LOL I LOVE UR SENSE OF HUMOR! U WERE KEEPIN IT REAL WHILE MAKIN IT ENJOYABLE TO WATCH. U NEED UR OWN SITCOM LOL.. KEEP THE GREAT VIDEOS COMIN CUZ I NEED SOMETHIN TO WINE DOWN MY DAY!! LOL
Hadn't really been on you-tube in a while, so I missed this video! Hot in the streets! LOL As always, you never let me down with your topics and a good laugh :) I hope all is well with you!!
I love you girl, you tell it like it is. Id rather be single that to get this guys who have no respect. Its never that serious, am good, am good without you! And you know what, that guy who is in line with your values will, without a doubt show up in the nick of time. Am wit u girl. xoxo
This is why I love you Drea, you are funny and always make me laugh and just lift my spirit. With regards to the dating, i am in the same pond as you swing like leg less frogs :( lol I TO, AM DONE...LOL
Do you want to get closer to dem draws lol drea you are hilarious. True video. You should make a U got to work for this video.... what does that mean? What standards should women have? I have a wonderful example. I met a guy , we had a few conversations and I asked him what his point of view was on courting. Do you know he responded lol I believe in communication. Which leads me to believe one he didnt know what courting was, or two he thinks I'm a fool. What type of answer is that smh!
Yes Drea, dudes have taken the "FWB" (friends w/benefits) status 2 serious, that is the new dating thing for 2010/11, but I dont blame our men, I blame us women 4 allowing/accepting this foolery! When guys mention FWB 2 me, my response is "Slim, where they do that at"! LMAO....Single is becoming HAWT for me, b/c daiting no longer exist its now called, exchange #s, text 2-4 x's, maybe a salad & then hit d sheets, thats 2011 DATING!
Yes Drea, dudes have taken the "FWB" (friends w/benefits) status 2 serious, that is the new dating thing for 2010/11, but I dont blame our men, I blame us women 4 allowing/accepting this foolery! When guys mention FWB 2 me, my response is "Slim, where they do that at"! LMAO....Single is becoming HAWT for me, b/c daiting no longer exist its now called, exchange #s, text 2-4 x's, maybe a salad & then hit d sheets, thats 2011 DATING!
and u forgot to mention U CANT FAKE BEIN INTO HER... that's "not natural" lol.... my fellow men need to know that they could do theirself a favor by getting to know the sister and determining if she is avtually their type... not just their select cut of meat! LMAO!
I'm riiiight with you on this one!!! especially if you seen sum status's I have posted on FB!
The other night a man wants to compliment me, I smile say thanks... then he goes to tell me he a freak, and all that trash... he got shut down quickly wit the same smile and then took his ass home...
The greatest power one can have is the power over anyone's mind whether they be male/female it is important to know that . But there are many quite men out there that would some how find there way to a woman's heart and why do you think is ? Woman have been curious people form the very beginning .Yes it is good to talk and you may be I am wrong because I am not a woman but I would like to know . Is not the more interesting you make your the more a woman would want you ? Attraction is too is big
I try to tell my young male friends that you can't just grab a booty and think you got the women thats its more emotional/mental but they don't listen.smh...great vidoe.
LOL@ get to know her and she will open up hahaha that didn't sit right but I get ya Drea...OMG! that cupcake is to die for, girl you wanna share? i'm cooking but the food is taking forever........lol.......
i often wonder why so many women are single. its because most women think alike. the dating thing doesnt work for u? maybe its u that is the problem, but women never think its them, nahhhhhhh cant be them right?lol smh. makes me love her just that much more because i just dont have it in me to deal with the climate of the relationship worl the way it is now. women complain as if its a necessity. stimulation? how about silence?
@southernkomfort00 so its safe to say u didn't bother to take the time to talk and get to know who ur with..great! glad ur one less man like the ones I'm describing in the dating pool that I don't have to deal with. Look, if u don't agree with what I'm saying, do it in a tactful way,and if u have so much disdain for what I talk about on MY videos, please feel free to never watch them. Thanks.
