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  • LMAO I'm on the ground laughing!! but I totally agree! I been saying this for years

  • I love your videos... And it is so true about the torrid models and I noticed it looks like the torrid models are getting skinnier.

  • Lol Tati ur the shit we need more bitches like u! Luv ya girl ya #1 fan

  • bitch means woman now.. why? i'm offended!

  • good vid

  • OMG!!!!! Girl u have me over here rolling. I'm a plus size girl and i know exactly what ur talking about. LMFAO I love ur videos

  • OMG!!!!!! U got me over here rolling. I'ma big girl 200lbs to be exact and I have experienced some of that shit.

  • size 14 and 16 got major problems too! they pick those skinny looking size 14 and 16's lol you know what i mean, height has a lot to do with it, if you are size 14 and 15 and you are 5'11 then you are not marketing to the size 14 and 15 that are like 5'2, it's still a totally different body size. a lot of this plus size marketing is unfair because they pick those size 14/15 models who are tall as hell and look like they light weight on the skinny side. i agree with you they need to get real!

  • whats your ustream ?

  • I love you omgee!! :D lol!!

  • girlllll, you are my bitchh for life and i never even met you!! you're amazing and this video is soo true, my feelings exactly!!! i wanna one day have a dopeass blog or channel for the dope ass fat girls like you and myself !! and while im learning to love myself you are a great help in speeding up the process, thankss and much lovee Toni. -xoxo

  • I LOVE Torrid, and I will tell you something that trips me out. If you look at the dresses the models look like they are no bigger than around a 14/16 at most, but if you look at the videos that is when you will see how full they really are, and it is really awesome because then I get a real idea of how it will look in real life. They should do that for their shirts as well, but they seem to mostly do it on the dresses.

  • lls bitch love u yo! you be trippinnnn

  • LOVE IT!!!! please keep doing these "Memoirs of a Fat Bitch" this shit is so true!

  • I love this. Fat Bitch problems!! Girl imma put you on blast on my facebook-- this is real talk for me and my girls. LMAO-- you say there's an obesity epidemic-- well show me the fat bitches. lol!

  • I have a great deal of respect for you, and you made me laugh so hard in this vid! I'm definitely a fattie too! However, is it necessary to use Bitch so much? I can see you mean nothing derogatory by it, but it IS derogatory in and of itself.

  • @IcedReality If you can see that I mean nothing derogatory by it then why does it matter if I use the word and apply it to myself? I think we give words a lot of power and I don't see the big deal about using it.

  • @TatiAnaMercedes I would have rather you said "asshole" because that's gender neutral. 

  • @IcedReality you know, when you watch a video and critique the language, I'm not sure what you expect the outcome to be. I've got 200+ videos and I'v said bitch, fuck, cunt, shit ect in each one. If it really is an issue for you, then maybe this isnt the channel for you. 

  • @TatiAnaMercedes lol girl i say bitch alot too it jus gets the point across ooooo and i get them boils too on minor disadvantage of being a fat girl lol

  • @TatiAnaMercedes

    Do you really weigh 300lbs? You are beautiful nonetheless. I love your personality.

  • @mostsincere do you really watch my videos? I said my weight son, rewind.

  • i love you!!!! everything you said in this video just rocked my world. so much truth! ugh!

  • LMFAO "my boobs look like baked potatoes"

  • TOOOOO FUCKING FUNNY!!

  • I so agree with you...

  • you're amazing. no joke. you're an inspiration.

  • lmao and my boobs look like baked potatos lol <3

  • Lmaoooo i love this girl!!!! Im in the 300 club too

  • I love you so much!!! I'm a 24 to and I live torrid but I have to go 2 hours to get to one cause I don't want to order online. I wish plus size models were like big beautiful girls.(:

  • lmao i wanna see the back fat, i need to see the back fat bring em out bring em out, check out my music bitch I think you'll like & especially my song PHAT GIRL SWAGG

  • BAKED POTATOS. LOL.

  • OK SO i was doin some Tati stalkin and went to the Roamans website you mentioned on your tumblr via twitter tahaha... first i was like who the fuck is Roman... ne ways I went the website and was looking at the pictures like "the fuck i thought this was a plus size website" all them chicks on the site like size 10-12 thas not PLUS SIZE.... SHAME... i seen a cute ass jacket but the chick rockin it look like a size 8 yea a need a reallistic preview someone wit muffin top something!

  • This is why u my fuckin girl! Love this!

  • CTFU!!!! Genie pants....lol.

