there is no such thing as just friends with opposite sex.pauly d even said that bullshit.we gotta realize a guy will have thoughts about the girl and he cant be trusted cuz he may make a move.
hmm.. im a girl and i think guys are really good to hang out with. unlike girls there is no bitching and judging going on... bt i think guys can be friends wif girls~~
@kerushi1310 Ya no drama maybe in that respect....but every dude you hang out with wants to bang you no question about that. You can deny it all you want and believe that they only want a friendship but its bullshit....they want to bang you!
Um, these people do not know what the fuck they're talking about. I know girls who are friends with guys only because they can't get along with other girls.
My wife is friends with a lot of my male friends and that shit doesn't happen. Pleae do not stereotype all relationships. Maybe there is a majority of girls that are friends with guys and do fall into this trap, but most girls and guys in all relatonships are pretty stupid to begin with.
you don't need to be hanging out with alot of the opposite sex, its out of respect. But if they're just friends and not people you slept with, it shouldn't be a problem. as long as you aren't with them more than your lover.If its an ex hell no, and if she or he chooses to be friends with ex over you "no matter what" (like my last gf) dump their ass. you come first. i dealt with that bs, somehow it was 'wrong' of me to hang with female friends who had bfs and were close friends of mine' bs
one of my ex boyfriends is my best friend, and he is more like a sister to me.
I also have a boyfriend (more than a year at the moment) and I don't see why I can't have male friends, or ex for a friend. I have already been with that guy, and there is no way for me to be with him again.
so.. i really don't understand these guys.. i thought that only men have problems with understanding this male-female friendship
@biene0maya Just so i can get more insight into your story. You left one big thing out. You and your ex did have sex correct? because if you didnt that changes the picture completely.
@fasthandsz that is correct. feel free to explain me :) I discussed a little bit this topic with my friends (male and female) and some of them understand, some of them not, and there is no way to convince them different :/
i agree with sky, u shouldn't even be cool with your ex anyways! by the same token u can hang out with your "booty call" too, just female friends right, so she don't pull that double standard BS.
if she cools her shit u will hang w/your female friends less
I agree also its not a respect to hang with guys while you have a boyfriend and why are guys mostly hanging with girls? Its because they like them thats why.
@Njoydancing This is coming from a kid that says "fudge" instead of "fuck". Yea kid, your real mature, who needs girlfriends when you can just fuck a girl like shes some tool and then leave her in the dust? Your pathetic.
It's fustrating when you try and tell your girl that her "Friend" just wants to get into her pants, girls can be dumb when it comes to guys.
On the other hand, if you see that guy who doesn't have the balls to just come out and make a play for your girl, but instead goes the friend route, you need to "dissuade" him from coming within a country mile of your girl ever again.
She's not mean. Probably ;) But I would describe her as a kind of girl you have to be careful with during the whole conversation. But hey, look on the bright side. If you want to pick her up as an asshole, you will be able to convince her that you are one in 15 seconds - just don't be careful and it's done ;)
Thank goodness for trusting relationships. As there seems to be a lack of these relationships, no guy or girl should worry about their partners hanging with their ex.............if theres any such thing as trust in a relationship. This is the main reason why relationships do not last long these days, that and lack of money.
@robotracking I am sure every starting relationships with out any history of having a relationships do have very good trust, but as they grow more mature and wiser they start having doubts because of there previous relationships. Its like the saying goes ''once bitten twice shy''
im friends with my ex bf's but i dont hang out with them they just call me when they got issues to discuss. my other ex i hang out with is a chick so id welcome te challenge of that arguement lol and i hang out with a lot of guys n most of them i have known for 5 or more years n the most contact we have had was me being a tomboy lol
The only reason your girlfriend should have any contact with her ex is if it's regarding their kids and nothing but the children. No other reason is acceptable. If she's hanging out with the ex, cut her loose.
i honestly think it all DEPENDS. there are guy friends that my bf's totally cool with, and then there are ones that he's uncomfortable with. i respect him so i try not to associate myself too much with those guys. and i agree that he shouldn't mind guys that you've been friends with before you met him. but if she's BFFs with her ex or if she's meeting guys left and right and MOST of her friends are guys, then NO, that's wrong.
You got it right! If the guy wants to shag the girl, then he shouldn't be hangin, and like you said, some guys are ok cuz they're real friends not just horny!
It depends If the girl has male friend(s) before she had a boyfriend then the boyfriend has nothing to worry about because there is nothing going between them. If there was then the girl wouldnt of been looking for another guy would she ?. But on the one hand if the girl suddenly becomes friends with guy(s) when she has a boyfriend before she was friends with the guy(s) then Dude what the fuck are you still doing going out with her ?! DUMP HER ASS !! thats basicly it imo. Skyy you rock! xD
*sigh* if that's your attitude, a girl like me with lots of male friends probably won't want to go out with you anyway. I would never give up my friends for my boyfriend EVER!
I kinda have to agree. Like all my best friends are guys. Like i dont like them like that I want a guy that is confident enough to trust me and love me and not freak out. And my friends are always there. like yea i have a bf but i rather have all my friends.
the funny thing is that some of the people he asked probabaly said the answer they all gave (shouldnt hang otu with exes) is because thats the answer they know people would think good of hearing but they would probably try to hang with an ex and maybe tryto get with them again
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n i had like 50 jobs so i know sum of everyone round here, or they (tried)! to hit on me.... n all they can do is b my friend since they cnt get no p* lol
almos all of my BFF are male-b/c i grew up tomboy but waaay fr gay by any standard lol... i have 6 bro's n 1 sis, n she 11yrs older than me so(we didnt hang out)-i jus hang out wit dudes!.. luckily ive grown out of dressin tomboy now lol! a dude gotta b able to deal with my male friends... point blank
Damn! That Briana chick is fucking humorless! Skyyjohn is obviously joking when he hits on her but she gets all serious about it.. chill the fuck out and get over yourself!
damn... you guys are pretty ignorant, insecure and sexist... you do make some valid points, but i think each situation is different and should be judged as such.
