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  • common david, you could have given him that water

  • Im thinking David just has these losers around so he can make himself look better. He appears to be the alpha and these losers can't see any differently lol

  • No game!!!!!!!! She was practically begging you to take her number and you just walked away! You did all the hard work! Plus, your wingman sucks dude! Might be a good dating coach but can't wing to save his life. lol This video is a disgrace.

  • I don't get it, why didn't he go for the kill?

  • my days when she touched his chest and said the word 'pussy' you know she wants to sit on his face.

  • helpful video sir, i'm good in the talking or at least some girls find me funny/interesting, but i lack the confidence that some other guys have, but they don't have the flaw! lol

  • I have watched this video five times and I agree with david. As soon as the blonde said I win by default, BAM! He should have gotten her number & said I am taking you to dinner. She was totally into the banter and teased him! Tease her back in a playful way! I think he had her.

  • I dont think he could have close her, she was just bitch and wanted to humiliate him ("say I am pussy"). He should have just ignore the whore and focus attention on tall brunette

  • @sasap07 Wow, she was just being playful since her request was denied. You're a bit bitter, lighten up.

  • All so easy when you have the looks.

  • it looks like the girl in the green saw the camera

  • @nnnmmmable 3 of the 4 girls are in green.

  • @BritneySpearsIlove now your trying to be a smart ass you know who i am talking about the leader of the group.

  • wow give up the water. its 99 cents and your buddy couldve gotten a date out of it.

  • i like davids videos because hes funny but also makes good points

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  • David, just wondering. Why didn't you push your student to go back rather than just walk away? If he had gone back and said, "Ok I admit, you seemed dorky at first but I think I want to talk to you again"...or anything. Why just walk away?!

  • IOI 2;07

  • shitty wingman alert!!! All he needed for his way to work was your bottle of water and you shut him down. LOL. jk man, I am learning a lot from your videos. Thanks for putting them on here.

  • He did not "seal the deal"... i woulda taken her back home

  • what is " i want by default" mean?

  • @AtlantiXYL It's "I WON by default"

  • i am smarter. i'd take her number ...

  • He still didn't even pick her up go to the mall with a cell phone n a dream

  • Damn, he could have closed this girl. She was looking for more. But he did good overall if he is new to this.

  • this guy projects a very nice vibe - smiling, light and ego-neutral - which leads to a fun conversation with the group

  • lol reminds me of a herd of wild dogs, the alpha females gets interseted!! lmfao is it a pack of hyenas???

  • She clearly wanted to talk more, When a girl calls you out thts when you have to be on your feet and turn tht negative into a positive make a joke out of it. but he did awesome. but one thing i noticed he kind of forced himself in the group he didnt say hi or anything he was jus like im looking.....

  • She clearly wanted to talk more, When a girl calls you out thts when you have to be on your feet and turn tht negative into a positive make a joke out of it. but he did awesome. but one thing i noticed he kind of forced himself in the group he didnt say hi or anything he was jus like im looking.....

  • Dude, she put her hand on his chest, and was laughing with him - she was amazed he didn't invite her anyway! Then when she realised he couldn't reframe to close, "I won by dfault"... and he didn't take her... she called him out for being a pussy... good on him for making the effort... and thanks for sharing!

  • @trentbelasco1 Even though she called him a pussy, he didn't fail. He could've still asked her out, 'cuz they were still just playing and flirting. 

  • say "I'm a pussy" lol if david is the dating couch, then why didnt he pick the girls up himself?

  • i@NMHAJA i am a coach not a couch:)

    Check out how you wrote your statement.

    Couches are for sitting and relaxing:)

  • @DavidWygant Sry i ment "coach" not a big deal. so why dont u show us hhow YOU pick up girls instead?

  • @DavidWygant typo kid,you still did not answer it,but ok that aint a problem,but why did you not help him to close those whores?

  • @TheSUBGAMER why would a coach help him close those whores. A coach is a teacher and your suppose to learn and choose what you learn he's sitting back and watching his students do what he taught and he is proud of it.

  • @nnnmmmable noup he is a just a retard

  • I can't believe he didn't realize she wanted him at the end...it was so obvious

  • @DavidWygant Dave you created a turning point in many peoples lives... not only in light of engaging with women, your principles can be applied to anything from meeting friends to finding a job... I have nothing but respect for what you do. Clearly you do it because you are passoinate, anyone who can even consider this to be in anyway a money-grab is "living inside their head" and let jealosy and negativity rule their lives going against what you teach

  • you know what ur talking about man. these videos are great

  • Keep up these video.. Just free advice... be patient with those who supply it but be careful of those who sell it... take it for what it is

  • life is much more fun in downtown , here in city suburbs everybody is about work work and work , women out here r pussies, they just dont care abt men

  • WHY DID HE EXCLUDE the BRUNETTE in the green?

