VLOG: WHY IS IT OK FOR WOMEN TO BE PROVOCATIVE, BUT NOT TRANNIES? & other random rambling.

[sliphorns]

You are doing great! Learn to ignore the people who slut you. You are who you are, not what words say........OK?

Best wishes, Sonia

[MyManekiNekoCat]

your super girl .... fook what they think and say (^:^)

[HottieJill4U]

Hey Babe, you can be a slut with me as much as you want. You're gorgeous. I want you to fuck me.

[SuperJerkofalltrades]

it's probably the ugly trannys that are complaining. and whoever complains is just jealous.. now show me your ass baby!!!!!

[dabeaner12345]

She's trans!? wow she's the most beautiful girl i ever seen

[metalhedmat1]

you are beautiful wear what ever you want . i am transexual too and i make sexy videos i don't care what anybody thinks . i think the same as you ur not a slut you are just like any other hot girl who is sexy . show it off

[1C9J9S5]

didnt seem like she was "sluttin around" on that bike

[Daymnwheresmycola]

It's not ok for women in general to be sluts or act "slutty," cis or trans. Women are women, and they should have dignity in how they present themselves, that's all.

[BugMan89]

My favorite part was from 1:19 to 1:27. ;D

Yes, I'm a pervert, shut up.

Also, I'd like to mention I think you look better with more weight on.

Not that you don't look great always.

[nataliesweetwine]

"why is she making love to a perfume bottle?"

haha so funny.. =]

[celestialsalamander]

there are a lot of peole who aren't "totaly fine" with it. but they are probibly less comon

[DoneBlock94]

I really like your phrase "slutting around like that". It just sounds good. I'm going to start saying it.

[primepua]

such a goddess! i have a major internet crush on you. <3

[1C9J9S5]

why? because people are assholes, society ranks women on how attractive they are, trans women included. if a trans girl dosent weigh 90lbs and have double d's then she isnt 'beautiful'

[TheAetherealMeadow]

Being a slut doesn't bring down the trans community, slut-shaming does.

[dick117]

Yes girls R sexualized most in media, but the slut stigma remains. Many guys fetishize TSs and see them only as sex objects(body of a girl, perversion of a man etc). Most guys into TSs would fuck them but not date them. So when other TSs criticize promiscuity, it's because they don't want to reinforce the stereotype. Also pretty girls your age would be jaded from being objectified for at least 10 years now, but now it's probably fresh to you. When ur ready to settle, your opinion may change.

[mmontes15]

am on some level, but I think its important to be aware of those forces at play within ourselves so as not to be slave to them. If that makes sense. Now, that being said, I think discretion is a good thing, but that's me and you have to decide where you stand with that. If you find in later years that you regret some of your choices in that regard, well then you won't be the first woman to do so. Thats life. Not that that is some definite end result either.

[mmontes15]

unworthy of being viewed as normal. Many transwomen supress their sexuality in an attempt inwardly to legitimize their gender conflict, both in the eyes of the world and perhaps to ourselves as we are still recieving those messages from society today. Does that make sense? In other words, we can't get away from the gender conflict, so in order to show people that we're more than just perverts, we suppress, or view our sexuality negatively. I know I've dealt with it, and maybe still...

[mmontes15]

There may be some jealousy involved from other transgirls, but I don't think that is the main reason. The fact is that society has treated transwomen like they are nothing more than sickening, perverted men who are just addicted to some kind of sexual perversion. Many if not all transwomen have to deal with overcoming that even within themselves in order to come to terms with who they are. In the process of doing that I believe that many of us have come to see our own sexuality as...

[zug2000]

u are provocative baby

[uh28]

Are you Kidding me? lol...you're a chick! Why in the flying fuck would you ever want a lip or nose job?

Good god you'll end up looking ridiculous. We get lip/nose jobs to have lips and noses like y o u already are in possession of !

It truly sucks to be born trans but christ..look at you! You nearly make Andrej Pejic look like Eddy Izzard ( I adore you Eddy but it's the truth)

I'll bet you're xxxy.

P.S. Cool that you get irony

[primepua]

When you reached up to get the magazine your boobies looked huge! i wanted to suck them lol jk. just sayin

[primepua]

Do you ever masturbate in a mirror because you are so hott?

