Omg you are just like me, lol. I just started getting into the nesting phase a week ago (I'm 36 wks now) and I know I just do way too much work, everyone tells me to slow down and don't do nothing heavy, but I can't help it, I just have the urge that everything needs to be done now.
and don't stress about the baby father situation continue doing what you doing because you going to be the best mother for your child and he going to be loved regardless.plus that was wrong for the mother to call you that is between you and your baby father.good luck with everything I hope the best for you!!!
But when I move I plan on not telling the father bcuz I feel me and my baby would be happier. Even tho the responsibility would be all on me and not him I would take care if the baby myself because I dont like people who stress me out
I mean I do see what u are saying that u want ur son to have a relationship with your son and for them to bond but at the same time if he sees you and his dad argueing and stuff its not healthy.. that's how I feel in my situation. Me and him made plans before when we were on good terms then all of a sudden he changed and did things his way and thats where arguements came in bcuz his decisions didn't make sense. Now we bumping heads.. I dont want my son to see that
Exactly he needs to make the choice you can't force him that's time waist ed you have an excellent attitude about all of that, we can already tell you will be a OUTSTANDING mommy!!!
Me and u have different views tho bcuz I dont want my baby daddy to see his son but u want ur bd to see his son. I feel if the daddy argues with the mom while she is carrying his baby he diesel have respect for the mom or baby. Why would u upset the mom to be who's carrying ur baby? That's not someone who Cares about the baby or if u miscarriage god forbid. So when the baby comes he shouldn't be in the baby life.. especially if he isn't financially supporting the baby. My bd does a half ass job
@iluvmee26 girl I honestly feel the exact same way thats why I'm not gonna make effort in the relationship anymore but if he wants to see him he needs to be contributing .. I don't want him to be invloved since he not doing anything and his family deff will not be allowed in my sons life.. then again I want my son to have a relationship with his dad or a father figure at that weather its his dad or not.. I'm still hoping he will help out but if not then he won't be able to see him
Try not to think about the stress about the bd because whenever u are stressed out it puts stress on the baby. Im still think about how my bd is wrong about certain things he did or said but I try not to think about him because to me he doesn't matter. I just care about being a good mom to my baby and taking care of him. It is hard tho but I have my plans for my baby father so im not too worried
any day now!!! Goodluck girly!
jillbiggs 3 months ago
@jillbiggs thank u :) !
Babyfullable 3 months ago
Omg you are just like me, lol. I just started getting into the nesting phase a week ago (I'm 36 wks now) and I know I just do way too much work, everyone tells me to slow down and don't do nothing heavy, but I can't help it, I just have the urge that everything needs to be done now.
ellenshep90 3 months ago
aww so exciting are you nervous? and dont stress enjoy the weeks you got left you are gonna be a great mom hun <3
The290ss 3 months ago
and don't stress about the baby father situation continue doing what you doing because you going to be the best mother for your child and he going to be loved regardless.plus that was wrong for the mother to call you that is between you and your baby father.good luck with everything I hope the best for you!!!
LooksCanBDecev3 3 months ago
@LooksCanBDecev3 thank u (:
Babyfullable 3 months ago
I cannot believe you have two weeks left.omg so excited for you hun =]
LooksCanBDecev3 3 months ago
Your almost there! Only 2 more weeks :) Good luck :)
SuperPrincesa1988 3 months ago
But when I move I plan on not telling the father bcuz I feel me and my baby would be happier. Even tho the responsibility would be all on me and not him I would take care if the baby myself because I dont like people who stress me out
iluvmee26 3 months ago
@iluvmee26 yea sometimes it truely is best to just have no contact!
Babyfullable 3 months ago
I mean I do see what u are saying that u want ur son to have a relationship with your son and for them to bond but at the same time if he sees you and his dad argueing and stuff its not healthy.. that's how I feel in my situation. Me and him made plans before when we were on good terms then all of a sudden he changed and did things his way and thats where arguements came in bcuz his decisions didn't make sense. Now we bumping heads.. I dont want my son to see that
iluvmee26 3 months ago
OMG, how cute are you?! I'm so excited for you.
ErinandBaby 3 months ago
Exactly he needs to make the choice you can't force him that's time waist ed you have an excellent attitude about all of that, we can already tell you will be a OUTSTANDING mommy!!!
MizzBeetv 3 months ago
@MizzBeetv thank u so much
Babyfullable 3 months ago
Me and u have different views tho bcuz I dont want my baby daddy to see his son but u want ur bd to see his son. I feel if the daddy argues with the mom while she is carrying his baby he diesel have respect for the mom or baby. Why would u upset the mom to be who's carrying ur baby? That's not someone who Cares about the baby or if u miscarriage god forbid. So when the baby comes he shouldn't be in the baby life.. especially if he isn't financially supporting the baby. My bd does a half ass job
iluvmee26 3 months ago
@iluvmee26 girl I honestly feel the exact same way thats why I'm not gonna make effort in the relationship anymore but if he wants to see him he needs to be contributing .. I don't want him to be invloved since he not doing anything and his family deff will not be allowed in my sons life.. then again I want my son to have a relationship with his dad or a father figure at that weather its his dad or not.. I'm still hoping he will help out but if not then he won't be able to see him
Babyfullable 3 months ago
your almost there =) and sorry about the stress you are going threw .
Ayden1142012 3 months ago
Im planning to take my bd for child support too after my baby is born also..
iluvmee26 3 months ago
Im sorry about all the drama, im sure things will get better(: where in the U.S does the baby's father live? btw, you'll be a great mom!
Songtress13 3 months ago
@Songtress13 Atlanta & thank u (:
Babyfullable 3 months ago
Try not to think about the stress about the bd because whenever u are stressed out it puts stress on the baby. Im still think about how my bd is wrong about certain things he did or said but I try not to think about him because to me he doesn't matter. I just care about being a good mom to my baby and taking care of him. It is hard tho but I have my plans for my baby father so im not too worried
iluvmee26 3 months ago
wow sorry about all that drama.. but i cant believe baby boy is almost here! how exciting! =)
smartwater10 3 months ago