Frankly, I blame men for the emergence of these self-righteous, mother goose, holier than thou, girlfriends & wives from hell. The ones who sweep through his browsing history, cellphone logs, texts history, & pants pockets unapologetically. Granted I don't think having to skulk about watching porno is healthy, I equally don't believe creating an unaccepting/controlling environment is any better.
Particularly on this topic about "cyber cheating" & watching porn, it's seems that there's a disproportionate number of women who have an issue with their bf's, husbands/lovers watching it & I respond to you with a hearty grow up. You can never monopolize someone's eyes or thought's. Whether it's a fleeting look at someone when they're passing by, or lusting over those romantic novels/ hollywood stars, or out right watching porno, you will never monopolize someone's sexual desires... grow up.
well it becomes an issue when the guy watches porn so much that going to every day places every single time you go somewhere you see him checking out other women.(only because he has now developed the thought that every woman is a porn star and wants to sleep whim. Its funny I don't hear you saying that its ok for a guy to eye f*** another woman if they say they only want you but they can't keep their eyes off other women...& its not about ego or insecurity its about respect #imjustsayinshruglol
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 and what would make that situation worse is he is the one who constantly accuses you of cheating or wanting someone else or trying to find someone else address that mr. doc...or what if the guy cant stand to see you masturbate but they masterbate so much that they cant perform in bed and they cant stand to see you watch porn but they watch it more than their favorite shows...which is alot what about the guys who will ignore your sexual need so much that you try to watch porn
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 and they hear it start so they get soooooo jealous that you want to do for yourself what they have failed to do that they come into the room where you are and try to have sex with you but get mad if you tell them you dont want to have sex at the moment. or they start an argument with you so you will feel turned off and not feel aroused at all what would you say about that then mr. expert??? by the way where is your wife, lover or girlfriend have u found one yet at your age?
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 because with those genius thoughts about porn and perhaps why a woman would be offended to have their man watching porn...with the attitude you have as to why a woman would be offended. I would expect you to use your relationship as an example...instead you just said you go with the flow of the tide or some crap which sounds like you're still by yourself to me. shocker...smh I didnt hear
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 "my girl/wife/lover and I dealt with it in the past and have come to realize its not a big issue any more" which means that big belly you have is full of pooo & ur full of pooo #haveanicedaysmile
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 "my girl/wife/lover and I dealt with it in the past and have come to realize its not a big issue any more" which means that big belly you have is full of pooo & ur full of pooo #haveanicedaysmile
You know I watch porn and I'm a girl and no I don't view Harlequlin romances novel as porn, big bald fat guy, you shouldn't be obsessed with it I'm not I watch it occasionsally
i think not 1 woman would be "upset" if her significant other would include her in this "great" fantasy of his… I thought that's the ultimate goal of dreaming/fantasizing - making it a reality?! The problem is that sometimes people suck at communicating and won't say what really turns them on. Plus it's not like you can't imagine all those kinky porn-stars, while you with ur girl/boy lol AS LONG AS U NEVER EVER mention it lol. In that way- both of you r happy, and nobody feels left out.
I watch porn ... mostly just glamour stuff with hot girls. I have a girlfriend of 3 years and she doesn't care if I watch porn in my spare time. She even watches it with and without me sometimes. The only time that I could see her getting mad would be if I sat there on the computer watching it instead of watching a movie with her or something like that.
Since watching pornography (for men) is watching a sexy woman get hot and bothered to cause an erection in the viewer, it's almost like watching a girl that he met at the bar get hot and bothered. He may not have feelings for that woman, but it's like he's being unfaithful and fantasizing about having sex with her. How is that okay if the man is in a relationship? How do I get over my insecurities concerning my male partner watching pornography?
@tigereyegoldstone That IS a typical female insecurity. If your guy is getting off to porn, by definition, he is NOT at a bar looking at some stranger. He was getting off to pixels on a damn screen, for God's sake. It generally has nothing to do with feelings, unless the person is very disturbed anyway. Why do so many women want to control men's minds? Women have a higher overall rate of infidelity and initiating divorces (70% of the time on that). Why don't you all police yourselves?
listen dont think about porn as a contest, think of it as art, the art of the human spirit.
theres alot of it thats not intended for the young at heart, just stic to the soft stuff and youll be allright. theres just too much out there that should not be called porn.
This is gay. I'm 19.5 and I was at my aunt's house and yelled at me for talking about a porno video site with my friend and said I better not have looked at that smut. WTF?! I'm told not to watch porno at my age. Fuck that!
actually porn is bad! first of all it makes the mentalities of the viewers to people not as humans, but as sexual objects . That his a HUGE negative impact on society, and mostly youth. cant you see people of my generation getting STDs and prego at such a young age?! next is that sex is not scared anymore, and is degrading to women, because usuallu their dignity is close to nothing when making these films.
1- "Sex is not scared anymore"? We're suppose to afraid of sex?
2- "My generation getting STDs and prego at such a young age."...... Last time I checked watching porn had a 0% chance of conception..
3- "is degrading to women" - There is Gonzo porn & soft core porn which are very different & exploitation is everywhere. McDonalds exploits their employees, Gov exploits military, Rich exploit poor, it's always been about haves and have nots so your point is....
