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  • I met one male that was like that towards me. Not so much talking to me, would talk to my friends. After a while he started talking to me. And at one point we were joking around and he nudged me a little. After a week my feelings were all over him. But he just wanted to Fuck. Lol. So I just dropped that...

  • When dealing with a person who is goodlooking in an obvious glaring way,you must ALWAYS act as if you havent even noticed!!Simple as that!!!!!!!

  • This will not work with Southern women guys!....She will think you're an ass!! ...lol

    ( Just so you know )

  • Get fun with beautiful Asian women *lushfmlk.info*

  • ok let me give it a go then..

    hey! tonya.. your breasts are like a couple of fucking footballs.

    howz that??x

  • Wow, Tonya, maybe I'm not a gorgeous girl because guys like this I know 'em, and they're the ones in the gym pumping up and wearing tight shirts, the guy making fun of what I'm saying sounds like a jerk - no really. I know guys like that, I think they are cocky, and cocky is not attractive to me, I guess I might be an exception/minority then.

  • Is she suggesting performing inception? haha

  • It's amazing to hear this from a woman, you have a lot more credibility than a man giving the same advice.... thank you.

  • God Bless Tonya!!

  • what if the girl is gorgeous but doesn't know it?

  • @OverXposedKC91 If the girl is gorgeous but doesn't know it, I think you can afford to approach her as you would an "average" girl, like just casually, without all the game play - but with some of the tips Tonya's already mentioned.

  • I have been TKO'd by Tonya and I loved it

  • would this work on you

  • That was some good info. I read that touching someones elbo (slightly) makes a connection.

  • You have breasts???

    Since when??

  • I disagree with this video. If you like somebody just go up to them and talk to them. Ask them out if they say yes cool if they say no go to the next person. And looks is overrated because if you live long those looks will fade so you better get to know a person for who they are that is why divorce is huge now. Look at my city Los Angeles number one in divorces why? because people too caught up in the physical and don't know nobody from the inside.

  • i love you TK,will you marry me

  • I like areoles

  • How do you get the gorgeous girl even if you complimented her highly what are your chances? Help Tonya

  • Stop all the compliments, pull back & act nonchalant

    -Tko

  • @TonyaTko the irony. but that works better thsan anything else. makes one wonder about the nature of us as humans

  • i have been doing all of this subconsiously. but you did teach me something new thank you so much!!

  • hey i do this all the time damn im the man wow

  • the 5 tip about you know you want me stuff

    do you say this to her and when?

  • what about phone calls is it Ok to keep phone calls short?

  • Ther guys are fun to deal with when they hate. I just remind them who they are hating on and not vice versa. Basically when I have it, its mine you cant have it na na na na na. Stop talking about your touch down dance when you cant catch the ball.

  • I have watched all of the vids. After many years of experimentation I have to agree with what you say. I a just flat out with it, I will let them know that I am not the one who is gonna jump through hoops, Save that for the fool who gets nowhere. I have also tried to part spome of the knowledge on other males, most have no clue which just makes it easier. I have had females that basically stop traffic and its not a secret. I tell them go ahead. Do they? None have.

  • I take a similar approach to women when i am being put in the spotlight. I tell them "Can't i dig my own holes?" or "whoa.. slow down and let me get myself in trouble, ok?" all with a playful banter and they change it up on me and the dudes watching sometimes turn hater on me xD

  • Now when you try not to pay attention, do you face your body away with the mental intention of "yes, i'm the hunter" or the more inquisitive joker? Last week went to some steak house and i asked one of the waiters in this "oh, i'm curious as to how that works" moods about the wooden saddle they have up front. i didn't notice the signs as normal so for the clueless inexperienced bunch who can drive the car and knows how it works but cannot park, do you have have any tips on waitresses?

