@phillipgaley respectfully you really sjould not judge, I have Christ in my life, if not for Him I would not be here, but I am human and as one I make mistakes
Why does a male have to prove himself for a woman to consider him a man, but she can sit back and let him provide and protect her, like he's a watch dog or something, and still be considered a woman ?
I see where you're coming from...but women wanted their "independence" and they got it. You can't have it both ways. All that word means is to be alone and to do alone.
I would say, . . . while you're not all wrong, . . . you're trying to deal with too many interlacing and overlapping issues—and, as appears—without a Christ-centered view of your future, . . . and which, . . . probably, . . . is how you arrived at where you now are, . . . G0D Bless, . . .
All I wanna say is I don't think women should see themselves that way, but the way God sees them, everyone needs to get in touch with Jesus Christ as lord, and then they will see they are truly fearfully, and wonderfully made in His image, when they are born again. I also want to say you show is fine that's all I want to say...LOL. Everyone please say this blessing Jesus is lord, and I believe Jesus died on the cross for my sins, and arose from the dead fill me with the Holy Spirit in Jesus name
you didn't like the video because it APPLIED to you and probably your homegirls too. typical. women hate being called out on their bullshit. so its understandable why u had a distaste for the vid lol
It is mostly women who look at the opposite sex as a means of attaining a certain lifestyle. Only some men do the same with women e.g. pimps. Some other guys want women who have their own money cause they don't want women to use them for money. Other men don't care if women are goldiggers and actually prefer the poorer ones cause they're cheaper.
@georgelopezblows Things are out of wack and I will not state my position. A sense of entitlement in anyone is not good..All I have to say is that the way things are between men and women are meant to throw you off balance and distract.
@rudeness121 Chasteness and feminine respect is also taught. She is taught to respect herself and how to get respect. The Modern and The Ancient needs to be combined.
@rudeness121 ..We have to somehow recapture some of our original culture but in modern form. Certain things we will never be able to recapture because we are a different race of people than the ones that left Africa. Etiquette and Male and Female behaviors were taught skills in Africa starting from at around age 13. It would have to be an organized effort that does not expect overnight results.
Please do not take this the wrong way but you are basically agreeing with him. I do not believe that a prostitute would sleep with a man who has no money or nothing to offer her or in other words something she could not benefit from. Not all men are boys it just so happens that most women willingly choose those "boys" and they keep doing so over and over again. Unfortunately most women are prostitutes...its really sad. No woman wants a broke man lol. that provider crap is OUTDATED.
Its hard to hear, but He is definitely making valid points, the problem is these guys are being raised too much on the Women side so the focus to much on the relationship aspect rather than the "getting" aspect of life. The guys have womanish ways so it makes them evolve into someone who is not a provider but femininely aspect of looking for a Provider. The Man's role is Provider but how can he do that if he is spending his time moreso on things that doesn't involve the skill sets to provide.
@BonusCivis Its a paradoxical circumstance that will not abate any time soon. Maybe a particular demograph of men should stop being raised in a way that makes him obsolete and lacking of Male-Provider skill sets. Developing Men is a process and most of our Men who have successfully acquired the skill sets are mostly truly selfmade. A lot of them have to learn manhood on their own. Society is comfortable in keeping this demographic in a childlike state. Its burned into the culture's Psyche
Listen this is a new age in society where women are a mans equal...yall women fought for equal rights so yall can take care of yall selves now take care of yall selves!!!!....as far as relationships yu gotta go off of looks sex or love...becus everybody holdin on to they money men and women...i done lived good off of a female before and she took good care of me...so it goes either way nowadays
im not taking care of a grown ass woman if she has more money than me...im looking for someone two take care of me and i take care of her not me just taking care of her grown ass
i feel u on this video but now adays it is hard to find a job i mean now im in college and tryna find a job so i can support my family when i have one but u do have some dudes that are just looking for women to take care of them and i personally hate for women to take care of me
There was not a single thing u said that disagreed with "DaNiggaWitdaTattoos". All u said was that women are justified in gold-digging because of the traditional male role as "provider & protector". However, it would only be fair if u also expected women to play their traditional role as submissive housewives. If not, u would be a hypocrite.
Independent women broke the gender roles and now they complain about how they miss them when it comes to dating. You can't have it both ways.
Wassup rudeness. Thanks 4 da S/O. And I agree with you here. I was raised to handle manly responsibilities at a young age so I know. That's the difference between a Grown Man & A Grown Boy.
I agree with this...basically it's just an excuse to not do crap with your life. Believe me, I used to not care if a man had anything as long as he "loved" me lol. Look the truth of the matter is you have to examine the reasons why the man has nothing. Is he really doin the best he can or is he just a lazy bastard, cause its a lotta them lol.
Although...I don't consider myself as a feminist...I don't like sexism. In other words... I believe I have the GOD given ( human) right to express myself on matters that pertain to me as a woman and a human being and I do respect other people's rights as well. peace to you... SISTER.
cont. @rudeness121 i meant...that they would have to get a job / or training that wouild help to take care of themselves when they left home and that help would also help to prove themselves to their girlfriends that they were willing to work and take care of the woman who would be their future wife.
YEAH SIS... It's nothing like having a GOOD, LOVING, RESPECTABLE AND KIND MAN! No.. I don't consider myself a feminist. I just brought that up... because some of the brothers are using that term as an excuse.. not to be gentlemen to us blk women who wouild want be submissive to them and they really are not striving as a whole.. to STRONG leaders within the blk community....which is alarming....but is what it is. When I growing up my fathers told my brothers that would have
@spainishgirl forget the typos...i feel you...glad to see i'm not the only one....smh....i love men...ESPECIALLY my blackmen...but i have seen soooo many videos bythem putting black women down...some have good points..but to base thoughts ofa whole race on actions ofa few...is not right...that's my whole thing...cuz i know afew good women...i know a few good men...too bad they are family or taken...lol...but i do agree...women need to stop handicapping their men...and yeah
@spainishgirl forget a feminism!!! i want for a man to open my door pull out his wallet....court me...bring me flowers sometimes....a man don't have too be rich to make me smile...just thoughtful and any man that don't agree is the right one for someone...just not for me....lol....love miss lady!!!!
@rudeness121 After watching both videos, i think that u may have missed his overall point. It wasn't that a "broke ass nigga" deserves the chance to be with a goddess but rather that a man that is doing what he can to make it (within reason), shouldn't be overlooked just because his possessions aren't equal to or greater than that of the next man regardless of his personality traits. In essence choosing to lay up with a "baller" rather than settle with a nigga on the bench who is better 4 her
...of little value. To be appreciated as a person.. and human being has nothig to do with the lame excuse of not to doing so ..because of feminism. This attitude makes me sick because blkwomen have always worked and helped blk men ....yes even today in some form or fashion. And yes there are still some
GOOD BLK men around. A GOOD ( leader ) man doesn't just mean a man who has some kind of degree and or a good paying job but you got to have a GOOD, KIND, FAITHFUL HEARTalso. als
that....in fact it makes me fee morel womanly and relax to know that man cares for me and is trying to give me emotional support as well because when you are struggling moneywise that brings on stress also. Yes in my some of my relationships i tried to help blk some men and not ask for " too much" only to realized that they didn't mind doing so and afterward I had to dump to them. As blk women....we have been conditioned to give and give ( since slavery times ) and not to ask of anything.
SIS...I have decided in life....if a man's doesn't know his self's worth I am not getting into a serious relationship with that person..... because it is not the woman's responsiblity to keep propping a man up. I also grew up in a two-parent household. There still some blk women who are still helping the blk man out and catering to his needs but it sure feels GOOD to be appreciated and having a man saying let's go baby out and have some fun....what do you need baby ....don't worry about
there are women men can be with without having money but they are ugly! no one want ugly fatty females! not even a male bum,he rather drink!! and cute females want ? babies?money?career? The only honest girls are the muffdiving lesbians!
Also keep in mind that the head of the family is also the same head that gets cut off in the family court room When divorce happens it's the head of the family that will have their children and money taken away from them. More and more men are realizing that the "boys" are better off and that being a protector and provider is just more trouble then its worth.
@Zain844 i can only respect your opinions....i don't want you to take care of me nor spend your money on me...so to make this personal rather than hypothetical is neither here nor there....and if a man would prefer to be a boy...he's not the one for me...there are a lot of females that take care of men...i'm just saying i'm no longer in that group....thanks fr watching and your comments....with a smile
@rudeness121 my point is that 50% of marriages end in divorce and 70% of those divorces are initated by women. and the reason they do this is because most women intiate divorce is because they want to take his money and his children away from him. so being a protector and provider has screwed over alot of men. Thanks to the men's movement we're finally waking up to this shit. Why do women like a man who owns his own home?
