The Keys to a Successful Marriage - Samir Abu Hamza

[ummkoko]

this brother is excellent mashaa Allah. people are laughing, not out of disrespect but because he is sooo funny mashaa Allah ! im a sister and i found it very funny!

[asha2828]

manshaallaah that is a great advise

[UmmahIslam1]

THANKS SHEIKH

May Allah have mercy on us all and forgive our Sins....

[saddiqs06]

Allah be with you and woman go for a good guy not money

and guys go for a woman with strong islam thats the bueaty inside

and outside not just looks bc if u do ur life will be hard

[tehsingikian]

ALLAH BLESS U and all muslims.may ALLah give us power to understand islam.

[Abumosad]

Abu Hamza has spoken very true words.

[mjahdh]

The lecture is good but I was many times disgusted by the laughter in the background when he is talking about serious things. What is funny about looking at other women in the presence of your wife? Who is this audience, have these people no culture???

[Islamisourwayoflife]

Mashallah

Sheikh Hamza

may Allah(swt) reward you in the hereafter inshallah ameen

[Misskhalif2009]

mashallah

[seihaan]

MashaAllah May Allah reward you and grant you jannah

[salmamaniza]

excellent job Brother hamzah allah has made it easy for you

muslims are muslims and those 'muslim' opposing you are maybe hypocrities. did they verify the information

NO

[hudfadz]

abu hamza has made a response dvd to the media, it will be on here soon, thank you media for opening peoples minds and investigating which is leading non muslims to see the truth and many people reverting to islam, you murdoch zionist evil media your lies back fired on you

[sacdiya28]

allah bless you, alla akbar

[sacdiya28]

masha allah

[sacdiya28]

ALLAH BLESS YOU BROTHER.

[IslamGuideCom]

Really?

[alitaha81]

What the media didn't realise is that thousands of people were going to watch this video. Many of those people non-muslims. What great exposure it has been for Islam. People watched this and heard Abu Hamza's words in full, UNEDITED!!!

To the Herald Sun and other media publications... thanks for putting a good side of Islam on your front page. True Islam is always good.

Samir Abu Hamza, you are a leader in the Aust Islamic community. We support you always. May Allah bless you.

[sakeena09]

and what is your source for that 'information'

[mymanangment]

ibne

[majedel]

i think every should visit iisna to see the truth that is there website

[sakeena09]

who are you talking to angela???

[sakeena09]

oookkayyyy.....

a fine example of blind hatred

[salkas47]

unfortunately in war innocent people are harmed.. thats just the nature of any war.. but there's a difference when the innocent are intentionally targeted as the jews do and when its in accident.. the number of civillian casualties by israeli forces is testemant to there disregard for the innocent.. they kill without discrimination.. women children young old they dont care.. and the majority of western society backs there cause .. every palestinian has the right to defend and fight for his land

[heartbombxx]

lol this is getting confusing...all the youtube comments are being posted as new :S not replies to particular comments.

[salkas47]

watch the video 'what is the purpose of life'by Khaled Yasin. im sure you'll benifit form it

[salkas47]

The media is run by the Zionist Jews.. Rupert Murdoch And his pack of dog journalists. i dont see the media reporting on the JEWS unlawful killings in palestine and lebanon, torture and ill-treatment, destruction of homes, blocking of ambulances, denial of humanitarian assistance, the use of palestinian civilians as human shields all which has been noted by the UNITED NATIONS as war crimes. for some reason this is okay in society. Br Hamza talks the truth and like a pack of dogs the media atack

[hudfadz]

i dare kevin rudd to condone the massacre in gaza and tell people how cruel the terror and torture the israeli army did and killed over 400 hundren children in gaza, lets see kevin rudd say something if he is so stressed over human rights.

[hudfadz]

ide realy love to see KEVIN RUDD condone the massacre in gaza if he is so into the human rights thing! isntead he asks for a apoligy.

