I just need help striking up a conversation. 1 month ago I had a girlfriend and I realized I couldn't start a conversation for anything. I have a feeling I might get another one really soon and I need some help so I can stay with her longer. And response would be helpful and I am looking forward to future responses. :)
Hey Momo...ok this is my very first time seeing your video. I never heard of you before and the way i came across you video is because I was searching something else...now the reason I clicked on your video is because I have been a shy, lonely person all my life...I won't get in to detail right now because it would be too long...but hopefuly watching your videos will help me get the hang of talking to people and not always feeling like a outcast...
YO MOMO i just started my freshman year of at this new school.i went to elemtary school with some of these kids so im not a complete outcast.ive made a couple of friends from my wrestling team and some of my classes.but i only talk to people at school then i come home and im so lonely.i just sit at home listening to music and playin video games.im really unhappy and i dont know what to do.im really scared im gonna be like this forever and i really need to get a girlfriend.please reply and help
Hey momo, I have a very similer problem. Im in high school. i have a huge ocd and social disorder and cant talk to anyone unless they start up the conversation. and of course when your in high school everyone almost has to have a girlfriend to be considered "cool". well if I try to talk to girls i like i get really red, sweat, freeze up and it makes my life a living hell! I really want to be more social but just get too nervous PLEASE HELP!
You Rock dude i am feeling really withdrawn from people at the moment and i am just not sure how to make the leap from a small group of socially challenged friends in to a group of very confident and somewhat more mature group of people? i am quite a stiffler a=but i think that is mostly down to self confidence i was ondering whether you had any tips on how i might improve my self confidence in crowds.
A lot of times things that come out of my mouth offend people. I was at this convention and there was this Jewish man talking to me about this clergy organization thing and as a joke I told him, i'm not really interested because I'm a nazi. No words could describe the look on his face. I converse with people but I usually offend them or I make the situation really awkward. I also have really dark humor that offsets people and sometimes it's just like I don't have a filter for the things I say.
Very first video I've seen of this guy and I love what he's doing. I personally am EXTREMELY interested in developing great social skills and communication skills. I even started a youtube channel to give advice about certain communication topics. I have not really done a lot of "communication videos" but I do give a lot of advice. I love giving advice and I like this guy because he gives advice and helps people.
I like to talk to peoplebut I hae a problem with sounding sarcastic. IT's a habit of mine that annoys people. I tried to sound sincere and and feel that way, but it usually comes across as sarcastic. I end up sounding like a smart ass. How do work on this? Thanks.
@cellardoor199991 Well it might just be a timing thing, try altering the way you come in and out of your conversations.Also the sarcastic part might be an echo of some insecurity about your communication skills, not to worry. Look at things like an experiment when your trying to tweek something your trying to make better, But you have to be aware and actually plan to do this so you can adjust in real time and on different people to see what works and doesent. You rock see ya Momo
MOMO! THIS IS THE FIRST VIDEO OF YOURS IVE EVER SEEN AND ALREADY IVE FAVORITED AND SUBSCRIBED. YOUVE GOT AN AWESOME VIBE AND ITS REALLY REFRESHING TO SEE HOW SELFLESSLY YOURE PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THEIR TO HELP THESE PPL. I WROTE IN CAPS SO THAT YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE WILL READ IT ;)
hey momo, you don't really need to make these videos; do you make any other videos because i sometimes need to watch your videos (but i'm not shy, ok?！）
hey momo. i get angry sometimes at my son's mom, because i think she is not doing right and maybe does drugs. i get often confused, should i be rough and direct or more diplomatic. at moments i feel, like "i got this", i can cope with her anxiety, panics, attacks. then i just have fun w it, ignore, lough at it. but then i can turn 180 and feel that i have to take it more serious. sometimes i feel like i dont know who i really am, funny, friendly guy or serious selfobserbed dude
momo, it would be nice to talk to you sometime. i have social anxiety even though i do have a lot of friends, i want to have better talking skills before highschool. if you could get back to me we could e-mail or something:)
Hey Momo im from poland warsaw and im just wondering if i can realie some of my dream,so my dream is to move to usa and become a pro wrestler in TV ,i also want to be an actor in hollywood. I have very high determination and determination,my family is broken my brother is addictive i need some power momo im a little bit scary of my dreams but inside me i can feel amazing power..i cant explain that at all
Ya and another important thing is to stay active. If you're shy and you sit in your room and do nothing, of course you'll never have anything to say and you'll feel even more miserable. By going out and finding activities to get involved in, you'll have an easier time finding those keywords to spark what to say because you have recent "data" to work off of and it makes connections with your past to talk about in a conversation because the first thing you talk about with someone is recent events
First of all. A great video you got! I love how cool you come off and how enthousiastic (spelling?) Is it ok if I e-mail you? I've got a question about something personal. : - )
Wish i had seen your videos back in the days.... i mean i still have social anxiety up to this day and trying to improve myself but i lost a decade of my youth because i lack social skills. I haven't seen your videos yet but from the comments i'm sure your a great guy and inspire people. Wish i found you back then.... and advance thank you! please continue your wonderful work. If only school would teach us this important skills it would have been better.
Yo man mad respect for ya. What you do is awesome. I'm working on bettering myself because life is what you make it. I want to enjoy life and let nonthing hold it back. You gave some awesome tips and you helping people like this is awesome. You're an inspiration man thanks XD
Hey Can you help me too! My situation is diff. I don;t mind meeting new people and talking to ppl, in fact I love it ( depending if I find the person interesting or not). My problem is sometimes I just don't know what to say to ppl.Also in groups I tend to be the quieter one, not really bc I an scared, I just answer in my head instead of out loud and it hard to just start jumping in conversation. It's alway been "speak only when spoken to" with me
@nmania3 Are you still in school? Then talk to general things with new people. Ask interesses and you might have something in comming. From there one, things will probably work out. : - )
Well, i go to a VERY small school(only 37 kids k-12 grade) and i never fell like i fit in. Every day i go into the foyer and sit in a chair way in corrner and just think about how i coud make a friend. I dont like talking to the other kids becouse im afraid that they would make fun of me after i gone. I think they alredy do becouse whenever i try to hang out with them, they always leave. Its like they think im retarted or somthing... idk.. maby i am... Maby thats why nobody talks to me...
