Vlog #9 - I Have A Boyfriend! (monogamy, polyamory, relationships)

[idis91]

For god s sakes woman! dont stop talking! i like seeing you happy. Your glowing:)

[robibm2003]

You're very cute. The thing is that when I saw one of your guitar videos I thought you were a teenager. Good genes?

Anyway, live your life as you see fit. Only you can make yourself happy since nobody else can live your life. I personally believe that one person can love multiple people, so if polyamory is the best thing for you then enjoy!

[AmorousEyes]

@robibm2003 Thank you. <3 I lucked out a little on the genetics department.

There's a common misconception among people that polyamory means you're just having sex with random people all the time, which of course is not true. The more sensible people know this. :)

I'm very happy with my life. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now and going strong! :)

[iPadorchestra91]

Luvvv this video!

[xliger2012x]

Its different with a child, and your relationship with a child is not the same as a relationship with a man, and if you like/love someone as much as you say you do, then why do you need someone else outside of just that one person?

It just doesnt make sense, because if you love someone you should be with them and not want anyone else. Life is too short and if you dont love each other enough to just want the other, then why are you togethet.

[AmorousEyes]

@xliger2012x First, of you don't believe polyamory exists you might wanna dispute the Wiki page.

Second, you seem to be under the impression that people have a finite and exact amount of love they can give, and if they were to love more than one person they'd have less love left for each of them. This is just not how it works. Yes, there are different kinds of love but they all work in similar ways. Just as my analogy, getting a second child doesn't lessen the love you have for the first one.

[xliger2012x]

You move alot, the cahair sweaks were annoying.

But being in multiple relationships doesnt allow you to love someone wiyh all youve got to give.

[AmorousEyes]

@xliger2012x I guess we're going to have to agree to disagree here. My boyfriend and I have been together for four months now (well, tomorrow) and we're doing great! Our relationship is definitely getting stronger and stronger and I most definitely give him everything I got, just ask him. ;)

See of it this way, if you have two children, would you be unable to give either one all the love you have to give? - Of course not!

Just because polyamory is not for you, doesn't mean it's not for anyone.

[SeguraTVs]

nice video

[trupoet7]

congrats girl!

[pollitt2]

do you have any t-girlfriends

[AmorousEyes]

@pollitt2 If you mean sexually, then no. I've met a few t-girls but I didn't really got along with most of them.

[JillyBeane1]

Congrats Julie on your new bf... 

[AmorousEyes]

@jussiehay I am happy! Very happy! :D And I get attached to people too, quite a bit actually. I also require a LOT of attention (and give a lot) which is not something many people can handle all the time. So being poly actually has the fortunate side effect of not suffocating my boyfriend in our relationship.

[AmorousEyes]

@013Jayne Thanks! :) While being in a poly relationship it is important to always be honest and upfront when meeting with new people you may be interested in.

[gloriatg100]

Hey ! Clean your closet. lol

[AmorousEyes]

@gloriatg100 It's not my closet! ;p

[gloriatg100]

@AmorousEyes I rewatched the video, I somehow didn`t hear you say your not home the first time. lol

[inkust]

and the world sighs over you being off the market

[MissBarbaraCox]

Wow girl im so happy for u, u look so happy , wish u best luck ,u deserve best!!! kissss

[AmorousEyes]

@MissBarbaraCox Thank you. :)