Purity Balls and Promise Rings

[DMalenfant1]

Thank you for filling the missing integer in my equation of the whole guys who want to fuck virgins. I always knew it was power, to feel special that you are her first, that she will be more prone to loving only you, but the answer you gave is so obvious but yet I could not see the fear of her enjoying another man's penis, competition, that she could love another man's penis more than yours.

Oh about the race thing, look up Blue Eye, Brown Eye, it is hard wired in human beings for survival.

[kwolf43]

He said penis LOL.

[ttobin77]

I dated a young woman who wore a Promise Ring (which at the time I didn't know anything about), and she explained the whole deal to me, and I was fucking shocked that any parent, man or woman, would intentionally fuck their kids head up like that. And you want to hear something even more fucked up? The guy cheated on her Mother and they later divorced! And that is apparently pretty common for these assholes! If that were me, I would've flushed the ring, since my Dad was obviously proven wrong.

[stoikr]

"I just had an argument with a girl I know. She was saying how it's unfair that if a guy fucks a different girl every week, he's a legend, but if a girl fucks just two guys in a year, she's a slut. So in response I told her that if a key opens lots of locks, then it's a master key. But if a lock is opened by lots of keys, then it's a shitty lock. That shut her up." - Twig, from Bash.org

I don't agree with this... but it's kinda funny :P

[Rahab111222]

Religious people are terrified of sex. It's pathetic.

[ddrumdrummer08]

Religion? No, a relationship with Jesus Christ is about Following the ways of Jesus Christ, and loving all others.

[Rahab111222]

@ddrumdrummer08

You're wrong, Jupiter is the one true GAWWWWD!

[DMalenfant1]

@ddrumdrummer08 Thats funny because most of you christian don't do that, but preach to others to do so.

[ddrumdrummer08]

and dude...have u been raped?

[ddrumdrummer08]

Religion has EVERYTHING to do with it BROTHER! God created man, and God also created well.....EVERYTHING that man does. He is the creator of all things, thoughts, emotions etc etc..So if He created it, He has all right to makes the ways of it.... just like if u created a company, u'd want people who work in to follow how u know it should be to be a healthy, productive, successful company. God doesn't not WARN us of these things, like "not having sex before marriage" to make rules. its the way!

[phatkid099]

I never heard a black man say the word penis as much as you! hahahaha

[Benevering]

You need to wash your face before you do a video.

[Faergen]

I get infinite enjoyment from watching you videos. :0D Epic!

[nefhead]

Mothers who went to college in the 70's and 80's , and are trying to pull this bullshit with their kids, need to step way back, most Women I met at college in the 80's were Hoebags.

[gir908922]

Purity balls and promise rings are an embarrassment to humanity. They're also a glorified version of sexism.

[christentze]

i was watching a program about purity balls and i felt creeped out seeing pictures of girls dressed in white, making pledges to their dads. it's great if you choose to wait. that is a personal decision that no one, man, woman, trans, etc should be pursuaded into. promising your virginity to your father seems strange to me. if anything, promise it to yourself. not your future husband, not your father, not your family. to yourself.

[Snoot501]

Great video!

I agree with everything you said. I think this is a much bigger deal than people realize. Not being sexually compatible with someone you're dating/married to can be devastating to the relationship. Waiting until you are married to have sex is like waiting to talk to the person and getting to know them until you are married. Also, I agree, acting like sex is 'impure', especially for women has devastating consequences on our society.

[jtfloch]

It seems to me that the less traditional approach to sex and marriage is what has led to the bad consequences. More divorce, STDs, etc. As for compatibility, that's solved by a couple having a frank talk about sex towards the beginning of getting serious with each other (the first few weeks or so). Then if they find they don't match, they can split without too much turmoil. So it's the social left's turn to be tolerant---if promise rings are how some want to roll, why aren't YOU cool with it?

[Snoot501]

Do you have proof or have you done any research on the effects of 'less traditional approach to sex and marriage'? Do you know that it is the reason for 'the bad consequences'? If not, then it is just an opinion of yours.

Also, it's not that i'm not cool with promise rings. If someone really wants to wait until after marriage to have sex, i don't care. I do care about people teaching children that having sex before marriage is bad or a sin, which seems to be the case more often than not.