I lived there with no friends for about 7 months. And that is a very long time. I don't know why it was like that, I guess it's just because I felt no connection with anyone. But, my advice for anyone who's on the same path as I am, just starting to break away from friends- Dont do it. You can still be shy. You don't have to be the most talkative person in the world, you don't even need to talk at all if you dont want to- As long as there's someone by your side. 500 character limit is short. :/
I used to be really shy- Still am. In fact, it's not even shyness, it's something on a totally different level. I just moved from PA to NJ.In my school in pa (11th grade), I talked to nobody. I sat at a table (those long, white lunch tables. You know what I'm talking about, they're in every school), with no one, not next to me, not across, not even the same bench. It was only about 10 feet away from the closest person, but man that felt like a million miles.
I'm 26 years old and i have overcome most of the dificulties that shyness brings...I can flow pretty nicely in society but woman are still a challenge for me...pretty women that is.Its not that i freeze up or anything like that.And i'm averegly looking i dont think im too ugly (even though this womanlessness makes me feel wrong I act normal with them,but i'm strugling in my mind to find conversation and time goes..and so does she.I give her a "goodday" and a smile,she smile back and bye.no cel #
Hey Momo. I really appreciate this video. Thanks. Im in a similar boat as the person who wrote you. Similar, but different. I was hoping we could talk.
@CogitoErgoCogitoSum Hey there. sure , start by writing me your situation and we can take it by there. You can get t me at justaskmomo@gmail.com .Stay srtong see ya
you remind me of a guy at an N/A meeting i go to. Ive been addicted to opiates since i was 16 im 22 now and im just now starting to recover and i find myself shutting myself out from the world more so then when i was using i hope your videos can help...
@MrSalmon88 You go for it my friend, there are a lot of vids i made that i think could really trigger your new goals......i wish you the best and stay strong.....you already know what the other side feels like, time to make great shit happen...YOU ROCK See ya Momo
wassup mono... how do i become a great and wild conversatonalist to girls? to the point where ive captured their attention and they want more? can u point me in the right direction?
I started watching your video's yesterday! And i must say today was just an amazing day of my life, your videos totally changed my mind, its more clear and positive, i use to be a person that was scared to talk to people scared to do anything scared of life. Momo you rock, people that need help with there social life needs to see these videos! It changed me in just one day. YOU ROCK!!
@VenzinHD Hey My friend..thanks so much for the awesome words...You just totally energized me.....i want to wish you the best on your journey to your better half....cause thats whats going on...make it happen..youll be happy you did in the end..YOU ROCK
i have a similar problem as well. i aint as social as i used to be. in high school, i was the shy or quiet one and perceived as boring. @ the beginning of friendships and relationships, i seem to be a fun, funny, appealing guy. now it seems, im @ a lost for words with everybody. how can improve my social and communication skills? i dont know what to do or how to start, im so oblivious, i guess you can say im socially awkward -_-; please help!
and oh i just finished 1st yr of university and i want the rest of my uni yrs to be awesome, but for that to happen i gotta work on my social life. i find it hard now to connect with both guys and girls, especially the ladies. how can i turn my social awkwardness around and obtain and attain a much better social life??
@natalienat1231 I was really outgoing and social, but in the meantime I was really shy. But I was gradually building up a picture in my head that I was inadequate to other people. (Cus at the time I had really low confidence and self esteem). Now I have moved to another country, I have some college friends, they ACTUALLY call me and respect me, but I still haven't made a single call and said: Hey, you wanna hang out?
It isn't hard you just need to start slowly believe me, I have social phobia!
I'm 16 years old and starting year 11 soon and I find it really hard to talk to people... I always tell myself I will say something like that but I just delay it so much. I think the hardest thing for me is talking to someone in a group. If it's just a 1 on 1 conversation, I'm not too shy, but if I want to talk to someone I don't know very well who is with a group standing there and watching me, I can't convince myself to speak.
@Matthew2400 Momo gives really good advice. And you know I have social phobia, I think you can sort of erase it out of your life. What my personal plan is, that I'm gonna see a therapist and councellor etc. but in the meantime take up sports, because confince and self esteem is KEY! And if I'm still shy... I'll just push myself to sociallise.
“For sure it is in the remembrance of God that the heart finds rest,” (13:28)
A large number of Qur’anic verses describe the ‘sick’ heart. The sick hearts are those that find whatever they do, attractive to them. These hearts dislike what turns them away from the course they are on. They are wrapped up in fantasies, they are contemptuous, and they follow routines and old patterns, doing ‘ The sick heart is also proud and hardened. It lacks real understanding because it is engulfed in desire.
I honestly, not to sound stuck up, could usually care less about social interaction. I found myself surrounded by illiterate, ignorant people. It pains me to see how well accepted it for people to be stupid.
hey momo..could you kinda train me too.. im very outgoing and everyone things im funny, but those are only my friends...its hard to make new friends somewhere when you are new to the area...like in my situation!
LOL 90% of the time I talk to ppl I'm not really paying attention to what they're saying just replying to what you called trigger words... I think it all depends on who and what you're talking about to actually be full submerged in conversation. And I think that applies to most ppl.
i personally dont feel that you are any help, and to anyone that you think are helping i apoplogize, but your social skills are weak to me personally. your public speaching skills are even weaker, i would like to get a 1 on 1 with you on skype and, i personally would like to debate this
When i talk to some people, i freeze up and i feel like my face is melting and i want to walk away bcuz its so awkward but that would just make it even more awkward, but that happens a lot when i do public speakings
what word can i use to describe you :(? idk, maybe excellent more than that, you are very very good, i'm gonna take your advice :)...btw like @jakeiiiiiiieew, i would like to enter the converstation but it is over xD
@TheMomoZone Hey Momo, your vids are great man. If you have some spare time could you tutor me for a short time. Im not bad, just could use some tips. Either way Im very impressed and respect your vids. Good luck.
Hi Momo, I've been in a similar situation being too quiet and afraid of striking a conversation. Im trying to change myself to be more outspoken ever since your videos inspired me to. Thanks for making these vids to help people like myself.
Momo, I love what you do, you are awesome. I'm lucky enough to have been blessed with good social skills, but even watching your videos, I'm gaining more confidence. Thank you.