@Dreaontv my apologies if u took this the wrong way sista. i love my sistas, dont get me wrong, i am just saying that in stimulating a woman its more than verbal . she needs 2 know she is cared 4, thought of, considered beautiful both inside and out. small things add up over time and those, to me are the things that sustain relationships over time. jill said it best, "this is the wayyyyy". all love and blessings drea. love the vids and in my opinion some guy will be blessed to have u one day.
LOL @ "The Puff Daddy Effect" .... freakin' funny, yo. - I agree with you WHOLEHEARTEDLY. A while back, my best friend called herself having a boyfriend that she'd NEVER MET. Never spent time with. Never touched. No sex. They talked on the phone for 3 years and he fed her MIND. She was in love.....like deeply. I couldn't believe it, but he had ALL THE RIGHT WORDS...and she was bought, honey. She was doing all KINDS of stuff she said she'd never do..all because of him getting in her MIND. Truth.
Amen they really do have to work for it!!! But they so used to running ino those females who dont make them work for it they (some females) easily give it up to a man that treated them to a nice dinner so the men think that they can get that from us all. I guess ill stay single till a man who knows my worth as much as I do comes around. But loved the video...(sorry for the ramble...LOL)
hi Drea!! thank you for all ur uploads...i have watched most of your videos; from my understanding i can see that you are a very independent woman. i am graduating this May and i don't know where my job is going to be; i am not married nor do i have children, so i don't wanna limit myself to states where i have family and friends. i m planning on applying all over the US; so what is your advice when it comes to apartment search, choice of neighborhood? i don't have a car yet :-(. thank you
exactly gurl u always readn my mind. now adays men dont stimulate our minds. dont have any good convo ... its all bout getn the goods with out doin the work.lmaoO damn that cupcake looks delish ayayyyyyy :) where cn u get em ?? never seen it .. bt back on point i love this vid ... icn say the samething , daten isnt worken for me. im notgiven up bt ughhhh it jst aint fun nomore. boringgggggggggg bt i could go on , lol bt yeah the txtn thing is getn old and yes dont give them cookies gurl lol
wow, amazing. amazing. but women are even more predictable than men. quite simple if u ask me, but like u said, who am i? male/female relationships in our community are in shambles because both sides play the blame game. thats the problem, everybody wants what THEY want and if those specific needs are not met then "poof, be gone". stimulation of the mind u say? hilarious in my opinion but if u say so sistah. peace and blessings to all of the co-signers of the video.
@RootsRunDeeep lol. well this comes from a very successful married man of soon to be 11 years. hbcu grads and father of 2 beautiful daughters. there is to specific way to a womans heart, that road is indeed a journey. yet to stimulate her mind it may require no speech. it may be filling her gas tank, cutting her yard, washing her car, running her bath water, cooking her dinner, flowers, watchinng her favorite show with her, long walks in the morning, a multitude of things. women are simple. VERY
@RootsRunDeeep and right u are. we dont need much but we want alot as do our sistahs. until we can know the difference between needs and wants, our family structure will continue to decline, and rapidly.
and I feel you on the dating situation.. their is not but garbage out there.... They think they can just get what they want when they want but not here... Enjoy the cup cake Sister Girl..!!!!
OMG! I thought I was the only one, guys seem to think I'm crazy when they come to me with a weak mental game and I reject them. And Yo-yo P-Drea in the house :P
you are so right, if a guy can't stimulate me mentally, i shut down. All they have to do is truly get to know us...btw, the cupcake looks sinfully good :)
Your " Are you f'ing crazy's have me half dead laughing everytime lol. And girlllll that cupcake is all kinds of beautiful. Hope you enjoyed it. But I'm gonna need you to never future such a masterpiece in a video again :P. I'm still craving it :( :P
Alright let us know when you do. Dating have taken a new turn. People dont even want to talk on the phone. They have taken conversating threw text to a new level.
Great advice. However, a lot of men these days have no clue how to talk to a woman. These are the ones that immediately talk about how much money they supposedly have and that they are willing to give it all to you for your attention among other things. Lol. Beyond that, they have no conversation worth listening to. I think a lot of this can be blamed on todays music. Especially hip hop where everything is about how much money they have and the woman just falls at their feet for no reason. Lol.
Lol!!! Drea u are Hilarious!!! but what u are saying is so true the mind for us woman is the best and ONLY place u start..lol....I absolutely love ya channel keep them comin girl!!!