@Zain844 lol....i don't think that is the reason why women marry...to get a divorce and "steal" her "husband's" house....i know men who prefer to leave his wife the house so his children are not put out of their home.....many things go on for a marriage to go wrong...in order for it to work ..they both have to want to work it out...i don't believe in divorce just because something is amiss.....smh...men's movement...women's movement....sounds like a fancy name for distrust in the opp sex
@rudeness121 Exactly there is distrust and for a very good reason. The statistcs speak for themselves.
The big difference between the women's movement and the men's movement is that feminists don't want real equality. The want equality when it's convenient for them and special treament the rest of the time. The men's movement wants real equality for women to be held to the same standard as men and thats why feminists are so scared.
@rudeness121 Actually that's exactly why most women divorce men so they can get his resources and forcibly remove him from the home, otherwise 65-70% of all divorces wouldnt be initated by the woman. YOu know men who left so that their family would not by put out on the street? I'm not surprised that's because men are raised to be self sacrifising to be disposable to not value himself you need men to think like this if you are gonna send them off to war or to do dangerous jobs.
@Zain844 well...like i said...i can only respect your opinions...i was brought up a certain way...so my views are going to be a certain way....i feel we make relationships more complex than it has to be...and insert a lot of negativity watching what goes on and judging what should be going on in what's around us rather than dealing with each relationship/person separately..going into something thinking all women or most women (or men) are the same inhibits you from finding and appreciating
@rudeness121 I never said all women are the same, but as Paul Elam said all family courts are the same if you don't believe marriage is about money then you better believe divorce is. When divorce happens, the love is gone it's all about money and whoever is the breadwinner (who is usually the man) is the one who will get screwed the most. If men and women treated eachother as human beings and not some utility, then we woulndt have so many of these problems. MONEY is the #1 cause of divorce
@Zain844 well....i don't know what else to say....lol....you seem to have a dark look on relationships...someone will come along and change that..... =)
@rudeness121 It's not dark, it's realistic my dear,
Passive acceptance of injustice is not a virtue a lot needs to be changed in how men and women act towards eachother.
and i couldnt care less if this "dream girl" comes or not. I am planning on living the life of the zeta male. I don't care what women want to be honest, i stopped caring a loooong time ago lol
@Zain844 a good 'fit' for you...no one is perfect but there is someone perfect for you....that's my thoughts any way....thanks for the convo....tho' i don't agree i like gaining insight on other's way of thinking.... much mucho love.....blessed
Honestly I'd rather spend my money on myself then you. Why should I take care of you? What are you gonna do for me?
A woman who feels entitled to have a man take care of her and support her and is basically trading sex and companionship for money is a prostitute. Any woman who says "I'm a woman I shouldnt have to pay for anything you should take care of me" is a prostitute. That simple.
@prettyboyswagnyc lol...well as you can tell...i am not.... should i take that as a compliment or insult...i don't know...may i ask why?...because i don't speak in slang terms?.....i mean..your opinion is your opinion... im just curious.....
@rudeness121 Its very confusing for us men right now. As a man you work hard and come up in the world, ur getting paid. Why would you get with a woman that has nothing to offer but ass? So she can get half? Maybe the brother didnt say it the way you can accept it, but from a modern man's view its true. Also i think alot of women have forgotten how to be women. Cook?Clean? Be a partner? I dont think most even know how anymore. And that indepent line, is very dated.
@Tambura330 ture...there are issues on both sides...i'm not saying a man should get with a woman because of their looks..but they do....the men with money don't go for the average chic...usually they look for the baddest chic....and if she rely totally on her sexuality...she's not going to cook or clean cuz she figure a man will stay strictly on looks....and the independent "line" is not a line ..it's truth...i've never depended on a man for anything..i'm not one of those "f* men i don't need 1"
@Tambura330 i'm just saying...because of my choices...(i know) i ended up taking care of men along with everything else...so me stating that is not a 'weapon' i use in relationships...it's just what it is....thank you for your comment....much mucho love....blessed
also you said how do you expect to get respect from your woman if you don't have anything...same goes for women...you say you don't want to take care of a man we don't want to be there to solely take care of women financially...the respect for love is gone people are getting with people off of potential money and ass instead of loving who you love and making it work so when that money or ass is gone or is lessened then the problems come in
@dollarbill125 well mr dollar bill....i can not say i disagree.....you had a lot to say on the subject...lol...i like to think that most women are not like that...but judging on the response i have gotten from men....(they are the ones dating and dealing with women...not i)...i can't really argue....but i know not all women look for cash over love...but INITIALLY a man that is ...not necessarily ballin'...but put together is going to attract a woman over one that is not...
@dollarbill125 just as a man is going to be INITIALLY attracted to a woman physically attractive with a nice shape ....booty...breasts....long hair...(whatever floats the boat)...over the not so attractive girl....if someone is looking for love ...money is not going to matter, but we are all vain....so INITIALLY...we choose what is most pleasing to our senses...men and women.....
@rudeness121 you have a good point and i'll admit im kind of vain when it comes to looks to a point but if I like a woman looks play less of a role to me
he doesn't have to be bummy but if he has personality put him against the dude with cash and no personality and tell me who do you think will get the girl...a lot of women especially black women will go for the dude with cash and no personality or that doesn't really love them and keep dating these kinds of dudes for the money or status but when they drop her she'll say all men aren't shit but she's the one that passed up good dudes who just weren't ballin
prostitute...women like to disagree but then turn around while they're with their girls and talk about oh i want him because he has that nice car or he look like he ballin and he gonna treat me right(not emotionally but financially) and this is what it has turned into...it's killing the respect of the black man and instead of women respecting us for us they respect the money we make and only look for that...back to what he said again a lot of women aren't checking for the average dude
dicks for the sole purpose that they have cash...never mind the fact dude may be sleeping with tons of women they still want that man...like dude said a man can disrespect some of these women at will but as long as they still have money that woman will put that disrespect aside and that's the problem...these women are respecting money more than the actual person and in lines of that women turn into prostitutes...shoot i think if a woman is with a dude for any reason other than love she's a
I personally don't look at a woman a woman bad if she wants the man to handle things sometime but just like women don't want a man with nothing we don't want a woman with nothing...and if you're with me for love why should my money matter that much...now don't get me wrong men should provide but just as you said roles are changing women should be providing too...but a good point is that is for a family...some of these women today are just scooping out dudes for cash and are jumping on their
wow, its crazy how when it comes to sex, we blame the all population of one sex for just what some of them do. There are still ladies that have high standards and dont through themselves out like that, we are still alive!! and as for some of us (like me) we use to have low standards but because of experience , now I've learned i got to hold myself together for a man to want me. i know its slightly off topic but thats what came to mind lol
I know a girl who has never been on a date, this same girl has a child though? I always wondered how could a woman end up in a relationship with a guy who didn't court her. All men aren't like this, at least not me. I thought the newness in a relationship, the getting to know one another is how you weed them out? if a guy isn't courting you then he has no intentions of having a real relationship with you, so why would a woman allow a man to go further with her?
@STARSPANGLEDTV I must say...i just love this comment.....two thumbs up...and a big toe...5 stars...10 out of 10....lol...much mucho love for this one!!!
@rudeness121 The problem I have with this conversation is that in today society there are women who are not wifey material. They don't cook, clean, take care of there kids, they cheat. and there are fake women out there that make it bad for REAL women. example Robert was correct when he said that women divorce because financial reasons, fake women don't try to stick it out, they hurry up and divorce and move on to the next guy.
Feminism changes a lot in role reversal. A lot of females cater to the males you describe.If hey ma, whats your # is going to bring great result than why not use it. Having your own is being an adult not independent. But it doesnt mean anything if your man isnt on the same page. We live in a materialistic society. Theres nothing wrong with being established but when money is the main focus than that when its a problem
ehelol, you know, ur more right than you think lol. Men in this "society" have been brainwashed. This is as plain and as simple as you say. And you are right, but when we get down to history/conquest, psychology and "tradition", it’s not nearly as simple as it seems. The level of complexion this matter will overshadow any simple arguments. But very nice video, I must say. I’m a man, and I saw his vid. I cannot judge him but I’m sure he meant something else. Like; “Society forces women…”
@masterafrica i really try to understand the thoughts and actions of men... and some women...especially since i see so many black men bashing black women and black women bashing black men...you're right ...trying to simplify something with so much complexity....will just leave a person frustrated....i.e the many dislikes i got for this video when i thought i was making some sense...lol....thank you for your attention and your comments...much much love
@ryanr20091 not my feelings personally....i just hate for black men to speak so negative of black women....vice versa...i understand what he was saying after it being broke down without the negative connotations....but i still don't care for the choice of words he used......
