My divorced friends in the US always tell me never to get married. Of course they marry the wrong woman and these woman end up making them their bitch and taking half their money.
Maigono2010 I haven't forgot about anything. It's hood out here. I have mentioned that plenty of times. I try to stay as positive as I can. The situations vary. Be a responsible man is the best strategy.
you forgot something.. the parents of the wife..they are old and have lots of free time to visit you and cause problems. they talk so much shyt even if you know all the sick shyt about them.
As a black woman who has lived in Japan, I found it much harder to date a Japanese man let alone marry one. There seemed to be a stigma attached to it. And I am speaking for all of my gaijin friends. There were a few, but mostly it was gaijin men and Japanese women. My take is that the JApanese men have traditional views on marriage and home that the women don't hold. So they look to foreigners.
"determining factor" is what you were looking for. I really value your opinion and I wonder if your advice holds up for gaijin women with Japanese men as well? I believe someone asked the same thing earlier.
@lustypiratebellamy Thanks! For the women their problems are different. Thus is from what I heard. It's mostly sexual satisfaction and boredom. If women marry a rich or business minded J-man they should have a good life. They will need to search for sexual satusfaction and other forms of excitement. I recommend mastering Japanese and Chinese, ride to the level a mature business person. If you do this your lives will far excell foreign men's lives.
@MsEnigmabkThanks! For the women their problems are different. Thus is from what I heard. It's mostly sexual satisfaction and boredom. If women marry a rich or business minded J-man they should have a good life. They will need to search for sexual satusfaction and other forms of excitement. I recommend mastering Japanese and Chinese, ride to the level a mature business person. If you do this your lives will far excell foreign men's lives.
@Cinnamonpoptarts Actually, you are so on point and that point is where reality hits. I will make a video. I married at 21. During that time Black love or love for your pen women was strong. I meat my Japanese wife in Hawaii. I was 30. She was 42, but looked 28. Back then hip hop wasn't so big world-wide, I don't think. You are way off target on that point. I have a child older that you. Ask your parents about the days before they meet and your were born. Things were better.
@cinnamonpoptarts my 1st left me for a Bro that she line since high school (Venice Hi). She was white. This was about 20 yrs ago. The second, Japanese - at 47 and super fine, left me for a Sri Lankan guy. There is history behind that. There were more important things that concerned me.
a lot of guys go to japan cause they are under the impression that japanese girls are shy & timid , man you just blew that myth out the water right there . i myself heard the exact opposite &they can play that role to get guys ...whats that saying "a intelligent man can play the part of a fool , but a fool cant play the part of an intelligent man" ....keep the videos coming bro you're teaching a lot .
i believe that the fact that GS350JPN has been divorced 2 times makes him the perfect canidate to talk about this because it shows that he has learned from his mistakes and seen what endeavors one will go through in this situation. Good series i just wonder if gaijin women will face the same thing or if its harder?
@madpat2007 Two times. Are your parents happily married. My first two wives fell in love with other men. They wanted a divorce to pursue their love. Why would I stop them? I was cool about it. The advice I gave is simple. I never married for love and never will. The advice I gave is why I married. They had their reasons too. They didn't marry me for love either. Guess what? We are still great friends. How many divorces say that? I stay at my first wive's house when I visit. She's a good person.
ok .... on offense, but as a man how could you be ok with your wife wanting to be with another man??? maybe since im only 23 and not as mature as you i dont have the ability to still be civil with a person that fucks me over for another guy. Im pretty sure my assumption is right with me thinking she left you for another black guy. from my personal experience all women in japan interested in black men have some inner hip-hop fetish they want to live out then bounce on to the next lol
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 This may not be in all cases,but it does seem that way in most cases,sadly it seems most aw or jaapanese women who sleep with black men are loose or have some hip hop thug fetish,many blackmen will never own up to this,just check out black planet .com 90 percent of non blk wm seem to be whorish even the ones from japan,this is offline as well,of course not in all cases,it just seems when ever a asian or japanese woman is with a black man she's fat,loose,old,or has kids why?
maybe your choice in the caliber of women was a little off....when i was in japan being the young good looking black male that i am got me more women than i could count, BUT! i knew majority of these hoes (yea i said hoes) where not into me for my personality lol. Attraction based on just looks or the fact that your different make a horrible relationship. sometimes i wish i could find a blind chick LOL...........anyone that disagrees i challenge you to"PROOF"me wrong lol
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Any statement ANYWHERE that ends with the words "prove me wrong" or in your case "proof"? is garbage. Such statement are always guaranteed to be garbage relying on the fact that nothing relying on opinions can be proven wrong definitively.