@FitnessGuru1988 I obviously meant sacred. Look around you. All you see in billboards ads, everywhere is sexual objectification. mostly towards women. Its disgusting. And so are you.
i believe that men just make these excuses for woman get pissed at their porn so they dont feel as bad, it means they are looking for better then their girl- you dont see them looking at ugly girl porn do ya... no! if my man is more busy lookin at porn filled with prettier girls then have real sex with me then he can leave and attempt to et one but thats just me...
masturbation is literally straight with your male hand on male penis!!! hahaha suckas! frick your beds too cause it gets hard there too foo. hmm...and u know what? u'd like it in male asses ...eh u can't admit it ;( lul
i'm sorry but this guy is a fucking liar and a scumbag. a woman has every right to be angry if her man is looking a porn and beating off rather than having sex with her. it's abnormal to want to look at pictures and video when there is a living breathing person around to have actual sex with. if a guy does this kind of thing often it means there is something mentally or physically or emotionally wrong with him.
If this is what you believe you're either an insecure female who knows nothing of men and sexuality in general or you're a male who's sitting on your high horse and has no sense of logic. It's called a fantasy...fantasizing is not cheating. Using your logic is there something wrong with females that watch porn? Or females who fantasize and dream about a male in a romance novel or movie(hint:Twilight). A woman who gets angry over this is just insecure and out of touch with reality and sexuality
Nothing good would hurt so many women. Being a callous asshole and telling them to "get over it" does nothing except highlight your character.
True love doesn't include doing things to hurt your significant other. Nor does it include fantasizing about other people. It's sad you consider this "illogical" when it describes many people's feelings.
@Smooth258 i totally agree. i see that these women saying ohh if i caught my boyfriend watching another girl cause she is prettier than me. what tha fuck your ass is a whinny little bitch shut up. its just freaking porn. just tell them to hey watch porn another time. that all. some women can be whiiny bitches. thank God im not one of them
Sure some porn stars have bad childhood as excuse to be making porn. But it's still you're choice to whoring yourself. Not everybody goes down that route, not everybody is obsessed with money & sex. Some are just willing to sell their soul for money. Not right.
To you it's "whoring yourself"..to others they just love and embrace sex..it's not a taboo thing to them. It's not always about selling your soul for money..some people are truly skilled and passionate about sex and as such they follow what they love. Doesn't mean there's something wrong with them..they're adults they have a right to choose what makes them happy
Um...I'm a feminist, and I find porn offensive in every way possible, as do many women and men I know. There are millions of people who don't watch it OR make it. :)
porn can have a positve if it is used the right way: it could allow a new position and ways to have sex, a guy could ask his partner that they could do different things to make it interesting and different.
The many views..subscribers...and billions of dollars made from porn and sex in general disagrees with you. In fact I watched a documentary on porn recently and it just so happens the most conservative states have the most porn followers...just a bunch of people like yourself who sit on your high horse as if porn isn't just the same thing we do in our bedrooms several times a day except it's on videos/pictures
I'm sorry? How do the profits of the porn industry negate the fact that millions are offended by it and choose not to partake in it?
Actually, some of us don't slap our wives or call them cunts. We don't smear semen on their faces or sodomize them. We are sickened by such things, we don't beat off to them. Implying that the only objections to pornography are religiously-motivated ignores the entirety of what porn actually IS.
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I love the point at 3:05 like the video game industry, an individual ends up not being able to deal with what they're seeing and instead of taking responsibility, they want to blame the game or video in this topic. It's just like people to want to covere up there flaws by getting rid of the thing that they were not MATURE enough for. If you don't like porn you don't have to watch it but don't speak for people who can't read the damn rating on the box!
porn is very interesting if theres some small stories within it hahahahahaa actually sometimes some porn videos are kinda funny to watch hahahahaahahahaa oh well porn is part of the industry so be it
But these differences can (should, I say) be understood as resulting from socialization and conditioning and two of the things that condition us are porn and romance novels, marketed to men and women, respectively. There's no compelling reason to believe that the difference is biological. It's constructed, and this guy is helping to do the constructing.
great reply. social conditioning plays a huge role but we cannot neglect the effects of biology.
woman in general aren't as likely to be addicted to digital images of copulation and explicit nudity.
this is the result of the inherent biology as much as the social conditioning.
but your point is very helpful in understanding male insecurities about penis size as much as women are about their chest size and fat content ( aneroxia). it affects both sexes.
"But these differences can (should, I say) be understood as resulting from socialization and conditioning..."
You feminists tend to put every blame on men and society! I don't know why, Perhaps you feminist in desperately trying to be equal to men become men like in certain ways. That is why you can see the difference in the biology of women and men. Believe me, men and women are the opposite! Why prostitutes are mainly females and not males? That tells you something!
If a girl finds out that a guy doesn't look at porn, doesn't so-call "object" women and does everything that that guy does in her romance novels, he either ends up "gay" (when he's really not), or she will do something on purpose to make him not want to date her anymore because she will feel that she doesn't "deserve" him.
I'm not speaking of all women, just my experience.
it depends like if you watch it 3 hours a day or if you watch it for 15 minutes every couple days. i personally watch it no more than 15-20 minutes every 2 days. or maybe sometimes not at all for a week.
does it mean that i can ask everything and you answer me all???wait i have to ask my girls on ~~lesmeet..com~~wheather they have questions to ask you about.
I just dont like when they use 18 year olds that look like 13 year olds, because when i go to the store lots of men stare at me, and I really dont like it.
@qafrocks97 should we all feel sorry for you???? Please let me get my violin; men are and always will be visually stimulated if they're not really directly staring at you disprespectfully then get over it.
@qafrocks97 should we all feel sorry for you???? Please let me get my violin; men are and always will be visually stimulated if they're not really directly staring at you and disprespectfully then get over it.