@rudeness121 I've been watching his videos for awhile now and I know he talks 99% slang, so you can't take every word he says literally. When he says a dude with "nothing", he does not mean a dude who aint got shit, it was more of a reference towards the average dudes, that aint all flashy.
I was raised by both my parents and I was taught it should be 50/50 between man and woman. We can't live like the old days because time is hard now. Let's be real, if 2 dudes with a job started talking to a female, 9/10 chance she going to pick the 1 who she think got more money, just like the dude will pick the chick with the biggest ass.
@datbwoity true my opinions are molded by how i grew up and my surroundings...but my point wasn't we need to live like the old days...i think financially it should be more like a 60/40 cuz 9/10...i being the female am keeping the house...cooking the food...carrying his child...taking care of just about every aspect of rearing...but that's my opinion..and to ur last statement ye..i agree...initially that may be the case...money and booty are not the only factors...thank u so much..enjoyed
I saw Datniggawitdatatoos video and I do agree with him, but he was never talking about dudes that aint got shit going for themselves. I saw ur comments and looking at your video I think I see where ur disagreement comes from. I caught on to it when u were talking about ur family, since ur from a family that the man took care of the woman, is the reason why I believe that u disagree with him (cont)
@datbwoity Well when he said a dude with NTHING...how else was i supposed to interpret it?..lol... opinions are based on morals upbringing and experience...i have experienced ...in the 2 relatinships where i lived with a man ...they brought nothing to the table....so when he said a man with NOthing as opposed to a man with something...and on top of it called MOST women prostitutes(tho i can say i don't fit in the box) i just had to give my opinion.....
I think we should stop condemming a whole group of people for the actions of a few...if we all looked at a person of the opposite sex AS AN INDIVIDUAL the world would be a better place
@rudeness121 That is the result of feminism. There are a lot of women out there who go with boys and not men. Its very important to see what type of man you have with similar goals. Some women wants to be in control of the relationship and baby sit a man based on the attention shes getting until a child's involved. Standards have to be raised. If I get a free cooked meal, lay up in the crib and drive in your car and get sex, why would I want to change? It in your nature to be a woman.
You're a very strong person- takes a lot to make videos like these. I might not be able to watch the whole video, but i agree with you. God bless you, once again. This is a very hard subject for me, as well, so...blah. lol. Hey, you're right, peoples' opinions are Their opinions; heavily based upon how they grew up. But some things that people think and say..are just WRONG AS SIN. :/ Bad behaviour toward one another is equal- male and female- but for SOME things..males can't NOT claim it on ebay
@IceInMySnowCone thank you 4 ur reply...yeah...ive been called a hooker 4 posting this vid...lol....but peoples opinions are based upn how they grew up....so....i really can't get angry......or be offended...i did enjoy debating with people tho'....much love 2 you....blessed
But you are right a man that can do for his woman is not a man he is boy and should be working on his self instead of working on getting a woman. But in our Capitalist society where the value of a man is base on the money in his pocket or bank account that he is right. Society is wrong, but he is a correct judge of it. If you are one of the few that judge a man by his character that congrats to you for transcending but the facts are the facts.
@MegaMekka well..personally...i have never gone after a man because of what he has...for 2 reasons...#1. i don't want a man questioning me as to whether i am with him for his money or not....#2. men tend to throw what they have done for you in your face when they throw their fits...but at the same time..i'm not going to be with a man who is doing nothing and going no where in life...that's another expense i don't need...i have 2 girls...character and morals are important... (contin)
@MegaMekka i wouldono't oput them in harms way for noo amount..onto general...men attract women with cash...vain...women attract men with sex appeal...vain...it's all vanity...men need to stop getting mad because a female look over them for one with more cash...trust..they didn't want to deal with those females any way..woulda been a problem...stop looking for diamonds in the bubble gum machine...lol
@rudeness121 you right trust I learnt from experience about Gold diggers never again. I need a woman that her head on straight and for real I try to look like a bum on purpose sometimes just as a test. I need a woman with her mind right. I see it like this I’m a King so need a Queen so we can have an Empire she has to bring just as much to the table. Glad to hear you looking out for your seeds it few that do that .
@MegaMekka oh goodness...lol..where are you from? i believe more women look out for their kids than don't ...there are more good fathers(biologically or not)..than there are dead beats....peoople tend to do too much generalizing...and when they find what they feel is rare (when it's really not) they tend to fudge it up because they have mentally trained themselves to think it's too good to be true....all women aren't prostitutes all women aren't gold diggers all men aren't dogs or dead beats..
first off dont want to offend you watched his video then yours. I agree with him. He didnt say anything about a man coming together with a women and building nothing. He was talking about society and the roles of man and women in it. You talked about the begining of time that man was expected to be the protector and bread winner of but prostitutions as been around just as long. Since the begining the more a man can do for a women the more women the man can have, that the concept of the Alpa male
@MRbossman1982 i would reply with an anal sarcastic response...but...how can i take offense ...you don't know me...or anything about me...the way you have come off only mean you don't care for women nor had any home training...i don't know if perkins is your man or you are ....how can i say....riding his male extremity really close...but he did not take offense nor did he come at me in a disrespectful manner...grow up Junior..and guess what..i said it with a smile... CHEESE!!
@rudeness121 i am a black man, and i am 29 over my dating life 90% OF THE WOMEN I DATED WANTED MONEY OUT OF ME, 90% i wish u were a lesbian or bi so you could go out there and see the mentally of this women, they act like if the money doesnt come out nothing happes, its like that nelly tip drill video were he puts the credit card in the girls booty and she starts shaking it, all you feminist love to act like their no gold diggers, and women out there arent HOEs sorry 4 calling u a hoker.
@MRbossman1982 awww...well thank you for the apology...i don't consider myself a feminist...i love men...don't agree with some of the moves ya'll make or understand ya'll thought process in some areas...but i love ya'll...and what do you mean 90% wanted money out of you?.you paying for the date ...or literally said you want the goods you have to pay for it? .oh..and i never said the hoes and prostitutes don't exist...i know a few...just generalizing most women as being one or the other isnt rite
@rudeness121 i met this black lady once, and we went to the store i was nice i broguth her some smokes lol food and got us a bottle of wine. then the next day i call her am like her babe can i come over? she is like naw naw, but if we bring over 100$ we can have sex. i met other black women who BOLDLY asked me for cash for sex too. its wild that turns me off to alot of black women i am sorry to say but its true.
@MRbossman1982 uhhh...ok...you meet a lady...buy her food and smokes...ask her if you can come over the next day for?....you men talk aboout women who give up the goods easily... bad...talk about a woman who won't give it up..bad...may i ask...what the hell do ya'll want?...lol..seriously...something is wrong with your choice in women...it's not the woman per say..it's the ones you choose....bubble gum machines only dispense bubble gum!...lol (dont look for a diamond in a bubblegum machine)
@rudeness121 Its a catch 22 i keep running into hoes, and then when i find a classy woman. she is like "oh well hang in there bud your woman will come" i am not some handsome denzel washington type so i dont get play.
@rudeness121 Like forreal i come out women with some nice stuff , i was raised by all women , my grand ma, my moms, aunties some many aunites i coul dhave an auntie team ( kanye song line lol) I dont know how not a treat a woman nice. i think they take my kindness for a weakness? maybe i am attracted to the hood chicks ? i dont know , i see a woman and i am like how you doing what syour name, who knows.
@MRbossman1982 Ook...well..easy fix..STOP COMING AT THE HOOD CHICKS!..and stop equating hood with black...if yoou want to swarn off black women...cool...that's you...but don't do it based on the mistake of equating black women with hood chick...no correlation...
Tell it gurl!! You are so right there is nothing wrong with a man that has his self together. Who want to date somebody that who dont have themselves together bringing a sista down. And you right a role of a boy.
@monicaker right?! what's wrong with wanting to date a man that has something going on....a man don't have to be rich..or balling all out of control...blah blah blah...but i want more than a dollar menu 4 piece nugget(spent 10 minutes arguing about the price going up to 1.39) and ice water while watching a burned movie in your mamas basement with 50 kids running around on top of my head screaming look at me....girrrrll....lol...thanks for the comment....
