Pacing Yourself (In a Relationship) @JayFluent

[oneworldonegirl]

You live in Jersey?

[XxMusicLuver4Lyff]

love yhur awesome blue hoodie , nd hat ^.^ ♥

[angelsisi98]

How do u know all this??? Aren't you too young. lolz jk

[X3chimcharr]

what is sweet talking???

[mysongsbaby11]

Haha , in every vidieo you always throug in the "ya know wahh i meeeaan ! " haha

[L1KEWTF]

lolll, truest shit!

[EIemnia]

I love all your videos; Short, simple, and sweet.

[Soulessaint]

Very true!

[poet56565]

I sware I needed to hear this......

[catecanary]

Yes! And guys shouldn't expect you to want to kiss them on a first date. I was thinking about this today when I went out on a first date with guy and he kissed me. I had to be like "Whoa buddy, calm yourself."

[Jammin1218]

iloveyou. 

[brooklynlulu]

Not ever heard it any better then the way you said it, and I'm 45, I know!

[AWWWWWWYEH]

this man has wise ass words. thx for the tip. really loved the video. btw wats the song called lol

[theasianonutube]

i wish you were my kuya.

[PlatinumJerker]

finally someone put this into words for me

[jercylll]

good advise finally! haha :)

[ayeenimee786]

i know a girl who started going after a guy right after she met him &they've been dating for a year and a half now. &when i see them, it feels like nothing can tear them apart. &&&i also know a girl who took her time to get to know this guy, she spoke to him for 3 months, &they then started going out, but hes just a total dick to her now..

[velardealede]

this guy looks lik terence from BET 106park

[newboyzizhot]

i like his backgroun music

[mizztoocute100]

i wish i cudda knew this before my birthday

[dragonfire84724]

how to get my boyfriend to see this...

[slyyfoxx1997]

damnnn, i like you. <3 x

[xbaybiiegee09]

you look like a blue smurf. It's cute

[4loveliie]

you should end all your vids with saying "you know what i mean" cause you sound real hot

[makinena7]

damnn you soo fine <3 :]

[therealbluehair]

Your my official Youtube Crush!!!!lol

[massoleetjoy]

Ur style is hot

[1990banks]

do you brush your teeth with diamonds lol they're super white

[lifechoicee]

So u dont believe in love at first sight....?

[allybbyx3]

Oh my, he's such a cutie.

[NytresraInfinity]

lmao the song in the back and him talking sounds like a song

[izzadangerouz1993]

were you high?... your eyes look red Lols :)

[MissLady207]

true true!!

[MrDogEatter]

Haha I'm still young but me and my girlfriend went through our relationship QUICK lol but it's been 3 years and we're still a very happy couple :D

[AngieSKINcare]

is kiss at fourth date okay?

[TheKenziejae]

amen too that<3 i agreee on everything you just said 100% (:

[lindelocks]

So dam right everything you said.. This is what happened to me and i thought the same thing if it started of fast it will end fast.

[RealityNext2Fantasy]

times like this is like ...... wow.... i gotta stop kissing on the first date lol

[missashleysmiles]

this was exactly how me &'d my ex were..

[str4ightup]

everything you said described my recent relationship, so true.

[torimelodic223]

:) thank u

[05302008]

Wow! So glad to hear a young man with insight on dating. Pace yourelf. Great message.

[misslennamarie]

rawr. T___T definitely agree. for me, it's 1 month in, 1 month out. 8m months in, 8 out. boo! not anymore tho :D

[WosumChiksta2009]

awh crud.! That's what kinda recently happened to me! Met this guy at camp spent one week there then we got together that same week bout 3 days before the camp ended...to make things worst we live like 1 hour away from each other...but I do like him a lot.it's been a month now since...I hope we last long enough..

[babyfire808]

You are so right I agree with you u should give me ur cell number so I can ask for avdice

[berebannanafresita]

I Wish I Saww This Before I Started Dating This Guy :/

[sunshinefaith23]

@berebannanafresita same here :\ 9 months but now i have the most perfect boyfriend in the worl pacing is the best almost 5 months with us :) <3

[TheRealNailah]

i totally agree with you the best advice i've ever gotten

yea i know wha you mean :)

[BitchyNikki101]

AMENNNN



[lovelylauj96]

i wished i saw this vid be4 i dated him:(

[EllyiJaydeMarschke]

i love your voice:D

[taytaylover1000]

oh shit this happened to me. i fell in love with this guy and he fell in love with me too and then we dated for 2 months then he cheated. i wish i found your videos before i started dating.

[SuperTruth77]

My 26YO brother has been jailed for 12m & is on a sex offenders register FOR LIFE- because of a fully consensual sexual relationship with a 22YO woman!

The thing is, she has Downs Syndrome. It was hard for the family to accept at first, but we began to see that it was a truly loving & mutually beneficial relationship. But then some neighbours complained & the Police arrested him.

The judge passing sentence said she was “by definition unable to give informed consent for sex AT ANY POINT”.

