Am I the only one that hates both Gay and Straight Clubs ?

[GayComicGeek]

@Zer0cropped Yep that's so true!

[josiahgobert]

Lol that sucks so if a guy wants talk to you what would you do bhHhH

[Stateoftention]

the reason they get pissed when u rub them is because they dont want anyone to know they are gay!

[cologneprince]

I don't care for them either. I mean it's fun for like the first 10 minutes but I'm painfully anti-social and one can only have fun dancing alone in one spot for so long XD

[NeilSonOfNorbert]

I enjoy dancing, and socialising with friends. but I find the general enviroment of clubs/socials very uncomfortable and unfriendly(gay or staght). as for the touching thing, i've never been felt up at any club.

[Shotgunryugan]

well i'm underage so i can't comment on any type of bar since i've never been on one but are the Gay bars always like that? touching each other? i've always wanted to go but i guess i'll wait :P anyway can i ask you a question? what does namaste(?) mean? you mention it at the end of all your videos.

[enterprise1705]

Where did you get that Double Dare shirt?

[GayComicGeek]

@enterprise1705 Honestly I don't remember. I think I got it in some store, but I'm not sure which one.

[nsdfnsdf]

i love clubs. not for the dancing but the feeling the sound-waves in my body, i were earplugs and dance once drunk. XD

[JimSkid1956]

You are so damn funny.... I hate clubing!!

[dalejoel]

Well - it's funny because I don't drink and yet I go to the clubs maybe once a week with friends. I will dance but mostly go find some friends and chat about stuff. I think clubs are places where people define their lives by their sexuality too much so I don't like that and often I feel they are anti-social places rather than social places. However I am a social guy so I make sure I just talk to people and then it's good.

[May420pm]

im not gay and i come in peace i almost lost my mind when i went clubbing you need air plugs to go in there

[Xamot1980]

I know this is an old video. But i would just like to say i love gay and straight clubs.  I can watch a movie when im 60 or stay home and read. But im only young once and im only going to have my workout body for so long. I have to enjoy it all while i still can. Oh and by the way v sucks. Except for morris chestnut. That dude is so fucking hot.

[MULDER1771]

I  AGREE

[fallennowbroken]

My boyfriend loooooves Dexter! lol.

[TheChillyAcademicIV]

I like your videos!, SUBSCRIBED

[mcknytx]

You hit the nail on the head with boring. I think it basically comes down to the music. If you like that kind of music, and you like to dance, then you might like clubs. Otherwise, I don't see how it can have any appeal to people.

If I'm going out, I'd rather go just about anywhere else. I want to interact with the friends I'm out with...isn't that why you go out with friends? Bowling, putt-putt, drinking at the house, or a quiet bar or pub. Conversation beats loud music any day.

[mcknytx]

You hit the nail on the head with boring. I think it basically comes down to the music. If you like that kind of music, and you like to dance, then you might like clubs. Otherwise, I don't see how it can have any appeal to people.

If I'm going out, I'd rather go just about anywhere else. I want to interact with the friends I'm out with...isn't that why you go out with friends? Bowling, putt-putt, drinking at the house, or a quiet bar or pub. Conversation beats loud music any day.

[MGangemi]

I also am not much into gay clubs 90% of the time. The music stinks usually and the stench of desperation just annoys me. What I love are dyke bars. You get the same feel of community, often the music is better, and there are always a few fags to and they are typically not the dull drugged up shirtless types so you actually might enjoy talking to them.

[xxbrothawizxx]

Didn't kno u lived in south florida

[manicjupiterflute]

I like dancing, but I think clubs are very overrated, gay or straight. All it is is a bunch of people getting drunk, trying to find someone to get laid with, and that's pretty much the "club" lifestyle. I'd rather go to a rave because they have way better vibes and nobody cares about sex.

[HTHW]

I don't like clubs either.

[getyourown16]

LOVE YOUR SHIRT!! Probably one of my favorite shows when I was a kid in the 90s. Also, ROFL at ringworms. Dunno why, but it made me laugh really hard.

[deltaboi88]

totally agree. I hate clubbing.

[chasektn]

I'm going to my first gay club next weekend, lol, but I'm of a... wide nature, lol, so I don't plan on dancing. Drinking, hell yeah lol, but not dancing. We'll see how it goes... I have that DD shirt in brown. And a Rocko shirt, and a You Can't Do That on Television shirt. .. Gay glee level critical <3

[electricfoxx]

Awesome double dare shirt. I love music, but I'm not into gay clubs or bars. I don't drink so the whole bar scene seems weird to me.

I love gay and bi geeks and nerds.