Yeah you right that nobody wants to struggle but if you REALLY love him you wouldn't really care about the struggle as long as u see hes trying. Just alot women dont see that a brother is TRYING. It just bothers me that I have the potential to be somebody( and really love the girl) but they go for somebody that shines his shit off(and dont care about her) . So when I do get rich and famous I get to sit back and laugh at the women that rejected me before. Great vid I might make a vid about it.
@Acemusic23 wait...how'd we get to love so quick? lol...i'm speaking of the initial..question...considering men are visual creatures...if you had a picking between (this is a female you want more than a hit and run) a bad chick with an alright attitude or a whoopi goldberg with a better attitude...which would you initially choose? ...everything is vanity...women use their sex appeal to attract..men use their cash...if a woman look over you..dangit..she was just not the right one..on to the next
@Acemusic23 my bad about the love part lol. (thought that what your talking about) umm yeah I would go with the whoopi just cause it doesnt matter how pretty you are if your attitude aint straight then your out the door, because I hate people who judge because of looks(its happened to me all the time) so yeah ppl might say the girl is ugly on the outside but her heart is what makes her the sexiest thing in the world to me. #MUchlove
@Acemusic23 WHAT?!...no really...you in a room..you meet whoopi and halle..(or whomever you find the most attractive) at the same time...both want to get with you...you're telling me...with a straight face...that you would choose whoopi over halle?....now you can't see neither one of their hearts .(i'm giving you the twisted face right now)lol
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS well you need to change your stomping grounds or something...cause i know a few beautiful women who are not ditch diggers but are assets....lol...(fist pump)
@rudeness121 See this the problem Im not talking about me. Im not out here losing lol. I win cuz im cool and I have a great character and Im hard working and I take care of my kids, I have a dynamic personality and that helps me win in the game where niggas wit money be winning. I was speaking in a broad perspective from what I have seen and heard out here. I dont have stomping grounds, Im grown, I stomp from my home lol
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS well dammit mr perkins...may i be excused?...lol...nothing but love...i'm still a subbie.....( i still think prostitute was too strong of a word to generalize MOST women)....
@rudeness121 LOL I know I aint mad I knu I was goin get cussed out for the video when I was thinking about it in my head. Prostitute has a negative connotation cuz thats what society has brought people up to believe. Luckily Im pass society and all that bullshit they try to make me feel about a word. Which is clearly defined in the dictionary. I knew the title wud already make people mad lol but thats just how it be sometimes. Thank u for fuckn wit my videos.
LOL. Sorry u diaagree but I think u took the shit too extreme. I never said a nigga that dont work or a nigga thats lazy as hell. I was talking bout hard working niggas that just aint balling losing to niggas that got money. I never said a man shouldnt be a man. But thanks for wathn and thanks for ur response. U spoke on bum ass niggas and thats not what I was saying.
This may be a little off subject. But I was reading the comments on his video and I came across yours and I HAD to click on your channel because your were making SO much sense. Very intelligent women.
A lot of this nonsense does come with society and the way you were raised, but the reality is, as an adult, people should grow up. I don't have a lot and I don't expect a man to take care of me, but I MOST DEFINITELY am NOT gonna get with a man who has nothing and is not trying TO have anything. One of the my biggest pet peeves is to see a woman get dropped off at work while her jobless man takes her car! He all fly and whatnot in clothes that her silly ass bought, and odds are, he's cheating!!
@Napisha09 Well girrrrlll....you shoulda been around and slapped some sense in me...i was that chic... "go oon baby...drop me off work and do what you gotta do"...8 hours later..."why is there blonde hair all over my car head rest?"...lol..smh....girrrrl.....
they are looking to the females to be both their significant other as well as they're mothers....its a shame. Just like the commentor before me said "it depends on how the female is raised" it also has to do with society, the environment in which they are in also has alot to do with their character. NOT all women are prostitutes. Maybe that is the type of females he deals with and if that is the case, he needs to take a step back, and start his search over.
@lewdona No problem miss lady....thank you!! ilike that "it also has to do with society, the environment in which they are in also has alot to do with their character."...that is true....men and women alike complain about each other not being able to find good mates... but seek out diamonds in a bubblegum machine...keep going to a bubble gum machine...u gon' get bubblegum....duh!...lol
This is crazy.....it is a serious issue, granted there are females out there who put themselves in the predicament of being called a prostitute, but you have alot of women out there that are genuinely look for someone and if it so happens that they have something going for themself then that's a bonus. Not all women are looking for someone to take care of them in every aspect. You are right when you say the role of men in our community has been compromised, too many men are being babied cont'd
this is a serious issue.. in my dealings, i say its give and take.. i hate the potential thing tho.. becuz i hear it a lot.. u got potential lol.. its bugged out.. now as far as the females being prostitutes.. nah.. not all.. but a lot are, and its usually based off of how they were brought up.. a lot of ppl in our generation came up without daddy.. so wit that said.. no daddy, moms prob dishin dirt on him and a female is gonna follow what momma tells them
@soundbwoy2011 thank you for that.....but what is it that's making the woman out to be a prostitute? the fact that they sleep with men in exchange for money( which by the way could come from any type of financial level) or the fact that women will choose a guy with before she would choose a guy that lacks? because it seems like it's being intertwined........putting most females in a category they don't belong in.....
@testizel i didnt like the vid for the derogatory term teferring to what is my sex, but thanks for your opinion any way
rudeness121 2 weeks ago
@Gowardh Amen..and thank you ;)
rudeness121 2 weeks ago
@phillipgaley respectfully you really sjould not judge, I have Christ in my life, if not for Him I would not be here, but I am human and as one I make mistakes
rudeness121 2 weeks ago
@Dmacho78 im givong my all to make him happy and only expect the same in return
rudeness121 2 weeks ago
Why does a male have to prove himself for a woman to consider him a man, but she can sit back and let him provide and protect her, like he's a watch dog or something, and still be considered a woman ?
Dmacho78 2 weeks ago
LOL, most women want a slave ?
Dmacho78 2 weeks ago
Women in this American society has been conditioned this way.
blackbolt75 2 weeks ago
I see where you're coming from...but women wanted their "independence" and they got it. You can't have it both ways. All that word means is to be alone and to do alone.
LawlessEntertainment 1 month ago 2
I would say, . . . while you're not all wrong, . . . you're trying to deal with too many interlacing and overlapping issues—and, as appears—without a Christ-centered view of your future, . . . and which, . . . probably, . . . is how you arrived at where you now are, . . . G0D Bless, . . .
phillipgaley 1 month ago
All I wanna say is I don't think women should see themselves that way, but the way God sees them, everyone needs to get in touch with Jesus Christ as lord, and then they will see they are truly fearfully, and wonderfully made in His image, when they are born again. I also want to say you show is fine that's all I want to say...LOL. Everyone please say this blessing Jesus is lord, and I believe Jesus died on the cross for my sins, and arose from the dead fill me with the Holy Spirit in Jesus name
Gowardh 1 month ago
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you didn't like the video because it APPLIED to you and probably your homegirls too. typical. women hate being called out on their bullshit. so its understandable why u had a distaste for the vid lol
testizel 1 month ago
It is mostly women who look at the opposite sex as a means of attaining a certain lifestyle. Only some men do the same with women e.g. pimps. Some other guys want women who have their own money cause they don't want women to use them for money. Other men don't care if women are goldiggers and actually prefer the poorer ones cause they're cheaper.
ButheJackcameBack 1 month ago
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@georgelopezblows Things are out of wack and I will not state my position. A sense of entitlement in anyone is not good..All I have to say is that the way things are between men and women are meant to throw you off balance and distract.
BonusCivis 1 month ago
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BonusCivis 1 month ago
he was telling the truth females cant admit it but he was . his points were vaild . yall wer proly just throwed by the title he used .
nisha5807 1 month ago
@rudeness121 Chasteness and feminine respect is also taught. She is taught to respect herself and how to get respect. The Modern and The Ancient needs to be combined.
BonusCivis 1 month ago
@rudeness121 ..We have to somehow recapture some of our original culture but in modern form. Certain things we will never be able to recapture because we are a different race of people than the ones that left Africa. Etiquette and Male and Female behaviors were taught skills in Africa starting from at around age 13. It would have to be an organized effort that does not expect overnight results.