What does it mean when talking to people doesn't interest you? like you can talk to them, have conversations but it is boring and you just pretend to like it to seem normal?
hi Momo, im 14 years old but, very shy and scared to get rejected from talking to others and when ever i want to start conversations i succeed but cant keep it up . do you have any tips on how i could get more confident because every body in my family is shy n dont want to be like them. by the way your awesome your not fake n say wat you think. thanks a lot for great tips. i wanted to subscribe you but couldn't
this is such a good video! just watching ur videos make me feel great again! :D thx for helping all these people and making all these videos! they have truley made me grow as a person,and help me with a lot of issues i have come aross! :D you truley are my hero! :D
@TheMomoZone ... Hi Momo, its an amazing work you are doing... I like this.. I use this by meeting people face to face.. But you are using words and the methods are.. awesome...
BDW.. I also need the your help as you said in video of Hypochondria .. I feel the same.. because I am also sitting on computer for 18 hours a day... Sometime day passes and result is 0 becuase I had pssed in thinking only. I will write to you for this...
@aldore1231 One more thing here is what you have written down in your about section on your youtube page. NICE IM SURE EVERYBODY WANTS TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND TRIPP OUT WITH YOU.{i am a guy who likes to think alot. i dont like people who use me. i have a sick mind and sometimes my thoughts can be disturbing to others, so i rarely share them, lol. i am telling you all this because i want you all to know what kind of person i am, but no good point, lol.} GET A LIFE BUDDY.
@TheMomoZone hey momo, i really appreciate these videos and i'd like to say im in the spot where i've been working on speaking with others and building my self confidence and this has helped. and thanks for putting this dipshit in his place, sometimes things just really do need to be said even if the person will never agree with you. also i thought it was pretty fuckin funny that this guy deleted his original comments he posted... lol
@Kaenanthebarbarian thanks for the great vibes, Yeah people usually remove their useless comments when they have been told the truth about own insecurities that are left out for people to see. Its so easy for people to lay out their bullshit when the person is not in front of them so they could say it to their face. A true sign of a digital coward. Peace out you rock momo
@aldore1231 I take it im the idiot your talking about. Well mr zero subscribers i would normally erase and block assholes like you but some times i leave this shit on line so you can see yourself and others can learn and see what kind of useless tools populate the internet..I feel sorry for your closed mind as unfortunately for you you will never get it and die alone and unloved and thats 100% what will happen to you if you dont change Now.
Can I get on skype with you too???? It'd be an honor. It's amazing how much potential I know I have... an intellect, and love and an opinion... that I suppress sometimes because my mind goes crazy in social situations.. not always... sometimes im the life of the party and people can't imagine me being shy but other times im the total opposite. I guess I want to learn to be my full self 100% of the time and I feel myself being almost there but I need one last little push. Thanks Momo.
i have an antisocial problem and i go to an art school where i can pretty much relate to everyone but i just can't muster up enough confidence too say something. its not that i can't but iunno.I have a fear of being lead to do bad things or being around bad influences. i guess i could be a good influence too people. oh look i solved my own problem. now i gotta put that in motion witch is the hard part.
Hey, love to add a tip for people who are watching this feeling not sure of themselves. First, make the conversation about the person you are talking to. Ask them questions about them. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. At first it feels fake, but eventually you learn to be interested in other people. If you can't listen to others, they won't want to listen to you. When you ask the questions first, they will eventually return the favor. If not, move on. Be the friend you want.
I agree with Juneride...I tried making new friends, and I talk to them, but for some reason they just don't like me or want to even engage in a conversation with me...I guess it's the way I look? You know, I'm trying to be myself, but people just never give me a chance.
hey guess what? chicken butt. I guess im a little bit awkward as well and i do need some new friends. My old "friends" arn't really friends and they only look after themselves. I know this is weird for you 2 reply to but it's weird for me to say as well. If anyone wants to talk to me in a non homosexual manner im up for it and hope you are as well. i guess what im trying to say is looking to make new friends! and if you are 2 send me a reply.
im not shy and i talk and make them laugh and theirs nothing wrong with me so,,im just curious why am i not being asked by friends to hangout...if you can please write and maybe help me with this!
i need help!!!! i have friends and i never been asked to hangout with them, and whenever i ask them if they wanna hangout they say they wish but they are busy on that certain day.....and they ask their friends to hangout with them....ive haven't been invited by my friends to hangout and i need help with this or what can i do to have them want to invite me to hangout?...
Im 18 and very often when I smile, that smile goes of my face so fast it makes me feel like there is a problem going on. weird isn't it?
I only got one true friend that I see outside school... My dream would be different great people who visit me sometimes who really care about me but I don't have that. I haven't done anything when I turned 18. I have one hobby and thats electric guitar but I dont feel satisfied cause I feel a hole in my social life when I look at others.. + im a bad student
idk i tend to blank out when i meet new people, and studder as well.. i hate it, i feel like im lying, since i cant b myself around new people or an audience...im aware why i do these things but i just cant seem to find that confidence..still have hope tho :]
Hello, I'm a senior going off to college, but I am having trouble getting out of my comfort zone and making new friends. I'm so accustomed to keeping to myself around strangers and I tend to be awkward when I try to talk to new people. When I try my hardest to come across "outgoing", it doesn't work. I don't know how to react to responses or keep a conversation interesting. Is there a way that I can change my "shy" and awkward personality into an outgoing, outspoken personality?
Same here, But I don't consider myself shy, but I also don't really know where the hell to talk about. Maybe you don't give that much of a shit? ever considered that?
Very interesting video. Same here, "no reason so why would I bother". At work I don't talk alot with the other employees, But I don't really give a shit about being loney or something. So would you call that shy? But I find myself in a position that I want to be accepted, but on the other hand I really don't give a shit. Is this weird?:P
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
Ive had a socail problem my whole life and just this year i started really trying to talk to people , ive never failed really, i actually talked to alot of people its just that i get really nervous in social situations , and it feels as though its just too much trouble for me to talk to another person, like it hurts me too much and its uncomfortable. i really want to talk but i think way tooo much about it , so i just give up. im afraid to fail so i dont try.
@evyarasuka05 Ohgosh i feel the same way as you. I tense up in social situations and it really stresses me out. And what makes me really sad is that i am unable to change even though i try really hard..