[krystalme32]

don't worry to much the ones that are upset are most likely not secure in them selfs. just keep up your own style your great :)

[bonifagurl]

You do you look so much thinner then me but we're bult like... exactly the same :(

[connaught15]

@bonifagurl ur both really hot its actually depressing ive completely lost interest in genetic girls!!! and i dont know any trans girls SHAME

[miki30031]

Here are some facts; anytime you do something fun where you feel free and sexy, there will be some BOZO telling you "oh, that is not allowed!" ...and if you attach "Tranny" to it, oh, really bad news.

So let me say that you are a beautiful girl and simply behave like one, be sexy but do what other girls do.

P.S. girls typically don't use the "F" word so much.

[BestTits]

you are a woman

[knightowl7]

the trans community is just jealous of you..they wish they looked so good...you're an amazing woman ellery..dont listen to the haters ..xx

[muckyducky70]

Trans community ...WTF? ...At the end of the day ..we are all individuals! with our own style of expression. Just because a few people objected to one of your video's ...does'nt mean you've brought every trans gender woman into disripute. If you love your body and are comfortable showing some skin ..fine! You are very beautiful. please dont let knockers get you down! xo.

[OmgItsTeera]

LOL you are not a slut. Whoever called you that is obviously jealous . You're beautiful.

[Thousand9999999999]

Other trans are just jealous! You are gorgeous! Just keep doing what you want to do, because it is your life.

[Greenwood4445]

Give in to your anger! Come to the dark side :D

Communitys :P

Some commuity sucks.

Currently in my country a Tv-Soap-Girl with turkish descent made fotos for the Playboy and is on Cover now.

The reactions in the turkish communitys are very differnt.

In Istanbul many ppl on street say its ok, beautiful girl, etc.

But the migration community in Germany spits on her, say she is a shame, and calls her SLUT

I think the transsexual community is the wrong one to be intolerant, whatever u do. ;)

[CateyCz]

Oh hell Ellery, don't let those scared hatin Bitches off so easy! Truth is they just scared little Johnny or Little Suzie will bring you home for dinner LOL ! People just scared of what they don't know and what they do know about themselves. Scared of sex??? C'mon peeps, you runnin scared of your own self. MK, I'm done LOL! So yep, sweet outfits you picked up Ellery. Damn girl you have awesome taste. Crap this got long, sorry. Peace Out and be yourselves. Knock yourself out Ellery, have fun!

[weiberfeind]

0:38 That explains all transsexuals! :D

[elleryxo]

@weiberfeind LOL!

[RebeccaLeveaux]

Ellery Sweetheart, how could you possibly "bring shame " to the trans community, you don't even remotely look like a tranny. No, I think it's the girls who write those kind of comment that needs to worry abut bringing "shame" to anyone. Do what you like, and have fun. xoxo

[RedRidinHoood]

I wanna fuck your slutty ass all night long!!!

[robertlouis02]

Another ignorant Merkin who thinks Scotland's a fucking suburb of London. See, the national kneejerk cuts in before the comment hits home! Ignore them sweetie.

In the time-honoured Glesca phrase, "Pick a windae pal - yur leavin'!"

[TheTransBarbie]

ewww..ur so trashy!! I would NEVER dress slutty! Ur disgusting! NOT!! You are a sexy Barbie doll..and us Barbies arent going to be dressing with skirts to our knees and heavy shirts! Once we do that..people will start to wonder..why do you dress like that and blah blah blah shit blah! :) Love ya girl!

[elleryxo]

@TheTransBarbie us barbies gotta stick together. fuck the other boring bitches!

[AbbyInTransition]

is this lifted from a kardashian script? Im mean you girls are fucking morons, do you really listen to yourselves? You are pathetic, your in fucking england not a southern california valley girl, fuck.

[elleryxo]

@AbbyInTransition uhhhh, what? i live in scotland. my accent is scottish.

[Uberaoshi]

@elleryxo You really sound like a American girl, your accent sounds American/Canadian.

[Tmpgurl]

It's a shame how some hate in the transgender community against those that they them selfs can only dream of looking as good. There's transgender girls here in the U.S. that live a very profitable life styles being trans that don't look as good as you do girl... I would like to request a video showing your abilities with that stripper pole.