BonusCivis 1 month ago
Please do not take this the wrong way but you are basically agreeing with him. I do not believe that a prostitute would sleep with a man who has no money or nothing to offer her or in other words something she could not benefit from. Not all men are boys it just so happens that most women willingly choose those "boys" and they keep doing so over and over again. Unfortunately most women are prostitutes...its really sad. No woman wants a broke man lol. that provider crap is OUTDATED.
kidbright 1 month ago
@kidbright Agreed
LawlessEntertainment 1 month ago
Yep, YOUR A PROSTITUTE !
caramelking2000 2 months ago
Its hard to hear, but He is definitely making valid points, the problem is these guys are being raised too much on the Women side so the focus to much on the relationship aspect rather than the "getting" aspect of life. The guys have womanish ways so it makes them evolve into someone who is not a provider but femininely aspect of looking for a Provider. The Man's role is Provider but how can he do that if he is spending his time moreso on things that doesn't involve the skill sets to provide.
BonusCivis 2 months ago
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@BonusCivis Its a paradoxical circumstance that will not abate any time soon. Maybe a particular demograph of men should stop being raised in a way that makes him obsolete and lacking of Male-Provider skill sets. Developing Men is a process and most of our Men who have successfully acquired the skill sets are mostly truly selfmade. A lot of them have to learn manhood on their own. Society is comfortable in keeping this demographic in a childlike state. Its burned into the culture's Psyche
BonusCivis 2 months ago
LMAO YOUR AGREEING WITH HIM ! YOU JUST R JUSTIFYING IT
klegend0 3 months ago
Listen this is a new age in society where women are a mans equal...yall women fought for equal rights so yall can take care of yall selves now take care of yall selves!!!!....as far as relationships yu gotta go off of looks sex or love...becus everybody holdin on to they money men and women...i done lived good off of a female before and she took good care of me...so it goes either way nowadays
candacenmarcel18 4 months ago
im not taking care of a grown ass woman if she has more money than me...im looking for someone two take care of me and i take care of her not me just taking care of her grown ass
MATT111MARTIN 5 months ago
i feel u on this video but now adays it is hard to find a job i mean now im in college and tryna find a job so i can support my family when i have one but u do have some dudes that are just looking for women to take care of them and i personally hate for women to take care of me
kingrayben800 5 months ago
There was not a single thing u said that disagreed with "DaNiggaWitdaTattoos". All u said was that women are justified in gold-digging because of the traditional male role as "provider & protector". However, it would only be fair if u also expected women to play their traditional role as submissive housewives. If not, u would be a hypocrite.
Independent women broke the gender roles and now they complain about how they miss them when it comes to dating. You can't have it both ways.
Adrianology101 5 months ago 2
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Wassup rudeness. Thanks 4 da S/O. And I agree with you here. I was raised to handle manly responsibilities at a young age so I know. That's the difference between a Grown Man & A Grown Boy.
Bigmelwalter86 6 months ago
I agree with this...basically it's just an excuse to not do crap with your life. Believe me, I used to not care if a man had anything as long as he "loved" me lol. Look the truth of the matter is you have to examine the reasons why the man has nothing. Is he really doin the best he can or is he just a lazy bastard, cause its a lotta them lol.
inanimate87 6 months ago
cont. @rudeness121
Although...I don't consider myself as a feminist...I don't like sexism. In other words... I believe I have the GOD given ( human) right to express myself on matters that pertain to me as a woman and a human being and I do respect other people's rights as well. peace to you... SISTER.
spainishgirl 6 months ago
cont. @rudeness121
i meant...my father.....
to be STRONG leaders.....
spainishgirl 6 months ago
cont. @rudeness121 i meant...that they would have to get a job / or training that wouild help to take care of themselves when they left home and that help would also help to prove themselves to their girlfriends that they were willing to work and take care of the woman who would be their future wife.
spainishgirl 6 months ago
@rudeness121
YEAH SIS... It's nothing like having a GOOD, LOVING, RESPECTABLE AND KIND MAN! No.. I don't consider myself a feminist. I just brought that up... because some of the brothers are using that term as an excuse.. not to be gentlemen to us blk women who wouild want be submissive to them and they really are not striving as a whole.. to STRONG leaders within the blk community....which is alarming....but is what it is. When I growing up my fathers told my brothers that would have
spainishgirl 6 months ago
please excuse any typing mistakes.
spainishgirl 6 months ago
@spainishgirl forget the typos...i feel you...glad to see i'm not the only one....smh....i love men...ESPECIALLY my blackmen...but i have seen soooo many videos bythem putting black women down...some have good points..but to base thoughts ofa whole race on actions ofa few...is not right...that's my whole thing...cuz i know afew good women...i know a few good men...too bad they are family or taken...lol...but i do agree...women need to stop handicapping their men...and yeah
rudeness121 6 months ago
@spainishgirl forget a feminism!!! i want for a man to open my door pull out his wallet....court me...bring me flowers sometimes....a man don't have too be rich to make me smile...just thoughtful and any man that don't agree is the right one for someone...just not for me....lol....love miss lady!!!!
rudeness121 6 months ago
@rudeness121 After watching both videos, i think that u may have missed his overall point. It wasn't that a "broke ass nigga" deserves the chance to be with a goddess but rather that a man that is doing what he can to make it (within reason), shouldn't be overlooked just because his possessions aren't equal to or greater than that of the next man regardless of his personality traits. In essence choosing to lay up with a "baller" rather than settle with a nigga on the bench who is better 4 her
m1ctube 3 months ago
@rudeness121 I'm just curious, but what exactly ( excluding sex) are you doing for the man ?
Dmacho78 2 weeks ago
...of little value. To be appreciated as a person.. and human being has nothig to do with the lame excuse of not to doing so ..because of feminism. This attitude makes me sick because blkwomen have always worked and helped blk men ....yes even today in some form or fashion. And yes there are still some
GOOD BLK men around. A GOOD ( leader ) man doesn't just mean a man who has some kind of degree and or a good paying job but you got to have a GOOD, KIND, FAITHFUL HEARTalso. als
spainishgirl 6 months ago
that....in fact it makes me fee morel womanly and relax to know that man cares for me and is trying to give me emotional support as well because when you are struggling moneywise that brings on stress also. Yes in my some of my relationships i tried to help blk some men and not ask for " too much" only to realized that they didn't mind doing so and afterward I had to dump to them. As blk women....we have been conditioned to give and give ( since slavery times ) and not to ask of anything.
spainishgirl 6 months ago
SIS...I have decided in life....if a man's doesn't know his self's worth I am not getting into a serious relationship with that person..... because it is not the woman's responsiblity to keep propping a man up. I also grew up in a two-parent household. There still some blk women who are still helping the blk man out and catering to his needs but it sure feels GOOD to be appreciated and having a man saying let's go baby out and have some fun....what do you need baby ....don't worry about
spainishgirl 6 months ago
there are women men can be with without having money but they are ugly! no one want ugly fatty females! not even a male bum,he rather drink!! and cute females want ? babies?money?career? The only honest girls are the muffdiving lesbians!
IbnNero 6 months ago
Also keep in mind that the head of the family is also the same head that gets cut off in the family court room When divorce happens it's the head of the family that will have their children and money taken away from them. More and more men are realizing that the "boys" are better off and that being a protector and provider is just more trouble then its worth.
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 i can only respect your opinions....i don't want you to take care of me nor spend your money on me...so to make this personal rather than hypothetical is neither here nor there....and if a man would prefer to be a boy...he's not the one for me...there are a lot of females that take care of men...i'm just saying i'm no longer in that group....thanks fr watching and your comments....with a smile
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 my point is that 50% of marriages end in divorce and 70% of those divorces are initated by women. and the reason they do this is because most women intiate divorce is because they want to take his money and his children away from him. so being a protector and provider has screwed over alot of men. Thanks to the men's movement we're finally waking up to this shit. Why do women like a man who owns his own home?
Simple, so she can steal it in the divorce.
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 lol....i don't think that is the reason why women marry...to get a divorce and "steal" her "husband's" house....i know men who prefer to leave his wife the house so his children are not put out of their home.....many things go on for a marriage to go wrong...in order for it to work ..they both have to want to work it out...i don't believe in divorce just because something is amiss.....smh...men's movement...women's movement....sounds like a fancy name for distrust in the opp sex
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 Exactly there is distrust and for a very good reason. The statistcs speak for themselves.
The big difference between the women's movement and the men's movement is that feminists don't want real equality. The want equality when it's convenient for them and special treament the rest of the time. The men's movement wants real equality for women to be held to the same standard as men and thats why feminists are so scared.
