When I was 27 (31 now) I was dating a 19yo virgin. Like an idiot, I put her through 3 years of hell and eventually lost her to another guy. I really appreciated the fact that I was the only one.
I believe that men AND women need to judge potential mates on their sexual past. I've never understood why this has only pertained to men judging women. There are perhaps a lot of women out here who don't care about a man's sexual history, but I am NOT one of them. I want to know the quantity AND quality of women that a man I'm interested in has had sex with. If I feel that he has been with too many women, or if he has slept with hos/sluts, he is not a man I would choose to be involved with.
@moh459 I am from the South (Georgia) but in America we can't always associate an accent with a particular state or city. There are people from all over the place living where I live and we sound different.
im a woman and i want to tell you that if she loves you she will never leave you
unless you cheat on her. But most women who sleep around don't want to be with one man. sex is an addiction and she might not stop trying on new men. save yourself before you get STD'S. take me as your sister and listen
its like this...by the time you marry this person..they are burnt out..do you really want your kids to inherit that "legacy"...seriously....play hard...choose wise...
esteem is a VERY big deal...the broad once told me and I quote..."I will f--k other dudes.." (major red flag...yet this same woman wanted me to marry her...) Oh ..I got some some stories...Btw, I LOVE freaks...but do know there is a cost factor...get a good girl to marry and carry..your own personal freak...I dont do sloppy seconds..
Hi. My name is Rebecca and I noticed ppl made comments saying very negative things about "former promiscuous women." I would like to say after I molested as a child, i was very promiscuous. I had low self esteem and I felt that I didn't deserve better. But I have turned my life around and i'm dating. Get to know someone before you judge them.
those are simply excuses for women to cheat.when men cheat is it cause of some deep mental issue.i dont by in to that bullshit.we make too many excuses for women .in stead of calling it what it is.
@blackpassenger I am sorry for my previous outburst OK.I just have had bad experiences with black people in general.I am also above average in intelligence.
@blackpassenger I don't know about you, but I sure as hell don't want a woman who has been railed by several other guys. If anything, those insecure men you speak of are the ones who are willing to take in those types of women because they feel that they cannot do better.
@DeadSleepers i dont know about you, but i prefer a woman with experience over a virgin anytime. here in japan, virgins are dime a dozen and they suck....... and they dont suck well. im confident that i could pleasure a woman better than her hundred previous partners.
@blackpassenger You'd rather lay up with a woman who could even possibly have an STD due to her 100s of partners? Especially since we all know how deceptive people can be nowadays, thats really just asking for trouble. Not to mention its really not that hard to teach them.
@DeadSleepers dude, STDs can be tested for. I'm not a teacher, too secure for that. you teach them, so they can come give me pleasure. I dont want a woman to come to bed with her books to study. I want her to come to bed with her tools, to work. I used to have the need to teach when i was young and insecure. those days are long gone. you should read my book: Black Passenger Yellow Cabs: A Memoir of Exile and Excess in Japan. google it.
It does depend how many men she has let inside between her legs and or mouth.That hoe might have sexual diseases and a whole bunch of kids she has not told you about.Its best to get a virgin in both hoes.loll. but in this time in age that is probable 1 in 50,000,000.
Lastly there are those are evil to the core who are here to tempt and lead people astray and trip up those going along the right way.....FUCK THEM!!! soon come Judgement Day! that's all i've gotta say.....
If people truly loved themselves then they would do the same to those around them..and if everyone loved themselves no one would get hurt...causing them to demean themselves in the myriad of ways they do all over the place, and so everyone would be in happy relationships with mrs or mr right.........the problem is man turned away from god and god is love, so therefore turned away from love and been scurrying in the darkness ever since.......some of the comments are very funny but it is no joke!
and instead talked them on a level about their issue's which are clearly the backbone of their current state of being, depending on the scenario, and if they are open to this ...be cautious with them too!
People only change if they wish too, you can only change yourself which can inspire others.....so if they don't wanna help themselves leave it....or they may change you....
The real problem is neither male nor female, it's love thang!
i've read all the comments and i have to say that, if your a man or a woman sleeping around isn't a good look and a major turn off to a cleaner person!
aid's and stuff are very real but the spiritual transfer is the most underlooked and unknown aspect to many out there...demonic obviously!
If you sleep with a whore knowing that person was/is before hand, shame on you for using her or him for your gratification.....you'd of been a bigger if you had rejected the offer/ resisted temptation..
oh yea, and (just for Every1s bennefit) i MUST also add. About the causes, its SO many different causes/ origins, to WHORE'ness. Its some minor causes, that can easily be overcame (with proper guidance or help or therapy or even just advice). But then its other EXTREME causes, like..being RAPED, or being ABUSED (by a parent or someone) or because there a NYMPHO and NEED extreme amounts of sex. (which was Also caused by Other BAD / traumatic experiences.
I WILL say tho, some cases of "Whore'ness" (lol)...are simple, i mean...the things that first CAUSED it, are simple...and can easily be overcame. I met and even WIFED 1 before. But thats a kinda rare case.......so what imma say to yall cats, is....Usually, you ASKING for trouble. I cant even say "be careful", cuz thats not enough lol. Im tellin you...USUALLY...ur ASKING...for TROUBLE.
....so, that in itself..keeps most whores and "ex-whores"...from completely gettin away from behavin like a whore. (ofcourse some girls DO get over it, but deffinetly not Most).
Plus, besides that...you still gotta deal with those Psychological issues she got (the 1s that came 1st, the 1s that 1st CAUSED her to become a whore). Those intheir Selves, are Huge problems, that effect everything else.
Like..if its lack of morals, well thats gone translate into ALOTTA other problems.
Example- A person (unknowingly) has the Flu. Now, the things their experiencing are, Headcache (which is only a Symptom OF the flue). If you go and try to get Headache meds, that MIGHT get rid of that headache, for NOW or temporarily. But it will KEEP comming back..cuz you never fixed the ACTUAL underlying problem (that Flu). Get it?
...SO, with THAT being said, a woman (OR a man, but especially a woman, in this case), can NOT just STOP bein promiscuous and "Whore-like", at the drop of a dime, and cant do it suddenly, just cuz she happens to now WANT to. Dont work that way and DEFFINETLY not that simple lol.
You have to 1st DISCOVER and then 2nd..TREAT or deal with, the UNDERLYING PROBLEMS.....to then stop that Behavior that came After it.
And we all know, usually...THAT^^ is almost never done.
...i say that to say this, THAT includes....."Sexual past"...and Number of Sexual partners. A person (ESPECIALLY a woman, because its KNOWN to be a Bad thing if female is Promiscuous and has/ had..alot of partners)....a Person (Especially a female), will NOT have ALOT of sex partners, with NO reason behind it. Its ALWAYS a deeper (and VERY BAD) reason behind it, that MADE her..or LEAD HER..to then have ALOT of sex partners and be promiscuous (as a result of those deeper problems)...
Antecedant (or anticedant), BASICALLY means...the Cause or origin, of a particular behavior. And attached to that word, is the understanding that, EVERY..SINGLE..behavior, has an "Antecedant". NO behavior is without an Antecedant...(OR..Cause / origin).