What does being gay have to do with it ? leave you're dick alone and try thinking for a change. Im not gay and you dont have a monopoly over sex ' its usualy acusers like you that are closet homos, so get yourself a man and be true to yourself and stop being a biggot.
Yes but im a woman so I should know' I bet you get ''fuck all'' from the way you speak, I certainly wouldn't touch you with a barge pole. The only bitches you get are down and out transvestites !
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Fat nasty bastard. He looks like he would like porn, who would like to be with that. kEEP WATCHING YOUR PORN AND DAY DREAMING BUDDY. Media has made it acceptable. And sorry, the romance novel bullshit?? Please, keep telling yourself that. Your comments are as gay as you are.
you have got it all wrong i'm blaming me but there are millions like me others take other things''' Its got hooks or it wouldn't be the billion pound industry that it is! watcher beware!!
All the horrible shit crime etc etc in the world first begins in somones heart with a thought and idea... the more you toy with it and play with it the bigger it grows... 'what you feed grows' 'what you starve dies' porn can make some men mentally ill and dangerouus sleazy freaks !! I speak from experience as a recovering porn addict! Its no joke!!
Your right bigcoolviking, everything can become an addiction. I personally approach the situation like this, if you feel your engulfing all your time watching porno or more importantly masturbating. Take lengthy breaks between things just forget about watching any nudity for a week-try it. Delete all the porn from your computer! Dont watch any violence in your vids! We are made to be interested in sexual visuals but dont let those visuals cloud the most important things in your life...
The day I deleted all the porn of my computer is the day the world ends, I would rather die! DIE! I tell you...well not really but I think the point is there... PORN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah. I made some comments on the videos featuring mr carlson talking about the porn industry taking advantage of a hard wire instinct, not caring about the viewers lives it affects for the sake of profit.
Pornography can and usually does hurt your significant other. Even if it does not hurt you personally think about how it is effecting your lover. Basically keep it to a minimum and don't make it known.
Whats wrrong with watching porn? Like anything else too much (of anything) is not good. But the occasional porn whack off...there is nothing wrong with that! If your partner feels threatend by that then one has to address that issue, but really...men are way more visual and women are not. We are just wired that way! dosent mean we dont like who we're with..just means we like women and we want to impregnate them. Ladies who are offended ..let your insecurities go, Hell,half you like porn too!
i like non-nude porn... but i dont think thats considered porn. I guess its soft-core. Saying i like hard-core makes me sound emo or something.... which im not, wait do emo kids jack-off??? im pretty sure im like 90% not-emo.... i dont even know what emo is.... wait what were we talking about?
my favorite site is "asktiava" search for "barbie cummings" shes not really hott but she can take a black dick :O <=====8
No offense to fat-man, romance novels are hardly porn. Lol. Not even mildly. The ancient culture (roman) he was talking about was an opressive society that subjucated other people and slaves as form of entertainment. He's right, there isnt that much difference today in that respect in western culture. Im not impressed by many american therapists and doctors these days-many of them are intellectually lazy and make poor diagnosis'Come on america, stop watching porn and go get laid legit!
.2 It's not that much different with people becoming obese with sugar- we have too much access to it even though we only need so much . At some point we had to work hard and hunt for a little bit for it. Having the instinct and drive doesnt justify the high exposure and easy access. The porn industry takes advantage of this hard-wire urges for a profit, with no regard to the people's health who watches it
1.This sounds more like an excuse to allow men to do whatever is they want unchallenged. Our male ansectors evolved on a high interest of sex and stimuli for the SLIM chance they might be able to procreate before dying (at a young age)- and if they didnt have a high drive to seek sex with nil chances- we wouldnt exist today. Thats where the pyschological satisfaction of " chasing" women comes from.
I like this man's viewpoint on this. A man having an affair is one thing, but watching porn and not hurting his spouse is another. If the woman has an inferiority complex/mental disease, I say she can shut the fuck up and get over it, because that man watching the porn isn't doing jack shit to hurt her. Like he said, he lives with his wife, not with the woman he's watching in a porn movie.
I have a love hate thing with porn,I will say this though it is addictive,like a drug and progressive some can get really fucked up on it.I read that 99% of death row criminals awaiting the chair had vast collections of the stuff.. Inc Ted bundy his last interview with Dr J Dobson... is here on u tube, scary stuff ! Be wary at the end of the day its all pretty false anyway!
Porn doesn't say that. It depends on your tastes. If you're watching a vid where is a dude is throat fucking a girl and pissing on her, then yeah that's what it says about women. But not all porn is like that.
The ones I choose to watch it's a two, sometimes three-way dance. I've never chosen to watch a video where a girl is doing it against her will.
I dated a woman for 4 years and she loved sex all the time but would rarely get into getting a little freaky. She would get mad if I watched porn and masturbated. I eventually got bored with sex with her because it became run of the mill stuff and it got to the point the I couldn't climax during sex with her. It got the the point that I would rather pleasure myself than have boring sex. I never cheated. We eventually grew apart and split up, even though we cared a lot about each other.
Certified clinical hypnotherapist? What is that? Is that like a $5 degree from the internet? What a loser, this guy has probably never been in a health relationship with a woman.
Do your research before making an uninformed statement. Google this to see the requirements - National Board for Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists
Paul is quite possibly the wisest person I've ever known and understands relationships better than any of the psychologists and counselors that I've spoken with.
I'm female, I watch and read porn, just to get ideas on how to spice up the bedroom. My boyfriend and I enjoy watching porn together and I find it very interesting. I'm voyuerstic. Paul seems very wise.