Zain844 8 months ago
@rudeness121 Actually that's exactly why most women divorce men so they can get his resources and forcibly remove him from the home, otherwise 65-70% of all divorces wouldnt be initated by the woman. YOu know men who left so that their family would not by put out on the street? I'm not surprised that's because men are raised to be self sacrifising to be disposable to not value himself you need men to think like this if you are gonna send them off to war or to do dangerous jobs.
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 well...like i said...i can only respect your opinions...i was brought up a certain way...so my views are going to be a certain way....i feel we make relationships more complex than it has to be...and insert a lot of negativity watching what goes on and judging what should be going on in what's around us rather than dealing with each relationship/person separately..going into something thinking all women or most women (or men) are the same inhibits you from finding and appreciating
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 I never said all women are the same, but as Paul Elam said all family courts are the same if you don't believe marriage is about money then you better believe divorce is. When divorce happens, the love is gone it's all about money and whoever is the breadwinner (who is usually the man) is the one who will get screwed the most. If men and women treated eachother as human beings and not some utility, then we woulndt have so many of these problems. MONEY is the #1 cause of divorce
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 well...that is why prenumps exist
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121
Pre-nups get tossed out of court all the time They're useless.
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 well....i don't know what else to say....lol....you seem to have a dark look on relationships...someone will come along and change that..... =)
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 It's not dark, it's realistic my dear,
Passive acceptance of injustice is not a virtue a lot needs to be changed in how men and women act towards eachother.
and i couldnt care less if this "dream girl" comes or not. I am planning on living the life of the zeta male. I don't care what women want to be honest, i stopped caring a loooong time ago lol
Zain844 8 months ago
@Zain844 ....ok....much love
rudeness121 8 months ago
@Zain844 a good 'fit' for you...no one is perfect but there is someone perfect for you....that's my thoughts any way....thanks for the convo....tho' i don't agree i like gaining insight on other's way of thinking.... much mucho love.....blessed
rudeness121 8 months ago
Honestly I'd rather spend my money on myself then you. Why should I take care of you? What are you gonna do for me?
A woman who feels entitled to have a man take care of her and support her and is basically trading sex and companionship for money is a prostitute. Any woman who says "I'm a woman I shouldnt have to pay for anything you should take care of me" is a prostitute. That simple.
Zain844 8 months ago
@prettyboyswagnyc lol...well as you can tell...i am not.... should i take that as a compliment or insult...i don't know...may i ask why?...because i don't speak in slang terms?.....i mean..your opinion is your opinion... im just curious.....
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 Its very confusing for us men right now. As a man you work hard and come up in the world, ur getting paid. Why would you get with a woman that has nothing to offer but ass? So she can get half? Maybe the brother didnt say it the way you can accept it, but from a modern man's view its true. Also i think alot of women have forgotten how to be women. Cook?Clean? Be a partner? I dont think most even know how anymore. And that indepent line, is very dated.
Tambura330 8 months ago
@Tambura330 ture...there are issues on both sides...i'm not saying a man should get with a woman because of their looks..but they do....the men with money don't go for the average chic...usually they look for the baddest chic....and if she rely totally on her sexuality...she's not going to cook or clean cuz she figure a man will stay strictly on looks....and the independent "line" is not a line ..it's truth...i've never depended on a man for anything..i'm not one of those "f* men i don't need 1"
rudeness121 8 months ago
@Tambura330 i'm just saying...because of my choices...(i know) i ended up taking care of men along with everything else...so me stating that is not a 'weapon' i use in relationships...it's just what it is....thank you for your comment....much mucho love....blessed
rudeness121 8 months ago
also you said how do you expect to get respect from your woman if you don't have anything...same goes for women...you say you don't want to take care of a man we don't want to be there to solely take care of women financially...the respect for love is gone people are getting with people off of potential money and ass instead of loving who you love and making it work so when that money or ass is gone or is lessened then the problems come in
dollarbill125 8 months ago
@dollarbill125 well mr dollar bill....i can not say i disagree.....you had a lot to say on the subject...lol...i like to think that most women are not like that...but judging on the response i have gotten from men....(they are the ones dating and dealing with women...not i)...i can't really argue....but i know not all women look for cash over love...but INITIALLY a man that is ...not necessarily ballin'...but put together is going to attract a woman over one that is not...
rudeness121 8 months ago
@dollarbill125 just as a man is going to be INITIALLY attracted to a woman physically attractive with a nice shape ....booty...breasts....long hair...(whatever floats the boat)...over the not so attractive girl....if someone is looking for love ...money is not going to matter, but we are all vain....so INITIALLY...we choose what is most pleasing to our senses...men and women.....
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 you have a good point and i'll admit im kind of vain when it comes to looks to a point but if I like a woman looks play less of a role to me
dollarbill125 8 months ago
he doesn't have to be bummy but if he has personality put him against the dude with cash and no personality and tell me who do you think will get the girl...a lot of women especially black women will go for the dude with cash and no personality or that doesn't really love them and keep dating these kinds of dudes for the money or status but when they drop her she'll say all men aren't shit but she's the one that passed up good dudes who just weren't ballin
dollarbill125 8 months ago
prostitute...women like to disagree but then turn around while they're with their girls and talk about oh i want him because he has that nice car or he look like he ballin and he gonna treat me right(not emotionally but financially) and this is what it has turned into...it's killing the respect of the black man and instead of women respecting us for us they respect the money we make and only look for that...back to what he said again a lot of women aren't checking for the average dude
dollarbill125 8 months ago
dicks for the sole purpose that they have cash...never mind the fact dude may be sleeping with tons of women they still want that man...like dude said a man can disrespect some of these women at will but as long as they still have money that woman will put that disrespect aside and that's the problem...these women are respecting money more than the actual person and in lines of that women turn into prostitutes...shoot i think if a woman is with a dude for any reason other than love she's a
dollarbill125 8 months ago
I personally don't look at a woman a woman bad if she wants the man to handle things sometime but just like women don't want a man with nothing we don't want a woman with nothing...and if you're with me for love why should my money matter that much...now don't get me wrong men should provide but just as you said roles are changing women should be providing too...but a good point is that is for a family...some of these women today are just scooping out dudes for cash and are jumping on their
dollarbill125 8 months ago
wow, its crazy how when it comes to sex, we blame the all population of one sex for just what some of them do. There are still ladies that have high standards and dont through themselves out like that, we are still alive!! and as for some of us (like me) we use to have low standards but because of experience , now I've learned i got to hold myself together for a man to want me. i know its slightly off topic but thats what came to mind lol
pulchritudized06 8 months ago
I know a girl who has never been on a date, this same girl has a child though? I always wondered how could a woman end up in a relationship with a guy who didn't court her. All men aren't like this, at least not me. I thought the newness in a relationship, the getting to know one another is how you weed them out? if a guy isn't courting you then he has no intentions of having a real relationship with you, so why would a woman allow a man to go further with her?
STARSPANGLEDTV 8 months ago
@STARSPANGLEDTV I must say...i just love this comment.....two thumbs up...and a big toe...5 stars...10 out of 10....lol...much mucho love for this one!!!
rudeness121 8 months ago
Thanks for the shout out, mama!!!! How sweet!
hatied 8 months ago
@rudeness121 The problem I have with this conversation is that in today society there are women who are not wifey material. They don't cook, clean, take care of there kids, they cheat. and there are fake women out there that make it bad for REAL women. example Robert was correct when he said that women divorce because financial reasons, fake women don't try to stick it out, they hurry up and divorce and move on to the next guy.
kem193 8 months ago
@kem193 true...can not argue with that point at all...thank you! i appreciate you!
rudeness121 8 months ago
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Creditgirl2020 8 months ago
Feminism changes a lot in role reversal. A lot of females cater to the males you describe.If hey ma, whats your # is going to bring great result than why not use it. Having your own is being an adult not independent. But it doesnt mean anything if your man isnt on the same page. We live in a materialistic society. Theres nothing wrong with being established but when money is the main focus than that when its a problem
Bhtheory1 8 months ago
ehelol, you know, ur more right than you think lol. Men in this "society" have been brainwashed. This is as plain and as simple as you say. And you are right, but when we get down to history/conquest, psychology and "tradition", it’s not nearly as simple as it seems. The level of complexion this matter will overshadow any simple arguments. But very nice video, I must say. I’m a man, and I saw his vid. I cannot judge him but I’m sure he meant something else. Like; “Society forces women…”
masterafrica 8 months ago
@masterafrica i really try to understand the thoughts and actions of men... and some women...especially since i see so many black men bashing black women and black women bashing black men...you're right ...trying to simplify something with so much complexity....will just leave a person frustrated....i.e the many dislikes i got for this video when i thought i was making some sense...lol....thank you for your attention and your comments...much much love
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness1 did what that guy say hurt your feelings
ryanr20091 8 months ago
@ryanr20091 not my feelings personally....i just hate for black men to speak so negative of black women....vice versa...i understand what he was saying after it being broke down without the negative connotations....but i still don't care for the choice of words he used......
