lmao ok so what happends if u wait.. and then u get married and the sex is horrible? then ur stuck with bad sex for the rest of ur life?! hahaha i dont think so. Mark Gungor i love ur comedy but i dont agree with this. I could understand if u have less sex, always keep him wanting more. make it last... but not having any at all is a death sentence hahaha
sex is only natural but if a man really loves you, make him wait if he is worth it. don't let sex become the most important thing, he will stay with you until marriage and after if he's love for you is real and he will admire a woman if he see's your not easy and have respect :)
I met my husband almost 11 years ago. We lived together for almost 5 years before we got married. I love him even more now than I did when we started sleeping together. BUT I admit that I am quite lucky and he is a unique man.
Oh my dear goddess! This man has opened up my eyes. If everyone stops having sex completely the human race will be saved! No more hate or fear because.. oh wait we'll die out.
Well, I understand his point sort of, but he didn't really explain why. What is it that is damaging about pre-marrital sex? Hoe does it affect two unwed people's emotions, or whatever?
@lnsertCleverName well, I'll try to explain: the biochemical function of sexual intercourse (not necessarilly an orgasm) in the brain of a woman is to secrete oxytocin. When secreted in breastfeeding it is the essence of maternal bond to the child. Also makes the contraction of the womb, as one can explore during an orgasm. It is the reason of sex-induced delivery. Oxytocin does bind woman also to every sexual partner. With every next partner the binding ability fades, thus the sex is less enjoy
@shimeyster Nice. Sounds scientific. Unfortunately, it is a little bit against research of sexuality, which shows increase of sexual pleasure in elderly women (30-40) and my friend which is studying biochemistry smiled really ironically when I asked him about habituation to oxytocin - this kind of habituation has not been found and even if it would be found, it highly probably wouldn't be connected with sexual partners, but with absolute number of sexual intercourse
@shimeyster add: besides, effect of oxytocin which is caused by new sexual/life partner is not permanent, it works for max. four years (up to seven, if child is born) and it is most intensive during first half year (up to max. 1,5 year). Therefor even if women stays with her first sexual partner for rest of her life, this effect vanishes. Other, different, partner is only way how to cause this effect again, actually. Sorry, monogamy is not natural and human nature is not monogamous.
@Sirien0neiriS the oxytocin does bond a) woman to her sexual partner, b)mother to her breastfeader. thats a fact. numerously supported with rats studies, or behavioral studies. The second part is just my theory how could be explained what he says. I am not setting myself to a position of a scientist, or such authority.
@Sirien0neiriS Although I have a bit of an insight due to my studies of neurophysiology, anatomy, biochemistry and I highly doubt that you can prove the oxytocin bond to a sex. partner fades in certain amount of a time. First your state is a would/wouldnt base, suddenly you jump in a conclusion, that monogamy is not natural? because you unspeculate my speculation? wow. Best prove is the trauma of children from broken families. as simple as that. I ll rather stick with the Manual.
@shimeyster Oxytocin is far away of being only significant factor in relationship bonding / sexual or other attraction between partners. I simplified my answer because of charecter limitation on YT. Bond between partners (sexual or other) is three or seven years (more reasons for it), than it fades significantly and brain become to be ready for bonding to new partner (impossible with old one). I hate those short answers, I can not even give source links inside. Whatever.
@Sirien0neiriS shit, four or seven years, sorry. Wild bio/chemical attraction is between half year and year, than (sometimes, more often when child is conceived) different type of bond continues for next four years or for next seven years, if second child is born. With third child, no more prolonging has been noticed. Of course, this kind of bonds are not the only one and many relationships works for decades on other foundations.
@bigun89 Hm. Cool. I hope that absence of sex with that girl for some time is divorce, because otherwise, I'm pretty sure, that I have serious problem, polygamy is not quite legal in my country... well, actually, it is interesting problem, because if there is no divorce, than I have more wives, but each of them has many husbands...
Wow. Now I finally understand what it is, that famous "Christian love" and "love thy neighbor", that is so fucking cool...
@bigun89 I'm afraid that this has nothing to do with my (mental) age - those kind of ideas are simply so ridiculous that I have to laugh to them - only other option is to cry permanently. And, btw., my post is basically just direct conclusion of my life after accepting your claim. If you have ideas which are not compatible with reality, it is not really my problem, is it?
@Sirien0neiriS Then why (I got to ask) are you watching this? If you have no interest in Christianity or the sanctity of how we view marriage, then why are you even here watching this. Something must have interested you, or your just trolling. Either way, I'm done replying.
@bigun89 About four years ago I found some videos from this guy, which was quite good (about differences between mens and womens brains and thinking). Then I found, that he is far away from being reasonable, as he seamed to be in those first videos. Though, I bookmarked his channel before and ignored it later. Now in the new YT layout, channels become more visible, so I looked on this video, may be that I simply wanted to see, if something changed. That's basically all.