Frankly, I blame men for the emergence of these self-righteous, mother goose, holier than thou, girlfriends & wives from hell. The ones who sweep through his browsing history, cellphone logs, texts history, & pants pockets unapologetically. Granted I don't think having to skulk about watching porno is healthy, I equally don't believe creating an unaccepting/controlling environment is any better.
FitnessGuru1988 2 weeks ago
Particularly on this topic about "cyber cheating" & watching porn, it's seems that there's a disproportionate number of women who have an issue with their bf's, husbands/lovers watching it & I respond to you with a hearty grow up. You can never monopolize someone's eyes or thought's. Whether it's a fleeting look at someone when they're passing by, or lusting over those romantic novels/ hollywood stars, or out right watching porno, you will never monopolize someone's sexual desires... grow up.
FitnessGuru1988 2 weeks ago
well it becomes an issue when the guy watches porn so much that going to every day places every single time you go somewhere you see him checking out other women.(only because he has now developed the thought that every woman is a porn star and wants to sleep whim. Its funny I don't hear you saying that its ok for a guy to eye f*** another woman if they say they only want you but they can't keep their eyes off other women...& its not about ego or insecurity its about respect #imjustsayinshruglol
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 and what would make that situation worse is he is the one who constantly accuses you of cheating or wanting someone else or trying to find someone else address that mr. doc...or what if the guy cant stand to see you masturbate but they masterbate so much that they cant perform in bed and they cant stand to see you watch porn but they watch it more than their favorite shows...which is alot what about the guys who will ignore your sexual need so much that you try to watch porn
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 and they hear it start so they get soooooo jealous that you want to do for yourself what they have failed to do that they come into the room where you are and try to have sex with you but get mad if you tell them you dont want to have sex at the moment. or they start an argument with you so you will feel turned off and not feel aroused at all what would you say about that then mr. expert??? by the way where is your wife, lover or girlfriend have u found one yet at your age?
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 because with those genius thoughts about porn and perhaps why a woman would be offended to have their man watching porn...with the attitude you have as to why a woman would be offended. I would expect you to use your relationship as an example...instead you just said you go with the flow of the tide or some crap which sounds like you're still by yourself to me. shocker...smh I didnt hear
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
@TheDONJDCsQueen112 "my girl/wife/lover and I dealt with it in the past and have come to realize its not a big issue any more" which means that big belly you have is full of pooo & ur full of pooo #haveanicedaysmile
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
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@TheDONJDCsQueen112 "my girl/wife/lover and I dealt with it in the past and have come to realize its not a big issue any more" which means that big belly you have is full of pooo & ur full of pooo #haveanicedaysmile
TheDONJDCsQueen112 1 month ago
You know I watch porn and I'm a girl and no I don't view Harlequlin romances novel as porn, big bald fat guy, you shouldn't be obsessed with it I'm not I watch it occasionsally
devilshomie 7 months ago
i think not 1 woman would be "upset" if her significant other would include her in this "great" fantasy of his… I thought that's the ultimate goal of dreaming/fantasizing - making it a reality?! The problem is that sometimes people suck at communicating and won't say what really turns them on. Plus it's not like you can't imagine all those kinky porn-stars, while you with ur girl/boy lol AS LONG AS U NEVER EVER mention it lol. In that way- both of you r happy, and nobody feels left out.
0119ivanka 9 months ago
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Android480 1 year ago
I watch porn ... mostly just glamour stuff with hot girls. I have a girlfriend of 3 years and she doesn't care if I watch porn in my spare time. She even watches it with and without me sometimes. The only time that I could see her getting mad would be if I sat there on the computer watching it instead of watching a movie with her or something like that.
MetalJMD 1 year ago 4
some women like porn, they just don tell you. but not that hard core, but maybe something still porn but not that hard core you kno
jazsan222 1 year ago
Since watching pornography (for men) is watching a sexy woman get hot and bothered to cause an erection in the viewer, it's almost like watching a girl that he met at the bar get hot and bothered. He may not have feelings for that woman, but it's like he's being unfaithful and fantasizing about having sex with her. How is that okay if the man is in a relationship? How do I get over my insecurities concerning my male partner watching pornography?
tigereyegoldstone 1 year ago
@tigereyegoldstone That IS a typical female insecurity. If your guy is getting off to porn, by definition, he is NOT at a bar looking at some stranger. He was getting off to pixels on a damn screen, for God's sake. It generally has nothing to do with feelings, unless the person is very disturbed anyway. Why do so many women want to control men's minds? Women have a higher overall rate of infidelity and initiating divorces (70% of the time on that). Why don't you all police yourselves?
Lachdenan 1 year ago
Is this guy always this condescending?
kalifire 1 year ago
listen dont think about porn as a contest, think of it as art, the art of the human spirit.
theres alot of it thats not intended for the young at heart, just stic to the soft stuff and youll be allright. theres just too much out there that should not be called porn.
its just somthing elese.
strenghfromwithinXXI 1 year ago
This is gay. I'm 19.5 and I was at my aunt's house and yelled at me for talking about a porno video site with my friend and said I better not have looked at that smut. WTF?! I'm told not to watch porno at my age. Fuck that!
