I have the weirdest relationship with the girl I like... I love her personnality, And we used to flirt a bit, But Ive known her for 3 years and we're kinda in the friend zone... half? Because she gives the impression she likes me the way I like her, as in she wants to go further aswell.... But its seriously confusing.
I'm in the friend zone. She said she has liked me before but doesn't wanna ruin the friend ship. I like her because she has the best personality and this cute little laugh. Last night we spent New Years at her house. We were laying on her bed and laughing about old memories from elementary school. I ended up sleeping in her bed with her and I acted on my impulses (dumb move) and ended up inching myself closer to her. I can't quiet tell if she liked it or not. Should I ask her or no?
@Partyffs - Wrong! If you can't have a relationship without a crutch then you're not ready to have one. If you can't be completely sober and spend time with that person then you're starting off on a lie and that will just end up going down the pan.
@AwwsummSauce Don't use alcohol to set the basis for any relationship, just ask her if she wants to take it one step further, if she doesn't want to then leave it at that and find someone else.
Fellas have you ever asked why is it that its always YOU who have to put in the emotional work, accept 100% of the emotional risk, and emotional investment with no guarantee on a reasonable return on the investment? You can always ask as a hypothetical, Gee Sally you ever wonder about us being more? If she says no, you have your answer, time to move on to someone else who will appreciate you.
@puppetmasterblaster -You need to work on your own issues.You haven't realised it yet but you are either (a) homosexual or (b) scared of women and you've been taught by your upbringing. If you are a heterosexual male then you really need to learn to LOVE yourself and understand that it is what you offer others that makes life worth living. Your hatefulness is scary and I hope no woman gets near you because you sound like you could get violent very easily. Sort yourself out for your own sake.
@FredericaBimble - and, just so you know, I am a man so you can save the teenage vocabulary. Also, when you get older, you will learn that no one likes to hear that vulgar language. You kids haven't a clue.
In college here in America the joke among the guys was the only difference between a straight girl and a lesbian is 8 beers...and it was pretty damn accurate...lol
bullshit if you sit her down and tell her you like her and want to date her like they said you should you have to absolutely be willing to throw away the friendship cause if you give her the option of you two remaining friends she will never take a chance at you two being lover cuz she is to comfortable where she is at, and if she says no do you relay want to be friends with a woman you love while she dates and has sex with other men...not worth it take your feelings else were fellas abandon it
For the most part, I agree with this video BUT I disagree with the whole women will give indicators that she likes you when you're friends. Those signals can be so easily misinterpreted as just being friends and you know we dudes don't pick up on that crap easily lol. Being friends just makes it that much harder to pick up on it. And the dynamic is going to change if you're not successful, it sucks but it happens. Still like I said, you're right, honesty is the best policy. Good post.
honesty don't work because it bores them. women are friends with dudes that are 2 nice. too nice is boring. telling the truth would simply bore her 2 death rofl. instead do shit that she would never expect u 2 do.
Females give horrible advice to men how to get them. When women first meet guys, they know the first 3 seconds of meeting they want to have sex with the guy or not. The guy should be cool and don't say anything stupid. Now turning a friend into a girlfriend that is rare and almost impossible once you are in the friends zone with a female that's where you are going to be. Just move on and date other girls.
@therater2008 You said it! No matter how many years pass by,after seeing or hearing from them, they still think that its your pleasure to play the role of a brother to them, a brother in law to her chosen man, and an uncle to her kids.
@jmen4ever Yeah that is true most guys are stupid they can't see these women will never put out and the females are stupid as well. These guys aren't their friends they just waiting for the right time to get laid.
@therater2008 .mr.nice guys are the type who get the privilage,if you can call it that,of inheriting another guys kids,& her emotional baggage that goes with them.Sometimes its a blessing to be passed by.
how do you ladies feel about dressing a guy up as a woman for a girls night out?
56thAlbanyProd 4 days ago
I have the weirdest relationship with the girl I like... I love her personnality, And we used to flirt a bit, But Ive known her for 3 years and we're kinda in the friend zone... half? Because she gives the impression she likes me the way I like her, as in she wants to go further aswell.... But its seriously confusing.
frankyman321 1 month ago
Steps turn a friend into girlfriend
1.Say hi
2.Kiss
3.Repeat
blackeroni 1 month ago
I'm in the friend zone. She said she has liked me before but doesn't wanna ruin the friend ship. I like her because she has the best personality and this cute little laugh. Last night we spent New Years at her house. We were laying on her bed and laughing about old memories from elementary school. I ended up sleeping in her bed with her and I acted on my impulses (dumb move) and ended up inching myself closer to her. I can't quiet tell if she liked it or not. Should I ask her or no?
AwwsummSauce 1 month ago
@AwwsummSauce Go to a party drink a lot and make sure she dose it to, if she stiks whit you, you have your answer ;)
Partyffs 1 month ago
@Partyffs - Wrong! If you can't have a relationship without a crutch then you're not ready to have one. If you can't be completely sober and spend time with that person then you're starting off on a lie and that will just end up going down the pan.