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 well you look pretty young and sexy damn you look like you are in your early 20s . i would flirt with you for sure
ryanr20091 8 months ago
@ryanr20091 thank you...lol... much mucho love!
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 come here an give me a hug lol
ryanr20091 8 months ago
@ryanr20091 lol....*hugs*
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 you soooooooooooooooooo sweet haaaaa
ryanr20091 8 months ago
@ryanr20091 smh...u a nut.....
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 damn i would get with your fine self lol you just dont know lol
ryanr20091 8 months ago
Your dreads are beautiful. Is there a certain name for your type of dreads?
shannen323 8 months ago
@shannen323 already gotcha lady!! check your inbox........
rudeness121 8 months ago
Thanks Rudeness121, and back atcha sista!
datbwoity 8 months ago
@rudeness121 I've been watching his videos for awhile now and I know he talks 99% slang, so you can't take every word he says literally. When he says a dude with "nothing", he does not mean a dude who aint got shit, it was more of a reference towards the average dudes, that aint all flashy.
datbwoity 8 months ago
@datbwoity lol....i know...i know...i can be a literal person...but thank you! much mucho love
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 LOL LMFAO you literate?!!? the only thing you read is probably the "Tatoo Magazine" .Dont
try impress this cute lady! the only girl you can affor is miss fatty with bad teeth
IbnNero 6 months ago
@jamaican1232 i missed it...but got it....... thank u for watching and 4 your reply
rudeness121 8 months ago
lmao his name is daniggawitdatattoos
TeddyMonster555 8 months ago
@TeddyMonster555 u r a nut!!! lol
rudeness121 8 months ago
I was raised by both my parents and I was taught it should be 50/50 between man and woman. We can't live like the old days because time is hard now. Let's be real, if 2 dudes with a job started talking to a female, 9/10 chance she going to pick the 1 who she think got more money, just like the dude will pick the chick with the biggest ass.
datbwoity 8 months ago
@datbwoity true my opinions are molded by how i grew up and my surroundings...but my point wasn't we need to live like the old days...i think financially it should be more like a 60/40 cuz 9/10...i being the female am keeping the house...cooking the food...carrying his child...taking care of just about every aspect of rearing...but that's my opinion..and to ur last statement ye..i agree...initially that may be the case...money and booty are not the only factors...thank u so much..enjoyed
rudeness121 8 months ago
I saw Datniggawitdatatoos video and I do agree with him, but he was never talking about dudes that aint got shit going for themselves. I saw ur comments and looking at your video I think I see where ur disagreement comes from. I caught on to it when u were talking about ur family, since ur from a family that the man took care of the woman, is the reason why I believe that u disagree with him (cont)
datbwoity 8 months ago
@datbwoity Well when he said a dude with NTHING...how else was i supposed to interpret it?..lol... opinions are based on morals upbringing and experience...i have experienced ...in the 2 relatinships where i lived with a man ...they brought nothing to the table....so when he said a man with NOthing as opposed to a man with something...and on top of it called MOST women prostitutes(tho i can say i don't fit in the box) i just had to give my opinion.....
rudeness121 8 months ago
I think we should stop condemming a whole group of people for the actions of a few...if we all looked at a person of the opposite sex AS AN INDIVIDUAL the world would be a better place
tamcar04 8 months ago
@tamcar04 AMEN!
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 That is the result of feminism. There are a lot of women out there who go with boys and not men. Its very important to see what type of man you have with similar goals. Some women wants to be in control of the relationship and baby sit a man based on the attention shes getting until a child's involved. Standards have to be raised. If I get a free cooked meal, lay up in the crib and drive in your car and get sex, why would I want to change? It in your nature to be a woman.
Bhtheory1 8 months ago
@Bhtheory1 And I so totally agree with every word you have said....AMEN....thank you...much mucho lve...blessed
rudeness121 8 months ago
You're a very strong person- takes a lot to make videos like these. I might not be able to watch the whole video, but i agree with you. God bless you, once again. This is a very hard subject for me, as well, so...blah. lol. Hey, you're right, peoples' opinions are Their opinions; heavily based upon how they grew up. But some things that people think and say..are just WRONG AS SIN. :/ Bad behaviour toward one another is equal- male and female- but for SOME things..males can't NOT claim it on ebay
IceInMySnowCone 8 months ago
@IceInMySnowCone thank you 4 ur reply...yeah...ive been called a hooker 4 posting this vid...lol....but peoples opinions are based upn how they grew up....so....i really can't get angry......or be offended...i did enjoy debating with people tho'....much love 2 you....blessed
rudeness121 8 months ago
But you are right a man that can do for his woman is not a man he is boy and should be working on his self instead of working on getting a woman. But in our Capitalist society where the value of a man is base on the money in his pocket or bank account that he is right. Society is wrong, but he is a correct judge of it. If you are one of the few that judge a man by his character that congrats to you for transcending but the facts are the facts.
MegaMekka 8 months ago
@MegaMekka well..personally...i have never gone after a man because of what he has...for 2 reasons...#1. i don't want a man questioning me as to whether i am with him for his money or not....#2. men tend to throw what they have done for you in your face when they throw their fits...but at the same time..i'm not going to be with a man who is doing nothing and going no where in life...that's another expense i don't need...i have 2 girls...character and morals are important... (contin)
rudeness121 8 months ago
@MegaMekka i wouldono't oput them in harms way for noo amount..onto general...men attract women with cash...vain...women attract men with sex appeal...vain...it's all vanity...men need to stop getting mad because a female look over them for one with more cash...trust..they didn't want to deal with those females any way..woulda been a problem...stop looking for diamonds in the bubble gum machine...lol
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 you right trust I learnt from experience about Gold diggers never again. I need a woman that her head on straight and for real I try to look like a bum on purpose sometimes just as a test. I need a woman with her mind right. I see it like this I’m a King so need a Queen so we can have an Empire she has to bring just as much to the table. Glad to hear you looking out for your seeds it few that do that .
MegaMekka 8 months ago
@MegaMekka oh goodness...lol..where are you from? i believe more women look out for their kids than don't ...there are more good fathers(biologically or not)..than there are dead beats....peoople tend to do too much generalizing...and when they find what they feel is rare (when it's really not) they tend to fudge it up because they have mentally trained themselves to think it's too good to be true....all women aren't prostitutes all women aren't gold diggers all men aren't dogs or dead beats..
rudeness121 8 months ago
first off dont want to offend you watched his video then yours. I agree with him. He didnt say anything about a man coming together with a women and building nothing. He was talking about society and the roles of man and women in it. You talked about the begining of time that man was expected to be the protector and bread winner of but prostitutions as been around just as long. Since the begining the more a man can do for a women the more women the man can have, that the concept of the Alpa male
MegaMekka 8 months ago
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MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 i would reply with an anal sarcastic response...but...how can i take offense ...you don't know me...or anything about me...the way you have come off only mean you don't care for women nor had any home training...i don't know if perkins is your man or you are ....how can i say....riding his male extremity really close...but he did not take offense nor did he come at me in a disrespectful manner...grow up Junior..and guess what..i said it with a smile... CHEESE!!
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 i am a black man, and i am 29 over my dating life 90% OF THE WOMEN I DATED WANTED MONEY OUT OF ME, 90% i wish u were a lesbian or bi so you could go out there and see the mentally of this women, they act like if the money doesnt come out nothing happes, its like that nelly tip drill video were he puts the credit card in the girls booty and she starts shaking it, all you feminist love to act like their no gold diggers, and women out there arent HOEs sorry 4 calling u a hoker.
MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 awww...well thank you for the apology...i don't consider myself a feminist...i love men...don't agree with some of the moves ya'll make or understand ya'll thought process in some areas...but i love ya'll...and what do you mean 90% wanted money out of you?.you paying for the date ...or literally said you want the goods you have to pay for it? .oh..and i never said the hoes and prostitutes don't exist...i know a few...just generalizing most women as being one or the other isnt rite
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 i met this black lady once, and we went to the store i was nice i broguth her some smokes lol food and got us a bottle of wine. then the next day i call her am like her babe can i come over? she is like naw naw, but if we bring over 100$ we can have sex. i met other black women who BOLDLY asked me for cash for sex too. its wild that turns me off to alot of black women i am sorry to say but its true.
MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 uhhh...ok...you meet a lady...buy her food and smokes...ask her if you can come over the next day for?....you men talk aboout women who give up the goods easily... bad...talk about a woman who won't give it up..bad...may i ask...what the hell do ya'll want?...lol..seriously...something is wrong with your choice in women...it's not the woman per say..it's the ones you choose....bubble gum machines only dispense bubble gum!...lol (dont look for a diamond in a bubblegum machine)
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 Its a catch 22 i keep running into hoes, and then when i find a classy woman. she is like "oh well hang in there bud your woman will come" i am not some handsome denzel washington type so i dont get play.
MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 how are you approaching these women? cuz honestly our first encounter you came off as a woman hating jackass..(all in love)...
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 Like forreal i come out women with some nice stuff , i was raised by all women , my grand ma, my moms, aunties some many aunites i coul dhave an auntie team ( kanye song line lol) I dont know how not a treat a woman nice. i think they take my kindness for a weakness? maybe i am attracted to the hood chicks ? i dont know , i see a woman and i am like how you doing what syour name, who knows.
MRbossman1982 8 months ago
@MRbossman1982 Ook...well..easy fix..STOP COMING AT THE HOOD CHICKS!..and stop equating hood with black...if yoou want to swarn off black women...cool...that's you...but don't do it based on the mistake of equating black women with hood chick...no correlation...
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 i am not given up on black women, because i had a rough time with hood chicks.
i just feel wore out lol, but men put women through shit too, so i guess its all even.
MRbossman1982 8 months ago
Tell it gurl!! You are so right there is nothing wrong with a man that has his self together. Who want to date somebody that who dont have themselves together bringing a sista down. And you right a role of a boy.
monicaker 8 months ago
@monicaker right?! what's wrong with wanting to date a man that has something going on....a man don't have to be rich..or balling all out of control...blah blah blah...but i want more than a dollar menu 4 piece nugget(spent 10 minutes arguing about the price going up to 1.39) and ice water while watching a burned movie in your mamas basement with 50 kids running around on top of my head screaming look at me....girrrrll....lol...thanks for the comment....
rudeness121 8 months ago
Yeah you right that nobody wants to struggle but if you REALLY love him you wouldn't really care about the struggle as long as u see hes trying. Just alot women dont see that a brother is TRYING. It just bothers me that I have the potential to be somebody( and really love the girl) but they go for somebody that shines his shit off(and dont care about her) . So when I do get rich and famous I get to sit back and laugh at the women that rejected me before. Great vid I might make a vid about it.
Acemusic23 8 months ago
@Acemusic23 wait...how'd we get to love so quick? lol...i'm speaking of the initial..question...considering men are visual creatures...if you had a picking between (this is a female you want more than a hit and run) a bad chick with an alright attitude or a whoopi goldberg with a better attitude...which would you initially choose? ...everything is vanity...women use their sex appeal to attract..men use their cash...if a woman look over you..dangit..she was just not the right one..on to the next
rudeness121 8 months ago
@Acemusic23 my bad about the love part lol. (thought that what your talking about) umm yeah I would go with the whoopi just cause it doesnt matter how pretty you are if your attitude aint straight then your out the door, because I hate people who judge because of looks(its happened to me all the time) so yeah ppl might say the girl is ugly on the outside but her heart is what makes her the sexiest thing in the world to me. #MUchlove
Acemusic23 8 months ago
@Acemusic23 WHAT?!...no really...you in a room..you meet whoopi and halle..(or whomever you find the most attractive) at the same time...both want to get with you...you're telling me...with a straight face...that you would choose whoopi over halle?....now you can't see neither one of their hearts .(i'm giving you the twisted face right now)lol
rudeness121 8 months ago
The bible said that a man shud be head of the household but these bitches out here are gold diggers, plain and simple.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS well you need to change your stomping grounds or something...cause i know a few beautiful women who are not ditch diggers but are assets....lol...(fist pump)
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 See this the problem Im not talking about me. Im not out here losing lol. I win cuz im cool and I have a great character and Im hard working and I take care of my kids, I have a dynamic personality and that helps me win in the game where niggas wit money be winning. I was speaking in a broad perspective from what I have seen and heard out here. I dont have stomping grounds, Im grown, I stomp from my home lol
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS well dammit mr perkins...may i be excused?...lol...nothing but love...i'm still a subbie.....( i still think prostitute was too strong of a word to generalize MOST women)....
rudeness121 8 months ago
@rudeness121 LOL I know I aint mad I knu I was goin get cussed out for the video when I was thinking about it in my head. Prostitute has a negative connotation cuz thats what society has brought people up to believe. Luckily Im pass society and all that bullshit they try to make me feel about a word. Which is clearly defined in the dictionary. I knew the title wud already make people mad lol but thats just how it be sometimes. Thank u for fuckn wit my videos.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
and my real name is Robert Perkins.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
@DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS i apologize mr perkins
rudeness121 8 months ago
LOL. Sorry u diaagree but I think u took the shit too extreme. I never said a nigga that dont work or a nigga thats lazy as hell. I was talking bout hard working niggas that just aint balling losing to niggas that got money. I never said a man shouldnt be a man. But thanks for wathn and thanks for ur response. U spoke on bum ass niggas and thats not what I was saying.
DANIGGAWITDATATTOOS 8 months ago
This may be a little off subject. But I was reading the comments on his video and I came across yours and I HAD to click on your channel because your were making SO much sense. Very intelligent women.
CliffordHarrisFAn 8 months ago
@CliffordHarrisFAn lol...thank you...
rudeness121 8 months ago
A lot of this nonsense does come with society and the way you were raised, but the reality is, as an adult, people should grow up. I don't have a lot and I don't expect a man to take care of me, but I MOST DEFINITELY am NOT gonna get with a man who has nothing and is not trying TO have anything. One of the my biggest pet peeves is to see a woman get dropped off at work while her jobless man takes her car! He all fly and whatnot in clothes that her silly ass bought, and odds are, he's cheating!!
Napisha09 8 months ago
@Napisha09 Well girrrrlll....you shoulda been around and slapped some sense in me...i was that chic... "go oon baby...drop me off work and do what you gotta do"...8 hours later..."why is there blonde hair all over my car head rest?"...lol..smh....girrrrl.....
rudeness121 8 months ago
they are looking to the females to be both their significant other as well as they're mothers....its a shame. Just like the commentor before me said "it depends on how the female is raised" it also has to do with society, the environment in which they are in also has alot to do with their character. NOT all women are prostitutes. Maybe that is the type of females he deals with and if that is the case, he needs to take a step back, and start his search over.
BTW thnx 4 the SHOUTOUT, ONE LOVE
lewdona 8 months ago
@lewdona No problem miss lady....thank you!! ilike that "it also has to do with society, the environment in which they are in also has alot to do with their character."...that is true....men and women alike complain about each other not being able to find good mates... but seek out diamonds in a bubblegum machine...keep going to a bubble gum machine...u gon' get bubblegum....duh!...lol
rudeness121 8 months ago
This is crazy.....it is a serious issue, granted there are females out there who put themselves in the predicament of being called a prostitute, but you have alot of women out there that are genuinely look for someone and if it so happens that they have something going for themself then that's a bonus. Not all women are looking for someone to take care of them in every aspect. You are right when you say the role of men in our community has been compromised, too many men are being babied cont'd
lewdona 8 months ago
this is a serious issue.. in my dealings, i say its give and take.. i hate the potential thing tho.. becuz i hear it a lot.. u got potential lol.. its bugged out.. now as far as the females being prostitutes.. nah.. not all.. but a lot are, and its usually based off of how they were brought up.. a lot of ppl in our generation came up without daddy.. so wit that said.. no daddy, moms prob dishin dirt on him and a female is gonna follow what momma tells them
soundbwoy2011 8 months ago
@soundbwoy2011 thank you for that.....but what is it that's making the woman out to be a prostitute? the fact that they sleep with men in exchange for money( which by the way could come from any type of financial level) or the fact that women will choose a guy with before she would choose a guy that lacks? because it seems like it's being intertwined........putting most females in a category they don't belong in.....
rudeness121 8 months ago