I think that the problem here is trust. If you can't trust the person you're with, then you should move on... because a heart that beats with mistrust is already broken, and you shouldn't have to worry about it. And if you DO worry about it, then you should stop interacting with the opposite sex, until you've learned to master your emotions, because you're only hurting yourself.
In short. I have female friends from school that I hang out with all the time. Its a non-issue for me, so it would be unfair to her if she couldnt hang out with friends. I am not "friends" with my exes.
If you're getting the job done in the bedroom then you won't have to worry about your girl cheating. There's nothing that keeps a girl faithful more than a big dick on hard.
girls are more weird about it then guys when it comes to being friends. personally i could care less if a girl im seeing has guy friends but dont give me a reason to think otherwise either. it's called being secure with yourself. and if you wanna see how strong the girl youre seeing is, have a real good friend that happens to be a girl and see how she takes it...
That shit aint happening in my relationship...No such things as platonic friends. As in the words of chris rock, Thats just dick in a glass, break in case of emergency!
so true! thats y i dont trust the girls best frienes that are exes, and i know from "ME" being the ex best friend.... i was just waiting to be 1 bud away from hittin that :p
i used to be tha guy who iz just tha friend to a girl with a boyfriend..i never crossed tha line in ther relationship but for some reason tha guyz would get mad so for another reason i banged everyone of ther girlfriendz..with that being said its not alwayz a bad thing wen ur in the friends zone with a girl..in my case it wasnt..haha
i cant really say anything about that cause my bestfriend is my ex girlfriend and my babymama so i guess 2 a point i could under stand where there would be a promble but its not right for u to be doing the same thing that ur getting mad about so i would say i would be cool aslong as nothing is happening
If you get hit by a car, she ain't a doctor.... LMFAO!!!! Epic... Yup, not kewl for your girl to be hanging out with her ex. Been there, only causes drama. Curb her.
I have a lot of guy friends and I know all of them have thought about banging me in the past but since they know they are not going to get any they don't try anymore(maybe joke around). But guy friends are fun. They tell me about their g/fs or girl problems and ask for my advice. I ask them for advice. Girls are always so competitive with me / fake but my guy friends never act fake with me. They are more loyal.
Just because YOU dont give it up to him doesnt make him your "friend".If its in the back of his mind,then he's not really your friend.He's proabaly a "nice guy" wich is why he opens up to you.Regardless,if you gave your self to him and your hot,trust me he'll take it proving your friendship is a LIE!
So I'm not suppose to be friends with every guy that finds me attractive? or will nail me if given the opportunity? uhmmm well, I will have no guy friends lol
I think a friend is someone that will call you if your going through a bad time/ be there for you and they really do that. So what if in the BACK of their minds they have dirty thoughts as well? As long as they don't take advantage of me while I'm drunk then there is no "LIE."
You can be friends with whoever you want.I just find that this is mostly a problem for relationships about 95% of the time.Guys might be to proud to admit it bothers him that you have guy friends.Others are stupid and let girls walk all over them and deal with there guy friends but hold all the anger inside.Then there are are other guys that dont care about you having guy friends probably because he dont really care for you(at least not for a serious relationship).
What the heck? It seems like people have no control over their own stinky little shmee shmee.... If I have a man & he pisses me off enough to become my ex, he will NEVER get inside my pants ever again. It's all or nothing, baby.
What's the point in hanging out with an ex anyway. Find a new, better one, invest your time in him if you want him. If you still feel the need to spread yourself around, stay single.
I dont hang out with ex's so thats not an issue...but I do have guy friends (gay and straight) and if he has a problem with them then there are going to be some problems because I have more guy friends than chick friends just because girls stir up drama where guys dont. And anyway my family and friends will always be more important to me than a boyfriend. And I wouldnt have a problem with him having chick friends and guy friends but NO ex girlfriends its only fair.
I have a prob with my girl having guy friends, I jst dont see the point unless they are interested. Myabe its just my perspective? becuase I'm a guy, I understand this to a level women do not. I dont see men making friends with women unless there some sort of sexual inerest, present or in the future. maybe you can enlighten me. Its not that I dont trust my girl, I just dont trust the men, especially since I know them somewhat, and I am a man myself (I know how a mans mind work) enlighten me
I understand where family comes before your boyfriend,RATIONAL
But friends before boyfriend, wrong COUPLES have a way stronger bond then friends way more time and commitment then friendship, its a relationship maybe i shouldnt have asked you, but you can answer if you wish
No no no!!! Friends are always going to be before a boyfriend for me because they were there first and they have a place in my life that I will not let him step in front of, its not going to happen. I value my friendships that I have right now (with my guy friends and my small percentage of girl friends) WAY more then a relationship. I dont put much value on a relationship because I have all that I need right now with my friends and family.
well u need to grow up i understand if itz a watever relationship they yea dont dictch ur friendz but if u two are serious about eachother u need to let them go if needed because ur friendz are not going to be tha father to ur kids an they are not goin to be tha ones u marry..
Everyone is entitled to thier opinion...but I dont think I need to grow up at all. I realize I am 19 years old...but I think a relationship (especially marriage!) is not what I am into right now. My favorite yt person described relationships best, "Relationships are like buses...every 15 minutes another one comes along." That is a great analogy, I think. :) Its not me, I dont find it necessary to complete my life. :)
yea well im 19 too an i realized that friendz aint alwayz ther and in ur case they might be good friends but that doesnt mean u put them before a dude thatz gonna love u for tha rest of ur life an some friends that are ther now but wen they meet tha one they love see if they put u first..its not gonna happen it suckz but thatz how it iz..we still young we can have fun but ill know wen to put my friendz aside for a girl i love..
