Let's Talk about Sex

[MarxDezix]

He sounds like a can of crazy to me!

[codeman336]

This is a great video,even though its old i've just came across it. My problem is that I get too excited and the anxiety makes me finish almost as soon as I start. I'm not sure what to do, but the more it happens, the worse I feel. My Girlfriend says its okay, but I know from previous relationships its not and they really hate it.

Im fine at pleasuring here other ways but I really wish I could through intercourse too.

[mybelov]

I might be late but your guy might be a bit too young ;) I would wait if you REALLY like him!

[VeyaLove]

The video effect is beautiful Momo!

[bprizze]

Wow, this is good you didnt come out bias on your advice here. Great stuff,I actually had a girl who i became close because of sex,but then i fell for her. Its actually quite scary because love is more important to me now than anything, and its becoz of sex we met im afraid what she might do if in the end i dont satisfy her anymore.I think women got more sex drive than men and they can stay longer thts why they are powerfl when it comes to sex. cheers

[DeoN2Lc]

MoMo, im favorite thing about you is that you take the time to vest intrest into the people who ask you for your options and advice, it really shows that you care and in turn those individuals recive the most from your wisdom. Many of us benifit from the little things another is willing to do for some good.

[jewelsandglitter]

I just discovered your channel and I must say...you're just so...great! Your advice is so...thoughtful and deep...thank you.

[666KRiiSTEN666]

That was great advice.:D

[indi024]

Great advice Momo. Keep up the good work and have an AWESOME day!

Peace.

[sk8terboi8056]

what i am trying to say is ive been single since june of 2007 and i have gotten tired of being lonely countless times since then

[sk8terboi8056]

well first off my first gf i was with for 3 years and when we broke up it took me a little more than a year to get over it, we had alot of sex went out to eat went shopping blah blah blah, well the last i heard about her was that she was knocked up by the same guy she cheated on me with, how many women have i dated since then, none, sex is not the same with the other women ive dated, not to mention that is basically what they are after

[calcalico]

sex isn't all that matters in life!

[denverjuggalos]

@calcalico i wish more people would realize that. it is a part of life but there is so much more then that.

[Lzinhu]

Hey, first of all, I wanna congratulate the writer for her courage and of course thanks for sharing, many people have this problem but they just don't have the guts to open up and talk about it, and that's alright really it is, no one is forced to talk about it's problems, my 0.02cents, you should really take a different approach to him, maybe try to put all the cards on the table and try to speak him in a open-minded conversation with the guy... Even without knowing him I think(p.1/2) *********

[Lzinhu]

(p.2/2)it's the best think you can do ;) really. And of course thank you so much Momo for sharing your wiseness and help like you always do ;), and to the writer you should totally hear Momo - Scared you can hear it on the momozone website. (momo i'm working out on the suprise, i'v been really swamped with school stuff but we should totally do the video, i'll try to buy a webcam )

Ley

[SerinaJK]

I can see where his fear is coming from since she is his first and she really should be patient with him. Off the topic, but I have noticed that a lot of men are afraid of Women "being in charge" of their decisions now (education, career, life in general), but when you're in a commited relationship it's about the both of you equally.

Jen

[singingfan]

the boyfriend seems like he is very controlling. i hope the girlfriend is able to be with someone that is attentive, caring, and attuned to the needs of both partners. it sounds like she needs to tend to what completes and makes her life the best possible. she sounds very smart and should truly explore what she deserves and wants in life. Set the bar high of your standards girl.

[allatsn]

On another note - guys, pleasing a woman is the most rewarding and responsible thing you can do. Men have done enough throughout history to make a mess of the world and of women, when all we need to do is put our little ego's aside, ask what they want and what they like, and do it . . .

Trust me, you get what you give, but you still have to give selflessly.

[jester026]

certain men have done enough throughout history to make a mess of the world... Certain men, not all men.

[allatsn]

I love how you offer alternative perspectives Momo - not the stereotypical approaches.

I'm going to offer up a couple things I've experienced as well.

I was in a sexless marriage for 5 years (not little sex - NO sex). Despite attempting to talk about it, nothing ever happened because she had issues she couldn't get past. Each person brings their history to a relationship and it needs to be completely and openly discussed to move forward together and have a chance.

[TheMomoZone]

Hi Allatsn thanks for sharing this incredible story and your experienced point of view.You totally rock .Peace out

Momo

[corte5]

Yo momo, excellent video. I think you have touched all the important aspects of the question. If this was a letter from someone a bit older and more experienced, I would agree 100%. But these are kids. Isn`t it important, at this stage, to experiment, to EXPERIENCE different people (quantity is not important), before one commits to someone for a lifetime relationship.

I speak from experience, I married "the love of my life" at the age of 20. Little did I know, that the real one was yet to come.

[TheMomoZone]

Hey Corte5 Thanks for adding to this sensitive subject. Momo

[thebloodranred]

This video was great. As a guy, I think my approach towards sex in a relationship will now change a bit. Not as if I was controlling or like the guy mentioned in this video. But communication and approaches I have taken in the past seem to been a downfall in a few relationships. Hopefully I can change that.

