no u not the only one that hasnt cuz my girlfriend im wit now made the first move wen i went to pick her up at the train station we couldnt find each other so when we did she was walking across the street n kissed me n hold my hand haha cant never forget that day..
hey how was the costa rica trip! i wish i had seen this vid earlier, could have given you some tips. :) great great channel. im becoming quite a fan. cheers!
Haha. That is so funny Michelle! I have been watching you for awhile, and you always have something to say! And now, you don't!! HILAR. Butttt I'm with you. I have never made the first move. I would be assertive text wise, but I have never made it. TOO SCARED!
Haha. That is so funny Michelle! I have been watching you for awhile, and you always have something to say! And now, you don't!! HILAR. Butttt I'm with you. I have never made the first move. I would be assertive text wise, but I have never made it. TOO SCARED!
I made the first move. My girl was in the bathroom standing under the hand warmer so she could warm up in the club and i grabbed her and kissed her. I couldn't help myself. But before that I walked up to her and said, "give me your number". LMAO It's so caveman but hey.. she's still with me so it doesn't matter right?
Ive never really had to make the first move, either. idk why it just happened that way...your not the only one! i think i havent because im not always sure if they truly like me and stuff..soo yea.
My girlfriend also made the first move and she wasn't gay... well atleast she said she wasn't, but look at her now she has a girlfriend. That's pretty gay :)
While I dont have anyone to make a first move ON(I actually am not even crushing on anyone atm), I have never made a first move. I'm far too awkward and scared that I would violate her bc she wouldnt feel the same way and I actually fail at life and had misinterpreted her feelings -I don't "fit the bill" persay for a lesbian, and so I dont think many other lesbians would even realize it. =[ Perhaps I'll be less awkward in time - I've also only been out for eight months, so that is partially why.
I LIVE IN COSTA RICA!! ( Ihave been here 10 months exchange student stlye) Well I suggest you hit tortuguero IT IS BEYOND beautiful!! and volcan Poas is breath taking! and you can drink everywhere here and all hours of the day :) ohh a fun thing is to go to Parque de diversiones (its like a small theme park) it is right by the Hospital Mexico. OH and san jose is awesome (well some parts at night not so much :/) but they have a central market there where they sell EVERYTHING HAVE FUN
my gf was straight until she met me and she made the first move too :)
but i think this is ok??? (i'm trying to justify it :P) because I was pretty sure she was straight but just super nice until she "came in for the kill" and kissed me ...
I'M COSTA RICAN! (must be the only one) I can't believe you're coming here! The ziplining is great, you can do bungee jumping too, visit the volcanos and the beaches, you can also take surf lessons! If you need more specific advice just ask.
Michelle- In case you were still wondering: I often put the first move on the ladies back in my dating days. I think that whole initiator thing was liberating to me, and I loved girls' reactions to it. I like to think I was pretty smooth. They definitely responded to the confidence. Best example was when I first put the move on Marybeth more than five years ago. She, then, was living a straight life and I remember her being giggly and, ah! that smile she gave me never quite left my mind.
Does it count as making the first move if it's unsuccessful? If so, I've done it once. Also, I am the hermit who didn't know about DADT. XD But when you said it, I did a little happy dance.
3:23 I have to say that one really surprised me. Haha. I always make the first move. But then again, that's usually with people who aren't interested in me, so no wonder. lol.
. . . what not. Which is fine with me, I mean we're only in high school/soon to be graduates. ^^ Oh, and Heck yes! I'm so happy DADT has finally been repealed. <3
I've never made the first move either! haha. But my current girlfriend and I have talked about it, and I already knew/know for a fact she's not going to make the first move, and if I kiss her it will be her first kiss, which makes me even more insanely nervous. But she does want to kiss me, and I want to kiss her. Its just not really a big deal with us, our relationship isn't based on physical stuff, more about just talking about everything and then some and being around each other and . . .
I AM SO HAPPY :) I can't join the military because my asthma is SOOOOOO bad. If I ever get a partner who wants to join the arm forces she can join the Military being open about herself. NOTE THAT'S IF I get a GF who wants to be in arm forces.
im gay and ALLOWED to be now :) WOOP. and im a first mover too. unless i get one of those creepy clingy dates who thinks their is more chemistry than there really is and they koala me or kiss all up on me without me expecting.
I have never EVER made the first move. Too scared. But with the girl I'm in love with(but trying not to), she was even more scared. When I first kissed her, she did nothing for like 10 seconds. Her lips didn't move at all and I was like "oohhh no she doesn't want this". But then she stopped being scared and got into it haha.
