Is It OK For My Guy To Watch Porn?

[dinnerandashow]

Porn.

Its OK and highly recommended.

[MariaCGMF25]

I am like a lot of women and very few women REALLY are happy with the fact that their man looks at porn when they are with them. I think women deserve better. All that behavior says to the girl is, "I know I say that I am into you, but you are just not enough for me. You are not hot enough for me to be happy with all the time. I need to fantasize about women that I will never meet. Rather than make love to you." PULEEZE! Don't stand for it, ladies. You deserve better.

[nechikens]

I ♥ porn.

[babylana70]

I don't care if my boyfriend watches porn. Just as long as he doesn't compare those girls to me

[xxashton92xx]

*sigh of relief*

[wantacuppa12]

I cant feel anything when i see people fucking each other. SHE's the one getting fucked. Not me. I just dont see the point!

[batbomb9]

it's cheating. looking at another woman/man who isn't your wife/gf or husband/bf is cheating. who do u imagine having sex with when you Jack off, your wife or the naked lady on your screen

[rottencakefrosting]

@batbomb9 OMG, i wish more men were like you.

[batbomb9]

@rottencakefrosting thank you lol it would be weird if i watched porn with my gf. she doesn't tolerate it so i don't do it

[funkypunk2115]

hmmm, i guess this is a difficult issue for some couples. I'm ok with my man watching porn, mostly because he knows i watch it too, and occiasionally we'll watch it together in the bedroom. We're comfortable with it, we learn new positions and, i'd say it inspires us to try more things. That's not to say we don't figure things out on our own, that's the best part is exploring new things with your partner but i think watching porn can open your mind a bit.

[mzcyberbat]

boobs are great!

and babe that's fine

as long as the only ones you touch

are mine!

If all girls had this attitude then men wouldn't have to hide it. I didn't just tolerate my mans porn collection, I ENCOURAGED IT! *LOL

BTW. I prefer erotic artwork as opposed to real people but thats just my preference.

[rottencakefrosting]

@mzcyberbat I wish i could be like you. but for me its always the thought that counts and so my guy watching porn is equivilent to him actually going out and sleeping around. It just hurts no matter what i try to tell myself.

[iloveyouhebe]

so anyone know any japanese or chinese asian porn sites =D tell me pls...

[xxashton92xx]

lol grear vid

[weitzfc]

most women need to keep their cakeholes shut and don't worry about it. if porn revs him enough to want to punch you in the pants , what are you bitching about ? honestly, from a males point of view, women tend to take less care of themselves as time goes by. take a trowl and pry that wedge of cake from your mouth, get off the couch , and work some of that fat off your. cheating ? what the the hell kind of weird dream world do you live in?

[weitzfc]

it's none of your damned business. your not his boss and he doesn't answer to you.

[mzcyberbat]

@weitzfc It truly amazes me how many men let their women boss them around and visa versa. For god's sake you are not children! Do what you like and if you don't like it? Suck it!

[rottencakefrosting]

@weitzfc but if thats what he wants, why not leave the good girls to the good guys and he be with the women like that? if a man is into slutty women, why not just get with that instead of a woman who actually wants a relationship?

[radrussian100]

dirty videos support females and males who can't do anything in life other then...well what we were designed to do. and get payed for it. This is the 21st century we are more liberal then in the past, but when it comes to self control we need to be conservative and preserve our moral values. Everyone can have different opinions in morals, i've made mine though. Videos that support unproductive sex for money it not positive for society in a whole.

[funkypunk2115]

@radrussian100 how many celebrities sell their scandalous lives (not talent) for fame and money? Politicions who make empty promises are unproductive for society!

Let's stop the " we need to be conserative!" and let's start accepting society. The porn industry provides images of sex, for the entertainment of millions of people, men and female, enabling sexual release and to even help spice up peoples relationships. The actors are not hopeless, they could be also writers, artists, parents..