[jakb74]

I never go to clubs. I left that life in the San Fran Bay area. It smells in cluds also. I mean clean bodies and deo are important.

[NightCrawlerKV]

i'm just like that. i can't wait for lost either.

[minphist]

I agree. I can't go into a club being myself cause then people hate me cause they I'm rude ( i dont like being grind on by some random sweaty ass guy) and if go to a club chipper and happy everyone assumes that i just wanna get laid so I'm over it lol

[bimboblacky]

OK, does it automatically "classify" ME as a geek if I really hate (both kinds of) them, 2? (I've been 2 both in my time, also). IN my case, it was the Southwestern USA (let's just say), but what U described sounds like an exact MIRROR COPY CLONE of what I had 2 endure (I mean, uh, "enjoy" heh heh heh). May B I am more of a private person myself, and 4 the MOST part, when I am *in* a relationship myself, I don't view (frequent, anyway) attendance of such places as B-ing terribly appropriate.

[Sweetleprachaun]

I hate clubs. Just not my scene. I'd rather chill with close friends and watch a movie

[xrisb01]

So agree and btw love the double dare shirt!!!

[PotterManiac25]

oh yeah...OMG and I can't wait for LOST too...getting the DVD next week!

[PotterManiac25]

Clubbing used to be my thing but now I'm over it, but I understand the whole thing about rude ppl and about partying 2 nites in a row, I guess we're just not as young as we used to be...lol.

[savaja02]

i'm the same

[robertdotennis20680]

THANK YOU!!! I was beginning to think I was the only person in the world who hates Clubbing! I have always hated it, and I totally worry about the stuff you worry about. Thanks for making me feel like I am not a freak.

[jmanp50]

I'm definitely not a clubber. Can't stand it. I much prefer getting drunk at a friend's house, if I must.

[findjustin]

I'd rather stay home, watch an old B movie and drink wine with friends.

[yellanphine827]

Your not the only one.. I love to dance but Im over the club

[Attmay]

I hate gay clubs because the music is awful and because it's a glorified meat market. I only occasionally drink socially, and it's usually wine with dinner. I'd rather just be in a quiet, intimate place or at a movie with a few friends or family members or (especially) my boyfriend.

[RockvilleWoof]

Hello?? How about the backwards places like Atlanta that still allow smoking in bars/restaurants? HATE IT!!

Why do gays that are SO obsessed with their bodies tolerate that BS second hand smoke that makes your clothes smell like an ashtray!? Its almost 2010 people - cigarettes are WAY out of style!

[RandomGayGamer]

I totally know what you mean. I heavily dislike clubs too, doesnt matter what kind.

I cant dance, most of the time Im bored out of my mind, but like you pretend to have fun or at least go along without saying anything so my friends dont feel obliged to entertain or stay with me all the time.

Problem is, I cant seem to meet gay people any other way. Only in gay Clubs / Bars and so on.

On top of that Im kind of shy. A really - *really* - crappy combination!

[RandomGayGamer]

First time I'm posting, didn't know that there was a limit! So here's the rest of my post.

Anyway, youre really not alone lots of people out there who would rather stay at home than go out clubbing.

By the way, saw your anniversary video and I must say it made me smile and laugh, would like to know some background story from some of the clips, most of them seem really funny, but that would be asking too much.

[RandomGayGamer]

Nevertheless if its not too much to ask, Id like to know how you guys met!

Thank you for posting your anniversary video it really made my day.

Congratulation to both of you, I wish you a long time together and hope you stay as happy as you are!

[einsteinjr08]

Misophobia, not hypochondria. Misophobia is the fear of germs and contracting diseases from other people. Hypochondria is constantly thinking you have an illness.

[orkoni1]

EW you're a DC FAN! Ugh! Marvel's way better!

Yeah I'm with you on the whole club scene, I prefer going to the movies, group dinner, the bookstore and cafe, or the mall, or casinos and just people watch.

[galefan2004]

No you are not the only one that hates the club experience. I find it funny that you just follow the herd though. You just have to take off your shirt because everyone else did? That is complete crap. Be original. Leaving your shirt on kind of tells everyone not to mess with you (which seems to be what you want). Oh, and if a friend hard his party at a club I would gladly tell him I wasn't coming because I didn't do the club scene. In the end, the only person that really matters is you.

[Skaggersnarf]

@galefan2004 He took off his shirt because I asked him to. I was the one who dragged him to go to the club. I personally love going and asked Paul to come with me. The other club that we went to the following evening was at the invitation of our friend. Although Paul may not like clubs, he went to one anyway to see our friend on his birthday, to make our friend happy.