I understand that too. But, there are plenty of other people that you could go out with. I am not into "finding a dude that will love me." My friends can prioritize me any way they want but they are more important to me. Significant others come and go but the good friends stay. :)
I dont think that we are going to be able to see eye to eye on this though. LOL :)
(I might be wrong and Im sorry if I am) but you seem family orientedI(like having a family)...am I right? Im just curious. :)
I will always prefer my guy friends over the few girl friends that I have (even though I would need some girl friends to spill what little drama that I have). I have had my guy friend since I was 15 and he has never asked me for anything (in all sense of the word) (he is equal to an average girl's "BFF") I can tell him anything. (But yet there is a sense of chemistry but it isnt necessarily sexual) I also think that I might have this mentality just because...
...I am not looking for marriage and or other really serious relationships, I do not believe I need that in my life. (no to everyone else who might be closed minded...it doesnt make me a slut, because that is not for me I actually have some character) Maybe I might change my mind one day, but for now it is what it is and I dont see it changing in the near future. But what I do know for sure is that my ladder of peoples importance to me will always be 1) Family 2) Friends 3) Boyfriend.
I feel the exact same way. I have more guy friends than girls. It's true, girls stir up a lot of drama. My guys treat me like one of their guy friends, they talk about how hot girls are when im there and ask my opinion about it too! But some pplz need to get this into their heads, NOT ALL GIRLS THAT HAVE LOTS OF GUY FRIENDS ARE SLUTS. and just cause one of her guy friends may like her doesnt mean shes suddenly gonna sleep with him or like him, you need to trust her (depends on her character)
I have no problem with my girlfriend has a lot of guy friends just so long as I don't have to buy her anything and I am getting into her pants for free just like those other guys. Everybody slips eventually, I mean we are human.
Man or women don't have a monopoly on this behaviour.
Hmm, I think it's okay for a girl to have a lot of guy friends, cause the truth is, if they were her friends first already then just cuz you're dating you can't really expect her to suddenly find new friends.
But if she's hanging out with her ex a lot then it's probably a no no.... HOWEVER. If she hangs out with her ex in a group setting (like he's part of her group of friends) then I think it's more okay.... But one-on-one ex and girl hanging out is probably not a good idea
Well w/guy friends... i mean if she liked one of her guy friends then she probably would have gone after him already, no? And you can't expect someone to ditch their friends just cause you're dating them.
And w/the ex... well it's in a group setting... if the girl wanted to mess around w/her ex, things would get suspicious and im sure the friends would speak up... But yea, either way trust is essential as it would be in any relationship
but anyways, i THINK YOU MISSED THE ASPECT of the situation. I am in a relationship, and she has a bunch of guy friends, I see flitation, but she tells me she doesnt know what flirtation is(her excuse) where can I get the truth IDK I confused to some point
I'm not a scorpio! lol. Hmm, well I think some girls genuinely don't know they are being flirty, they just act playful and friendly w/everyone. If it really makes you uncomfortable, i think you should confront her, tell her exactly what she does that bothers you. And tell her to put herself in your shoes (how would she feel if you acted that way w/a bunch of girls) HOpefully she understands and changes in a way that is ok for you but still allows her to hang out w/her friends?? Good luck! =)
Women, typically do not have a lot of male friends. Maybe a close group of, say max- 5.But typically they will have more female friends. A woman who needs to surround herself with male(a ratio of more male than female)friends, usually has something going on. Not a good thing either;)
That's not true, it may be true for some people that they have more girl friends maybe even the majority of girls but not all girls have something going on just cause they have more guy friends. I in general have more guy friends but its true i only have a group of ~ 3 close guy friends. Anyway, everyone's different, just cause 1 girl is a slut cuz she has a lot of guy friends doesn't mean we all are.
Hell fucking no. I hate dudes who do that. Because what if the dude kicks your ass or hope that he's gay. I try to avoid confrontation. Take care of your girl and it won't happen.
she is quite rude to be honest
MrGreyl002 6 months ago
This chick is a fucken bitch she can go get fingered by wolverine that rude bitch
Gr8rThenU 6 months ago
be careful guys- those "dicks" she hangs around with are not as far as u think from getting her whether u slip up or not
darkphoenix5666 6 months ago
@thekoolestguyaaa She wasn't being a bitch, she just didn't want to come off like she wanted him in the sort of way. She was being cute anyway.
ImaginarYxGoddesS 8 months ago
You see this is a perfect example... Most women like this girl that Have the Great Looks, Attraction & etc are always soooo Egotistical and Cocky!
jaehood109 8 months ago
@jaehood109 That's how I see Skyy.
ImaginarYxGoddesS 8 months ago
is skyyjohn a psychologist
arkonastriborg123 8 months ago
@arkonastriborg123 No he is the Martin Luthar King of this generation....
romans52345 8 months ago
@romans52345 so he studies sociology
arkonastriborg123 8 months ago
there is no such thing as just friends with opposite sex.pauly d even said that bullshit.we gotta realize a guy will have thoughts about the girl and he cant be trusted cuz he may make a move.
LilBlitz116 9 months ago
wow this chick is a arrogant bitch fuck her literally lol
nibz26 9 months ago
i would love to be her boyfriend.... she is really sweet ....
gaurav091 10 months ago
If he got hit by a car -she ain't a doctor! So don't worry about it... :D
reggaetondevil 11 months ago
Sure so long as she wears a camcorder and takes it with her at all times.
ExacavatoroftheWest 1 year ago
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norrin22 1 year ago
two words. friend zone!