  • ROFLMAO

  • Lol ur to funny but I will agree it's so true torrid needs bigger women to show us their shit so ;) I just love watching ur videos u make my day ... Luv u

  • haha your fricken hilarious! fuckkk yeah. i love how you sooo straight up! loovvveee itt!

  • lol girl ive been watching your channel for a minute and you always seem to make me smile. i want to start my on vlogs. it would be awsome if we lived in the same state. you belong on my team. we come in all sizes too. youll get to meet them once i began my vlogs.

  • i freakin love you. :D 

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  • omg I thought I was the only one lol! I love how you embrace yourself..and because of you I love myself more:')

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  • i feel u, and i am that sized 14/16 bitch but the models on those sites who are my same clothing size still dont have a hanging belly, back fat or bat wings like i do! they just need some real bitches, c sections stomachs,double chinned, fat wide backs,etc...then i could relate! lol

  • GIrl you gotta end up with your own show on TV! Too real and awesome! <3

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  • LOL @ "U say there's an obesity epidemic well SHOW ME the fat bitches then! Bring em' out, ok I wanna see"!

  • Speak Tati Speak!

  • you should model for real your so pretty

  • Yeah, I'm an 18/20 and I absolutely hate to shop. It's never an enjoyable experience. Even when I get things "my size," they still don't fit or fit properly due to my shape. I got big hips, thighs, and legs...shits strangling my thighs and loose on the waist...ugh it seriously sucks!

  • lol this is real as fuck. i love it. I SUBSCRIBED

  • What is your ustream as a matter of fact?

  • Chub rub lol real talk! I used to think like others I was the only one going thru this stuff. Thanks for speaking what many of us think.

  • What is your ustream I was looking for it on tuesday. Love this video.

  • I've been thinking the same damn thing. I'm very reluctant to buy shit just because i don't have the shape and size of the models so i know its not even gonna look right on me.

  • LOL! you are so real....how can ppl not love you! That Spanx comment was so true! bwahahahahahaha

  • WE SHOULD MOVE TO AFRICA. THEY APPRECIATE US THERE MORE. SMH....fuck the media lol I'm movin to Africaaaaa cause they damn sure love the voluptuous womeeeen

  • yo wat i got to be subbed to to find out about your ustream?

  • I AGREE WITH 100%.

    

  • i love u and u dont knw how much u have helped me and wondering if we can be freinds muah

  • i Freakn Love Youu !! ♥

    

  • BOSS HOG!!!! LMAO!!! LOVE IT!

  • YES!!!! Amen girl i seriously understand everything ur saying i agree i wanna see a fat bitch wearing a 24 or 26 i wanna see it for real the bat wings and the back fat and belly because i have bought some shirts that seriously dont look right on me. i love your realness !

  • AMAZING...these are my EXACT THOUGHTS!!!! you said it best! <3 you def got a new lifetime subbie!!!

  • we have 2 plus size stores here in melbourne (australia) one of them is highly expensive like $99 for a jacket...and the other is like old lady clothes.... i think its absolutely ridiculous that us plus size girls get ignored and if we want to dress fashionable its near impossible because its too expensive...

  • Fuuuck yeah, you should model for them!

    Cuz then I'll know too, haha. They never show how it really is gonna look on you >.> and i hate that, so I'm never sure about buying it. But ah, i love you. Forreal, i love this, i feel the SAME way.

  • You are perfect and the man (or woman) who wins your heart is one lucky motherfucker.

  • Instant subscribe. Your personality is just addictive. You're beautiful and you are doing such a great thing for women everywhere. Thank you for your bravery and putting yourself out there. I, for one, really needed to hear this today. :)

  • I need to see the backfat!!! hilarious!!!!

  • I always miss your ustreams!! :(

  • 1st time watching your vids and I love ya already this is the definition of #REAL

  • You keep it so real.....I love it!!! Wat about the damn shirts that hang off the models shoulders so we like yea that's how the shirt gon fit and we get the shit and its hugging us.....girl that shit is nerve wrecking!!! Picture I went to Rainbow the other dat to get some jeans and its like the jeans run small now.....I was too pissed!!! Everybody not skinny and America need to realize that shit!!!!

  • what the f is a chub rub? :s im lost

  • @harlllequingirl It's pretty self-explanatory lol. It's when the fat rubs creating bruises, boils, and all together irritation. You don't even have to be overweight, you can just be meaty in certain areas. I'm a plus size girl, but even if I were a size 8, I'd still have these big ass thunder thighs with the same problem, they'd just be more in proportion to my smaller size, but still big nonetheless. Every woman in my family, big and small alike have big hips, thighs, legs, and ass lol.

