Yo, fear come at different levels and in different intensities, but with dat said overcoming fears through exposure might be the best way to grow. So I like some a da infomation in dis video because it is simple and straight forward. GO FOR IT! BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS! REALIZE YOUR POTENTIAL! YEAH!
It's misleading to tell certain men that no woman is out of their league cause that's bullshit.Some bitches have been in the streets,have worked as prostitutes and are gamed the fuck up,The so-called "PUA" would never even know until it was too late..You can drink eat and shit confidence but if you dont have NATURAL GAME or lack experience with a good amount of women,your confidence WILL eventually be broken and won't count for shit.p.s.ironically,dude speaking doesnt speak with confidence.lol
@tropicalpimp As far as game goes I am not telling guys to try to pick up strippers and hookers but you do give me a good video to post on being cautious with these types. I am telling guys that they shouldn't let beauty phase them, because this leads to chicks taking an advantage of them. In my program I go into details on how and why you want to build your confidence as a man. Women who are in the game can't break a man who knows his true value.
@tropicalpimp confidence isn't everything, it's how you apply it, if it's not always consistant than your a fraud, but experience breeds natural game. With practice one will become a natural
A. look in the mirror and find out what can be changed for the better and if you can get a girls opinion.
B. Join a gym or try doing something at home to in the very least give you energy because girls don't like a guy who looks tired all the time or sounds tired.
C. Try buying clothes or jewelry that gets attention for if she looks at your necklace she is more than likely to check you out.
D.Don't buy anything till she gives you something first (it can be anything)
@jeanfutebol I only want you and everyone else to buy if the like the information. No magic, no quick fixes. My eBook is about mindset. You don't get a quick fix but it changes the way you think and handle situations over a period of time that gives you success. I just present the opportunity
@leopower7 There is no miracle to what I have to say...Fear is gonna be there. Your job is to reduce the fear. You want to have an understanding of your fears so you won't fear them so much. The less fear you have, the more confident you become. This takes practice. Once you can do this everything else will fall into place. Practice what I say in my videos and you'll see improvement.
I already have power points like this already set up. But instead of grown assed dudes who ought ta know this already, I did mine for my sons when they hit their teens.
@crazysoccerman14 I respect my viewer's comments and rates, but I don't respect racist haters. So with that being said I don't respect your opinion because you're statement has no relevance. I don't want people like you buying my stuff at all. I only want open-minded people buying my stuff and learning what I have to offer.
My bad you high-flying faggot. You have your head so far up your own ass that you will be a case study for future doctors. I'm sorry for your condition, but you'll help improve future care.
Nah, I'm jk and your material was presented professionally. It really sounds like you have your shit together. Methinks 'open-minded people buying my stuff' sounds like you are praying to the stars for dipshit customers.
One's thoughts have reality and might be an analogue of reality but they do not dictate
reality. The fact of the matter is that the mind and the world interact by reciprocal determinism. For instance, I am about to enter the cockpit for a flight to Paris. I am thinking about ground delays A stunning woman asks me if we will arrive on time. She smiles and I FANTACIZE having dinner with her and going back to her hotel.
As it turns out, I never see her again. So much for thinking=reality.
R1o05, Looks matter but don't rely on ur looks. Hugh Hefner has employees that make him money. They happen to be younger women that he "dates". You never want to be stuck on one woman so, yes, it's a number's game if you can't get her. A book can't make you confident and attractive...it helps you discover how to bring out ur confidence that makes u more attractive. U want proof? Use the info in this vid and see how it works 4 u. Prove it 2 urself. Then buy the eBook.
You're right about the confidence, but looks does matter too.
Older guys and young girls usually men that the guy is tricking off dough to the girl, which is the case of Hefner.
I don't agree with you telling guys to run up and girls faces and making it a numbers game. It's sounds like some PUA shit.
How will ur book make this guys more confident and attractive? And do you have some proof of game? I won't get anything from a guy that isn't successful in this game
If u think your less than her, then Presto what are you experiecning as Reality. Just what crossed your mind. Your illusory thoughts = reality, so have positive ones.
Sorry, but only ONCE has being confident ever worked in my favor, and should that one anamoly change her mind, I'm not going to have any clue about replicating those results with future prospects.
What do you calling the mentality of not thinking they're out of your league, but experience dictates that the women you pursue just aren't into you (a pattern that you're bound to recognize, hopefully, if you're thinking like a scientist)?
There's valuable information here for inexperienced or frustrated guys but connecting with women does not lend itself to cookie cutter solutions. Some women will find confidence compelling; others will find insecurity disarming.
