Will My Ex-Swinger Husband Cheat On Me?

[hitcharide1]

Will the guy swing...uh, yes! He has no respect or honor, of course he won't honor the marriage. The lady isn't "jealous" or "insecure," she just thinks a lot more of him and the marriage than he does, apparently getting some strange ass is more important than honoring his vows. She'd be best off ditching his worthless ass and finding someone who will care as much for her as she does for him.

[HisLady1984]

and Here we have a clear case that He never had the intentions of switching to a vanilla life...(lol sorry) and she is just fooling herself ... see neither one of these people are going to be happy together because she will always be looking for "signs" of him living the lifestyle and he will have to "sneak around and lie" to have the sexual lifestyle his enjoys. Its not right for either of them ... hmmm i see this was posted three years ago .. I would love an update on them

[HisLady1984]

going to lose something or someone they want (at the time) so did she REALLY know who he was or just what was being said...I dont have a PHD on this . I am just a woman who lives by what I feel.. and I truly feel that most people know if they could "share" and I also feel that most people living the lifestyle know if they would be happy with just one. She should have gone with her gut feeling on this .

[HisLady1984]

ok "we" wont do it anymore.. Did he say " I " wont.. see words are funny like that.

he should have said I am going to really try not to...lol but i cant promise anything

but then that would be honest wouldnt it...

again i will have to point out something Jen says about if you truly loved himyou would for who he is regardless of what he was doing...(????) Well the crazy thing about folks is they dont always come out and let you know exactly who they are especially if they feel they are

[HisLady1984]

I am not a person who is against the lifestyle or against a one on one (only) relationship.. One thing that really bothers me is when the lady said it didnt work because of her own"jealousy and insecurities"... I am sorry but you are intitled to your feelings and NOBODY (jenn) has the right to tell her that she feels she owns somebody and make her feel ashamed of feeling the way that experience made her feel. Its just not for Everybody bottom line.. and this is where her "husband" says to her

[HisLady1984]

was not a way of life for you why did you stay with this man? This is not like ohhh He likes chocolate and I like strawberry so I just decided to try it to make him happy so we would have something in common i hope. I see swinging as a serious life decision and yes I do believe that anyone can stop if they truly want to but that is just it.. They have to want to not because you want him to be happy with just you..(as the lady says later on) We do not make others change.

[HisLady1984]

I believe this lady already knows what she needs to do for her own happiness. She states she doesnt need to sleep with others (besides this man) to be fufilled.. Well good for her so why does she feel the need to stay with someone who needs to (well lets just say prefers to) have multiple sex partners? Sounds like she is setting herself up for misery. She states that when she first met him she tried it with him a few times my question is WHY? who's idea was it? and when you knew early on this

[TheDtotheRay]

That relationship will never work. Once a swinger,always a swinger. Besides, who wants to have sex with someone who used to swing? He's probably had like 200 partners. Can we say disease? Gross...

[kiwisunshine5233]

You never you if the relationship will work or not. People change; a monogamous person can become a swinger & a swinger can fall out of the desire to swing & settle down with one person.

I'd be willing to have sex with a swinger, xe would guarantee experience in bed. Being a swinger doesn't mean you have unsafe sex & get STDs.

[skorpionsks]

LOL I dont need to have sex with other people to need to feel fulfilled. right after that phrase the dude is like shit i need a damn drink lol.

[gbasource]

when are u going to change that shirt dan?

[Lockbar]

I have been in the life style for 15 years. Its hard to stay away from swinging after you have started, and you enjoy it. I think the lady that wrote the letter is going to have an unhappy future with this guy. Sad for her.

[shaniqua27]

awesome video!!