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  • Resorting to hitting means the parent has lost control and needs to back away from the situation. If you're angry enough to hit, you're not being rational.

  • @iTmoneyy Congrats on getting into higher education. What we need to consider here is that you may not be in college and respect people simply because you were spanked. It's very difficult to make that correlation. Research hasnt shown that hitting people makes them respect you more and fosters higher intelligence. In fact, research has proved the opposite. So being that you are in college, read a little bit on issues and lets not take everything are parents engrained in is as truth.

  • Not everyone needs to be spanked. Some kids could use a lecture, some need an ass kicking, but parents seem to confuse who needs what. I'm only 16 and I can notice that, so why can't a parent who is twice my age?

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  • @Supersneed1000100 In fact no one needs it. ;)

  • I WAS WHOOPED AS I CHILD AND NOW I AM IN MY SECOND YEAR OF COLLEGE NEVER DRANK OR SMOKED NO KIDS AND GIVE MY MOTHER THE UP MOST RESPECT AND THAT GOES FOR ANY ADULT, TAKE THAT FOR SUCCESS STORY!!!!!!!

  • My dad only spanked me once in my life. Either I was a miracle kid or my dad is too chill, haha

  • @sebway23 Maybe both ;) Not every kid needs to be spanked or talked to. Some kids you can give a look to and it'll get them TOGETHER

  • @GlamourGirlMejor30 In fact no kids need to be spanked. ;)

  • @NeverDoubt1 ah, the eternal debate. lol My sister rarely got spanked, i on the other hand everything i could do, i did and spanking was a last resort. Discipline and ABUSE are two different things

  • @LaSenoraG I do agree that spanking doesn't automatically equal abuse. There is such a thing as perspective. The problem is once you start down that road it is very easy to lose control of the situation.

  • @sebway23 My dad never hit me. My mom on the other hand did spank me, but honestly it worked. I babysit my nephew and niece and I used different methods of discipline. My niece if you scold her, she will get the message real quick no physical discipline needed. My one nephew had a few spanks and the other required none because he pretty much caught on quick. I guess he was mature for his age. These parents are too lazy to figure out their kids.

  • @Rinsuki It's nice that you perceived that spanking worked for you, who knows the real truth. But lets not make snap judgements that our perceptions apply to the whole population. Lets also not say that there are circumstances where a human is "required" to be hit. That logic is very hard to follow. Spanking has proven to cause damage. If you want to run the risk of harming your neice and nephew, so be it. But do not justify and rationalize your actions with the metaphor of it being required.

  • @Rinsuki I'd question the maturity of the parents who resort to hitting. ;)

  • My sister and I got spanked and I'm grateful for it because it worked for us. We were very respectable children and teenagers despite our mom dying when we were teens. And are now respectable adults. If I had kids I wouldn't hesitate to spank them when needed but there are always first options before that.

  • all parents who spank should watch this. spanking does NOT earn u respect, it earns u FEAR. they do what u say not out of respect but because of fear.

  • @TheUnsolvableProblem This is not spanking. This is abuse. She is just going crazy on her children and they probably don't even know what they did wrong. You need to explain why they are being punished, what they can do differently to avoid it, and what the consequences for this same bad behavior next time. She probably confused the hell out of her kids with the hitting then the affection.

  • " *cries* i know its not right, i know its not what i wanna do"

    stupid fucking bitch!!! if u know its not what u wanna do then who the fuck is controlling ur actions?! fucking lucifer???!!!!

  • I don't understand these parents. Turn the fucking TV off and get out of the house with these kids!!! Put them on a leash if you're afraid they're gonna run away, but get them out of the house and away from the TV!! It's poison for these little minds. They need exercise, they need to get dirty and have fun! She would relax a bit too if she could participate and let some steam off.

  • They scream, kick, hit, cry, throw things...

    Are we talking about the kids, or the parents?

    The parents are acting like kids and dealing with their problems like kids.

  • I was beaten as a child and its something you have to live with forever, these so-called "parents" need to be beaten!

  • I was spanked as a child but as I got older my parents used different methods of punishment that would work for myself and my siblings. I'm talking spankings, time outs, losing privileges, etc. When it comes to discipline, you need to find a method that works best for the child at different ages. It worked for me and I don't blame my parents for going about it that way.

  • I used to want to carry out physical discipline as a punishment for my kids (when I have some) but as I got older I thought about how I was beaten. It never made me want to become magically good, I just felt scared that this person who was supposed to love me would hurt me. So I repealed my old disciplinary tactics.