It looks you value your cookies more than most. I love that about you. Today's dating isn't for everyone, however when someone unlocks a door, he should have a good chance.
I wonder though, never try dating for anyone else seski. No matter how well you preach and you give awesome advice. The ears of those who listen can only be performed by themselves. However, If I text you. Just looking at you on youtube is enough for me to be happy :D
Yes, you are hard to figure out. Yes you are saying "Just Talk to Her", but y'all go in on the kill AS SOON as you find out something about him that you didn't want to know. Just saying.
@thikboi91 If someone rejects you because of something you tell them then you and that person weren't compatible in the first place hence why the rejection and in which case it would have only been a matter of time
@thikboi91 That is somewhat true (and a lot of men have reproached me for this) but I garantee you that honesty and genuine interest win over any kind of defects she first imagined you to have.
girl they don't have nothing to talk about that i why they say "kick it" because they don't have anything else to offer. I get bored easily and be ready to hang up the phone after the 7 min convo about his thang...
Thank you. This video is so funny and you've got a really chill personality.
Shinji91 1 week ago
da best vid on utube as of rite now lol evn beatin mine ...dis da top secret mos guyz dnt kno bout
IAmRiaCashi 10 months ago
Thanks Drea for the reminder...
SankofaProductions 11 months ago
I dont know but your videos, just make me smile...lol
jahlivegigi 11 months ago
I love the little "eeeeverything" hand signal.
...did she just say her mouth was watering??? 8D
kevinferere 11 months ago
LOL I LOVE UR SENSE OF HUMOR! U WERE KEEPIN IT REAL WHILE MAKIN IT ENJOYABLE TO WATCH. U NEED UR OWN SITCOM LOL.. KEEP THE GREAT VIDEOS COMIN CUZ I NEED SOMETHIN TO WINE DOWN MY DAY!! LOL
ohwow11000 11 months ago
Hadn't really been on you-tube in a while, so I missed this video! Hot in the streets! LOL As always, you never let me down with your topics and a good laugh :) I hope all is well with you!!
NikkiiDior 11 months ago
lmao @ P-Drea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
msDipped007 11 months ago
Thank you for being a woman that values themselves. Sex and intimacy are a very serious commitment and you are not just jumping into it.
newme73 1 year ago
I love you girl, you tell it like it is. Id rather be single that to get this guys who have no respect. Its never that serious, am good, am good without you! And you know what, that guy who is in line with your values will, without a doubt show up in the nick of time. Am wit u girl. xoxo
bellaellaish 1 year ago
This is why I love you Drea, you are funny and always make me laugh and just lift my spirit. With regards to the dating, i am in the same pond as you swing like leg less frogs :( lol I TO, AM DONE...LOL
augiaugi 1 year ago
Do you want to get closer to dem draws lol drea you are hilarious. True video. You should make a U got to work for this video.... what does that mean? What standards should women have? I have a wonderful example. I met a guy , we had a few conversations and I asked him what his point of view was on courting. Do you know he responded lol I believe in communication. Which leads me to believe one he didnt know what courting was, or two he thinks I'm a fool. What type of answer is that smh!
almondbrwneyez 1 year ago
I love love u drea u def know how to give me a good laugh u are so funny and hunny and baby lol
09ashleyb 1 year ago
Definitely right about that! I can't deal with a fine guy with no brain.
aunaturalebelle 1 year ago
I love when people are just real... thats why I watch its like a long distance friendship... keep doing you girl
Tonique05 1 year ago
You are still beautiful!!!!
BLACKWALLSTREET98 1 year ago
gahh, so true
meyummybanana 1 year ago
what is your faceboook
nysgorgeous 1 year ago
Yes Drea, dudes have taken the "FWB" (friends w/benefits) status 2 serious, that is the new dating thing for 2010/11, but I dont blame our men, I blame us women 4 allowing/accepting this foolery! When guys mention FWB 2 me, my response is "Slim, where they do that at"! LMAO....Single is becoming HAWT for me, b/c daiting no longer exist its now called, exchange #s, text 2-4 x's, maybe a salad & then hit d sheets, thats 2011 DATING!