TempusSans 1 year ago
@TempusSans lmao wow
TaylorOnTheMic 1 year ago
actually porn is bad! first of all it makes the mentalities of the viewers to people not as humans, but as sexual objects . That his a HUGE negative impact on society, and mostly youth. cant you see people of my generation getting STDs and prego at such a young age?! next is that sex is not scared anymore, and is degrading to women, because usuallu their dignity is close to nothing when making these films.
loler4eva 1 year ago
@loler4eva
you seem like a conservative bastard. BTW women who do porn are really fucked up and have no dignity at all, they are pure sluts.
curryboy7 1 year ago
@curryboy7 not really.....my friend does porn and she not fucked up
unoriginality1 1 year ago
@unoriginality1
what i mean by fucked up is that they have low standards, and will give up the nappy dugout easily
curryboy7 1 year ago
@curryboy7 oh
unoriginality1 1 year ago
@loler4eva
1- "Sex is not scared anymore"? We're suppose to afraid of sex?
2- "My generation getting STDs and prego at such a young age."...... Last time I checked watching porn had a 0% chance of conception..
3- "is degrading to women" - There is Gonzo porn & soft core porn which are very different & exploitation is everywhere. McDonalds exploits their employees, Gov exploits military, Rich exploit poor, it's always been about haves and have nots so your point is....
FitnessGuru1988 2 weeks ago
@FitnessGuru1988 I obviously meant sacred. Look around you. All you see in billboards ads, everywhere is sexual objectification. mostly towards women. Its disgusting. And so are you.
loler4eva 2 weeks ago
is masturbating to porn 4 times a week an addiction?
miamidolphinfan11 1 year ago
@miamidolphinfan11 No.
60microphonemajesty 1 year ago
i believe that men just make these excuses for woman get pissed at their porn so they dont feel as bad, it means they are looking for better then their girl- you dont see them looking at ugly girl porn do ya... no! if my man is more busy lookin at porn filled with prettier girls then have real sex with me then he can leave and attempt to et one but thats just me...
beleaveinme16 1 year ago
masturbation is literally straight with your male hand on male penis!!! hahaha suckas! frick your beds too cause it gets hard there too foo. hmm...and u know what? u'd like it in male asses ...eh u can't admit it ;( lul
EvilDoerFTW 1 year ago
&----->zr* Thats all I have to say.
FlUdDeStRoYeR94 2 years ago
i'm sorry but this guy is a fucking liar and a scumbag. a woman has every right to be angry if her man is looking a porn and beating off rather than having sex with her. it's abnormal to want to look at pictures and video when there is a living breathing person around to have actual sex with. if a guy does this kind of thing often it means there is something mentally or physically or emotionally wrong with him.
WhiskeytheCowboyCure 2 years ago 6
If this is what you believe you're either an insecure female who knows nothing of men and sexuality in general or you're a male who's sitting on your high horse and has no sense of logic. It's called a fantasy...fantasizing is not cheating. Using your logic is there something wrong with females that watch porn? Or females who fantasize and dream about a male in a romance novel or movie(hint:Twilight). A woman who gets angry over this is just insecure and out of touch with reality and sexuality
Smooth258 2 years ago
Nothing good would hurt so many women. Being a callous asshole and telling them to "get over it" does nothing except highlight your character.
True love doesn't include doing things to hurt your significant other. Nor does it include fantasizing about other people. It's sad you consider this "illogical" when it describes many people's feelings.
eljagg01 2 years ago
Ok, but if men didn't demand pornor made the industry no woman would make porn. Simple as that.
royalsteven 2 years ago
@Smooth258 i totally agree. i see that these women saying ohh if i caught my boyfriend watching another girl cause she is prettier than me. what tha fuck your ass is a whinny little bitch shut up. its just freaking porn. just tell them to hey watch porn another time. that all. some women can be whiiny bitches. thank God im not one of them
jazsan222 1 year ago
Sure some porn stars have bad childhood as excuse to be making porn. But it's still you're choice to whoring yourself. Not everybody goes down that route, not everybody is obsessed with money & sex. Some are just willing to sell their soul for money. Not right.
royalsteven 2 years ago
To you it's "whoring yourself"..to others they just love and embrace sex..it's not a taboo thing to them. It's not always about selling your soul for money..some people are truly skilled and passionate about sex and as such they follow what they love. Doesn't mean there's something wrong with them..they're adults they have a right to choose what makes them happy
Smooth258 2 years ago
Yes, the hundreds or thousands of dollars per scene are not a factor. xD
eljagg01 2 years ago
do women really not like porn???
megajatt 2 years ago
some women like erotica (romance novels) so i think not all women hate porn
raptormonev 2 years ago 3
porn is bad
pokedude750 2 years ago
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SD171 2 years ago
Would you be okay with your daughter being in porn?
eljagg01 2 years ago
i like porn because
1. it makes my sexual experiences more exciting
2. it feels damn goooood!
3. gives me new ideas and positions i can try on my sex partner!
koreadude 2 years ago 5
It has nothing to do with gender differences.
There are plenty of men who are attracted to REAL-looking women and turned OFF by women being used by men.
"Men are OBJECT-oriented"??? That's offensive.
eljagg01 2 years ago
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SD171 2 years ago
Um...I'm a feminist, and I find porn offensive in every way possible, as do many women and men I know. There are millions of people who don't watch it OR make it. :)
eljagg01 2 years ago
porn can have a positve if it is used the right way: it could allow a new position and ways to have sex, a guy could ask his partner that they could do different things to make it interesting and different.
raptormonev 2 years ago
It's sad when PORN is what anyone would go to when they're bored sexually.
eljagg01 2 years ago
The many views..subscribers...and billions of dollars made from porn and sex in general disagrees with you. In fact I watched a documentary on porn recently and it just so happens the most conservative states have the most porn followers...just a bunch of people like yourself who sit on your high horse as if porn isn't just the same thing we do in our bedrooms several times a day except it's on videos/pictures
Smooth258 2 years ago
I'm sorry? How do the profits of the porn industry negate the fact that millions are offended by it and choose not to partake in it?
