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  • Too bad love like that doesn't exist...

  • I look at this video at least once a week. Merci.

  • My words throughout my life, always giving myself in all my entirety....getting back less than quarter..and yet I do still believe in love....corny but for me this tells me I can still feel, Bless.

  • This is an amazing scene..... love it. <3 CARRIE <3

  • luv it.. <3

  • I love this. The entire 6 years Carrie questions what she wants and in the final episode this short, beautiful monologue reveals that she has her answer.

  • The best scene of all these year's episodes!!!!!

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  • and i d like to ad her decision to end up with big you couldnt say that it was a good thing either becouse big was a complex kind of guy that he didnt like commintment and he hurt carrie more than anyone else hurt her in the past.everyone wanted carrie to stay with big thats why it ended like this but i wish she married eithan in the end.he wasnt rich and powerful but he wouldnt let her down like the rest of the guys did

  • i dont think it was anybodys fault carries mistake was that she saw alexander as the prince charming a type of man all the 4 girls were looking into the whole entire series.alexander was rich he took her to all the expensive restaurants he gave her expensive gifts blah blah and carrie thought she was living in a fairytale even miranda told her that she was livin in a fantasy.alexander wasnt a bad man or a wife beater he was like burger he only cared for success and carrie didnt see that .

  • he's so UGLY he looks like  a frog! lol

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  • I am such a massive fan of the show, which is why I couldn't stand SATC 2. I thought about this monologue a lot during the movie, and the love portrayed between Carrie & Big in the movie, was not the love Carrie had talked about here. It was such a disappointment, which is why I choose not to acknowledge SATC 2. I still believe that Carrie and Big have that "Can't live without each other love" not the "5 day a week" love.

  • perfect speech

  • "I am someone who is looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love" - Awesome

  • My favorite scene of all time---WANT THAT DRESS DAMNIT!

  • i hate this Russian.

  • It's Carries fault shes in that situation. Like the Russian said...she KNEW what she was getting herself into. She knew what he did for a living, so the fact that she is shocked about all of it is her fault. All of her friends in New York told her not to go, but did she listen? Not at all. Its not the Russian's fault she is so unhappy. She should instead blame her own naiveity...

  • @ryano2099 I think that essentially the point of the scene. She even says "its not your fault, its my fault"....

  • @ryano2099

    She did blame herself. Were you not paying attention? And that talking-to of hers that night was, in part, his fault as his begging her to attend his art display thing and then abandoning her so quickly. He should have continued holding her hand and walked WITH her through his art exhibit, he didn't even seem to know he'd left her behind. He did not warn her that he'd ever be that much of dick.

  • @ApartmentViews "He did not warn her that he'd ever be that much of a dick"?????? Ummmm K? Cuz God knows, we KNOW how we are going to act in the future and since we know that 100%, we should inform those around us of how that is going to turn out...so they dont make any bad decisions with us..Can I borrow your crystal ball that you obviously own so I can make such informed decisions and warn all my loved ones of my future attitude fluxes?

  • @ryano2099

    Wow, you really latched onto that last sentence of mine. What about everything before it? You do realize that Carrie said it was her fault, don't you? Pay attention next time.

    And worse still, all you've done is prove my point and yourself to be wrong and an idiot. No there was no way Alexander could have warned Carrie of how he'd be in Paris, which is exactly why you're wrong to say she knew what she was getting herself into so it's all her fault. You understand now, simp?

  • @ApartmentViews I latched onto your last sentence cuz it was the most moronic statement i've ever read. You say, "he never warned her he would be such a dick" and then you reply back with, "No, there was no way Alexander could have warned Carrie how he'd be in Paris". lol Make up ur fucking mind cuz when u reply back that, then this....you make yourself sound like a jackass to all who read what u said. Im now blocking you cuz I feel the more stupid one to keep replying back to idiots like you.

  • @ryano2099

    No, you're clearly stupid on your own. So stupid that you can't even see how it's your own arguments that are contradicting, not mine. Again, all you've done is proven my point about your initial claim being idiotic and illogical. You're the one who needs to make up that tiny mind of yours. Read through the exchange and perhaps you'll see your lapse in logic this time, simpleton. Good on you to "block me" as you'd only embarrass yourself further to respond any more than you have.

  • i love what she has to say.

  • it's her fault she's in that situation...she should've said that much earlier before she even visited paris....

  • I am somebody who's looking for love. real love. ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, cant-live-without-each-other kind of love.

  • @NewyorkNewyork91

    I love her words.............I FEEL them.

