionally i am.. I feel empty just having sex without knowing that the other person cares about you-not everything is about sex all the time. There's more to the world to see and do than sex.
hey I feel ya', I'm a 20 year old virgin too saving myself for marriage, but gotta be honest and say its only for religious reasons. But I really respect you and am glad to see there are some people out there like me! Stay strong sista!
@IconMatthew1 You only live once.. i'm not saying go out and have sex with anyone you meet, but if you really connect with someone and/or have a relationship.. there is no good reason, religious or otherwise, to abstain from it. There is no evidence to support the religious claims that pre-marital sex is wrong, hence it is not wrong. And to quote George Burns.. It's not pre-marital sex if you had no intention to marry her!
religion isnt as much about proof as it is faith. Regardless on my wedding night I want to give my wife something I haven't given anyone else, ya' know make it special.
well, you can have faith in anything you want, but that doesn't make it true.. I have faith that I will one day win the lottery, does that mean there's really any realistic chance of that happening? Also.. by your implications are you saying people who get married and aren't virgins, aren't special? In all likelihood, if you don't take a 'test drive' before committing your life to someone, you'll end up with someone you're not sexually compatible with and end up divorced.
I never said people who've had sex before marriage don't have special wedding nights or relationships. Its more about faith its about commitment, I dont look down at anyone who doesn't wait until marriage. Its not like it makes them a bad/inferior person. But with all due respect your logic doesn't make sense against facts, divorce rate has gone up with sexual promiscuity. Truth is studies show that having sex before marriage generally does more harm than good. But individuals are different.
non virgins= sluts. I will have fun with non virgin girls but i deff want to marry a virgin girl.
KingDcome11 6 days ago
I understand and respect your stance on virginity and appreciate you base your decision off spiritual reasons as opposed to religious ones. I dont regret having sex. Sex is a wonderful gesture to show someone how much you care and how vulnerable you can be by giving yourself. Be careful to who you give yourself to, make them work for it because you are much more than whats between your legs and make sure you know how to please yourself prior to having sex. Explore yourself. Love yourself.
pm11237 1 week ago
im not virgin and i'm proud of it
FIGHTFANNERD3 1 week ago
if you go against God, it will end up bad in the end, listen to the song:"I dreamed a dream". But the good news is that even if you messed up, if you turn with all your heart and do it God's way, God still loves you and can bless you. What's impossible for men, is possible for God" (Matthew 19:26). Your debt you can not pay, your promises you can't fulfil. But God still loves you, and forgives, and is able to give beauty for ashes. And you will sing: "Leaning on the everlasting arms AlanJackson"
davidbenjeshua 1 month ago
If you do things with all your heart and power, according to God's instructions, EVERYTHING will be alright in the end. Do things according to God's instructions, and you will be blessed. "Do not fret yourself because of evildoers" (Psalm 37:1). Saving sex for marriage EVEN if you are not a virgin, and honouring our parents and God in our relationships is what God wants, and He wants what's best for us. Read the whole Bible, fellow Christians who are looking for light. God loves, wants to bless.
davidbenjeshua 1 month ago
It's better to marry young, but also, to keep all intimacy for marriage. It is also good to marry only with the blessing of God and parents. It's a disaster to lose virginity before marriage, but God can still give beauty for ashes (Isa 61:3) to all that come to Him. He is rich, to give us according to his riches, even if we have nothing to pay, even if we don't deserve it. Come to God, and God will bless you. Honour God, and He will honour you. It's TOTALLY best to save it for marriage.
davidbenjeshua 1 month ago
Virgin boys visit my profile @ WeWaited.com. deenormalized23. Or write back if interested. I am 25.
dkawec123 1 month ago
im 24 in 1 month and a virgin n i dont give a fuck im a guy
GameRelatedStuff 1 month ago
I feel exactly how you feel! I'm a virgin as well and am waiting til marriage for personal reasons such as yours and I'm happy!
bluehoodie91 1 month ago
Im 24, a male, and lost my virginity at 14....AND I LOVE IT!!!!!