FredericaBimble 3 weeks ago
@AwwsummSauce Don't use alcohol to set the basis for any relationship, just ask her if she wants to take it one step further, if she doesn't want to then leave it at that and find someone else.
ChainsawGutsFuck 1 month ago
the best way to tell a friend you like it by doing it physically.
cagmaster101 2 months ago
Fellas have you ever asked why is it that its always YOU who have to put in the emotional work, accept 100% of the emotional risk, and emotional investment with no guarantee on a reasonable return on the investment? You can always ask as a hypothetical, Gee Sally you ever wonder about us being more? If she says no, you have your answer, time to move on to someone else who will appreciate you.
blackburn9 2 months ago
i know how
FUCK HER LOL
bigbotherone 2 months ago
Why would anyone be friends much less girlfriends with any female. They are all a bunch of fucking bitches. No matter what country they come from.
puppetmasterblaster 2 months ago
@puppetmasterblaster -You need to work on your own issues.You haven't realised it yet but you are either (a) homosexual or (b) scared of women and you've been taught by your upbringing. If you are a heterosexual male then you really need to learn to LOVE yourself and understand that it is what you offer others that makes life worth living. Your hatefulness is scary and I hope no woman gets near you because you sound like you could get violent very easily. Sort yourself out for your own sake.
FredericaBimble 3 weeks ago
@FredericaBimble - and, just so you know, I am a man so you can save the teenage vocabulary. Also, when you get older, you will learn that no one likes to hear that vulgar language. You kids haven't a clue.
FredericaBimble 3 weeks ago
In college here in America the joke among the guys was the only difference between a straight girl and a lesbian is 8 beers...and it was pretty damn accurate...lol
usrodeo5 2 months ago
be honest?... woman logic, get crative
TimeAndSpaceWarp 2 months ago
bullshit if you sit her down and tell her you like her and want to date her like they said you should you have to absolutely be willing to throw away the friendship cause if you give her the option of you two remaining friends she will never take a chance at you two being lover cuz she is to comfortable where she is at, and if she says no do you relay want to be friends with a woman you love while she dates and has sex with other men...not worth it take your feelings else were fellas abandon it
2gogols 2 months ago
You just give her a great big kiss. It worked for me forty four years ago, and were still married
Auggie56 2 months ago
@Auggie56 So your like 55-60+? And you have a youtube account? Sweeeeeeet.
AwwsummSauce 1 month ago
I'm really so sick of all this "how to get laid from a woman's point of view" crap.
It's all so fake.
xenonman 3 months ago
If you do that she'll say no and you'll feel burned. lol
MrBlackwoodTV 4 months ago
Bullshit. If you're her friend, you will never be anything more. Don't be friends with women. Waste of time.
Cap285 4 months ago
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jmen4ever 3 months ago
For the most part, I agree with this video BUT I disagree with the whole women will give indicators that she likes you when you're friends. Those signals can be so easily misinterpreted as just being friends and you know we dudes don't pick up on that crap easily lol. Being friends just makes it that much harder to pick up on it. And the dynamic is going to change if you're not successful, it sucks but it happens. Still like I said, you're right, honesty is the best policy. Good post.
Jackosmack 8 months ago 8
honesty don't work because it bores them. women are friends with dudes that are 2 nice. too nice is boring. telling the truth would simply bore her 2 death rofl. instead do shit that she would never expect u 2 do.
crazybigyo 9 months ago
Females give horrible advice to men how to get them. When women first meet guys, they know the first 3 seconds of meeting they want to have sex with the guy or not. The guy should be cool and don't say anything stupid. Now turning a friend into a girlfriend that is rare and almost impossible once you are in the friends zone with a female that's where you are going to be. Just move on and date other girls.
therater2008 1 year ago
@therater2008 You said it! No matter how many years pass by,after seeing or hearing from them, they still think that its your pleasure to play the role of a brother to them, a brother in law to her chosen man, and an uncle to her kids.
jmen4ever 3 months ago 5
@jmen4ever Yeah that is true most guys are stupid they can't see these women will never put out and the females are stupid as well. These guys aren't their friends they just waiting for the right time to get laid.
therater2008 3 months ago
@therater2008 .mr.nice guys are the type who get the privilage,if you can call it that,of inheriting another guys kids,& her emotional baggage that goes with them.Sometimes its a blessing to be passed by.
jmen4ever 3 months ago
You've got to be sincere and honest straight up, but make sure you attain the eye-to-eye contact-rapport first, than explain HOW IT REALLY IS!!
It's best if the enviroment was ONLY YOU TWO.
p.s. You have to be confident enuff to make small physical touches, which is
used for comforting and showing to her that you are capable of being affectionate.
it really does work, it really does. try it!
ESOTERICALADEPT 1 year ago