Vonbomb 1 year ago
hmm.. im a girl and i think guys are really good to hang out with. unlike girls there is no bitching and judging going on... bt i think guys can be friends wif girls~~
kerushi1310 1 year ago
@kerushi1310 Ya no drama maybe in that respect....but every dude you hang out with wants to bang you no question about that. You can deny it all you want and believe that they only want a friendship but its bullshit....they want to bang you!
fasthandsz 1 year ago
This girl is a BITCH
ytismylife 1 year ago
@ytismylife Skyy is a cocky douche. What's your point?
ImaginarYxGoddesS 8 months ago
wtf fuck her you can have a bf and have a lot of friends that are guys and you still can respect yourself and her relationship
ELIIE1 1 year ago
Love YOur Work Skyy John, Keep It Bro
kashisall1 1 year ago
one bud light away from banging your girl looool
xhen12 1 year ago
What if she is bi? Would a guy be offended by all of her friends? I think people should trust who they are with, if not, why even be with them?
Destroyticus 1 year ago
waved too late dammit, they're freakin gone LOL:)
lolMegxxx 1 year ago
But it comes down to trust and if you can't trust your girl enough to hang out with male friends, then you need to find someone you can trust.
Razzelmire 1 year ago
Um, these people do not know what the fuck they're talking about. I know girls who are friends with guys only because they can't get along with other girls.
My wife is friends with a lot of my male friends and that shit doesn't happen. Pleae do not stereotype all relationships. Maybe there is a majority of girls that are friends with guys and do fall into this trap, but most girls and guys in all relatonships are pretty stupid to begin with.
Razzelmire 1 year ago 3
@Razzelmire So he doesnt know what he is talking about because the majority of people do it? Flawed logic you have sir. <----yoda talk right there.
fasthandsz 1 year ago
@fasthandsz Flawed your logic is, women has lots of guy friends screws them she does...
romans52345 8 months ago
you don't need to be hanging out with alot of the opposite sex, its out of respect. But if they're just friends and not people you slept with, it shouldn't be a problem. as long as you aren't with them more than your lover.If its an ex hell no, and if she or he chooses to be friends with ex over you "no matter what" (like my last gf) dump their ass. you come first. i dealt with that bs, somehow it was 'wrong' of me to hang with female friends who had bfs and were close friends of mine' bs
bedllama 1 year ago
"hit that one last time and give the chick the pink slip" xD
TubeofDestiny 1 year ago
my girlfriend has 8 male friends :S that kinda alot init ?
fallenangel1624 1 year ago
this is shit.
one of my ex boyfriends is my best friend, and he is more like a sister to me.
I also have a boyfriend (more than a year at the moment) and I don't see why I can't have male friends, or ex for a friend. I have already been with that guy, and there is no way for me to be with him again.
so.. i really don't understand these guys.. i thought that only men have problems with understanding this male-female friendship
biene0maya 1 year ago
@biene0maya Just so i can get more insight into your story. You left one big thing out. You and your ex did have sex correct? because if you didnt that changes the picture completely.
fasthandsz 1 year ago
@fasthandsz that is correct. feel free to explain me :) I discussed a little bit this topic with my friends (male and female) and some of them understand, some of them not, and there is no way to convince them different :/
biene0maya 1 year ago
@biene0maya I mean....idk......like he said you are one just one bud light away :D
fasthandsz 1 year ago
@thekoolestguyaaa Well said man skyys the man. I hate rude chicks like this. Skyy don't let rude chicks like this get to you. your the man.
Logan800 1 year ago
i agree with sky, u shouldn't even be cool with your ex anyways! by the same token u can hang out with your "booty call" too, just female friends right, so she don't pull that double standard BS.
if she cools her shit u will hang w/your female friends less
Wolfsbane909 1 year ago 2
I agree also its not a respect to hang with guys while you have a boyfriend and why are guys mostly hanging with girls? Its because they like them thats why.
7thPlace 1 year ago
First of all...Why the FUDGE are any guys having "girlfriends."
Just hit it and quit it, or just keep it on the side.
You'll be a much happier man if you do.
Oh yeah...I love being the other guy XD
Njoydancing 1 year ago
@Njoydancing This is coming from a kid that says "fudge" instead of "fuck". Yea kid, your real mature, who needs girlfriends when you can just fuck a girl like shes some tool and then leave her in the dust? Your pathetic.
Sparks217 1 year ago
@Sparks217 Did I "FUDGE" your girl? LMAO XD
Njoydancing 1 year ago
wow both hosts are retarded lol
PracticeMan69 1 year ago
"because I am single" BEST ARGUMENT EVER!
DonPohlino 1 year ago 8
looooooooooooool thats truuuuue
scrydo 1 year ago
It's fustrating when you try and tell your girl that her "Friend" just wants to get into her pants, girls can be dumb when it comes to guys.
On the other hand, if you see that guy who doesn't have the balls to just come out and make a play for your girl, but instead goes the friend route, you need to "dissuade" him from coming within a country mile of your girl ever again.
amigo1080 1 year ago
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that girls kinda mean
tigerspartan06 1 year ago
that girls kinda mean
tigerspartan06 1 year ago
She's not mean. Probably ;) But I would describe her as a kind of girl you have to be careful with during the whole conversation. But hey, look on the bright side. If you want to pick her up as an asshole, you will be able to convince her that you are one in 15 seconds - just don't be careful and it's done ;)
Tome4kkkk 1 year ago
i think it's not ok either, because it's just weird
but personally i was like best friends with this girl
we talked about everything we had so much in common and we were just regular friends for like a year
then we go out for three weeks and then she dumped me and now she doesn't even talk to me
she acts like i'm a total stranger whenever i try to talk to her
and i just miss the friendship and talking to her and stuff
toad360 2 years ago
Thank goodness for trusting relationships. As there seems to be a lack of these relationships, no guy or girl should worry about their partners hanging with their ex.............if theres any such thing as trust in a relationship. This is the main reason why relationships do not last long these days, that and lack of money.
robotracking 2 years ago
@robotracking I am sure every starting relationships with out any history of having a relationships do have very good trust, but as they grow more mature and wiser they start having doubts because of there previous relationships. Its like the saying goes ''once bitten twice shy''
fasthandsz 1 year ago
im friends with my ex bf's but i dont hang out with them they just call me when they got issues to discuss. my other ex i hang out with is a chick so id welcome te challenge of that arguement lol and i hang out with a lot of guys n most of them i have known for 5 or more years n the most contact we have had was me being a tomboy lol
sravenlyn 2 years ago
Same for men, they shouldn't hangout with their ex(s).