@lovesheep1234 i was the same way especially after boot camp but wat really helped me was i would videotape myself talking about various subjects and then i would learn from that and present myself in the same exact way when i was in public
Hey Juneride Come on dude there is always a way to tweek the approach. Some people dont alternate thier new methods and just keep going at it exactly the same way,Yes you are trying but you are also giving up so it could never work.Patience brings you better ideas because your calm enough to think positive thus attracting greater results. Change it up a bit and dont be so hard on yourself, that will slow you down. Go for it dude. You rock Momo
@juneride EXACTLY!!!!!! if you are not born an interesting person your not an interesting person and there is no way to change it, i have tried and tried again i'm the same as you and if people do find you interesting they will eventually get sick of you....this guy momozone was born an interesting individual he may have had to work at it born he was born with the natural gift in other words he had somthing to work with...and in our case you cannott build a sand castle with no sand.....
@romans52345 But there is a way out! If you want to be popular, you have to learn HOW TO LISTEN. Then everybody will want to talk to you. EFFECTIVE LISTENING is a powerful tool. It's used by CIA agents, pimps and shrinks to open people up and get in their heads. I'm using it with women.
Are you afraid of people because you have FEAR OF LISTENING?
Social anxiety disorder is a pain in the ass.
ShavedKnuckle 3 days ago
I just need help striking up a conversation. 1 month ago I had a girlfriend and I realized I couldn't start a conversation for anything. I have a feeling I might get another one really soon and I need some help so I can stay with her longer. And response would be helpful and I am looking forward to future responses. :)
Vanhallen5150 2 weeks ago
Hey Momo...ok this is my very first time seeing your video. I never heard of you before and the way i came across you video is because I was searching something else...now the reason I clicked on your video is because I have been a shy, lonely person all my life...I won't get in to detail right now because it would be too long...but hopefuly watching your videos will help me get the hang of talking to people and not always feeling like a outcast...
babygirl21970 3 weeks ago
Interesting..
segano1 3 weeks ago
YO MOMO i just started my freshman year of at this new school.i went to elemtary school with some of these kids so im not a complete outcast.ive made a couple of friends from my wrestling team and some of my classes.but i only talk to people at school then i come home and im so lonely.i just sit at home listening to music and playin video games.im really unhappy and i dont know what to do.im really scared im gonna be like this forever and i really need to get a girlfriend.please reply and help
3jdpa 4 weeks ago
Wow youre such a great person. I can see in your eyes that youve got a lot of life experience, very essential to be successful in life. Subscribed.
Mihu901 1 month ago
@Mihu901 thanks for the heart felt words, you rock and have an awesome newyear. see ya Momo
TheMomoZone 1 month ago
very good video I am, going to subscribe to you if you make videos like this
iwanttofight69 2 months ago
Hey momo, I have a very similer problem. Im in high school. i have a huge ocd and social disorder and cant talk to anyone unless they start up the conversation. and of course when your in high school everyone almost has to have a girlfriend to be considered "cool". well if I try to talk to girls i like i get really red, sweat, freeze up and it makes my life a living hell! I really want to be more social but just get too nervous PLEASE HELP!
thank you from one of ur regular viewers
XXxxretrogamerxxXX 2 months ago
You Rock dude i am feeling really withdrawn from people at the moment and i am just not sure how to make the leap from a small group of socially challenged friends in to a group of very confident and somewhat more mature group of people? i am quite a stiffler a=but i think that is mostly down to self confidence i was ondering whether you had any tips on how i might improve my self confidence in crowds.
MrHaddify 2 months ago
It's sad that i have to youtube my problems
xdcatkidfoxox 2 months ago
A lot of times things that come out of my mouth offend people. I was at this convention and there was this Jewish man talking to me about this clergy organization thing and as a joke I told him, i'm not really interested because I'm a nazi. No words could describe the look on his face. I converse with people but I usually offend them or I make the situation really awkward. I also have really dark humor that offsets people and sometimes it's just like I don't have a filter for the things I say.
ruleram1 3 months ago
@ruleram1 Haha I think that's funny XD I have a friend with that sort of humour and they're the funniest person I know :D
SunLightShine 1 month ago
Hey I can really use your help to change my social skills because I truly have this annoying problem with being so quiet anytime I'm with anyone
edgariscool5 3 months ago
5:34 3pIc FAAAACE
TheMusicDude1997 4 months ago
I am afraid to be self centered is there a way to not think about yourself when talking to other people?
sheepyloveanime 4 months ago
Very first video I've seen of this guy and I love what he's doing. I personally am EXTREMELY interested in developing great social skills and communication skills. I even started a youtube channel to give advice about certain communication topics. I have not really done a lot of "communication videos" but I do give a lot of advice. I love giving advice and I like this guy because he gives advice and helps people.
Time4Talking 5 months ago
Hey man! Lot's of Energy! Thanks for the video! :)
okhosrovani 5 months ago
the worst would be getting turn down a fail attempt & looking stupid in the end :(
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This guy looks like he takes it up the ass. Fuckign fag.
Budguy68 6 months ago
I like to talk to peoplebut I hae a problem with sounding sarcastic. IT's a habit of mine that annoys people. I tried to sound sincere and and feel that way, but it usually comes across as sarcastic. I end up sounding like a smart ass. How do work on this? Thanks.
cellardoor199991 6 months ago
@cellardoor199991 Well it might just be a timing thing, try altering the way you come in and out of your conversations.Also the sarcastic part might be an echo of some insecurity about your communication skills, not to worry. Look at things like an experiment when your trying to tweek something your trying to make better, But you have to be aware and actually plan to do this so you can adjust in real time and on different people to see what works and doesent. You rock see ya Momo
TheMomoZone 6 months ago 2
@cellardoor199991 I have this exact same problem.
auroradamien 1 month ago
@auroradamien Thanks for responding. Glad I"m not the only one out there.
cellardoor199991 1 month ago
@auroradamien Hey, are you being sarcastic about that comment? hahaha kidding
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I don't understand the whole what you say because english is not my language, but i just heard all the video because the voice :D
Pironday 6 months ago
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Pironday 6 months ago
Man, you honestly seem like such a genuine guy. These videos are great, man.