1. did you pluck your eyebrows yourself, feel like its too thin
2. i dont make the first move too, i dont think i know how. its like when starting a convo, im not the question asker, im more of a answering the question then asking the same question to that person. Im not really good with small talks and i think you need that when you make the first move
I'm really scared to make first moves because I'm afraid of offending people. I'm afraid if they don't feel the same way, they'll feel violated. It has to do with what I went through but I will probably never have the guts to kiss a girl without warning her first, or being like a thousand percent sure she wants the same... =/
@BillieBaby143 There are things called Kiss tests, look them up, the most common is caressing her hair without her rejecting you, she will most likely wanna kiss you.
OMG! I have all of those accesses but I just learned that from you!! Wow I live under a rock, but WOWWWWWWWW!!! I'm SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT!! THAT'S INCREDIBLE!
okay...gotta tell you this , from the comments below and myself , i wanted to say " YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN THE WORLD who hasn't made the first move !"
T^T I finally got up the courage to make the first move and leaned over to kiss her cheek and she dodged, practically falling over -_- soooo not good XD
I went to costa rica with my shcool last march and had a bad experience ziplining... on the last line, we had to go in pairs and everyone thought it would be funny to leave me with the kid no one likes, of which halfway through the line, he decided to take his legs off of me resulting in me spinning out of control until my hand got stuck in the pulley leaving me in a lot of pain dragging by my hand and then being stuck who knows how high in the air with no where to go... -_-
I have made the move every time, and got rejected each time! But for some reason, no matter how many times I have been and will ever be rejected, a part of me will always make the first move.
Ive never made the first move as well.. I'm just hella scared of getting rejected.. I've tired to but didnt go through it.. Its hard to I wouldnt know after words what to do.. I guess feed off of what she says... Which I had the guts to.. I guess I dont feel confidence in my self..
Pobably the best comment from your GF ever, lol. I love it when she chimes in the videos :) That said, after thinking about it, it occurred to me I actually made the first move on my first GF, and my current GF *Flicks hair* So high five your GF from me ;) (If the kids still do that these days..) haha.
Oh and Yes, finally DADT is history! So happy for you all down there in Americanland :) - liz
I'm so jealous of you! I love Costa Rica! You definitely have to go ziplining but you should also go whitewater rafting. You should also check out Arenal volcano. I also enjoyed going to the cloud forest. I stayed at a place called Savegre. All drinks were $5 and they had the most amazing hot cocoa. Enjoy your trip! Pura Vida baby!
well what is the first move. it sure doesn't have to be a kiss. cos that's fast. i mean i personally would want to wait for the first kiss until you can't wait anymore. first move can be saying hi. (ps found the beaverbunch thanks to Meghan Tonjes) and yeah, thanks, a friend mentioned on his FB status about DADT but I didn't know what that acronym meant. Yes ZIPLINE!!!
i have never made the first move too, im so bad at it , i get so scared because i have no idea how to approach white girls . im asian and my strong accent makes me hold back ,
That is so funny that your girlfriend said she made the first move and she wasn't even gay because I made the first move on my girlfriend and I wasn't gay at the time either haha I liked her and I knew she was bi & she didn't even make the first move !
lol ive never made the first move iether, dont know why:/ haha!
cjbaby95 1 week ago
Haha ur not the only 1(: haha but I am freaking out cuz she told me that she was gonna kiss me! My first kiss idk what to do lol wish me luck.....
4688mason 4 weeks ago
no u not the only one that hasnt cuz my girlfriend im wit now made the first move wen i went to pick her up at the train station we couldnt find each other so when we did she was walking across the street n kissed me n hold my hand haha cant never forget that day..
Pookie2327 10 months ago
awww so cute because she loved you :)
AlexPortis 1 year ago
hey how was the costa rica trip! i wish i had seen this vid earlier, could have given you some tips. :) great great channel. im becoming quite a fan. cheers!
vanillasmile82 1 year ago
I usually don't make the first move either, haha. You are not alone!
TayloreMishell 1 year ago
I've never made the first move lol
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Haha. That is so funny Michelle! I have been watching you for awhile, and you always have something to say! And now, you don't!! HILAR. Butttt I'm with you. I have never made the first move. I would be assertive text wise, but I have never made it. TOO SCARED!
Asiankisses11 1 year ago
Haha. That is so funny Michelle! I have been watching you for awhile, and you always have something to say! And now, you don't!! HILAR. Butttt I'm with you. I have never made the first move. I would be assertive text wise, but I have never made it. TOO SCARED!
Asiankisses11 1 year ago
The only way I make the first move(kissing wise) is if I know for a fact that the other person is interested in some way.