[jtfloch]

Okay, one example: According to research by Rector and Johnson in 2005 based on the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) database, "on average, individuals who took virginity pledges as adolescents were 25 percent less likely to have STDs as young adults than non-pledgers from identical socioeconomic backgrounds."

And being OK with others should extend to respecting their teachings to their own children, including that abstinence is good and non-marital sex is bad.

[Snoot501]

alright, well if being 'ok' with it means being ok with someone teaching their children that sex is bad, then i am not ok with it.

[AllyceHudson]

Your rant on the rape thing made some sense. But your not a women and would never, could never comprehend being raped. You don't know what its like letting a foriegn object entering your body. Rape is not only EXTREMELY painful, its DISRESPECTFUL. People don't recover easily from rape, not becasue society puts negative views towards a woman enjoying sex. Its because rape is mentally damaging. Your a man you couldnt understand, no female could ENJOY being raped, sh-t rough sex can hurt.

[Dionisos21]

Seriusly, doing that kind of things like purity balls makes that the entire world thinks americans are crazy.

[mishmashmary]

Virginity is a sacrifice a person makes to honor their God. Those who are faithful to their religion know full and well what virginity entails and choose to follow it. I admit, many of those who say they are faithful lose their virginity, but there are always those who stray in any matter. Understanding religion and religious traditions/beliefs could help you support, or disprove, your own beliefs a little bit better.

P.S. It's not only men who think girls who sleep with lots of guys are sluts.

[69Deepshadow]

LOL I loved the end!

[MegaVolcano]

You opened up a new perspective for me to think about. Thank you.

[hereandnow6002]

"wow you must've, really enjoyed it...you WHORE" hahahahahaha

[stolenturtle]

Incredibly profound! Thank you so much for this!

[darkchiron]

The penis is evil!

The gun is good!

So speak Zardoz!!!

[Krose333]

Thanks for this vid you are absolutely dead on.

[zombiesmasher]

Your videos are the best thing on YouTube, you speak a truth seldom heard.

[metalmaniac53]

The world needs more people like you. I kinda hoped that George Carlin was gonna be the atheist Jesus, or a prophet of atheism and common sense but hes dead. Now YOU!! you get it. You should do concerts or sermons or something.

[kaminarigaston]

I'll rub my purity balls all over her promise rings.

[Looking4Coffee]

Well as Christians say..

Abstinence: 100%...er...99.999% effective.

[kakejoy9]

wow! i would like to start off on the note the God gave you life. jesus died for YOU!

so when he tells us in the bible to be sexually pure i dont feel obligated to be pure, i WANT to stay pure.

& u say girls that have a purity ring & they dont want to go against it so they take it up the butt or in the mouth.they obviously dont know what they were comitting to.

Wen God said sexually pure he ment any form of sexual activity. i would advise you to read the bible.

[kekejujube]

kakejoy9, did you even watch the video? he addressed all of those things. i would advise that you watch this video again. you go read your bible while those of us with brains actually use them to form our own opinions. oh but wait, thats a sin too, right? using your brain...

[DhalsimHibiki]

Oh come on. The Bible is written by men not god.

[Joyness333]

I find it extremely creepy that it's like a marriage ceremony between the daughter and the father. That's just a little bit too incestuous for me. Extremely inapropriate. Freud would have a field day with that one.

This was very insightful.

[Existantia]

Excellent rant. Nail on the head especially with the rape talk. If I met you, I'd hug you.

[benympls]

well talkin about rape convo is kinda the conversation killer. its kind of a bummer.

[loveacarrot]

The ladies don't need purity balls to stay away from u it's instinctual

[misteeq64]

Purity balls i taught that was in the victorian era

[necrosis101]

i agree with this. im happy that my parents where fine, hell they gave me a pack of condoms because its gonna happen, kids are going to have sex. but as a parent would you rather your kids have sex or even drink and party at some random place or would you rather it under your roof where if something happens your there?

[SupaAmi]

Wow! Listening to this was really refreshing! I like you. Subscribed.

[tjbarron911]

brilliant

[dawiskadabatta]

Excellent sir. I didnt know where you were going at first, but this is very well-said.