  • still I don't get why she has got 5 (!) kids when she clearly has trouble being a mom...

  • I must admit she has some annoying kids... But yelling and beating will not make them behave better, only fear her.

  • @poppylv21

    She probably wonders why her children are like this, all the while, forgetting that she's probably abused them from the beginning. As soon as they started talking, I bet you she started beating them to "discipline" them. Deplorable.

  • @annalawlz

    It works? Scientific studies say differently. Cold hard proof says that spanking is an ineffective and emotionally damaging practice. It does not work. In fact, it has been shown to make children misbehave even more. The only reason why you insist upon saying that it works is that you do not want to realise the scope of how deeply your parents have actually wronged you. You do not teach children to behave by physically huring them; you do that by talking to them. Very simple.

  • @friedlish Lol. Different methods for different kids. Talking might not work for all kids, but neither is hitting. The scope of discipline requires care, finesse, patience, tough love sometimes, and wisdom. Many parents lack the ability to understand their kids on a psychological level, but then again they either were too severely discipline or their parents were to relax in boundaries.

  • This show is over three years old;I wonder if these kids are still with their parents,or if they'er even still alive.

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  • She is so gorgeous.

  • That poor woman has some problems. She was evidently abused the same way. She has 5 kids and is overwhelmed and has no support or help. Her kids are not well behaved and are hard to handle. Couple that with mom's inability to cope and handle the stress of all 5 kids and you have a recipe for disaster. Dad needs to step up and help, not go home and criticize her. She needs to seek counseling for possibly depression/anxiety and also take some parenting courses. I feel bad for all involved!

  • @DaffyBlueCarrot lol ikr. He needs a thesaurus.

  • @Mercuryrose86 its not illegal to hit ur kids but sometimes it is seen as abuse by the law and parents go to jail. I DO think it is illegal to spank certain ages in canada but america i dont think so

  • "The kids are getting Schizophrenic." Where the fuck did he get his degree? Time to give it back. Jesus.

  • and I thought being named "Tyrell" was abuse enough...

  • Hitting her kids with her feet? I think that's something called... KICKING?

  • @twizy123 you are wrong! You should go to brat camp

  • @twizy123 well obviously it didn't work. look at how you think children should be taught. and your ignorant for saying the people who were never spanked are the ones against it. really? why would we be against it so seriously if we didn't know what it's like? look how you turned out. like we all said. spanking doesn't work.

  • @twizy123

    You are pathetic! Beating a child is NOT OKAY! with the exception of bare hand across butt, anything else is abuse. and YES I WAS SPANKED AS A CHILD!

  • I really don't like the way he's scolding her like an idiot. She's already half way if she's on National TV asking for help. In any case, to me (and I'm no expert) it sounds like she has a mis-diagnosed bipolar or psychological disorder of some kind. So I dont think her 'simple solution' is exercising better self-control.

  • @mamatude33, Dr. Phil isn't going to sugar coat anything for these people. Their abusing their children and they need to know why it's wrong and why it isn't working and to stop the cycle of abuse. If they keep going down the road their going with their kids, the kids will be taken away and they will grow up with even more emotional problem than what they already have. This is the main problem with society. They think how they were raised it will work with all kids. All kids are different.

  • @puppieeyes223 you're right on the money!

  • "Our kids have no respect for our new home".......FUCKING DUH!!!!!! Hey, here's a question for you, did it ever occur to you that your children show you no respect because you DON'T MODEL RESPECT FOR THEM?!!

  • @landyachtfan79 Exactly. The kids don't respect the home...yet the dad knocks a door down. Go figure.

  • Am I the only one who found it ironic that there was a promo for "Brat Camp" (I still can't believe that kid slapped his mom!) during an episode about whether spanking is okay or not? Just saying... 

  • This woman is the poster child for negative reinforcement.

  • You don't know what Asian parents do. It's scary. It's not for discipline either, it's for stuff like bad test grades and stuff

  • i think a big part of the problem is that she feels out of control. when my mom smacked me it was one controlled swat. plus my mom used spanking as a last resort whereas she uses it all the time

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  • Not every spanking is abusing. Sure it should be last messure ... nevertheless.

  • I believe in NOT abusing your child like. Punching them, Kicking them and Breaking their arms.

    Spanking. In my opinion is not abuse. My parents spanked me, only if I went out of control on them. I see Spanking more as a Bite to put you back in line.