I've never just gone for it not knowing how the other person felt.
Shmoo06 1 year ago
You're coming to COSTA RICA! Make sure you go the beaches in the north pacific part of the country, those are the BEST :)
nasv7 1 year ago
I made the first move. My girl was in the bathroom standing under the hand warmer so she could warm up in the club and i grabbed her and kissed her. I couldn't help myself. But before that I walked up to her and said, "give me your number". LMAO It's so caveman but hey.. she's still with me so it doesn't matter right?
feelinemo1 1 year ago
I have never made the first move but im trying to change that
limabean8969 1 year ago
I'm sure my ex girlfriend has never made the first move because she had to ask me to kiss her...it was weird it was like.."okay why can't you?"
InlovewithTheater 1 year ago
Ive never really had to make the first move, either. idk why it just happened that way...your not the only one! i think i havent because im not always sure if they truly like me and stuff..soo yea.
riotgrrrrl1288 1 year ago
Michelle I wouldn't call you names .... I'm just sayin'
xxXxSiLeNcExXxx 1 year ago
I wanna layout, i want to drink and i want to have fun but i dont know any of the cool stuff to do so let me know. Down below!
*sorry, it sounds hilarious if you listen to it* xD
MrDaniShane 1 year ago
I LIVE IN COSTA RICA!!!
COME SEE ME!!!!!
<3
coralilyy 1 year ago
yur purdy, ya don't really need ta.
ShenFromTerraTraba 1 year ago
My girlfriend also made the first move and she wasn't gay... well atleast she said she wasn't, but look at her now she has a girlfriend. That's pretty gay :)
eeringah 1 year ago 3
I kinda of never, yet did like I could never utter the words but showed it wiht my actions and hoped they could connect the dots.
IndiaJ92 1 year ago
I seem to be the one who always makes the first move. I want someone to make the moves on me for once!
Helsterify 1 year ago 2
I have never made the first move... I cannot put myself out there like that! I want to know she wants to kiss me back before I just jump her...
anc32685 1 year ago
I've never made the first move XD
BillNyethesqurril 1 year ago
While I dont have anyone to make a first move ON(I actually am not even crushing on anyone atm), I have never made a first move. I'm far too awkward and scared that I would violate her bc she wouldnt feel the same way and I actually fail at life and had misinterpreted her feelings -I don't "fit the bill" persay for a lesbian, and so I dont think many other lesbians would even realize it. =[ Perhaps I'll be less awkward in time - I've also only been out for eight months, so that is partially why.
xbellaxbrutalityx 1 year ago
Like ya hair like that <3
I made the first move sometimes, always feel bad waiting on someone else ^^
My last made the move on me an she wasn't gay at the time, :)
EmmyIiciouS 1 year ago
I LIVE IN COSTA RICA!! ( Ihave been here 10 months exchange student stlye) Well I suggest you hit tortuguero IT IS BEYOND beautiful!! and volcan Poas is breath taking! and you can drink everywhere here and all hours of the day :) ohh a fun thing is to go to Parque de diversiones (its like a small theme park) it is right by the Hospital Mexico. OH and san jose is awesome (well some parts at night not so much :/) but they have a central market there where they sell EVERYTHING HAVE FUN
IamTheSassUhFrass 1 year ago 2
Sadly i have no one to make moves onto. :c
marenbraun 1 year ago
You re not the only one. I m always afraid to be rejected and it s very scary
jinnyt2006 1 year ago
hahahaha
"because i love you"
**michele does an evil laugh**
does this mean you love her back? xD
carsonmaier14 1 year ago
my gf was straight until she met me and she made the first move too :)
but i think this is ok??? (i'm trying to justify it :P) because I was pretty sure she was straight but just super nice until she "came in for the kill" and kissed me ...
TheSharpenedPencil 1 year ago
Woman go to the beaches, they are nice and warm:P
ipod191 1 year ago
I havent made the first move
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I'M COSTA RICAN! (must be the only one) I can't believe you're coming here! The ziplining is great, you can do bungee jumping too, visit the volcanos and the beaches, you can also take surf lessons! If you need more specific advice just ask.
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nasv7 1 year ago
Awww, looks like you we're the shy carefull one.
masticina 1 year ago
My gf's company has an office in Costa Rica. We've never been... YET. (Hopefully that will change in 2011.) I heard the fishing is awesome.
jillsr 1 year ago
WE WANT TO SEE THE GF!!!