  • I don't understand the quest darlin, but from my op when you chase ppl run (The definition of a chase) w/a pretty waitress you have to philosophize, she gets hit on a LOT. She is there to SERVE so how can you be different? When she comes to the table tell her you need her opinion on a riveting convo you're having. Get her out of her mode of serving to thinking. Make her look forward to rushing back 2 ur table for progress on the convo. At the end, thank her for her MIND... cont.

  • ask for her # as a way to follow up. Make it seem as if it something she has done with her ravishing mind which has qualified her for you to want her number. Yu can't play the avert game bcz u only have a short window of opp to make the connection. Keep her talking and giving her opinion. Let her have to wow YOU. Remember the looks gibe, but compliment her brains and you're In! Let me know how that works. Do u have the book of questions?

    -Tko

  • Sorry about the late reply. I haven't gotten the book yet since i'm crushed by studies at the moment but i'll have to get that and love and sex this month D:

    I've been using your advice and changing it for each person to see what works and what doesn't and i've come to realize that those duds with inflated egos are getting the hot girls inadvertently because they're busy focusing on themselves and don't always notice the woman.

    I wish i knew this stuff back in the day.

  • tonya do u listen to tariq nasheed's podcasts, because some of your points kinda seem like they were influenced by him

  • YES!! Your eyes look like your stoned! Im lighting up later your welcome join me beautiful.

    By the way I love your opening credits!! Kool!

  • Its the hat... it makes me squint. I do not use nor advocate the use of illegal substances. Sorry

    -Tko

  • Look you yungins is killin' me. You act like you've never seen tits or a pretty female before. Excuse my language TKO. Still joe, what is it be entirely excited over??? THIS IS INTERNET SHIT. Aint like she gonna come thru the screen and suck you off... Lame. You can do one of two things to provide yourself a solution. 1) Jack off. 2) Go to her meets and try your hand. Do one or the other. Cause watchin' her clown you lames is painful to my sense of collective manhood.

  • thanks for the info, it's like im gettin schooled by an older sister.

  • nice vids there worth staying up til like 1 am lol

    keep em coming

  • Come to think of it, I was way too shy to ever pay a gorgeous girl a compliment in person. But I could write to them passionately! I'm married now. So I don't have to sweat over such things. Hey,,I just noticed. Somebody else has made a video response to this one. Let me go check 'em out.

  • Tonya, women's breasts are too intoxicating! If you have them prominently displayed like that, guys can't help but to break out in poetry and song! But I get your point. Gorgeous girls (like yourself) prefer men who are a challenge, not easily swayed by good looks alone--right?

  • This video gets 5 stars for its theme; 5 stars times +100 for its visual content(pleasure)!

  • Men dont ask a woman where is got her purse....lmao!!!

  • Not where she got it in an inquisitive way... but where she got it in a mocking way... teasing her as if something is wrong with it.

    I once had a wooden purse that I got in the Dom Republic and there was one particular guy who teased me to high heaven about that purse whenever he would see it. It made me think. You don't have to use a purse, use anything.

    -Tko

  • But I say use something on the outskirts of her body or ensemble, bcz women spend a lot of time putting into their outfits, but things like hair, shoes, nails & make-up they experiment with. If you tease a woman's outfit you can get hurt, tease her purse or shoes and you stand a better chance at making her conscious of your opinion but not self-conscious about herself.

    -Tko

  • Tonya TKO.....you are absolutely gorgeous....DOH!

  • I wish I had a friend like you. Im probably older than you (38) but you are such a positive,encouraging gal.

    I just subscribed to your channel

    Ive had so many "friends " that have used me as a doormat and i get really depressed when I think about it.

    The only good friend to me are the ones you dont have to meet face to face , like the ones ya talk to on the internet.

  • you are great and seem so kind too.

    oh yeah.....your gorgeous too

  • oh, no, why is the video no longer available?

  • Maybe they were doing maintenance. OH NO! I was supposed to get back in touch with you! Shoot! I been so busy, I better get on that.