I say that to say This, NOTHING that a person does, just Magically and RANDOMLY, pops up out of NOWHERE. NOTHING, that dosnt exist. If you see a person doing something, theres reasons behind it.....so i say that to say This..
oh now i see what video this is "Does a females sexual past matter". Well i dont rememeber what was said in this video and i dont got the time to watch/ listen. But i'll say this. From a PROFFESIONAL in the mental health field, and just some1 who is naturally a student of Humans and their behavior (me). Sexual past DOES matter (for men AND women, but ESPECIALLY women). I want everyone to look up this word. "Anticedant".
I do not agree with you on this one JuneBug. A woman with history is hard to trust. Unhealty sexual habits are hard to getrid off. I have a serious doubt that having mltiple sex would be running in her blood stream.
I also have to agree that men have the right to ask about a woman's sexual past because honestly who want a over-used car like the old saying goes"If a key opens lots of locks then it's a master lock,But if a lock is opened by lots of keys,then it's a shitty lock"
Good video!I will also like to conclude that some women become promiscious because they didn't grow up with a father figure or wasn't taught any morals or values as a child.Sometimes bad parenting has a lot to do with this.
Its no double standarts. Men and women are viewed different. Men judge women on their looks, youth. With that said who wants a woman everybody ran through? Women judge men on their status and power.
Well he ask her and she did not lie to him. it would be different if she lied to him about her past. she told the truth that should count for something.
I love that analogy you can't turn a couch potato into a CEO. I was that kind of a woman that did what she did because of the low self esteem and just wanting to be loved and accepted. Every time I have been in a relationship though I have been as loyal as they come. Like with my boyfriend now I never even flirt with other guys nor do I want to. Men don't need to worry about a woman's past. When a woman loves a man he is the best she ever had... That's my experience.
Sexual orientation and sexual history does matter. Some people sleep around alot and they may not be content with someone who doesn't have alot of experience. What about the man's sexual history.
I very much enjoy watching / listening to a point of view that is not only direct and sensible, but initiates some degree of introspection. I guess that what it all comes down to - on whatever level you're at in getting to know someone - is taking the time in getting to know that person. In addition to being completely honest to what you can or cannot handle.
@JunebugObama Would you be with a chick that did bukkake vids in the past?How about a chick that gave up neck to the entire football team and the Drumline? Now I don't expect a chick to be pure as the driven snow but I absolutely refuse locking down a whore due to principals.
I'd say it depends on what you want and expect from the relationship; if you're looking for a stable, monogamous relationship, then you're very unlikely to get that from a promiscuous person, male or female. Before you fall in love with anyone, get a handle on who they really are. Keep some emotional reserve, even if you want to fall for the person immediately; see if what's really on offer from the relationship is what you actually want.
quite frankly i dont want to sound like a douche but my girlfriend, who im deeeeply in love with has had like experience with one other dude, it makes me sad ahha. cause like, he didnt like her for her, he liked her for her looks, he got to not use a condom, i have to use one every time :P, ironic aye?
I think it matters because imagine if she slept with a friend of even a family member in the past and she doesn't tell you how would that make you look?
@GataAgressiva411 Thank you. In case you were not aware I feel the same about you and I watched several of your videos before you removed them. I look forward to whatever website or creative project you do in the future.
@JunebugObama the real reason why an ex-hoe or slut wants to finally settle down with a "nice guy" is because she's finally done having fun being a whore or party slut. the main reason these women want to "settle down" is because they realize, they are not getting younger, their looks are fading away, their market value is declining, so they become desperate to attach themselves to some poor nice guy, who's willing to play the role of "CAPTAIN SAVE A-HOE". please listen to "TOM LEYKIS".
@JunebugObama i'm sorry man, but i can't be in a serious relationship with a woman who's had sex with over 1000 different men. i don't want to be the guy she chooses after she's decided to stop being a whore. like TOM LEYKIS always says, don't be "POINTDEXTER", don't be the guy who's responsible, reliable, dependable, emotionally available, raising her children, paying her bills; in other words, don't be CAPTAIN SAVE A-HOE. as a potential wife, an ex-hoe has the same value as the VCR, NONE!
Grade A video homie . 1st off everytime i hear man of my heritage speak on a controversial topic in a manner in which you spoke on this I smile. you not only handle this topic but yourself very well ..Women the truth hurts but instead of turning a deaf ear to the truth UNDERSTAND your truth listen to what was said and do not turn how u feel about what u hear into your truth(if u can understand that i really believe this) thanks homie again for the video
@ieatb I appreciate the positive feedback, bro. I did the video because a lot of younger guys need to know what is going on so they can make better decisions. Some of these women can destroy a decent man.
The man needs to look at the age that the woman was sleeping around. If the woman was being promisious in her teens there is no reason why she shouldnt be taken seriously. Teenagers do stupid things sometimes. Now if a woman is 30 years old and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry then those are the woman that men should be careful about, because there are more then likely some underline issues.
@tabithaclax2010 This is true. People just need to be honest. Personally, I'd rather be promiscuous now in my youth. So, when I meet a woman who's promiscuous (later in life), our pasts won't bother us because we can relate to each other. Been there done that, now its me and you in the present.
So true. Sexual past ain't a problem if it remains the past. Things do get unsettling when her past flings start popping up out the blue. You speak the truth, I'm a fan now.
This was all very interesting. Me personally, I don't want a girl who's "been around".... btw how you were talking about a girl who's been around was hilarious ..."then she got in a space ship..." LOL. But yea, since I'm so experience (sarcasm) I know I would be bothered thinking of my woman having been with other men. I'm a hopeless romantic tho, I'm too idealistic about these things.
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suppose she acts like she is all a good girl but you find out from couple of your fellas that when she was a freshman in college she was freaking to all kinds of dudes? Not only that she puts up a wall as if you need to work hard to get her when you already got the scope on who she is?
My thing is the past is always a good indicator of the future. Old habits die hard. People are always at their best behavior in the beginning. But it dont take much for a person to revert back to their real selves.
Great commentary and video sir! It is better to leave those things in the past because we will never truly know what our particular significant other has done in his/her past. I wouldn't want to know honestly because if I found out she was a whore in her past I'm gone. NO if ands or but's about it sir, peace be upon you!
probably was some hatin ass dude that might've wanted to take her from him. You gotta be mindful of who you listen to, not everyone is out for your best interest. If she's no longer acting like that and he's not sleeping around either, then a fresh start is possible. I agree with Mike2frsh. Promiscuity isn't cute in any form. Virgins are rare and it's hypocritical for men to even look for one if they've bedded a lot of women in their own past. If the past is indeed that, I think it doesnt
Okay here is my thing. Hetereosexual men sleep around. Who are they sleeping with....WOMEN. Some men kill me. "I don't want a woman that sleeps around," But they are hoes themselves. Its disgusting. Some men want a freak and an innocent all at the same time. I hate to tell you but she doesn't exist. And for a lot of you guys if a women sleeps with one guy its too much.
Hey, Just like women looking for a Lil Wayne who has a degree and a Doctor with swag does not exist... So women and men are unrealistic when it comes to looking for a person..