SCREAMOpants 7 months ago
i have no trouble starting convos with guys, only girls sigh...
BeatRider44 7 months ago
I'm digging your ear piercing, and rad hat momo ugh sorry *homo*
cooldude0308 7 months ago
I can talk with people but i cant talk with women/girls why is that ? I can talk hours and hours with mates but not with chicks ,why ?
chabi3000 7 months ago
@chabi3000 You are gay. No I'm just kidding. I have no idea. lmao xD
StephenCaples 6 months ago
MOMO! THIS IS THE FIRST VIDEO OF YOURS IVE EVER SEEN AND ALREADY IVE FAVORITED AND SUBSCRIBED. YOUVE GOT AN AWESOME VIBE AND ITS REALLY REFRESHING TO SEE HOW SELFLESSLY YOURE PUTTING YOURSELF OUT THEIR TO HELP THESE PPL. I WROTE IN CAPS SO THAT YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE WILL READ IT ;)
CMFGAO 8 months ago
hey momo, you don't really need to make these videos; do you make any other videos because i sometimes need to watch your videos (but i'm not shy, ok?！）
gordo12345678901 8 months ago
you sound like rocky balboa
drunkglitch 8 months ago
well its really nice that u help this guy but what about US ? lol
saintsFlow 8 months ago
hey momo. i get angry sometimes at my son's mom, because i think she is not doing right and maybe does drugs. i get often confused, should i be rough and direct or more diplomatic. at moments i feel, like "i got this", i can cope with her anxiety, panics, attacks. then i just have fun w it, ignore, lough at it. but then i can turn 180 and feel that i have to take it more serious. sometimes i feel like i dont know who i really am, funny, friendly guy or serious selfobserbed dude
zuj1984 8 months ago
momo, it would be nice to talk to you sometime. i have social anxiety even though i do have a lot of friends, i want to have better talking skills before highschool. if you could get back to me we could e-mail or something:)
kelsiie27 8 months ago
Hey Momo im from poland warsaw and im just wondering if i can realie some of my dream,so my dream is to move to usa and become a pro wrestler in TV ,i also want to be an actor in hollywood. I have very high determination and determination,my family is broken my brother is addictive i need some power momo im a little bit scary of my dreams but inside me i can feel amazing power..i cant explain that at all
JacksonXxXWaWa 9 months ago
Hey Momo. Thanks a lot for this video!!! I sent you PM, please reply :) I subbed and rated :)
iHackZz055 9 months ago
I wish i had a voice like yours :( i try and communicate buy my voice is too weak and i mumble :(
SonyCamry 9 months ago
@SonyCamry me too :(
iHackZz055 9 months ago
Ya and another important thing is to stay active. If you're shy and you sit in your room and do nothing, of course you'll never have anything to say and you'll feel even more miserable. By going out and finding activities to get involved in, you'll have an easier time finding those keywords to spark what to say because you have recent "data" to work off of and it makes connections with your past to talk about in a conversation because the first thing you talk about with someone is recent events
BeAsTm0aD 9 months ago
Hey there,
First of all. A great video you got! I love how cool you come off and how enthousiastic (spelling?) Is it ok if I e-mail you? I've got a question about something personal. : - )
Thanks in advance!
calastiur 9 months ago
Wish i had seen your videos back in the days.... i mean i still have social anxiety up to this day and trying to improve myself but i lost a decade of my youth because i lack social skills. I haven't seen your videos yet but from the comments i'm sure your a great guy and inspire people. Wish i found you back then.... and advance thank you! please continue your wonderful work. If only school would teach us this important skills it would have been better.
revolutionaryjake 9 months ago
Yo man mad respect for ya. What you do is awesome. I'm working on bettering myself because life is what you make it. I want to enjoy life and let nonthing hold it back. You gave some awesome tips and you helping people like this is awesome. You're an inspiration man thanks XD
mastercloudv1ne 9 months ago
Hey Can you help me too! My situation is diff. I don;t mind meeting new people and talking to ppl, in fact I love it ( depending if I find the person interesting or not). My problem is sometimes I just don't know what to say to ppl.Also in groups I tend to be the quieter one, not really bc I an scared, I just answer in my head instead of out loud and it hard to just start jumping in conversation. It's alway been "speak only when spoken to" with me
nmania3 10 months ago
@nmania3 Are you still in school? Then talk to general things with new people. Ask interesses and you might have something in comming. From there one, things will probably work out. : - )
calastiur 9 months ago
"From the sound of you, you dont sound like some shithead" haha
01thrilla 10 months ago
you have a commercial voice!
iheartkathyy 10 months ago
Ur awesome u should hav ur own tv show or something
thesupermustachio 10 months ago
if that was the best advice...then MOMO NO MO. You suck
ebokers100 10 months ago
@sotowolf1 My life is exactly like that. I try to talk to people but don't know what to say and think Im not a normal person.
Skaddomedo 10 months ago
Well, i go to a VERY small school(only 37 kids k-12 grade) and i never fell like i fit in. Every day i go into the foyer and sit in a chair way in corrner and just think about how i coud make a friend. I dont like talking to the other kids becouse im afraid that they would make fun of me after i gone. I think they alredy do becouse whenever i try to hang out with them, they always leave. Its like they think im retarted or somthing... idk.. maby i am... Maby thats why nobody talks to me...
sotowolf1 10 months ago
I lived there with no friends for about 7 months. And that is a very long time. I don't know why it was like that, I guess it's just because I felt no connection with anyone. But, my advice for anyone who's on the same path as I am, just starting to break away from friends- Dont do it. You can still be shy. You don't have to be the most talkative person in the world, you don't even need to talk at all if you dont want to- As long as there's someone by your side. 500 character limit is short. :/
DeathDude72 11 months ago
I used to be really shy- Still am. In fact, it's not even shyness, it's something on a totally different level. I just moved from PA to NJ.In my school in pa (11th grade), I talked to nobody. I sat at a table (those long, white lunch tables. You know what I'm talking about, they're in every school), with no one, not next to me, not across, not even the same bench. It was only about 10 feet away from the closest person, but man that felt like a million miles.