  • He was such a prick thank god it was a short courtship.

  • I never liked that selfish Russian a**hole!!

  • When we succumb like Carrie did to a married Big in an elevator, we should watch this and remember what kind of love we all deserve. "real love...ridiculous, inconvenient......can't live without each other love..."

  • god she annoys me.

  • Who doesn't live for this scene? Anyone who has slightly been in this position knows we are looking for type of love....

  • my favorite line of the entire series!! :)LOVE IT!

  • Peut-être qu'il est temps d'être clair sur qui je suis: je suis quelqu'un qui cherche l'amour, le véritable amour, ridicule, qui dérange, de consommer, ne peut pas vivre-sans-eux-Love

  • I miss SATC

  • "Maybe it's time to be clear about who I am: I am someone who is looking for Love, Real Love, Ridiculous, Inconvenient, Consuming, can't-live-without-each-other Love"

  • -Pensé que habia sido claro acreca de lo que soy y lo que quiero.

    _Bueno, quizas es hora de ser clara acerca de quen soy yo.Soy alguien que esta buscando amor.Amor real. Un amor ridiculo,inconveniente,arrolla­dor,imposible de vivir sin el otro.Y no creo que ese amor esté aca.

  • she dresses like a ballerina... I mean it's cute but she's a little bit over the top

  • @veepnk I thought it was a Christmas tree skirt.

  • I am what I am

    And what I am needs no excuses

    I deal my own deck sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces

    It's one life and there's no return and no deposit

    One life so it's time to open up your closet

    Life's not worth a dam till you can shout out

    I am what I am

  • Dunno what comments on here but I just read one or two which I'll give a response to!: One: Big was her match- in every way not just physical- that was the whole idea- He was called BIG! Because he was the big one- TWO- she is NOT a moaner- I fucking hate men/women who complain of people who are "moaners" just because they are vocal about their needs- Jesus life is short enough without having to comprimise!!! As Shirley Bassey says in her great song: "I am what I am"

  • godddddd i could shoot him!!!!

  • The love part- the crazy inconvenient, cant live without each other love part that is.

  • I'm using this speech as a part of my wedding either in the vows or as a toast at the reception. This is the kind of love I was looking for, wanting for and I've been lucky and blessed enough to find myself with my fiancee, who i share it with. I'm missing him tonight and I wish he was here with me now.

  • i love the commentary to this. it's almost completely silent because SJP is so beautiful here and is so raw. she is truely an amazing actress. i liked the russian alot, but he was never on the same level as carrie. i always think aiden was her emotial match, while berger was her mental, and big was her physical. i dunno what the russian was, maybe her fantasy match. he was a gorgeous older, rich man. who wouldn't go to paris with him?

  • truly a great actress. truly a great dancer. Truly a horrible relationship. lmao.

  • i am someone who is looking for love!

  • hey hey hey people, that is Mikhail Baryshnikov, this is no random russian man, it's MIKHAIL!

  • god, she does moan! haha love it :)

  • the russian actor in real life is an absolutely amazing ballet dancer. yes he was an arse of a bf here though. i agree with one of the comments on here, aiden is my fave but it has to be big and carrie for me. it sounds like the same situation ove had tbh.

  • I think it was very smart to add the necklace breaking. As if to say the dream she was living in is broken or her relationship with Alek is over. Also, that necklace took the place of her real necklace - the Carrie necklace, which is more appropriate to who she is.

  • I loved her the most with Aidan.. don't know why tht didn't work out. But I hated the russian.. sooo not right for her! and he hits her? wtf? instead of just standing there, shocked, she should've hit back or something.. although, in real life that takes seriously a lot of courage, standing up for yourself.

  • I liked Aiden the best but I didn't like her and Aiden together. They didn't really work... he was a good guy and all, but she wasn't completely herself with him. To take Carrie's line from the finale, Aiden didn't love the her that she loved. I'm not a Big fan, but I must admit that they were completely themselves around each other.

  • yeah you're probably right.. she wasn't herself with the russian either.. with samantha's cancer, he wasn't supportive either, he's the worst of her boyfriends!

  • the russian is a maggot..and yes that love is possible, most people just settle.

  • Who knows? that 's what girls out there keep looking for!! Real love is what all the women in the world want and SATC beyond f*** is all about L-O-V-E !

  • That's is what love should be. My fav quote on love.

  • He is suuuch a typical ass selfish hole of a man. I had exactly the same one...

