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[mrStraker888]

here is a tip... just be relaxed confident, dont think about it ... as the nike commercial says: JUST DO IT

[NewUnderwear]

From my personal experience, some girls think I'm cute because I have a cute face :)

[larriale]

LOL!! FUNNY BUT TRUE

[xXDuQuExx]

LMFAAO!

[psychedelicsoul]

Wow. I always(kind of) thought the opposite. I don't know what even made me do it.Maybe it was those jerks or the f*cking media for making me think this way!

[SMALLEXPRESSO86]

Well that's it Vazqjose, regardless to personal taste in men we all go for natural look. Most guys hanging by the bar have drunk faces lacking muscle tonus lol or they are so desperate, they want to look attractive and appear as trying too hard. Be yourself and have a gud time, we like relaxed guys;)

Arkady ur doin some great job here;) I never realised how many situations with women guys find stressful, thinking that most of us women are the worry creatures;)

[ShomakerEnterprizes]

Natural Light. Nat a Boy

[vazqjose]

I would say in other words, be NATURAL.

[mateor09]

what are you talking about it makes alot of sense if you think about it...

[reaperofdagrim]

I think the moral to this video is... be yourself. :)

[Zulnic]

Very good advice, that's one that I've never heard before. But if you think about it, why would a girl want a guy who isn't himself all the time. It makes sense.

[MarlonAguirre]

cool calm relaxed and not dumb looking with a bit energetic... just like after you take a shower...

not depressed, snob

[Bobzeaux]

No no no no no no no no no....... Guys who look normal look normal. How is someone attracting ANYONE when looking normal? Since when are women attracted to "normal" when the constantly go out with bad boys for the excitement and unpredictability that they offer? How is being "normal" in a bar more effective when being "normal" in the rest of the world gets you ignored?

[mle011]

It depends on the girl, but I personally find it easier to approach guys in clubs that look "normal" and fun, than it is to approach guys with a "tough guy" facade.

[SeanAristotle]

I think what he means, is just be comfortable with yourself and not look fake/ trying to be cool.

Real cool is effortless.

[JohnnyRancid2]

I can't agree, girls tell me that the are attracted to guys who are more unique.

[arkady39]

Sure, but there are different ways to come across as unique. Some of them are much more meaningful than others.

[mateor09]

it makes alot of sense man i get what you mean

[LeanaJo76]

I've seen a lot of women at bars who don't wear any makeup, hair is a mess, wearing sneakers, and baggy clothes. That's not how women should dress when going out.

When you go out you want to look your best. Short skirt, nice snug jeans, high heels, a blouse that shows a little skin, makeup, and hair looks great.

This is how I dress when I go to a bar/nightclub. Some women have to learn.

[arkady39]

Sure, you want to look your best. No question about that. But this also means for a guy to not come across like he is trying too hard and not overdo it.

Also, men and women are very, very different and they are attracted to different things as we all know. Thus, the way a woman should emphasize her beauty often doesn't apply at all or has the opposite effect when applied to men.

[elias225]

so thats means ( just be your self ) right ?

[arkady39]

I am not sure what you mean. Please elaborate.

[GoaTseTung]

I think he's saying you shouldn't put on an act.

[arkady39]

Hey, Asif. Thanks for your feedback and I am sorry for misunderstanding. I would never ask anyone to be uptight or not have fun out. I just wanted to emphasize the big difference between a smile of happiness / satisfaction or a smart look on a face as opposed to a silly grin of drunken stupor that so many people in general and women in particular find repelling.

[asif80]

sorry no offence but who are you ? i mean your telling people not to enjoy just so they can stand out?

Dude why fake something, we go out to enjoy and if some one likes you they can see the kinda person u are. if ur gona be uptite while every one is having a laugh then i guess, it seems as if ur not normal, i belive and know for a fact that a person should be him/her self it helps in the long run.

but thanks for ur video. Again nothing personal.