MsExoticBliss 2 years ago 4
The only reason your girlfriend should have any contact with her ex is if it's regarding their kids and nothing but the children. No other reason is acceptable. If she's hanging out with the ex, cut her loose.
Jason24241 2 years ago 3
She reminds me of the pornstar Austin Kincaid.
techbbq 2 years ago
i honestly think it all DEPENDS. there are guy friends that my bf's totally cool with, and then there are ones that he's uncomfortable with. i respect him so i try not to associate myself too much with those guys. and i agree that he shouldn't mind guys that you've been friends with before you met him. but if she's BFFs with her ex or if she's meeting guys left and right and MOST of her friends are guys, then NO, that's wrong.
beaaa0125 2 years ago
You got it right! If the guy wants to shag the girl, then he shouldn't be hangin, and like you said, some guys are ok cuz they're real friends not just horny!
CritterCallReviews 2 years ago
that's the difference between girls and boys,boys would give their friends for a woman but women won't do that
GUNNER2bad 1 year ago
ok so how does it work that being in the friend zone with an unavailable chick work and being a nice guy doesn't basically you're doing the same...?
CRAZEDtranceaddict 2 years ago
It depends If the girl has male friend(s) before she had a boyfriend then the boyfriend has nothing to worry about because there is nothing going between them. If there was then the girl wouldnt of been looking for another guy would she ?. But on the one hand if the girl suddenly becomes friends with guy(s) when she has a boyfriend before she was friends with the guy(s) then Dude what the fuck are you still doing going out with her ?! DUMP HER ASS !! thats basicly it imo. Skyy you rock! xD
xXxLiplocker666xXx 2 years ago
im super territorial about my bfs so hell no, lol, im not phsyco though.
Ayohima 2 years ago
@Ayohima hah right.....
fasthandsz 1 year ago
*sigh* if that's your attitude, a girl like me with lots of male friends probably won't want to go out with you anyway. I would never give up my friends for my boyfriend EVER!
Vonbomb 2 years ago
I kinda have to agree. Like all my best friends are guys. Like i dont like them like that I want a guy that is confident enough to trust me and love me and not freak out. And my friends are always there. like yea i have a bf but i rather have all my friends.
MINGERZZzz 2 years ago
the funny thing is that some of the people he asked probabaly said the answer they all gave (shouldnt hang otu with exes) is because thats the answer they know people would think good of hearing but they would probably try to hang with an ex and maybe tryto get with them again
mthatguy1111 2 years ago
SEE ME on CBS on Wednesday, September 23rd, 2009 at 8pm EST/PST in the season premiere of the show "THE NEW ADVENTURES OF THE OLD CHRISTINE." I have a couple small scenes with JULIA LIOUS-DREYFUS (ELAINE from the show SEINFELD)
skyyjohn 2 years ago 3
n i had like 50 jobs so i know sum of everyone round here, or they (tried)! to hit on me.... n all they can do is b my friend since they cnt get no p* lol
dmndimn 2 years ago
almos all of my BFF are male-b/c i grew up tomboy but waaay fr gay by any standard lol... i have 6 bro's n 1 sis, n she 11yrs older than me so(we didnt hang out)-i jus hang out wit dudes!.. luckily ive grown out of dressin tomboy now lol! a dude gotta b able to deal with my male friends... point blank
dmndimn 2 years ago
Damn! That Briana chick is fucking humorless! Skyyjohn is obviously joking when he hits on her but she gets all serious about it.. chill the fuck out and get over yourself!
1walkingdeadman 2 years ago 10
Camping indeed = sex. IF she does, the first time I give her a warning, second time she gets a slight molliwhop, third time and its a wrap mofuckas.
CatrachoS0yY0 2 years ago 4
any form of hanging out = possible sex
psssht my girl wouldn't let me hang out with my ex....why the &%$* would i let her hang out with hers? haha no way
n the buncha guy frnz...hmm iono bout that ...GANGBANG? haha sike naw
blazednigga1 2 years ago
damn... you guys are pretty ignorant, insecure and sexist... you do make some valid points, but i think each situation is different and should be judged as such.
dawidziwsko 2 years ago
slap dah hoe
ninoisagod 2 years ago 4
wow what a bitch. skyy what the fuck man. get rid of her.
AIRBORNE916 2 years ago 4
Camping = SEX hahaha!
SoyEzra 2 years ago
This bitch is retarded.
CaliSkater7660 2 years ago 3
This chick.hmmm tsk tsk
kakompo 2 years ago
please dont let that bitch on the show ever AGAIN lol
hannahdapimp 2 years ago 6
she was a BITCH.
mrfunnymonkeyman 2 years ago 7
camping = sex
Restarea11019V 2 years ago 8
@2:16 way ahead of you! lol
CdrePrez 2 years ago
slap a hoe!
dennisisawesome 2 years ago
damn shes a bitch
shes hoeddd u outt biggg timeee lol
alboz4life313 2 years ago
wow man what she said to you was cold jesus what a bitch (0:49) slap dat bitch!
kris8144 2 years ago 41
@kris8144 that girls nose is bent at 2.56 /./. loo closely and pause it . man her nose is BENT !! LOL !!