[sugarshula64]

The answer is NOOO. Watching porn is cheating. Besides, if you have to watch it, you aren't getting any.

[playandlove09]

Porn is cheating. I hate what pigs so many men seem to be. I can't believe all of these bullshit justifications. You could just as easily use them to justify physical cheating. I'm not supposed to be offended by the man who has professed his love for me and only me masturbating to images and videos of other women while I masturbate thinking of only him?

[mzcyberbat]

@playandlove09 why? there are plenty of sexy men around for you to schlick to!

[rottencakefrosting]

@playandlove09 Thats how i feel. its the thought that counts, right?

[Allicat12XD]

Almost all of these videos will probably drive your future lovers away....stop watching before you start to believe this crap. What you really need to do is talk to the person your dating(when you believe its a comfortable topic) about how they feel about porn. If she or he is ok with it try to watch it together instead of just by yourself. If you do it by yourself and she or he finds out, they'll probably feel hurt or unimportant which will cause a major strain on your relationship.

[donkybum14]

why do u watch these videos ? you just bitch like you havnt had sex in years lol

[Finalkfka]

Lol I agree with him. xD

[Finalkfka]

Porn has kept ALOT of guys from CHEATING.

[purlbeauty]

because it is cheating u jackass

[elizabethjinedalpe]

wow

[theyummysockz]

WTF

[the12thfactor]

women piss me off. They hate it when we watch porn when they are gone, yet when they are at home, and we ask for sex, they say no.

BITCH!

[davidgzmn12345]

To all girls complaining about we guys watching porn, lets make a deal, you have sex with us all and everytime we feel like it and we wont watch any more porn. deal?

Watching porn is no more than a way to blow of sexual desire when a girlfriend is not available , or what? would you rather have us going after sex every time we see you?

[purlbeauty]

u freak

[HereIamWhatNow]

this vid is bullcrap! porn is like poison; it will eventually kill the relationship; and don't give me crap like "it's perfectly normal for guys to want porn, thus it's ok." Guys may want porn, but that doesn't make it right. Don't buy into this ladies! If your husband or boyfriend tries to convince you porn is ok, he's dead wrong! (btw, I'm a guy)

[diej0o]

You have nothing to back that up, seeing as you are 19 you are obviously not an expert on the matter. Don't let your personal ignorance be your downfall. If you don't say too much then people won't notice how redundant and shallow you are.

It is normal, do you know why? Because we suppress our urges if we don't watch porn, thus leading to us getting horny. When men get horny they run the risk of being reckless.

[HereIamWhatNow]

Ah, so what you're saying is that you simply do not have much self-control. You can't control your "urges." (Don't get me wrong, the "urges" you speak of aren't bad. The problem is your solution to the "urges," i.e. - porn.)

[diej0o]

I'm saying that people deal with their urges in different ways. My ways of dealing with my urges may be different for me than others. The point I am trying to make is that if everyone were to suppress their urges then we run the risk of people losing it completely which may result in drama.

[diej0o]

It is obvious that we won't get anywhere with arguing so let's just respect each others views and move on. I apologize for being rash in my first post and I hope that I didn't offend you in any way.

Have a nice day. :D

[HereIamWhatNow]

No problem. Thanks for apologizing, but rest assurred that you did not offend me in anyway (believe me, I've had worse comments to deal with, lol). I will respect your view, however, if you would ever like to discuss your personal beliefs (i.e. - worldview), feel free to send me a message. I enjoy learning about the way others view the world. Have a nice day too. :)

[LoveStoriesDontExist]

I second that.

it's normal, and if guys (and even girls) don't watch porn, they might fulfill their urges in other ways, which could lead to pregnancy.

I'd rather have my boyfriend watch porn than be on me like a horny dog and trying to have sex.

[Ainiwafflez]

you are a fag

[HereIamWhatNow]

Haha. If so, then I'm the only fag that finds women to be the most attractive creatures that ever existed. Hopefully one day I'll end up marrying one of them (a female, that is...a hot, gorgeous babe at that!)

