Her mom told her that things would be OK? They have been letting her brothers screw her for years and she thinks things are going to be different? WOW. . .
I hate when people say they don't fit the profile. Years ago it was horrid and impossible that a clergy man could do anything to a child. Now it's a common 'joke' that thats all they do. Anyone is capable of doing anything, regardless of race, gender, age, or history.
@saywhat248 tell me, where you an ostrich in your former life and do you know still have the habit of sticking your head in the sand ? I'm just wondering :p
@saywhat248 looks like you are the one born yesterday if you think that dreaming about it is what happened. There are more clues like her clothes hiding her body , no make-up, ...
i sympathize with anyone who was abused in any way, i do not condone it all. However, my point was this movie just seems unrealistic to me. how can she love her father into her mid adulthood, and than one day wake up and say he raped her.
@saywhat248 Suppressed memories from childhood, especially early childhood, can literally be locked away so tight it's like it never happened. It usually takes triggers for the trauma to come back. Abuse victims suffer from PTSD.
And still, in 2011, we say that people in middle and upper class families could never have done it. And they tell this to their children... "How could you think we would ever do such a thing? Look at everything we gave you!"
@cirrutopia , so true. People need to let go of their biases and stereotypes. Abuse, including incest, happens in all walks of life, and probably happens more than we know. Most of the perpetrators feel they have the right to do what they do, which is frightening to think about. And how the victim suffers long-reaching and devastating affects.
It continues to amaze me just how different things are now-a-days. We ask ourselves what kind of world we live in after watching entire towns flee for their lives, revolutions in the Middle East and the ever present threat of nuclear bombs and chemical and biological weapons...
i know what it is to be incest, it is a THING that one can never escape ever in life the memory's of it is there all ones life and never lets go.So we try to move on and get past it some succeeds and other fail some fall into addiction like myself, i am dealing with it one day @ a time. and other doing it to there kids,nieces.nefew,ect ..the point is it is very HARD to set past this we just cope with it one day @ a time.
I know how you feel because I'm 42 and everything brings it all back again.A certain scent or smell or if some one looks like the abuser. I've had dreams about my abusers all my life and I wake up wanting to kill and wondering when I would forget.Sometimes I want to confront my grandmother because I feel she let it happened and my mother .M y mom was molested as a child and when I was bornand she left me in that sick environment with those perverts .
"The victim suffers a life long sentence" This says it all.
No matter what that abuse is, it will still affect you somehow. I am only now, at age 25 getting to a happy place in life, after 20 years of extreme unhappiness stemming from abuse of many forms from the people that were supposed to care for me, love me, protect me, support me.
I am still a work in progress but I am proud and happy of myself that I made it here and have finally gotten the chance to feel Real love, joy and happiness.
I surpressed my nightmare for over 40 years and it surfaced when I had to deal with a similar situation with a friend. My heart goes out to all the children who go thru this, and I know from experience that your family will NOT support you, and will be in denial. It took my brother being arrested for a sex crime for my mother to realize that he was guilty. And she (and he) never even apologized to me. I so identify with these victims. It is even hard for me to watch this movie.
Many sexual abusers honesly believe that what they are doing is not abusive. They commit rape of children, and honestly believe they are demonstrating their love for the little ones.
The profile is of a cruel, vicious person who intends serious harm, and those certainly exist. The typical abuser is not any of this.
@SummerSunshine1988 i know how you feel the court thinks the man / woman who ever is doing it has to be a drunk a and the courts think that men who are educated can not and wouldnt do something like that because they have got an education what a load of crap if he dosnt fit the profile and he's guilty i hope every one of them rotts in hell with no mercy!
Her mom told her that things would be OK? They have been letting her brothers screw her for years and she thinks things are going to be different? WOW. . .
rpm8064 1 day ago
This is an incredibly powerful movie....but the pantsuits are HORRIBLE.
luvcandycane8 2 weeks ago
kinda like a brother who could murder his own brother for money type thing this is kinda like that.
FeelingFroggyLEaP 1 month ago
I hate when people say they don't fit the profile. Years ago it was horrid and impossible that a clergy man could do anything to a child. Now it's a common 'joke' that thats all they do. Anyone is capable of doing anything, regardless of race, gender, age, or history.
crazycakes9943 5 months ago 5
Id love to pull out a knife when the fucker enters the room
pelicanus11 5 months ago
the perpetrators get off scot free and the victims get a life sentence!
pelicanus11 5 months ago
this movie is full of shit... she could have just had nightmare about being molested nothing that happened in reality.
saywhat248 5 months ago
@saywhat248 you ARE a sad person to not realize the entire picture. Open your eyes ..
ay2kgal 4 months ago
@saywhat248 tell me, where you an ostrich in your former life and do you know still have the habit of sticking your head in the sand ? I'm just wondering :p
shirahbe 3 months ago
@shirahbe Were you born yesterday? Get a clue
saywhat248 3 months ago
@saywhat248 looks like you are the one born yesterday if you think that dreaming about it is what happened. There are more clues like her clothes hiding her body , no make-up, ...
what ever, keep sticking your head in the sand :p
shirahbe 3 months ago
i sympathize with anyone who was abused in any way, i do not condone it all. However, my point was this movie just seems unrealistic to me. how can she love her father into her mid adulthood, and than one day wake up and say he raped her.
saywhat248 3 months ago
@saywhat248 Suppressed memories from childhood, especially early childhood, can literally be locked away so tight it's like it never happened. It usually takes triggers for the trauma to come back. Abuse victims suffer from PTSD.