[MyPrivateMuse]

That was fucking brilliantly said. Subscribed.

[anklebitr79]

Ok I must be a dunce. When I first seen the term 'purity balls' I thought it has something to do with the male genitals. LOL The girl gets a promise ring and gives her boyfriend purity balls to remind him to keep his balls away from other girls. Ok I know I am sick

No seriously though to me purity balls seem like a throwback to when women were considered property. I don't know much about them but what I do know is they will have no place in my daughters life.

[willowtreephoto]

thanks for sharing, agreed.

[understudy52]

what a cool enlightened person you are! *subscribed*

[ZzLacyisadinozZ]

Would you like you're daughter to get knocked up at 15?

Hmm?

Thats all its about! Not sleeping with every guy that comes around!

Why is you're opinion any better than christians?

Im not saying mine is, and im not saying yours is, im just saying, would you like your daughter pregnant at 15 or 16?

[Stefie45]

Hey it is not beacause you're not wearing a purity ring that you are automatically a slut or that you will sleep with every guys that comes around !

THIS IS WHY THE CHRISTIAN'S OPINION IS KIND OF WRONG IN THAT CASE: IT ISN'T CONNECTED TO REALITY AND TO THE REAL WORLD, TO THE REAL PEOPLE.

Religion is just trying to keep people ignorant and innocent.

Sorry, if I am a bit rude...

[ZzLacyisadinozZ]

did you know religion means bondage?

if someone is really a "Christian" they're not religious. because Christianity isn't a religion its a lifestyle.

hey i dont wear my purity ring all the time either!!!

and you're making it sound like every Christian is like that.

im not. and i am not ignorant.

[Stefie45]

Sorry...

I did not wanted to offend you like that.

I did not wanted to say that all the people, or you in particular were ignorant.

I was just trying to say that every human beeing on this earth who are making people believe in a certain religion are trying to keep them ignorant to have control on them.

And this is the way it is since the beginning of time. We can't deny it.

[timma00004]

no its about trust you don't trust your daughter and you don't teach them sex education that why

[Penfold200]

Well said, Cris!

[lothrazar]

penises are the magical destroyer of the magical imaginary concept called purity.

[TuesdayPillow]

Our birthdays are exactly 6 months apart. Very cool.

I can't believe I haven't subscribed to you until now - better late than never I guess!

[tomh8r]

THEY LIVE IN FEAR OF PENISES

lmao

great

[gotgaimrza]

wholy shit 46 year old virgin that breaks the record of the 40 year old virgin...WOW if ur a woman theres lots of dudes that would take ANYBODY. 46 years old! person ^ there should get married quick until ur too old to have babies because when ur older theres a higher chance that ur babies will come out retarded.

[ysabellabravetalk]

Purity Balls are jacked up. They have to know how wrong that is.

[neveruse513]

awesome.

[lionsstare]

I am a 46 year old virgin...I am strong in my faith. It seems to me that the ones who squeal the loudest about this issue are the ones that have the biggest problem with it...

I have heard the 7th commandment written by the hand of GOD and I think...Since HE made us HE knows what problems sex outside of marriage can cause....

"He shall leave his Mother and Father and she shall leave her parents and they will clinge to one another." It hard to trust someone who has been sexually active

[slawrence89]

what are you a fucking idiot?

"its hard to trust someone who has been sexually active" that is probably one of the most pathetic, ignorant and arbitrary statements i have read on youtube.

Stop slinging your streaks of pathetic horse shit on the internet you ignorant douche.

[lionsstare]

Why you sound like you have taken advantage of a few who were molested...Sociopath.....

You want me to stop slinging "pathetic horseshit around come and stop me...Prick...

[AnticDispossession]

Please step back and listen to what you're saying. You sound afraid of sexuality because it can potentially be abused. I can use my car to run people over or I can use it to take me places. Sex doesn't have to be a negative experience, I've known people who were molested but they remain regular people without letting it consume them. That a sexually active person is somehow untrustworthy is ridiculous, all people are conceived through sex, and between responsible people it's not somehow evil.

[slawrence89]

wow i guess your not just a virgin but a fucking dumb one. That malformed comment is meaningless and how am i a "sociopath" good one bitch.