This guy sounds pretty reasonable but I think ALL these programs make the same mistake: they think in terms of "women" rather than "The Woman". When you find "THE ONE" the rules change because you're thinking long term from the get-go.
I'm not even talking about the "The One" dynamic. I've read read and studied a LOT about this, and whenever I apply similar tactics to my own needs and they fail, all I ever get as an answer to the question of 'why didn't it work?' is "It depends on the girl." -_- Nice little loop hole these guys have at their disposal... "Oh, you didn't get the girl? Sorry, not OUR fault!"
I had to do a paper on Ovid during grad school. Ovid might have been the first guy who laid out strategies for this kind of stuff. He repeatedly suggests any woman can be won and gives you a game plan that is almost completely opposite to that of the tricks used by self-proclaimed "pickup artists". Basically, you wear her down by being impervious to humiliation and by being utterly subservient to her every whim. The guy influenced Shakespeare, Milton, and Chaucer. THAT's a guru.
Perhaps, but how does being subservient to her every whim (which does NOT make you look pathetic?) work in your favor when she tells you to go away since she's not interested? *lol*
The subservience is calculated and NOT acquiescence. Lack of assertiveness that is the result of fearing the woman is not what Ovid is talking about.
Here's the problem a lot of guys (and I imagine you're among them) have: they worry about looking "pathetic". They fear being told to be told to "go away."
Ovid advises, "Who cares about these things? Play the part, don't personalize it, and be patient. Often, what is scorned becomes desired and what appears weak is strong."
How do you calculate subservience so it's not acquiescence? Women don't like guys who are pathetic. Shouldn't avoiding that be a genuine concern? I don't fear being told to go away, I'm just sick of it happening so often. ;P
I don't understand that 'play the part' bit. What part are we supposed to play?
Ovid's Acquiescence is the INABILITY to assert oneself. Subservience is a tactical strategy. The man who makes that CHOICE is playing the part of being hopelessly in love unable to do anything but the woman's bidding.
Ovid repeatedly counsels the man to be indifferent to rejection, humiliation, and
even betrayal. This is REAL confidence because such a man is willing to take a beating knowing he will win in the end.
Google "Ovid + Art of Love + translation. You might be surprised
What's the difference between being unable to do anything but her bidding and PLAYING that you're unable to do anything but her bidding? Isn't the whole point of this vid (and other confidence builders) that your state of mind determines your reality? And if you're playing the role well enough, how does the lady in question tell the difference?
Any passage in particular you'd recommend? I already looked it up, but what I read wasn't all that helpful. :S
??? first vid, first slide u say: "Im not here to sell you anything"
this vid: 'yo peepz buy my book!!' ???
kloassie 8 months ago
pretty good
olhaeula 8 months ago
Yo, fear come at different levels and in different intensities, but with dat said overcoming fears through exposure might be the best way to grow. So I like some a da infomation in dis video because it is simple and straight forward. GO FOR IT! BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAMS! REALIZE YOUR POTENTIAL! YEAH!
DeadlyBananas 11 months ago
all decent advice...but overall this is weak
phillfamous 1 year ago
greatt video brother :) keep up the good work !
maxiremembersrsrhys 1 year ago
anybody can get awhite girl they easy and nasty.
cricket3362 1 year ago
It's misleading to tell certain men that no woman is out of their league cause that's bullshit.Some bitches have been in the streets,have worked as prostitutes and are gamed the fuck up,The so-called "PUA" would never even know until it was too late..You can drink eat and shit confidence but if you dont have NATURAL GAME or lack experience with a good amount of women,your confidence WILL eventually be broken and won't count for shit.p.s.ironically,dude speaking doesnt speak with confidence.lol
tropicalpimp 1 year ago
@tropicalpimp As far as game goes I am not telling guys to try to pick up strippers and hookers but you do give me a good video to post on being cautious with these types. I am telling guys that they shouldn't let beauty phase them, because this leads to chicks taking an advantage of them. In my program I go into details on how and why you want to build your confidence as a man. Women who are in the game can't break a man who knows his true value.
confidencemagnet 1 year ago
@tropicalpimp confidence isn't everything, it's how you apply it, if it's not always consistant than your a fraud, but experience breeds natural game. With practice one will become a natural
Lazzyboy69 1 year ago
rub yourself with a dead animal - it's the pheromones.
menthol5 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
This is gay, the guy talks shit and does not know
yoelco 1 year ago
Try this
A. look in the mirror and find out what can be changed for the better and if you can get a girls opinion.
B. Join a gym or try doing something at home to in the very least give you energy because girls don't like a guy who looks tired all the time or sounds tired.
