@FabulousSamone I am going 2ask U2 follow me. I will stick w / da word. Pretend we R driving 2da supermarket4 a spring water sale R raspberries. I promise U I will listen to you later and I will hear you out since I know are not a beginner in the word. I know you know the word.. I shared your similar beliefs that Jesus death was for everyone. I don't stand on the corner & try to preach this to people. It is a gospel that needs to be taught to a person whose heart is right4 God= Ps119:18.
@BarabbasLove I think your replies are getting separated, I don't see the next part to this. I see a question about fallen men, but don't follow where you are pulling it from...It is probably best to inbox/message since these are becoming so long....
@BarabbasLove I didn't really agree with what you said about mankind being allergic, I said you could possibly think of it as being allergic. In summary the rest of my details if from your analogy is that repentance is the allergy medicine that removes that barrier.So the true divider between God is sin and the Bible's the answer.Also the Old testament was fulfilled in the new, you have to take in context or else we'd still be sacrificing animals therefore In reply to your ? read Matt 28:19
@BarabbasLove Jesus gave the great commission in Matthew 28:19, Go therefore and make disciples of ALL nations,baptizing them in the name of the Father.The times of Generation and I Isaiah was very tumultuous in the since that God had to keep proving himself over and over to his chosen people that he'd made a promise to.Many of the thing said and done were to set his chosen people apart from the sinners & idol worshipers as He fulfilled His promise to Abraham,now the commission includes ALL
@BarabbasLove haha, no don't know what happened to him. I am also celibate (4 years) and almost at the at point of accepting my lot. Actually accepted that God did not create everyone to be with another person. Some people have a purpose that having a partner will hinder and/or does not include a partner. I just wish God would remove those desires from us who are in that lot...actually now that I think about it, He may remove it in a process not immediate because I feel like it's be a process
@BarabbasLove I believe there would not have been a need for the Bible without the original sin.It was because of that sin that generations came about and became more and more distant from God.
@BarabbasLove you could possibly think of it as allergic because while in sin man can not see God, but that is why God sent Jesus as the Savior. So that through the Son we have the Father. So it is more that people who have not accepted the Son can't know not the Father and Holy Spirit. They are not Christlike and sinful as the generations after Adam and Even naturally are because we are born into sin, the Bible the lesson book for how to live as God intended which allows us to be closer to Him
@BarabbasLove 1 Corinthians2:14 different bible version put it different ways but essentially it says man not of the spirit or a natural man can't accept the spirit of God.So natural or unspiritual or unsaved people maybe as you say allergic to God in the sense that can't get close to God in the state they live, which is sin,natural sin since Adam and Eve. We must repent and accept Jesus as our Savior and then we are saved & should use God Words, the Bible, to live by knowing noone is perfect
It works both ways. I have met many women that do not have jobs and to me it does not matter if they have a job or not but it does matter if they are looking. I myself lost my job not long ago and found a girlfriend during that time but she was not as superficial as you. You need to open your mind more and see the bigger picture. It's the type of women that turn a lot men off because of your mentality. This is why I think you are and will be single for a very long time
@maycor1076 Your girlfriend have her preferences, deal breakers and priorities.I have mine and that does not make me superficial. I think your girlfriend was irresponsible for getting with a man without a job and you had your priorities mixed up for not making getting a job a priority before getting into a relationship. Its a difference to be in already and to get in.Yes I will be single, BY CHOICE, for as long as it takes, but when he finds me, it will be without a doubt right,I accept no less.
@FabulousSamone I don't think you believe that yourself. You want to be single for as long as it takes??.. baby girl thats a poor excuse you have. I thought that it was all about compromise and seeing if someone has potentioal and making the best of it. Do you not know the that unemployment is high and most of them are men.? A man/woman can fall into hard times but does not mean I would not be interested in that person. Who's to know what that person has offer when he/she is on their feet.