Actually, some of us don't slap our wives or call them cunts. We don't smear semen on their faces or sodomize them. We are sickened by such things, we don't beat off to them. Implying that the only objections to pornography are religiously-motivated ignores the entirety of what porn actually IS.
eljagg01 2 years ago
The sort of porn he is talking about is A-Ok with me. Also how it is an individual decisions. Or in a partnership a decision between the couple.
ThinkStranger 2 years ago
WOW, this guy says "ok" and "you know" allot.
Andreask93 2 years ago
he is like Mr. Macky on South Park.
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22oktobar 9 months ago
me too!!! I love porn!!!!!! anyone wanna make some with me? f/21/leicester
axionthebat 2 years ago
I will!
bsk06 2 years ago
I love the point at 3:05 like the video game industry, an individual ends up not being able to deal with what they're seeing and instead of taking responsibility, they want to blame the game or video in this topic. It's just like people to want to covere up there flaws by getting rid of the thing that they were not MATURE enough for. If you don't like porn you don't have to watch it but don't speak for people who can't read the damn rating on the box!
clipsryan 2 years ago
porn is very interesting if theres some small stories within it hahahahahaa actually sometimes some porn videos are kinda funny to watch hahahahaahahahaa oh well porn is part of the industry so be it
smartbro678 2 years ago 4
I like the stories too. They show me how to improve my talk with the ladies ^_^
royalsteven 2 years ago
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carren785 2 years ago
i ♥ porn
billybones123123 2 years ago 5
Porn is good but just as he said, if porn becomes an adictin is bad as everything that goes into an adiction.
seanrimada 2 years ago
"Men are object-oriented; it's just the way they are. Women are less so; they're more into feelings."
Way to make idiotic, sexist generalizations. What an asshole.
ioploki 2 years ago 4
he is right in a sense. don't men usually have more fetishes like butt, chest, feet etc? aren't men more visually stimulated?
who reads 500 pages romance novels?
definitely not men.
some stereotypes are true.
truthscavenger 2 years ago
But these differences can (should, I say) be understood as resulting from socialization and conditioning and two of the things that condition us are porn and romance novels, marketed to men and women, respectively. There's no compelling reason to believe that the difference is biological. It's constructed, and this guy is helping to do the constructing.
ioploki 2 years ago
great reply. social conditioning plays a huge role but we cannot neglect the effects of biology.
woman in general aren't as likely to be addicted to digital images of copulation and explicit nudity.
this is the result of the inherent biology as much as the social conditioning.
but your point is very helpful in understanding male insecurities about penis size as much as women are about their chest size and fat content ( aneroxia). it affects both sexes.
truthscavenger 2 years ago
Dont go in general terms, I´m a men and i love reading good stuff, if good stuff means a romantic novel I´m into it.
seanrimada 2 years ago
"But these differences can (should, I say) be understood as resulting from socialization and conditioning..."
You feminists tend to put every blame on men and society! I don't know why, Perhaps you feminist in desperately trying to be equal to men become men like in certain ways. That is why you can see the difference in the biology of women and men. Believe me, men and women are the opposite! Why prostitutes are mainly females and not males? That tells you something!
hamidmushtaq 2 years ago
It tells me that more men than women have to pay someone to sleep with them....
Ivyserpenthelme 2 years ago
Seems like you are just another idiot feminist!
hamidmushtaq 2 years ago
Do you know what's weird about this?
If a girl finds out that a guy doesn't look at porn, doesn't so-call "object" women and does everything that that guy does in her romance novels, he either ends up "gay" (when he's really not), or she will do something on purpose to make him not want to date her anymore because she will feel that she doesn't "deserve" him.
I'm not speaking of all women, just my experience.
Saturn357 2 years ago
it depends like if you watch it 3 hours a day or if you watch it for 15 minutes every couple days. i personally watch it no more than 15-20 minutes every 2 days. or maybe sometimes not at all for a week.
wohoo111 2 years ago
does it mean that i can ask everything and you answer me all???wait i have to ask my girls on ~~lesmeet..com~~wheather they have questions to ask you about.
shayneyoyo 2 years ago
some men shouldnt look at porn at all.
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catfight0 2 years ago
I just dont like when they use 18 year olds that look like 13 year olds, because when i go to the store lots of men stare at me, and I really dont like it.
qafrocks97 3 years ago 21
@qafrocks97 should we all feel sorry for you???? Please let me get my violin; men are and always will be visually stimulated if they're not really directly staring at you disprespectfully then get over it.
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@qafrocks97 should we all feel sorry for you???? Please let me get my violin; men are and always will be visually stimulated if they're not really directly staring at you and disprespectfully then get over it.
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brittodj5 3 years ago
my penis is 3 inches long is it possible to pleasure my gf?
Mok3ys 3 years ago 2
sure, very carfully
befree843 3 years ago
Im sure ive seen this guy in a porn film
ajbarnstormer 3 years ago
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HSMfanatic520 3 years ago
my ex bf cheated on me so im gonna get him back!
afraidtube 3 years ago
Yes such a wise guy with great advice... "get over it"
elvis32z 3 years ago
the last 10 seconds children
ijzer1 3 years ago
this is a wise guy props
ijzer1 3 years ago
porn is the shit!