C. Try buying clothes or jewelry that gets attention for if she looks at your necklace she is more than likely to check you out.
D.Don't buy anything till she gives you something first (it can be anything)
Anything can go :)
Jutisan 1 year ago
The video was great b4 the end part
simplyalif 1 year ago
Good quick description what it entails to get those nice wiman.
thoms1986 1 year ago
good points made, but ive been into PUA stuff for a long time and in the end they ALWAYS want the costumer to buy their books
jeanfutebol 1 year ago
@jeanfutebol I only want you and everyone else to buy if the like the information. No magic, no quick fixes. My eBook is about mindset. You don't get a quick fix but it changes the way you think and handle situations over a period of time that gives you success. I just present the opportunity
confidencemagnet 1 year ago
This is all bullshit!
These guys think they understand what fear is, but they DON'T!
They come with magical miracles, but NONE of them work!
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
leopower7 1 year ago
@leopower7 There is no miracle to what I have to say...Fear is gonna be there. Your job is to reduce the fear. You want to have an understanding of your fears so you won't fear them so much. The less fear you have, the more confident you become. This takes practice. Once you can do this everything else will fall into place. Practice what I say in my videos and you'll see improvement.
confidencemagnet 1 year ago
I just came here to masturbate watching these pictures.
leopower7 1 year ago
i would have confidence with chicks if i had a giant black man penis too
pamirisaturk123 1 year ago
Good video.
luvkrafft 1 year ago
I already have power points like this already set up. But instead of grown assed dudes who ought ta know this already, I did mine for my sons when they hit their teens.
dp100eboggan 1 year ago
You have never been laid have you?
dangerouslytalented 1 year ago
@dangerouslytalented
Your mother counts for A LOT of women- as measured by both weight and amount of STD's.
Do I need a firecrotch liek yurz 2 get da gurlz?
crazysoccerman14 1 year ago
Im sorry but Im not a stupid nigger. Therefore, I don't but your 'shit'/
carry on.
crazysoccerman14 1 year ago
@crazysoccerman14 I respect my viewer's comments and rates, but I don't respect racist haters. So with that being said I don't respect your opinion because you're statement has no relevance. I don't want people like you buying my stuff at all. I only want open-minded people buying my stuff and learning what I have to offer.
Carry on
confidencemagnet 1 year ago
@confidencemagnet
My bad you high-flying faggot. You have your head so far up your own ass that you will be a case study for future doctors. I'm sorry for your condition, but you'll help improve future care.
Nah, I'm jk and your material was presented professionally. It really sounds like you have your shit together. Methinks 'open-minded people buying my stuff' sounds like you are praying to the stars for dipshit customers.
Carry on.
crazysoccerman14 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
@confidencemagnet
Oh wait! I almost forgot!
Nigger.
crazysoccerman14 1 year ago
@crazysoccerman14 yes you are, you don't even know how to spell "buy".
fuckingkimura 1 year ago
One's thoughts have reality and might be an analogue of reality but they do not dictate
reality. The fact of the matter is that the mind and the world interact by reciprocal determinism. For instance, I am about to enter the cockpit for a flight to Paris. I am thinking about ground delays A stunning woman asks me if we will arrive on time. She smiles and I FANTACIZE having dinner with her and going back to her hotel.
As it turns out, I never see her again. So much for thinking=reality.
YD8189 1 year ago
"you wanna treat these HOT CHICKS like human beings"...great irony there
dunhilyn 1 year ago
Nice vid.
The10men 1 year ago
R1o05, Looks matter but don't rely on ur looks. Hugh Hefner has employees that make him money. They happen to be younger women that he "dates". You never want to be stuck on one woman so, yes, it's a number's game if you can't get her. A book can't make you confident and attractive...it helps you discover how to bring out ur confidence that makes u more attractive. U want proof? Use the info in this vid and see how it works 4 u. Prove it 2 urself. Then buy the eBook.
confidencemagnet 1 year ago
@confidencemagnet I just saw the tape Confidence. I like what I'm hearing. I'm going to hold on to this tape for a while.
RealTime88 1 year ago
Damn, No black girls?
You're right about the confidence, but looks does matter too.
Older guys and young girls usually men that the guy is tricking off dough to the girl, which is the case of Hefner.
I don't agree with you telling guys to run up and girls faces and making it a numbers game. It's sounds like some PUA shit.