    I mean this DR Phil guy mostly talks about Spanking like it will Break your childs hip.

    I just think it's the force you put in the hit.

  • lmao @8:33

    eye twitch

  • I hate to say it, but people that have been affected by childhood abuse shouldn't have children. Why? because it will continue the chain of abuse. There is a very high chance that her children will grow up to abuse their own children and people around them. There's nothing wrong with a *light* smack on the butt, but what is wrong is using unnecessary excessive force, such as using belt or a rod.

    You can use logic to reason, without hitting.

  • @H0tkebab Your right, but if people reflect on their childhood acknowledge the abuse that took place and then attempt to correct it through making different CHOICES than their parents, the cycle can be broken.

  • @natedaug1

    That's also true, I was abused as a child and I recognize the monster within.

    I wouldn't want any of my children to inherit it. Abuse is often connected with mental illness. Mental illness are hard enough to deal with as they are, yet alone abuse. With intensive therapy I could see victims having families of their own, but without understanding, victims are left standing in the dark without any sense of direction.

  • That woman needs supernanny.

  • lol 8:32

  • Her kids don't deserve it. I deserved it when I was a lil kid. I was a fucking lunatic lol

  • wheres the damn supper nanny when you need her?

  • Dr. Phil makes so many good points in this episode!!

  • Í'm from Sweden, so please can some american on here explain (in some states?) theres no laws saying you CAN'T hit your kids? I have known it is legal for sometime but I just dont understand it...

  • @Mercuryrose86 dont be stupid europeans beat their kids when they are bad. these kids DO DESERVE to be BEAT TO SUBMISSION AS THE GOOD DR PUT IT.

    ALSO LOOK HOW THEY JUSTIFY THE CAMERAS IN THEIR HOUSE....

    THESE KIDS DESERVE TO BEATEN ALL DAY LONG

  • I was spanked, and it did not effect me emotionally or mentally or physically, emotional effect my b*tt. seriously mr. professional peditrician, children have been spanked for years & a good majority has not been effected as long as it's just a harmless spank and not a beating.

  • I was spanked not beating and I turned out fine.

  • Dr Phil is a flake. If my kids misbehave they will without a doubt get a spanking. The pediatrician is just as stupid. The U.S. is full of selfish brats because not enough spankings were given. There is a difference between a "beating" and a "spanking."

  • @nursebabe1 but you probably discipline in a healthy way. and not all children respond well to to spanking. i was spanked in a very healthy way by my parents and one day i misbehaved and my father said "when we get home you're getting a spanking." and somehow on the ride home something in me clicked and i realized, so what if i get spanked? it will hurt for a few minutes and then i can go on my merry way. somehow my dad sensed it and when we got home instead of a spanking, i got grounded. lame!

  • @o0katiekins0o THESE KIDS DESTROYED THEIR NEW HOME THEY DESERVE TO BE BEATEN AND KEPT IN A HOLE OUTSIDE FOR DAYS....ripping siding off the house who the hell does that...these are kids they are the devil....locking them selves in rooms...if i was the father i would have kept them in their if thats what they want....

  • @MrAntiamerica these kids are just exploiting the weakness in their parents relationship. that's how they get away with it. their parents are not united in disciplining them. it's the parents' fault 100%.

  • @MrAntiamerica Well, Mr. Child Abuser, when you hit someone, you're out of line. I think you're the one who should be locked up, made to drink piss from a hole and kept in solitary confinement for the rest of your miserable life.

  • @roguegirl29 I like how you think it's wrong when someone gets abused, even when being a brat, but when someone agrees with abuse they deserve to be abused. I think your a hypocrite retard, I didn't even agree with what mrantiamerica said your just stupid. I see people do that all the time lowering themselfs to the same level as the people they're commenting to.

  • @nursebabe1 You may as well be hitting your child because when you hit someone, you're angry with them. You hit an adult because you're angry with them. You hit a child because you're angry with them. A child is just going to learn to not do whatever pissed you off in front of you. There are other ways to go about it. Hitting a child won't truly solve anything in the long run.

  • @nursebabe1 By the way, children have temper tantrums. I went through them and I'm sure plenty of others have to. I was whipped with a belt and, to be honest, it hurt and it didn't help. What that said to me was "don't do this while I'm here," not "don't do this ever." If you spank your child on a day-to-day basis, then there's something wrong there.