LOL. First no real WOMAN is looking for a Lil Wayne with a degree or a Doctor with swag. Only little girls (regardless of the age) are looking for those types of things. Real men and women know the deal. When people are looking for unrealistic things it obviously because they are unhappy with themselves. My point was if a woman is a hoe for sleeping around then so is a man. Point. Blank. Period.
Hey I want a FREAK...... See if a man gets a women who is like Jada Fire in bedroom, yeah he might cheat but it might be less likely.... What do you think Foxy?
Depends on the man I think. A freak normally has a very sexual past. So I think a lot of men would want to sleep with her. But I don't know about the "long" term. They might feel like she is a hoe. But men and women cheat because they can. Most of the time it has nothing to do with their partner not having great sex. They like the thrill of sneaking around and the potential of getting caught. That is what makes them hot.
Well it all varies depending what she did and are you ready to deal with it all of those guys she been with might coming back don't judge her if she says she changed for the better and is dedicated to being a better person
well...i started writtin a response....i already sent 2 parts of it...but i come back and see they aint there......so i dunno if they went thru or not.....
You see, as You already know, its NORMAL for a man to aspire to be promiscuous, and he'll come out of it normal.....because a man is Literally Wired to BE promiscious, as you know....a man was wired, Psychologically AND even PHYSICALLY, to be promoscuous...in order for him to get as MANY females pregnant, in order to procreate and expand the species..........
bullshit......social engineering has created sex maniac's and the myth that having loads of girls is equated to being a real man.....it's not natural!
lol...guess what?...1st of all, Settle da FUCK down. 2nd.....guess what?....having loads of girls, DOSNT make a male...a "Real man". CORRECT. Although, males being promiscuous..IS "Natural", but for MALES..not HUMAN males. One of the characteristics of Humans, is that they arent and dont Act like or think like..Animals.
Eitherway, i dont even remember commenting on this video, and i dont know why you thought i said that, cuz its somethin i would never say lol..so..
i'm cool, it isn't natural to go around banging every single chick you can, That's Lust!!!! anyone who is going around looking to bang as many peeps as possible has issue's period!
there's someone for everyone, not everyone for someone..
Society is broken in case you hadn't noticed.....even most of the food isn't natural.......man has turned away from that which natural and embraces that which is unnatural to it's cost and mother earth's too as well as all other living things.
well Junebug, what u gotta realize...is this, a Promiscuous woman, is ALWAYS damaged (mentally and psychologically).....they are ALWAYS damaged or faulty, in SOME or in MULTIPLE ways, that then resulted in them Being promiscuous.......and there also ALSO damaged or faulty (mentally and psychologically)..AFTER being promiscuous........
A promiscuous man, and a promiscuous woman, are not the same. A MAN can do that and come out normal, a man can aspire to BE/DO that..and be normal, not a fmale
Hey junebug. its real cool that my comment motivated you to make a video. you get mad props from me, because listening to your videos, and hearing things from you perspective, opened my eyes to a lot of shit. so, keep teaching, teacher. school these fools.
Because of their "leberation" women do as they please. It doesn't matter if things are great at home or not. Men are always on the prowl for women. And try hard enough he'll have.wife. Most bm/bw never came from a 2 parent household. They've seen their Mom, Aunt, cousins date multiple men. And it was normal. There's at least infidelity in just about 90% of the black marriages I know
@101iamlegend, I'm glad you mentioned that documentary. I watched it last night. I had not seen it in years. It inspired me to do a video commentary about it. Thanks.
"She's been passed around like a joint." "Slept with the U.S Marine corp" .......Blank stare. I'm DONE. That's alot of people. But what else does she offer other than her sex? Is she educated, does she take care of her business? How is the relationship with her children? But nowadays most women are promiscuious. Not me, but it's prevailant in this society.
@tastynita510 LOL! Those were jokes. You must not have listened to the part at towards the end of the video at 10:00. I said as long as a man has a happy relationship and she's respectful and everything else he wants in a woman, then he should not worry so much about her sleeping with NFL.
Ii's wrong,if a man sleeps around he's a don juan,if a woman sleeps around she's a slut..You have to practice safe sex though.Keep on speaking the truth junebugobama.
dadamdada23, Most of my female subscribers have been "quiet as a church mouse" on this one, but I have seen so many real life examples of what I am speaking of that I know it's accurate. ...but THANK YOU for your response and yes, it would be nice to hear a woman's perspective on this if you have time to do a video. We would like to hear from you.
JunebugObama this was a great video for BOTH sides. Each life circumstance is different! We never know why people do the things that they do. I have 3 children with the 1st man I ever slept with and stayed out of "loyalty" and stupidity. I never wanted to be with another man or have children with anyone else. Well, fast forward years later I'm simply glad to have left that relationship and had the few experiences I have had. Now, I'm entering into a marriage & happy to have no more new partners!
Junebug, lots of people here are talking about the unfairness of double standards for men and women. I'd like to get your views on male promiscuity. How do women see it? Is it really different? Why don't you do a video on that?
that's because men can only offer themselves up as a partner and women chose who they sleep with. This means a man who sleeps with lots of women gets chosen by these women.
A woman who sleeps with lots of men just gives it up to lots of men, no effort involved.
calling it a double standard is like putting a pro-boxer in the ring with a disabled child and then calling it a double standard when the child gets congratulated for winning a round while the pro gets judged for beating a child.
Not everyone goes by that. It doesnt matter to me, male or female. Violated penis & violated vagina is the same to me. I'm sorry we dont think the same.
Yes it can. It probably wouldn't work for people that are impatient. Everyone should take time to know the person. Why was it after intimacy he found out? Its possible he could've found out before he caught up. Better earlier, than later right?
A woman's perspective. Being honest doesn't work because being honest is much easier than NOT being honest. As such, if honesty DID in fact work, honest men would get that girl they wanted and honest women would be in happy relationships. ERGO either people are naturally dishonest (making the concept of honesty a rarity) or people understand that honestly is only conditionally useful.
@shany9988 You're right...In these days, finding out information like this comes after the intimate encounter...Usually a woman wouldn't open herself up like that until she feels comfortable with you...
The problem is that CEO's have VERY high standards for their women, physically and mentally. These women who try to turn couch potatoes into CEO's, do not meet the standards of the CEO's, and their nagging of their partners stems from their personal frustration at not being able to attract the men they REALLY want. To be fair, the same could be said for men who date fat women and later nag them to lose weight.
I Agree with you...... AMEN ... Men who Nag at fat women are usually the ones who can't attract the ones they want such as a dyme who is a size 4. I feel as though it is best to have a RELATIONSHIP with someone who you really want... Be much happier and on top of your game keeping each other happy and satisfied.
Who's says you gotta "wife" her? You can just "be together". In some states, if you cohabitate for 25 years, you are married by law. Since the goal of most couples seems to be making it last "forever", then the ultimate test should be making it last 25 years until you're "legally" married. If it's lasts THAT long, then it's a safe bet that it's the real deal. No no fault divorce, and no worrying about her "past" coming back to haunt you since the last 25 years have been spent with you.