    She was looking at him all pissed off, he may not have been attracted to her but that was really rude of him i think.

  • @SkinnyGirl125 It wasn't that he consciously excluded her so much as she didn't participate. Why try to forcefully include every friend in the group? Then you're trying too hard and being fake.

  • Iam approaching topmodels only and i fuckclose always.

    btw adriana didnt marry me caus I had too strong personality. But I give her a fuck from time to time. But besides that, were only good friends. not hot enough for relationsship!

  • Hey dig the dude in the Patriots Shirt! It's Tom Brady's world. We're just living in it.

  • TO WHO EVER WAS THE GUY WITH THE EXTRA WATER it wasn't a throwing under the bus it was a fucking cock block bro!!! Remember the bro code dude bros before hos dog, worst bro ever

  • He didn't even N-close! This wasn't really a pick-up video, all he did was maintain conversation and pass a shit test..

  • @Jackie04331w

    geek

  • This is really great.. more such videos please.. loved the in-field video followed by the break-down

  • @DavidWygant

    Man, I cann not begin to tell you how some folks like you kick so much arse. Thank heavens for your videos, otherwise I would not have become laid.

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  • it only works if you're good looking

  • Loving the music man :D

  • @DavidWygant Fuck the haters ive been watching your vids for like 3 weeks and every time i go to the mall i get at least 3 phone numbers your like a you tube cupid im very greatfull.

  • not very strong

  • I literally gave a standing ovation at the end of 2:20

    that guys confidence was exactly where it needed to be!

  • Damn all he had to do at the end was say something like "I gotta go but you seem like a pretty fun chick. How about you give me your number so I can beat you at a jumping castle duel sometime" lol

  • dude 1:53 he said its for his wife and then David says he bought it for his girlfriend... Gotta keep the same story~ woman hate liars

  • man you make it so easy!!!!! great stuff

  • Ima try some of these tips out right when i see my crush around~!

  • David,

    at the end of their little encounter you said he could've closed and asked for (or rather taken) the blond girl's number. My question is what if he wanted one of the other girls' number instead? To me it seems like the end of their convo was the make-or-break point between him and the group. but then again i believe that confidence and creativity can make a way to your desired result.

    wat da dealie, yo?

    --Nel

  • great vid!

  • This was a great video, you've really put me in positive mood.

    Only thing stopping me from approaching women is my ridiculous height (6'6")..any opinion?

  • The brunette is the cutest one of the group. Too bad she doesn't take the bait. :(

  • If Im not guessing totaly wrong, or atleast in my opinion if I was in that situation, I'd wanted to have the blond with the purple dress :P

  • "is that a pickup line" lolz.....owned!

  • If you would have given him your bottle of water, he easily would have sealed the deal. It just shook him and he didnt recover..

  • Hehe!! He hase a Jana wather - its best Croatian wather :))

  • That girl was bitchy, but she was into it. (it was 3rd grade play ground shit.) Why didn't you give him the water, David? You could have bought another one.

  • Suspense, keep the woman wanting, as long as its not soooo till she completely loses interest

  • the girl says:

    Is that a pickup line?

    now you have to say i'm a p*y

    these are reasons I'd rather have a dog than waste time with caustic women. i wouldn't want anything to do with those kind of women. the poor guy was really trashed by that girl. it's amazing how the guy handled it so well. i like Davids ideas, but i disagree on this case... The guy did the right thing by not pursuing the girl. I would have wanted out of there in a hurry. ... you have to say i'm a p*y... that's bs. unbelievable

  • Some chicks play around and challenge a guy like that, she was just playing

  • that guy did good, those girls gave him a rough time, and most would crumble

  • again again and again yes sir

  • that guy was good even though he didn't get her number he was good, but umm man she was hot he could of total got her man

  • he should have definitely closed her. she was really into him... i was cringing as he walked away i think he saw it and got nervous but dave should ve definitely gave him the water as his wingman great example though thanx for the post!

  • dude looks like jeff probst younger brother

    what if she would have gave a thumb's down behind his back?

  • This was a Great video except the small skinny dude looked like a 47 yr old steve carell with greasy hair lady gaga wears glasses to hide her donkey nose. blonde girl tried testing him kino high five

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  • I am good looking, tall, clever. however i always have trouble in approaching women because i am afraid that they are going to reject me, or the are going to find me boring. how can i change this, i am very keen to learn.

    thanks

  • hey, i didnt see you mention you were confident, now when your afraid subconsciously you WILL portray that to the girl and its a turn off now girls will not find a clever guy boring keep koming up with things to say engage her as fr ur fear of rejection tell urself this if she rejects 'o well' n 'her loss' for better practice hit on girls less attractive than wat ud wanna go for learn to talk engage etc. when u feel comfortable n confident step up to mor atrctiv girls plain n simple

    cheers

  • thanks man.