  • i can't believe she just let him HIT her and not say anything about it!!!

    that's setting such a bad example, like stupid senseless rihanna..

  • I can relate to some of what Carrie went through in the last two episodes. I am from a lovely small town, and I spent some time in a lovely big city, which had a lot of stuff going for it, but I was miserable and homesick. I was even in a five-star hotel at one point and I could only enjoy it for so long until I was calling home!

    So when I got back to my town, I was so happy because I knew for a fact that this where I want to be. It's no NYC, but it's my place, and I love it.

  • Pure trite...that feels like blasphemy, but so is Carrie acting like a complete fool.

  • This is so big kitch...this shit...stories

  • she would do better dating her best mate....Big or the Russian would never get it

  • the russian was no good for her never liked him

  • that necklace part was awkward

  • I think it was supposed to be symbolic--she realized when she found her Carrie necklace that that was what she really wanted--her NY life. And the diamond necklace breaking was a sign that this relationship wasn't going to work out.

  • shes my favorite actress.

  • has any1 noticed that she said the same thing 2 big in an earlier episode?

  • says what, and in an what episode?

  • I'm taking a shower????

  • good lock

  • i never liked that guy!

  • Well I think she realized the slap was an accident...

    Besides, her quote has nothing to do with being slapped; she had already realized the relationship was going nowhere before he accidentally hit her.

    I think she acted great...more passion would imply she wanted the love she was looking for to be with him...and it was more her realizing and accepting that this wasn't what she wanted and that she had to leave to find her happiness.

  • this is my fave carrie quote...i am someone looking for love...

  • what is that french song called!? i love it!

  • is called "La belle et le bad boy" by MC Solaar

  • what she says is how love should be.....the ideal love

  • I hate the slapping!Thank god, for the slip of the hand. Wake up and smell the coffee! He was to much in love with his own ego!

  • if ur reading this and bored y

  • I think that she really acts great here. I could really feel what she meant. so good!

    Can´t wait to get the movie home! =)

  • i love when other people watch me on my webcam!

  • In the last two episodes i love the way they dressed her.

  • yessss i totally agree!

    i love her outfit when she goes to dior

  • I think this dress is an interesting choice; it resembles the classic Sylph costume (what the prima ballerina would wear) of the Romantic ballet movement, and Baryshnikov is such a famous ballet dancer...

  • It's so nice.. carry is looking for big..

  • Maybe its time to be clear about who i am. I am someone who is looking for love, real love, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other love. And i dont think that love is here in this expensive suite, in this lovely hotel, in Paris"

    Oh my God, yes abso...lutely. I am still waiting!

  • I absolutely love this scene...I rewind and rewind! Then Big comes to her rescue and wants to kick the Russians ass...then she says "take me home!"

    WOW!

  • One of my favorite quotes, ever!

  • was this the only time he hit her?

  • yes, and it was really an accident actually...

  • he hitted her

  • the love she is looking for is with mr.big and no one else.

  • I am someone who is looking for love..real love..ridiculous...inconvenien­t....consuming....cant live without each other love and i dont think that love is here in this expensive suitein this lovely hotel in paris,,,,,,,, :( LOVE SEX AND THE CITY FOREVER!

  • The quote, such a powerful statement. I believe it.

  • "Maybe its time to be clear about who i am. I am someone who is looking for love, real love, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other love. And i dont think that love is here in this expensive suite, in this lovely hotel, in Paris"

    .....thats all anybody ever wants ..... ME TOO!!!

  • I should break up with my boyfriend...

  • absofucklutely moving

  • absofucklutely moving

  • im looking for love real!!!='''}

  • Si también es mi escena favorita,es tan cierto q todas en verdad buscamos lo mismo pero es tan complicado encontrarlo plenamente,encontrar a alguien q nos ame con nuestros defectos y virtudes q nos ame por QUIEN SOMOS!Todos merecemos encontrar el verdadero AMOR!

  • O final desta cena resume a busca de Carie e de todas as mulheres que buscam um verdadeiro amor.

  • It's a testament to SJP's acting that she pulled off that speech so believably. Love love love it.

  • anyone know the song that plays in the background for most of these final scenes??? iv been trying to get a hold of it for years . xxx

  • which is why she ends up with hot hot hot hot big

  • ah, talk abot a tear jerker scene!

    thanks for posting :D

  • Todas las mujeres buscamos lo mismo... por eso es que es la escena favorita de todas nosotras.. evidentemente... porq no lo tenemossssssss!!!!