[Vicemary]

I like rave, is it the same as clubbing?

[galefan2004]

Close, except there is more drugs and sex at a rave USUALLY!

[Vicemary]

Not at anime cons, there's just pocky and bawls! XD

[gaystatue]

i hate both st8 and gay clubs actually for the only reason i like gay people its because im gay.

[scottlukaswilliams]

I'm with you. Clubbing does nothing for me.

[KrisAB]

Heh, the fact that I was more interested in your brief comments about TV shows I watch than about your club comments probably says it all.

Been to a bunch of touristy straight clubs in Cancun when I was 18 with two American girls (had a brief, PG-13 fling with one of 'em), but no interest since. It was fun, but I couldn't dance, still can't. Me and my boyfriend are curious to go to a gay club some time, but it's not priority. We're curious who'd get more attention--he says me, I say him.

[BDRoland]

THANK YOU. Finally someone else, and by the looks of the comments on here a variety of other people, who doesn't like clubs. I've been to both Straight clubs and gay clubs and with the straight ones I was totally bored, the gay one was ok but I really dont see the need to go again. I much prefer to stay home maybe get a group of close friends together and play scrabble, taboo, cranium, or apples to apples.

[andrejaymez]

I totally agree there is NOTHING but DRAMA.

[possbejm]

I completely agree. Clubs are way too impersonal and just excessively loud. Much much prefer other venues. Reading Blackest Night 5 easily trumped any club experience I've had of late.

[TheVirgoGuy]

Hmm, I've never been to a str8 club, but I'm not into the club scene anymore either. The club was something fun to me when I was 18 and single, but all I use to do there is dance all night. Anyway I like V, I wish the first season was longer than four episodes though. The cast is very attractive and I like the lighting and compositing of the show.

[KrisAB]

The 1st season will be longer than 4 episodes, but they had to stop airing it due to production delays (I think it had something to do with the show getting a different showrunner or disagreements with the network or something like that--so the result may be that the show gets better, or worse...or I guess it could stay the same level of quality). I'm enjoying it. I liked the `80s original, rented most of the first part of that a few years ago. New one's not the best thing ever, but enjoyable

[CRZYREGGIE]

damn ur prob not the only 1 but if u dont like clubn dont go i never been to a gay club i want to go but u wouldnt catch me at a straight club i dont want to dance with a girl and guys automatic think ur straight and people would spread out if they saw two guys dancing u know

[homoguy563]

I think alot of guys kind of have that issue of wanting to connect with the community, be in the scene, and just be around other gay guys, but not nessacarily feel the most comfortable in bars, or clubs. Some people are just not bar/club people, especially if they're really shy and don't want to be a wall flower. Channels like yours, however, kind of bring gay geeks together. Your doing god's work :P

[james2968]

You're definitely not the only one. I much prefer smaller, quieter gatherings of friends.

And if you're that worried about being touched, try gaining 20 pounds. Around here, nobody will give you a second look if you don't have a 6-pack.

[WilliamSmo3000]

Yeah clubs seem more for cruising anyway. Sometimes the attention is nice, but It all just seems like a game that never ever ends with very few winners. I liked them, but now I guess I have more confidence in real life and need less "candy attention".

I can't wait for lost either, it's killing me. I think V will get better, but we will see.

[stoner829]

It is impossible to hear the person next to you because the music is so loud. At least here (Ohio) you cannot smoke in them. That was the worst-coming home and even your hair smelled like smoke!!

[DaibhiW]

You're not alone in not liking clubs. They're too noisy & impersonal to me. I'm the type of person who prefers to be with a few friends in a quieter environment.

For those who like clubs, that's great. I'm not dissing clubs. When I was younger I went out dancing with friends & it was fun every once in a while. But even then I still prefered the quiet get togethers. So, it's just a matter of choice, clubs in & of themselves are neither good nor bad.

[UpJumpUp]

OMG ... 100 stars for Double Dare!

And I hear you about clubs ... give me a beer in a pub or with my friends at the dining room table and I am happy.

[arklightbabybear]

Hell yay! Read a comic book. Watch a movie! So much better......

[olnightstar69]

It's called CAMARADERIE dude. Gay guys just want to go out and have some fun with other gay guys without having to pretend to be something they aren't. You don't have to dance if you don't want to. (but feel free to take off any clothing...)

[mbthebulldog]

You are so very awesome. I agree 100%.

[ChangelingDJ]

First Off the Double Dare shirt Rocks

Secondly don't really go clubbing Last time I went was.... centuries ago and it was too warm...

third why are they trying to fight with you? Don't they have better things to do.