keeshpres06 1 year ago
Yes Drea, dudes have taken the "FWB" (friends w/benefits) status 2 serious, that is the new dating thing for 2010/11, but I dont blame our men, I blame us women 4 allowing/accepting this foolery! When guys mention FWB 2 me, my response is "Slim, where they do that at"! LMAO....Single is becoming HAWT for me, b/c daiting no longer exist its now called, exchange #s, text 2-4 x's, maybe a salad & then hit d sheets, thats 2011 DATING!
keeshpres06 1 year ago 3
and u forgot to mention U CANT FAKE BEIN INTO HER... that's "not natural" lol.... my fellow men need to know that they could do theirself a favor by getting to know the sister and determining if she is avtually their type... not just their select cut of meat! LMAO!
ishmail1000 1 year ago
Truth!!!!!
SweetTee77 1 year ago
SO MANY MEN NEED TO SEE THIS!!! AT LEAST SOMEONE FEELS ME!
CIEOLIVIA 1 year ago
High five on this!
GenesisNatural 1 year ago
I'm riiiight with you on this one!!! especially if you seen sum status's I have posted on FB!
The other night a man wants to compliment me, I smile say thanks... then he goes to tell me he a freak, and all that trash... he got shut down quickly wit the same smile and then took his ass home...
LB4Real85 1 year ago
Ms. Drea let me say I love your channel, sweetheart you are so honest and to the point. No sugar coating Love it, Love it , Love IT!!!1
kaydancestar 1 year ago
this is completely true. from the time u asked the question i said mind!
first get to the mind then down to the heart...u know what comes next lol.
what2listen2 1 year ago
agreed!!!!
ItsMeFawn 1 year ago
The greatest power one can have is the power over anyone's mind whether they be male/female it is important to know that . But there are many quite men out there that would some how find there way to a woman's heart and why do you think is ? Woman have been curious people form the very beginning .Yes it is good to talk and you may be I am wrong because I am not a woman but I would like to know . Is not the more interesting you make your the more a woman would want you ? Attraction is too is big
DrGspicylove121 1 year ago
I try to tell my young male friends that you can't just grab a booty and think you got the women thats its more emotional/mental but they don't listen.smh...great vidoe.
minday83 1 year ago
LOL@ get to know her and she will open up hahaha that didn't sit right but I get ya Drea...OMG! that cupcake is to die for, girl you wanna share? i'm cooking but the food is taking forever........lol.......
StarGyrl 1 year ago
i often wonder why so many women are single. its because most women think alike. the dating thing doesnt work for u? maybe its u that is the problem, but women never think its them, nahhhhhhh cant be them right?lol smh. makes me love her just that much more because i just dont have it in me to deal with the climate of the relationship worl the way it is now. women complain as if its a necessity. stimulation? how about silence?
southernkomfort00 1 year ago
@southernkomfort00 so its safe to say u didn't bother to take the time to talk and get to know who ur with..great! glad ur one less man like the ones I'm describing in the dating pool that I don't have to deal with. Look, if u don't agree with what I'm saying, do it in a tactful way,and if u have so much disdain for what I talk about on MY videos, please feel free to never watch them. Thanks.
Dreaontv 1 year ago 29
@Dreaontv my apologies if u took this the wrong way sista. i love my sistas, dont get me wrong, i am just saying that in stimulating a woman its more than verbal . she needs 2 know she is cared 4, thought of, considered beautiful both inside and out. small things add up over time and those, to me are the things that sustain relationships over time. jill said it best, "this is the wayyyyy". all love and blessings drea. love the vids and in my opinion some guy will be blessed to have u one day.
southernkomfort00 1 year ago
Dont feel bad...the "dating" thing doesnt work for me neither. SMH
MsIntangible 1 year ago
Lmao P- Drea
MsSixfeetandivine 1 year ago
yup yup 100%
smilergal89 1 year ago
Lol @ Puff daddy effect. You are too much.
pinkporche04 1 year ago
I love crumbs, that looks good, but its like 1000 calories a cupcake that sucks
goldenlass 1 year ago
LOL @ "The Puff Daddy Effect" .... freakin' funny, yo. - I agree with you WHOLEHEARTEDLY. A while back, my best friend called herself having a boyfriend that she'd NEVER MET. Never spent time with. Never touched. No sex. They talked on the phone for 3 years and he fed her MIND. She was in love.....like deeply. I couldn't believe it, but he had ALL THE RIGHT WORDS...and she was bought, honey. She was doing all KINDS of stuff she said she'd never do..all because of him getting in her MIND. Truth.