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SterlingSadler 2 years ago
What a fucking bitch when shes talking to John.
I would stick it in her ass to teach her a lesson :D
streader007 2 years ago 8
no matter what its a no go even if you got a huge dick or not if she is like that just cause she had one dont mean she wont take another
k98mike 2 years ago
what about the other way around?!? what if a guy had girl friends and junk....
hellsingorg2 2 years ago
If she needs another guy, she's not ready for a relationship.
True Love is Monogamous
mastior 2 years ago 5
I think that the problem here is trust. If you can't trust the person you're with, then you should move on... because a heart that beats with mistrust is already broken, and you shouldn't have to worry about it. And if you DO worry about it, then you should stop interacting with the opposite sex, until you've learned to master your emotions, because you're only hurting yourself.
People are gunna do what people are gunna do.
lightSleeper11 2 years ago
In short. I have female friends from school that I hang out with all the time. Its a non-issue for me, so it would be unfair to her if she couldnt hang out with friends. I am not "friends" with my exes.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
If you're getting the job done in the bedroom then you won't have to worry about your girl cheating. There's nothing that keeps a girl faithful more than a big dick on hard.
Fetrey 2 years ago
Depends on da gal.
almtonmak 2 years ago
girls are more weird about it then guys when it comes to being friends. personally i could care less if a girl im seeing has guy friends but dont give me a reason to think otherwise either. it's called being secure with yourself. and if you wanna see how strong the girl youre seeing is, have a real good friend that happens to be a girl and see how she takes it...
steelfury455 2 years ago
i agree lol
vanesssarosalie 2 years ago
i disagree, people are people regardless of how secure you are with yourself.
i want to agree with you (need to make that clear).
but people are people. the nature of the beast has not changed in millennia.
Azzaiel 2 years ago
That shit aint happening in my relationship...No such things as platonic friends. As in the words of chris rock, Thats just dick in a glass, break in case of emergency!
persleezy 2 years ago
so true! thats y i dont trust the girls best frienes that are exes, and i know from "ME" being the ex best friend.... i was just waiting to be 1 bud away from hittin that :p
WolfsEye157 2 years ago
THEY GO CAMPIMG LOL
lrc094 2 years ago
lmao i loled there too
SuperKillerMthfDude 2 years ago
omg, why can't more girls say it like that girl did in the beginning....what a wonderful woman
chriscunanan 2 years ago
i used to be tha guy who iz just tha friend to a girl with a boyfriend..i never crossed tha line in ther relationship but for some reason tha guyz would get mad so for another reason i banged everyone of ther girlfriendz..with that being said its not alwayz a bad thing wen ur in the friends zone with a girl..in my case it wasnt..haha
MoTownSav209 2 years ago
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LuXckyXWilL 2 years ago
lmaooooo u playa man hahah "wishing she woz ur girlfriend hahahh tryna play the game n shit lol!
23ngu23 2 years ago
the girl who mentioned" i am single" she is hot.
wazzzupbuddy 2 years ago
women are dumb jesus lol
rbonilla18 2 years ago
i cant really say anything about that cause my bestfriend is my ex girlfriend and my babymama so i guess 2 a point i could under stand where there would be a promble but its not right for u to be doing the same thing that ur getting mad about so i would say i would be cool aslong as nothing is happening
babydaddy05 2 years ago
if she hangs out with the ex so much, he is really not the "ex" at all.
hedonistic2008 2 years ago 7
wrddd
SYFANT 2 years ago
That Gurl Was Playin Yo Face On Yo Own Show....Kick Her Ass To The Curb LOL
BLKTRX252 3 years ago 4
Listen to me right now... HELL NO!!!
Argonaut22j 3 years ago
Hell no!
ratkillerinparadise 3 years ago
my girlfriend still hangs out with her ex
should i kick his ass or
dump her?
ivanyoulube 3 years ago 2
dump her they are probably fucking each other
theirs no such thing as friends between a man and a women.
tonythesom 3 years ago
thatz not true i use to be friendz with a lot of girls..but i did fuck em all so ur right dump that bitch shez cheating bro i guarantee it..
MoTownSav209 2 years ago
if the chick is ugly there is lololol
SuperKillerMthfDude 2 years ago
The black dude got owned
MeepullStewray 3 years ago
If you get hit by a car, she ain't a doctor.... LMFAO!!!! Epic... Yup, not kewl for your girl to be hanging out with her ex. Been there, only causes drama. Curb her.
blupheonix44 3 years ago
WHAT?!! HELL NO! That's like someone shooting at you and running out of Bullits and you say "oh here, use these and they relly pack a punch"
buffalosbm 3 years ago
I have a lot of guy friends and I know all of them have thought about banging me in the past but since they know they are not going to get any they don't try anymore(maybe joke around). But guy friends are fun. They tell me about their g/fs or girl problems and ask for my advice. I ask them for advice. Girls are always so competitive with me / fake but my guy friends never act fake with me. They are more loyal.
realbabe123 3 years ago
Just because YOU dont give it up to him doesnt make him your "friend".If its in the back of his mind,then he's not really your friend.He's proabaly a "nice guy" wich is why he opens up to you.Regardless,if you gave your self to him and your hot,trust me he'll take it proving your friendship is a LIE!
twinsouls 3 years ago
So I'm not suppose to be friends with every guy that finds me attractive? or will nail me if given the opportunity? uhmmm well, I will have no guy friends lol
I think a friend is someone that will call you if your going through a bad time/ be there for you and they really do that. So what if in the BACK of their minds they have dirty thoughts as well? As long as they don't take advantage of me while I'm drunk then there is no "LIE."