[woteverrr]

Something u don't realsie is how can Muslims go back to their 'own' country? I'm an AUSTRALIAN Muslim. There's no such thing as being brainwashed, everyone has their own brain and uses it to think however they like& Muslims choose to live& think a proper and pure way taught by God. what things do u think we believe in are negative? Name 1 & i'll be sure to change your mind. What u think is brainwashing us is simply teaching us how to live our lives, so that we know where we're headed after death

[woteverrr]

We are just as Aussie as any other person in Aus so no matter what our beliefs are we are always welcome & deserving to be apart of this country & fact of the matter is our beliefs are not supportive of dejected behaviour no matter what you think.

[woteverrr]

I'm an Aussie & happy to be one, I abide by Australian laws and honour true Aussie values, but at the same time i support & believe in what this lecture preaches & if you actually listen and understand the lecture rather than the corrupt newspapers/news you see that Abu Hamza has said nothing wrong.

[woteverrr]

Do you really care what Samir Abu Hamza is saying in the newspapers, because for your information what he is saing in the newspapers aren't his sayings at all, the words have been played with and taken out of context by the media. Maybe you should open your ears and listen and understand this lecture and you will come to realise what Abu Hamza is really saying and you will even pick up on what has been taken out of context. He repeatedly quotes the Prophet and uses references to back his words.

[abuafnaan]

They desire to put off the light of Islam with their false hood & evil deceiving propaganda, however no one can extinguish the light of Islam because it is protected by god him self, its his final message to mankind.

There could never be enough darkness in the world to extinguish the light of Islam.

[BannedUfos]

This was posted 7 months ago, why's this only getting attention now?

I think the media's trying to whip up a firestorm.

[salkas47]

how can you comment on a religion you know nothing about ? it amazes me ! do yourself a favour and read the Holy Quran, who knows , you might convert to one of us muslims from the dark ages !

[salkas47]

live without a purpose in life ? live without no beliefs ? live to attain materialistic things ? in other words live to worship the dollar ! dont think so mate... remember you were created from nothing ! without your will ! your heart beats without your will ! and you will die without your will ! God Exists ! its rather you who needs to prove otherwise

[sakeena09]

You need to seperate religion from its followers. That would do you a lot of good. I know that if I didn't live my life by Islam I'd be spreading a lot of corruption without fearing anything. We don't need to see Allah to believe in Him, that's the test - but there are countless signs and proof that point to the existence of a God.

[salkas47]

your wrong again mate ! go do a bit of research ! just a bit about the basics of islam and only then you might get a bit of knowledge and you wont be posting ignorant comments on here

[salkas47]

goodnight everyone.. remember that islam does not need you ! rather it is you who needs islam ! islam is the light !

[salkas47]

without us you'd have no kebabs ! only meat pies for dinner every night !

[salkas47]

true.

[salkas47]

However, if it can be proven that a valid marriage had never taken place, then an annulment is obtained. Remarriage is often allowed after an annulment

[salkas47]

Divorce is impossible unless the marriage can be proven to have never existed -- described below. (Roman Catholic)

Divorce is OK in cases of marriage breakdown; remarriage is OK. Religious liberal and secular view.

This essay describes the fifth position: the Roman Catholic believes that the Bible does not allow divorce on any grounds. Valid marriages are indissoluble.

[salkas47]

The main positions are:

Neither divorce nor remarriage are allowed. (Conservative Protestant view)

Divorce is OK, but not remarriage. (Ditto)

Divorce is OK in cases of adultery or desertion; remarriage is OK. (Ditto)

Divorce is OK for many reasons; remarriage is OK. (Ditto)

[sakeena09]

there was a detailed talk delivered by Abu Hamza about sexual intimacy between husband and wife. From that talk he taught that the husband is meant to consider his wife's sexual needs carefully and fulfill her sexual desires also. It's not a one way street. He also quoted a hadith of Prophet Muhammad which said to the affect "men shouldn't go onto their wives like wild animals"

[salkas47]

what are you referring to RAT ? islam gave women the rights of divorce 1500 years ago. catholocism doesnt even allow divorce !

[sakeena09]

well the scholars of Islam have explained the way to beat your wife and Abu Hamza repeated it, it is the last resort in the conflict. Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said that "the best of you are those who are best to their wives"

[salkas47]

what are you talking about ? It is islam that gave women rights 1500 years ago when thay had none, it is islam that gave gave the black man rights 1500 years ago, when did this happen in western society ? 30 -40 years ago ? you peaple are ignorant , like a buch of sheep ! what ever the media says you follow with no minds of your own ! do some research before commenting and attacking islam. its really not that hard !

