Episode 120: Sexual Abuse

[WJHENDERSON85]

Everytime I think I am over it. I'm not totally. I think it effects my views on sex. Although I am married I cringe at the thought of having to have sex with my husband although he is not the abuser

[Aries198806]

Wow! OMG! I was already on the verge of tears seeing that I have been being haunted by some demons of my sexual abuse lately, but when you started to cry I couldn't hold it anymore! Thank you so much! I wanna be free of this and be able to move on in my life and get married and have beautiful little ones! I feel more determined now! THANK YOUNSO MUCH SHANDA!! YOU DNT KNOW WHAT YOU'VE DONE FOR ME! I love you!!

[somekindamillie]

thank you x

[maintenanceman101]

Nice job of tackling this subject.

[mesuhlikemusic]

Hey Scoop. Did i hear you on that Sun Drop commercial?

[shelieah]

great job!

[gardogg65]

this can even give strength for someone who is with someone who has been sexually abused and is suffering from second hand pain.

[Cherished131]

Thanks for creating this and I pray that it helps many and that it is worth your personal sacrifice to do it.

[nikkied76]

huggs for doing this like another commenter said if you want help it is out there...seek it out and stop living in hurt

[jsamari]

I know this is off topic , but just now this Sundrop Citrus soda commerical comes on and the girl is popping her butt all over the place and i'm pretty sure I hear Scoop's voice! lol

[mindlifenergy]

Thank god for your Heart and your compassion to reach out to all of those who need to hear these kind of words How BRAVE and Fearless Thanks Shanda

[romchill35]

Wow.

[intjurban]

National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence 1-800-656 HOPE (sexual violence) or

1800 799 SAFE (domestic violence)

the webpage is the first initial of the center's name plus .org : N C D S V

Don't live a lifetime sitting silently in pain or without support. These people understand and are compassionate and effective. Seek the help from the trauma you've experienced. Shanda you are correct every person has a story, bless you for caring enough to make this vlog.

[curvygirl63]

Thank you.

[atinob43]

Earrings!

[Sallyakerti]

I feel for her! it happened to me as well.May God bless her and all of us.amiin

Thank you Shanda much Love sis.

[intjurban]

@Sallyakerti Bless you and always remember how special you are in this life we live. Please pass on the information to help others along life's journey; the center can also link one to a local resource if needed:

National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence 1-800-656 HOPE or 1800 799 SAFE (domestic violence)

the webpage is the first initial of the center's name plus .org : N C D S V

[Castalis011]

Thank you Shanda, every little bit of information/advice helps.

[Mzdiamondzr4eva]

Wow! Well done Shanda!

[lovelyafroqueen]

Well done!

[hip2dadip]

Excellent!

[sultrydoll]

thanks for this this...all i will say is that i struggle with this and i'm trying to head in the right direction...i am in the process of looking for help...it haunts me whether i sleep or am awake. i'm glad i can function but i can't function to the degree i should. thank you sooo much! *hugsss*

[intjurban]

@sultrydoll your feelings are normal for victims of trauma; continue to press onward and know that there is help for all victims of trauma. Seek out the available resources and know that the people working in the field are compassionate and understand even when you don't. Love and Success.

National Center on Domestic and Sexual Violence 1-800-656 HOPE or 1800 799 SAFE (domestic violence)

the webpage is the first initial of the center's name plus .org : N C D S V

[sultrydoll]

@intjurban thank you. i have been so ashamed...even though i have some type of support...but i have learned if you want help it's out there...i just never knew the hotline existed. your a blessing to me and someone else today.

[intjurban]

@sultrydoll The shame should lie within cultures and societies that allow predation on victims; it is not yours to bear. Blessings.

[sakura20007]

i agree take back the power and strength that was robbed from u

[bohemia1355]

Well said sis.....



[bohemia1355]

Well said sis....from the heart.

[VISIONFEED]

You couldnt say it any better ... spoken very well

[enitram73]

For everyone that has been abused live your life with courage and strength & May God Bless You..

[WiseGuysTubes]

Powerful!

[hastiemam]

Thank you for speakin from the heart! Love you Shanda!

[lilruc]

Oh my fucking God. Why aren't girls my age like you?

[intjurban]

@lilruc Because the older generation has forgotten somehow to relay that family and community really means everything if we are to live. I too was blessed by Shanda's vlog; she made me remember that you guys are still worth fighting for. Be blessed and remember her message always!

[uzan3rd]

you fools been ghost lately