JohannaErixon 1 year ago
Now I'm just really curious as to what lead your straight friend to hold you down and force you to kiss her hahaha
SamBamKablaam 1 year ago 5
Michelle- In case you were still wondering: I often put the first move on the ladies back in my dating days. I think that whole initiator thing was liberating to me, and I loved girls' reactions to it. I like to think I was pretty smooth. They definitely responded to the confidence. Best example was when I first put the move on Marybeth more than five years ago. She, then, was living a straight life and I remember her being giggly and, ah! that smile she gave me never quite left my mind.
proud2badork 1 year ago
@proud2badork How sweet Lori
BillieBaby143 1 year ago
the repeal of DADT made my weekend!
(even though I'm from Germany)
tlcfreak2510 1 year ago
Does it count as making the first move if it's unsuccessful? If so, I've done it once. Also, I am the hermit who didn't know about DADT. XD But when you said it, I did a little happy dance.
pigeon309 1 year ago
3:23 I have to say that one really surprised me. Haha. I always make the first move. But then again, that's usually with people who aren't interested in me, so no wonder. lol.
And yay for the DADT repeal!!
WyldFire777 1 year ago
. . . what not. Which is fine with me, I mean we're only in high school/soon to be graduates. ^^ Oh, and Heck yes! I'm so happy DADT has finally been repealed. <3
xShiizam 1 year ago
I've never made the first move either! haha. But my current girlfriend and I have talked about it, and I already knew/know for a fact she's not going to make the first move, and if I kiss her it will be her first kiss, which makes me even more insanely nervous. But she does want to kiss me, and I want to kiss her. Its just not really a big deal with us, our relationship isn't based on physical stuff, more about just talking about everything and then some and being around each other and . . .
xShiizam 1 year ago
is there a "beaverbunch" equivalent for gay guys?
jcmti 1 year ago
@jcmti 5awesomegays
closedmouth 1 year ago
I AM SO HAPPY :) I can't join the military because my asthma is SOOOOOO bad. If I ever get a partner who wants to join the arm forces she can join the Military being open about herself. NOTE THAT'S IF I get a GF who wants to be in arm forces.
NeetNeetz1993 1 year ago
im gay and ALLOWED to be now :) WOOP. and im a first mover too. unless i get one of those creepy clingy dates who thinks their is more chemistry than there really is and they koala me or kiss all up on me without me expecting.
spiffytiffy07 1 year ago
I made the first move on my first girlfriend....and my mom thought that she was the one who "seduced" (a.k.a. made me like girls?) me!
moonbeam353 1 year ago
I've never made the first move on a girl either. Don't know why, maybe I should start. -le sigh-
AKANEakaWOMAN 1 year ago
i always make the first move. my man was so freaked out by that, he had never had a lady tell him what was up.
have fun in c.r. i have a few friends that live there and they LOVE it. i hope to visit them some day
xoexo
edenbainbridge 1 year ago
LOL omg this video was hilarious. also, michelle looks so pretty here!
elizajaya 1 year ago
I've never made the first move, but I'm 14 so I don't know if I count
Jazmine10O 1 year ago
i have never made the first move, but to be fair i AM only 13 haha i dont think i ever could tho, i dont have the 'nads
YourNumba1FanYo 1 year ago
I have never EVER made the first move. Too scared. But with the girl I'm in love with(but trying not to), she was even more scared. When I first kissed her, she did nothing for like 10 seconds. Her lips didn't move at all and I was like "oohhh no she doesn't want this". But then she stopped being scared and got into it haha.
CLeprechaun 1 year ago
I haven't made the first move. I haven't been in very many relationships to have made the first move.
On the same hand, I have been in several not so health relationship to the point that I think that I'm afraid to make the first move.
thtrnerd221 1 year ago
1. did you pluck your eyebrows yourself, feel like its too thin
2. i dont make the first move too, i dont think i know how. its like when starting a convo, im not the question asker, im more of a answering the question then asking the same question to that person. Im not really good with small talks and i think you need that when you make the first move
harpsmor 1 year ago
I've never made the first move either. I'm fearful of a bad reaction
electronic11punkster 1 year ago
I'm really scared to make first moves because I'm afraid of offending people. I'm afraid if they don't feel the same way, they'll feel violated. It has to do with what I went through but I will probably never have the guts to kiss a girl without warning her first, or being like a thousand percent sure she wants the same... =/
BillieBaby143 1 year ago 19
@BillieBaby143 I totally agree with you, we are in the same boat when it comes to making first moves
electronic11punkster 1 year ago
@BillieBaby143 There are things called Kiss tests, look them up, the most common is caressing her hair without her rejecting you, she will most likely wanna kiss you.
crypticnivek 1 year ago
OMG YAY! I haven't watched anything all week! Ugh yes !
wenh08 1 year ago
OMG! I have all of those accesses but I just learned that from you!! Wow I live under a rock, but WOWWWWWWWW!!! I'm SO HAPPY TO HEAR THAT!! THAT'S INCREDIBLE!