I feel you. For me it depends on what kind of "damage" we're talking about. Has she been traumatized and is acting out? Does she have a hatred for men and uses sex to get back at them? Does she have a disease? 5 baby dadies? All these things and more are reasonable considerations.
However, if it just boils down to me feeling grossed out by her past, even though she may have got it out of her system and is ready to settle down, I just remind myself that I was no angel. We all have some damage.
I know we're not angels, but damn man that's the devil right there...lol
What if you try and settle down with her, and she goes thru "Ho withdrawal" symptoms?? There's no thrill there man...Just think when you're beating it down, that's nothing because she's been with 150 dudes...FUCK THAT!!! If she has a bad past, that let me know to stay the fuck away from her...She's considered "damaged goods" in my eyes...It all boils down to the decisions you make can affect you for the rest of your life.
kambridge967, This must be some You Tube malfunction. I have not deleted a single text comment on this video.
I do recall leaving comments on other videos myself and coming back later to find they were gone. Sometimes it happens, but please continue to post. You are welcome to share your thoughts here and on ANY video that I create.
June let's face it most females you meet are not going to be virgins but it does matter about their backgrounds. If a female was a hooker, or a stripper, porn star, I have to say no I would not want to be with a person like this because she obviously has no morals and she might even have a disease so you have to protect yourself and especially if your planing on getting married also. Maybe she will change her ways but im not sticking around to find out though.
yes her past matters to me. I would rather be a single guy just being a player than a man with some ex wh.. as my wife. Ex. wh... are not wife material in my opinion. Stay being the jump off.
When I was 27 (31 now) I was dating a 19yo virgin. Like an idiot, I put her through 3 years of hell and eventually lost her to another guy. I really appreciated the fact that I was the only one.
marianasreality 1 month ago
There's a big difference between a chick having 5 partners and 100 partners.
marianasreality 1 month ago
I believe that men AND women need to judge potential mates on their sexual past. I've never understood why this has only pertained to men judging women. There are perhaps a lot of women out here who don't care about a man's sexual history, but I am NOT one of them. I want to know the quantity AND quality of women that a man I'm interested in has had sex with. If I feel that he has been with too many women, or if he has slept with hos/sluts, he is not a man I would choose to be involved with.
SetApartBeauty 1 month ago
Question is can you accept a hoe as a housewife????
donlon77 1 month ago
@donlon77 No. Never.
DoubleA9211 1 month ago
@MadStreetLouis 1 Corinthians 6:16 ....... good point!
enlightenedchild 2 months ago
does breaking virginity to an escort one time count as being a sexual past? should you tell her about this?
jjtiojohn12 5 months ago
@jjtiojohn12 It sure does and yes your partner deserves to know about it.
DeadSleepers 2 months ago
What place in America is that accent from???
moh459 6 months ago
@moh459 I am from the South (Georgia) but in America we can't always associate an accent with a particular state or city. There are people from all over the place living where I live and we sound different.
JunebugObama 6 months ago
@JunebugObama Thanks for the elaboration :-)
moh459 6 months ago
im a woman and i want to tell you that if she loves you she will never leave you
unless you cheat on her. But most women who sleep around don't want to be with one man. sex is an addiction and she might not stop trying on new men. save yourself before you get STD'S. take me as your sister and listen
29Essan 6 months ago
its like this...by the time you marry this person..they are burnt out..do you really want your kids to inherit that "legacy"...seriously....play hard...choose wise...
unique74muzik 6 months ago
esteem is a VERY big deal...the broad once told me and I quote..."I will f--k other dudes.." (major red flag...yet this same woman wanted me to marry her...) Oh ..I got some some stories...Btw, I LOVE freaks...but do know there is a cost factor...get a good girl to marry and carry..your own personal freak...I dont do sloppy seconds..
unique74muzik 6 months ago
you better find out. these days..it can cost you your life..CHOOSE WISELY..
unique74muzik 6 months ago
Hi. My name is Rebecca and I noticed ppl made comments saying very negative things about "former promiscuous women." I would like to say after I molested as a child, i was very promiscuous. I had low self esteem and I felt that I didn't deserve better. But I have turned my life around and i'm dating. Get to know someone before you judge them.
Beckyalisa101 6 months ago
turn a hoe into a house wife
shit there is no magic that powerful
TheSeven45 7 months ago 9
lmfao "she been passed around more than marijuana"
coraliscopuselaborat 8 months ago
guys that date and marry sluts are losers, period
Zac6230 8 months ago 14
@Zac6230 and guys who marry women with no sex drives are even bigger losers
lunarman29 5 months ago
@lunarman29 sorry, but sluts are way worse, would you pay full price for used underwear no, of course not, that my friend is an over prices slut
Zac6230 5 months ago
@Zac6230 Amen, brother! Sadly, we're running out of real ladies to choose from. They all got tatts, baby daddies, busted wombs, or all of the three.
donlon77 1 month ago
The only people who say a woman's sexual past doesn't matter are sluts and slut sympathizers, lol.
TheTruthBearer1 8 months ago 5
passed around? passed around? rofl! you make it sound like she was used, instead of wanting the sex. She had total control of all of that.
33melonpaws77 9 months ago
@XboxS360Dude1989 Virgin sex is terrible.
SazonDReyes 9 months ago
im not trying to end up with someone that has already been with everyone
boo843348 10 months ago 3
he axed you or asked you?
phish1085 11 months ago
The clinical term used for "sexual history" is actually sexual pattern....nuff said!
TheronOfRhodeIsland 11 months ago
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TheronOfRhodeIsland 11 months ago
those are simply excuses for women to cheat.when men cheat is it cause of some deep mental issue.i dont by in to that bullshit.we make too many excuses for women .in stead of calling it what it is.
326Ka 11 months ago 2
hell yeah sexuall past means a lot.it has a lot to do with if you'll respect her or not.im not marrying no hoe.
326Ka 11 months ago
insecure, small penis men are concerned about a woman's sexual past. if a man can be "passed around like a joint" then so can a woman.
blackpassenger 11 months ago
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robertjosephgreen 11 months ago
@robertjosephgreen not gonna argue with you, you dont sound very bright.
blackpassenger 11 months ago
@blackpassenger I am sorry for my previous outburst OK.I just have had bad experiences with black people in general.I am also above average in intelligence.
robertjosephgreen 11 months ago
@blackpassenger I don't know about you, but I sure as hell don't want a woman who has been railed by several other guys. If anything, those insecure men you speak of are the ones who are willing to take in those types of women because they feel that they cannot do better.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago 4
@DeadSleepers i dont know about you, but i prefer a woman with experience over a virgin anytime. here in japan, virgins are dime a dozen and they suck....... and they dont suck well. im confident that i could pleasure a woman better than her hundred previous partners.
blackpassenger 10 months ago
@blackpassenger You'd rather lay up with a woman who could even possibly have an STD due to her 100s of partners? Especially since we all know how deceptive people can be nowadays, thats really just asking for trouble. Not to mention its really not that hard to teach them.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
@DeadSleepers dude, STDs can be tested for. I'm not a teacher, too secure for that. you teach them, so they can come give me pleasure. I dont want a woman to come to bed with her books to study. I want her to come to bed with her tools, to work. I used to have the need to teach when i was young and insecure. those days are long gone. you should read my book: Black Passenger Yellow Cabs: A Memoir of Exile and Excess in Japan. google it.
blackpassenger 10 months ago
@blackpassenger Thanks for the link. I guess it just really comes down to preferences then.
