So true...yet so sad. Good girls finish last too. Good people get screwed around often because people feel it's ok to run over them. They take kindness as weakness instead of seeing it as a strong trait. It's not easy smiling in a persons face and saying, you know what I forgive you and swallowing your pride in order to bring about peace.
So true there needs to be that balance with a good guy where he listens but also says what he wants! I hate when a guy wont say what he wants, and then isn't happy with what i pick its annoying.
I wish I could find a guy who was in the middle. I'm currently stuck in this exact 'dilemma.' Be with the bad boy who took my virginity, and doesn't have any direction, and is more assertive, but still adores the crap out of me and worships the ground I walk up, or go back to the boyfriend I just broke up with last night after a year and a half of whining, and fighting, and passiveness, but who is stable, and wants to take care of me. I couldn't decide, and now I'm stuck alone, but fought over.
Greg I really appreciate the videos you make everyday. And I'm so glad I found out about you. We really do share a lot of the same opinions, even in the ones you get a lot of hate for.
You're a good guy man. Don't let anyone change you. <3
you can't even imagine how much I agree, I just want a good guy, nice with me, and I want to be the same for him, thanks for making such kind videos Greg, you have no idea how much I would like to thumbs uo all of them xD :)
Agreed. I get sooo annoyed with asking a guy their opinion and getting an "i dont know" back and having to make all the choices in the relationship...sooo glad i've chosen to stay single for awhile GO SINGLE POWER!!....Stay single with me Greg? XD <3
alpha males? ppffttt... no way... they're pathetic, they're always like "make me a sandwich" im like "hell no make it yourself!" so i like nice guys better ^.^
most women go for the bad guys coz they're so 'bad'. i hate this, and people complain that they cant find anyone good in the world. i wish more guys like you would pop up. i love you. <3
most women go for the bad guys coz they're soooo bad. i hate this, and people complain that they cant find anyone good in the world. i wish more guys like you would pop up. i love you. <3
people just forget that we are also animals, we act like animals, because nature works the same for every living being. alpha males are the "jerks", though we do not fight for our mating partner, human females still go for the alpha male, which is the jerk
Wow great video!! Bravo! Im married to a "nice guy." and I love him very much. I may not have a very good opinion of myself, but I am a strong woman. I can stand on my own. I personally dont need an "Alpha Male" Women are not always in need of an "Alpha male". We can stand up ourselves and I have said this since I was 20. "I dont need a man. I have a hand!!" My husband loves me and respects me. Hes been there for me. I love him so much and THAT is what I as a woman need.
Wow, this was very enlightening. I'm a woman, and I've never really analyzed why I'm attracted to certain men over others. Way to get inside my head, Greg. Great video!
hmmm. seems to be saying that only males have to change...maybe everyone in the world should think about changing. no more being princesses just because you are female, no more weak and timid shyness. there are millions of "types" of people none of which are perfect for each other, it will require both sides taking an "equality" approach. now this is a problem too. alpha's are alpha's when another "non-alpha" has to step into those shoes they get power crazy... the balance will take eons.
Hm, I actually agree with you on this one Greg. Women, and people in general, are attracted to confidence. If a guy is confident and comfortable with himself that is very appealing. I think if everyone would relax and not be so self-conscious there would be less problems.
Unlike some of your opinions I do agree with this :) Psychologically certain characteristics are more desirable to women, which include finance, shelter etc which many of the 'jerks' do as they lead the women. But there are exceptions to the rule nowadays women feel less dependent of men so hopefully one day good guys will come first!
Greg Loved the video and to be honest i thought this was common sense among people but I've learned over the year common sense isn't so common anymore, But anyways thx for posting this love getting to watch your vids just before work. Have a good day and keep posting plz :3
I'm taking your advice greg I haven't really heard and good advice on that subject and you had the perfect advice thank you greg
FALLENDOUNUT 1 month ago
FINALLY someone who is younger than 30 gets it
Sasukegrl12 1 month ago 14
So true...yet so sad. Good girls finish last too. Good people get screwed around often because people feel it's ok to run over them. They take kindness as weakness instead of seeing it as a strong trait. It's not easy smiling in a persons face and saying, you know what I forgive you and swallowing your pride in order to bring about peace.