So even if such proof is given the person will just pick at something else again again to keep from being wrong. It is a pathetic ploy.
lol i put "Proof me wrong" as a joke you genius lmao "pathertic ploy".... at what ? why are you so sensitive dude forget your tampons? :-/ and anyway if your so intelligent why not actually make a grown up response to my comment instead of bitching.
exactly because you think you such an intellectual, but you dont have the brain power to actually answer my comment lol dude go make another bologna sandwich and sit your ass down....smh
When you talk about the wives putting their husbands through stuff are you speaking specifically about the interracial marriages or the ones between Japanese men and Japanese women or all marriages?
My divorced friends in the US always tell me never to get married. Of course they marry the wrong woman and these woman end up making them their bitch and taking half their money.
jxsilicon9 4 hours ago
@69ulrika Watch it again and pay attention.
GS350JPN 1 month ago
You are so right. If sex is what your relationship is based on it is very sad. That's the least. There is so much more in life.
gma904 5 months ago
Maigono2010 I haven't forgot about anything. It's hood out here. I have mentioned that plenty of times. I try to stay as positive as I can. The situations vary. Be a responsible man is the best strategy.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN it's hood out there??? in japan??? have you been to the hood??
ratfinkskates 1 month ago
you forgot something.. the parents of the wife..they are old and have lots of free time to visit you and cause problems. they talk so much shyt even if you know all the sick shyt about them.
maigono2010 5 months ago
@erdnola Listen to Too Short before you come. He is your bible. This is truly the best advice that I can give you.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN HAHAHAHA! This is good advice!
Rhythmcomposer 1 month ago
@piroplayer2 lol. I tell as much as I can.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
so the single mothers arent monsters, only the young girls right?
erdnola 5 months ago
Welp looks like im getting a single mother.
erdnola 5 months ago
As a black woman who has lived in Japan, I found it much harder to date a Japanese man let alone marry one. There seemed to be a stigma attached to it. And I am speaking for all of my gaijin friends. There were a few, but mostly it was gaijin men and Japanese women. My take is that the JApanese men have traditional views on marriage and home that the women don't hold. So they look to foreigners.
purpleryoko 5 months ago
@purpleryoko or maybe they werent attracted to you. im guessing halle berry lookalikes have no problem in japan
fomiz 4 months ago
Nigga! Tell the stories! Man you had me hanging on every word :P
Piroplayer 5 months ago
"determining factor" is what you were looking for. I really value your opinion and I wonder if your advice holds up for gaijin women with Japanese men as well? I believe someone asked the same thing earlier.
lustypiratebellamy 5 months ago
@lustypiratebellamy Thanks! For the women their problems are different. Thus is from what I heard. It's mostly sexual satisfaction and boredom. If women marry a rich or business minded J-man they should have a good life. They will need to search for sexual satusfaction and other forms of excitement. I recommend mastering Japanese and Chinese, ride to the level a mature business person. If you do this your lives will far excell foreign men's lives.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN
Thank you!
lustypiratebellamy 5 months ago
@MsEnigmabkThanks! For the women their problems are different. Thus is from what I heard. It's mostly sexual satisfaction and boredom. If women marry a rich or business minded J-man they should have a good life. They will need to search for sexual satusfaction and other forms of excitement. I recommend mastering Japanese and Chinese, ride to the level a mature business person. If you do this your lives will far excell foreign men's lives.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Cinnamonpoptarts Actually, you are so on point and that point is where reality hits. I will make a video. I married at 21. During that time Black love or love for your pen women was strong. I meat my Japanese wife in Hawaii. I was 30. She was 42, but looked 28. Back then hip hop wasn't so big world-wide, I don't think. You are way off target on that point. I have a child older that you. Ask your parents about the days before they meet and your were born. Things were better.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@cinnamonpoptarts my 1st left me for a Bro that she line since high school (Venice Hi). She was white. This was about 20 yrs ago. The second, Japanese - at 47 and super fine, left me for a Sri Lankan guy. There is history behind that. There were more important things that concerned me.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
wow great!! i have to find vids on here about gaijin women having japanese husbands/boyfriends!! :-)
JRockLovinAtheist 5 months ago
@GS350JPN
Keep cheating on your wife and it will be 3 times.