DeadSleepers 10 months ago
all i know better watch out about these chicks they can get around far easier than a guy can aint nobody gonna turn down no pussy lol
zenith2070 1 year ago
It does depend how many men she has let inside between her legs and or mouth.That hoe might have sexual diseases and a whole bunch of kids she has not told you about.Its best to get a virgin in both hoes.loll. but in this time in age that is probable 1 in 50,000,000.
robertjosephgreen 1 year ago
fuck that, no woman will take my soul/pride thats a fact
thebomberman1967 1 year ago
I enjoy masturbating watching you're videos. Thanks !
pisihopat 1 year ago
Lastly there are those are evil to the core who are here to tempt and lead people astray and trip up those going along the right way.....FUCK THEM!!! soon come Judgement Day! that's all i've gotta say.....
One Love
velveteyes79 1 year ago
If people truly loved themselves then they would do the same to those around them..and if everyone loved themselves no one would get hurt...causing them to demean themselves in the myriad of ways they do all over the place, and so everyone would be in happy relationships with mrs or mr right.........the problem is man turned away from god and god is love, so therefore turned away from love and been scurrying in the darkness ever since.......some of the comments are very funny but it is no joke!
velveteyes79 1 year ago 2
cont *bigger person..
and instead talked them on a level about their issue's which are clearly the backbone of their current state of being, depending on the scenario, and if they are open to this ...be cautious with them too!
People only change if they wish too, you can only change yourself which can inspire others.....so if they don't wanna help themselves leave it....or they may change you....
The real problem is neither male nor female, it's love thang!
if people..........
velveteyes79 1 year ago
i've read all the comments and i have to say that, if your a man or a woman sleeping around isn't a good look and a major turn off to a cleaner person!
aid's and stuff are very real but the spiritual transfer is the most underlooked and unknown aspect to many out there...demonic obviously!
If you sleep with a whore knowing that person was/is before hand, shame on you for using her or him for your gratification.....you'd of been a bigger if you had rejected the offer/ resisted temptation..
If
velveteyes79 1 year ago
oh yea, and (just for Every1s bennefit) i MUST also add. About the causes, its SO many different causes/ origins, to WHORE'ness. Its some minor causes, that can easily be overcame (with proper guidance or help or therapy or even just advice). But then its other EXTREME causes, like..being RAPED, or being ABUSED (by a parent or someone) or because there a NYMPHO and NEED extreme amounts of sex. (which was Also caused by Other BAD / traumatic experiences.
Either way, You ASKIN for troubleLol
SurreallTV 1 year ago
(Pt 7)
...this list can go onnn and onnn and on lol.
I WILL say tho, some cases of "Whore'ness" (lol)...are simple, i mean...the things that first CAUSED it, are simple...and can easily be overcame. I met and even WIFED 1 before. But thats a kinda rare case.......so what imma say to yall cats, is....Usually, you ASKING for trouble. I cant even say "be careful", cuz thats not enough lol. Im tellin you...USUALLY...ur ASKING...for TROUBLE.
You'll deffinetly pay for it lol. Peace
SurreallTV 1 year ago
(Pt 6)
....so, that in itself..keeps most whores and "ex-whores"...from completely gettin away from behavin like a whore. (ofcourse some girls DO get over it, but deffinetly not Most).
Plus, besides that...you still gotta deal with those Psychological issues she got (the 1s that came 1st, the 1s that 1st CAUSED her to become a whore). Those intheir Selves, are Huge problems, that effect everything else.
Like..if its lack of morals, well thats gone translate into ALOTTA other problems.
SurreallTV 1 year ago
(Pt 5)
Example- A person (unknowingly) has the Flu. Now, the things their experiencing are, Headcache (which is only a Symptom OF the flue). If you go and try to get Headache meds, that MIGHT get rid of that headache, for NOW or temporarily. But it will KEEP comming back..cuz you never fixed the ACTUAL underlying problem (that Flu). Get it?
So that translates into da WHORE situation.
Plus...
SurreallTV 1 year ago
(Pt 4)
...SO, with THAT being said, a woman (OR a man, but especially a woman, in this case), can NOT just STOP bein promiscuous and "Whore-like", at the drop of a dime, and cant do it suddenly, just cuz she happens to now WANT to. Dont work that way and DEFFINETLY not that simple lol.
You have to 1st DISCOVER and then 2nd..TREAT or deal with, the UNDERLYING PROBLEMS.....to then stop that Behavior that came After it.
And we all know, usually...THAT^^ is almost never done.
SurreallTV 1 year ago
@2pacndr
love your comments!
velveteyes79 1 year ago
(Pt 3)
...i say that to say this, THAT includes....."Sexual past"...and Number of Sexual partners. A person (ESPECIALLY a woman, because its KNOWN to be a Bad thing if female is Promiscuous and has/ had..alot of partners)....a Person (Especially a female), will NOT have ALOT of sex partners, with NO reason behind it. Its ALWAYS a deeper (and VERY BAD) reason behind it, that MADE her..or LEAD HER..to then have ALOT of sex partners and be promiscuous (as a result of those deeper problems)...
SurreallTV 1 year ago
(Pt 2)
Antecedant (or anticedant), BASICALLY means...the Cause or origin, of a particular behavior. And attached to that word, is the understanding that, EVERY..SINGLE..behavior, has an "Antecedant". NO behavior is without an Antecedant...(OR..Cause / origin).
I say that to say This, NOTHING that a person does, just Magically and RANDOMLY, pops up out of NOWHERE. NOTHING, that dosnt exist. If you see a person doing something, theres reasons behind it.....so i say that to say This..
SurreallTV 1 year ago
oh now i see what video this is "Does a females sexual past matter". Well i dont rememeber what was said in this video and i dont got the time to watch/ listen. But i'll say this. From a PROFFESIONAL in the mental health field, and just some1 who is naturally a student of Humans and their behavior (me). Sexual past DOES matter (for men AND women, but ESPECIALLY women). I want everyone to look up this word. "Anticedant".
That basically means....
SurreallTV 1 year ago
I do not agree with you on this one JuneBug. A woman with history is hard to trust. Unhealty sexual habits are hard to getrid off. I have a serious doubt that having mltiple sex would be running in her blood stream.
A really really good boy
ArealyGoodBoy 1 year ago
I also have to agree that men have the right to ask about a woman's sexual past because honestly who want a over-used car like the old saying goes"If a key opens lots of locks then it's a master lock,But if a lock is opened by lots of keys,then it's a shitty lock"
JassyBelle20 1 year ago
Good video!I will also like to conclude that some women become promiscious because they didn't grow up with a father figure or wasn't taught any morals or values as a child.Sometimes bad parenting has a lot to do with this.