LadieD82 1 month ago 12
<3
MissCrazyGirl007 1 month ago
You should seriously be a Hollister model :D
OrangeSkylines 1 month ago
DING DING DING A guy finally gets it!!! This speaks video is a Win Thank you for telling the guys this ^_^ You got it right!
Badwhalenikki 1 month ago 31
So true there needs to be that balance with a good guy where he listens but also says what he wants! I hate when a guy wont say what he wants, and then isn't happy with what i pick its annoying.
sweetirishredrose 1 month ago 8
:) thanks for that Onision, needed that
lurkingspark 1 month ago 6
Thanks for this video, wise words indeed
HiddenHopeKNL 1 month ago
I wish I could find a guy who was in the middle. I'm currently stuck in this exact 'dilemma.' Be with the bad boy who took my virginity, and doesn't have any direction, and is more assertive, but still adores the crap out of me and worships the ground I walk up, or go back to the boyfriend I just broke up with last night after a year and a half of whining, and fighting, and passiveness, but who is stable, and wants to take care of me. I couldn't decide, and now I'm stuck alone, but fought over.
Lonelyshatteredsoul 1 month ago 5
Greg I really appreciate the videos you make everyday. And I'm so glad I found out about you. We really do share a lot of the same opinions, even in the ones you get a lot of hate for.
You're a good guy man. Don't let anyone change you. <3
FinalFantasyXPro 1 month ago
I like nice guys ^_^ ... sadly my friend doesnt. And she has had her heart broken many many times :/
EpicSoulChick 1 month ago
This is the stuff I really like to see on your channel.
This has helped me to better understand why the spark went out of my relationship, and might just save it.
Thanks ^.^
vintagecrown 1 month ago 4
They don't want to lose the nice guys in their lives, and they don't want to risk that loss, so they put us in a fresh hell we call the friend zone.
jquinn57 1 month ago 15
You are a very wise young man! :)
ShineLoveLightShine 1 month ago
you can't even imagine how much I agree, I just want a good guy, nice with me, and I want to be the same for him, thanks for making such kind videos Greg, you have no idea how much I would like to thumbs uo all of them xD :)
Socandpaf 1 month ago
i wish there were more people like you in the world. you have so much wisdom.
marxipanlol453 1 month ago
:) My bf is like that :D
Pixiliciousprincess 1 month ago
Agreed. I get sooo annoyed with asking a guy their opinion and getting an "i dont know" back and having to make all the choices in the relationship...sooo glad i've chosen to stay single for awhile GO SINGLE POWER!!....Stay single with me Greg? XD <3
MooMooLisa 1 month ago
alpha males? ppffttt... no way... they're pathetic, they're always like "make me a sandwich" im like "hell no make it yourself!" so i like nice guys better ^.^
spreadthelove97 1 month ago
most women go for the bad guys coz they're so 'bad'. i hate this, and people complain that they cant find anyone good in the world. i wish more guys like you would pop up. i love you. <3
marxipanlol453 1 month ago
onision is so aghhhhh so sexy !
monstewr1 1 month ago 152
@monstewr1 why thank you :)
OnisionSpeaks 1 month ago 75
@OnisionSpeaks i second that ^^...your extremely attractive <3
frenchgurl201 1 month ago
most women go for the bad guys coz they're soooo bad. i hate this, and people complain that they cant find anyone good in the world. i wish more guys like you would pop up. i love you. <3
marxipanlol453 1 month ago
I like to consider myself a nice guy. Thanks for this video Onision, I will remember what ur adviced :)
XGamezOnlyX 1 month ago
Some other crazy bitches love dominating man. You should also mention that. But great video in general greg :)
Lienrak 1 month ago
people just forget that we are also animals, we act like animals, because nature works the same for every living being. alpha males are the "jerks", though we do not fight for our mating partner, human females still go for the alpha male, which is the jerk
leonardoluiss02 1 month ago
Greg Your'e so smart =) You're talking truth
Frag3r99 1 month ago
Wise words, but I'll always be myself and i want someone who loves me for the true me.
