Hey burtharding, im fixing to enlist into the Navy and im feeling a lot of anxiety about boot camp. I keep trying to find ways to deal with my fears, but I just cant fight through it all the time. And its been holding me back from doing things i would have liked to do and what I want to do in the future. Im just wondering if you can find a way to help me.
@TheSerenityhuck Hey man I'm just about to get out of the Marine Corps .... do what you must .... just do what is right always.... you will be fine ....
@thoughtcorrosion Thanks man. yea, ive been feeling a lil better about it, but still. I know i just have to put my fears aside and do it. Now, I know Navy basic training is'nt anywhere near as intensive as the Marine Corps, but still i dont know what to expect. The fear of the unknown has been overwelming for me at times, but when it comes down to it, I always seem to regain my composure. Im just in a bind and I need to get out, and the military is the way for me...
my parents have always told me, my experiences are not real. all the things i went through in my life that i treid to tell them, the people i trusted the most, always told me it never actually happened. it got to the point i had a mental breakdown in front of them. i can't explain why they are that way toward me. even lately i had a converstaion with them about something important, later on i talked to my dad about the conversation, and he basically told me it wasn't real.
You dont seem to leave room for God. I know God is the present moment and even calls Himself I AM when Moses asks what his name is -- but if I pray its to someone who is "outside" and "above" this reality
I have beeen suffering from depression nearly all my life, I am currently facing my fears and fighting my depression by first admitting I am depressed and therefore owning my depresson and after owning it trying to change. I have learned that it's not what happened in my childhood, it's what idone with it, it's how I dealt with it. I saw myself as bad so as to preserve my parents as good and have lived with that decision for forty years,I find your lessons inspiring and comforting, thank you.
Thank you for all your wisdom. I have watched 10 of your videos tonight for the first time after finding out about you. I would keep watching more but it's gone midnight I better sleep! But I will watch more tomorrow.
I've heard that the mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined. Okay, I have been watching horror movies for quite some time and suspense/thrillers. I believe my wife left me because of my insecurities brought about by depression and anxiety. In summary, I have been feeding myself with all this time with uneeded doses of fear. Am I correct?
Really love your videos, Burt...great inspirational conveyances. I've added many of your videos to my favorites today alone! lol Keep 'em coming. Namaste.
what to do, when you love someone who has a very heavy body of pain and it is making you mentally sick. Iam aware of my own body of pain and why my need to be that person, but I don't know how to let go! They where ignored as a child by their mother, and is diagnosed bipolare. My family and friends tell me the relationship is not good for me, as I now also suffer from anxiety and fears,which I didn't have before. Is it my ego that wants let go?
Dear Sashanita69: You are not alone my friend in this pain-body. Ego identification creates an unconscious guilt. Guilt always wants to project itself unto others (the world) but it boomerangs into greater pain from the world. Discover your true nature and be free.
You talk such deep truth that I am scared of your words.
VerystrangeMaster 6 months ago
Hey burtharding, im fixing to enlist into the Navy and im feeling a lot of anxiety about boot camp. I keep trying to find ways to deal with my fears, but I just cant fight through it all the time. And its been holding me back from doing things i would have liked to do and what I want to do in the future. Im just wondering if you can find a way to help me.
TheSerenityhuck 6 months ago
@TheSerenityhuck Hey man I'm just about to get out of the Marine Corps .... do what you must .... just do what is right always.... you will be fine ....
thoughtcorrosion 5 months ago
@thoughtcorrosion Thanks man. yea, ive been feeling a lil better about it, but still. I know i just have to put my fears aside and do it. Now, I know Navy basic training is'nt anywhere near as intensive as the Marine Corps, but still i dont know what to expect. The fear of the unknown has been overwelming for me at times, but when it comes down to it, I always seem to regain my composure. Im just in a bind and I need to get out, and the military is the way for me...
TheSerenityhuck 5 months ago
my parents have always told me, my experiences are not real. all the things i went through in my life that i treid to tell them, the people i trusted the most, always told me it never actually happened. it got to the point i had a mental breakdown in front of them. i can't explain why they are that way toward me. even lately i had a converstaion with them about something important, later on i talked to my dad about the conversation, and he basically told me it wasn't real.
redpillow100 1 year ago
You're a beautiful soul Burt...:)
PChord1 1 year ago
You dont seem to leave room for God. I know God is the present moment and even calls Himself I AM when Moses asks what his name is -- but if I pray its to someone who is "outside" and "above" this reality
pietrrocks 1 year ago
give the ''fear' space .... thnx!
mcindy1130 1 year ago
@mcindy1130 what does it really mean to give fear space???
anisssa84 1 year ago
I have beeen suffering from depression nearly all my life, I am currently facing my fears and fighting my depression by first admitting I am depressed and therefore owning my depresson and after owning it trying to change. I have learned that it's not what happened in my childhood, it's what idone with it, it's how I dealt with it. I saw myself as bad so as to preserve my parents as good and have lived with that decision for forty years,I find your lessons inspiring and comforting, thank you.
britnellshouse 1 year ago
Burt is one of the best teachers i'v ever seen!
anisblond 1 year ago
Thank you for all your wisdom. I have watched 10 of your videos tonight for the first time after finding out about you. I would keep watching more but it's gone midnight I better sleep! But I will watch more tomorrow.
kerryahopkins 1 year ago
I've heard that the mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined. Okay, I have been watching horror movies for quite some time and suspense/thrillers. I believe my wife left me because of my insecurities brought about by depression and anxiety. In summary, I have been feeding myself with all this time with uneeded doses of fear. Am I correct?
LaMortRouge 2 years ago
people love fear.
WolYou 2 years ago
Fear is the opposite of reality,for reality is Love,now...
134being 2 years ago
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fear only exists in our heads
gefftom 2 years ago
You have switched on a light inside me. Thankyou Burt.
morrisj09 3 years ago 7
I am so happy I ve found u
marmoolakster 3 years ago 10
I think there is a long list of people who would say that also!
thewaytosuccess 3 years ago
your a great teacher!!!!keep your videos coming!god bless you!
nlinkmedia 3 years ago 3
Really love your videos, Burt...great inspirational conveyances. I've added many of your videos to my favorites today alone! lol Keep 'em coming. Namaste.
AzathothianBrew 3 years ago
wat is love???i dont know how to love???its killing me.
atoozer 3 years ago
Dear friend, your nature is love. Love is our natural connection to all that is. Feel out this natural connection and your love will express itself.
burtharding 3 years ago
what to do, when you love someone who has a very heavy body of pain and it is making you mentally sick. Iam aware of my own body of pain and why my need to be that person, but I don't know how to let go! They where ignored as a child by their mother, and is diagnosed bipolare. My family and friends tell me the relationship is not good for me, as I now also suffer from anxiety and fears,which I didn't have before. Is it my ego that wants let go?
Sashanita69 2 years ago
Dear Sashanita69: You are not alone my friend in this pain-body. Ego identification creates an unconscious guilt. Guilt always wants to project itself unto others (the world) but it boomerangs into greater pain from the world. Discover your true nature and be free.
Burt
burtharding 2 years ago
That is so true what you say abbout if people keep their feelings inside the feelings start to go away. :/
NitroxideHS 3 years ago
Not being allowed to feel is where I came from.
Alexknobsob 3 years ago
So here is Truth too.
Alexknobsob 3 years ago
Dear Burt,
I have just written you an email and then this video showed up ....thank you my friend!
Love ya, Monica ( from Brazil )
Halihalimarina 4 years ago