JassyBelle20 1 year ago
Its no double standarts. Men and women are viewed different. Men judge women on their looks, youth. With that said who wants a woman everybody ran through? Women judge men on their status and power.
smoking1212 1 year ago
Well he ask her and she did not lie to him. it would be different if she lied to him about her past. she told the truth that should count for something.
opusx300 1 year ago
Preach brother preach tell it like it is I argee with what u are saying
1010winsthetruth 1 year ago
You make very informative videos. I am enjoying your channel.
Hollyweirdrevealed 1 year ago
@Hollyweirdrevealed Thank you...as it turns out, I want to hear more about "Hollyweird" so I have been enjoying your channel also.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
I love that analogy you can't turn a couch potato into a CEO. I was that kind of a woman that did what she did because of the low self esteem and just wanting to be loved and accepted. Every time I have been in a relationship though I have been as loyal as they come. Like with my boyfriend now I never even flirt with other guys nor do I want to. Men don't need to worry about a woman's past. When a woman loves a man he is the best she ever had... That's my experience.
thedanizblog 1 year ago
Sexual orientation and sexual history does matter. Some people sleep around alot and they may not be content with someone who doesn't have alot of experience. What about the man's sexual history.
mindyourbizok 1 year ago
I very much enjoy watching / listening to a point of view that is not only direct and sensible, but initiates some degree of introspection. I guess that what it all comes down to - on whatever level you're at in getting to know someone - is taking the time in getting to know that person. In addition to being completely honest to what you can or cannot handle.
Khrys32 1 year ago
@sinister21xxx Yes, the same thing applies.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Would you be with a chick that did bukkake vids in the past?How about a chick that gave up neck to the entire football team and the Drumline? Now I don't expect a chick to be pure as the driven snow but I absolutely refuse locking down a whore due to principals.
AnbusKi 1 year ago
I'd say it depends on what you want and expect from the relationship; if you're looking for a stable, monogamous relationship, then you're very unlikely to get that from a promiscuous person, male or female. Before you fall in love with anyone, get a handle on who they really are. Keep some emotional reserve, even if you want to fall for the person immediately; see if what's really on offer from the relationship is what you actually want.
JCLeSinge 1 year ago
quite frankly i dont want to sound like a douche but my girlfriend, who im deeeeply in love with has had like experience with one other dude, it makes me sad ahha. cause like, he didnt like her for her, he liked her for her looks, he got to not use a condom, i have to use one every time :P, ironic aye?
hahamikey3 1 year ago
I think it does matter. No man wants a woman who has a history of sleeping around especially if these men were low quality loser dudes.
BruhMan09 1 year ago
I don't care if it was her teens a h.. is a h.. and not wife material.
nosimpin1 1 year ago
AMEN
darealboogs59 1 year ago
I think it matters because imagine if she slept with a friend of even a family member in the past and she doesn't tell you how would that make you look?
uiwi 1 year ago
wow...you're quite sensible. It seems like you understand women a lot better than most men I know, or maybe just human psychology in general.
GataAgressiva411 1 year ago 2
@GataAgressiva411 Thank you. In case you were not aware I feel the same about you and I watched several of your videos before you removed them. I look forward to whatever website or creative project you do in the future.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Thank you, I appreciate it : )
GataAgressiva411 1 year ago
@JunebugObama the real reason why an ex-hoe or slut wants to finally settle down with a "nice guy" is because she's finally done having fun being a whore or party slut. the main reason these women want to "settle down" is because they realize, they are not getting younger, their looks are fading away, their market value is declining, so they become desperate to attach themselves to some poor nice guy, who's willing to play the role of "CAPTAIN SAVE A-HOE". please listen to "TOM LEYKIS".
sasquatch13ja 11 months ago 4
@sasquatch13ja Finally someone else who knows of Tom Leykis.
RebirthOfPhoneix 2 weeks ago
@JunebugObama i'm sorry man, but i can't be in a serious relationship with a woman who's had sex with over 1000 different men. i don't want to be the guy she chooses after she's decided to stop being a whore. like TOM LEYKIS always says, don't be "POINTDEXTER", don't be the guy who's responsible, reliable, dependable, emotionally available, raising her children, paying her bills; in other words, don't be CAPTAIN SAVE A-HOE. as a potential wife, an ex-hoe has the same value as the VCR, NONE!
sasquatch13ja 11 months ago 5
@GataAgressiva411
Back in the OLDEN DAYS they called it "Mothers Witt"
nolanj23 1 year ago
Grade A video homie . 1st off everytime i hear man of my heritage speak on a controversial topic in a manner in which you spoke on this I smile. you not only handle this topic but yourself very well ..Women the truth hurts but instead of turning a deaf ear to the truth UNDERSTAND your truth listen to what was said and do not turn how u feel about what u hear into your truth(if u can understand that i really believe this) thanks homie again for the video
ieatb 1 year ago
@ieatb I appreciate the positive feedback, bro. I did the video because a lot of younger guys need to know what is going on so they can make better decisions. Some of these women can destroy a decent man.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 7
The man needs to look at the age that the woman was sleeping around. If the woman was being promisious in her teens there is no reason why she shouldnt be taken seriously. Teenagers do stupid things sometimes. Now if a woman is 30 years old and sleeping with every Tom, Dick and Harry then those are the woman that men should be careful about, because there are more then likely some underline issues.
tabithaclax2010 1 year ago
@tabithaclax2010 This is true. People just need to be honest. Personally, I'd rather be promiscuous now in my youth. So, when I meet a woman who's promiscuous (later in life), our pasts won't bother us because we can relate to each other. Been there done that, now its me and you in the present.
bedllama 1 year ago
your a great person jbo
justabuddy4 1 year ago
Don't ever ask your other half how many people they have slept with, trust me you don't want to know.
manweller1 1 year ago 3
So true. Sexual past ain't a problem if it remains the past. Things do get unsettling when her past flings start popping up out the blue. You speak the truth, I'm a fan now.
Dokimon 1 year ago 4
This was all very interesting. Me personally, I don't want a girl who's "been around".... btw how you were talking about a girl who's been around was hilarious ..."then she got in a space ship..." LOL. But yea, since I'm so experience (sarcasm) I know I would be bothered thinking of my woman having been with other men. I'm a hopeless romantic tho, I'm too idealistic about these things.
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SeliendaSmiles 1 year ago
suppose she acts like she is all a good girl but you find out from couple of your fellas that when she was a freshman in college she was freaking to all kinds of dudes? Not only that she puts up a wall as if you need to work hard to get her when you already got the scope on who she is?
djslyfox 1 year ago
At least the girl was honest ...she could have lied and put up 3 fingers (i get so sick of seeing those 3 fingers !!!!!!! B.S.
DRUNKENRAMBLE 1 year ago
My thing is the past is always a good indicator of the future. Old habits die hard. People are always at their best behavior in the beginning. But it dont take much for a person to revert back to their real selves.
LawlessLaw 1 year ago 23
Great commentary and video sir! It is better to leave those things in the past because we will never truly know what our particular significant other has done in his/her past. I wouldn't want to know honestly because if I found out she was a whore in her past I'm gone. NO if ands or but's about it sir, peace be upon you!
justalittlebiased 1 year ago
Once a hoe, always a hoe. Maybe I'm being unfair and haven't lived long enough to say that.