WesleyPipes2838 1 month ago
I'm a 22 year old virgin due to spiritual reasons and morals I have in my life. There were crazy times growing up through high school and college when I was tempted to have sex but with all the rejections and hard to get girls. I'm simply happier being Pure. VIRGINS ARE AWESOME!!!
MrBornagainEd 2 months ago
Being a virgin is a frightening, terrorizing fact to have as a part of your life, especially when you're 77. Sorry pap I wasn't good enough to carry our family name
TheXavierConspiracy 2 months ago
I'm 29, a woman, and a virgin. Never craved vaginal sex - I'm a clit girl, all the way. Don't need a man to please myself, so why bother? XD
4HundredTheCat 3 months ago
@4HundredTheCat Clit Girl TOO!!
Lucasblake90 1 month ago
thats what condoms and birth control r for, ol' smart one
trap4dafu2k0fit 3 months ago
I think you being a virgin has a lot more to do with you looking like a man and no one being able to get their dicks hard enough to stuff in you.
DeweyButtz 3 months ago
you look like my friend angelo. thats probably why your still a virgin.
TakeNotesFgt93 4 months ago
Only virgins think this much in to why they want to retain their virginity
joeymediauk 4 months ago
im 18 and a virgin and hate it
fr0zdify 4 months ago
you don't want to wait or you will suffer others willl not like you and you won't like yourslef because your wasting you life cause that really all there is
chrismstrshk 6 months ago
omg i love ur hair!
elliethelephant2 6 months ago
am 22 and am not a virgin but have already gained a secondary virginity
nyashuu 7 months ago
@nyashuu thats a lie. :)
warrenkeith360 2 months ago
its easy to stay a virgin if you give a shit about yourself. nobody in the world cares about themselves. not that i give a shit.
onceIpoopedmyself 7 months ago
I thought it was a guy lol
Casarzino 7 months ago
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i'm 19 year old girl and i'm a proud vrigin (:
ahana022 7 months ago
i am still a virgin at 16 and peopel think all sixteen year olds are a virgin but i will be waitng til marriage as well
HARLAB12 8 months ago
@thecodfather881 I was 17 when I lost mine, its about finding yourself and being able to accept and deal with yourself before you can even consider about dealing with the many many problems of other people
smoke4206969 9 months ago
@thecodfather881 I was 17 when I lost mine, just need to find a girl that is down
smoke4206969 9 months ago
im 13 and like all my friends lost there virginity and i feel like i have too ,but i dont want too .. : (
PrayPray1000 9 months ago
@PrayPray1000 Then don't its that simple, its not you whos fucked up, its the society around you.
"im that winter breeze in summer time
its the world thats broken im just fine"
smoke4206969 9 months ago
@PrayPray1000 Just because they do doesn't mean you should,it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you,you're still 13,you have all the time in your life to decide when you're ready,but now doesn't have to be.
TheOriginalPinkTokyo 7 months ago
what gender are u no offenceq
becauseigothigh118 10 months ago
are you a girl?
tsunamyboy69 10 months ago
You are virgin cuz you lost a lot of time on youtube....
tsunamyboy69 10 months ago
I agree as well that this widespread sedentary and epicurian type lifestyles of the majority of us is sinful. And its awesome that we've gotten to a place where you can openly make a video about dating other guys.
justintimeisill 11 months ago
I agree as well that this new ubiquitous s
justintimeisill 11 months ago
Its like axiomatic that you are a very intelligent guy. Girls (or guys) would be lucky to get woth you at any point. Not many people are as ethereal in thought and mind as you are. Do you write poetry? My guess is that you do.
justintimeisill 11 months ago
@justintimeisill I write poetry, but im no longer a virgin
smoke4206969 9 months ago
Dude, theres no way youre 20, bro! Your voice is kinna high pitched haha. Its all good, i understand all of your points you made. You seem smart bro!
justintimeisill 11 months ago
hahaha 20 year old virgin
steelers178811 11 months ago
There's also a lot of stereotypes with people who have had sex. ie irrisponsible, unplanned pregnancies, std ridden, promiscuous, don't respect themselves, not religious, wild etc but having sex will not make things difficult unless you make it difficult in the same way that not having sex will not make you an outcast unless you make yourself an outcast. Being a virgin is not a bad thing but not being a virgin is not a bad thing either
PeachesLuvsB5 1 year ago
Virgin= No STDs NO BABIES no Trips to the clinic
mizzswagger713 1 year ago
14, Not a virgin.