BillieBaby143 1 year ago
You're so femme!!
So you need to know how to make the first move in Costa Rica hehehe :)
paul20072007 1 year ago
is it weird that i remember that story with the straight best friend?
ximepe88 1 year ago
Ive never made the first move either. Never will.
jdfox1 1 year ago
Yeah, I'm still young, so I haven't even had a relationship yet, nevermind making the first move.
ntcssj 1 year ago
I have no ballz so thats a no go with me too :P
bandfag17 1 year ago
okay...gotta tell you this , from the comments below and myself , i wanted to say " YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE IN THE WORLD who hasn't made the first move !"
renewong32 1 year ago 2
I dont think I have ever made a first move....
Chicola16 1 year ago
T^T I finally got up the courage to make the first move and leaned over to kiss her cheek and she dodged, practically falling over -_- soooo not good XD
inusqueen360 1 year ago
I went to costa rica with my shcool last march and had a bad experience ziplining... on the last line, we had to go in pairs and everyone thought it would be funny to leave me with the kid no one likes, of which halfway through the line, he decided to take his legs off of me resulting in me spinning out of control until my hand got stuck in the pulley leaving me in a lot of pain dragging by my hand and then being stuck who knows how high in the air with no where to go... -_-
beneathmysurface 1 year ago
I THINK I made the first move....I kissed her at a Con within 5-10ish minutes of us talking...... o///o
other than that, i don't think i ever made the first move. Don't think i'll ever have to again either ^_^
EmoKid0512 1 year ago
i have never made a first move. i'm not too confident and fear rejection. =[
brittanykayseas 1 year ago
I have made the move every time, and got rejected each time! But for some reason, no matter how many times I have been and will ever be rejected, a part of me will always make the first move.
Culpamia111 1 year ago
Ive never made the first move as well.. I'm just hella scared of getting rejected.. I've tired to but didnt go through it.. Its hard to I wouldnt know after words what to do.. I guess feed off of what she says... Which I had the guts to.. I guess I dont feel confidence in my self..
So I feel ya girl...
claudia1515 1 year ago
Michelle: You ade the first move?
GF: YES! And I wasn't even gay!...
Pobably the best comment from your GF ever, lol. I love it when she chimes in the videos :) That said, after thinking about it, it occurred to me I actually made the first move on my first GF, and my current GF *Flicks hair* So high five your GF from me ;) (If the kids still do that these days..) haha.
Oh and Yes, finally DADT is history! So happy for you all down there in Americanland :) - liz
lizrem 1 year ago 74
ahhh I've never made the first move either!! possibility of rejection scares me too much! lol
xSamanthaNicole 1 year ago 2
I'm so jealous of you! I love Costa Rica! You definitely have to go ziplining but you should also go whitewater rafting. You should also check out Arenal volcano. I also enjoyed going to the cloud forest. I stayed at a place called Savegre. All drinks were $5 and they had the most amazing hot cocoa. Enjoy your trip! Pura Vida baby!
samerrill06 1 year ago
well what is the first move. it sure doesn't have to be a kiss. cos that's fast. i mean i personally would want to wait for the first kiss until you can't wait anymore. first move can be saying hi. (ps found the beaverbunch thanks to Meghan Tonjes) and yeah, thanks, a friend mentioned on his FB status about DADT but I didn't know what that acronym meant. Yes ZIPLINE!!!
hiddentreazure 1 year ago
I'M SO EXICTED ABOUT IT TOO!!!! :D
greendayaremyheros 1 year ago
i have never made the first move too, im so bad at it , i get so scared because i have no idea how to approach white girls . im asian and my strong accent makes me hold back ,
elledrowxxx1628 1 year ago
RIP DADT!!!
Rockas360 1 year ago 2
I was watching the news waiting for the news on DADT....my girlfriend is so excited. she will have such an easy time in the AF now
redneckcookie11 1 year ago
I love that you have no advice and yet your video is still 4 min long. THAT is why we love you!
ahappygay 1 year ago 2
That is so funny that your girlfriend said she made the first move and she wasn't even gay because I made the first move on my girlfriend and I wasn't gay at the time either haha I liked her and I knew she was bi & she didn't even make the first move !
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Never?? Haaa let me clarify,,,you are the only beaver,,hahahaha
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