[logicaust]

Sociopath might be taking it a little far, but there's little doubt that your initial comment might indicate you're a rude person.

[slawrence89]

so?

And i'm not arguing with you cock face

[evTom14]

...ok one, thats not the defanition of a sociopath, and 2, what? are you trying to sound clever? because your failing

[neveruse513]

the problems caused by sex outside of marriage are only rivaled by the problems of no sex outside marriage.

[anamasteos]

Well said. I agree 100%

[favoritefood0]

Great job man. You make some of the best videos on youtube! *thumbs up*

[CitizenWorm]

This was a fantastic video. I might watch it again because you said so much I'm sure there are nuances that I missed while processing what had come before.

One observation about the general fear of other men's penises getting close to one's daughters and wives. I think this and most forms of male over female dominance result primarily from the desire/need to establish paternity for the purposes of inheritance etc. The control over women's bodies in an attempt to contain one's "property".

[JJTecumseh87]

white vs black penis issues??wtf?There no such as black /white.Were all the same thing.

I think it has to do with dominance though.U see how some well most animals are territorial so that applies to us as well.

[prestige334]

Chris, I fucking love you. I love you, I love you. I will stalk you now. If I could find a man like you, I know I hit the jackpot. Excellent video! Will you marry me? LOL

[OblivionMon]

Where did that burning desire come from?? Lets back track to the beginning of life, where the probability of a cell forming for non living matter is 1/10340,000,000, the fraction 1 divided by 1 followed by 340 million zeros!

But I agree that our society has an overwhelming sex drive which eventually equivocates to rape and all sorts of hurt.

Please understand though that you know nothing about religion. Literally nothing, I could pick apart your argument in seconds, if you want to I can PM you

[godlessbob]

I just realized you were singing "Don Weary"...very cool that you guys have the same birthday..and very weird too. Think about it!

Keep em' coming!

[godlessbob]

St. Augustine of Hippo believed sex was used by "The Devil" in various forms to tempt and corrupt the pure......it was his order of monks that made this way of thinking into church doctrine. The Augustinians made sexuality evil.

That's the short version.....

[christyell]

It's not that it's awkward. It's that by denying and controlling a strong natural drive, a religion keeps a stronger hold on the minds of its followers. Religions that are able to do this are more likely to retain followers, and so the religion itself is more likely to survive.

[Jizuschrist]

Religion + culture creates sexual "taboos".

Roman society even before Christianity looked down on a man that sucks dick or gets fucked up the ass ,No licking pussy either!! They viewed the mouth and tongue as a mans "sacred" instrument as a citizen , Using it for sex would defile it according that society. The Romans had this hole submission thing its ok to have butt sex just don't be on the receiving end.

[premed2]

Damn fine vid!

[Roostring]

Yeah, purity balls are so, so creepy.

I was always told by various churchy types that I'm like a candy wrapper - a man will take the candy and throw me away. As if virginity is the only thing I have to offer.

Joke's on them, I guess, since I only like other women.

[jfooj]

There should be no difference between a well-used penis and a well-used vagina. At the end of the day they are both still there.

[438MillionBC]

I was just thinking about this last night, as I'm going to a gay parade in Dallas today, and I'm sure there will be some confrontation between religious nutjobs and drag queens or something. I think it's a matter of control, though...the urge to have sex is so overwhelming and undeniable, that to suggest that having sex is wrong in itself is just a means of controlling people.

[lothrazar]

religion is all about controlling people

[OblivionMon]

What a poor opinion without anything to back it up. I will narrow it down to Christianity because I KNOW first hand that Islam is all about control and sometimes the people of Christianity can be too but it just seems so many of you here have so many misconceptions of Christianity. You really need to do some research because you know nothing, to be blatantly honest.

[AllyceHudson]

Who says sex is wrong. Religion doesnt say sex is evil and bad, but it is meant for MARRIED people. SEX was created by GOD so how could it be a bad thing.

[438MillionBC]

It's wrong to look at someone with lust or jack off or anything like that. Back when I went to church, up until I was twelve, they did everything they could to make me feel guilty for having a sex drive. It's all bullshit.