  • not saying that abusing them is ok, but i dont see how else u could disipline ur child. i mean if u taught them from the start ya know? that im am ur supierior and u will respect me and still with that then i guess it would work, but idk i just dont see it

  • @JinSildream I was only spanked 2 times in my entire life and I was well disciplined and turned out fine (same as my siblings). There's other ways for sure.

  • i understand what she ment by "it worked for us" she means she learned her lesson when she got spanked, thats the point of spanking. I think there is no problem with it. but her kids are horrible. she really needs to call nanny 911 or something. if it were my kids they wouldnt be actin like that, screaming cuz they dont get what they want? oh hell no! get in time out would be the first step, if that doesnt work then yelling at them, if that doesnt work then spanking time

  • There's a difference between spanking and beating...I was spanked and I'm fine. Sheesh. Some people just need a reason to 'need therapy.'

  • By the sounds of things these parents are breaking more things then the kids are.

  • she probally plays "runescape" l0l~!!

  • I wonder how many hours a day she spends on the computer? Two of those videos showed her getting up from the computer to yell at the kids. I wonder if the kids are tired of being abandoned to a computer?

  • @DKMontoya4670 she works on the computer. She doesn't leave the house to go to work she does it at home on the compuer

  • im 15 i havent been beat..i respect my parents and i dont do shit like drink or drugs, you dont need to be beat to show respect...

  • I know what these kids are going through and I can honestly say that I ... hate.. my parents now. I don't talk to either of them, and now all they can say to me is how sorry they are. It's bullshit.

  • please don't hate them...I was not spanked, I was beat, but I don't hate my mother...my father just stood by and let it happened. Forgive them, they may have been wrong, but at least they are owning up. Hating them is wrong too.

  • The reason these kids don't have respect is because none is being shown to them, or each other.

  • I don't condone what she is doing, but coming on national t.v., admitting and asking for help took some balls.

  • @rainbowspite222 Totally.

  • Dr. Phil says spanking is Child Abuse therefore it must be so...

  • Spanking is never OK if you use an object other than your own hand, and if it's done after age 5. And no punishment is OK if it's done in anger.

  • @stacidify Much of it IS done in anger, okay?

  • dr phil is wrong

  • @jarrodholmes14 How is Dr. Phil wrong? Could you explain that to me please?

  • healingmagic

  • "damage to the testicles"

  • @V4n3554xvx , wooohooo ok I know some people wo need abuse LOL...

  • @hillena haha I just thought that was random as hell wtf testicles? O__o

  • 0:28 random dog.

    not hers?

  • I have no respect for people who use physical violence (spanking etc...) towards kids. Trying to teach them not to be violent and do bad things by using violence. There is a difference between respect and fear.

  • @Bollemedrosiner I so do agree with you. Violence has absolutely no effect with kids. They don't understand it, they just get used to it. Or they become afraid of their parents. It just doesn't work, people can say what they want. I experienced it whit my mom's boyfriend and I remember peeing by pants of fright. But the message definitely did not pass. My mom never touched me once, and I've never disrespected her, because she was the best, loving mom in the world.

  • lol spanking leads to spine problems get the fuck out of here, that stool that dr. phil is sitting on causes more spinal damage then dr. dipshits words

  • omg the girl is such a little brat

  • Rehab @ 15 and she says it worked for her, bitch is in serious fucking denial

  • @lovedre It true what your saying. But both parties are to blame.

  • Her friend lets her watch her baby??? Does she know this woman wants to throw her own children down the stairs? That woman doesn't need to be near a child, even her own! Bitch!

  • They should read a book about how to raise a dog. It's the same thing. You lay down the rules, and the rules are never broken without consequenses. You just have to be congruent ALL the time. If not you'll loose respect, and they start testing the limits again.

  • You'll "loose" respect, huh? What is this verb "loose?" Is it anything like "lose," dumb-ass? I'm sure if you have kids they respect your linguistics and habit of treating them like dogs. Fucking moron.

  • "Lose" not "loose", my mistake, I guess I need to spell it out for you. I'm not saying you should treat them like dogs (mr. dog abuser.). Just that boundaries and respect works the same on that level too. But ofc you need some social skills to apply it, you would only learn about boundaries at a fundamental level, that was my only point. Children will not disobey you if they have enough respect for you. But you must be worthy of that. I don't think swearing helps.

  • I really dont care about the argument. Give the person a break. They accidentally put one extra o in lose. WOW

  • @nicoleb

    Picking on a typo? What a lovely life you must have. Shame your parents didn't bring you up properly, then we wouldn't have to put up with your shit now.