Thanks Momo

[TheMomoZone]

Hi thebloodranred you go for it dude all it takes is that trigger that sets us on a new direction attracting a different out come.Peace out You can do this

Momo

[fluid71]

Momo, you are a godsend to the Youtube community.

[TheMomoZone]

Hey fluid71 thank you so much just trying to do my part before i cant anymore...its the power of just doing it.My greatest reward is when i read stuff like this.Have a beautiful day and god bless all you love.

Momo

[NoNonSenseLifeVLOG]

I also liked the combination between the cap and the jacket...

Also, the lightning of the video and the transitioning between moments... they seemed to me precise and smooth

Was that a crila song at the end of the video?

About the content of the video... From your comments it seems like she's trying to control the relationship. If she is in fact acting-out the "control-freak", then I believe that would be understandable, since that could mean she's trying to figure out how to manage her power

[JasonMelancon]

If the original letter writer wants to talk more with people who may be able to provide some additional insight, YouTuber kicesie has web forums at 3w(DOT)kicesiescloset(DOT)com. Great group of people, of both sexes, very open and sensitive, would really be interested in helping.

[jcrist]

hey girl i'll be your bf.

B)

[Sexart]

man you know so much i wish you could help me out, i have the whole lost first love thing going on it's lasting for YEARS!:(

[boredomsandwich]

this is kinda off-subject, but I always thought you were a snappy dresser, Momo.

I'm going to have to agree with you, Momo, especially about the "psychotic torture" thing. I haven't had it to the enth degree, but I do know how that feels. I still feel that way about a couple of women I've dated in the past.

Physicality can't be everything. I've gotten to know and really like this girl I used to go to school with, and we're always separated by several miles. I love every minute of it.

[itsthebean]

very eloquently put Momo! Hope to hear from you soon my dear! xoxo

[PeaceProfit]

13Rulz Death is worth living 4 Lifes a beach enjoy Bless gifts it bestows upon U Live in love Love 2 live Give love U know is real Respect yourself & others will Wake each day rested Make love not sex Never stop learning Tolerate ignorance in others Yet never in oneself Neither let others sway yor personal faith nor corrupt yor most desirable dreams Listen 2 yor heart Speak 2 yor soul Always trust truth U see & feel Follow spirit which leads yor mind Live lessons U choose with passion & muse.

[itsthebean]

Love the jacket and cap!!! Stylin' :)

[TheMomoZone]

Thanks bean i thought id get a little more dressed up for this serious subject.Been thinking about you hope all is well.

Peace out Momo xoxox

[thanae]

Good video, it gave me some thoughts to dwell on. Thanks so much!!! I am in a completely different situation where the relationship started out to be based on sex but I developed strong feelings for him. We are very open about that and he knows that I feel more. I broke up with him once already because I thought there'd be too much of a emotional difference between us and that hurt me very much. But after 2 month we got back together and I am again unsure if this is going to work.

[TheMomoZone]

Hi thanae i wish you all the luck in the world with making this relationship....you go girl.Peace out

Momo

[thanae]

Thanks so much for saying that. It gives me a little boost in my confidence of making the 'right' decision or just giving him more time because he says that my sesitivity is new to him in a woman. The more I tell him about that, I says he appreciates that because it shows him that I want to work with him on the relationship and haven't given up on us. Then again he does things that hurt me and on one basic understanding of our relationship, we differ so much in our opinions.

[thanae]

That is to lead an 'open relationship'. I thought I was OK with it until I felt more for him. And for me to be able to have an 'open relationship' I need a strong basis with my partner that incorporates experiences with other partners in our relationship but as we started off differently this strong basis is not (yet???) given. Sorry, for clogging your comments. I guess I just need to write it down and your video touched me.

[AbtryZenfix9]

great video !!

[riverside32]

Great Video ! Can't wait for your live show on stickam monday night !

[DavinTerrizzi]

Great video Momo. Props to you for talking on this subject, it's often overlooked/taboo.

[ChristopherMast]

Another great video.

One thing that stuck out to me in the letter was the line "he's never been able to satisfy me." Funny how even in this day and age, some women place the responsibility for their orgasm on the guy. Isn't it a team effort between the two?

[hashingtonwoliday]

No.

[ChristopherMast]

Is that a joke or a real opinion?

[cjtt2]

all girls are fucking stupid

[TheMomoZone]

hey cjtt2 come on dude we would not be here if not for women and there is good and bad in everything.I know you dont really mean that so why dont you just write back to this comment and say that you were a little harsh and having a bad day.Everybody will really appreciate it and you will feel better for it and i promise you that some thing will change in your personal path.Remember action+reaction= result.Thanks dude lets stay opened and read between the lines. You can do this.Peace  Momo

[cjtt2]

ok i will be nice .. sort of what i mean is all girls that i have known are well whores they sleep with loads of guys and then complain that the one they call there boy friend does not fck them wright. which is why i am sick of girls and im only 19 both girls i have been with cheeted big time

[TheMomoZone]

Thanks cjt22 i promise if you try changing you disposition and words like whore etc you will attract the right person.If you start right now you will be writing me back within 2 weeks to tell me that amazing stuff is happening.Try it dude you have nothing to lose only something to gain.Thanks for coming up to the plate,you are now activated..go for it dude. Momo