[stf5]

wow thnxz 4 the advice

xD

[beetlejenee]

@HereIamWhatNow I LOVE THIS QUOTE!! :)

[sana0hk]

haha!

[rok30]

can tell your reading cue cards

[maumott1]

lmfao!!!

[ompuh]

men think about sex every 60?!

[JohnnyKennedy93]

uh huh. Something like that

[jCkD4Ni3L]

We're responsible for the procreation of the human race... Imagine if it was up to woman ? The man has the sex drive... womens.. well they need to have all sort of conditions met for this work.

[dyld921]

Not really. It's just a myth. If that really is true they'd have nothing else to think about.

[sotempit]

The son of John Malkovich and Ben Affleck and possibly Ryan Reynolds?

[mosephi]

porn is delussional, aggessive, non -reality based fiction. its a trick and women should think twice about this. your sexualy finding pleasure outside of your commited relationship. its not healthy and its not real. its a trick and people should know that sex in reality is far more better and real and just makes sense. porn is a long dark road that men should avoid.

[ryo7200]

shut the fuck up fatty.

[JazzyGeoff]

I prefer it as demeaning as possible to be honest. Ass to mouth is best. Hope this helps.

[jsbud333]

who farted?

[Middy187]

Yes. Next question.

[studentofsmith]

Porn is a masturbatory aid, just like a vibrator. If my girlfriend (if I had a girlfriend) used porn or a vibrator or whatever to get herself off when I'm not available that's just fine. (It shows she's got a healthy sex drive.)

If she were "taking matters into her own hands" even when I'm ready and willing, however, I'd probably feel a little put out.

[gbjew]

I'm ok with my guy watching porn and masturbating. I've even sent horny videos to my boyfriend.

[luvtjones]

I think women tend to be delusional when it comes to men and their sexual needs. I know my BF watches porn, and I don't mind it. The first time we watched it together it was weird for him (he thinks of me as a sweet, nice girl) but I made him feel comfortable and let him know I was fine with it. But, we are in a long-distance relationship so I'd rather he watch porn & jack off when I'm not around than screw around with someone else. & I know he'll be ready for me when I see him on the weekends!

[screamosk8rkid]

maybe they can both enjoy it!

[fogofwar3]

If you need to jack it to porn once a day it's time for a better girlfriend!!!

[KathranisProductions]

well it depends if the girl doesnt want sex, ofcourse the guy would masturbate...

but if the girl and the guy had sex, but the girl right now is not in the mood...

its okay to masturbate... and I think girls should understand that men must release their "white blood" or cum once in a while...

[11visionary11]

As long as it's with me! I think if you both are into it and maybe take turns choosing the porn, it can be great. But if only 1 of you is watching porn, excluding their partner, it's wrong....it can make your parnter feel alone and hurt. Yes men think about porn abit differently, but men also have to remember that their woman can get hurt and emotional and try to understand them.

[iamchosen1]

Well, that's kinda stupid, tbh. I mean, sure, when it becomes excessive, that's a problem. But we guys don't know the women, we don't have emotional connections with them, and we aren't even physically meeting! So, what exactly is the problem? If one of you is gone and/or unavailable, why should the other not be free to explore that route?

[11visionary11]

Stupid? not if you want to be in a long term relationship,lol. Men and woman dont usually look at porn the same way. If your gilr is gone for a week, you have to watch other woman to get off? And you think yoru girl should be fine with this? Porn in a relationship IS emotional..between YOU and your girl...if you dont get that?... your girl wont last long.

lol Than youd probebly complain how bitchy your girlfriend was and how she didnt get you and wanted you to change...blah blah...

[11visionary11]

When your in a relationship, its not just about YOU. Many girls like porn, they jsut want to watch it WITH you.... it is a wonder if your in a relationship with a pretty girl you like...but have to watch other girls to get off if shes gone for a night. It could be taken as an insult. Talk to your girl about it and ask if shes ok with it. Some are, but if she's not, fantasize about your girl for a while instead of strangers.