Shyloh8 1 year ago
A way to a man's heart is not through his stomach, but his ego...
MinisterDW1 1 year ago
Oh y oh y did u have to show me that brownie cupcake, shame on u, but I agree with u about the men situation
goody2shoes42 1 year ago
Amen they really do have to work for it!!! But they so used to running ino those females who dont make them work for it they (some females) easily give it up to a man that treated them to a nice dinner so the men think that they can get that from us all. I guess ill stay single till a man who knows my worth as much as I do comes around. But loved the video...(sorry for the ramble...LOL)
lovedbyall916 1 year ago
Yeah u soooooo right
megaglitterglam 1 year ago
hi Drea!! thank you for all ur uploads...i have watched most of your videos; from my understanding i can see that you are a very independent woman. i am graduating this May and i don't know where my job is going to be; i am not married nor do i have children, so i don't wanna limit myself to states where i have family and friends. i m planning on applying all over the US; so what is your advice when it comes to apartment search, choice of neighborhood? i don't have a car yet :-(. thank you
futur82 1 year ago
gurl im with u on this dating thing....on the other hand i could use on of those cupcakes
Aloysia08 1 year ago
exactly gurl u always readn my mind. now adays men dont stimulate our minds. dont have any good convo ... its all bout getn the goods with out doin the work.lmaoO damn that cupcake looks delish ayayyyyyy :) where cn u get em ?? never seen it .. bt back on point i love this vid ... icn say the samething , daten isnt worken for me. im notgiven up bt ughhhh it jst aint fun nomore. boringgggggggggg bt i could go on , lol bt yeah the txtn thing is getn old and yes dont give them cookies gurl lol
morenalamixmamii704 1 year ago
yea they dont wanna put in the work but expect us to put out
shesobreezy 1 year ago
"..NOT playing tricks, Not mind games.." EXACTLY
RootsRunDeeep 1 year ago
wow, amazing. amazing. but women are even more predictable than men. quite simple if u ask me, but like u said, who am i? male/female relationships in our community are in shambles because both sides play the blame game. thats the problem, everybody wants what THEY want and if those specific needs are not met then "poof, be gone". stimulation of the mind u say? hilarious in my opinion but if u say so sistah. peace and blessings to all of the co-signers of the video.
southernkomfort00 1 year ago
@southernkomfort00 i knew a man would respond that way..predictable;)
RootsRunDeeep 1 year ago
@RootsRunDeeep lol. well this comes from a very successful married man of soon to be 11 years. hbcu grads and father of 2 beautiful daughters. there is to specific way to a womans heart, that road is indeed a journey. yet to stimulate her mind it may require no speech. it may be filling her gas tank, cutting her yard, washing her car, running her bath water, cooking her dinner, flowers, watchinng her favorite show with her, long walks in the morning, a multitude of things. women are simple. VERY
southernkomfort00 1 year ago
@southernkomfort00 yea i understand - i find men to be even more of a no brainer;)
RootsRunDeeep 1 year ago
@RootsRunDeeep and right u are. we dont need much but we want alot as do our sistahs. until we can know the difference between needs and wants, our family structure will continue to decline, and rapidly.
southernkomfort00 1 year ago
eat the cupcake, it would be rude if you didnt
randomperson331 1 year ago
lol...you always make me laugh...gottah love it.
mawga18 1 year ago
keep dropping that "D" knowledge on em....
and I feel you on the dating situation.. their is not but garbage out there.... They think they can just get what they want when they want but not here... Enjoy the cup cake Sister Girl..!!!!
missqc3333 1 year ago
LOL you should do psychology and therapy..I just tuned into a session
SavageBitch305 1 year ago
OMG! I thought I was the only one, guys seem to think I'm crazy when they come to me with a weak mental game and I reject them. And Yo-yo P-Drea in the house :P
Princ3s51 1 year ago
" i was hot in these streets for a good 2 3 weeks " lmbo too funny drea
DANCINGequalsMYLIFE 1 year ago
The sad part about it men who look at this video still gon want to get in the panties after the first date! Great game you just gave though.