How will ur book make this guys more confident and attractive? And do you have some proof of game? I won't get anything from a guy that isn't successful in this game
R1o05 1 year ago
@R1o05 This isn't a diss. I just need proof that you've actually gotten women.
I can't count how many internet marketers are out there selling books like these with out having experience with women.
I can literally go to a marketing site, buy a random prewritten book on dating then market it to guys the way you're doing.
By you're description it looks like you maybe one of them, but I could be wrong.
R1o05 1 year ago
Confidence is key.
Goth3m3 1 year ago
Its true, what you think = Reality.
If u think your less than her, then Presto what are you experiecning as Reality. Just what crossed your mind. Your illusory thoughts = reality, so have positive ones.
2warNINg 1 year ago
@2warNINg The world is your mirror, as they say... :)
ScrotalKarma 1 year ago
Sorry, but only ONCE has being confident ever worked in my favor, and should that one anamoly change her mind, I'm not going to have any clue about replicating those results with future prospects.
What do you calling the mentality of not thinking they're out of your league, but experience dictates that the women you pursue just aren't into you (a pattern that you're bound to recognize, hopefully, if you're thinking like a scientist)?
Bobzeaux 1 year ago
@Bobzeaux
There's valuable information here for inexperienced or frustrated guys but connecting with women does not lend itself to cookie cutter solutions. Some women will find confidence compelling; others will find insecurity disarming.
This guy sounds pretty reasonable but I think ALL these programs make the same mistake: they think in terms of "women" rather than "The Woman". When you find "THE ONE" the rules change because you're thinking long term from the get-go.
YD8189 1 year ago
@YD8189
I'm not even talking about the "The One" dynamic. I've read read and studied a LOT about this, and whenever I apply similar tactics to my own needs and they fail, all I ever get as an answer to the question of 'why didn't it work?' is "It depends on the girl." -_- Nice little loop hole these guys have at their disposal... "Oh, you didn't get the girl? Sorry, not OUR fault!"
Bobzeaux 1 year ago
@Bobzeaux
I had to do a paper on Ovid during grad school. Ovid might have been the first guy who laid out strategies for this kind of stuff. He repeatedly suggests any woman can be won and gives you a game plan that is almost completely opposite to that of the tricks used by self-proclaimed "pickup artists". Basically, you wear her down by being impervious to humiliation and by being utterly subservient to her every whim. The guy influenced Shakespeare, Milton, and Chaucer. THAT's a guru.
YD8189 1 year ago
@YD8189
Perhaps, but how does being subservient to her every whim (which does NOT make you look pathetic?) work in your favor when she tells you to go away since she's not interested? *lol*
Bobzeaux 1 year ago
@Bobzeaux
The subservience is calculated and NOT acquiescence. Lack of assertiveness that is the result of fearing the woman is not what Ovid is talking about.
Here's the problem a lot of guys (and I imagine you're among them) have: they worry about looking "pathetic". They fear being told to be told to "go away."
Ovid advises, "Who cares about these things? Play the part, don't personalize it, and be patient. Often, what is scorned becomes desired and what appears weak is strong."
YD8189 1 year ago
@YD8189
How do you calculate subservience so it's not acquiescence? Women don't like guys who are pathetic. Shouldn't avoiding that be a genuine concern? I don't fear being told to go away, I'm just sick of it happening so often. ;P
I don't understand that 'play the part' bit. What part are we supposed to play?
Bobzeaux 1 year ago
@Bobzeaux
Ovid's Acquiescence is the INABILITY to assert oneself. Subservience is a tactical strategy. The man who makes that CHOICE is playing the part of being hopelessly in love unable to do anything but the woman's bidding.
Ovid repeatedly counsels the man to be indifferent to rejection, humiliation, and
even betrayal. This is REAL confidence because such a man is willing to take a beating knowing he will win in the end.
Google "Ovid + Art of Love + translation. You might be surprised
YD8189 1 year ago
@YD8189
What's the difference between being unable to do anything but her bidding and PLAYING that you're unable to do anything but her bidding? Isn't the whole point of this vid (and other confidence builders) that your state of mind determines your reality? And if you're playing the role well enough, how does the lady in question tell the difference?
Any passage in particular you'd recommend? I already looked it up, but what I read wasn't all that helpful. :S
Bobzeaux 1 year ago
I expected this to be very crappy, but it actually is GREAT solid advice for all guys.
Andybaby 1 year ago
5*****
cazyblood3 1 year ago