[hudfadz]

islam = the most pure and healthy teachings ever. people in the west wont see this, but they dont show on the news child abuse in aussie communitys, wife abuse by drunken men, rapes, preists abusing young boys, etc etc they want to show how in islam a man BEATS his wife by tapping her with A TOOTH BRUSH! trust me there is much more to worry about in australia today! domestic abuse is a epidemic, child abuse is a epidemic, prostitution is a epidemic, drugs, rape, incest, this man talks truth.

[cammo30130]

I must admit HUDFADZ, you have made some good points there but you forget one thing, this is a free country and always will be. If you dont like our way of life here in australia then you have the right to leave. But if you want too stay then you need to watch the australia day commercial on T.V. about aust. lamb

cheers

[sakeena09]

you are the rudest, most ignorant person replying here. Your comment before was so offensive and rude and now you expect me to take your suggestions seriously?

[sakeena09]

do u like it when they generalise Muslims? don't dish it out then..

[salkas47]

Islam is backed by statistical fact.. in countries where is law applies, it has the lowest crime rate, lowest rape rate ! more so then the so called free western society

[sakeena09]

have u watched the video? have you read about islamic beliefs from islamic sources?? what are you basing your opinion on?

[sakeena09]

O people!!! Rather than continuously replying , WATCH THE VIDEO. IT'S THERE JUST PRESS PLAY!!! WATCH IT FOR YOURSELF!!!

[sakeena09]

this is what the Qur'an says: O you who believe! If a fasiq comes to you with any news, verify it, lest you should harm the people in ignorance, and afterwards you become regretful for what you have done. [49:6]

[salkas47]

the herald sun is run by a bunch of Zionist Pigs with a hidden agenda...

[salkas47]

hopefully this country becomes an Islamic state under islamic rule, only then will you find that it will have the lowest percentage of Rape, Murder, Theft, etc.... islam is the solution

[sakeena09]

why are you sitting here replying to my posts if yuo think I'm a primitive, whatever whatever whatever whatever. You're a complete idiot.

[sakeena09]

I understand Vox, and I appreciate your polite post. But I implore you to research about Islam and research these issues to see the truth for yourself. I want you to know that Abu Hamza didn't condone rape but I fail to understand why no-one is watching the video when it is available for all to see. If you watch it with an open mind you will know that he never condoned rape - he questioned the concept of rape within marriage.

[jeffph2003]

I knw nuthin of muslim and im sure there is a good side to it somwhere,but in sayin that it is quiet an extreme polluted religion and masked with illusions anything that degrades,violates or attacks another fellow human being should be disgarded as a religion totally, and seen as a mentally disturbed society.

[sakeena09]

I knw nuthin of muslim

then why are you talking? Why don't you research first before you make preconceived opinions that Islam is 'an extreme polluted religion"

[sakeena09]

show me where he said u can insult women. This man is my teacher, last year he worked at my school and my friends and I always would approach him with our issues. He was always so gentle with us and kind!!!

[ausmuslim]

Real intelligent answer mate...just what I expected. Is this what a 'good Aussie' is to you?

[ausmuslim]

Tell me where did he say you can insult women? I don't think you really listened correctly...he spent most of the lecture talking about how to treat women kindly.

[ausmuslim]

People like you make me sick. Especially the ones who themselves have more of an ethnic background than me, who are so cowardly, they can't even say something to my face, but yell abuse when driving past, or tell me to 'go home' when they walk past me. But when I respond and they can clearly hear that I am Aussie, they run and hide. Talk about a polluted freedom - I suppose you support 'schoolies week' where kids are encouraged to wipe themselves out on alcohol, and sleep with whoever. Sad.

[sakeena09]

oh ok, so it can't be because they found Islam to be the truth. Instead of speaking FOR these women have you tried speaking TO them?

[supatipanno]

U should get the book, "Girls Like you" by Paul Sheehan, which discusses the Skaf rapes in Sydney, and also Cronulla. It is an absolute eyeopener!!!! on the mindset, mentality, attitude (The Arab Trait) and beaviuor of Arabs.

