(Whas Real? ep2) Having a baby will not make a man stay with you!

[chocolatecheesecak3]

women always think 'well, a man becomes a father when the bby's born' & he'll run into ur arms in the delivery room, like in a fairy tale... A large majority of them won't become a father until that bby starts 2 talk & begins to call another man DADDY.!

[MSBLING100]

@chocolatecheesecak3 real talk!!!

[NewBaltlondtv]

You better tell it honey!! I be tryna tell'em they dont wanna listen.

Preach!!! :)

[mackVIIII]

I told my daughters, like my moma told me..." the fastest way 2 run'm off is to get pregnant"...did she lie? judging frm all the single mothers out here...no! she didn't ...did i listen did my daughters listen,no! & they are/hav been single mothers.

[crystalndave]

my problem is i dont know how to deal with bc its my first going throw it but i know i been cheated on. im a stay home mom n i dont drive, he knows he lost all the trust bc of what he did. i have so much good heart inside me it sucks.

[crystalndave]

i really dont know what to think anymore. it feels like my heart broken into two right now. its hard to talk about it and i shout down really bad and just cry. i have three wonderful kids a 7 year old boy name tyler robert he got alot a problems pdd mild autiusm he 4 and 3 year old daughter victoria by. i got three different baby daddy. yeah people look at me weird. but i love my kids to the heart

[MSBLING100]

@crystalndave I can imagine how heart breaking that must be for both your husband and best friend to betray you like that I dont know what I would do if that happened to me? But you have been blessed with 3 beautiful children and I would encourage you to make that your main focus. Im not sure if your still with your husband but if you are maybe you guys can get relationship counselling i hope it works out ok for you. If youd like further advice you can inbox me I am ding advice videos now

[crystalndave]

hey girl my name is crystal i was watching ur video. what ur saying is true my husband did cheat on me knocked up the woman. she was my friend she thinks my husband going to run to her its not going to work. she did it on purpose she knew it to

[MSBLING100]

@crystalndave WOW that deeps babe "YOUR FRIEND"??? WOW....Well Im sure she'll see in the long run it was not worth it and I hope you can get on with your life without negativity wish you all the best xx

[angel2020ish]

i love this. preach sis.men also gets women pregant to trap them so they can have another man as that women will be a second hand asthey say or leftover and do whatever they want but know that she is not going anywhere.they also feel no man wants to be a step father.

[MSBLING100]

@angel2020ish hunny u are so right there is the flip side men will try to impregnate a woman to keep her in his life that way he feels he can go cheat and she will never leave because she has his child and he has a hold over her...so true..valid point xx

[xdelice]

so real boo tell it like it is!!!!!

[MSBLING100]

@xdelice Thanks Diva xx

[MaiyaCasiano1]

Ahh my goodness this was soo true and I like how you sent the message. Loved it.

[MSBLING100]

@MaiyaCasiano1 thank u hunny i hope u have a beautiful ny am glad i found u to take in to 2011 with me xx

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@MSBLING100 Awww love u! Im glad I found you tooo :) Happy New Year!

[dashinbkbeauty]

I love that you did this video, alot of girls/women needed to see this. It also says alot about you also. Good video!

[MSBLING100]

@dashinbkbeauty aaahhh thank you hunny! all i know is i love my son and i had him for the right reasons and when having a child every woman should feel the good positive about the experience and avoid any negativity behind bringing a life into the world...thanks for your comment i apprciate it xx

[dashinbkbeauty]

@MSBLING100 Yes that is the truth. My son is my world also, I'm glad that my husband and I had him out of love.

[MsSheeka]

Protect yourself for health reasons first, Aids or any other dease and Secondly from having unwanted children cause your not ready or it wasn't a mutal thing Yes sister love your so right xoxoxoxo

[MSBLING100]

@MsSheeka yes girl your right i forgot to say that not only protect yourself to prevent pregnancy but more importantly to prevent catching any sextual transmitted disease....amen MsSheeka for the reminder your sooo right too xxx