DeathDude72 11 months ago
man i like you man u seem cool
Amaan305 11 months ago
genius
thundafingerz 11 months ago
"THAT FUCKING ROCKS, DUDE." You get a thumbs-up just for that.
floatingtrains 11 months ago
I'm 26 years old and i have overcome most of the dificulties that shyness brings...I can flow pretty nicely in society but woman are still a challenge for me...pretty women that is.Its not that i freeze up or anything like that.And i'm averegly looking i dont think im too ugly (even though this womanlessness makes me feel wrong I act normal with them,but i'm strugling in my mind to find conversation and time goes..and so does she.I give her a "goodday" and a smile,she smile back and bye.no cel #
neoheadcrusher 11 months ago
Hey Momo. I really appreciate this video. Thanks. Im in a similar boat as the person who wrote you. Similar, but different. I was hoping we could talk.
CogitoErgoCogitoSum 11 months ago
@CogitoErgoCogitoSum Hey there. sure , start by writing me your situation and we can take it by there. You can get t me at justaskmomo@gmail.com .Stay srtong see ya
Momo
TheMomoZone 11 months ago
haha thanks for the tips!
NbaLive4ever 11 months ago
you remind me of a guy at an N/A meeting i go to. Ive been addicted to opiates since i was 16 im 22 now and im just now starting to recover and i find myself shutting myself out from the world more so then when i was using i hope your videos can help...
MrSalmon88 1 year ago
@MrSalmon88 You go for it my friend, there are a lot of vids i made that i think could really trigger your new goals......i wish you the best and stay strong.....you already know what the other side feels like, time to make great shit happen...YOU ROCK See ya Momo
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
wassup mono... how do i become a great and wild conversatonalist to girls? to the point where ive captured their attention and they want more? can u point me in the right direction?
davidxrodriguez 1 year ago
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TheHerbalisti 1 year ago
I started watching your video's yesterday! And i must say today was just an amazing day of my life, your videos totally changed my mind, its more clear and positive, i use to be a person that was scared to talk to people scared to do anything scared of life. Momo you rock, people that need help with there social life needs to see these videos! It changed me in just one day. YOU ROCK!!
VenzinHD 1 year ago
@VenzinHD Hey My friend..thanks so much for the awesome words...You just totally energized me.....i want to wish you the best on your journey to your better half....cause thats whats going on...make it happen..youll be happy you did in the end..YOU ROCK
Momo
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
i have a similar problem as well. i aint as social as i used to be. in high school, i was the shy or quiet one and perceived as boring. @ the beginning of friendships and relationships, i seem to be a fun, funny, appealing guy. now it seems, im @ a lost for words with everybody. how can improve my social and communication skills? i dont know what to do or how to start, im so oblivious, i guess you can say im socially awkward -_-; please help!
lp0715 7 months ago
and oh i just finished 1st yr of university and i want the rest of my uni yrs to be awesome, but for that to happen i gotta work on my social life. i find it hard now to connect with both guys and girls, especially the ladies. how can i turn my social awkwardness around and obtain and attain a much better social life??
lp0715 7 months ago
5:15 haha..its gonna be fine..YOU ARE NOT GONNA DIE!
chorister88 1 year ago
@natalienat1231 I was really outgoing and social, but in the meantime I was really shy. But I was gradually building up a picture in my head that I was inadequate to other people. (Cus at the time I had really low confidence and self esteem). Now I have moved to another country, I have some college friends, they ACTUALLY call me and respect me, but I still haven't made a single call and said: Hey, you wanna hang out?
It isn't hard you just need to start slowly believe me, I have social phobia!
nilesolma 1 year ago
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Im really shy, i cant even talk to my crush wtf lol
TheBadFunnies 1 year ago
What a cool guy!
JBisEQ 1 year ago
train me personnally,im not that desperate but im interested to learn stuffs i dont know :)
JohnyVLH 1 year ago
@natalienat1231 You go for it girl, you deserve the best and you shal have it..keep making those moves. SEE YA mOMO
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
Dude momo thanks a lot you helped me i feel way better
DeadlyDalt 1 year ago
@DeadlyDalt You got it my friend any time. Have a great new year and keep going for it. Momo
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
So how did this go? :)
anexioma 1 year ago
I have not had a friend since kindergarden.
Leatherbubba 1 year ago
@Leatherbubba i will be your friend
dwain1987 1 year ago
@Leatherbubba How old are you noW?
Ianbamberger7 1 year ago
i can start a conversation but i lock up very fast...
CalebTheObjective 1 year ago
EPIC VOICE!
famousbro1 1 year ago 47
I'm 16 years old and starting year 11 soon and I find it really hard to talk to people... I always tell myself I will say something like that but I just delay it so much. I think the hardest thing for me is talking to someone in a group. If it's just a 1 on 1 conversation, I'm not too shy, but if I want to talk to someone I don't know very well who is with a group standing there and watching me, I can't convince myself to speak.
Matthew2400 1 year ago
@Matthew2400 Maybe just don't even think just say what you need to say or bring energy to the room. I'm still tryin to figure it out my self.
Shadybest 1 year ago
@Matthew2400 Momo gives really good advice. And you know I have social phobia, I think you can sort of erase it out of your life. What my personal plan is, that I'm gonna see a therapist and councellor etc. but in the meantime take up sports, because confince and self esteem is KEY! And if I'm still shy... I'll just push myself to sociallise.
nilesolma 1 year ago
so true what he said at the start
i feel same way just think good stuff in life
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This guy is so nice, how come not a lot of people have this patience :))
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I honestly, not to sound stuck up, could usually care less about social interaction. I found myself surrounded by illiterate, ignorant people. It pains me to see how well accepted it for people to be stupid.
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thanks man :) your realy insparational
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This guy sets a good example for the rest of the world.
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woodyfly 1 year ago
hey momo..could you kinda train me too.. im very outgoing and everyone things im funny, but those are only my friends...its hard to make new friends somewhere when you are new to the area...like in my situation!
help me please
jfidalgolb 1 year ago
LOL 90% of the time I talk to ppl I'm not really paying attention to what they're saying just replying to what you called trigger words... I think it all depends on who and what you're talking about to actually be full submerged in conversation. And I think that applies to most ppl.
shallwethen 1 year ago
Momo this is kind of random, but are you christian? What faith do you follow?