[hundredpushups]

in my honest opinion, if you act like a duck and quack like a duck you are a duck. your gorgeous and f&#k anyone who thinks otherwise.

[hundredpushups]

@hundredpushups okay thats didn't come out right. i think your a girl cuz u act like a woman look like a woman and so i would feel comfortable calling you a woman. btw ur pretty

[PeerlessWonder]

Saw you on cam4 today and you were terrific! :p

You are definitely one of the most beautiful women in the world.

[cmk7]

2:49 'I would totally lick her pussy.' Lol!

You're cute when you're angry!

Gotta love it.

[reisling88]

you're not a slut, own your sexuality and be fierce! people like to believe that trans women are sexless and that we don't have it or want it, but everyone should be able to put on their F**k me heels and make a youtube vid! P.S. you're not too skinny, their just jealous!

[elleryxo]

@reisling88 aw thank you! and i agree, hormones may make it difficult to have a sex drive but it doesn't stop the desire, atleast for me it doesn't.

[TinaTemptress]

At 2m50s, did you say "I would totally lick her pussy" or do i need to get my hearing tested. lol.

[elleryxo]

@TinaTemptress *blush* yes i said that. >_<

[robertlouis02]

Well, I was worried to see you wearing so little, Ellery. Scotland in April, you'll catch your death, lassie! Go and wrap up in some nice warm wincyette and your nan's baffies.

As for the comments, yes, there is a double standard, fuelled by society's lack of understanding and awareness of the bloody difficult process of transition, plus fear and a lot of resentment. The important thing is that you seem to becoming more secure and confident as a person. Nothing else matters. Good luck! x

[elleryxo]

@robertlouis02 LOL! and thank you! i agree, i definitely am becoming more confident!

[2ndAveLine]

This is EXACTLY why some other t-girls are hostile towards you- that this vlog started out somewhat provocative but then seamlessly turned into a cute ramble where you acknowledge that some guy bought you that cute teddy which will look better on you than many bio women. Ha, it's prolly reminding them that they will never even reach your pre-hormone stage. But that's their problem, not yours.

[elleryxo]

@2ndAveLine haha yeah i actually intended for it to be a kind of serious video but y'all know how i ramble. >_<

[2ndAveLine]

It's the shoes Ell, the shoes ;)

Just paint on the bottom- "SUCK IT!"

[me2michelle]

Hey Ellery, I'm jealous but I still love your vids. Chin up, the haters are in a minority. No matter what anyone does in life there will always be people who are negative. An unfortunate fact of life.

[LetMeSing4You]

Haters! That's all that is, they wish they could be as comfortable as you are in their skin. Woman or Tranny they are jealous of anyone who is beautiful with a nice ass body like you. Fuck em', you're beautiful. <3

[Hypercamera]

What's up with the tags? 

[elleryxo]

@Hypercamera what do you mean?

[catbell193]

your make up is gorgous

[elleryxo]

@catbell193 thank you!

[s412100000]

take this as there is a shit load of peeps jealous of you and the only thing they can say is that you are a shame, seriously take it as a compliment, all girls are like that whenever they feel inferior they say stupid shit like that. a bunch of girls wish they look like you. so dont worry theyre just treaten by you.

[discoenergy]

There are always going to be haters on youtube no matter what you do and how you do it. The majority of those comments on here support you and think you are nice. Those haters are ethier jealous or just want to seek attention. You probably wasted your time making this video because it won't change anything and you probably will get haters. Just look at the ratings, 12 like and only 1 dislike lol

[elleryxo]

@discoenergy i know, i appreciate all the supporters but sometimes what the haters say just pissed me off cause it isn't even true.

[discoenergy]

@elleryxo I know, to be honest I would feel the same way but look at the idols like Cheryl Cole who is a popular figure but she gets haters for unknown deluded reason. You will always get haters no matter who and what you are. I would just ignore it because they are pathetic. I would do what you want to do as long as you feel ok. I would start getting worried if you get more haters than supporters lol

[TheAbstractHuman]

Well personally i was hoping you were going to film more videos like that.

Sounds like some people are jealous.

[elleryxo]

@TheAbstractHuman oh i am. i'm not letting some random people i don't know control what i do.