Let me assure you that a systematic attack is currently being carried out against the Islamic "industry" and propaganda machine worldwide. Stay here for now, but realise that you are not wanted nor needed here, just tolerated till the time comes.

[woteverrr]

can i just make very clear to you that whatever happened in regards to the 'Skaf rapes' has absolutely nothing to do with Islam or it's teachings nor does the Arab race and their mentality have anything to do with Islam and its teachings. You might want to google 'Islam' and google 'Arabs' & you might learn two completely different things. There are Anglo-Saxon Muslims, African-Muslims, Asian-Muslims, Hespanic-Muslims etc just as there are Arab-Muslims. Islam=religion Arab=race.

[supatipanno]

Incorrect! Islam and the way these people have been bought up by their Arab Islmaic parents had everything to do with their behaviuor. Mid east Arabs behave different from Gulf Arabs.Asian Muslims rape western females in Thailand. Indonesian Mulsims kill westerners, these muslims including Pakistanis have been "Arabified".

[woteverrr]

Incorrect? Excuse me are you trying to teach me my own religion and about my own roots? If that is what you believe about people being 'Arabified' than Christians must be 'Germanised' and must all be Anti-Semetic people who own gas-chambers in their back-yards. How can you base a religion's teachings on acts done by a minority of people from specific races.

[ausmuslim]

I am just as Australian as you (though that should not matter). I was born and bread here, and my ancestors were here for generations from Ireland, England and Europe. So don't tell me I have to leave. Just because I have come to realise that Islam is the truth, and I chose to live as a decent huming being, doesn't give you or anyone else the right to threaten me that I can stay here for now. How dare you! At least Islam teaches fair and decent treatment to all human beings.

[supatipanno]

The biggest issue the West will have is with all these Mulsim converts like the Jack Thomas's and Dave Hicks. They will need to prove themselves as good Muslims by doing stupid things as these fools have. Fair and descent treatment of human beings?!?! Are you Kidding? What hole have you been in?

[sakeena09]

"dont hit your wife, the Prophet (peace be upon him) has cursed those people who hit the animal on their face what about hitting your wife?" Abu Hamza

[supatipanno]

Then why is the Preston and Northern Community Hospital & Epping Hospital flooded with Muslim women with broken jaws, bones and victims of domestic violence (That which is reported!)

[sakeena09]

oh and the non-Muslim women are all living happy marriages with no domestic violence due to alcoholic rage from your men!!! Have you no life?

[supatipanno]

Of course there is domestic violence in every sociaeconomic racial class. But the spotlight is on what Islam is saying today.

[sakeena09]

Their (wife-bashers) lack of self-control has nothing to do with Islamic teachings. We all commit sins but Islam does not condone wife bashing.

[woteverrr]

I'd like to see a legitamite statistic for that thank-you and is it not full of wives of non-Muslims with the same injuries due to domestic violence? I'm 100% sure it is. See you're one of those people who judge a religion on the actions of a minority who CLAIM they follow the religion. Just because Islam forbids violence against the wife it does not mean that all Muslims abide by this; just as many Christians commit adultery despite it being forbidden in Christianity.

[sakeena09]

well im a Muslim woman, so I think I'd have a bit of knowledge of my rights yeah? My parents never forced anything on me nor do my brothers nor does anyone else. I love my religion and I feel liberated when I walk in the streets all covered except for my face and hands.

[sakeena09]

We're staying in Australia whether you like it or not :) This is God's land not kevin rudds land. Have you read the Qur'an or even watched the above video? Nope. If you did you'd know that violence and rape is not allowed in Islam.

[sakeena09]

*yes you can choose your husband!! forced marriages are forbidden. *You can't marry a Christian but if your brother kills you that's because he is culturally inclined. *I show my face in public. *i dont understand "did you never bit up bu man" Yes I'm proud to be a Muslim but I don't care whether I'm arab or african or asian.

[supatipanno]

Sakeena, Your counter arguements are irrelavent. Race is not an issue as another has said. Islam is NOT compatible with western society and our Government has realised (even the Rudd/Gillard)that it was mistake to allow Muslims in 28 years ago. We are not racist, we are Islamophobes and proud of it.