[LuminaLuna]

I'm having kind of the same problem, except I'm the one watching porn and he's the one who wasn't. Girls, don't mind it if you man watches porn unless it gets 24/7, because that's simply creepy. Imagine yourself in your boyfriend's place and you'd understand how he feels. It's rather addicting, so it's a bit complicated.

[modelchic99]

Porn is really disgusting. I was watching a DVD my brother had and it was just so gross. I don't see how men become addicted to that filth.

[ainjeldahst]

you relly wana know why?

[amojorge123]

lmao..wow

[Bubbles1779]

losers and sick bastards watch porn

[jakeo96]

FUCK PORN .. GIRLS ID RATHER U DO OUR FANTASIES THAN A DMAN COMPUTER

ITS FUCKIN SAD THAT U  CANT fill us with th eamount of pussy neeeded that we need to turn to a computer

u are a disgrace to the human race ladies

.... fuck feminists

[irkman123]

i love porn

[princesskemo]

ladies if you are feeling that him watching porn is starting to bother you start watching man on man im sure his habits will decrees if not go away XD

[yourjaneinlights]

GREAT idea! Unless he's bi.  But still, GREAT idea!

[minou182]

haha he got really crazy at the end !!

[500019579]

It ruins relationships. And that's all I'll say about that without having some porn douche wanting to flame the hell out of this comment.

[zeffie]

No, it's not ok. Proverbs chapter 4, looking at porn is placing something in front of you that isn't healthy or without sin. :S

[courtneyliu]

porn is not so bad if you don't overdo it... in fact, porn is a great way for couples to learn new techniques in bed... afterall, where are you going to learn new tricks? your brother/sister? friends? a book? i don't think so...

girls, watch porn with your boyfriends... that way you'll learn what styles he likes and he'll know what your fantasies are...

[pintobeans77]

Sorry, that is ridiculous advice. I refuse to learn from porn stars (nasty role models) and act trashy fulfilling so called "fantasies." And no there is NO such thing as classy porn.

As for learning new tricks...you can always learn with each other...it's the best way. Talk about no imagination!

[demospet]

@pintobeans77Suicide girls is classy, acctually. And fantasy is like beauty, it's in the eyes of the beholder. Not everyone likes missionarry in the dark with a nightgown on. Porn can provide ideas for foreplay or help one discover new sexual interests. Its not that bad.

[yourjaneinlights]

You CAN infact learn new tricks from books and friends (and a sibling, if you're quite open with them) and simply TALKING to each other will go a long way if you want to find out their fantasies! Watch porn with your boyfriend and you're likely to get jealous--and no wonder! It's another girl! She may not be physically in the room, but it's still cheating. And like someone else said earlier, who wants a trashy porn star teaching them when they could experiment and figure it out on their own?

[stachelbeere91]

i think so too!. when my boyfriend can have sex with me, why does he have to watch a porn? in a porn he can't have real sex, he's just watching it, so i think, when a man has a girlfriend, he should have sex with her, before he even thinks about watching a porn.yes so i think it's cheating too

[MTwords]

lol.. once a day is normal? Do i get bonus marks if i look twice a day sometimes?

[murphys1aw]

my friends record is 14 haha

[portugal82]

Justme252009 why is it not ok? i think a little of everything is just fine, but overdoing it show's you have a problem.

[northernsplash]

i wouldn't care at all if my bf /husband watched porn...who cares

[justme252009]

is it ok? hmm let me think about that.. NO.

[AnimalDeStuff]

well I suppose if you're screwing him twice a day then he should have no reliance on porn. (Or however many times he jacks off per day) Everyone does it, and it's very normal. So I don't see why it isn't okay, maybe you would like to enlighten me?

[loserluigi]

LOL "you should be lucky he still even has hands"