Grisu69 3 years ago
How does that ugly fat beast know what women want ? lol
joanofnarc 3 years ago
Well judging on what you just said, I can tell you would be quite awkward and dissapointing in bed.
imassbbfan 3 years ago 2
And you are a dim witted little boy, now fuck off and shag your dog !
joanofnarc 3 years ago
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I'm guessing you're gay?
p849 3 years ago
What does being gay have to do with it ? leave you're dick alone and try thinking for a change. Im not gay and you dont have a monopoly over sex ' its usualy acusers like you that are closet homos, so get yourself a man and be true to yourself and stop being a biggot.
joanofnarc 3 years ago 2
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"How does that ugly fat beast know what women want"
Sounds pretty homo to me nigga. I get bitches, lol. I ain't like you, sorry to break it to ya.
p849 3 years ago
Yes but im a woman so I should know' I bet you get ''fuck all'' from the way you speak, I certainly wouldn't touch you with a barge pole. The only bitches you get are down and out transvestites !
joanofnarc 3 years ago
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lol, sure ugly. I wouldn't touch that with another man's penis. Ugly superficial bitches ain't my type. lol
p849 3 years ago
You are a lonely man that pays for sex and thinks that every woman should look and act like a thick porn star, you hate women' even you're mother.
joanofnarc 3 years ago
what's porn?
pierce284 3 years ago
omg how old r u u dnt know what porn is
pukeythe3rd 3 years ago
im just joking dumbshit
pierce284 3 years ago
sure you are...
jugujeegee 3 years ago
2:20-2:40 LOL
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lidopunkhelen 3 years ago
haha "you've allowed it to get out of hand"
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mg03nma 3 years ago 4
lol i only watch porn to have fantasys and cum lol.
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th4inca 3 years ago
there is nothing wrong with porn. you are not hurting anyone with it.
84885214 3 years ago 4
PORN!!!!!!!!*ahem*i mean you are a sinner. :)
fishfishfish333 3 years ago 3
if i jerk off and sneeze at the same time, can i say that i gave myself a blow job?
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ratauruguayo 3 years ago 4
porn is awsome just sux u cant be in the action at the time
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GregMorgan906 3 years ago
Very nice,paul,good explanation
stelderhaiderman 3 years ago
Paul is allways brilliant.
(Best part of the show)
Dan and Jenn still deserve credit for making this show :)
Mangastar 3 years ago 2
nothin wrong with spankin the monkey once in a while
kimbooooooooooo 3 years ago 13
good cunt
lipsynchthis 3 years ago
sweet, im not addicted. just watch it for fun :P
samus323 3 years ago
Porn.... thats all i have to say ^-^
animeisart1 3 years ago
some people will get addicted to anything. i enjoy porn but dont indulge that often.
blossom420 3 years ago
i too am addicted to porn
its ruined my life
i have no more friends
no more girlfriend
and no more job
dont watch porn
nachocheese117 3 years ago
Porn didn't do anything. You just suck at life.
ShortyShortsNet 3 years ago
hahahahaha!!
robem10 3 years ago
Fat nasty bastard. He looks like he would like porn, who would like to be with that. kEEP WATCHING YOUR PORN AND DAY DREAMING BUDDY. Media has made it acceptable. And sorry, the romance novel bullshit?? Please, keep telling yourself that. Your comments are as gay as you are.
ejg626 3 years ago
you have got it all wrong i'm blaming me but there are millions like me others take other things''' Its got hooks or it wouldn't be the billion pound industry that it is! watcher beware!!
bigcoolviking 3 years ago
All the horrible shit crime etc etc in the world first begins in somones heart with a thought and idea... the more you toy with it and play with it the bigger it grows... 'what you feed grows' 'what you starve dies' porn can make some men mentally ill and dangerouus sleazy freaks !! I speak from experience as a recovering porn addict! Its no joke!!
bigcoolviking 3 years ago 2
If you became addicted to porn it wasn't the porn; it was your addictive personality.
Blaming pornography for your troubles is no substitute for thereapy, buddy.
c1arknova 3 years ago
wtf lol i became addicted to porn and it's pretty hard to break off but i didn't and porn is addicted. Fucked up my life i know that. But not much.
OBxSMITHxOB 3 years ago
Your right bigcoolviking, everything can become an addiction. I personally approach the situation like this, if you feel your engulfing all your time watching porno or more importantly masturbating. Take lengthy breaks between things just forget about watching any nudity for a week-try it. Delete all the porn from your computer! Dont watch any violence in your vids! We are made to be interested in sexual visuals but dont let those visuals cloud the most important things in your life...
sa17ma18ra 3 years ago
The day I deleted all the porn of my computer is the day the world ends, I would rather die! DIE! I tell you...well not really but I think the point is there... PORN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Exc414LdR 3 years ago
yeah. I made some comments on the videos featuring mr carlson talking about the porn industry taking advantage of a hard wire instinct, not caring about the viewers lives it affects for the sake of profit.
rosskay 3 years ago
Well, I think the points discusses were dmb, but I'm happy you took the time to adress it.
batain 3 years ago
Right On!!!!!!!!!
kylildj 3 years ago
Porn is comitting adultery. Adultery is a sin... -.-;
StarCraftWhore 3 years ago
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Doooolan 3 years ago
Well your name is a sin cosidering whore is a bad name...and to bad im not into the bible so that sin can go fuck itself.