  • spanking is not wrong, it just depends how you do it

  • I am sick of people, who reminds a lot about racism in every fucking comment.

  • im sick of em too

  • Honestly, what does it have to do with Dr Phil!?

  • @kaylatinkxxx why would someone have something racist to say on this?

  • stupid bitch sits there looking all sad and baby faced when its her poor children that are suffering its normal for kids to throw tantrums and they are obviously reflecting their parents rage in their own tantrums shes bullshitting when shes saying that she has no control-you put a camera in her house and all of a sudden everythings cool she doesnt need help she needs to be bitch slapped herself

  • That red-haired lady is a BAD MOTHER and SHE needs a spanking! BAD MOTHER, GO TO MY ROOM!

  • You heard it out of the mouth of a pediatrician. Stop hitting your kids, people. There are better ways to discipline your kids - like taking away privileges.

  • I think corporal punishment works in most cases if done right. It is obvious these parents don't know how to utilize it properly. When i was young, i was hit with a belt, hangar, u name it and it did work. However my relationship with my parents wasn't all the great later but now it is getting better. There's 2 sides to it in my opinion, 2 much can have ur kids be very rebellious later on and 2 little will have them doing whatever they want.

  • I was the kind of kid that i seen only right and wrong , i didnt beleive in any grey area, no neccessary evils. it was either all right or all wrong, i decided it was all wrong and violence in any form deserved no respect. I didnt care how it was done. so my parents lost huge amounts of respect by me by doing it at all in any way.

  • I can only imagine your definition of "success" is the same as the abusive mother's definition, which Dr. Phil just pointed out. ... "my parents beat me and I turned out great... sure I beat my own kids, was in rehab at 15, and all my siblings are alcoholics... but I turned out "great" as a result of being beat." You need to seek therapy asap. No I am not kidding; I am a psychotherapist and I take this subject extremely seriously.

  • growing up I was also spanked,but my parents only do it until im 7.thats when they stop.

  • that presenter knows nothing about raising children...

    we should hit children properly (hard sometimes and little sometimes)

    in my country parents hits us sometimes hard sometimes just talk to us )now we became good we love our parents soooo much and we give our lives for them honestly.

    we don't have these cases in my country.

    every one appreciate their parents here.

    so peacful live and full of appreciation

  • you should give your lives for them they are your kids you dont wanna do that then dont have them simple as that.

  • there are 20 countries that have totally outlawed spankings in the home as well as school and they all have smaller crime rates then the usa.

  • spare da rod spoil da child i think she should smank da children but not so much dat it makes them brused up

  • she looks like she's in so much pain...

  • You suppose to beat the kids when they real little.

    So when they get older they know what's up.

    Put the fear of god in they little bad asses

  • If you use physical violence when you bring up children you are telling them that violence is ok. That's not what I would like to teach my children.

  • waqt she doing isnt discipline but abuse..

  • The whole of America is stupid? Yet here you are using youtube, a website made by two American's.

    Go and sort your ignorant life out. You're fucking stupid, should I judge your entire country on your intelligence?

    Just for the record, I'm actually British not American.

    If you want to insult people in their own language, then yes you do have to learn it, otherwise you make yourself look like a complete retard.

    Good day.

  • Youtube was made by two Australians, you idiot. Get your facts straight before you try to "PWN" someone like that.

  • Lol, the fact you replied to a comment posted a month ago and your page is full of anime, tells me you're a fat, weird, ugly little girl.

    So get the fuck off the internet, breathe some freh air and let a boy stick his fingers up your fat, saggy, ugly, dry bucket vagina.

    If you do the above I promise you'll have less time to surf the web and masturbate to cartoons.

    You should read this, look in the mirror, hate yourself even more and then hopefully do the world a favour ;).

  • Wow. That was one angry comment. I suppose mentioning that I go to school full-time and have a full-time job wouldn't do anything to shut you up? So I like anime; so what? I don't understand how having an interest in something means that I have no life or have never had a boyfriend. You tried to prove a point by saying that Youtube was made by two Americans, which is dead-wrong. Check your facts before you start saying things like that. ...You REALLY don't like being told you're wrong, do you?

  • Sorry, wrong. Youtube was created by three guys in their 20s right here in Silicon Valley in California in 2005. That is AMERICA if you didn't know. Do some research. The creators are: Steve Chen, Chad Hurley and Jawed Karim.