MrCandykanez 1 year ago
i personally dont feel that you are any help, and to anyone that you think are helping i apoplogize, but your social skills are weak to me personally. your public speaching skills are even weaker, i would like to get a 1 on 1 with you on skype and, i personally would like to debate this
monkeysrevolt 1 year ago
thanks man...
you are really helpfull
xWobbuffetx 1 year ago
When i talk to some people, i freeze up and i feel like my face is melting and i want to walk away bcuz its so awkward but that would just make it even more awkward, but that happens a lot when i do public speakings
TheJack0Phantom 1 year ago
You have such a cool voice, haha!
Conorhstone 1 year ago
what word can i use to describe you :(? idk, maybe excellent more than that, you are very very good, i'm gonna take your advice :)...btw like @jakeiiiiiiieew, i would like to enter the converstation but it is over xD
M69pavel69P 1 year ago
hmm Great Advice :]
cgMagia 1 year ago
If i could join in on this conversation it would change my life
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ma0ma0ma0 1 year ago
my food is cold =(
iDeaTHeoRyi 1 year ago
@TheMomoZone Hey Momo, your vids are great man. If you have some spare time could you tutor me for a short time. Im not bad, just could use some tips. Either way Im very impressed and respect your vids. Good luck.
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rollitbabe 1 year ago
Hi Momo, I've been in a similar situation being too quiet and afraid of striking a conversation. Im trying to change myself to be more outspoken ever since your videos inspired me to. Thanks for making these vids to help people like myself.
- Konoko
konoko2004 1 year ago
Momo, I love what you do, you are awesome. I'm lucky enough to have been blessed with good social skills, but even watching your videos, I'm gaining more confidence. Thank you.
manicania 1 year ago
What does it mean when talking to people doesn't interest you? like you can talk to them, have conversations but it is boring and you just pretend to like it to seem normal?
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TedDGPoulos 1 year ago
have you ever trained the untrainable?
deathdrgn 1 year ago
hi Momo, im 14 years old but, very shy and scared to get rejected from talking to others and when ever i want to start conversations i succeed but cant keep it up . do you have any tips on how i could get more confident because every body in my family is shy n dont want to be like them. by the way your awesome your not fake n say wat you think. thanks a lot for great tips. i wanted to subscribe you but couldn't
TheSoroush23 1 year ago
this is such a good video! just watching ur videos make me feel great again! :D thx for helping all these people and making all these videos! they have truley made me grow as a person,and help me with a lot of issues i have come aross! :D you truley are my hero! :D
TheOfficialHikari 1 year ago
@TheMomoZone ... Hi Momo, its an amazing work you are doing... I like this.. I use this by meeting people face to face.. But you are using words and the methods are.. awesome...
BDW.. I also need the your help as you said in video of Hypochondria .. I feel the same.. because I am also sitting on computer for 18 hours a day... Sometime day passes and result is 0 becuase I had pssed in thinking only. I will write to you for this...
Thank you for gr8 videos... Lov & Peace .. V :)
ishrarg 1 year ago
I love u dude for the help u extended this poor guy! Bless u!
creep2nyt 1 year ago
i wish you would skype with me and help me be a good communicator!
mickeypolouskin 1 year ago
great vid
slyvordan 1 year ago
realy nice voice man :)
albuandrei2005 1 year ago
@aldore1231 One more thing here is what you have written down in your about section on your youtube page. NICE IM SURE EVERYBODY WANTS TO BE YOUR FRIEND AND TRIPP OUT WITH YOU.{i am a guy who likes to think alot. i dont like people who use me. i have a sick mind and sometimes my thoughts can be disturbing to others, so i rarely share them, lol. i am telling you all this because i want you all to know what kind of person i am, but no good point, lol.} GET A LIFE BUDDY.
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
@TheMomoZone hey momo, i really appreciate these videos and i'd like to say im in the spot where i've been working on speaking with others and building my self confidence and this has helped. and thanks for putting this dipshit in his place, sometimes things just really do need to be said even if the person will never agree with you. also i thought it was pretty fuckin funny that this guy deleted his original comments he posted... lol
Kaenanthebarbarian 1 year ago
@Kaenanthebarbarian thanks for the great vibes, Yeah people usually remove their useless comments when they have been told the truth about own insecurities that are left out for people to see. Its so easy for people to lay out their bullshit when the person is not in front of them so they could say it to their face. A true sign of a digital coward. Peace out you rock momo
TheMomoZone 1 year ago
@aldore1231 I take it im the idiot your talking about. Well mr zero subscribers i would normally erase and block assholes like you but some times i leave this shit on line so you can see yourself and others can learn and see what kind of useless tools populate the internet..I feel sorry for your closed mind as unfortunately for you you will never get it and die alone and unloved and thats 100% what will happen to you if you dont change Now.
TheMomoZone 1 year ago 3
Can I get on skype with you too???? It'd be an honor. It's amazing how much potential I know I have... an intellect, and love and an opinion... that I suppress sometimes because my mind goes crazy in social situations.. not always... sometimes im the life of the party and people can't imagine me being shy but other times im the total opposite. I guess I want to learn to be my full self 100% of the time and I feel myself being almost there but I need one last little push. Thanks Momo.
cumanezuela 1 year ago
i have an antisocial problem and i go to an art school where i can pretty much relate to everyone but i just can't muster up enough confidence too say something. its not that i can't but iunno.I have a fear of being lead to do bad things or being around bad influences. i guess i could be a good influence too people. oh look i solved my own problem. now i gotta put that in motion witch is the hard part.
AaronTrutsJC 1 year ago
Hey, love to add a tip for people who are watching this feeling not sure of themselves. First, make the conversation about the person you are talking to. Ask them questions about them. Everyone loves to talk about themselves. At first it feels fake, but eventually you learn to be interested in other people. If you can't listen to others, they won't want to listen to you. When you ask the questions first, they will eventually return the favor. If not, move on. Be the friend you want.
Jollygoodas 1 year ago
I agree with Juneride...I tried making new friends, and I talk to them, but for some reason they just don't like me or want to even engage in a conversation with me...I guess it's the way I look? You know, I'm trying to be myself, but people just never give me a chance.