@maycor1076 See the thing is you have to get to a certain level of understanding and being happy with yourself to understand where I am coming from. Before I reached I would have said the same thing and use to think like you. But let me tell you something there is something great about relying on God and then self for happiness. I know He will never let me down and I know I will not dissappointment myself. When someone comes along that adds to that and is worth the good and bad then we will see
@FabulousSamone We are not talking about God because you did not mention God at any point in your video. All of the sudden you bring this up prayer and all.... Take that away from the equation. Obviously this is your opinion and only applies to you because there are people that think different from you. I respect your opinion n it seems you dont want to see the light. Im just giving you a taste of the other side. I rather be open minded and look deeper inside a person n give them a chance
@maycor1076 I am talking about prayer which involves God, I don't have to mention him to speak of him. How can you tell me because I didn't mention him in the video, I didn't have your opinion in the video either nor did I discuss my layoffs, which I did after your comments. Its what I did, I actually prayed, so why would I not say something I actually did???? You can't make me see the light about my preference it comes from my life experience. My preference does not equal closed minded.
@maycor1076 Also I am talking about God, because that is where I get my peace from and my joy. If you didn't see it in this video check out almost all of my other videos where you are sure here me mention Him all over the place....
@maycor1076 As far as unemployment I have been layed off twice in my life 1st in 2005 I remained so for a year, I took that time off to explore what I want to do not what I have to do to make a living. 2nd in 2009 I went into prayer mode, 172 of my colleagues were let go & I interviewed for 1 or 5 spots that had 47 candidates. I came out with 1 of the 5 positions that amounted to a promotion . I had that job before the end of the next. I was single and that was my priority. It can be done..
@FabulousSamone You think... when a man loses his job, he at no point should even consider approaching a female... hmm Have you seen the news some people have not found a job for 6months to 1year. All im saying is by having this close minded mentality you might be missing out on many good man that have great potentials. It is not irresponsible for any woman to be interested in a man without as job as long as she sees that person has goals, vision, ambition in life. To me thats a true woman
@maycor1076 By the way, make no mistake in thinking I don't have a choice. I could fill this channel up with stories, but out of respect for the guys I don't do that. They are right for someone, just not me.
The guy shouldn't asked you personal questions during the first meeting. He might be married or living with his girlfriend. You never know. I don't agree with giving guys your number when they first meet you. It's best that you see them a few times.
LOL! You got a lot of typing to do LUUUUUCY! Millions of youtube videos about "situations" where people are looking into camera talking. Lots of work for you my friend, LOL!
I think you're over analyzing this. Guys who go up to women are playing a numbers game and trying to get laid. The more women they go up to, the higher chances of meeting women that will put out. You think so much about this, but I guarantee you that he's thinking about the next girl, while still putting some effort into you until he knows there's no chance. The truth is, this strategy works and there are many women out there that will sleep with men with no jobs. It's a numbers game.
Also to add, he's probably not even thinking about a relationship. You're talking about him bringing you into a situation where he don't got no job, but he's not thinking that. He's thinking sex. Guys who go up to women like that are looking for sex...and it works. He also gets a chuckle out of ppl like you because you're thinking about him.
5minutes in and I had to quit. I so much hate when men approach me with their children. It's happened several times and I dont like it. Reason being is because most of them were with someone else. Which teaches the children to be jerks just like them. I would date someone who was jobless. My husband was jobless when I met him. He has two jobs now. But had he told me he quit his job because he THOUGHT... Anyway. I chat with ya later.
If this were the case I would have more friends than I could ever possibly manage. I thank God for the experiences that I've been through in life that saves me from even going down the road with something like this. This was not someone I met along the way doing an activity that represents what I or someone I would be in contact with continuously, therefore I feel at least 99% sure that as soon as the words friends fell from my lips or it seemed it was going that way he'd disagree.
His present state, which most like reflects his past state, is not compatible with my present state, There is bound to be someone out there whose present state is more compatible with his. As far as the future, I asked him does he make a living off of what he is doing, his indirect answer was no, I have social security, and he quit his job without another, what kind of responsibility does that show. and I was suppose to think about a future that involved him.