[kern0099]

Gay clubs suck, but bars that are intergenerational are the best..calmer, without that pounding all the time. Clubs should be social, not a place to get attention for a "house clique". Plus, I like the daddy's at bars, sue me! :-) You should go to beer bust at Lonestar in Silver Lake. Pretend you like bears, people there are cool and approachable, if a little fugly at times.

[myrdraal2001]

I've never been to a gay club, eventhough I'm gay, but closed in clubs suck. I like open air clubs much better. You also forgot to mention that you have to have a designated driver, too, to go out.

[idlechimp]

Double Dare!!!

[sandform]

I can't even stand being in public, why the fuck would I want to go to a club where there are lots of uninteresting people biding for the attention of someone to prove to themselves that they aren't insignificant?

[todd716]

And i thought i was the only one. lol

[qunder12]

to young for clubs but now i know to caution myself

[jimbobubbadj]

Paul, I agree as far as the loud music and it being too crowded. I'm not looking for a club to be desolate but I like to move around easily and not come home with my ears ringing. So in part I am with you dude.

[cherrydog9]

sometimes, yes. sometimes, no. depends on my mood. can't stand it when it's jam packed shoulder to shoulder, tho. i start to get freaked, i need some space

[cleancut71]

yeah I agree, I would rather be at home with a friend or two instead of the bars, gay or str8

[Zelda8525]

hahaha i totally agree with you. i mean, whats the point of going to a place full of people getting all nasty and god knows what haha. but yeah, movies or just walking in the park is my choice for going out. i mean, parying once in a while is not bad either, but i rather go to less "crazy" places.

[ccm800]

If Stee likes it just bare it and make the best of it

[beamermt25]

we dont have clubs here.. we just have bars.. i dont go to gay bars cause i dont like the 'general gay' people who go there.. and yes i'm gay.. its a long story.. lol

[danielzero]

Is it normal for gay clubs to have everyone with their shirts off? I've always lived in San Antonio, and all the gay places here mostly have people who are fully clothed with only a couple of in shape guys with their shirts off. Then again, here in SA, most people are at least a little overweight. I'm considered slightly thin here while, in other places, I'd probably be considered a little chubby. To answer your question, I personally only like clubbing when I don't have a bf like now.

[octogirlpretty]

Paul, courtesy of this video, you are officially my hero. Seriously.

I take this stuff kinda hard...like, it translates to me that I'm not "cool". To hear it come from someone like you though, someone I look up to...it's just great.

Thank you :)

[lailaagrado]

i dont like them too :P

[meitzjoei]

hate the whole scene1 we're the minority, but I could have made that vid.

It's fun 1 or 2 times a yr for 2-3 hrs or so, but that's my limit.

[airricksreloaded]

Well if youre not into dancing and rubbing up against guys then why would you go to dance clubs?

[GayComicGeek]

My boyfriend likes them and wants me to go and all of my friends asked me to go for my friend's birthday.

[lailaagrado]

do you like going to zoo's? :)

[GayComicGeek]

I guess. I've been 2 zoos, does that count?

[lailaagrado]

yes it does,well go to zoo's than if you like open spaces :)

[prideinwhoyouare]

I'm not big on clubbing and drinking so I'm right there with ya.

[bionicarcher]

All the clubs I've been to seemed to be full of narcissistic hedonists which I don't care for. Plus I don't like alcohol. =P I'd rather go to a yoga or martial arts class. Both tend to have a great diversity of fascinating people.

[obamadidit2008]

don't like the club scene AT ALL.i don't like house music, and a bunch of horny guys on something doesn't turn me on

[shawn199512]

i'm only 15 cant wate to be 19 to go at the gay bar/clube dit i cant say if i will love it or not

[rbrown2697]

I hate places that have such loud music that you can't hear what anyone is saying to you. So yeah, I stay away from clubs.

[DreadwindsGhost]

Nah, you're not the only one. I'd rather watch a movie, or a nice box set of dvds. At least that way you don't come home smelling of sweat and have to re-mortgage your house to pay for drinks.

[IDH2008]

Hey, you are not the only one man. I have never had an urge to go to a club, gay or straight. Its just not my thing.

[NanaMan101]

lol i go to aventura all the time and if i happened to see you there im sure i would freak out and make you sign my back, so if you are ever acosted by a crazed fan thats probubly me:)

[ShartimusPrime]

Hey I'm as much of a geek as the next guy, but damn, going to both straight and gay clubs is typically a great time for me! Drinking and dancing and grinding on chicks is the shit! Especially at the gay clubs, they never see the straight guy coming. And then they go, "Oooooo a meng!"