@BLaSt911 Creo que te has equivocado y me respondiste algo que era para otro. Yo solo pedí que si podía alguien poner leyenda en español en el video ya que no entiendo el ingle y me interesa mucho saber que dice ya que he visto otros video de el en español y me gusta mucho lo que dice. Muchas gracias por estas atento a responder
Every study shows that premarital sex makes it far more likely that you'll divorce. Having sex will blind you to the person's faults, & you'll rush in to marry foolishly. This is all he's trying to say.
@jimmmmie First of all, don't bitch about studies witch you haven't even read, if you have read them you should have known that they are correlational not causal, being ignorant does not fucking excuse you. Second, having sex before/after has nothing to do to whether you are stupid and how stupid are you, on the other hand if you are indeed "stupid" you have a bigger chance to screw up (or have a great marriage in some cases) your marriage anyway... and fuck statistics, stories have 2 sides. :)
This is really stupid video....i like you channel,but i dont think sex will make you stupid....its like..... All the people that died,breathe few seconds before death.....So,the conclusion is,Breathing will actually kill you.Dont breath..
@corpus26 Some nonsense about imprinting of first sexual partner into the girls brain (lame attempt for defending virginity until marriage) and some stupidity about masturbation. I studied psychology for a while and those articles really hurt. It's long time ago, at least three years now...
lmao ok so what happends if u wait.. and then u get married and the sex is horrible? then ur stuck with bad sex for the rest of ur life?! hahaha i dont think so. Mark Gungor i love ur comedy but i dont agree with this. I could understand if u have less sex, always keep him wanting more. make it last... but not having any at all is a death sentence hahaha
Sambeauch 1 week ago
i call bullshit!
TheMagnificentPony 2 weeks ago
sex is only natural but if a man really loves you, make him wait if he is worth it. don't let sex become the most important thing, he will stay with you until marriage and after if he's love for you is real and he will admire a woman if he see's your not easy and have respect :)
piaybackjunkie17 3 weeks ago 2
I met my husband almost 11 years ago. We lived together for almost 5 years before we got married. I love him even more now than I did when we started sleeping together. BUT I admit that I am quite lucky and he is a unique man.
ferrous719 1 month ago
@ferrous719 tahts sweet :3
TheMagnificentPony 2 weeks ago
Oh my dear goddess! This man has opened up my eyes. If everyone stops having sex completely the human race will be saved! No more hate or fear because.. oh wait we'll die out.
LPZeroEnna 1 month ago
Well, I understand his point sort of, but he didn't really explain why. What is it that is damaging about pre-marrital sex? Hoe does it affect two unwed people's emotions, or whatever?
lnsertCleverName 1 month ago
@lnsertCleverName well, I'll try to explain: the biochemical function of sexual intercourse (not necessarilly an orgasm) in the brain of a woman is to secrete oxytocin. When secreted in breastfeeding it is the essence of maternal bond to the child. Also makes the contraction of the womb, as one can explore during an orgasm. It is the reason of sex-induced delivery. Oxytocin does bind woman also to every sexual partner. With every next partner the binding ability fades, thus the sex is less enjoy
shimeyster 1 month ago
@shimeyster Nice. Sounds scientific. Unfortunately, it is a little bit against research of sexuality, which shows increase of sexual pleasure in elderly women (30-40) and my friend which is studying biochemistry smiled really ironically when I asked him about habituation to oxytocin - this kind of habituation has not been found and even if it would be found, it highly probably wouldn't be connected with sexual partners, but with absolute number of sexual intercourse
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@shimeyster add: besides, effect of oxytocin which is caused by new sexual/life partner is not permanent, it works for max. four years (up to seven, if child is born) and it is most intensive during first half year (up to max. 1,5 year). Therefor even if women stays with her first sexual partner for rest of her life, this effect vanishes. Other, different, partner is only way how to cause this effect again, actually. Sorry, monogamy is not natural and human nature is not monogamous.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS the oxytocin does bond a) woman to her sexual partner, b)mother to her breastfeader. thats a fact. numerously supported with rats studies, or behavioral studies. The second part is just my theory how could be explained what he says. I am not setting myself to a position of a scientist, or such authority.
shimeyster 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS Although I have a bit of an insight due to my studies of neurophysiology, anatomy, biochemistry and I highly doubt that you can prove the oxytocin bond to a sex. partner fades in certain amount of a time. First your state is a would/wouldnt base, suddenly you jump in a conclusion, that monogamy is not natural? because you unspeculate my speculation? wow. Best prove is the trauma of children from broken families. as simple as that. I ll rather stick with the Manual.