I feel honesty should be a matter of fact so I don't expect anything except honesty. Furthermore, being honest does not relegate the other person to a situation because someone is honest with them. You said be careful, I used care in assessing his responsibility base on what he said. you said be wise, I realized that most likely most men have pride and would not dare try approach a women while in that state, they'd want to get it together so what kind man would, what is he used to?.
It's hard to say. Again the decision is yours - u have intangibles about the Brother that we don't. I just wanted to make the point of not excluding someone simply based on circumstances.
Im with you on that! I can't believe he told you, he gets points for being honest, but not enough to win the game lol hell he can't even play. i think that was nice of you, but i wouldnt have done that. stop all contact.
I couldn't have said it better....but the question remains, why, I wounder if calling to find out would be totally wrong. I'd say when did it become okay to quit a job, be unemployed and okay to try and pick up a woman in the midst of the situation?
and
what did you expect from me knowing this and how could it look like anything other than you're looking for meal ticket when you ask me am I single and do I work and have kids, then turn around and tell me you quit your job & have no other.
That's true...conditions don't have to be permanent but I just couldn't deal with his condition right now, not as a starting part.
I also don't think being friends was his intention when his first question was 'are you single', lol and I don't have the time or patience to play games by going along and then saying let's be friends.
I just don't understand how he'd think it would be okay as a starting point in trying to talk to a female.
Well I would be a hypocrite if I disagreed with you. However he could have won the state lotto and was testing you. LOL
Seriously though, someone who may not be 'worthy' in a relationship may be a good friend, if that is what one wants. Truth though is many of these guys don't care, they see a girl they will go after her regardless
So what do you think could be a guy's mindset doing something like this while he is in this type of situation? If you were attracted to a lady and had quit your job would you still approach the lady? Does this mean any semblance of the man should be stable and at minimum have a job before trying to date or is the notion that the ratio of men to women is so high that no matter what the situation an approach is okay?
obviously he had a woman while trying to get with u..why on earth would a man with no job have that type of courage..he knew he had nothing to lose..its was like u were a backup plan..and she may be taking care of him..or figured.. oh u look like a nice person to take advantage of..i hate that shit myself..
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove I think your replies are getting separated, I don't see the next part to this. I see a question about fallen men, but don't follow where you are pulling it from...It is probably best to inbox/message since these are becoming so long....
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
@FabulousSamone Since U agree with me in what I
said about mankind being allergic to God & that the Lord
probably would not have written a Bible if Adam didn't
sin, allow me to move on2 my next point. B4 I do I
am going to ask you to put your emotions to the side. I
promise you, I will put mine in my top draw. My next point
is, do you believe that God chose to ONLY restore the seed of
Jacob ( Gen 27:29 ) in his angelic restoration academy,
& leave the rest of humanity as they are (Isa 60:12)?
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove I didn't really agree with what you said about mankind being allergic, I said you could possibly think of it as being allergic. In summary the rest of my details if from your analogy is that repentance is the allergy medicine that removes that barrier.So the true divider between God is sin and the Bible's the answer.Also the Old testament was fulfilled in the new, you have to take in context or else we'd still be sacrificing animals therefore In reply to your ? read Matt 28:19
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
@FabulousSamone You believe that fallen man
wants to do the things that pleases God ?
Correct me if I am wrong. Is that what you are
saying ?
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove Jesus gave the great commission in Matthew 28:19, Go therefore and make disciples of ALL nations,baptizing them in the name of the Father.The times of Generation and I Isaiah was very tumultuous in the since that God had to keep proving himself over and over to his chosen people that he'd made a promise to.Many of the thing said and done were to set his chosen people apart from the sinners & idol worshipers as He fulfilled His promise to Abraham,now the commission includes ALL
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
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BarabbasLove 10 months ago
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BarabbasLove 10 months ago
I am celibate and done with dating...
Praise the Lord. I have accepted
my lot in life, but if I were to date
a woman, I would never step to
her without having money in my
pocket.. That guy must have been
mental or something... Please
tell me you didn't marry this guy...