Ako3000 3 years ago
you are a sin
hellobooom 3 years ago
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Karumii 3 years ago 3
Pornography can and usually does hurt your significant other. Even if it does not hurt you personally think about how it is effecting your lover. Basically keep it to a minimum and don't make it known.
jtwfsu04 3 years ago
Whats wrrong with watching porn? Like anything else too much (of anything) is not good. But the occasional porn whack off...there is nothing wrong with that! If your partner feels threatend by that then one has to address that issue, but really...men are way more visual and women are not. We are just wired that way! dosent mean we dont like who we're with..just means we like women and we want to impregnate them. Ladies who are offended ..let your insecurities go, Hell,half you like porn too!
clashlc 3 years ago 2
i like non-nude porn... but i dont think thats considered porn. I guess its soft-core. Saying i like hard-core makes me sound emo or something.... which im not, wait do emo kids jack-off??? im pretty sure im like 90% not-emo.... i dont even know what emo is.... wait what were we talking about?
my favorite site is "asktiava" search for "barbie cummings" shes not really hott but she can take a black dick :O <=====8
quagmirerocks 3 years ago
No offense to fat-man, romance novels are hardly porn. Lol. Not even mildly. The ancient culture (roman) he was talking about was an opressive society that subjucated other people and slaves as form of entertainment. He's right, there isnt that much difference today in that respect in western culture. Im not impressed by many american therapists and doctors these days-many of them are intellectually lazy and make poor diagnosis'Come on america, stop watching porn and go get laid legit!
rosskay 3 years ago
lamo
sometimes its eazier said than done.
spyco3tard 3 years ago
.2 It's not that much different with people becoming obese with sugar- we have too much access to it even though we only need so much . At some point we had to work hard and hunt for a little bit for it. Having the instinct and drive doesnt justify the high exposure and easy access. The porn industry takes advantage of this hard-wire urges for a profit, with no regard to the people's health who watches it
rosskay 3 years ago
1.This sounds more like an excuse to allow men to do whatever is they want unchallenged. Our male ansectors evolved on a high interest of sex and stimuli for the SLIM chance they might be able to procreate before dying (at a young age)- and if they didnt have a high drive to seek sex with nil chances- we wouldnt exist today. Thats where the pyschological satisfaction of " chasing" women comes from.
rosskay 3 years ago
I like this man's viewpoint on this. A man having an affair is one thing, but watching porn and not hurting his spouse is another. If the woman has an inferiority complex/mental disease, I say she can shut the fuck up and get over it, because that man watching the porn isn't doing jack shit to hurt her. Like he said, he lives with his wife, not with the woman he's watching in a porn movie.
jonnycosma 3 years ago 2
I have a love hate thing with porn,I will say this though it is addictive,like a drug and progressive some can get really fucked up on it.I read that 99% of death row criminals awaiting the chair had vast collections of the stuff.. Inc Ted bundy his last interview with Dr J Dobson... is here on u tube, scary stuff ! Be wary at the end of the day its all pretty false anyway!
bigcoolviking 3 years ago
this is true big cool, im going to this in a minute... watch for my post
rosskay 3 years ago
porn is nasty..
JenniferBonBon 3 years ago
Why do you say that?
lavinder11 3 years ago
Because it's pretty much saying women are just objects and men can treat them like crap....
what's the point of watching people have sex..? I'd rather watch Daily Planet or even Barney and Friends!
JenniferBonBon 3 years ago
Porn doesn't say that. It depends on your tastes. If you're watching a vid where is a dude is throat fucking a girl and pissing on her, then yeah that's what it says about women. But not all porn is like that.
The ones I choose to watch it's a two, sometimes three-way dance. I've never chosen to watch a video where a girl is doing it against her will.
lavinder11 3 years ago
I dated a woman for 4 years and she loved sex all the time but would rarely get into getting a little freaky. She would get mad if I watched porn and masturbated. I eventually got bored with sex with her because it became run of the mill stuff and it got to the point the I couldn't climax during sex with her. It got the the point that I would rather pleasure myself than have boring sex. I never cheated. We eventually grew apart and split up, even though we cared a lot about each other.
jaysirrock 3 years ago 2
hahahaha that's creepy.. o.O
JenniferBonBon 3 years ago
Okay dan and jenn heres a question : how do i get the fucking fly in my room to stop fucking flying around my head ahh god damnit its so annoying
Canttokit 3 years ago
WTF lions haha what a fag
NinersFan69 3 years ago
I'm a female and I like porn.
lavinder11 3 years ago 4
congratz
Canttokit 3 years ago
will you marry me?
6thCreated 3 years ago
me too <33
StarlitSailor 3 years ago
ooo sexy lol jk
but seriously sexy
NinersFan69 3 years ago
Haha, I'm not the marrying kind. ;)
lavinder11 3 years ago
oohh Buddmac....i can honestly say...you got owned even before you wrote that msg...
checking up what was acctualy said woulden't be stupid before posting a lame comment like that...really...
Great work Dan and jennifer, keep it up, alot of people out here or there uses you're vid's as a help / support in theire relationship.
btw...what's that blue liquid in the glasses? just for "good looks"? :P hehe
Peace and Love.
Krostani 3 years ago 3
Certified clinical hypnotherapist? What is that? Is that like a $5 degree from the internet? What a loser, this guy has probably never been in a health relationship with a woman.
Buddmac 3 years ago
Do your research before making an uninformed statement. Google this to see the requirements - National Board for Certified Clinical Hypnotherapists
Paul is quite possibly the wisest person I've ever known and understands relationships better than any of the psychologists and counselors that I've spoken with.
DanAndJenn 3 years ago
I'm female, I watch and read porn, just to get ideas on how to spice up the bedroom. My boyfriend and I enjoy watching porn together and I find it very interesting. I'm voyuerstic. Paul seems very wise.
TsarObezyanka 3 years ago
=o wtf? lucky
If you ever break up with him, call me =(
Mint89674523 3 years ago 4
PWNED IRL!
DuelingOwnage 3 years ago