ShereeW1 1 year ago
I found it hard to concentrate after that cupcake showed up. It looks soo good
MetalSista85 1 year ago 5
you are so right, if a guy can't stimulate me mentally, i shut down. All they have to do is truly get to know us...btw, the cupcake looks sinfully good :)
kdharri2 1 year ago
I just wanted to know how the cupcake tastes? it looks delish but my diet wont allow me to indulge =(
ariellemarie1987 1 year ago
Your " Are you f'ing crazy's have me half dead laughing everytime lol. And girlllll that cupcake is all kinds of beautiful. Hope you enjoyed it. But I'm gonna need you to never future such a masterpiece in a video again :P. I'm still craving it :( :P
StellaBG 1 year ago
its really sad that you have to say that. it should be common sense! i'm startin to believe that all men want is sex :(
C011612 1 year ago 2
GREAT ADVICE, IT'S SO SIMPLE BUT TRUE! THE KEY IS COMMUNICATION!
39PYT 1 year ago
Loved it! Please consider doing a video on the dating chronicles lol. I've given up as well, these dudes are trippin these days!
ljones171 1 year ago
OMG that cupcake look some kinda GREAT!!!! OHHHHH MAN
bevagyei 1 year ago
Preach!!!
SuchALovelyLady 1 year ago
This is the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend ..In a whole year that fool never had NOTHING serious to say !!! Jeezz
finestladye 1 year ago 2
PREACH! GUYS: TAKE NOTES! She KNOWS WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT!
LadyJade217 1 year ago
Alright let us know when you do. Dating have taken a new turn. People dont even want to talk on the phone. They have taken conversating threw text to a new level.
edmine 1 year ago
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Great advice. However, a lot of men these days have no clue how to talk to a woman. These are the ones that immediately talk about how much money they supposedly have and that they are willing to give it all to you for your attention among other things. Lol. Beyond that, they have no conversation worth listening to. I think a lot of this can be blamed on todays music. Especially hip hop where everything is about how much money they have and the woman just falls at their feet for no reason. Lol.
madefrom9 1 year ago
u get the drawsssss dawg *tommy voice* lol
that is so true Drea!
missptv9090 1 year ago
Lol!!! Drea u are Hilarious!!! but what u are saying is so true the mind for us woman is the best and ONLY place u start..lol....I absolutely love ya channel keep them comin girl!!!
MsDominiJohns 1 year ago
It looks you value your cookies more than most. I love that about you. Today's dating isn't for everyone, however when someone unlocks a door, he should have a good chance.
I wonder though, never try dating for anyone else seski. No matter how well you preach and you give awesome advice. The ears of those who listen can only be performed by themselves. However, If I text you. Just looking at you on youtube is enough for me to be happy :D
Niyz3x 1 year ago
lmao!...P-DREA
FrankieSee 1 year ago
Yes, you are hard to figure out. Yes you are saying "Just Talk to Her", but y'all go in on the kill AS SOON as you find out something about him that you didn't want to know. Just saying.
thikboi91 1 year ago
@thikboi91 If someone rejects you because of something you tell them then you and that person weren't compatible in the first place hence why the rejection and in which case it would have only been a matter of time
Princ3s51 1 year ago
@thikboi91 That is somewhat true (and a lot of men have reproached me for this) but I garantee you that honesty and genuine interest win over any kind of defects she first imagined you to have.
beniciosgirl 1 year ago
girl they don't have nothing to talk about that i why they say "kick it" because they don't have anything else to offer. I get bored easily and be ready to hang up the phone after the 7 min convo about his thang...
3shacks 1 year ago
You are so right!
Mrssexiblaque 1 year ago
drea you dont do blog tv anymore?
edmine 1 year ago
@edmine I don't have internet at my apt yet
Dreaontv 1 year ago
@Dreaontv lol sometimes it be like that becuase if i can avoid a bill for awhile...... i will!!! lol
Nurina101 1 year ago
Preach Sis. Break it down some brothers need a map lol.
Sheshe416 1 year ago 3