  • I actually saw a report on Australian television about Youtube, and the person on TV stated that it was created by two Australian people. This is wrong, and while I admit that I should have done research into the matter (and not believed the media), I'm still glad I don't live in America, since you fuck-tards have had six gun-related massacres V

  • ^ (as in, LOTS of people being killed, not just one) in the last month due to your screwed up love for guns that allows you to just walk into a gas station and buy a deadly weapon with little to no information. Not to mention the immigrant problems, the hideous minimum wages, the overpaid executives and celebrities, and electric chairs. Yeah. That's a great country right there, isn't it, jack-ass?

  • Ummm we were discussing who created Youtube and I corrected you. I have no idea why you are on a hateful tirade instead of being thankful to get the correct information so you don't continue looking like a fool talking about Australia.

  • Ooooh. For a person who comes from a country that preaches Freedom of Speech so strongly, you sure don't take kindly to having someone say they don't like your country. Your country isn't the greatest in the world (as your media and government is always saying). It's an immigrant-infested, corrupt wreck with a screwed-up "justice" system, and where hardworking Americans get nothing for their labor while unemployed lazy fucks on Welfare and CEO's of companies do nothing and live fine.

  • but youtube was still created by three guys from Silicon Valley :P

  • What he was saying was that your hateful tirade was uncalled for. I'm sick of American hate on Youtube that seemingly comes from nowhere.

  • Where does it come from? Perhaps it comes from the fact that there are, like, five mass-shootings in America per month thanks to your fucked up "bearing arms" rights. Or maybe it's the pathetically low minimum wage, and the fact that the middle-class are constantly being fucked up the ass by your corrupt and selfish government, which it doesn't deserve even though most of them don't seem to realize WHY there are five massacres a month. Where do you think all the hate comes from?

  • you cant buy guns in gas stations you moron.

  • Well thanks for that absolutely vital piece of information there, dipshit. People like you really seem to be beyond help. When you were younger, did someone in the street shoot you with his gun -- which he had a "right" to carry and use, endangering the lives of other citizens, because of the "wonderful" gun-laws of America -- and lodge a bullet in your brain, ruining your ability to understand SARCASM?

  • yes actually.

  • We're all human (:

  • Yes. Kids too, right?

  • who da fuck u talkin bout.......uh not us baby u must dont no britain aint got nothin on us jux da let u no u must be fucked up if u think we goin jux let u talk bout us ...... uh no

  • What the fuck does any of that mean you stupid bitch?

    Learn to type in English and I might be able to understand what you're moaning about. Get a fucking education you pathetic little cunt.

    If you want to reply, then reply in actual English.

  • who da fuck iz u calli a bitch dumb ass u must be white anyway i gotta stop puting these big words cuz i see u cant read it ur ass need to get a fuckin education for i make ur dumb ass fuck u bitch now u no i dont play wit children

  • Are you fucking serious? I need to get an education? You're a 15 year old who can't spell or punctuate.

    Don't tell me to get an education you stupid fuck, I'm a 1st class graduate in English and Law, but I suppose you don't even know what that is right?

    If you want to reply to me then learn how to speak English, you're American and you can't even type in your own fucking language.

    I should beat your mother to death for having such a stupid little cunt.

  • haha you tell her.

  • Oh please, this whole thing is stupid. Her problem with her kids is that she's inconsistent with them and the father doesn't deliver discipline at all. If your kid does something wrong, there's no freaking problem with popping them on the butt. It will get to the point where you don't even have to pop them at all, they jump up and do what they're told automatically. The answer is in the delivery. If you say you're going to pop them, you've got to do it and you've got to do it every single time.

  • My great grandma told to me to get a switch to spank me, so I ran outside to get one and never came back! Shoot--what kid wants a spanking? By the by, I was only spanked twice in my life.

  • She is an abusive parent, but you have to applaude her for seeking help.

  • I had a old school (90's) life growing up(19 now),I came from a time when big mama sang her ol negro spirituals, told us to behave once or twice, we aint listen (hard headed maybe) she reached out that hand, fly swatter or whatever, and we shut the hell up and got right! I APRRECIATE that and most 2000 babies would too if it was still in! yes some people take it to far i admit. just cause it didnt work for sum, doesnt mean it won't work at all! :P

    thx 4 uploadng this vid :D

  • the only reason those kids are so "bad" is because that's the only way they know how to get attention.

  • its just that american people are fucking stupid that they cant solve there little problems -_-