madpat2007 5 months ago
a lot of guys go to japan cause they are under the impression that japanese girls are shy & timid , man you just blew that myth out the water right there . i myself heard the exact opposite &they can play that role to get guys ...whats that saying "a intelligent man can play the part of a fool , but a fool cant play the part of an intelligent man" ....keep the videos coming bro you're teaching a lot .
yagdrasil 5 months ago
@yagdrasil I agree. I have friends who are Japanese and those girls are not shy and timid :P they just know how to play their cards right.
starryshark 4 months ago 2
i believe that the fact that GS350JPN has been divorced 2 times makes him the perfect canidate to talk about this because it shows that he has learned from his mistakes and seen what endeavors one will go through in this situation. Good series i just wonder if gaijin women will face the same thing or if its harder?
MsEnigmabk 5 months ago
@madpat2007 Two times. Are your parents happily married. My first two wives fell in love with other men. They wanted a divorce to pursue their love. Why would I stop them? I was cool about it. The advice I gave is simple. I never married for love and never will. The advice I gave is why I married. They had their reasons too. They didn't marry me for love either. Guess what? We are still great friends. How many divorces say that? I stay at my first wive's house when I visit. She's a good person.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN
ok .... on offense, but as a man how could you be ok with your wife wanting to be with another man??? maybe since im only 23 and not as mature as you i dont have the ability to still be civil with a person that fucks me over for another guy. Im pretty sure my assumption is right with me thinking she left you for another black guy. from my personal experience all women in japan interested in black men have some inner hip-hop fetish they want to live out then bounce on to the next lol
Cinnamonpoptarts1 5 months ago 4
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 This may not be in all cases,but it does seem that way in most cases,sadly it seems most aw or jaapanese women who sleep with black men are loose or have some hip hop thug fetish,many blackmen will never own up to this,just check out black planet .com 90 percent of non blk wm seem to be whorish even the ones from japan,this is offline as well,of course not in all cases,it just seems when ever a asian or japanese woman is with a black man she's fat,loose,old,or has kids why?
regionfree1 5 months ago
@GS350JPN
maybe your choice in the caliber of women was a little off....when i was in japan being the young good looking black male that i am got me more women than i could count, BUT! i knew majority of these hoes (yea i said hoes) where not into me for my personality lol. Attraction based on just looks or the fact that your different make a horrible relationship. sometimes i wish i could find a blind chick LOL...........anyone that disagrees i challenge you to"PROOF"me wrong lol
Cinnamonpoptarts1 5 months ago 2
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Any statement ANYWHERE that ends with the words "prove me wrong" or in your case "proof"? is garbage. Such statement are always guaranteed to be garbage relying on the fact that nothing relying on opinions can be proven wrong definitively.
So even if such proof is given the person will just pick at something else again again to keep from being wrong. It is a pathetic ploy.
krizzex 5 months ago
@krizzex
lol i put "Proof me wrong" as a joke you genius lmao "pathertic ploy".... at what ? why are you so sensitive dude forget your tampons? :-/ and anyway if your so intelligent why not actually make a grown up response to my comment instead of bitching.
Cinnamonpoptarts1 5 months ago
@Cinnamonpoptarts1 Sensitive to what? I pointed out what you were doing and you respond to it with childish insults. I have nothing more to say.
krizzex 5 months ago
@krizzex
exactly because you think you such an intellectual, but you dont have the brain power to actually answer my comment lol dude go make another bologna sandwich and sit your ass down....smh
Cinnamonpoptarts1 5 months ago
Someone who's been divorced 3 times giving advice about marriage. LOL!
madpat2007 5 months ago
@komjong I am talking about intercultural ones primarily. It applies to all.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@mafuuba Only two parts. There are lots more to say, but that's a bit too disrespectful and kind of personal. It's really interesting though.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@Cxplorer Tthank you.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
@GS350JPN
Would you advice a man to not get married at all to any woman??
HookemHorns972 5 months ago
@konjong There are many many too way too many. The mothers are fine too.
GS350JPN 5 months ago
Nice video :) I like it when you talk about those topics. :)
CxplorerV2 5 months ago
Good series. Will there be more parts?
mafuuba 5 months ago
When you talk about the wives putting their husbands through stuff are you speaking specifically about the interracial marriages or the ones between Japanese men and Japanese women or all marriages?
komjong 5 months ago
Wow there are a lot of single mothers in Japan? That is very surprising to me.
komjong 5 months ago