[BrunetteYaS]

He has a perfectly placed mole under each eye.

To die for.

[CupNoodlees]

We both went too fast.. & we broke up.

[thethelikegirls]

can somone help me o this .

me and my bf are tugther , we make out adn everi thinq , itz lik da thered week we been qoin out were in love , i wnna spice up da replation sip , i am a 14 year old gurl . how cn i spice it up ??:D

[WeCreatePsAccounts]

@thethelikegirls Get a condom.

[Sexygurl027]

@thethelikegirls ur too young to be trying to spice things up....

[applejaykay]

@thethelikegirls buy some spice.

[ninjataco88]

@thethelikegirls omg... You don't fall in love in 3 weeks, You can't even spell, how can you be in love? Sweet Jesus.

[msstarryknights]

@thethelikegirls u're 14...u really dont wanna spice anything up right now...thrust me...motives of BOTH males and females these days are totally on the physical level and if u rush into that u'll lose out on the bettr things a relationship has to offer. Like seriously...go outdoors, parks, have dinner with his parents, play games with him. dont rush the physical :)

[genesis5513]

nopee , i fell inlove fast .

and eh i still feel thee samee >.<

[2beasy]

Yeh, I went too fast and I feel like I'm falling out of love... Fudge... :(

[DinandLover]

you're adorable, i love that you smile after every sentence :)

[HillaryMrs8]

I really hate that 'What are you interests?' Question... and then they answer a whole paragraph. and It's like... 'Woah, let's take it one at a time' . and then they expect you to answer just as much. Loves about mystery;

I swear all of your videos make me think.

[chubzaloser]

im ADDICTED to yo videos maan!! u fine hun;)

[kouskoushlubkoj1leeg]

Pace yourself prior to a relationship and during one. You don't wanna run out of gas in 3 months while the other person still has half a tank left.

[LoveBeautyPurity]

holy MOTHER OF WHALES . boy , this answered my prayers . i'm buddhist , but god bless your soul !

[Rissaa1617]

Oh i kno :) i lovee his vidds . Imm like addicteed

[arabmafia4eva]

Happened ta meh/: fucked me up..

[MissBx1]

I love how Weylie is always on the suggestion video on the side ;)

[ibturninheads1]

today i just found your videos...this is the last one. # 58 out of 58

[cutegirl066]

SO TRUE.

[izjerker]

Your growing a beard xD

[shaniecejanae09]

im listening , but DAMN , your so beautiful :D

[TheMaureeniel]

i like how i can see our flag in most of your vids...

[preetyrich2001]

whats that song calld?



[bethepeanutbutter]

This happened to me.. twice.

[xoxolala561]

this EXACTLY happened to me -.-

[myonly15]

how many hats do you own?

[ubernubzor]

relationship is like eating a cake.

giving them bits by bits, dey'd always gonna want to come back for more.

but if u give them the entire cake at once, they're gonna get sick of it :) !

[zehraaaa0]

fuckin get over how he looks. "why do u always wear a hat?" "do u wear eyeliner" SDFU. he's not makin vids for u 2 check him out and ask shit bout how he looks.

[Movethismountain]

Sooooo true.

[ibabyyylisa]

Why do you always wear a hat? Just saying :x

[cheercutietot]

HE'D BE THE BEST BF ....man.......im too young LOL

[heatherrdye]

You have GORGEOUS teeth, c;

[chisholm1994]

i really like ur vids

[xanthy2000]

is he wearing eye liner?

sexy eyes !

[tinnas95]

I should have watched this video earlier.. haha :D so true man!

[M16pAtRiCi46]

i love your smile ever.

and that gorgeous eyes

[summergirl180]

how weird. just earlier today i was thinking about a bf i had a while ago. and i was like damn, that relationship started So fast, and ended just as fast. pretty much what u said here haha. wish i coulda seen this earlier. so true though.

[she2hadthedramathick]

yes!!

[explicitlaydee]

yeap easy come easy go!

[punlalchandra]

true

[mimi305]

He looks sooooo high in this video lol

[christinahhh]

Just came upon your videos yesterday, and I've already watched most of them--they're like crack. Kind of.

[FormatxCwalk]

@christinahhh yea same happened to me lol i wish he had more vids though

[sentimentalkillah]

So I think that you have a nice smile.

& It is taking me a while to open up to my boyfriend. It's been 4 months. I think my problem is opening up... (the exact opposite of what you are saying here) It is just, I have my secrets you know. The girl I am at school, is not the girl I am at home. he only knows the girl at school. Half of me... Blah. I don't know : D

Things will be alright

[lollivaleriepop]

@sentimentalkillah that`s the exact same thing that happened to me before.

[MyLifeAsAshhh]

you like a challenge .

[ablindingdeception]

how old are you?

[JasianDesigner]

i am so glad you made this video =) this happened to me so many times

[LaurenNicholeee]

this is well said my friend :)

[JustAnother360Player]

You definitely make your videos when your high, lmaoo

[TheStarrquality]

pleaaaaaase, make a video without your hat :)

[LuciiRedBuLL]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh God, why are you so damn attractive?