  • I want 2 order online from forever 21 plus because the stuff is cute and affordable. but im hesistant because if my size or the size up dont fit right, ima be mad as HELL

  • i dont think we will ever see a model that is over a size 16 on any websites that sell plus clothing. hell they barely want to even recognize plus size women. i live in GA and they have a million damn forever 21 but they removed all the the forever 21 plus from the stores. like wtf there are a milion big bitches like me that want to be swagged the fuck out here, but we are limited 2 what we can wear because there are no stores for us. torrid has nice shit but 50$ for a blazer .naw im good bruh

  • LOL!! Girl aint that shyt the TRUTH! YOU AINT NEVERRRRRRRRRR LIED! IMMA 14 AND I HATE THE SAME SHYT...GOT GIRLS SIZE S ..MODELING THE CLOTHES FOR THE P.S. SECTION..IM LIKE YO FAREAL! LOL..SMDH! GOOD SHYT

  • go to torrid and model COMONNNNNNNN e-mail them! you'd get it in 0.124348 seconds!

  • Girl you got me rollin'. I love it & you.

  • I am rollinnn OMG....man...you are about to go viral....hope u know!

  • Yes I so Agree!!!! on that torrid piece... why don't they have size 20 models!!! Yes Two plates at the Buffet!!!! That is a wonderful idea... I'm gonna write this and get it going #TeamBackFat

  • allah wut? lol sorry i couldn't understand you >.< i wanted to look it up..

  • AWWWW man i missed the ustream really tho?? i hope u do it again!!! i would have had aloootta input from the chubb rub to bullshitting ass torrid....I dont have plus sized friends them bitches all skinny!! they cant understand, its so refreshing to find someone who does love you boo!! and i was dead when u said corn fed hoes im through!

  • I love you.

  • I fucking love you!! regards from Nicaragua. :D

  • Shit i was thinking the same thing the other day im a size 2. I was watching the show Pretty Big on TLC the other day and of the girls on the show has to lose weight in order to maintain her career as a plus size model? I was like WTF? Does that not go against the purpose of being a plus size model? To push the boundaries of what the ideal model is, but its sad to say that even being a plus size model is limited to a 1x

  • "And my boobs look like baked potatos" lol I kinda love you :P

  • whats yur ustream and what when do yu get on?

  • spanks fall down the pooch but they do stop the chub rub for sho I love this vid!!

  • bless you for being so strong and open stay blessed and inspired

  • You're my hero.

  • OMG! the advertisement on your video is an add for the lap band surgery wtf

  • Ok giving me spanx is like giving me some dang broccoli with no salad dressing! get the WTF face! They are hot to wear freaking spandex under your clothes

  • dam i wish i could have been in this convo because today i fuckin rubed a hole in my fuckin work pants so i came home to get my shit together and realized that all my work pants are burned the fuck up in between the dam legs fack lmao sorry just had to get that out lmao any way have you been watchin BIG SEXY

  • I don't know how you do it, but you always say EXACTLY what I'm thinking! I'm a size 24, with a belly, boobs, and back fat! And for the longest time, I would get frustrated walking into Torrid and LB, trying on clothes that are PINNED down on the mannequins in the store! It's good to know that I'm not alone. Thank you Tati for speaking up! Thanks for making my day! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!!

  • I feel the same way these websites have plus size models with little or no belly at all and the clothes look really good on them but I'm wondering well how is it going to look on me with a belly???

  • Most of those store...Asos Curve, Forever21, Torrid, etc....started out with bigger girls modeling their clothes on line and as time went on the models got smaller and smaller..shit the girls on asos curve don't even fill out the smallest size, they be looking all irregular. smh

  • Damn girl, you had me CRACKING up with the bat wing! Whenever I try on shirts I literally shake my arm to see how the shirt will affect my bat wing! So sad I've never been to one of your Ustreams! :(

  • i wore a spank and that always role down i wore a bra that hits the middle of the stomach & it roles up...& i think im going to do fashion for bigg girls like huge & huger(dk if thats a word) 18-42 lol i dk if 42 a size but imma guess .. but i think theres so many fat people (ME) and we barley got the good shit because apparently we aint healthy! like we aint know we still wanna look good just like the anerexics have size 0 im a size 24 and im 290 but i will lose just want to be cute doin it!!