shimeyster 1 month ago
@shimeyster Oxytocin is far away of being only significant factor in relationship bonding / sexual or other attraction between partners. I simplified my answer because of charecter limitation on YT. Bond between partners (sexual or other) is three or seven years (more reasons for it), than it fades significantly and brain become to be ready for bonding to new partner (impossible with old one). I hate those short answers, I can not even give source links inside. Whatever.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS shit, four or seven years, sorry. Wild bio/chemical attraction is between half year and year, than (sometimes, more often when child is conceived) different type of bond continues for next four years or for next seven years, if second child is born. With third child, no more prolonging has been noticed. Of course, this kind of bonds are not the only one and many relationships works for decades on other foundations.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
Sex before marriage is "marriage" before marriage.
bigun89 1 month ago
@bigun89 Hm. Cool. I hope that absence of sex with that girl for some time is divorce, because otherwise, I'm pretty sure, that I have serious problem, polygamy is not quite legal in my country... well, actually, it is interesting problem, because if there is no divorce, than I have more wives, but each of them has many husbands...
Wow. Now I finally understand what it is, that famous "Christian love" and "love thy neighbor", that is so fucking cool...
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS Grow up... please.
bigun89 1 month ago
@bigun89 I'm afraid that this has nothing to do with my (mental) age - those kind of ideas are simply so ridiculous that I have to laugh to them - only other option is to cry permanently. And, btw., my post is basically just direct conclusion of my life after accepting your claim. If you have ideas which are not compatible with reality, it is not really my problem, is it?
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS Then why (I got to ask) are you watching this? If you have no interest in Christianity or the sanctity of how we view marriage, then why are you even here watching this. Something must have interested you, or your just trolling. Either way, I'm done replying.
bigun89 1 month ago
@bigun89 About four years ago I found some videos from this guy, which was quite good (about differences between mens and womens brains and thinking). Then I found, that he is far away from being reasonable, as he seamed to be in those first videos. Though, I bookmarked his channel before and ignored it later. Now in the new YT layout, channels become more visible, so I looked on this video, may be that I simply wanted to see, if something changed. That's basically all.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
me gustaria que vinieran traducidos al español. Gracias
ZILEAC 1 month ago
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BLaSt911 1 month ago
@BLaSt911 Creo que te has equivocado y me respondiste algo que era para otro. Yo solo pedí que si podía alguien poner leyenda en español en el video ya que no entiendo el ingle y me interesa mucho saber que dice ya que he visto otros video de el en español y me gusta mucho lo que dice. Muchas gracias por estas atento a responder
ZILEAC 1 month ago
@ZILEAC I replied to the wrong person. Sorry.
BLaSt911 1 month ago
@BLaSt911 No hay problema. Feliz año
ZILEAC 1 month ago
Every study shows that premarital sex makes it far more likely that you'll divorce. Having sex will blind you to the person's faults, & you'll rush in to marry foolishly. This is all he's trying to say.
jimmmmie 1 month ago 18
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@jimmmmie Not necessarily. If that's the case, falling in love will make you stupid. Because the HEART will blind you to the person's faults.
BLaSt911 1 month ago
@jimmmmie First of all, don't bitch about studies witch you haven't even read, if you have read them you should have known that they are correlational not causal, being ignorant does not fucking excuse you. Second, having sex before/after has nothing to do to whether you are stupid and how stupid are you, on the other hand if you are indeed "stupid" you have a bigger chance to screw up (or have a great marriage in some cases) your marriage anyway... and fuck statistics, stories have 2 sides. :)
damcevskigoran 1 month ago
This is really stupid video....i like you channel,but i dont think sex will make you stupid....its like..... All the people that died,breathe few seconds before death.....So,the conclusion is,Breathing will actually kill you.Dont breath..
matrixak 1 month ago
Sex before marriage makes you stupid indeed lol
kemuael 1 month ago 12
The worst thing is, that when I saw first video from this guy, I liked him, he seemed reasonable.
Than I read something on his blog and... he's just another crazy zealot.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS I'm really interesting what was it that you read. I also like his reasonable ideas, but something seems off to me.
corpus26 1 month ago
@corpus26 Some nonsense about imprinting of first sexual partner into the girls brain (lame attempt for defending virginity until marriage) and some stupidity about masturbation. I studied psychology for a while and those articles really hurt. It's long time ago, at least three years now...
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
@Sirien0neiriS I'm looking for his blog now, which post exactly are you talking about?
lnsertCleverName 1 month ago
@lnsertCleverName I'm sorry, apparently, I make a mistake. My answer to "corpus26" was meant for you.
Sirien0neiriS 1 month ago
first
mrk1ng741 1 month ago