[themisterx01]

I hope to see you wearing that baby doll,

[cmk7]

@themisterx01 Oh Yeah! Me too.

[dk666at]

It's more sexy when you do it <3

[StrawbSwitchblade]

Ellery, you're a lady. There's no need to listen to nonsense like this, it's probably just jealousy because you're so attractive.

[GeorgXXL]

If people from the "community" tell you that you dress to slutty, they are probably just jealous of what you have achieved and that you can show it off...

[blaster28]

there's nothing cool with being a slut :/. female, male, tg. and people in magazines are trying to sell something. you are a person talking about your life. SO ITS A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT STORY...and it's not totally fine when women dress slutty :/. it's all about who you want to be. :P but whatever. i have no problem with you doing slutty. i was just saying in the last vid that you look overly provocative for 9 minutes. just trying to give you heads up. don't let me ruin your day :)

[elleryxo]

@blaster28 but i am trying to sell something - me.

[blaster28]

@elleryxo don't sell yourself short. do you want people to sum you up to just pretty? twenty years from now noone will care about you b/c you focused all of their attention on your looks. i'm just the kind of guy who doesn't care about looks as much :/ (admittedly i'm good looking but still), it's the mind that matters most. at least to me. that's just my opinion. whatever makes you happy i guess :)

[bevivian22]

their are jealous :)

[blaster28]

it's not okey for me when women are slutty either :/

[DragOzze]

fuck that lets just walk naked all the time like monkeys i m down for that

[EliteCamper1]

someone gunna hate always it's how humans are be strong elleryxo love the videos always :D

[greenhawk46]

hey hon, to all your critics: "fuck 'em"-you do what makes you feel ok-you're terrific, cute and sexy, and young enough to enjoy your life-thanksd for your vids xxx Jim

[satinbarbi]

Slut is what an ugly tranny calls a pretty T girl. You are a better representative of the community than all the dried up old prunes who out you down.

[Voidic]

I don't think its just women. I think a person regardless of gender if content enough with looks will be more comfortable to show it, and thus making the masses who are not uncomfortable.

Sex sells, from an evolutionary perspective good looks are an indication of good genes . I personally think that men look as 'provocative' in fashion ads, many are shirtless, 6pack abs, 8% bodyfat with heads full of hair. I don't look that good yet, soon enough but it makes alot of average joes uncomfortble

[ihmen]

just so you know, all those pictures in that magazine are photoshopped to make the models look more "perfect". none of what you see is actually how they look.

[elleryxo]

@ihmen i know, but i was using them to show how women are always provocative and sexual.

[ihmen]

@elleryxo yes thats how they are commonly portrayed in the media. and in doing so it sets an impossibly high standard for all girls to look like. its really sad, but im glad to know you are aware that those pictures arent real.

[AlfaAxel]

Yes, why on earth does the ad-primadonna look like that! - you hit right on the head of the nail. Go on in that direction and thanks for sharing :)

[CleverDjembe]

Please don't listen to the haters, just follow your own values and do you :)

You're totally adorable and charming anyway <3

[BeYJaNn]

Ima Slutt.....Somedays...LOL.... but most of the time im Tomboyish...I love your Naughty side when you show it...All the people Who said stuff Forsurely are just Haters and are Foresurly OLDer trannies...Usually Old trannies Hate on me too...And i LOved the HEELs....Vogue Must Have..love it..=)

[zachary3001]

It's unfortunate that we can't have a diversity of opinion in any community. From outrageous to demure should be cool. Jesus, if all there is a flame war every time anyone says or does anything slightly untoward I give up.

For the love of the sky bully get a sense of humour people!

[Wowraider4life]

2:07 HAHA ;D

[ImOutOfLine]

I think the reason some trans women have issues with it is because they are feminists. I don't really see a problem with it, though, and I am a feminist.

[619serg]

it's not any different. women and queens are praised for their body, so why can't you be? fcuk them, if they have an issue with they kind of videos you film they should not be viewing them. you are fab, doll. keep it up.. XX

[juniababe]

be sure you are not. you are such an amazing person. be strong ellery...

[3y3sho7]

THIRST

[elleryxo]

@3y3sho7 hold on, lemme go get your lifetime achievement award.