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  • OMG you just made my night! I feel the same way bring out the real plus size models

  • show me the fat bitches, BRING EM' OUT lmao ily 

  • you make my day everytime i click on your videos, this is real shit and i thank you soo much

  • Girl you hit two topics that touch me. I'm a 24 right now and it bothers the hell out of me everytime I see that same model "miss perfect 16" on Torrid, Debs, and Forever21. Shit can't they get another model. I'm sorry but they need a bitch that looks like us... so I'm completely with you on that. The other thing is about them dam boils you ain't never lie.

  • Vision like Raven #classic

  • I can totally relate Tati! Everything looks on those size 14 girls. I want to see what the shit looks like on size 20 and up. And the arms thing UGH drive me insane. I want to see if its going to cover my bat wings Haha

  • Oomfg this was My all time favorite video of yours so far..... Jeep it rocking

  • Lol I want to agree with EVERYTHING you said! We are about the same size & want to see a chick my size modeling the clothes too. That's why I am skeptical about ordering off line. But if you have seen the show "Big Sexy" one of the plus size models was threatened to be dropped from her agency because she was a few inches too big...& she was a freaking sixe 14!!! Now aint that some shit lol But I love watchin your videos they just lift me up & make me feel much better.!! <3

  • I say we start our own agency to fill in this Gap in the industry. I'm a size 16 but I do not have a hour glass figure nor a flat belly so I'm still aprehensive when it comes go shooing online becajee in the past clothing hasn't fit like I thought it would. I also have an issue with big shirts being made with short ass sleeves! Or pants with a big waist but my tights don't fit! Lol

  • U makers me laugh. Have you sent your ideas to these companies?

  • this video gave me so much life....i agree 100000000000% percent with everything u said!

  • Lmao @ Boss Hog

  • you had me dying!

  • vision like raven! LMFAO!! I seriously LOVED this vid!

  • im with you ima size 24 too

  • omg i feel like u just took the words right out of my mouth with this video. like everything u said in this video has been on my mind like all this week.

  • This was a much needed video. This video is real as shit....THANK YOU!

  • youre beautiful even when you dont have makeup on :o

  • ROFL Please make more of these memoirs!

  • wow tati u get to the heart of the problem u know we all thinkin the same thing, the only reason i check youtube every day is to see if you made another video haha im seriously obsessed !!!

  • Dammit Marf why you ain say you was goin on Uskream today so I can paralay and bullshit on my lunchbreak again lol..Catch yall next time ;)

    XOXO

    MsScotch

  • Yo she is thebomb.com! :))

  • Fucking greatness.

  • AMEN!!!!!!

  • preach!!!

  • I loved this video!

  • omg so true about spanx!!! hahaha so funny i feel like no one understands thats shit...

  • dude! chub rub! thats why i'm so paranoid to just put powder on and go out w/ out shorts cause i know its gona sweat and the powder will be no more and i have no more powder to put on and then comes the chub rub/boils!! lmao!! very real...

  • Did this girl just say "my boobs look like baked potatoes"??!

    I can't. LMFAO!!! You are too damn hilarious

  • hate that i missed your ustream :( but girl you are reading my mind right now!

  • oh my god me and my best friend always talk about how these online stores need bigger models. they sellin a size 28 but all i see is size 16 models our bodies aint the same that isnt gonna look the same on me. what the hell is this foolishness.

  • omg yes girl yesss!! speak that truth...that mess annoys the hell outta me....i hate goin online and it be "average" looking chicks..like wtf -- u know im not bout to look like that...smh - as expensive as places like torrid are they should at least have different body types in their models...

  • Carry babypowder with you and place it on each inner thigh problem solved!!! No joke try it, and reapply that shit works!!

  • truth. Everytime i go into Torrid I'm like...UH! Model, is like a 12. damn even here there is a problem. I love this

  • Girl your preaching to the choir I even feel like that in Lane Bryant nowadays that the have size 12 as plus. Size 12 don't even have a fat roll yet but I'm with u on the stomach the semi tire I call it and the back fat is my number one I never buy tops that have any back showing cause I don't like how they lay across my back fat and I'm

    Always covering my Bat Wings. Keep making videos like this hopefully the stores and market for plus size will change. Love Ya Girl

  • i know my sn says mrraisufia but im a girl and i was thimking this the other day. go to roamans and look at them bitchs. they aint even 14 mpre like fucking 8 sizes. and i dont know if them clothes look good on me!!! then if theu dont i have to send them back ugh.

  • Lmfao true tea

  • you still get rolls and back fat when u wear a spanks. shit u get extra rolls wit spanks.

  • GGGrrrllllllll PREACH!!!! mmhhmmm!!! Fat bitches need to speak the fuck up and tell them we need to see real fat bitches wearing their shit!!!