EricSchwin22 1 year ago
hey guess what? chicken butt. I guess im a little bit awkward as well and i do need some new friends. My old "friends" arn't really friends and they only look after themselves. I know this is weird for you 2 reply to but it's weird for me to say as well. If anyone wants to talk to me in a non homosexual manner im up for it and hope you are as well. i guess what im trying to say is looking to make new friends! and if you are 2 send me a reply.
gyshiftsucks 1 year ago
how do you maintain and build on relationships with people
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jeffer2m 1 year ago
im not shy and i talk and make them laugh and theirs nothing wrong with me so,,im just curious why am i not being asked by friends to hangout...if you can please write and maybe help me with this!
thesurfer501 1 year ago
i need help!!!! i have friends and i never been asked to hangout with them, and whenever i ask them if they wanna hangout they say they wish but they are busy on that certain day.....and they ask their friends to hangout with them....ive haven't been invited by my friends to hangout and i need help with this or what can i do to have them want to invite me to hangout?...
thesurfer501 1 year ago
Subscribed..
LMProductions09 1 year ago
Im 18 and very often when I smile, that smile goes of my face so fast it makes me feel like there is a problem going on. weird isn't it?
I only got one true friend that I see outside school... My dream would be different great people who visit me sometimes who really care about me but I don't have that. I haven't done anything when I turned 18. I have one hobby and thats electric guitar but I dont feel satisfied cause I feel a hole in my social life when I look at others.. + im a bad student
Houston4444 1 year ago
I'm autistic
ProTurkiye 1 year ago
idk i tend to blank out when i meet new people, and studder as well.. i hate it, i feel like im lying, since i cant b myself around new people or an audience...im aware why i do these things but i just cant seem to find that confidence..still have hope tho :]
wetbax69 1 year ago
Hello, I'm a senior going off to college, but I am having trouble getting out of my comfort zone and making new friends. I'm so accustomed to keeping to myself around strangers and I tend to be awkward when I try to talk to new people. When I try my hardest to come across "outgoing", it doesn't work. I don't know how to react to responses or keep a conversation interesting. Is there a way that I can change my "shy" and awkward personality into an outgoing, outspoken personality?
hulia27 1 year ago
Same here, But I don't consider myself shy, but I also don't really know where the hell to talk about. Maybe you don't give that much of a shit? ever considered that?
Vugt89 1 year ago
Very interesting video. Same here, "no reason so why would I bother". At work I don't talk alot with the other employees, But I don't really give a shit about being loney or something. So would you call that shy? But I find myself in a position that I want to be accepted, but on the other hand I really don't give a shit. Is this weird?:P
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UltimateSuperChannel 1 year ago
You give very excellent advice and I consider you to be an excellent life coach/Guru.
jjlinert 1 year ago
Total loner? no friends? socially awkward? can't talk to people?
Is it totally like me or what?
zrk9a 1 year ago
im a rly shy person :( i just cant help it!
7419635841635 1 year ago
His advice is incredibly useless. Social Anxiety is the result of irrational thinking
goodson88 1 year ago
@goodson88
Irrational such as generalizing everyones situation into one tidy little pile?
KoschKff 1 year ago
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This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
goodson88 1 year ago
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This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
goodson88 1 year ago
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
goodson88 1 year ago
This guy is a big fraud. He's the type of dude that gets off on the title of a self help teacher. I haven't learned a god damn thing from his 7 minutes of rambling. people with social phobia never get used to through the nervousness that other people would get used to. If they are in front of an audience, they would be just as nervous at the end of of their presentation as they were from the begining.
goodson88 1 year ago
Excellent video! Expert advice! You should upload your video to Ewisdomtv
susanbunch1980 1 year ago
Ive had a socail problem my whole life and just this year i started really trying to talk to people , ive never failed really, i actually talked to alot of people its just that i get really nervous in social situations , and it feels as though its just too much trouble for me to talk to another person, like it hurts me too much and its uncomfortable. i really want to talk but i think way tooo much about it , so i just give up. im afraid to fail so i dont try.
evyarasuka05 1 year ago
@evyarasuka05 Ohgosh i feel the same way as you. I tense up in social situations and it really stresses me out. And what makes me really sad is that i am unable to change even though i try really hard..
lovesheep1234 1 year ago 9
@lovesheep1234 I know exactly how you feel :(
popcornfilms1 1 year ago
@lovesheep1234 i was the same way especially after boot camp but wat really helped me was i would videotape myself talking about various subjects and then i would learn from that and present myself in the same exact way when i was in public
Beholdendamage 1 year ago
I know, I feel the exact same way.
usernameunadvailable 1 year ago
I have a very bad social disorder and it has made me loose lot of my jobs, family , and friends
AlmondEyes661 1 year ago
no!
Cavemandave1987 1 year ago
BULLSHIT!!!!!!!
I tried that. Again and again.
It doesn't work. The more I tried the more embarrassing it was.
I was trying to impose myself on people, and they were not interested in making a conversation.
juneride 1 year ago 2
Hey Juneride Come on dude there is always a way to tweek the approach. Some people dont alternate thier new methods and just keep going at it exactly the same way,Yes you are trying but you are also giving up so it could never work.Patience brings you better ideas because your calm enough to think positive thus attracting greater results. Change it up a bit and dont be so hard on yourself, that will slow you down. Go for it dude. You rock Momo
TheMomoZone 1 year ago 2
Take it easy brother, it's a process.
RaVeN19Dizzle 1 year ago
@juneride EXACTLY!!!!!! if you are not born an interesting person your not an interesting person and there is no way to change it, i have tried and tried again i'm the same as you and if people do find you interesting they will eventually get sick of you....this guy momozone was born an interesting individual he may have had to work at it born he was born with the natural gift in other words he had somthing to work with...and in our case you cannott build a sand castle with no sand.....
romans52345 1 year ago
@romans52345 But there is a way out! If you want to be popular, you have to learn HOW TO LISTEN. Then everybody will want to talk to you. EFFECTIVE LISTENING is a powerful tool. It's used by CIA agents, pimps and shrinks to open people up and get in their heads. I'm using it with women.
Are you afraid of people because you have FEAR OF LISTENING?
juneride 1 year ago
What if you're hard of hearing at a public hearing school of three thousand and some students?
ScorpioFuror 1 year ago
juneride the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different out come... Try something new.
PortugueseSP 1 year ago