ApuluWHS 1 year ago
16, and not a virgin.
Vein109 1 year ago
Are you playing it off like its your choice? Obviously no one wants to have sex with you.
shakezulathemicrulah 1 year ago
i'm 25 and still a virgin
rosebud1985 1 year ago
hell yea. im sick of all this bullshit all these tv shows that are hypnotizing ppl these days. theres nuttin wrong wit it. feel free to shoot ppl who tell u its wrong because they are the ones who are wrong
Spitfire995 1 year ago
I'm 20 and still a virgin. And I don't have any reason for it actually, nothing religious or spiritual and I don't mind having sex until marriage. I just freak out when a random guy wants to have fun for a night. I mean, I don't mind kissing them, but that's about it. And I feel ashamed for it, because like almost everyone already has had sex. It makes me feel weird you know, and because of that I get insecure. I also never been in love, never really had a boyfriend...
saariemarijs 1 year ago
@saariemarijs whatever you do, don't lose it to a random guy that is something you will 100% regret! just wait until you have a boyfriend that you feel comfortable with cause the first time will hurt and you want to do it with someone who will be gentle and considerate. If you do it with a random guy you wont want to do it again for a long while. There's no rush, you only get one first time
PeachesLuvsB5 1 year ago
I'm 20 and still a virgin...YAY:) The main reason I won't have sex until marriage is because I know that when that time comes I will have lived a fulfilling life as a single woman and am now ready to share my life with someone special. I want to be able to connect with someone on an intellectual and emotional level first so when that time comes to connect on a physical level, we both will be deeply in love with each other and that will make our time together even more special
Maeghan417 1 year ago
lol i thought you were a guy
agony202 1 year ago
Cus*
desireedh 1 year ago
I'm 16 a virgin and waiting for marriage. You wouldn't believe the things people say about how they can't wait for the weekend cud they're gunna get laid I just roll my eyes and think how stupid they are. I am also a vegetarian too.
desireedh 1 year ago
Shit I'm never going 2 get laid. That's the truth :( I also Am never going 2 get married because females don't like me :'( but Ima just Move on with me life as a single persay. And die alone
thecreator10ify 1 year ago
lol people actually believe being a virgin is cool? Not being able to get laid, is pretty sad. Especially as a girl.
rogue2520 1 year ago
@rogue2520 SO SO SO TRUE
Blackjesus3 1 year ago
@rogue2520
that's right unfortunately....
strikeout1991 1 year ago
@rogue2520 @Strikeout1991 How is that right? Or true? WHO CAN'T GET LAID!? It's not that fuckin' hard. Hell, I get offers to have sex ... doesn't mean I'm gonna do it. Get real. Some people have morals and respect. It's better to wait. And as many teen pregnancies and STDs goin' around ... These teens NEED to wait.
Splitsterrr 1 year ago
I'm 19, a guy, and proud of being a virgin. It rocks lol! One Life. One love. It doesn't matter what the world might think of me, i'm free of stds, unwanted kids, and drama. I also feel like I haven't reach a mental state to be responsible enough to have sex. People are just stupid, nowadays sleeping with 5 people a week is "normal", well call me old fashion but I love my virginity.
favm360 1 year ago 34
@favm360 Thank you for saying that! I am in the exact same boat. It doesn't really matter if I'm married or not but I wanna be in love. And I'm way too childish for all that right now lol Props to you =] and props to this video.
jennifer 1 year ago
@favm360 I've fucked bitches and don't have STDs or kids. It's called condoms. They're like $3 bucks for a pack you should look into it. You know what's a lot cooler than being a virgin? Pussies and fucking them.
DeweyButtz 3 months ago
@favm360 I need a guy like you :)
musicproducer16 2 months ago
@favm360 me too n im a girl, 21 years old
italiaveg90 1 month ago
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dkawec123 1 month ago
my brother is a virgin too
SouthHoustonTx1 1 year ago
21 and waiting on marriage and proud of it
tdbrown88tdb 1 year ago 4
im a male 32 years and a virgin :)
FilhoDePaz 1 year ago
@FilhoDePaz good job!