BarabbasLove 11 months ago
@BarabbasLove haha, no don't know what happened to him. I am also celibate (4 years) and almost at the at point of accepting my lot. Actually accepted that God did not create everyone to be with another person. Some people have a purpose that having a partner will hinder and/or does not include a partner. I just wish God would remove those desires from us who are in that lot...actually now that I think about it, He may remove it in a process not immediate because I feel like it's be a process
FabulousSamone 11 months ago
@FabulousSamone Praise God. You ain't missing anything.
We are literally in the last days. This is the last generation
before Jesus returns. I heard from God last year that the
tribulation will begin very shortly. Lets build on the scriptures
and see we can see eye to eye on John 8:32. Do you believe
that God would have written a Bible for Adam & Eve if they
didn't sin, or do you think he only wrote the Bible because
what was natural to them was lost & man became allergic
to him ( Rom 8:7) ?
BarabbasLove 11 months ago
@BarabbasLove I believe there would not have been a need for the Bible without the original sin.It was because of that sin that generations came about and became more and more distant from God.
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
@FabulousSamone I agree with you that there would have been no need
for a Bible if man didn't sin. I believe Romans 8:7 is saying that man became
allergic to God, do you agree that that scripture is saying pretty much that men
naturally are allergic to God ?
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove you could possibly think of it as allergic because while in sin man can not see God, but that is why God sent Jesus as the Savior. So that through the Son we have the Father. So it is more that people who have not accepted the Son can't know not the Father and Holy Spirit. They are not Christlike and sinful as the generations after Adam and Even naturally are because we are born into sin, the Bible the lesson book for how to live as God intended which allows us to be closer to Him
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
@BarabbasLove 1 Corinthians2:14 different bible version put it different ways but essentially it says man not of the spirit or a natural man can't accept the spirit of God.So natural or unspiritual or unsaved people maybe as you say allergic to God in the sense that can't get close to God in the state they live, which is sin,natural sin since Adam and Eve. We must repent and accept Jesus as our Savior and then we are saved & should use God Words, the Bible, to live by knowing noone is perfect
FabulousSamone 10 months ago
@FabulousSamone Thats very true & wise of U in your ability2
break down the scriptures. I see I am talking2 a sista who can
break down the word. Good. I'm glad 4U. Let me be careful w/
what I say. I have the gift of understanding. I am trying2prepare
U4 what I really want to say. Its very controversial, yet true. Let me
introduce it slowly. I am hoping U will receive this, but if not I tell
U I know as God is my witness on judgment day our conversation will
be brought up2 your attention
BarabbasLove 10 months ago
If this mentality makes you feel better at night. Glad for you and more power to you.
maycor1076 1 year ago
@maycor1076 Thanks...
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
It works both ways. I have met many women that do not have jobs and to me it does not matter if they have a job or not but it does matter if they are looking. I myself lost my job not long ago and found a girlfriend during that time but she was not as superficial as you. You need to open your mind more and see the bigger picture. It's the type of women that turn a lot men off because of your mentality. This is why I think you are and will be single for a very long time
maycor1076 1 year ago
@maycor1076 Your girlfriend have her preferences, deal breakers and priorities.I have mine and that does not make me superficial. I think your girlfriend was irresponsible for getting with a man without a job and you had your priorities mixed up for not making getting a job a priority before getting into a relationship. Its a difference to be in already and to get in.Yes I will be single, BY CHOICE, for as long as it takes, but when he finds me, it will be without a doubt right,I accept no less.