And passing by dudes at straight clubs? Just natural for me to dickishly pat on the shoulder as I go thru. Better to do that than to have them all of sudden find some dude rubbing on them trying to pass by.

[everybodylovetoday]

You don't *have* to take your shirt off... that's totally up to you.

Anyway- not a fan of clubbing. I'd rather go to a quiet bar and chat with a buy.

[Ravage1979]

Gay clubs, i dont like anymore. Pretentious queens, under age kids are always around, and theres always the mandatory person who goes around groping everyone.

Straight clubs, the music is aweful, and you will no doubt always find trouble.

The only good thing i find about gay clubs is you can be yourself, without worrying if some homophobe is going to knife you, or smash a bottle over your head.

[klyymaxx23]

I love dance/club music and dancing. Used to go out all the time when I was younger in NY. Limelight, Tunnel, Roxy, Twilo, Splash. Most of the time it was because I was on the hunt! LOL. I don't mind going once and awhile now with friends, but it's not the same.

[TUXYtheguardian]

Yeah, if you don't like to dance, and you're afraid of people and germs, I would say don't go out to the club.

[peepeevagi]

No better place than a pub.

Clubs you end up drugged D:

In a pub, you can just embarrass yourself all you want with a couple of guys and nobody'll say a thing.

[efeblog]

I love going to clubs!! I just go for dancing!!!

[jsnrks]

oh your definitely not the only guy who feels that way. I'm a hypochondriac as well and that would totally gross me out! haha.

[JerbyVids]

At home is better! Games/movies with friends.

[JerbyVids]

I much prefer a loungy or neighborhood bar with friends. No crowds. Relaxed.

[tattooskin72]

I used to like clubbing a lot when I was younger. But, it grows old quick. I know there are people around my age that still enjoy going clubbing, but I just can't get back into it. I don't enjoy the drinking, smoking, drugs, etc etc. I do love dancing though... oh well :)

[BrizyComics]

Yeah, I was amazed at how nice everyone was at the crowded gay club I went to this Halloween. It was also the first time I had a cute guy grab me and take me to the dance floor, grope all over me,and then go merrily on his way.

For me, as much as I love dancing, club music is TOO LOUD! When I go home, my ears are ringing for hours and I can still feel the bass pounding in my marrow for ages. Ugh.

If I had friends like you and Steve, I'd definitely hang out at home with you.

[depfox]

Yea ive never liked clubs they are way to crowded. I have more fun when its with a bunch of friends.

[naota83]

I'm gay and I've never seen what the big deal is with clubs.

I've been to a gay dance club a few times and it wasn't too sketchy, and no one was all over me, but still dancing around for hours with deafening music is as uncomfortable and unappealing to me as the idea of having sex with my best female friend.

My bi boyfriend isn't into clubs at all either. But we're both awfully (wonderfully) geeky.

[blacktopcarnival]

Hey, I remember that show, double dare! You're not the only one, I hate clubbing too. But then I'm not much of a party person in general.

[nss2]

Dexter Rocks

[snowliontrax]

i will send u an invitation to my memorial day cookout next year. u think clubbing is a social/cultural morass try partying in outdoor indiana on a public lake/rivate property lot's of high jinks there.

[appleyeoman]

It depends... Sometimes I dont like but other times its cool. I will like it better in a few weeks when people are banned from smoking indoors.

[Comixbear1]

I haven't been to a bar in years. I don't drink, so don't go for that. And it seems like people my size are heavily snubbed, so I don't like to be there. I often would leave depressed, so I'm glad not to go anymore.

[sadguyfoundout1]

LOL i have never gone to a gay lub but im willing to! but to be honest I love clubbing cus of the dancing and nothing more to it! if i get lucky, then i get lucky! bt primarily its for the fun of dancing and cheeky flirting here and there! anything that makes me feel uncomfortable i very much try to aviod in clubs! lol but tbh I love clubbin most times than not! but I also LOVE not clubbin! depends on my mood I guess! but u are right with all the reasons to not like clubbin. lmmfao!

[thedancetuber]

2 VERY large differences: gay clubs---most of the guys are high on ecstacy  and in straight clubs: the men are drunk! most drunk straight men are "angry" drunks, gay guys on "X" love the body touching, its a dopamine drug.

[tghbenz99]

I hate gay and straight clubs too. I dont like the music and I cant dance.

[maxxxxsolo]

I know what your talking about especially with swine flu going around you dont want someone sweaty ass rubbing on you that you dont know wether they be male or female. Clubs have a lot of monotony. I like go cart tracks, walking, hiking, and I'm an aquarius jk lmmfao.