Avalita07 1 year ago
I'm a virgin but I'm not waiting for marriage, I just haven't found a guy who's right or mature enough. That and I have a birthmark on my head which has left a scar/bald spot. Pretty much just waiting to fix that and find a good guy.
MichaelMorbius4ever 1 year ago
People who rip on virgins can go FUCK THEMSELVES.
Random90sKid 1 year ago
Good for you!. Im a 22 year old straight guy but have no desire for a relationship & to have kids. I would hate the responsiblity plus I would get no joy out of it. Im a virgin & planning to stay one until the end. I may be 6'4", cute & have long blond hair & have 128 iq but I do have social Anxiety Disorder.
HBKanedge818 1 year ago
I'm happy to see this, am also a male virgin. i am 24.its so hard and i get so encouraged to see that ladies also value virginity,.
tonykibs 1 year ago
im 23 & still a virgin waiting for marriage!!! woo hoo yippee for virgins!!!
Avalita07 1 year ago 34
@Avalita07 thats great girl!!!!keep it up!!!!!
prjco07 1 year ago 4
@Avalita07 WOOHOOO YOU STILL A VIRGIN A MONTH AGO. WOOOO WTFBBQ
Trifonsdude 1 year ago
@Avalita07 thats what my gf said before i nailed her
divinidadoscura 1 year ago
@Avalita07 You 23 and still a virgin?
Damn,lost virginity mine when i was 13.
mastermary2 7 months ago
@mastermary2 sick
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Avalita07 1 year ago
I got a lot of respect for you
SahrT1 1 year ago
hey saywhatondat...your right girl...i hope it will inspire other to hold on. it has been very challenging for me me now bc i am at a crossroad...i am in a relationship with an amazing guy and the physical connection is the missing part....we have the mental,emotional,and spiritual down pact you know....soo im just gonna leave it up to god..and cont. to pray!
prjco07 1 year ago
@prjco07 I think god would tell you to hold it till you get married.=)
ElsaAfework 1 year ago
Thats sounds like my life!! and seeing your video I'm hoping this will inspire many other virgins to stay strong and not fall for temptation when they are not ready
saywhatondat 1 year ago
Good for you, I want to wait too, even though technically i'm not, emotionally i am.. I feel empty just having sex without knowing that the other person cares about you-not everything is about sex all the time. There's more to the world to see and do than sex.
lovemyselfforever86 1 year ago
hey I feel ya', I'm a 20 year old virgin too saving myself for marriage, but gotta be honest and say its only for religious reasons. But I really respect you and am glad to see there are some people out there like me! Stay strong sista!
IconMatthew1 2 years ago
@IconMatthew1 You only live once.. i'm not saying go out and have sex with anyone you meet, but if you really connect with someone and/or have a relationship.. there is no good reason, religious or otherwise, to abstain from it. There is no evidence to support the religious claims that pre-marital sex is wrong, hence it is not wrong. And to quote George Burns.. It's not pre-marital sex if you had no intention to marry her!
ruin3r 2 years ago
religion isnt as much about proof as it is faith. Regardless on my wedding night I want to give my wife something I haven't given anyone else, ya' know make it special.
IconMatthew1 2 years ago
well, you can have faith in anything you want, but that doesn't make it true.. I have faith that I will one day win the lottery, does that mean there's really any realistic chance of that happening? Also.. by your implications are you saying people who get married and aren't virgins, aren't special? In all likelihood, if you don't take a 'test drive' before committing your life to someone, you'll end up with someone you're not sexually compatible with and end up divorced.
ruin3r 2 years ago
I never said people who've had sex before marriage don't have special wedding nights or relationships. Its more about faith its about commitment, I dont look down at anyone who doesn't wait until marriage. Its not like it makes them a bad/inferior person. But with all due respect your logic doesn't make sense against facts, divorce rate has gone up with sexual promiscuity. Truth is studies show that having sex before marriage generally does more harm than good. But individuals are different.
IconMatthew1 2 years ago