  • welcome, n good luck

  • @dusterfiend73 you make good points...but you're fucking spelling & grammar is undecipherable.

  • what are you afraid of? what's the worst thing that can happen? why do you think you are boring? basically, do things you like and have fun doing, enjoy yourself, relax, and you will be sexy and interesting. xo

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  • Why didn't your friend ask for her number? Was he not that into her later on?

  • His frame went to shit after putting the bottle of water in the bet. Bad shit tests from here & called him a pussy -WOW. Hes nervous laughed just added to her congruence test. ("Jester is dead-Jester is dead)

    Props though! for the crash & burn. (good clip)

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  • Its important to learn how to seal the deal without your friends help.

    this was not the reason why he did not close.

    look again at the video.

  • @DavidWygant, i love the way you're commenting on these comments and calling these guys out. Keep it up. Makes reading the comments more entertaining. (Glad to hear that guy wasn't a client, since you threw him under the bus. Did he get the girls number that day?)

  • @DavidWygant the girl seems to be really interested

    but why didnt he ask her out?

  • @DavidWygant thanks a lot. Ive been studying attraction and I think this video might have brought me to a new level. I love you man.

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  • watchin your vids and hearing you talk about this gives me confidence...like i seriously right now want to go out and try this... and i think i will actually lol...thanks man keep makin vids dude.

  • The audacity to believe delusions of grandeur even though you know its dangerous and you know you shouldnt. You convey a bravado that represents these beliefs. A bravado easily recognized by most women. Bravado modeled after famous actors who are known to be debonair. So that she can stereotype you and react according to the way she stereotyped you.

  • well put...women have a sort of barometer. It helps greatly when they recognize a certain thing about you that resembles a characteristic of someone most women are attracted to; a movie star, rock star etc. Not necessarily looks, but some sort of common appeal that is recognizable as all-around attractive. Never can say it enough...your attitude and demeanor is everything! You have that under control and you're golden.

  • The audacity to believe: •You are worthy of what you want •You are smart •You are good looking •You are prepared •They want your approval •They want whatever you have to offer •You are too good an offer for them to refuse •You wont crumble under pressure •You are resilient against whatever attack meets your way •You know whats going on
  • Do women make it easier on better looking men? Are they more tolerant when these men behave in cowardly ways? Do these men feel any pressure to impress these women considering they know how much intolerant behavior they can get away with?

  • The ability to improvise under pressure is what is most important about doing this. So many fears run through your mind and choke your ability to think of an appropriate way to behave. Your mind and body begs for relief and forces you to think of a way out.

    While this happens, windows of opportunities close and you slowly begin to believe you compromised the mission. So after that you feel pressured to recover.

  • Do women respect the courage it takes for a man to approach them? Do they understand how dangerous it is for a man to do it? Or are they so self-absorbed they are only concerned about there own well-being?

  • Pause at 0.28

    Should have gone for her

  • he definitely had a great aproach, but how did he seal the deal? he could have had other options like if you win i'll buy you lunch or somethin.

  • It's easy to critisize but difficult to lead others. Keep up the good work!

  • Don't have to worry about these people David.

    Your videos are really great and creates a genuine enthusiam in all of us supporters.

    Keep spreading your work, because it motivates a lot of people i know too.

    Good Video as always ^^

  • MaddogQ- you need to grow some real balls someday not youtube balls, i mean real man balls.

  • simplyalif- wtf is sets? are you out of your mind LOL

  • This is real pick up, if the guy understood a little more i.e calibration he would have know it was time to close. Oh well there's a million more sets lefts

  • Fierysasuke- are you ok? clam down dude.

  • This is too awesome, but im so tired of these stupid youtube flamers have nothin better to do lol, u Keep shinin David and keep these Videos comin cuz there makin a HUGE DIFFERENT,

    When people hate, thats when u know ur doin good

  • I love the haters.

    As Howard Stern always says as long as you can create an emotion in people whether good or bad you are doing a great job.

    Check out the comment above from MadDogQ.

    Love it......Someone who has never met me has the balls to call me out online.

    The internet is fun.