[sakeena09]

no they are not irrelevant in the least. I was responding to your question: Still proud to be Arab-Muslim ...? you can be an Islamophobe but we ain't going nowhere so you can perish in your rage muahhahaha.

[sakeena09]

try researching women's rights in Islam and doing some homework rather than parroting what u hear from media outlets and other anti Islam sources. Islam gave women its rights at a time when women had none.

[sakeena09]

put aside how the media spinned it, and watch the video. Hitting your wife with a toothbrush (as a last resort mind you) is nowhere near women abuse. As for the rape part, Abu Hamza NEVER said you can rape your wife. Only the media said that!

[ausmuslim]

May Allah guide you and all the other disbelievers to the truth of this life. There will be a Day when you will remember that you had a chance to learn about your creator, and you denied it. If you owned the world and everything in it, you would give it up in a second so you could go back and learn the truth of this life.

[karwas]

Asalamu Alaikum wr wb!

May ALLAH Reward Abu Hamza & how much we know he is innocent of these media claims.

He does not say dat u can beat ur wife like the news has said..please watch from 24:00 - 26:00. You will see! Unless you want to blindly listen to ch 7 or 9 or 10 news.

ABU HAMZA if you can read this than i say to be patient. As you will also hav known!

Be patient as there is no success except with being patience...Jazakallah Khayr for a beautiful lecture...asalamu alaikum wr wb

[ausmuslim]

continued.....

Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

So why is it not ok for the Qur'an to mention it, but ok for the bible?

[ausmuslim]

1 Corinthians 7:1-5,9 "Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch (have sex with) a woman. But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.

[ausmuslim]

First of all, I'm muslim and Australian and I mean born and bred for generations. I choose Islam because it is the truth, not because its a culture. So, don't tell me to practice my religion in a different country.

Secondly, why don't the christians practice their religion? I will quote for the bible for you in the next comment...

[hudfadz]

anu hamza you are the man! muslims abide by the law! it is obligitory to abide by the law, unlike preists who sexually abuse children they get away with it!

[supatipanno]

And the gteatest abuse of children is by Muslims who brainwash them into "Muslim Children" when in fact they are only children of Muslim parents. They are NOT old enough to make up their minds if they want to be Muslim or not, hence many Muslim women running away from their oppresive families worldwide.

[sakeena09]

lol how often to 'Muslim women run away from their oppresive families worldwide?' why is it that most of the converts to Islam are women? Do women consent to oppression. hmm i think not

[supatipanno]

It has reached a large proportion in Europe by North African women, the USa by East African and Arab women and in Ustralia, and the Uk by Lebanese, and other Middle Eastern women. In the futre a greater amount of Somali, Eritrean and Sudanese women will follw suit.

[xaocam]

I think the point his missing is that Australian Law is the Law here. They are designed to be secular, not Sharia, If you rape your Wife, assault your Wife, expect the heavy hand of the Law to come down upon you. To even advoate rape and violence is punishable by the Law, If you want Sharia Law, move to a country that has it. Allah won't intervene with this Nation's Laws. It's not a case of Islamic discrimination, Muslims are welcome here, just abide by the Law like every other religion does

[sakeena09]

Actually in Islam we have to abide by the laws of the land so long as it does not conflict with our beliefs.

[yanghr2002]

anyone have a English translation?

[susasullivan]

Lots of info I did not know............great video!

[smalirose08]

if everyone minded their own business we would all live a happier life

[megatron0357]

your first sentence exposes your character. which nullifies your argument. go back and learn to be a descent human and learn how to speak to others properly and then come back and plead your case. you would do better. IMHO. PEACE (Positive Energy Always Combats Evil). SAlaam

[AllaahorBanda]

Man I wanna see sum more vids discussing marriage.

[khalifahklothing]

Check out 'Marriage in Islam'

on the channel 'shaykha'

[AllaahorBanda]

Jazaak-Allaahu khayraa.

[prplxty]

As-salaamu 'alaikum, khalifah... you are the 5 star general. Everything you post is 5 stars. BTW have you any link teaching the meaning and proper recitation of the du'a said before each lecture or kutbah?

[palosoldier]

MashaAllah