[Snoot501]

by saying sex is only for married people, you are saying that it is wrong in certain circumstances. This is exactly what he was talking about in his video. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have sex or having sex as many time as you want before or after getting married. The only thing to worry about is getting hurt/sick and that requires real sexual education. Denying people sexual education and telling they cannot have sex until married is a terrible tragedy.

[mikezephyr]

this is some freudian shit

[mickdornfad]

freud the father of psychotherapy

was of course an atheist

[daswann14]

Good shit. You said it, men are scared of penises and they also find vaginas abhorrent. That's why there are so many religious laws, and so many references to virgin births.

[hungsolow123]

Cristofer7: I think you mean "purity" ring not "promise" ring. I gave my wife a promise ring after dating her a few years, since we couldn't afford a wedding / honeymoon at the time, it was a (corny) symbol of my intention to marry her. I assure you, we've had sex the entire relationship :-)

[iviewthetube]

Promise rings remind me of a junior high school experience when I gave a girl friend a ring from several weeks of hard earned berry picking money. Next thing I know she is in the school's power mechanics shop having the ring cut off because her finger swelled up and she couldn't get the ring off.

[dgkjr13]

Evolutionarily, guys want to spread there seed far and wide. Girls want to save that egg for a deserving mate.

Guys just want a warm, wet, CLEAN place to put it. Woman use sex to get something else: money, attention, etc. I'm not so concerned with sex before marriage, I'm concerned with sex after marriage. It seems like wedding cake is a food that permanently lowers a woman's sex drive.

But anyway, sex is nothing more than an intimate handshake.

[yellowlabrador]

the teenage years are hard enough without setting young people up to fail. God sex education is best and teachers and parents should work together.

[Brianswers]

It's a control thing. Another way religions have power over their followers.

[not4resale]

lol racism and penis issues! hahahaha oh man! You sir have won yourself a subscription!

[slipcurve]

Your head half outside the frame makes for a great artistic approach. Black 'n white post filter would have nailed it :P

Anyway, great video.

[dukenuke72]

procreation?

[ArtypNk]

Penis comes in, and I don't love you any more. What a parent.

[silicon2001]

One option priests had for casting out the devil in a woman was to fuck her themselves. The theory being the devil was inside her and with the introduction of a "holy" dick the devil would leave in disgust. Now the church unsurprisingly do not shout about this fact. I can imagine this "last resort" intervention would strangely not be required if the victim was a toothless ugly infested old hag. Just a thought.

[Falloutmoon]

Is this purity balls things for real? I remember the purity rings when I lived in the states and the arguments I had about who was the most perverted with christians arguing that wearing your hymen on your finger 24/7 was maybe a little more depraved than not doing it... :)

[iconoclastic23]

Awesome video, it reminds me of a TED talk that was posted recently. The purity thing factors heavily into it. Give it a watch, you might find it illuminating: watch?v=vs41JrnGaxc

[jogayot]

great balls of purity!

[SomeBSUTubeName]

Sexual discipline is just practical. The couple-bond has to be strong and exclusive at least until the children reach independence (whenever that is). The wealthier classes can play more with sexual exploits because they can hire others to care for their children, and so on.

The denial and repression of aggression and sexuality: ("The attempt to be more than human usually results in people becoming less than human." )Fundamentalist repress sexuality and aggression, and go crazy as a result.

[BoozyBeggar]

*sigh* I HAVE to make this equicoational joke:

I got my promise ring around my purity balls.

I apologize.

[Shalek]

It feels so good therefore it must be so evil.

[sparrow111260]

Purity balls and promise rings - a depraved little christian ritual all focused around a young girls vagina and hymen.

This just illustrates the christian sex obsession!!

[GuyInvincible111]

Great vid. My take on this is that our religions came from societies that were patriarchal and used "purity" and "honour" as ways of men controlling women's reproductive system.

[Bleatmop]

When the title said Purity Balls and Chastity Rings... I didn't equate the "Balls" part with a gala or a festival of some kind. I thought it was some kind of male chastity ring... lol.

Gosh, I guess it is just about 3 am here. I should go to bed.