HybridD91 1 year ago 16
@HybridD91 People change!
JMoniqueLuvsMusiq93 10 months ago
probably was some hatin ass dude that might've wanted to take her from him. You gotta be mindful of who you listen to, not everyone is out for your best interest. If she's no longer acting like that and he's not sleeping around either, then a fresh start is possible. I agree with Mike2frsh. Promiscuity isn't cute in any form. Virgins are rare and it's hypocritical for men to even look for one if they've bedded a lot of women in their own past. If the past is indeed that, I think it doesnt
AdorzAaliyahSince94 1 year ago 5
Okay here is my thing. Hetereosexual men sleep around. Who are they sleeping with....WOMEN. Some men kill me. "I don't want a woman that sleeps around," But they are hoes themselves. Its disgusting. Some men want a freak and an innocent all at the same time. I hate to tell you but she doesn't exist. And for a lot of you guys if a women sleeps with one guy its too much.
foxyladi23 1 year ago 3
@foxyladi23
Hey, Just like women looking for a Lil Wayne who has a degree and a Doctor with swag does not exist... So women and men are unrealistic when it comes to looking for a person..
coolnate78 1 year ago
@coolnate78
LOL. First no real WOMAN is looking for a Lil Wayne with a degree or a Doctor with swag. Only little girls (regardless of the age) are looking for those types of things. Real men and women know the deal. When people are looking for unrealistic things it obviously because they are unhappy with themselves. My point was if a woman is a hoe for sleeping around then so is a man. Point. Blank. Period.
foxyladi23 1 year ago 4
@foxyladi23
Hey I want a FREAK...... See if a man gets a women who is like Jada Fire in bedroom, yeah he might cheat but it might be less likely.... What do you think Foxy?
coolnate78 1 year ago
@coolnate78
Depends on the man I think. A freak normally has a very sexual past. So I think a lot of men would want to sleep with her. But I don't know about the "long" term. They might feel like she is a hoe. But men and women cheat because they can. Most of the time it has nothing to do with their partner not having great sex. They like the thrill of sneaking around and the potential of getting caught. That is what makes them hot.
foxyladi23 1 year ago
Well it all varies depending what she did and are you ready to deal with it all of those guys she been with might coming back don't judge her if she says she changed for the better and is dedicated to being a better person
mike2frsh 1 year ago
well...i started writtin a response....i already sent 2 parts of it...but i come back and see they aint there......so i dunno if they went thru or not.....
SurreallTV 1 year ago
Part 2..........
You see, as You already know, its NORMAL for a man to aspire to be promiscuous, and he'll come out of it normal.....because a man is Literally Wired to BE promiscious, as you know....a man was wired, Psychologically AND even PHYSICALLY, to be promoscuous...in order for him to get as MANY females pregnant, in order to procreate and expand the species..........
(continued).........
SurreallTV 1 year ago
@SurreallTV
bullshit......social engineering has created sex maniac's and the myth that having loads of girls is equated to being a real man.....it's not natural!
velveteyes79 1 year ago
@velveteyes79
lol...guess what?...1st of all, Settle da FUCK down. 2nd.....guess what?....having loads of girls, DOSNT make a male...a "Real man". CORRECT. Although, males being promiscuous..IS "Natural", but for MALES..not HUMAN males. One of the characteristics of Humans, is that they arent and dont Act like or think like..Animals.
Eitherway, i dont even remember commenting on this video, and i dont know why you thought i said that, cuz its somethin i would never say lol..so..
SurreallTV 1 year ago
@SurreallTV
i'm cool, it isn't natural to go around banging every single chick you can, That's Lust!!!! anyone who is going around looking to bang as many peeps as possible has issue's period!
there's someone for everyone, not everyone for someone..
Society is broken in case you hadn't noticed.....even most of the food isn't natural.......man has turned away from that which natural and embraces that which is unnatural to it's cost and mother earth's too as well as all other living things.
velveteyes79 1 year ago
well Junebug, what u gotta realize...is this, a Promiscuous woman, is ALWAYS damaged (mentally and psychologically).....they are ALWAYS damaged or faulty, in SOME or in MULTIPLE ways, that then resulted in them Being promiscuous.......and there also ALSO damaged or faulty (mentally and psychologically)..AFTER being promiscuous........
A promiscuous man, and a promiscuous woman, are not the same. A MAN can do that and come out normal, a man can aspire to BE/DO that..and be normal, not a fmale
SurreallTV 1 year ago
Hey junebug. its real cool that my comment motivated you to make a video. you get mad props from me, because listening to your videos, and hearing things from you perspective, opened my eyes to a lot of shit. so, keep teaching, teacher. school these fools.
101iamlegend 1 year ago
IMO you'd be prettyfoolish to try and make a woman with a past like that into a wife....
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago 2
@JunebugObama
Because of their "leberation" women do as they please. It doesn't matter if things are great at home or not. Men are always on the prowl for women. And try hard enough he'll have.wife. Most bm/bw never came from a 2 parent household. They've seen their Mom, Aunt, cousins date multiple men. And it was normal. There's at least infidelity in just about 90% of the black marriages I know
lemmieatit 2 years ago
Im just clowning big homey. but you do kinda sound like dude.
101iamlegend 2 years ago
@101iamlegend, I'm glad you mentioned that documentary. I watched it last night. I had not seen it in years. It inspired me to do a video commentary about it. Thanks.
JunebugObama 2 years ago 2
Hey junebug. are you the same guy who does the voiceover for that HBO documetary, "hookers at the point", and "pimps up/ hoes down"?
101iamlegend 2 years ago 2
@101iamlegend, No, that's not me.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
@101iamlegend I'm not the voice over guy...I was one of the pimps in the documentary. LOL! Just kidding.
JunebugObama 2 years ago 3
"She's been passed around like a joint." "Slept with the U.S Marine corp" .......Blank stare. I'm DONE. That's alot of people. But what else does she offer other than her sex? Is she educated, does she take care of her business? How is the relationship with her children? But nowadays most women are promiscuious. Not me, but it's prevailant in this society.
tastynita510 2 years ago
@tastynita510 LOL! Those were jokes. You must not have listened to the part at towards the end of the video at 10:00. I said as long as a man has a happy relationship and she's respectful and everything else he wants in a woman, then he should not worry so much about her sleeping with NFL.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
Ii's wrong,if a man sleeps around he's a don juan,if a woman sleeps around she's a slut..You have to practice safe sex though.Keep on speaking the truth junebugobama.
bigdaddy45able 2 years ago
wow! love tha vid u made some excellent points! 1000%agree! i may make a response not sure yet but whoa. u touched down on it brotha. excellent!
dadamdada23 2 years ago
dadamdada23, Most of my female subscribers have been "quiet as a church mouse" on this one, but I have seen so many real life examples of what I am speaking of that I know it's accurate. ...but THANK YOU for your response and yes, it would be nice to hear a woman's perspective on this if you have time to do a video. We would like to hear from you.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
lol i wouldn't messed with a chick that was that use ITS CALLED ( HIT IT AND QUIT IT) FIND A GIRL THATS ALREADY WHAT YOU WANT
Rahhhsajp19 2 years ago 2
So true!!!
reignsupreme 2 years ago 2
JunebugObama this was a great video for BOTH sides. Each life circumstance is different! We never know why people do the things that they do. I have 3 children with the 1st man I ever slept with and stayed out of "loyalty" and stupidity. I never wanted to be with another man or have children with anyone else. Well, fast forward years later I'm simply glad to have left that relationship and had the few experiences I have had. Now, I'm entering into a marriage & happy to have no more new partners!