    -Tko

  • I CAN see the video now and yeah, I've been waiting...;o)

  • tonya that was some good tips thanks can i have the name of the person that rite the books

  • You didnt watch all three parts DID YOU?

    -Tko

  • Good Tonya,Some men pay for these Techniques.

  • wow, i am 17 and use every tip you give in all your videos and i never even thought about it. i get "gorgeous" women all the time and i never really knew why but i do everything you said, position of power, the right indirect compliments, sub-consious(however u spell that) thoughts, good looking friends to help you out. lol, well, its a good video series because it really does work and its not hard. just don't act like an immature idiot, be nice, and act smooth and thats how i live. see yu. ;)

  • Great video and I totally agree. Another thing is whether the girl is "gorgeous" or not. If she had a father in her life or male figure that always let her know that she was beautiful and smart. The man will have to take a different approach like the ones stated in your video to get her attention!

    Great Job!

  • Soooo Tonya. Following your lead, you look nice in that outfit you had to wear becaue you lost that bet...

  • what bet are you talking about krenzzzo?

    -Tko

  • i think this one had the best advice it really works i was shocked seriously...... or maybe she just already liked me

  • That's what you call Real Talk .

  • compliments should be spontaneous just like that ,or you want someone to memorize some words and brain wash that depends on the mood and the mind of the reciepient and thats easy too, so how can you make sure this fakery will last

  • -a question 4 u tonya, what i should do to get the attention of one girl that i see everyday but i dont even talk 2 her?

  • thankyou soo much tonyatko!

    this series has already gotten me alot of progress, as i worked on some girls today at school

    again thankyou!

  • i knew'd u comment

    ima a playa

  • tonya thats a nice shirt who u get it from your little brother

  • lol

  • LMAO! Sheeduup! lol =-]

    -TKO

  • Omgosh, I didn't realize this an hour ago when I commented back to you, but YES you got it... the complimentary gibe down pat! That was perfect you're a quick study. You give an insult in a funny way ftg419. You GET it, and I am proud of you.

    -Tko

  • good, only thing is that some gorgeous girls are sometime insecure, and hide it

    so u have to be careful with teaseing them on nose etc.

    my husband score big when he said to me i look like a model i heard that before i was just flatter hearing it from him.

  • A gorgeous woman is used to hearing she looks like a model, almost daily. This is not about avoiding her insecurities but feeding it slightly and most importantly Playfully. This is not about keeping her in a position of power or treating her with kid gloves, or even being nasty. Men understand the power of a very pretty woman. Above average women want to be treated average, and Below average women want to be treated Above. This video is not about average or below average women.

    -Tko

  • The thing about it PZVBN is that ALL women are insecure. Its all about getting past the front and tapping into the AVERAGE woman within. Get them on your level and go from there.

    -Tko

  • yea were not getting our correct views how do i contact youtube??

  • wat about for the girls what should we do?

  • Nice....

  • great tips!!! Im a guy and I do think the same way, gorgeous girls are used to get attention, so thats not the way to get to them.

  • immortal techniques.........

    5 stars

  • I would be offended at the "jive" talk. I'm glad my husband didn't approach me like that. I think ppl need to stop playing games. Just be honest and open about who you are and what your intentions are.

  • You're obvisously female, LOL. No disrespect but women in general aren't entirely "experts" on rejection and what it means to deal with the opposite sex and the more than likely rejection of them with regard to incoming advances. All Tonya is talking about is breaking down the barriers of personal precondition. Everyone instinctively thinks they know what they want all the time when the truth is what you "want" often disrupts the flow of what you truly want within your life.

  • Tonya, just for clarity I was replying to the lady "Imanis..." below me.

  • Yes, I am female. I'm also quite clear on what Tonya is saying. I disagree with the "jive" talk part of her message. What? I'm not allowed to disagree with Tonyatko? One size does NOT fit all. The approach she mentioned in her vid would not have worked on me. I still stand by my original statement.