  • hey david, please do not fight with him. Let us, your fans, do the talking. I'm pretty sure he's one of those guys who thinks he knows game, but really, he's nothing but a loser.

    maybe he's got game with his sister, that's all. lol ahahahah

  • Haha i like how u look at things, u have fun while some people on the internet Hate at the same time

    E-rage LOL

  • Drunken trolling. Apologies.

  • true. ;D

  • I'm a man of wealth and taste!!!!

  • And btw....some of you guys here are just fuckin morons! You over complicate this shit, keep it simple like David was saying.

  • This is by far the most amazing DW video I have ever seen so keep em coming big guy!!!

  • Good advice as always,. Thanx!

  • If .... dmny214 Here's some advice for "how to seal the deal in a street approach" If we as men don't play head games, IF we r honest from the beginning. IF we try to become what we r looking for BEFORE we waist other peoples energy... Geez... .... If, if, if ... Guess IF HE WANTED IT holds no substance. David played a card, they called BULLSHIT. No If's and's or BUTTZ about it.

    Now David owes ME some H20. lol

    These r intelligent decent Ladies, it was never in question. Nuff said. Peace

  • I love you Oscar

  • Surfer girl- i get it. you guys were not interested in him, but started to get interested, I wonder where it could have taken if one of you exchanged number with that guy. Sometimes when a woman says she isn't into him, its funny weeks later she is in love with the same guy. This is got to be one of my favorite DW video, we have some real people here with real comments.

  • Furthermore, a woman is never going to see a video of herself where she is having a fun interaction with a guy, and publicly announce to the world that she wants to have his babies. Even if your story is true, OF COURSE her response would be that she wasn't into the guy.

    I hope you don't buy into everything you hear hook, line, and sinker... especially when it comes to women. :O)

  • As a woman watching this video, David's comments look spot on to me. The women he said were not interested, I would agree definitely weren't...and the "main woman" who wanted the bottle of water clearly was. I don't believe for a second the commenter who claims to know the women in the video. I just moved to LA in the last couple months, and I could tell you that was the Abbot Kinney street fair -- not very compelling evidence...

  • His approach was interesting, she was not interested. He offered H20. The girls AND their familia's are friends of mine lawgirl1023. That is the ONLY reason I KNOW.

  • Let me put myself in the girl's shoes for a minute.

    Would I talk to a guy for several minutes, follow him to a jumping castle, proceed in an activity and "duel" a complete stranger where winning and losing is extremely unclear, in the hopes of receiving a bottle of water? OR pay less than $2 for a bottle of water in half the time because clearly I was so thirsty that I want a bottle of water that badly.

    Are you serious? She was into him enough to stick around because he was fun.

  • that is our friend Oscar. I surf with him. I love how all of you think it isn't really us. Classic.

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  • Clearly blueosgt has it in for David... no reason to turn things negative like that. Especially since David never claims that the guy "sealed the deal". At the end of the video he mentions the exact point when he SHOULD have sealed the deal and gotten her info... because she was clearly interested!

  • great video david. put up more live approaches!

  • blueosgt- now if you had the balls like this guy did on the video then you wouldn't be criticizing instead show some appreciation, you make me chuckle with your comments.

  • After doing some research.

    I have found that the women who claim to be in this video and the so called friend is bullshit.

    You gotta love You Tube and the internet.

    It seems one of my competitors is having fun.

    Anyone who lives in LA knows this is the Abbott Kinney Street fair.

    And blueosgt.

    If you really watched the video you would see how I critiqued the guy who approached and told him to listen.

    You just slam the video without really watching what was said.

    You tube is getting fun again!!

  • Look, I don't know you David. It was obvious from previous posts your name is David.I don't have it out for you or your friends nor do I understand the idea you guys have some competitors ...... You did some research ??? Check this, a friend of there's came up on this randomly and let one of the girls know about it. I saw the link she posted and laughed this morning... Plain n simple ... Thank you for the innocent laugh. I wouldn't care about this vid if my friends weren't in this.

  • david my name is shannon leavey. facebook me. we're not bullshit.  that is us clowning you in the video though.

  • Oh and DAVID, I know both those girls and we ALL have been laughing about your misinterpretations. That was shot at the Abbott Kinney Fest, It is a given that anyone can approach ANYONE but to "seal the deal "you gotta have something ....You fall short ,you need to learn the skill of LISTENING ! Thanks for a few minutes of laughter at your expense !

  • Blueosgt--instead of sitting behind your keyboard why don't you do a few in-field approaches on camera!

  • I didn't critique the hand-held camera work rollecd. I critiqued the false assumption that they were into the guy.

  • btw they make it clear they are on a mission for a bottle of water. THAT is their sole interest not Mr awkward. They called him a pussy for not producing. This is a classic !