SPARKWISDOM 2 years ago
Thank you and all the best to you in your new marriage.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
Junebug, lots of people here are talking about the unfairness of double standards for men and women. I'd like to get your views on male promiscuity. How do women see it? Is it really different? Why don't you do a video on that?
timothyprawnstar 2 years ago
Not a bad idea. It would make a good discussion topic.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
I also dont like the double standard. I'm not justifying women sleeping around, but men dont get judged the same way if they had a past....
shany9988 2 years ago
that's because men can only offer themselves up as a partner and women chose who they sleep with. This means a man who sleeps with lots of women gets chosen by these women.
A woman who sleeps with lots of men just gives it up to lots of men, no effort involved.
calling it a double standard is like putting a pro-boxer in the ring with a disabled child and then calling it a double standard when the child gets congratulated for winning a round while the pro gets judged for beating a child.
delonewolf 2 years ago 39
Not everyone goes by that. It doesnt matter to me, male or female. Violated penis & violated vagina is the same to me. I'm sorry we dont think the same.
shany9988 2 years ago 3
@delonewolf you're right!
ShinIsTrue 1 year ago
Life ain't fair. Think about all the unfair advantanges women have over men. Too many to list.
reignsupreme 2 years ago
Hmmm. I just think everyone should be honest before starting a relationship. Be honest about everything.
shany9988 2 years ago 22
That doesn't work.
Mathman1ac 2 years ago
Yes it can. It probably wouldn't work for people that are impatient. Everyone should take time to know the person. Why was it after intimacy he found out? Its possible he could've found out before he caught up. Better earlier, than later right?
shany9988 2 years ago
A woman's perspective. Being honest doesn't work because being honest is much easier than NOT being honest. As such, if honesty DID in fact work, honest men would get that girl they wanted and honest women would be in happy relationships. ERGO either people are naturally dishonest (making the concept of honesty a rarity) or people understand that honestly is only conditionally useful.
Mathman1ac 2 years ago 4
@shany9988 You're right...In these days, finding out information like this comes after the intimate encounter...Usually a woman wouldn't open herself up like that until she feels comfortable with you...
keepthapinit 2 years ago
The problem is that CEO's have VERY high standards for their women, physically and mentally. These women who try to turn couch potatoes into CEO's, do not meet the standards of the CEO's, and their nagging of their partners stems from their personal frustration at not being able to attract the men they REALLY want. To be fair, the same could be said for men who date fat women and later nag them to lose weight.
laughingstalk 2 years ago 3
@laughingstalk
I Agree with you...... AMEN ... Men who Nag at fat women are usually the ones who can't attract the ones they want such as a dyme who is a size 4. I feel as though it is best to have a RELATIONSHIP with someone who you really want... Be much happier and on top of your game keeping each other happy and satisfied.
coolnate78 1 year ago
@2pacndr *Dead @ you can spot a ho from outer space*....lol Damn you're good man!!! I'm farsighted when it comes to spotting one...lololol
keepthapinit 2 years ago
Damn that's deep!!! I never thought of it like that...I like the way you put it....
keepthapinit 2 years ago
In the words of Chris Rock:
"Just be happy you're fucking her now!"
qmulus1 2 years ago
@qmulus1
That's a funny ass quote, but what if you see potential "wifey" with her??? Then what?
keepthapinit 2 years ago
Who's says you gotta "wife" her? You can just "be together". In some states, if you cohabitate for 25 years, you are married by law. Since the goal of most couples seems to be making it last "forever", then the ultimate test should be making it last 25 years until you're "legally" married. If it's lasts THAT long, then it's a safe bet that it's the real deal. No no fault divorce, and no worrying about her "past" coming back to haunt you since the last 25 years have been spent with you.
qmulus1 2 years ago 3
@qmulus1
good point
HatmanTV 2 years ago
I know about common law marriage...My thing is, why deal with it when you can get with someone with less damage...
keepthapinit 2 years ago 3
I feel you. For me it depends on what kind of "damage" we're talking about. Has she been traumatized and is acting out? Does she have a hatred for men and uses sex to get back at them? Does she have a disease? 5 baby dadies? All these things and more are reasonable considerations.
However, if it just boils down to me feeling grossed out by her past, even though she may have got it out of her system and is ready to settle down, I just remind myself that I was no angel. We all have some damage.
qmulus1 2 years ago
I know we're not angels, but damn man that's the devil right there...lol
What if you try and settle down with her, and she goes thru "Ho withdrawal" symptoms?? There's no thrill there man...Just think when you're beating it down, that's nothing because she's been with 150 dudes...FUCK THAT!!! If she has a bad past, that let me know to stay the fuck away from her...She's considered "damaged goods" in my eyes...It all boils down to the decisions you make can affect you for the rest of your life.
keepthapinit 2 years ago 4
"Ho withdrawal"?
LMAO!
qmulus1 2 years ago 4
@keepthapinit "Hoe Withdrawal"...lol, i'm adding that to the list.
Seriously though, that shit does happen
LawlessLaw 1 year ago
@keepthapinit
TRUE
coolnate78 1 year ago
im getting pissed i write comments and they are missing.
kambridge967 2 years ago
kambridge967, This must be some You Tube malfunction. I have not deleted a single text comment on this video.
I do recall leaving comments on other videos myself and coming back later to find they were gone. Sometimes it happens, but please continue to post. You are welcome to share your thoughts here and on ANY video that I create.
JunebugObama 2 years ago
I appreciate your reply. If my comments dont come back i will just re write them over again. peace!
kambridge967 2 years ago
Comment removed
keepthapinit 2 years ago
u didnt send me a comment.
kambridge967 2 years ago
@kambridge967 Man I know the way they did this shit is all fucked up now...I don't remember what I said to you...My bad man
keepthapinit 2 years ago
June let's face it most females you meet are not going to be virgins but it does matter about their backgrounds. If a female was a hooker, or a stripper, porn star, I have to say no I would not want to be with a person like this because she obviously has no morals and she might even have a disease so you have to protect yourself and especially if your planing on getting married also. Maybe she will change her ways but im not sticking around to find out though.
MegaZeitgeist 2 years ago 2
if a woman has been with 20 men she is she a slut?
raymondleeleggs 2 years ago
in my opinion its a lot lower than that.
nosimpin1 2 years ago 6
hmmmmmmm i love this sick world
JETBLADER 2 years ago
LMAO! Junebug is a funny man. I think if the woman got around that much, she is just good for a booty call/friends with benefits, and that's it!!!
johneblaze82 2 years ago 3
yes her past matters to me. I would rather be a single guy just being a player than a man with some ex wh.. as my wife. Ex. wh... are not wife material in my opinion. Stay being the jump off.
nosimpin1 2 years ago 8