  • You can disagree with whatever you choose. My statement wasn't about the jive talk it was about the statements about playing games and honesty and what a persons intentions are. I was stating that most women don't understand that they do want those things but that they dont want them all at once within the first meeting. That's why most relationships start out with people meeting their representatives. People aren't evolved enough to be completely honest and positive.

  • @imanisankofa Yeah, I think you can joke without the jive, my ex jived, and continued to throughout the relationship, it wore me down, it put me down, my feet were goofy etc.. And girls will develop insecurities, even if they are outwardly good looking, I guess TonyaTko is only referring to extremely gorgeous women, their egos I guess are invincinble.

  • Really its all just a game,it truly is.Ive never truly believed this to be the case untill fairly recently ( Iam kind of a slow learner lol) but it really is just a game and you have to learn how to play.

  • ...just wanted to say that your advise seems like its for men seeking gorgeous AND self assured women (of course). BUT don't assume they always go hand in hand. you'd be surprised by the number of women who appear gorgeous and confident, who in actuality feel crappy about themselves. by making beauty the only variable, the fellas might be confused about why your tactics don't work every time. men are very simple animals, women...not so much. but good job generalizing

  • even though our society is extremely image conscious, not every woman gains her confidence from her good looks. They look great on the outside but still struggling with issues from childhood abuse, a small imperfection that noone even notices may bring them much personal shame or insecurity, feeling uncertain in their career or lack of intelligence, past mistakes...i know you were probably just generalizing, but...

  • I want them to feel insecure... Past the outer pretense. I don't expect you to understand. When I give the advice to the women on how to gold-dig you will most likely see the men who can't understand commenting on that too

    -Tko

  • He better not compliment me on my purse. Honey I live in the ATL and if you go out on a date with a guy and he compliments you on your purse or shoes he is out to buy the same thing for himself. LOL

  • i concur...that would be a huge red flag for me

  • @civil, ur right. I don't want them to compliment the purse, I want him to make fun of it

    -Tko

  • i use to get played when i was a teenager. girls would tell me that iwas too nice,and they'd exploit that fact...some would,atleast. as an adult i learned that less is more. i didn't take it upon myself to be a dog. i just started giving them just enough to pacify or satisfy whatever need they required i meet/met. not sure that made sense..lol

  • iM AM ENSLAVED BY bREASTS.. iM SORRY,,,, mOST DEF A SLAVE TO LUST.... i NEED HElp!!!!!!!!

  • I must give you a compliment on your boobs. They look nice.  They are sticking out. Why you had to tease me with you lovely boobs?

  • Bcz as long as you're a slave to your lust, you'll always be enslaved by women.

    -Tko

  • LOL! I'm not enslaved by women but ok. I don't lust for you but you is a beatiful woman. I think you show your boobs like that to get people to watch your vids. I been sub to you for about 4 months I think and this is my first comment ever on your channel vids. So if I was lusting over you I would be on your channel every day which I don't. Any way nice vid.

  • This is not about the frequency of your visits to my page. Its about your inability to control yourself from feeling teased in the presence of a woman's bosom. I'm saying any man who is a slave to his lust will be a a slave to women. U think you can justify yourself by trying to insult me. It makes your weakness even MORE apparent. A confident person never has to resort to insults. If you never commented on my videos do you think I would EVER notice? The point ur making is lost in silliness

    TKO

  • nice comebak lol

  • That was a WEAK comeback... that's why I didnt bother responding.

    -Tko

  • ya kno i gotta hand it to ya tonya. ur like a auntie or close friend i wuld like to have

  • why arent we getting our views like we should whats going on with youtube

  • Bcz youtube changed their subscription notification model. Before your video would be released onto people's main pages in the order they were uploaded. But NOW it is only released onto those pages for SOME. So if people dont click on "See All" they will never know you put out a videos. Also YT took away bulletins AND the share function. Its a struggle now. I know.

    -Tko

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