Malena1m 1 month ago
And still, in 2011, we say that people in middle and upper class families could never have done it. And they tell this to their children... "How could you think we would ever do such a thing? Look at everything we gave you!"
cirrutopia 7 months ago
@cirrutopia , so true. People need to let go of their biases and stereotypes. Abuse, including incest, happens in all walks of life, and probably happens more than we know. Most of the perpetrators feel they have the right to do what they do, which is frightening to think about. And how the victim suffers long-reaching and devastating affects.
Muirmaiden 6 months ago
@Muirmaiden VERY true .. victims last forever ...
ay2kgal 4 months ago
The dads sittin there like he doesnt care its disgustin
snookijunior 8 months ago 2
25!!!! yeah right!!!! more like 45!!!!
Supablonde1 8 months ago
Loved the movie
dyment19 9 months ago
GEEET EM' MELISSA!!
jusheather08 10 months ago
There cloths are so dated what year was this?
87kittygirl 1 year ago
@87kittygirl 1993
tmwalkerm 7 months ago
"What kind of world we live in?!"
It continues to amaze me just how different things are now-a-days. We ask ourselves what kind of world we live in after watching entire towns flee for their lives, revolutions in the Middle East and the ever present threat of nuclear bombs and chemical and biological weapons...
akissy 1 year ago 2
i know what it is to be incest, it is a THING that one can never escape ever in life the memory's of it is there all ones life and never lets go.So we try to move on and get past it some succeeds and other fail some fall into addiction like myself, i am dealing with it one day @ a time. and other doing it to there kids,nieces.nefew,ect ..the point is it is very HARD to set past this we just cope with it one day @ a time.
angelique714 1 year ago 6
@angelique714
I know how you feel because I'm 42 and everything brings it all back again.A certain scent or smell or if some one looks like the abuser. I've had dreams about my abusers all my life and I wake up wanting to kill and wondering when I would forget.Sometimes I want to confront my grandmother because I feel she let it happened and my mother .M y mom was molested as a child and when I was bornand she left me in that sick environment with those perverts .
SexyBlkScorpion 10 months ago
@SexyBlkScorpion wow im 19 i wouldnt know about all that
Chan3lprincess16 8 months ago
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i fuck my sis and she like it.
she even suck my cock after that.
i don't get what the fuck is wrong with this accusing family member for crime lol.
for some maybe, for some, they don't care.
everybody in the world fuck each others.
NiNJaBeRSeRKeR 1 year ago
its hard to see a woman with suit n pants nowadays.
keii25 1 year ago
"The victim suffers a life long sentence" This says it all.
No matter what that abuse is, it will still affect you somehow. I am only now, at age 25 getting to a happy place in life, after 20 years of extreme unhappiness stemming from abuse of many forms from the people that were supposed to care for me, love me, protect me, support me.
I am still a work in progress but I am proud and happy of myself that I made it here and have finally gotten the chance to feel Real love, joy and happiness.
KenyanPlayboyBunnie1 1 year ago 5
I surpressed my nightmare for over 40 years and it surfaced when I had to deal with a similar situation with a friend. My heart goes out to all the children who go thru this, and I know from experience that your family will NOT support you, and will be in denial. It took my brother being arrested for a sex crime for my mother to realize that he was guilty. And she (and he) never even apologized to me. I so identify with these victims. It is even hard for me to watch this movie.
upwards11 1 year ago 6
@upwards11 **Hugs to you**
KenyanPlayboyBunnie1 1 year ago
@upwards11 You're very brave. I hope that your happiness will be granted!!
God Bless.
Mileyangel321 1 year ago
Many sexual abusers honesly believe that what they are doing is not abusive. They commit rape of children, and honestly believe they are demonstrating their love for the little ones.
The profile is of a cruel, vicious person who intends serious harm, and those certainly exist. The typical abuser is not any of this.
absue 1 year ago 4
"He doesn't fit the profile" - I HATE that phrase!
SummerSunshine1988 1 year ago 66
@SummerSunshine1988 i know how you feel the court thinks the man / woman who ever is doing it has to be a drunk a and the courts think that men who are educated can not and wouldnt do something like that because they have got an education what a load of crap if he dosnt fit the profile and he's guilty i hope every one of them rotts in hell with no mercy!
funkyerin 1 year ago
@SummerSunshine1988 I know! What are pedofiles supposed to look like? The sickness is inside of the head!!!!!
sucedeu 10 months ago 3
@SummerSunshine1988 So do I. I mean, do they expect some bald fat guy who lives on welfare with eleven kids to 'fit the profile'?
fashiondesigner1012 6 months ago
@SummerSunshine1988 I know, it pisses me to hear that, like the clean and neat can't do anything bad.
Hochichin 1 month ago
@Hochichin : Exactly. In reality, pretty much anybody is capable of pretty much anything under the right circumstances.
SummerSunshine1988 1 month ago
@SummerSunshine1988 I so agree, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you have, where you live. Perverts are perverts.
Hochichin 1 month ago
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talk about overacting. i expect better than this from melissa.
ThePolkadotbikini 2 years ago
The sister's an idiot.... like I'm so sure the dad would incriminate himself!
kristalisonfire 2 years ago 33
The Government is part of the Illuminati the eye of horus sexual abuse of children is part of their worship
26dorene26 2 years ago
yep its true!
menjiii01 2 years ago