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
@FabulousSamone I don't think you believe that yourself. You want to be single for as long as it takes??.. baby girl thats a poor excuse you have. I thought that it was all about compromise and seeing if someone has potentioal and making the best of it. Do you not know the that unemployment is high and most of them are men.? A man/woman can fall into hard times but does not mean I would not be interested in that person. Who's to know what that person has offer when he/she is on their feet.
maycor1076 1 year ago
@maycor1076 See the thing is you have to get to a certain level of understanding and being happy with yourself to understand where I am coming from. Before I reached I would have said the same thing and use to think like you. But let me tell you something there is something great about relying on God and then self for happiness. I know He will never let me down and I know I will not dissappointment myself. When someone comes along that adds to that and is worth the good and bad then we will see
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
@FabulousSamone We are not talking about God because you did not mention God at any point in your video. All of the sudden you bring this up prayer and all.... Take that away from the equation. Obviously this is your opinion and only applies to you because there are people that think different from you. I respect your opinion n it seems you dont want to see the light. Im just giving you a taste of the other side. I rather be open minded and look deeper inside a person n give them a chance
maycor1076 1 year ago
@maycor1076 I am talking about prayer which involves God, I don't have to mention him to speak of him. How can you tell me because I didn't mention him in the video, I didn't have your opinion in the video either nor did I discuss my layoffs, which I did after your comments. Its what I did, I actually prayed, so why would I not say something I actually did???? You can't make me see the light about my preference it comes from my life experience. My preference does not equal closed minded.
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
@maycor1076 Also I am talking about God, because that is where I get my peace from and my joy. If you didn't see it in this video check out almost all of my other videos where you are sure here me mention Him all over the place....
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
@maycor1076 As far as unemployment I have been layed off twice in my life 1st in 2005 I remained so for a year, I took that time off to explore what I want to do not what I have to do to make a living. 2nd in 2009 I went into prayer mode, 172 of my colleagues were let go & I interviewed for 1 or 5 spots that had 47 candidates. I came out with 1 of the 5 positions that amounted to a promotion . I had that job before the end of the next. I was single and that was my priority. It can be done..
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
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@FabulousSamone You think... when a man loses his job, he at no point should even consider approaching a female... hmm Have you seen the news some people have not found a job for 6months to 1year. All im saying is by having this close minded mentality you might be missing out on many good man that have great potentials. It is not irresponsible for any woman to be interested in a man without as job as long as she sees that person has goals, vision, ambition in life. To me thats a true woman
maycor1076 1 year ago
@maycor1076 By the way, make no mistake in thinking I don't have a choice. I could fill this channel up with stories, but out of respect for the guys I don't do that. They are right for someone, just not me.
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
@maycor1076 Please see my video "Being Single...and some Rambling" :-) Dec 2, 2010 will explain a lot, enjoy...
FabulousSamone 1 year ago
nice lips
earlsutton 1 year ago
If I met you I would just strip naked there and then, and you would be on your knees . Social security MY ASS. THERE BE NO MESSING WITH ME BABY!!
flashbiddy 1 year ago
The guy shouldn't asked you personal questions during the first meeting. He might be married or living with his girlfriend. You never know. I don't agree with giving guys your number when they first meet you. It's best that you see them a few times.
mindyourbizok 2 years ago
i understand! the way i see it is, why would you bear someone elses weight!? man or woman? but someone has to do it unless its perfectly balanced!
ibcrazysumtimes 2 years ago
LOL! You got a lot of typing to do LUUUUUCY! Millions of youtube videos about "situations" where people are looking into camera talking. Lots of work for you my friend, LOL!
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
I think you're over analyzing this. Guys who go up to women are playing a numbers game and trying to get laid. The more women they go up to, the higher chances of meeting women that will put out. You think so much about this, but I guarantee you that he's thinking about the next girl, while still putting some effort into you until he knows there's no chance. The truth is, this strategy works and there are many women out there that will sleep with men with no jobs. It's a numbers game.
barasu1shou 2 years ago 2
Also to add, he's probably not even thinking about a relationship. You're talking about him bringing you into a situation where he don't got no job, but he's not thinking that. He's thinking sex. Guys who go up to women like that are looking for sex...and it works. He also gets a chuckle out of ppl like you because you're thinking about him.
barasu1shou 2 years ago 2
That makes a lot of sense! They say men are simple creatures and they think of sex often; it could be just that simple.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
your hot wanna be friends?
muchopsycho 2 years ago
5minutes in and I had to quit. I so much hate when men approach me with their children. It's happened several times and I dont like it. Reason being is because most of them were with someone else. Which teaches the children to be jerks just like them. I would date someone who was jobless. My husband was jobless when I met him. He has two jobs now. But had he told me he quit his job because he THOUGHT... Anyway. I chat with ya later.
degbola 2 years ago
I cant wait to get in on this one. I will come back
degbola 2 years ago
Lol, I'll be waiting.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
What if a person actually likes a person but will not go further due to job status?