realbabe123 3 years ago
You can be friends with whoever you want.I just find that this is mostly a problem for relationships about 95% of the time.Guys might be to proud to admit it bothers him that you have guy friends.Others are stupid and let girls walk all over them and deal with there guy friends but hold all the anger inside.Then there are are other guys that dont care about you having guy friends probably because he dont really care for you(at least not for a serious relationship).
twinsouls 3 years ago
wave too late Dammit! pll gone having dinner already... lol.lol
daveight5two 3 years ago
only if the girlfriend isn't jewish cuz you can't trust jewish chicks trust me! (and it's nothing racist i promise)
Aerba54 3 years ago
you cant trust anyone, human beings are sexual frustrated,
matunzcopa 3 years ago
What the heck? It seems like people have no control over their own stinky little shmee shmee.... If I have a man & he pisses me off enough to become my ex, he will NEVER get inside my pants ever again. It's all or nothing, baby.
blinkypushbuttons 3 years ago
What's the point in hanging out with an ex anyway. Find a new, better one, invest your time in him if you want him. If you still feel the need to spread yourself around, stay single.
blinkypushbuttons 3 years ago
I dont hang out with ex's so thats not an issue...but I do have guy friends (gay and straight) and if he has a problem with them then there are going to be some problems because I have more guy friends than chick friends just because girls stir up drama where guys dont. And anyway my family and friends will always be more important to me than a boyfriend. And I wouldnt have a problem with him having chick friends and guy friends but NO ex girlfriends its only fair.
herewatchingutube 3 years ago
I have a prob with my girl having guy friends, I jst dont see the point unless they are interested. Myabe its just my perspective? becuase I'm a guy, I understand this to a level women do not. I dont see men making friends with women unless there some sort of sexual inerest, present or in the future. maybe you can enlighten me. Its not that I dont trust my girl, I just dont trust the men, especially since I know them somewhat, and I am a man myself (I know how a mans mind work) enlighten me
pag3 3 years ago
WAIT A MIN I JUST READ THE REST OF YOUR WORDS
I understand where family comes before your boyfriend,RATIONAL
But friends before boyfriend, wrong COUPLES have a way stronger bond then friends way more time and commitment then friendship, its a relationship maybe i shouldnt have asked you, but you can answer if you wish
pag3 3 years ago
No no no!!! Friends are always going to be before a boyfriend for me because they were there first and they have a place in my life that I will not let him step in front of, its not going to happen. I value my friendships that I have right now (with my guy friends and my small percentage of girl friends) WAY more then a relationship. I dont put much value on a relationship because I have all that I need right now with my friends and family.
herewatchingutube 2 years ago
well u need to grow up i understand if itz a watever relationship they yea dont dictch ur friendz but if u two are serious about eachother u need to let them go if needed because ur friendz are not going to be tha father to ur kids an they are not goin to be tha ones u marry..
MoTownSav209 2 years ago
Everyone is entitled to thier opinion...but I dont think I need to grow up at all. I realize I am 19 years old...but I think a relationship (especially marriage!) is not what I am into right now. My favorite yt person described relationships best, "Relationships are like buses...every 15 minutes another one comes along." That is a great analogy, I think. :) Its not me, I dont find it necessary to complete my life. :)
Again...1) Family 2) Friends 3) Boyfriend
He cant short cut...sorry. :)
herewatchingutube 2 years ago
yea well im 19 too an i realized that friendz aint alwayz ther and in ur case they might be good friends but that doesnt mean u put them before a dude thatz gonna love u for tha rest of ur life an some friends that are ther now but wen they meet tha one they love see if they put u first..its not gonna happen it suckz but thatz how it iz..we still young we can have fun but ill know wen to put my friendz aside for a girl i love..
MoTownSav209 2 years ago
I understand that too. But, there are plenty of other people that you could go out with. I am not into "finding a dude that will love me." My friends can prioritize me any way they want but they are more important to me. Significant others come and go but the good friends stay. :)
I dont think that we are going to be able to see eye to eye on this though. LOL :)
(I might be wrong and Im sorry if I am) but you seem family orientedI(like having a family)...am I right? Im just curious. :)
herewatchingutube 2 years ago
you're right and real friends will respect ur decision and still try to hang out with u when they can...thats when u see who are ur real friends
JUNES05 2 years ago
I will always prefer my guy friends over the few girl friends that I have (even though I would need some girl friends to spill what little drama that I have). I have had my guy friend since I was 15 and he has never asked me for anything (in all sense of the word) (he is equal to an average girl's "BFF") I can tell him anything. (But yet there is a sense of chemistry but it isnt necessarily sexual) I also think that I might have this mentality just because...
herewatchingutube 2 years ago
...I am not looking for marriage and or other really serious relationships, I do not believe I need that in my life. (no to everyone else who might be closed minded...it doesnt make me a slut, because that is not for me I actually have some character) Maybe I might change my mind one day, but for now it is what it is and I dont see it changing in the near future. But what I do know for sure is that my ladder of peoples importance to me will always be 1) Family 2) Friends 3) Boyfriend.
herewatchingutube 2 years ago
I feel the exact same way. I have more guy friends than girls. It's true, girls stir up a lot of drama. My guys treat me like one of their guy friends, they talk about how hot girls are when im there and ask my opinion about it too! But some pplz need to get this into their heads, NOT ALL GIRLS THAT HAVE LOTS OF GUY FRIENDS ARE SLUTS. and just cause one of her guy friends may like her doesnt mean shes suddenly gonna sleep with him or like him, you need to trust her (depends on her character)
ViktoryV 3 years ago
lol
postboy08 3 years ago
I have no problem with my girlfriend has a lot of guy friends just so long as I don't have to buy her anything and I am getting into her pants for free just like those other guys. Everybody slips eventually, I mean we are human.