  • These girls are politely clowning you from the beginning to the end. . They CLOWNED you and YOU thinking they were interested in you makes you that much more clueless. Those girls are confident, pleasant and polite and the only thing you sealed was your awkwardness. If you approach someone you like then be honest. Check yourself before you wreck yourself...

  • Oh, BTW - amazing sound and video quality. Keep it up, David!

  • I can't believe it but the blond was attracted - she wanted a high five and touched the guys chest.

  • This video was almost hard for me to watch. I thought for sure that David was going to have quite a few criticisms of his interaction and was surprised to hear David say nothing bad about it.

    I think it demonstrates how easy it is to just talk to a group of girls or just people in general while out in public. However, he was not being attractive at all to the girls. In fact at some points he looked scared and unfriendly.

    I'm glad the girls in the video confirmed my instinct.

  • indeed. no one was into him. we are just friendly and like to have fun. not to mention my friend was extremely thirsty and we had been looking for water for like 1/2 hour.

  • Hey, this really is the blonde girl from the video. You guys were nice and funny and I think it would be a good way to pick up chicks but, seal the deal? I think the lingo is not the best. You didn't even get my name let alone my number. We really were on a mission to get h20 when we bumped into you guys. Sorry to call u out, but I saw this video and I was like these guys are clueless!

  • what month was the festival?

    not buying it quit yet..

  • very nice glasses david, just bought ur 20 ways to meet hotter women, LOVE IT, as well as the men mastery series LOVE THAT ONE ALSO, LOVED THE JOEI BOOM BOT IMPRESSION

  • Bullshit! You'd need to know David's name in order for you to be able to find this video and his name never came up. Get a life.

  • Thanks Nathanial

    They know my name. The competition is just trying to play games.

  • If u don't have paperwork on something don't call it, makes you the fool.

    I live a full n complete life NathanielFaunce..

    Know of what u speak before assuming

    Welcome to VENICE!

    El Sargento Azul,

    Oscar

  • That was a wicked laugh at 0:43. A wicked witch laugh.

  • that is my friend Karoly. she is a bit of a witch. beware!

  • The proof is definitely in the video... she seemed into him, boyfriend or not. And that's ok! Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you're NEVER going to be attracted to other people.

  • totally agree with willblankownsyou

    being in a relationship doesn't mean anything, you can still be attracted to other people. And that's entirely OK because we are mortals.

  • I'm the dude in the video, and I can say that the approach wasn't about "picking up" the girls it was about demonstrating how easily it is to begin a conversation, and hold their interest, when the only outcome in mind is fun. They were friendly, so I was friendly back.

  • it was the abbott kinney festival. so whatever day that was. do you know tyler critelli? he's who posted it to my page.

  • No he must be on my list or one of my facebook followers

    I have to say that you could teach the boys a thing or two about how to flirt.

    I appreciate the comments. And I think men and women can learn a lot about how to flirt by watching this interaction.

  • Its funny but this is the 3rd video that one of the women who was in the video made a comment.

    Just thought this was really funny.......how someone can find the video.

    Anyway if this is really the woman in the video what was the date of the street fair?

  • Hey this is the blonde from the video.... Hate to break it to you but I have a boyfriend and I was not attracted to the guy that was "hitting" on me. I really did just want to water. Sorry guys but you definitely did not seal the deal. You were funny tho, so props for that!

  • UUUUUM. I am the tall brunette in this video and the girl you thought you were sealing the deal with has a boyfriend. Nice try. Have no clue how my friend found this, but they just posted it on my facebook. LOVE it.

  • he's probably just a loser and probably taking notes in his head wondering "how does he do it?"

  • David, thanx for all the videos.. I learned a lot... now I find that picking up girls in the libraries are more easier than in the clubs xD

  • This was obviously staged.

  • No it was it not. It just never happens to you so you make an assumption based on your own fears.

  • @ DavidWygant

    I don't get live approached by a guy who's trying to pick me up while I'm hanging out with friends?

    You're right... I don't. lol

  • a direct approach is greate, and the location can be everywhere.

    But there is one thing you muste have, and that is motivation.

  • He goes into alot more detail of a breakdown of this video on his membership site. He'll pause the video and explain everything. He called this approach "Textbook perfect"

  • tha fuck is up with that pussy?

  • you finally fixed the intro "relationships".

    good video.

  • What a dick move. Just give up the $3 bottle of water.

  • Good point, when she was laughing, he coulda said, "yeah yeah, i gave you that one, "

  • y didnt you give him the bottle of water!?

    talk about being a good wing!

  • I think at the end of the day it is important to not be scared of women. This video shows that clearly.

    Dont wait for them to come to you because only the sluts do that lol