[Loreleila]

Fear and control. Repress the very creation they claim God made, deny who you are at all costs, refuse the gifts you were given, and above all don't think about your children wanting to have sex. Hey, it's bad enough having to contemplate the notion of your parents doing it, right?

[Jesusfleabop]

Sex is what psychologists carefully termed since the 20th century as a 'drive', but I don't feel driven to have sex. I don't take a passive attitude towards sex and say "well excuse me but I need to fulfill my sexual urges." I say "hurray!" and identify myself with those urges.

[NermalsChannel]

religion needs to oppress so it can claim to be a cure

[MyPinkRainbow]

well said..

[MyPinkRainbow]

you are so right.... it is true

[Dadalama]

"halfway through"

Probably because religions were invented by people who had hangups about sex.

[TheCuriousSkeptic]

A perfect example is Muslims who stone their daughters who have been raped.

It was the evil penis that tainted them.... at least in Alla's words... or was it?

[ChrisGose]

Actually in that case they are blaming the vagina, not the penis.

[TheCuriousSkeptic]

I knew from the moment I saw C7 I was scared of his big black penis. lol jk

Virgins are a waste of time.

Just get it over with and learn how to fuck so when I call upon you it might be good.

Sorry, I have a cold and I'm being silly... and oh ya, I'm a shithead. lol

[theqmogvlogs]

I posted a response, its a tad on the brutal, shock therapy side but the long and the short of it is that these ideologies, these concepts of daughters belonging to fathers, wives to husbands can be dangerous.

It is time we belonged to ourselves.

[ChrisGose]

Don Weary's back? time to re-subscribe.

[Aerotides]

Never really had a talk with my parents, but yeah, education is important. you can't rely on parents to have that conversation, or for kids to be responsible.

[ashhole820]

Maybe this could give people some insight as to why religion wants to control sex.

I'm quoting this from George Orwell's "1984"

"'When you make love you're using up energy; afterwards you feel happy and don't give a damn for anything. They can't bear you to feel like that. They want you to be bursting with energy all the time. All this marching up and down cheering and waving flags is simply sex gone sour...'"

Religion uses sex as a way to control confused teenagers. It's disgusting.

[mortusdominus]

Ben Wa balls and cock rings anyone?

[redfurrymonster]

thats what popped into my mind also. Do you think the fathers of these girls get the connection? Makes my skin crawl.

[teamhex]

I have to say, iv been watching your vids for about 4 months, and I have to say, you make some great vids.

[ghazzter]

great video

[chris3443]

This was an awesome video. Thanks for it

[Rorshak1313]

Purity balls are the creepiest thing.

I saw a news report about them and the way the girls and dads acted creeped me the fuck out.

[Katoi5]

powerful video, thanks for that

[geroldkid]

Interesting topic.

[macwild1234]

are those blue eyes???

[FullOfFail]

Didn't you get the memo? THERE'S OVER 9,000 PENISES!

[FullOfFail]

Truth of the matter is that the actual fact of reality has scared me more than any myth has.

[loveisallneed]

Men who made sure their seed got into women and kept others' seed away were more successful than men who were less concerned about it.

[fucksatanism]

My balls want chicken

[PennyRoyaleTea]

I only fear black penis, and Lee Stones.

(I hate them both)

[Walkwander]

Religion is concerned about sex because young pure women attract old wealthy men.

[itsbizbuz]

Great video !

[PheenixTears420]

Purity balls? Those sound like some sort of strange sex toy.

[Twobitz1]

Purity Balls?

*Looks it up*

I'm sorry. My first thought was pedophile incest.

[Twobitz1]

Oh, and great video!

[theqmogvlogs]

Thank you Christopher.

[Fendermrr]

Great video, well spoken

[BadYahweh]

Awesome video.

[neuronstorm]

"god has a chosen people" = "god is a racist"

This alone should be strong evidence that god is man-made.

I think the word you misplaced was procreation.

[FantasmaBAnco]

"The Penis Factor"... sounds like a perverted game show.

[d5gdf56gdfg]

could be a reality show here in the US

[kegs666]

"A responsible parent gives their child information...A parent should educate their child..."

Pretty much sums it all up, great video.

[bestcarbonparts]

you always make my day!