  • omg realist chick on youtube! i love this fucking video!!! i hate going to websites who sale 1x and up but the bitch modeling is a size 12-14 like wtf! and i want some harem pants so fucking bad! :( you look very pretty in this vid by the way!

  • yeahhh i cant wear spanx or anyting to hide my tummy poppin out cuz they role downnnnnn

  • true shit..omg lls

  • Yes Tati..

  • exactly what i be saying when im looking at the models on torrid like they dont be fat they be thick , i order my clothes an extra size bigger too

  • YESS I completely agree! I hate that a lot of sites like ASOS and Torrid have our sizes but won't put a model up there to show you what that size looks like. I need to know if that shirt that looks cute on size 14/16 looks good on my size 22/24.

  • Spanx aren't worth a damn. I got to get on ur upstream. You discuss what I understand.

  • omg this video has made my day so much better. I have had EVERY one of these thoughts while shopping online.

  • "fuck a spank" haha i love you.

  • What is ur ustream??!!!

  • "and my boobs look like baked potatoes" hahaha!

  • OMFGOSH, I HAVE THE SAME FUCKING PROBLEM IM A 26/28 AT THE TOP AND A 30 SOMETIMES 32 AT THE BOTTOM CAUSE OF MY ASS....AND TORRID PANTS JUST MAKE ME MAD AS SHYT LIKE THEY MAKE THE BOTTOMS LIKE EVERY FAT PERSON DNT HAVE NO ASS.. I GET THE 4 AT THE TOP AND THEY BE FINE BUT DAMN I CANT EVEN WALK PAST THE FUCKING BOTTOMS THIS IS AN FUCKING CRIME!

  • Everytime I watch ur videos, I love you more and more!!

  • thank you so much this made my fuckin day

  • Me and my best friend ALWAYS talk about our fat girl problems. Boils, aching joints, titty sweat, back rolls, stretch marks, etc. I've gotten to a point where I can laugh about the shit because we go through the same things, lol. And as far as online shopping, I keep that to a minimum for all the reasons that you named. I'm 5'8, 250 with back rolls, a gut, 44 DD's, big legs and fat ass arms and on the damn sites all I'm seeing is size 14-16, flat back, flat stomach, hour glass bitches. No bueno.

  • I thought it was just me, girl are we sisters?lol What about these plus size online sites that only go up to a 3x but when you get the item it fit like a 1x? #PLUMFOOLARY

  • Yesssssss!!! I love this shit so fucking true fat bitches an't a size 14!!!!!! We need fat ass models!!!!!

  • You are 100% right! I hate how they only put the clothes on certain people and not someone who has a bigger ass or thighs, They need to be real!

  • hangy belly ! i loveeeeeee that #teamhangybelly baby (:

  • okay i dont understand torrid they say plus size which i am and they dnt ugh okay so i can get into an extra large going all the way up to 2x being that most of my cloths now are 2x im goina say 2x in tshirts i can wear from 18-22 in pants what i dont understand is that i got a over freaking price size 0 and it still didnt fit i am one of the biggest girls at my school and how they gonna call me fat if i cant even fit in torrid i want a line i even have like 50 designs now

  • GIRL! haha your saying the same shit i think about!!! especially about torrid!!! am always like damn i need to know how that shit is gonna look.. im 5'3 and a size 22

  • GIRL! haha your saying the same shit i think about!!! especially about torrid!!! am always like damn i need to know how that shit is gonna look.. im 5'3 and a size 22

  • YAS!!!! I agree with everything in this. I'm so tired of going to Forever 21 to look at the plus size clothes and seeing that same heifa with the bangs!!!! What, you couldn't find ANY other model to model the damn clothes?! Bat wings, chicks with ASS(I stay at Ashley Stewart b/c of these problem), need to see all that ish!

  • @psdubose Hell yeah! On Forever 21.com it's always the same cute bitch with the bangs...i'm like wtf. 

  • YAS!!!! I agree with everything in this. I'm so tired of going to Forever 21 to look at the plus size clothes and seeing that same heifa with the bangs!!!! What, you couldn't find ANY other model to model the damn clothes?! Bat wings, chicks with ASS(I stay at Ashley Stewart b/c of these problem), need to see all that ish!

  • Don't give up on the dream bb! Genie would be a hot ass look for you! xx

  • Yo I truly lost it with this video! And yes people don't understand y I don't wear spanks ! I am too big to be attempting to camaflauge shit!! I have to let my rolls breathe!