Let's remember that a person's past and/or present is not neccesarily their future.
Does a person get more points for having more money than honesty?
Of course, in all things, be careful and wise.
Some of us r trained to respect money, even when it's in the hands of an idiot.
Who knows, the man could have been a decent friend, w/o asking u for a thing.
There r some ppl like that still. CAREFUL!
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
If this were the case I would have more friends than I could ever possibly manage. I thank God for the experiences that I've been through in life that saves me from even going down the road with something like this. This was not someone I met along the way doing an activity that represents what I or someone I would be in contact with continuously, therefore I feel at least 99% sure that as soon as the words friends fell from my lips or it seemed it was going that way he'd disagree.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
His present state, which most like reflects his past state, is not compatible with my present state, There is bound to be someone out there whose present state is more compatible with his. As far as the future, I asked him does he make a living off of what he is doing, his indirect answer was no, I have social security, and he quit his job without another, what kind of responsibility does that show. and I was suppose to think about a future that involved him.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
I feel honesty should be a matter of fact so I don't expect anything except honesty. Furthermore, being honest does not relegate the other person to a situation because someone is honest with them. You said be careful, I used care in assessing his responsibility base on what he said. you said be wise, I realized that most likely most men have pride and would not dare try approach a women while in that state, they'd want to get it together so what kind man would, what is he used to?.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
It's hard to say. Again the decision is yours - u have intangibles about the Brother that we don't. I just wanted to make the point of not excluding someone simply based on circumstances.
Luv ya.
dbrunsonsr 2 years ago
Im with you on that! I can't believe he told you, he gets points for being honest, but not enough to win the game lol hell he can't even play. i think that was nice of you, but i wouldnt have done that. stop all contact.
blklacquer 2 years ago
I couldn't have said it better....but the question remains, why, I wounder if calling to find out would be totally wrong. I'd say when did it become okay to quit a job, be unemployed and okay to try and pick up a woman in the midst of the situation?
and
what did you expect from me knowing this and how could it look like anything other than you're looking for meal ticket when you ask me am I single and do I work and have kids, then turn around and tell me you quit your job & have no other.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
Interesting is all I can say. May not be a husband but could become a good friend. Remember no condition is permanent.
redman30034 2 years ago
That's true...conditions don't have to be permanent but I just couldn't deal with his condition right now, not as a starting part.
I also don't think being friends was his intention when his first question was 'are you single', lol and I don't have the time or patience to play games by going along and then saying let's be friends.
I just don't understand how he'd think it would be okay as a starting point in trying to talk to a female.
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
Well I would be a hypocrite if I disagreed with you. However he could have won the state lotto and was testing you. LOL
Seriously though, someone who may not be 'worthy' in a relationship may be a good friend, if that is what one wants. Truth though is many of these guys don't care, they see a girl they will go after her regardless
redman30034 2 years ago
"thats like going to the store without money" LITERALLY!!!!
IBVee 2 years ago
You look sooo nice
jordan484 2 years ago
Hi there, thank you! **blush**blush**
So what do you think could be a guy's mindset doing something like this while he is in this type of situation? If you were attracted to a lady and had quit your job would you still approach the lady? Does this mean any semblance of the man should be stable and at minimum have a job before trying to date or is the notion that the ratio of men to women is so high that no matter what the situation an approach is okay?
FabulousSamone 2 years ago
obviously he had a woman while trying to get with u..why on earth would a man with no job have that type of courage..he knew he had nothing to lose..its was like u were a backup plan..and she may be taking care of him..or figured.. oh u look like a nice person to take advantage of..i hate that shit myself..
starrkitty 2 years ago 2