Man or women don't have a monopoly on this behaviour.
AntArt141 3 years ago
Girls that have a lot of guy friends are usually either slutty or untrustworthy
Jeffro907 3 years ago
Hmm, I think it's okay for a girl to have a lot of guy friends, cause the truth is, if they were her friends first already then just cuz you're dating you can't really expect her to suddenly find new friends.
But if she's hanging out with her ex a lot then it's probably a no no.... HOWEVER. If she hangs out with her ex in a group setting (like he's part of her group of friends) then I think it's more okay.... But one-on-one ex and girl hanging out is probably not a good idea
ViktoryV 3 years ago
WOW, thats a bit simple minded dont you think. Your trust would have to be extremely strong wouldnt it.
pag3 3 years ago
With regards to the guy friends or the ex?
Well w/guy friends... i mean if she liked one of her guy friends then she probably would have gone after him already, no? And you can't expect someone to ditch their friends just cause you're dating them.
And w/the ex... well it's in a group setting... if the girl wanted to mess around w/her ex, things would get suspicious and im sure the friends would speak up... But yea, either way trust is essential as it would be in any relationship
ViktoryV 3 years ago
Are you a scorpio????
but anyways, i THINK YOU MISSED THE ASPECT of the situation. I am in a relationship, and she has a bunch of guy friends, I see flitation, but she tells me she doesnt know what flirtation is(her excuse) where can I get the truth IDK I confused to some point
pag3 3 years ago
I'm not a scorpio! lol. Hmm, well I think some girls genuinely don't know they are being flirty, they just act playful and friendly w/everyone. If it really makes you uncomfortable, i think you should confront her, tell her exactly what she does that bothers you. And tell her to put herself in your shoes (how would she feel if you acted that way w/a bunch of girls) HOpefully she understands and changes in a way that is ok for you but still allows her to hang out w/her friends?? Good luck! =)
ViktoryV 3 years ago
WHY DO GIRLS NEED GUY FRIENDS, whats the point?? I dont need girl friends.. why cant girls just be friends with girls LMAO
pag3 3 years ago
Women, typically do not have a lot of male friends. Maybe a close group of, say max- 5.But typically they will have more female friends. A woman who needs to surround herself with male(a ratio of more male than female)friends, usually has something going on. Not a good thing either;)
blupheonix44 3 years ago 4
That's not true, it may be true for some people that they have more girl friends maybe even the majority of girls but not all girls have something going on just cause they have more guy friends. I in general have more guy friends but its true i only have a group of ~ 3 close guy friends. Anyway, everyone's different, just cause 1 girl is a slut cuz she has a lot of guy friends doesn't mean we all are.
ViktoryV 3 years ago
I don't trust u. I lost the count of the girls friends I've slept with. I don't know why why but somehow it always happen.
sem2006fr 3 years ago
If you got her you got her. Don't worry.
Anything lost easily isn't really yours.
Don't stress, there's billions of them.
jbubbjw 3 years ago
if she is hanging out with her ex she is cheating on you
if they like eachother soo much why is he her EX
she should hate him and never ever ever talk nice of him infront of her Current boyfriend
and to all girls what if a guy hangs out with his Ex-girlfriend goes to the movies and lunch with her
How would you Feel?
spetznas101 3 years ago
Skyy, TAKE THAT GIRL AND RUN!!! lol
forgottenbow 3 years ago 2
Depends on what I'm looking for.
If I can't trust her to be friends with her ex, then I can't trust her PERIOD.
If I have to be guarding my back (or her front), I'm with the wrong chick.
ilalfisto 3 years ago
Hell fucking no. I hate dudes who do that. Because what if the dude kicks your ass or hope that he's gay. I try to avoid confrontation. Take care of your girl and it won't happen.
markthedreamaker1 3 years ago
No f'in way! Unless I know the guy an he is cool for sure, hell no.
A1yola06 3 years ago
ask her one day for a date, she says sorry, i already got plans with (name) -her ex.
Thats when u know 100% shes gettin banged by the Ex
debit256 3 years ago 3
Girlfriend + Hanging out with Ex = BAD!
BIackBandit 3 years ago 5
i think if a guy's too uncomfortable w/ his gf hanging with guy friends...that's his insecurity (and visa versa)
i've had that issue...my bf @ the time didn't trust me at all so i dumped him lol...but that's life
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bjann 3 years ago
O_o You're right! lol Doesnt even look like a girl.. XD k
getatmedude 3 years ago
hope he's gay hahaha
ilegalsheepbutcher 3 years ago
hahahaha "I was being sarcastic, that's what I do. I say sarcastic things seriously..."
DaBlackGeisha 3 years ago 3
what´s up with the subliminal images?????
BankruptBassplayer 3 years ago 2
center shots
SYFANT 3 years ago
I say ditch the bitch.If she is hanging out with the ex,you just know he is better hung than you are..! lol
toxiccarcass 3 years ago
NOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!
When you become the FRIEND you will NOT GET LAID!!! They go to nice guys for friendship and still have sex with guys they really want.
this is why you keep your women friends to a MINIMUM. this is why the good lord gave us gay men, for women to JUST friends with them! DUH.
vlunney 3 years ago 6
lmao true
TRINIBOY411 3 years ago
exactly why you shouldn't worry about guy friends lol. Exes on the other hand...
SuperKillerMthfDude 2 years ago
the only reason girls hang out with a bunch of guys is to get some cock
VegasSection86 3 years ago
That is totally true.
c0y0tito 3 years ago
false.
SuperKillerMthfDude 2 years ago
I'm a guy. Guys don't just want to be friends. Well, most of the time.
2Shae91 3 years ago