  • it's incredible how carrie changed during the series: in the first she was a young confident adult enjoying sex, in the 6th she's completely cute and naive and up the clouds like a 13 year old girl! also i think the 1st and the 6th are the series where she looks better..well and when she had short hair

  • I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love!

    soooooooo so loveee that line!!

  • she had that real love with aiden..but what happened then? i guess carry`s heart always belong to Big..

  • her words are, simply put, perfect.

  • this is by far my favourite scene in the whole episode, if not the whole series. Thank you so much for putting it up

  • you are welcomed.

  • @favoriteswith same!

  • That is such a beautiful speech. As a viewer, it's so easy to relate and feel touched, and think "me too."

  • I am someone who is looking for LOVE. REAL LOVE... ahhh my favorite moment ever!

  • One of my favorite moments of Sex and the City. I am someone who

  • i love this moment, i love this show and i love soooo much her =)

  • it is fantastic!! i love it... it make me feel incredible things...:)

  • I love this scene..hehe

  • this is so good, and touching.

  • why does she take the blame?

  • Probably because she had already been in a relationship with a man who only thought of himself before. She's probably blaming herself for not having been able to see this coming before, maybe for not having learnt her lesson the first time she broke up with Big and all that she went through. Now, of course Aleksandr should have apologized here for having let her alone all that time instead of just going to bed.

  • To quote Big.."ABSOFUCKINLUTELY!!" Love this :-)

  • i wanna watch the last episode.

    who has the last episode? pls pls

  • "Maybe its time to be clear about who i am. I am someone who is looking for love, real love, ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't live without each other love. And i dont think that love is here in this expensive suite, in this lovely hotel, in Paris"

    .....thats all anybody ever wants .....

  • Loooooove it

  • Her words are perfect! I've always loved this scene.

  • I actually liked Aidan and Carrie together ... I thought he was too perfect! But then again we women cannot appreciate a good thing when we have it ...

  • yep.. me too.!!

    Nobody knows what he has until he loses it..

    law of life..

    i cant wait 4da movie!!

  • that dress is so beautiful. i miss satc so much. alek is such a bastard. was from the beginning, altho one of my favourite episodes is when she meets him at the russian restaurant...

  • I LOVE THIS SHOW SO MUCH im addicted im gonna watch the season over again

  • Magnífica Carrie!!!

  • thanks for posting Ive looked for this scene for a long time

  • Aleksandr wasn't made for Carrie, you could see that the first time. Mr big is the one.

  • ugh that asshole! I don't know what she saw in him in the first place.

  • I love this bit.

  • SATC- i cannot live without it...!!

  • She said everything I need to say to someone!!!

    THANKS, Carrie!

    SATC rules! o/

  • I heart Carrie!

  • poor carrie i always hated him

    GO BIG AND GET YOUR GIRL

  • Oh my gosh everything that Carrie says here I said to my ex-boyfriend...wow. If only I had said all that to him, I might have gotten a different response! She got Mr. Big at the end though, and she's wearing a hot dress!!!

  • "It was an accident" Whatever

  • when I watched that.....holy shit,I went through something so similar,moving somewhere FAR....for someone,and feeling sooo alone.....anyway,shes got the cutest dress!!!

  • hi me

  • omfg. sooooo good. sniffle.

  • I am currently going through the same thing! I moved far from home with my boyfriend who rather spend his time with his laptop = it is very lonley! But I'm going home now! hopefully My Mr Big is there!

  • Oh, come on,laptops are great!

  • I totally feel for u ... :( I am sure u will find ur Mr.Right ..

  • i would so wear that for prom

  • carry's dress is fantastic ! =D

  • I am someone who is looking for real love i cried with this episode

  • aww... no part with big?

    =[ sad.

    nut i love this episode. =]

  • Love this...sounds like me! ;)

  • this scene is GREAT but it does not compare to the one where she speaks to big before going to PAris.

    she's just so :{ and big is all :o but both are great scenes

  • she knew this before coming to paris. She is SO imature and sel involved. If she didn't love him she should have stayed in NYC. Poor guy

  • I am someone who is looking for real love- I'M!!

  • amo esta serie el final fue increible y esta esena es mi favorita!!!

  • Siiii...pero me gusta la voz del doblaje mexicano, pues pues suena más sexy que la voz original. Se perfila mejor el personaje.

  • I am a boy...and i love this show

  • well you're a fagg then ahhahahaha

  • You know boys should watch this!

    They can learn a thing or two>:)

  • thants so much fot put this awesome part of the tv show here.

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