[lmfaotracy]

I loved the music lol

[Jenifer10101]

AND DONT SAY I LOVE U RIGHT AFTER U ASKED THEM OUT !!!!

[maaaaiy]

oooh a member now eh\

[Debra1012]

You give kick ass advice!! :D

[hairandmakeupforever]

I waited two months to kiss my bf and our 1 year is on the 18th so this is very true.

[mrswizkhalifa]

"Easy come, easy go!" Good video [:

[dearestabbie]

not really , me & chubs met & went "really fast" & we are still strong & happy with each other & its been almost 2 years <3

[spanpinki]

@dearestabbie lol,that's not a long time. Lets see if it lasts till death.

[snl12x]

its better in a relationship (both ways) if you dont tell your partner everything . do the remembering game . remember everything he or she talks about (like their favorites), and you can surprise your partner on a date or anniversary with something you remember about them, that they'd thing you wouldn't remember about .

[itsjaymee]

What if a relationship's going REALLY REALLY slow? D;

[TheNicolianDynamite]

@itsjaymee that. is. me. right. now.

[mrsewards]

@itsjaymee then its gonna last REALLY REALLY long ;D

[TokyoDiimond]

@itsjaymee Freakin MY situation right here D:<

[ninjataco88]

@itsjaymee he just aint that into you~

[HellboyBrim]

` that jersey hat go hann bro

[Sundriesandetc]

and i'm lovin that blue. pretty

[Sundriesandetc]

so if a relationship happens fast, and end just as fast, does a relationship that starts out slow..just die out slower? so..either way, a dead relationship? haha of course that's not always true but just throwing it out there for the hell of it :P

[backstagexbeauty]

You're from Jersey? :D

[aaangelll12]

you're so blue. lol

[myswagdistractsyou]

This is happening to me right now.

[thirdgenerationxo]

Respect

[monkeygrace1]

Ah this is scary!

Lol I think I messed up already. Yikes!

[TheFraternization]

Lol damn I think I've screwed up already xD

[huskyloveroreo]

Why are you so amazing!

[LocoMilkShake]

are you wearing eyeliner ?????

[SARAHMORALES9228]

U look good in blue!!! :)

[KellehRawr]

You're mad cute. Like seriously.

[romanticwish]

you're hot LOL

[Smil3LykUm3anIt]

growing your beard out? cute. :)

[AJThaii]

If only I saw this a month ago.

[WendyEatsYou]

But even if you do pace yourself, what happens if you run out of things to tell?

[hassavocados]

are you high ahah

[iluvorangee]

you look high..

[kaybrera]

LOL whenever I need help with a specific problem, I just check my youtube and you've uploaded a video to help me with that problem every time!

[purelylove832]

you kind of remind me of my cousin :P

[3xtralicious]

Want to do a video about your hair? :) I'd appreciate that!

[MakenzieFashionista1]

I always get sad when i see negative comments../:

btw I'm a 16 year old girl and i LOVE your videos!

[obabiiTo]

guy's leave him alone about the hat, hes damn sexy as it is(;

[tiffanywuwuwu]

you're partnered :D

[alessandraa426]

Are you wearing make up on your eyes?

[DeathForsaker]

Will he ever lower his eyebrows? lol

[kenzie0908000]

@DeathForsaker lmaoooooooooooooooooo

[FRESHawele99]

when you said pace yourself at 1:20, EVERYTHING was perfect. the beat of the music, you biting your lip. *dies*

[JENNY9767]

this is why im pacing my self with this guy (:♥

[rebellionhunter]

...You have nice eyes.

[susanxAUS]

this shit has happened to me 4 times now :/ its true..it ends fast but you dont fall out of love easily once you've fallen really hard for them. ( takes me AT least 4 weeeks to get over someone regardless how long we've been dating )

[prettymakeup12]

sooooooooooooo agree so many friends call me old fashion bcus i take a WHILE before kissing or anything you rock lmao

[luv2sol]

I understand what your saying JayFluent, but I have been together with my frist relationship for almost 2 months but we still have not kissed on the mouth only on the cheek.

[gurlops]

thats true. :/

[liltay20210]

is he mix with something with asian- i thought he was part black lolz

[ANNshai]

I can't help it but.. You videos remind me of those college commercials where they're like "Do it Now". Haha cos' like you interact with us like real people over the internet;)

[omggitsjessica]

so trueee.

[ceejaayviola]

but what happens if its your bestfriend? and you already know everything about them?

[gretchell123]

your videos are just amazing<3

[1Dianaaaa]

omfg, this is the first video ive seen about you & your advice.

& i can say, damn you got a point there. :P

[kaypagz]

ikr! thats probably what happend with romeo and juliet :P

[MusicIsMe1444]

:/

oops.

[Yesseniahg]

Good advice. I agree... take your time youll find more intrest in your partmer :-)

[aero3annie]

JERSEY

[TheWhoop19]

you know whad i mean ;D