challeBengtsson 1 month ago
FINALLY! I've been looking sor a solution like this for AGES! thanks Greg! =]
eoghans 1 month ago
Wow great video!! Bravo! Im married to a "nice guy." and I love him very much. I may not have a very good opinion of myself, but I am a strong woman. I can stand on my own. I personally dont need an "Alpha Male" Women are not always in need of an "Alpha male". We can stand up ourselves and I have said this since I was 20. "I dont need a man. I have a hand!!" My husband loves me and respects me. Hes been there for me. I love him so much and THAT is what I as a woman need.
tygress1 1 month ago 113
@tygress1 rad :) You picked a winner.
OnisionSpeaks 1 month ago 66
Wow, this was very enlightening. I'm a woman, and I've never really analyzed why I'm attracted to certain men over others. Way to get inside my head, Greg. Great video!
LanAnon101 1 month ago 61
@LanAnon101 awesome :) Glad I could help you figure yourself out.
OnisionSpeaks 1 month ago 36
hmmm. seems to be saying that only males have to change...maybe everyone in the world should think about changing. no more being princesses just because you are female, no more weak and timid shyness. there are millions of "types" of people none of which are perfect for each other, it will require both sides taking an "equality" approach. now this is a problem too. alpha's are alpha's when another "non-alpha" has to step into those shoes they get power crazy... the balance will take eons.
artfacestudios 1 month ago 4
THIS IS AMAZING! thank you
2020basha 1 month ago
My boyfriend is a nice guy and we've been togehter for two years now...
Love you and your videos :) You really make me think sometimes and eventhough I don't agree with everything you say I still think you're awesome :)
givemethatchocolate 1 month ago
ILU Onision <3333333
LovePeaceMemories 1 month ago
Hm, I actually agree with you on this one Greg. Women, and people in general, are attracted to confidence. If a guy is confident and comfortable with himself that is very appealing. I think if everyone would relax and not be so self-conscious there would be less problems.
ColdDeadKitty 1 month ago 22
Unlike some of your opinions I do agree with this :) Psychologically certain characteristics are more desirable to women, which include finance, shelter etc which many of the 'jerks' do as they lead the women. But there are exceptions to the rule nowadays women feel less dependent of men so hopefully one day good guys will come first!
goldensunproductions 1 month ago
I love you!
SuperQuickTips 1 month ago
We are nice guys.
We are legion.
We will WIN!
:)
kelixekV 1 month ago 237
Greg Loved the video and to be honest i thought this was common sense among people but I've learned over the year common sense isn't so common anymore, But anyways thx for posting this love getting to watch your vids just before work. Have a good day and keep posting plz :3
Gravemarkings 1 month ago
This is so true. really helped me ;) love you greg <3
Theparkingviolation 1 month ago
You are a true inspiration to me:)
ritorto 1 month ago
Thank you for the motivation.
dunkelheity 1 month ago
I love yooou Greg! <3
MrHeloul 1 month ago
<3
MarilynMasonLuvr13 1 month ago
I like you!
melissastupers 1 month ago
Onision, I love you so much :'D
I will support you forever ^_^ <3
doddleoddle 1 month ago
You're such a good man greg <3 Thank you for the video!
TeriLovesHolister 1 month ago
Good video greg. Keep it up, i love all your videos.
You've honestly helped me develop as a person, and you are an amazing and honest person.
<3
wumblr 1 month ago
DEEP.
MyBananasmoothie 1 month ago
You're awesome.
TheGodOfEPICNESS 1 month ago
your so amazin ^_^ !!!!
brandy333333333333 1 month ago